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TIL! Thanks for that. Perhaps I'll try to re-program myself from this to fully exorcise this NVM from my soul 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:32 PM
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Oh God....I had a scrote do this to me. He would always point out when it was 11:11. I swear I'd notice that time CONSTANTLY for months after I dropped him. I feel violated in a new way now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:11 PM
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I don't think I can keep up with all this tbh...vetting for personality red flags, career and financial choices, possible ex wives and children, porn use, various lies and omissions including poor personalities, massive debts and ex wives and children....who the fuck cares enough to do this!? Lmao Now we have to worry about them spending hundreds or thousands for women they'll never meet to send them pics or something? Wtf is only fans anyway!? Feeling old atm 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:55 AM
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I've always wanted to be child-free, since I was a child myself, so that part of the equation doesn't weigh heavily on my mind. I am completely with you on wondering if I'll ever want to get married however. It seems so unlikely, when I analyze the men I've been with, the men I know, the men my friends and family have married or had children with, etc. At this point, it would take the perfect man for me who can withstand intense vetting and continue to prove himself to me and offer me something …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:12 PM
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I hear you girl and I understand ❤️ I think I'm feeling overly protective of my female brethren during the holiday season because I have seen and heard some SHIT lately and I have zero.zerozero% tolerance for these men anymore 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:20 AM
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100%. They do not give one iota of a shit about a woman's appearance if she's iNtImIdAtInG. I've had conversations with scrotes who dare to say they wouldn't have any interest in such and such drop-dead gorgeous celebrity, even when they tick every one of their bs physical attribute checklist, simply because she's cOnFiDeNt and aGgReSsIvE (read: doesn't take their shit). Ugh. It's so hard to be attracted to men, I swear lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:15 AM
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My former pick-meisha self may have fallen for this PR stunt/trend. I'm not entirely sure, but it's definitely possible I would have blown $500 on some loser to continue his loser ways. Seeing these memes and other bullshit recently has only made me sad and angry for the women currently participating in this. Ladies, what can we spend $500 on for ourselves?! Savings, education, charitable donation, winter wardrobe...literally anything not for some man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:06 AM
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My girl, why are you responding to this? I say this with love, but please don't even entertain this nonsense. This is classic negging. ANY response is positive affirmation in the eyes of a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:56 AM
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Agreed. I completely understand the desire to want to one up these pieces of human trash, make them see how wrong they were, how cruel or unfair they are, but they literally DO. NOT. CARE. It's a learning curve but the quicker we all understand that LVM are not worth one moment of our time or energy, the faster we can rid the planet of them by process of elimination. #TheNewDarwinAward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:43 AM
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I think there are many of us here who feel the same way. I know I do. In an ideal world, one day I'll find a HVM to share my life with, but my expectations are very low. Almost non-existent honestly. I've spent a lot of time thinking about couples I know, and the dynamics (that I can see as someone not in the relationship, of course) and interactions I've observed. There isn't a single heterosexual couple that I would want to emulate. That was pretty eye opening for me actually. We really were s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:46 AM
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Idk, I just love everything about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:50 PM
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I'm dying....this might be the most absurd bullshit excuse for a man not performing oral sex that has ever existed in the history of the world 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:19 PM
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In my experience, I've had 5/10 men and 9.5/10 men treat me poorly because they are LVM. LVM may as well be a disease, because it effects every type of man regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, occupation, tax bracket, etc. I completely relate to feeling badly for young women who are being raised to think any man should be given a chance, regardless of his appearance. Men never settle. The closest a man comes to settling is to stick with the most attractive/successful woman he has been able t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:01 PM
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Thank you! I've since learned to vet ruthlessly because LVM's are everywhere, in every demographic, every career, every social circle... literally everywhere! Doesn't matter if they're making minimum wage at mcd's or 6 figures in real estate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:38 PM
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The usual bullshit...she was very mature for her age, had a good head on her shoulders, wasn't like other girls her age....🤮🤮 This was super early in my FDS career, but even so I recognized completely gross bs when I heard it. The best part of this was how just moments earlier he tried to neg me for dating someone 3 years younger and telling me that's why it didn't last....as if I was seeking any mansplained advice this guy could offer me. Less than 1 hour of my time wasted for a lifetime of les…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:03 PM
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I'm glad I'm not alone in this! I've lived in a few cities and you're absolutely right, it's 98.5% the guys with zero confidence and nothing to offer. There may be a hidden gem somewhere in there, but I never found him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:58 PM
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I've got to agree with the other ladies here who recommend waiting until after COVID-19, whenever that may be. In the early days of the 2020 plague, I noticed almost immediately how LVM were using it as an excuse for no/low effort "dates". Ordering takeout, Netflix and chill type stuff. "nOtHiNg Is OpEn ThOuGh" 🤮 These guys were always losers, but the pandemic, in a weird way, allowed them to justify and excuse their laziness. I've been not actively dating since February/March and probably won't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:53 PM
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"Now, I'm not cheap but $60...." 🙄🤣🤣 If you're out there, newly crowned Queen, we welcome you with open arms! (Please read the handbook!) Edit: Good lord, I somehow missed the "and take you to a field" excerpt. 😳😳 Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:47 AM
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I lived in NYC for months (during the pandemic, mind you) and that's what fully cemented by decision to ditch OLD. It's very possible I could have come to this conclusion living elsewhere, but I feel like there was a different vibe in NYC, at least on OLD. It kinda highlighted the worst traits to find on dating profiles, if that makes sense? Either way, I deleted all OLD apps a couple months ago and I'm never looking back 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:42 AM
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Lmao... just LVM delusions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:37 AM
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😂😂 I wanna shake all my ""feminist" friends and say this is NOT the way!! Ladies, this is NOT the way!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:23 PM
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I enjoy a nice beard, but I need to know what the man's chin looks like before the beard. If men can overanalyze every single inch of my body, you can believe I'm doing the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:07 PM
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He lived in his mother's apartment with her furnishings 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:58 PM
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Pick-meisha Hall of Fame right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:31 PM
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To my NVM ex who literally didn't own his own sheets, and probably still doesn't....fuck you. To the pick-meishas currently entertaining him...girl, this grown man doesn't own SHEETS!! Wake up and join us!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:27 PM
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Even in my most pick-meisha days, I always had a weird feeling about guys dating barely adult girls, or anyone with a giant age gap. This is 100%, no questions asked, a giant red flag, as you know. I call this shit out when I see it now. Before I quit OLD, I had a 38 y/o guy (at the very tippy top of my dating range) tell me on a first date he had just previously "dated" a 21 y/o woman. I laughed in his face and asked what was wrong with him to have to go for such a young woman. The mental gymna…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:19 PM
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Exactly! The only way I'm doing this with a guy is if I'm in a solid, headed for marriage relationship. If that's the case, I'm not considering this a date at all...this is normal life! A random Tuesday evening, hanging out at home with takeout and the pets. A man tries to pass this off as a date? What, he spent $7.96 on snacks? Fuck outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:22 PM
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I actually follow my nighttime skincare routine. Such a simple thing, 20 minutes max, but I was always so drained by my NVM ex. Over the past year I can now definitely say my skin is glowing and healthy 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:15 PM
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I'm irrationally angry for this young woman I've never met....😡😡😡 Coming into her room without an invitation?!? 😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤 Audacity....is not a strong enough word for whatever society has convinced these lowest level scrotes they possess against beautiful, intelligent, successful women. You really do see the joy leave her eyes, as another FDSer stated. So sad. I can only hope she woke up the next day determined to be the bad ass she is and WAKE UP THE ENTIRE HOUSE AT 7AM with her singing 🤗🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:49 PM
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I went to the beach a few times this summer, and I could not help but notice the stark difference in physical appearance between men and women. Couples, from their 20's to 60's and beyond, and so many beautiful women and men who gave up trying long ago. It was so noticeable, that I would comment to others in my group (family and friends) and without fail, the pickmes were quick to defend the men or make excuses. Ladies....there is no WALL for us and DICK IS ABUNDANT AND LOW IN VALUE. Go get your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:49 PM
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Here, here! Is it appropriate to put "Dick is abundant and low in value" on a tombstone? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:39 AM
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No, they really have the audacity to expect and request their perfect woman while looking like an adult Bobby Hill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:34 AM
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I wanted to respond to so many things, but you all already know. What a poorly written pile of porn-sick, limp dicked, disgusting, perverted old man bullshit. 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:44 AM
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Just cOmMuNiCaTe with him so he understands what's wrong.... 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:15 PM
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I went on a weekend trip recently and the number of old ass men ( I'm talking 50+, beer bellies and grey or white hair, I'm 32) who tried to hit on me was astounding. I could only say "get real" as a response because clearly the delusion and audacity was at a level that I could not comprehend. It's just gross. Porn probably has a huge influence on that, but I think LVM are inherently disgusting when it comes to younger women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:13 PM
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Preach girl 🙌 🙌 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:06 PM
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I'm dying 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:39 PM
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I appreciate that, thank you! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:16 AM
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Much love, my friend ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:15 AM
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Looks like I tagged this incorrectly, my apologies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:58 AM
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I appreciate that! I've listened to their racist, sexist comments for a long time, and managed to compartmentalize them because family. But no more. I'm disappointed in all of them but mostly disappointed in myself because I should have known better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:55 AM
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I tried to logic and reason and it's apparently ingrained so deeply that they all defend it, and it just upset me. It's a shame, but I refuse to let my self respect be questioned, whether by a lvm bf or a lvm brother. I wish it was as easy to 👻 in this situation haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:31 AM
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Congratulations!! Your life just got so much better in every way girl! As a side note, my step brother has been lying to his gf and saying he's unemployed with no UI since April but it's not true. He's been getting full UI since. She's a complete pick me in every way sadly but I did send her an anonymous link to this sub hoping she can see the light. I'm very proud of you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:23 AM
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Thank you! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:21 AM
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You can't possibly know if someone is a HVM during the first date, it takes months and months, if not years. So get that thought process out of your head, girl! A HVM will prove himself over and over throughout your relationship. We have to be ready and willing to accept that a man is not HV at any point. If I were in this position, I would have ended the date after lunch. You want to keep first dates to under 2 hours. Even if you think you're having the time of your life! LVM are sneaky, manipu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:10 PM
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Red flags all over the place, they're just more subtle than you may be expecting. He is definitely only interested in sex, which is obvious in the fact that suddenly he's a "good texter" when it's sexting. And welcome! There is a ton of great info here, be sure to read through the wiki/side bar content and it will all become very clear, very quickly haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:34 PM
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Never once in my 31 years have I heard someone say "oh, she just needs her pussy eaten" as some kind of cure-all for what ails you. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:05 AM
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QUEEN. Love this energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:15 AM
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Honestly, if any ladies are unsure just how many men are complete clowns, they need to take a look at OLD profiles right now. I've spent the lockdown/quarantine in the US epicenter, and the number of profiles that are almost aggressively anti lockdown are staggering. Like, they want their dick sucked and a global pandemic is NOT going to deter them, and fuck you for worrying about your health and safety, or society as a whole. It's disgusting, but not surprising. And my age range is like, 27 - 3…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:12 AM
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As a strategy, I like to disagree/oppose something minor early in the conversation to see what kind of reaction they have and it's crazy how often this is the type of reaction I get. Like, I'm not on a job interview mf-er. You're not offering me a decent 401k match or premium health insurance, fuck off 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:41 AM
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Be thankful when they show their true colors so quickly! The trash takes itself out yet again...it's like a rule. Give them enough rope to hang themselves and it almost never fails lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:33 AM
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The fuck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:43 AM
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Fuckkkkkiiinnnggg loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:21 AM
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Upvote for "Or with a McChicken". I died. It's overtaken "with a lump of Play-Doh" as my favorite example of what men will fuck 🤣🤣 Also, this is a completely factual post. 🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:53 AM
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Definitely agree with the advice about blocking, for sure. I also think a break from social media is a good idea. I don't use social media, except for family members and a handful of close friends on Facebook. We're all spread out, so it's nice for pics and things. No men I'm not related to, no pick me girl friends. I haven't had an Instagram or anything in years. I think being bombarded with this shit everyday would make things a lot more difficult. So, I'd suggest a week or two break from soci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:39 AM
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Lots of things went wrong here my friend. Block him, and read the handbook and wiki/top posts. Don't ask men on dates If he doesn't pay for the 1st date, politely pay your half (I personally would ask "you don't have enough money?" before having to pay, for my own humor and hopefully to make him feel like shit for wasting my time) The "date" ends after the meal and you block him. Don't spend so much time on the 1st date - 2-3 hours max No drink dates, period. Never go back to his place. Masturba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:12 PM
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Omg yes! The last paragraph of the top comment, my jaw literally dropped. So much victim/slut shaming and protecting the lvm who felt "disrespected" and therefore physically assaulted his wife?? This is okay because they "practice" BDSM. She's been convinced she likes to be abused during sex, therefore he can slap her around whenever she upsets him or hurts his very dominant feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:34 AM
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I think I get what you're saying, why wouldn't they want to fuck better, it would be more pleasurable and satisfying for BOTH of us. But you have to to remember, as someone here so eloquently put it once, men will fuck a lump of Play-Doh and orgasm. They don't care about anything more. They just want to get off as efficiently as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:25 AM
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I think one of the core differences between lv and hv is their response and reaction to you voicing anything in opposition. We're talking about fairly small things, like leaving the toilet seat up, right? On its own, a mild annoyance/inconvenience and I think it's completely within FDS standards to voice your feelings on the matter, and allow him the opportunity to correct the behavior. If he leaves the toilet seat up, leaves dirty dishes in the sink, kicks his shoes off in the middle of the roo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:05 AM
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He slapped her twice! She's laughing, the commenters are laughing! Insanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 01:13 PM
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Slap postage on her forehead? Kick her to the curb? He has no respect for this woman that has given him 6 years of her life. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:02 AM
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I have family that lives close to an area with some confirmed cases, but the last line of the paragraph was "not that it matters, but I think of you everyday" Cut to above reaction. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:00 AM
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Profiles like Craig's always kill me. Sir, no one is looking to hookup with you. Just, not one person. I promise you aren't about to get your heart broken by some evil woman intent upon using your poorly aged, overweight body for her sexual fantasies. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:08 AM
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Well that pissed me off. I really, really, really hope she gains the strength over the next few months of the school year and leaves this dead weight with his mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:58 AM
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Idk that the word intimidating is a problem, but when it comes out of the mouth of a lvm it's always a negative connotation and meant to be disparaging in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:00 PM
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He's being so nice because he wants to have sex with you. I genuinely would be so put off by a man offering to bathe and massage me before we had met, even once. Please reconsider putting yourself in such a vulnerable and potentially dangerous situation with a perfect stranger. At best he's being extremely inappropriate and should be unmatched/blocked. Don't try to force meeting men worth dating. Edit: I missed the you just wanna get laid part lol. I guess disregard but be careful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:07 AM
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I think if you swap out the word connection with attraction, it works. A man not buying me a $3 cup of coffee and then commenting on that fact as a point of pride would be extremely unattractive to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:09 AM
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I don't see even one reason why you would want to continue this, just 🚩🚩🚩 Go enjoy your life without a man almost ten years older than you with a kid who isn't yours. There's a lot of good info in the handbook/wiki.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:10 PM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:31 AM
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Same. That cringey feeling is so awful but I just consider it a growing pain now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:34 AM
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I worried about this as well, feeling bored and stuck on a bad date, and not to say you are, but I think I used it as an excuse to entertain and accept casual drink dates. Now I look at it like this: I'm still spending my time and energy (and $$ for these things of course) doing my makeup, hair, outfit, etc and getting to the locale. I'm going to bring my same sparkling personality as I would for a dinner date. I'm sure as hell not doing all that for $15 worth of drinks! If dinner is a total bor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:15 AM
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I have had sex with 2 (just TWO) men that were great in bed. One had the best dick and knew how to use it. Sadly he was trash in every other way. The other was so attentive in bed, always about my pleasure above all else. It was great all around. The rest? 😴 As a woman who really likes and orgasms from PIV, these cold, hard facts are difficult to accept but it's so true. Casual sex is pleasurable for men only. We have to stop spreading the lies of casual sex increasing sexual empowerment for wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:58 AM
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http://imgur.com/gallery/QyN6jlv I just knew I had taken this screenshot for a reason. He immediately deleted the account, and that's why I re-matched tonight 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:24 AM
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I will agree that responding in this manner does almost always get a man to ask you on an actual date, and I've personally had a 100% success rate with it. However, all of those dates have ended up being duds and I think this should be considered a red flag moving forward. I think the rare HVM might suggest a coffee date or something very casual on occasion, but proceed with caution. Overall the guys suggesting a drink or whatever are not worth your time. It's the first step to indirectly planni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:07 PM
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👸 it feels so good, right? That poor woman though! Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:47 AM
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🤣🤣 he couldn't even bother to type it in his own words, just...."ditto" basically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:40 AM
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Ugh, I can feel this one personally. The mf probably was going to cancel or ghost last minute, judging by the fact it's 4pm and he hadn't said a word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:22 AM
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I found FDS because someone was talking shit about it on dating over thirty. I literally have not gone back there since coming here, and I haven't slept with or gotten manipulated by one single fuck boy since, and I've swatted away hundreds. I hope the ladies there that aren't finding that type of dating and lifestyle success they desire, find their way here as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:18 AM
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That's so they can say "See honey! They were supposed to be delivered at 10am, not 5:58pm because I literally ordered them an hour ago!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:08 AM
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Most ruthless and efficient? 👻🚫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:44 AM
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Holy shit. What was the incentive? Omg this is awful lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:36 AM
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At least it keeps any temptation to dip your toe into the office dating pool at bay lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:23 AM
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Definitely! It's still making me laugh... this will be my personal mantra tomorrow, as I venture into the world on Valentine's Day as a single 31 y/o woman 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:14 AM
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I'm going to cross stitch this. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:51 AM
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I was starting to think there was something in the water around here. I'm glad (?) I'm not suffering alone. Just...wtf happened to these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:50 AM
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Straight up delusions. I've noticed it's true in reality as well. Look around your office or workplace tomorrow. Granted, I don't know how old most are, but overall, the women in general look better. The women who put effort into clothing/hair/makeup/health? We look downright gorgeous compared to our male colleagues in similar age ranges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:44 AM
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I never thought to do that, but I will from now on. Thanks for the tip. Maybe I'll start a local FB group for these kind of profiles...I'm not sure where else would get wide exposure?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:24 AM
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😂😂 that's exactly the kind of things I want to tell them. Cheaters like this are gross regardless of appearance, of course. But the guys that are at best, a 4.5/10 on their own imposed scale, that say gross shit and boldly solicit sex and degrading sex acts....they need to know how completely delusional and all around unattractive they are. If I ever get any good exchanges, I'll be sure to screenshot. I'm already saving shots of some of my personal interactions with these losers, and disgusting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:22 AM
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It's so absurd, they think this shit makes us swoon? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:02 AM
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I can't imagine the sob story he must have concocted about his awful marriage on the off chance he gets a match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:34 AM
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Hell, I've got ten minutes a day to spend knocking these delusional creatures down a few notches 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:32 AM
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It's just shocking, no matter how many of these I see. They openly admit to cheating and they don't seem to have a care in the world that anyone will out them to their girlfriend/wife. It's disgusting. Low value is too good a term for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:30 AM
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I agree, they should absolutely be publicly shamed in their communities. There's just so many of these guys, you may as well just call "tinder" the database of cheating, lying bastards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:28 AM
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This sounds so familiar to me, but a quick (careful) Google search isn't yielding any results.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:32 AM
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I think the key to OLD is to be truly ruthless. Don't tolerate one iota of bullshit from them. Don't swipe on anyone you don't really find attractive. Don't swipe on profiles that look/feel like they belong to lvm. Don't reply to messages that are rude/offensive/sexual in nature/boring or anything other than what you want and deserve. Try to weed out as many undesirables as possible before investing any time in conversing with them. I have a couple apps I use casually, but I have zero expectatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:40 PM
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I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:07 PM
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Knowing the state of men, he was probably a furry 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:01 AM
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Seriously! I thought, only lvm men use this phrase to try and get nudes...now they're trying to flip it around on us, like WE'RE asking for pics. Actually, that's probably the reason! It gives them an opening to ask us for pics 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:20 AM
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I literally just saw a profile that said "I have pics if you're a visual person" 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:16 AM
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The vast majority on OLD are complete and total liars. They are hoping you will be too polite to ditch their old, ugly, fat ass in the restaurant upon sight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:52 PM
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Laugh at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 03:10 AM
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I feel like a lot of lvm think all women are enamoured with the word cute, and cute things, and being cute. I'm not sure how to put it exactly, but they seem to use the word when talking to or about women, a lot. It's a type of negging, maybe? Being cute isn't a negative, but it's immature compared to beautiful, gorgeous, sexy. Different connotations. Those words wouldn't be used here of course, that's more a comment on their use of the word. Sorry for the tangent lol To your point, I'm not sure…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:09 AM
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I just want to say I've been wondering the same lately. Reading some of the experiences of women here, and seeing it literally everyday of my life both directly and indirectly from friends and colleagues, it really opens your eyes to the depravity and audacity. I'm trying to stay positive in regards to not all men being awful and I think it's because I'm truly liking being single for the very first time in my life. I don't hate men and I don't want to. I've made the decision not to settle or acc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:23 AM
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(this is in response to everyone) It is horrifying. It's shocking, disgusting. It's so many things really! I'm so grateful to have found this group. Obviously smelling or otherwise inspecting a woman's undergarments for literally any reason is beyond reproach, but it's good to be able to share these embarrassing stories because it might help another woman who is browsing and evaluating the way the man in their life is treating them. These aren't things a man does right away. There's a lot of man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:12 AM
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Yes! This is the kind of revenge I can get behind. Consider it a service to your community. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:26 AM
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I once had an extremely lvm accuse me/question me about cheating because my underwear had signs of discharge. Which he thought was another man's cum. I'm grossed out even remembering that. I hope this lady is smarter than I and ditches this loser TODAY. Honestly, he probably did this and I just never knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:23 AM
30

Hahaha I'm having the exact same reaction! She's older?! He didn't always look like this??? 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:23 PM
21

Agree. If they say "if you want to text here's my number" but continue to interact as normal, I simply ignore the phone number or say I'm not exchanging numbers unless we actually meet and I actually care to see them for a second date. Their response to that will tell you a lot. If they do what this guy did, instant unmatch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:31 PM
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Definitely! Sex with another person is obviously very different from using toys, BUT I have found that they keep my single self from making bad decisions on the weekend 😂😂 Men should be striving to give us the orgasms we have while masturbating! That's why they say vibrators and dildos ruin sex. Just another lie men tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:56 AM
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I can relate to this feeling of guilt, so incredibly much. It was the most difficult part for me to overcome. You're a good person who is able to empathize and be kind, and you don't want to cause anyone pain or stress. These are not flaws, we just have to redirect that energy to ourselves. I stayed in a terrible relationship that made me miserable, because of that feeling. I don't have any magic words of advice, but believe me when I say you can overcome this. In my last relationship, there was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:33 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:57 AM
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Girl, I know the feeling and I know it well. I have never, ever, ever felt good, long-term, about any kind of vengeful act. It feels good for a minute or two, and then you regret lowering yourself to that level. Collect your things and close that chapter of your life with a positive mindset, knowing you didn't spend one more minute with that person who was so very undeserving of you. Everything is replaceable, especially that man, so try not to feel too badly about having to leave any possession…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:48 AM
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Jesus, I would be mortified if I were her. Having your freaking 39 y/o boyfriend of 14 freaking years say that to the world, and then try some completely obvious backtracking like it's not completely obvious? Ugh. So embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:42 AM
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From a purely aesthetics standpoint, make sure your wardrobe is well-fitting and well cared for, and take the time to learn to properly care for your skin and apply makeup, if you wear it. There are a million+1 YouTube videos on the subject, so you can definitely find someone who's personality and style you like. Most importantly, feel comfortable in how you look and feel good about yourself before you leave the house everyday. I wake up earlier to do these things, and while I would enjoy the sl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:35 PM
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Love it. It's the perfect image for the message 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:53 AM
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The guy on the far right somehow manages to look like a child wearing his father's jacket, the sleeves are so ridiculously long....and it doesn't even meet the one requirement for this awful trend of looking like a bunch of alpha Chad's getting bj's by the bridal party. It's a complete fail in every way. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:54 AM
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I'm of the mindset for the most part. I don't want kids, so there's no pressure that I'm feeling in that regard, as I gracefully enter my 30's haha However, I have absolutely no interest in being in another LTR without an engagement ring after 18 months. Which is new for me. I'm not actively seeking a relationship at the moment, because I'm still focusing on myself after an annoyingly terribly and ill-advised relationship. I have a lot to offer to the people in my life, so any man I find myself …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:26 AM
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That could definitely be true. I mean, we see these profiles where men are requesting you to reply to matches with your favorite sex position or worse. There's no way they could possibly make it even 2 weeks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:31 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:27 AM
67

What in the actual fuck? These pigs need to be publicly shamed. Every woman in their life need to see this so they can warn any women who come near him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:24 AM
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It's so disgusting! They would absolutely lower their age preference if it wasn't illegal pretty much everywhere. Fucking gross old men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:15 AM
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Hey! Give the guy some credit! He's willing to accept up to 24 year olds, but it would be "nice to have" an 18-20 y/o. 🤡🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:53 AM
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No matter how many times I see examples like this, I'm still just stunned for a brief moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:30 AM
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I'm no expert, but I was wondering if maybe there's some editing of the guns there 💪💪 Edit: Gun*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:05 AM
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By the end, I had completely forgotten that he STARTED THIS ESSAY stating he was pretty chill. Oh dear God, the delusion. I'm dead. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:52 AM
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I live in a midsize city, but it's rather spread out. I keep my "dating area" on apps pretty tight, 10 miles or less, for various reasons. Anyway, I have seen this guy the last few times I've swiped and he updates this bullshit regularly. He was only about his measurements at first. Now he's looking for....love? 🤡 Has anyone seen this, where they obviously have had no success with this trash and keep trying different phrases and wording while keeping to the point that they are only in it for you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:45 AM
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Please end the relationship and block him everywhere he can contact you. He's pressuring you and emotionally/mentally abusing you. These behaviors don't get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:54 AM
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"I wanna fuck you at my convenience and never have to hear about or deal with your problems"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:58 PM
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Don't give men the benefit of the doubt before they have earned it. We have to assume the worst of them until they've done enough things that show us otherwise. This isn't a court of law, they're fucking guilty unless proven innocent 😂 I'm naturally a very giving, empathetic person so it's been a journey to get this point but it has improved my life in everyway. Mentally and emotionally, I have so much less stress and anxiety. Tell me how I have been able to save more money for a new apartment A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:23 PM
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"hi...I know you will almost surely find this message repulsive, delusional and disrespectful, but I'm sending this to 1,000 different women hoping I can catch one at a particularly low time in her life so I can take advantage of her and leave her completely dissatisfied, so it's cool if you don't respond" For such a bold offer, he's obviously bracing for rejection and knows this will never, ever result in him getting sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:03 PM
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I'm pretty tall, 5'8". I prefer the men I date to be taller than me, but I don't have a 6' requirement or anything. Every guy I've been out with that was shorter than me, or even the same height, had an issue or made comments about it. Now it's something I vet early because it's just not worth it haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:40 PM
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What a low effort attempt at a date... come get drunk with me and my friends, who will just happen to be there or show up unexpectedly, while I get completely fixated and way too involved in something you don't like and ignore you for 3+ hours. 🤡 Sounds like he did you a favor! Men who are obsessed with sports are on my list of hot pink flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:13 PM
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😂😂 Guy has clearly paid for a prostitute and didn't get the boyfriend experience and cock-worship he thought he deserved for $60. I love that you sent that link. I'm definitely stealing that move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:19 PM
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Everytime I see one of these audacious assholes proudly admitting to being complete trash, I just hope that someone stumbles upon it in his community and notifies the wife. Less likely for a traveling philanderer, but my fingers are crossed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:12 AM
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I deleted this one a while ago and this was a big part of the reason why. It was such a turn off to see this because they have to actively toss the ball in your court, when they could just put together a sentence or two to start a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:53 AM
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So many 28-32 y/o men in my area are clearly 35-45. Some will even admit to this somewhere in the profile. Like, you are either a liar or you look fucking terrible for your age, and just in general 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:47 AM
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😂 I have definitely heard about "professional cuddlers" over the last few years. Google it....it's so bizarre. There are people in this world, right this minute, getting paid good money to cuddle with a stranger who are desperate for physical intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:21 PM
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I can definitely relate to this. I had a major physical transformation over the past 3 years or so, and the difference in the way I'm treated is night and day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:40 PM
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To be fair, I guess his requirements are pretty low. What a clown 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:57 AM
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He seems like a blast! Not bitter and angry and hateful, at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:38 AM
7

I agree, Bobby blows. Also, something about all the effort he put into being able to contact you after you blocked him, rubs me the wrong way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:35 AM
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I think you're going to regret giving him that letter. It's way too much and he doesn't give a shit, clearly. Seriously, rethink the letter. He doesn't care about your feelings so protect them. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:22 AM
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It's just terrifying. I knew what was happening. If I was an outsider looking in, it was a no-brainer. Yet I couldn't make that final step to accepting that I had ended up in a relationship like that. It felt shameful and I was scared about ending it and kicking him out safely. I can't express how honest it felt to my experience - some of the exact quotes and examples he uses in the book, he used on me. It was impossible to deny or excuse or ignore after that. Very powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:09 AM
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God, they're so boring and weird or completely gross and disrespectful!! It's really 1/1,000,000 The apps are strictly for entertainment value now. Maybe I'll strike gold one day 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:55 AM
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Completely agree with this recommendation. It was actually this book that made me finally see what a verbally and mentally abusive piece of shit my ex was. It really did make everything so clear, you can't possibly deny the truth to yourself. It was like reading a textbook written specifically about my ex, that's how on point the information is. These types of men follow patterns in their abuse. Once you recognize it, it's impossible to not see it. I'm almost positive I found a free PDF copy onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:55 PM
47

I put up with some bs from a very attractive, tall, great smile, etc guy a few months back. On the second date I wanted to hookup, that was my goal from the beginning. This motherfucker came in literally 3 seconds. Of hand stimulation. His pants were mostly on. I was still fully clothed. We parted ways about 5 minutes later and I didn't respond to him again. I felt like I was living in a sex in the city episode, it was so comically unreal and horrific 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:03 AM
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So the disrespectful, delusional, plate-spinning* guys on tinder.... this is what they'd be asking of us if they were fabulously wealthy? To pay us to give birth to their sons. What is going on? Where am I? 🤯 *I just learned this phrase a few days ago and I still can't believe these people walk amongst us. If I hear anyone say this in reality I won't be able to contain myself lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:18 AM
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Oh, don't feel ashamed. I'm sure most of us have been there, I know I have. The important thing is we recognize and learn from our mistakes. I'd most definitely forget the guy and move along. Don't give him the satisfaction of another text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:06 AM
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I feel like the only reasons I can come up with for a man being bothered by doing this, all point to him being a shit person that you don't want anything to do with. If the goal is to talk to you more frequently and have a more "personal" connection with you than an app where you've got 1,000 other men trying to talk to you, this should be more than sufficient. They're just liars and want to have some power over the situation and our phone numbers provide that. You even offered to FaceTime, whic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:46 AM
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If a man said those words to me in person, I would laugh right in his face 😂😂 What a long-winded, beating around the bush way of saying "I'd really love to use you physically, emotionally and financially for whatever you're worth until the next unsuspecting woman comes along" He's not even nearly attractive enough to try this shit and receive any interest. The audacity, indeed. Edit: The best response might be, "I was just looking to get dicked-down (insert whatever gross male phrase for sex you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:21 AM
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You will see the same patterns emerging and hear the same cliche phrases over and over and over with these guys... It's like on OLD apps, they all use the same stupid lines and strangely enough, they all love tacos, hiking and craft beer. Keep reading this sub and focusing on yourself and what makes you genuinely happy and you will seriously spot these games from a mile away. It's kind of scary how similar the dates with lvm were, in hindsight....😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:57 AM
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I think it's just the game they're playing. Being overly complimentary could be his way of seeing if he can simply flirt/talk his way into your pants on the first date. This kind of thing can also include "I've never met someone I can talk with so easily" or "we have the best chemistry of any first date I've had", blah blah. You let him pay AND throw compliments your way for a couple hours and you didn't fuck him or even suck his dick? You cold-hearted bitch. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:37 AM
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That's disgusting. I read a few comments and ended up feeling like the OP isn't even the worst person on that thread. At the very least he's feigning the emotional burden of this while others encourage him to continue. Mind boggling. The bar is truly underground. I hope his gf discovers his gross, disrespectful behavior and mentally destroys him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:58 PM
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This sounds like a coping mechanism. This is her perspective on the situation, and how she manages to not feel badly about it. Honestly, I feel for her and hope she opens her eyes before she does this for another undeserving man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:47 PM
29

"a nearby piece of playdough" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:42 PM
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Always followed by "I'm a really visual guy", after he nags you for pics. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:16 AM
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THIS! I'm very new to this sub, but it's pretty clear that FDS isn't about techniques to make men bend to our will and somehow coaxing excellent behavior out of men and molding them into our perfect husbands. Not all men are quality, high value men. Not all men will live up to the standards of FDS. Most won't. This sub is about learning to recognize your own worth and value by overcoming years of social programming and knowing that the right man for you will also recognize it, and will cherish a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:39 AM
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I'm so sorry you experienced this terrible behavior on a regular basis. I can't imagine what that was like, trying to keep your professional composure while being incessantly sexually harassed It's almost as if these monsters enjoy that aspect (causing fear and anxiety while trying to coerce sex acts from an educated and licensed massage therapist) more than the sex itself. If it's a legal and feasible option, why not go to an actual sex worker if that's the true desire?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:06 AM
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😂😂 that's a great response, if you are in the mood to engage. I can't imagine a man coming up with an answer to that question that doesn't cause them some embarrassment or insecurity. That's really all an asshole like this deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:15 AM
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The good news is, any woman browsing this sub and reading the guidebook will be able to spot this from a mile away. You can't fake being high value, man or woman, for any real length of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:43 PM
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😂 this should be on the list of signs/qualities of low value men. Granted, we shouldn't be fucking them if they are, but thinking back I have NEVER met one or heard about one from a friend, who didn't have a problem with women using sex toys in some way. Completely insecure, sometimes hostile about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:45 PM
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Red flag, red flag, red flag... sees she's been putting up with his shit for 5 years to get to this point 🤯🤯🤯 Where to even begin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:14 PM
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I'm very glad you're safe and went with your gut and your mom's advice on this. NO ONE, regardless of how much they proclaim to be an introvert/socially awkward/homebody/whatever truly believes getting drunk in a hotel room X miles from home with a complete stranger is a normal, safe, enjoyable first date. This was not an accidental overstepping of boundaries, he's definitely a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:14 PM
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He had 3 pics, this was the main one. The second was literally the same picture, except the baby was now around 1. The last was again taken by someone else and now the baby was approximately 5-6. He managed to put a dirty hoodie on for that one. So, so many bright red flags. This one goes in the album titled "When your co-worker/friend/mom/aunt/lady on the bus asks why you're single".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 09:24 PM
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Sleeveless t-shirt, maybe? Although that may be exclusive to the guys who literally cut the sleeves off their t-shirts. Lol And the guy in the black definitely cuts the sleeves off his t-shirts. This is his fancy going-out outfit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:26 AM
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Holy shit this is so cringey, I'm embarrassed for both of them. If this has ever happened to me, I've blocked it from my conscious memory 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:23 AM
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Eh, block/unmatch and move along. Looks like he has literally no one else on Earth to talk to and was trying to harass you into responding by being rude and confrontational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:52 PM
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OLD has turned into a marketplace for males to find free prostitution services, or at least it seems that way. I honestly can't put in more than 10 minutes tops in a single swiping session. It's depressing to look at these kinds of profiles. So a couple times a week I'll swipe dozens, maybe 100's, to the left without a single swipe right, become completely grossed out by what I'm seeing and reading, and close the app lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:04 PM
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The most bizarre is a guy who proudly admits he watches a lot of porn, has a smaller than average dick YET brags about what a big dick he has. 🤔 Within the standards of average/normal human anatomy, penis size is not my too priority for sexual compatibility, but damn it was so hard to not say.... excuse me, but wtf are you talking about, bro? The delusions are complex with these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:19 AM
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If it's following the pattern of everything else related to dating, it's probably because of OLD apps. The popular versions offer "long-term relationship" as the most solid, committed option. So 5 years, an ill-advised engagement thrown in for excitement, followed by the break-up is the ultimate end goal apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:33 AM
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This is really pitiful and I hope this woman finds her worth and strength and kicks this trash out of what I can only assume is her place. The part about the haircut makes me think he doesn't even keep up with his own basic grooming habits. What a complete bum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:08 AM
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I love how alcohol is the one thing they're always willing to pay for, this fool throwing the idea out there as if it's a gentlemanly compromise on his end. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:01 AM
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Fucking filthy. What planet do these delusional creatures live on? The words are so full of hatred for women, you can almost feel his disgust for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:37 AM
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Absolutely agree. I honestly didn't understand why until finding this sub. We both want the same thing, right? Nope. They can't play their games if the casual/fwb relationship is on a woman's terms. She won't fall prey to their mental gymnastics. And of course she will undoubtedly find someone better than him and/or realize he's boring/bad in bed due to an assortment of dick issues, not worth the effort, and cut him off shortly. It's no fun for these very low value males without the game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:14 AM
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The feeling you got sending that reply and shutting him down was WAY better than whatever enjoyment you may have been able to salvage from his boring, and most likely delusional and disrespectful conversation and pick up attempts. Fuck yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:08 AM
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I just found this sub a few days ago, and it has prompted me to stop being a lurker and create an account. I am ALL IN on #FuckboyFree2020. Thank you ladies, sincerely. I ditched the last fuckboy I'll knowingly be giving any of my time or attention to, last week. You want to take over 24 hours to respond to a text that you prompted, just to try to reschedule our plans for that day? Fuck yourself, because I won't be doing it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:29 AM
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