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QUEEN SH*TAmeliaEmiliaEmma/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:30 AM
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AmeliaEmiliaEmma/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 05:08 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨AmeliaEmiliaEmma/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:20 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨AmeliaEmiliaEmma/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:43 PM
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RANTAmeliaEmiliaEmma/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:56 PM
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RANTAmeliaEmiliaEmma/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:36 PM
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LEVEL UPAmeliaEmiliaEmma/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:31 AM
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DISCUSSIONAmeliaEmiliaEmma/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:55 PM
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That actually made me lol! Of course he was! Poor man, all alone, nobody to take care of him and his needs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 08:09 PM
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That’s exactly what happened. She was flagged because of him. The fact he just ghosted her, didn’t even have enough decency to face her and say he got involved with her “close associate”… She is amazing though. In case you want to hear her story https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yTCLw9dXZKo And here is her ex husband with his new lover https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9509377/Kylie-Moore-Gilberts-ex-husband-seen-lover-time-began-relationship.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 06:56 PM
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I love that part about the USA. Each and every country should have court records available to be searched online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 07:53 PM
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That’s so true! I don’t drink, my ex was an alcoholic. Yet, he stated for the girl he dated before me that “she was drinking too much and was crazy drunk”. I told him that she sounded like a perfect match for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 10:15 PM
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Lol my ex’s mom did that to me. First time we met, she asked directly “how much money they (my company) pay you?” “Why are you so skinny? Do you have a thyroid problem?” Many, many questions about my family size, health, etc. I heard she kicked out one of his brother’s girlfriends because “she was too short, probably couldn’t bare children.” My ex died at age 36 from cancer, never married and had no kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:37 PM
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I wasn’t even thinking of my father until I read your comment. When I was a kid, he would belittle me if he saw me happy or laughing while watching COMEDY movies or playing. It’s like he was disgusted whenever I was excited about something. I don’t know how to show happiness now, it messed me up real good. No idea what was his goal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 10:36 AM
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When my niece was going through this issue, I set down with her and explained ALL possible outcomes. The last possibility I mentioned was “if they really ended up around and everyone saw them, so what? Nobody has seen boobs before? Normal people will be by your side, for the other idiots just act unbothered and they will drop it all soon.” It was all resolved though because I took the issue to other kids parents, school principle, and teachers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 11:27 PM
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This is like guys on OLD saying “full disclosure” then proceed to toss the biggest red flag/dealbreaker expecting women to just be like “aww, he is so honest! I should give him a chance!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 09:06 PM
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It took years YEARS and numerous doctors for my best friend to be diagnosed with endometriosis. That’s how much doctors are educated about how it affects women’s health. But hey, let’s study how it affects men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:35 PM
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I blocked a guy on my iPhone and he is still able to text me (to my phone!) somehow! It is so annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:27 PM
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Holy crap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:24 PM
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I guess my obsession to always wear small crossbody bag is a plus. It’s part of me and my outfit, no matter what. My sisters always make fun of my purses for not being big/trendy/expensive, but I like having one less thing to worry about when I go out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 01:54 PM
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He is one of those guys who are constantly worried about “gold diggers” although he has no gold to be dug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 12:21 PM
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The real power- being able to just cut them off, turn around, and completely forget they even existed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 12:19 PM
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My first thought exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 09:48 AM
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Ay. Reminds me of my coworker (25f), everything she says about her “boyfriend” (28M) is a red flag, yet she doesn’t see it. We are not that close for me to tell her that though, and she is so in love with this guy that she wouldn’t listen to me anyway. Just today, she cried at work because they had a terrible fight and he is ignoring her texts/calls. I will list some of the things she mentioned: they have been dating for 8 months, he refuses to call her his girlfriend, yet she calls him her boyf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:26 PM
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I was groped on a bus one time by a guy sitting next to me. Thank god for the bus driver who saw it, stopped the bus, and yelled at the loser to get off the bus or he was calling the police, then asked me if I was ok. He should’ve called the police though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 05:28 PM
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You’re young, inexperienced, it’s ok to make a mistake. Although, this is 100% him, and not you! And don’t believe he is treating this girl better, he is not. He is just saying stuff he believes in. You saw it first hand how shitty he is to women, he is like that to her too. Cry, scream, let the emotions out. Then imagine you were born again, new person, new life, new everything. The old you was a different person, you’re smarter than her now and can do better in life and chose partners wiser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:07 AM
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Ok, ok. I was in a similar situation but it wasn’t a boyfriend, just a friend. Many people say he was my “sugar daddy” for about 14 months when I was pretty much homeless college student looking for a job in a country where I had no relatives. I didn’t have a car, no phone, wasn’t even allowed to legally work yet, had enough money to just pay my next semester (I HAD to, other way I would’ve lost my visa) with $17 left to spare. He was never sexual around me, never even looked at me in a creepy w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:02 PM
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I have done it. I have a permanent notification about having unread messages but there are none visible. Idk what’s that about, but I’m not stressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:59 PM
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I realized about 3 years ago that music has a bad effect on me. I listen to audiobooks instead, and it has made such a big difference on my mental state. I do have classical music playing in my car while I’m driving, and I play piano, but nothing else. Good to know there are other people who feel the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:15 PM
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I hate this. I lived with my former friend for 5 months and couldn’t take it anymore, I moved out. She was dating some guy who was always over and in my personal space. I enter the kitchen to make something to eat, and he stands there, blocking the counter, staring at what I’m doing, what I’m making. Her bedroom was right above mine and I could hear them having sex which grossed the hell out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:56 AM
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Imagine all the bacteria cultures growing on this man who hasn’t been in touch with soap nor hot water for who knows how long!!! Holy crap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 08:29 PM
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Ugh, I’m having a flashback when I had some dirty man over my place. He rested his foot sideways on my white wall leaving greasy gray print. I had to repaint that piece of the wall. He sat in my car, I turned the seat warmers on and the stench of his clothes started evaporating and filled up my car. Ew! This was a really, REALLY good looking man, but absolutely disgusting. Not that he was poor and unable to clean himself or his clothes, he just didn’t do it for god knows what reason. I noped out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:26 PM
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This is what I do although not always intentionally. I’m from a culture that does not smile to strangers. I don’t even make eye contact with men. Also, walk fast, with a goal, confidant. If you look busy or like you are late to be somewhere, less chances anyone would interrupt you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:25 AM
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Amen to that. I would never go back to my 20s, it was a horrible time. Physically- I look great! Financially- I have never been better! Mentally- so much calmer and wiser, depression is gone, and I don’t put up with anyone’s crap like 20 yo me used to do. Sorry to disappoint delusional men, but I still get hit on constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:41 PM
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This is that type of insane that could potentially hurt their kids just to make her suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:48 PM
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Well, take a look at OLD lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:49 PM
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LOL! To meet less than a bare minimum- 0.16%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:48 PM
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His wife called me. His “business trip” only 10 days before her call was actually destination wedding. Luckily, I wasted only 2 months and wasn’t invested much. His wife filed for a divorce, I have never talked to him after I talked to her. He has domestic violence, disturbing public service, aggravated menacing charges, then felonious assault filed against him on the day I spoke to his wife. I guess it got pretty ugly at their house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:33 PM
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I rarely get shocked, but this this is just WHAT THE FUCK?!! Like it was a story line from some sick horror/thriller movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:07 PM
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Just to prove that, if they got access to money, they would happily run to get a shiny gold digger. The very same gold digger they are hating on right now. Also, they wouldn’t have a problem sleeping with someone who does it only to have access on their money, not because of they found them attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:50 PM
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It’s exhausting being friends with “forever second woman”. I keep minimal contact with one of my former friends, now more acquaintance. She was constantly talking trash about the wife although they had never met, and the wife did not know her husband was cheating. The girl would stalk her fb profile and laugh at her appearance, calling her stupid for not having a clue what’s going on, etc. I just couldn’t listen to that anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:55 PM
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I have met a few women who were from Eastern European counties married to Americans. I will give you a couple of stories how it was for them. 1- 2011- A gorgeous Russian lady. ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS. She was in my ASL class, I have never seen her husband, so I can’t comment on his looks. She wasn’t allowed to drive- he was dropping her of/picking her up. She wasn’t allowed to work, which made her feel powerless. I offered her to work with me, her husband found out and got really angry. He was treat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 10:00 PM
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It’s so sad. The world can be actual hell for women, kids, and powerless creatures- animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:29 PM
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Great-grandpa 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 01:46 AM
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I noticed that about 10 years ago and joked how I love doing/saying crazy stuff on first dates because men won’t mind anything because they haven’t got laid yet. They will stick around pretending to be chill about anything in hope they will get laid eventually. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:30 PM
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Just when I thought it couldn’t get worse, I hear this story! I actually went out to dinner with a guy who was seeming quite normal. Good polite convo, interesting topics, etc. Then right after the dinner, while I was putting my coat on, he asked if he would get to meet my -my cat’s name- tonight. NO! and BYE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:21 PM
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And she lived happily ever after!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:36 AM
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Idk why but oral is to me more personal than PIV. I won’t do either anymore though, finally got to terms than I’m asexual and everything I was going through makes perfect sense now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:33 AM
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My former coworker used to say how she had to see how guy acts in all 4 seasons before she decides if she really likes him. So yeah, 1.5 years is about perfect time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:23 AM
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Montenegro style. No peace until it’s 1:1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:40 PM
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From 20-22 yo, back in my home country, I was desperately in love with a guy. He was 3 years older than me, tall, confidant, funny. I found out he was messing around with other women. I was crushed. Our mutual friends told him that he screwed over an honest girl (me) who truly loved him for plastic bimbos who were attracted to his dad’s money. His dad had a successful company back then. About a decade later, I live in the states, graduated college, great career, I have everything. And he reaches…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:01 PM
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My father is one of those idiots who thinks women are verbally abusing poor men, and the poor man just have to snap at one point. When they brought some new laws in my home country to protect better women from DA, and I went to visit, my dad would say to me with a shocked face “you can’t even slap your own wife anymore, they would take your house away and lock you out of it.” My face was pure horror which he took like I was reacting to the new laws, not at him thinking hitting anyone is ok, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:29 PM
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Is your office a high school class? No grown up people should act that childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:46 PM
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Oh hi sis! I get called grandma a lot too! I see it as a neg trying to get me loose to prove I’m not. Nuh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:44 AM
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So what would be a proper response to this situation: a guy did this to me years ago, and when we ran into each other in presence of our friends- I didn’t even look at his direction. He proceed to call me uncultured and primitive in front of everyone for not being able to stay civil and say “hi” to an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:24 AM
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LITERALLY yesterday that happened to me. His 3rd-4th message was “I am looking for a long term relationship, eventually marriage, if that’s what you looking for, let’s exchange contact info.” He ignored every question I asked him, and sent this. I just unmatched, no time for that weird crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 10:49 PM
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Squeaky wheel gets the grease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:35 PM
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Yes! I was going out with a guy who was always “whatever day works for you, whatever time, whatever place, whatever food, whatever you want.” He never EVER made any decision, it was always up to me. It got old pretty fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:04 AM
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I like your mom! Lol No, seriously, how brainwashed are some older women thinking that without a man- you failed in life. “Just get married, what are you waiting for! Don’t be so picky” yada yada
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:09 PM
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A loser I know went so far to make a fake webpage for his “business” just so women would think it’s legit when googling it. I reported his profile when I ran into it, go figure, he wasn’t removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:03 PM
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Yeah, I chatted for a day with a guy who had “engineer”, realized soon his vocabulary was so dirty, sense of humor primitive. He ended up being mechanical engineer or not even that much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:00 PM
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BUAHAHA!!! Projection, as usual. Desperate even for his mother to love him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:06 PM
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I got a pretty good deal on a piano this last Black Friday, and found an amazing tutorial on YouTube. I have already mastered one classical song, and working on second. I have been a bit obsessed with Libby app (free library app) where I listen to audiobooks (2-4 books/week). Now I started going to library book sales and Goodwill looking for hard copies of books I loved. Also, college textbooks on subjects I am interested in (genetics, biochemistry, pharmacology, etc). I also have a dance pole f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:31 PM
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It sounds to me like she is bragging lol or trying to make someone jealous, most likely the guy who stood her up. So childish and dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:59 PM
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The hell, I don’t even answer the door during day unless I expect someone who let me know ahead of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 11:10 PM
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Omg… I once got chocolate and asked a guy I was talking to at the time if it was from him. He took all the credit, but a few days later I found out it wasn’t from him. -.-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 11:07 PM
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It’s sort of nice of him to publicly share his frustrations so women can be aware to stay far, far away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:13 PM
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Ravenage porn and most likely slander too. Sounds like some bitter loser who was turned down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:52 PM
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Even if he was paying her $400 for all that, it wouldn’t be enough, not even close. About 10 years ago, I was a live-in help. Room and board, car, insurance, and $200/week. The most important part- no r@pe or pervs! Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:56 PM
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I have a fake profile on Tinder to do the same! Some really normal looking and super polite people from Hinge had the opposite profiles on Tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 10:03 AM
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Back in my home country, a few years ago, an actor married an actress who was 10 years his senior. He was a guest in some talk show and the stupid reporter asked him if he was going to “ungrade to a younger wife”. He instantly cursed them out and walked out the show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:21 PM
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I will take a guess that he will use returning of your stuff as an excuse to see you and attempt to gaslight you. Don’t let him drag you into an argument. You did great! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:59 PM
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I think the actual gold-digger had the best outcome here- that Russian model/influencer. She did waste her time, but I hardly believe she has ever given him a penny. She was there for the money, but I don’t blame her either. That woman would walk out the minute he complained about being financially strained. The comment “she broke up with him when she found out about the cheating” was funny. She walked out because the guy was broke, not because there were other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:41 PM
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What comes to mind are those guys who suggest getting drinks before dinner, pay for the drinks with “you’ll get the next one” then order a bunch of stuff from the menu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:12 PM
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That’s them trying to do “50-50”, give something in return. He did spend a lot of money on each woman, so once he asked for a “favor”, they were manipulated to feel embarrassed to say no. “I would look like a gold-digger if I refuse”. Once it started, they couldn’t back out without accepting they lost what they had already given. Like gamblers, they keep investing hoping to get back what they previously lost. I noticed he targeted women who were taking pride in being financially independent know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:32 PM
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Slander, bullying when seeing me in public, fake revenge porn, giving my info to strangers to call for a free fuck. Then reaching out years later to “just talk” from multiple fake accounts. Each and every attempt was ignored and blocked/deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:27 PM
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He was probably jobless lol I went out with a guy who had not decided yet what he wanted to do career wise but felt free to call my job disgusting. He also added he would not do it no matter how well they pay him. I examine tissues for cancers and other abnormalities and I absolutely love my job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:21 AM
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I was going out with a guy for about 3 months, we met on Hinge and he said that was THE ONLY app he ever used. I specifically remember he said exactly that. My friend saw his profile on Tinder, I instantly dropped him like a hot potato without even asking. He tried to weasel back quite a few times since then but no, you lied and that’s it. “You are still the last girl I went out on a date. I’m bad at dating”, lmao. “Oh, it’s old, I don’t use it.” Get lost. You’re almost 35, I’m not a dating coac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:43 PM
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I have seen this happen many, many times. Example 1: A girl (A) chased a guy (B) for months but he wasn’t interested. To get back at B, A slept with his best friend (C). C actually recorded a part of their intercourse and B and C laughed at her while watching the video together, then shared it around so other idiot friends would laugh at her too. Example 2: My sister’s friend slept with a guy who ditched her afterwards. Then the guy’s younger brother hit her up, and she slept with him to make th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:42 PM
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Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:36 PM
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Is the name of the book I Married a Psychopath?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:46 PM
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Exactly! Even my 80 year old grandma knows this! She told my cousin who wasn’t calling her to do it while she is sitting on a toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:44 PM
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Right on spot with my reasons to be childfree. When someone asks me why, and expects very short answer, it’s just impossible to answer. “Many, many reasons” is all I say if there is not enough time to elaborate. I may just do copy/paste your post lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:09 AM
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I do modeling too, and had some crusty old guy reach out with something like “I’ve dated more models with eating disorders than I care to remember, your nerdy side attracted me bla bla.” Like for real?? I still have a screen shot somewhere when I feel like laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:30 PM
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I stumbled on some reality tv show where people get coupled up and have to sleep in the same bed. One of the guys said “should I just stick it in her tonight?” And guys laughed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:23 AM
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Thank you! I do biopsies, and I’m assuming this is going to be just cervical biopsy (colposcopy) not uterine. Doctors don’t test women under 30 for HPV unless their PAP smear was abnormal. In 90% of the cases, HPV goes away within 2 years, and everyone had some type of HPV (there are over 150 types) at one point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:27 PM
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Not to mention how some of men see having children with them as the final stab. How many of them say, when woman finally wants to leave, “who would won’t you? Divorced WITH CHILDREN! No guy would want to date a single mother.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:01 PM
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It sounds too ridiculous, but similar thing happened to me so it could be truth. Back in college, a dude asked me to come over his dorm room and clean it. I laughed at his face. I just recently ran into his profile on OLD, he is still an idiot. He is bragging that the craziest thing he ever did was “race with police on highway on his way to church and flipped the car over.” And you should go out with him if… “you can give a grandson to his mom and keep the family name going.” Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:00 PM
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I ALMOST did it, but I’m so happy I didn’t. I’m 32C, and now I love it. I don’t know what the hell was wrong with me to think about getting bigger breasts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:55 PM
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There is one quote from a book I really like “[she] takes a deep breath and says what women usually say to men who never seem to think that their lack of knowledge should get in the way of their confidant opinion.. - I’m sure you’re right.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:15 PM
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Women having each other’s back is the key to beating patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:03 PM
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Make the male stranger be bigger, stronger, and 100% homosexual and horny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:21 PM
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Normal people would do that. This thing is looking for a desperate, naive woman who will not just pay half of the bills, but clean after him, do his laundry, probably cook, and have sex when there is nothing better available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:55 PM
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I’ve seen similar profiles “rent’s too high, let’s split it in half 😏”. Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:13 PM
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Last testings I had included Herpes blood testing too. I just said “my bf cheated, didn’t use protection” and the nurse did ALL testings. I like her! Insurance covered it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:48 PM
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Right?! Damn, if it was a choice I would be so gay right this instant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:33 PM
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This guy I was talking to a year ago- his dad is a retired PRIEST, his mom retired nurse. When the vaccine first started, his mom went to help distribute them, and she stole some for her husband (he wasn’t eligible to get it yet). They all thought that was funny. This whole family was so condensing and arrogant to non-religious people, but stealing is obviously ok when it’s done by them. Gluttony and sloth is also ok when it’s done by (only) them how I noticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:31 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TjPnZL7MMtw Time stamp 32:00 and 42:45 I loved her answer to “why you’re not married yet”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:35 PM
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What a coincidence, I was just yesterday watching a documentary about young Muslims (some Pakistani) using matchmakers to find their spouses. I loved one girl and her attitude on marriage. I will try to find and post her talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:26 PM
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My former friend (a woman) wanted to be a professional gambler. She actually thought she could just sit at the table, smile, and blink slowly and men would just let her win. She would lose (of course), then massage gamers for tips while they continue playing. Such a bizarre idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:02 PM
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From my experience, every guy who wanted “a good communicator” sucked at communicating! Their messages are so plain, dry, boring, short, and then they expect ME to entertain them. I’m guessing women don’t fall for it so they project it on us to be the problem here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:35 PM
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On a related topic, I just listened to an audio book… Have you ever heard of a “husbands’ stitch”? I am shocked! So when a woman gives a birth and rips down there, they stitch her back and add an extra stitch to make her tight for her husband’s pleasure (hence the name, husbands’ stitch). AND they do that without asking/informing the woman! The next time poor woman has sex, she is in pain, and when complaining to her doctor, she finds out why. How bizarre!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:48 PM
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Like adding “later” after triple texting just so they could feel like they still had the power. It’s so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:12 PM
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I (subconsciously) do the same! I will not go out of my way to shift around my work, home, sleep schedule to have dinner date on weekdays/Sunday nights. Saturday is the best option. It’s a rad flag anyway if a guy won’t do dates on Saturday- it mostly means that’s his “party time” or he is in a committed relationship already and can’t ditch his wife/gf/fiancé.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:03 PM
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I really liked H-Joong. Focused on one girl, but not pushy. About Sehoon, I mostly like him. He cooks, he dominates the group work and takes the leading role. He did focus on only one girl too. I still think JT is the worst. He is passive, totally manipulated Soyeon into chasing him and doing all the work. He will walk out on her first chance he gets. About J-hun… I disagree with you lol I just did not like this guy. I think his “business” is bullcr*p, and he just came up with it hoping it would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:28 PM
36

His mom bought the car from me lol she liked it and gave me cash for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 02:13 AM
43

A few years ago, I called the police for similar issue and they were on my side. I bought a new car and left the old one parked in my ex’s garage. He kept it hostage when I wanted to break up so I called the cops just to ask for an advice. The officer was very supportive and said my ex was an idiot to do that because the title was still on my name and they could arrest him on the spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:34 AM
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If he is not cheating yet, he is preparing for it in the future. Probably that mentality “better job= I deserve better/hotter wife now”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:20 AM
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My grandfather died when he was 42. My grandma was also 42 when that happened, she is 78 now. She has never dated another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:14 PM
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It’s a sad reality women cannot relax and rely on society to have their back. How there are people who do not see this problem is just beyond me. A woman in my home country left her husband and was staying in a safehouse so he couldn’t find her (both in late 50s). He followed her after they exited the court and stabbed her to death in the middle of the day in front of numerous bystanders.There was no other man, she just wanted a divorce. Another case- fully divorced couple, and he killed her whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:59 AM
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This is why I broke up with my ex! 3 years together, we were over his parents house for Mother’s Day. She had framed pictures of his brother+wife, little sister+fiancé and then asked my bf for a pic of him with HIS DOGS to frame it. Then she said “let’s all go outside so •my name• can take pictures of all of us together.” That was the last time I saw his family, I broke up with him after that. He was confused not understanding why I was blaming him for that. I used the exact words you did “they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:55 PM
47

My ex looked good in his 20s but had no style when it comes to his haircut and clothes lol thanks to my input, he peeked around 33-34 but then took a nosedive at 35-36 because he was still drinking like he was in his 20s. And he refused to moisturize his face. His health went to hell too because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:39 PM
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Thank you for your comment! I donated my eggs 3x and was wondering how children born from them would feel. In my last 2 donations, my lawyer put a clause that kids can contact me when they turn 18 if they want to meet me. I definitely do not feel like a mother, but I wonder how the kids would feel about me. Would they feel abandoned? It was a debate whether I did a generous or a selfish thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:33 PM
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I’m on episode 5 right now, just watching Soyeon being gaslighted. The guy is playing dumb, “I had no idea you were interested, YOU never made any moves, not even the smallest.” While he is just playing the field and keeping her as a safe option. Observe and learn how if he makes you confused, something is off. Walk away and don’t look back. JT is the worst!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:36 PM
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As I understood from giving suggestions to men, looking good is kind of GaY. Fitted clothes- gay, grooming- gay, smelling nice- gay, using lotions/sunscreens- gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:41 AM
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I don’t send nudes, ever! Yet, I still get paranoid about guys places regarding cameras. I dated a guy who ended up being a scumbag. I was at his house a few times, and he had security camera in his living room. I spotted it the first time and asked him to turn it away from the couch we were sitting. He had no problem with that. We had sex in his living room a few times, tv was on, camera was turned away. Last time I was over, I forgot about it until afterwards, and I saw camera wasn’t turned aw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:49 PM
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Thank you for this post! I will repeat myself- we should not look at each other as competition, that does not benefit us. Tearing a woman down does not add value to you. Have each other’s back. I had a friend who would tell my most personal problems to her boyfriend (whom I didn’t like at all). I cut her off and never looked back. What’s the circle of this? She tells him, he tells his bros, his bros spread it to their bros, and everyone ends up knowing. Suddenly, you’re vulnerable to strangers w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:59 PM
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I check my phone while watching movies (not in the theater though), that’s just how I always watch tv. It annoyed my ex who would constantly scream “watch the movie!” or “what just happened?! Did you see it?!” I never had trouble following the plot and it was so annoying having him quiz me to prove I can’t multitask. I knew better than him what was going on. Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:54 PM
14

There was some irrelevant post with title “FDS energy” when it was a post promoting being 100% dependent on a guy. Which is something FDS is strongly against.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:01 PM
65

This reminds me of something… a few years back, I was planning a vacation trip to meet with one guy I knew for years. We were both single for the first time and were supposed to be a couple on this trip. I pulled the plug on it and went on a different trip with my sister. Why? He was sneakingly trying to get me to put all our trip spending money in his pocket and have him handle paying. (My spending budget exceeded his by a lot!). That way it would look like he was paying for everything while ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:38 PM
5

Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:03 PM
38

There’s gotta be some script they are following. Same occupation (hedge funds), and same city (Tampa)? So full of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:42 PM
73

Yeah but look at him being honest about it! Awe!!! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:43 PM
94

Those were 2 different guys but yes, I had the same thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:39 PM
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I just unmatched them right away. No comment at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:37 PM
56

Yes. I started defending ex gfs with that’s not nice to say about an ex maybe she was >insert probable explanation< hmm, I wonder what her side of the story would be I am strongly against women seeing each other as competition, that benefits men not us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:17 PM
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Any reaction woman has to being treated badly is labeled “crazy”. One expression that comes to mind, and which I absolutely hate- “don’t hate the player, hate the game.” How convenient to shift the blame away. Really, douche? YOU being shit to women and then expecting them to just accept that and not take it against YOU? Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:10 PM
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I was paid to clean but now I think I was underpaid. I can’t believe how dirty one house can get in just one day! After cleaning the house, I would have black crust collected in the corner of my eyes from all the dirt flying around. And the stench, oh my god, it was awful. To think that those kids are now in college living with some poor roommates who have to deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:55 AM
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It was difficult on her too, but she is much better now. She would call me and cry asking if it was the right choice. She is sure now that it was. It’s sad to think how many women got trapped and had no choice. Stuck for life sharing custody with low life losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:46 PM
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My sister did this. Her bf begged her for a kid, BEGGED, ASAP, he is getting old, and as soon as she got pregnant, he started taking back. Suddenly marriage was “too much pressure”, he did promised this and that but now he was reconsidering. So she went and terminated the pregnancy. He cried his eyes out. Sobbed and begged again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:51 PM
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Oh wait, wait- they are not together anymore?! Thank god! Should’ve dumped his smug ass sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:10 AM
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Umm, I didn’t realize I dated a guy who tried to do this to me until now. I just never cared about his “you’re overdressed” comments. He bought me more casual (flat) shoes because I had none, I never wore them lol I still wore fancy shoes for every occasion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:25 PM
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In college, I cleaned a house of a divorced father with 3 kids (50-50 custody). DEAR GOD!!!! He had no business having a poor dog and a poor cat! Nobody took care of them. If you have a sensitive stomach, do not read the rest of this comment. Kids (teenagers) were sleeping in beds with dog’s vomit all over the sheets- smelly and disgusting, but too lazy to clean themselves. Dog was using basement as his bathroom, permanently. I caught him numerous times chewing used tampons and dragging them aro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:01 PM
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I went out with a guy you described lol he was creeping close to 40s and was desperate for kids. That’s literally the only reason he wanted to get married. I wasn’t interested. He got married just a few months after our date with the first woman that said yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:24 PM
13

I self diagnosed myself to be asexual. I have no desire for nor I enjoy sex. At one point, I had vaginismus and sex was painful. I get grossed out and lose interest in a guy when he calls me “sexy”. You could be right, it could be I just haven’t met the right person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:29 AM
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That’s true. I’m not a dog person either, I would never own a dog, but I can’t stand seeing them being mistreated. I hope the poor puppy is being taken care of well here considering the guy is an abuser and has temper issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:19 AM
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Projection. Have you seen the askmen question- how many women you slept with this year?? All zeros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:28 PM
23

Me remembering how my dad bought a vacuum cleaner for my mom as a serious bday gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:53 PM
13

I believe- yes. I know quite a few HVW. I actually said a few times in the past that it’s harder to find a good boyfriend than a good girlfriend. When I just look around me when I’m out, there are so many beautiful women, clean, dressed well, polished. And men… looking like goblins. And that’s just from the esthetic side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:36 PM
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Oranges, mandarines, clementines are expensive in the country I grew up. We had them only on Christmas/NYE so to todays day, smell of them makes me hear Christmas music in my head. I have an orange in July and it feels like the snow was outside, fireplace was going, shiny Christmas tree in the corner, my mom cooking big special dinner. And roasted chestnuts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:05 PM
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Used a lot of “ew” while talking. Everything was ew, but his unshaved armpits were not! To shave that would be GaY, and being gay is EW. I cannot stand hairy armpits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:09 PM
48

Nothing makes me laugh more than comments on this sub lol Michael Cera 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:02 PM
27

In movie Roma, my favorite quote is “we are alone. No matter what they tell you, we women are always alone.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 06:14 PM
137

Some old guy I used to work with said that it was much easier for him to pick up a married woman than a single one. “Husbands not paying any attention to them so just one compliment and they are all over you because they never get that from their husbands.” So he would specifically hit on married women because of that. It was interesting how he noticed that single women did not necessarily feel flattered about his compliments nor needed his approval. Surprise, surprise, he was a community dick h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 09:14 PM
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No. My cat is a traitor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:17 PM
424

That deep line across his forehead that’s showing even through the filter he is using… LOL!! Yeah, 28 in 2005.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:10 PM
152

My sister’s ex was well known for this. His buddies started joking about it too. He would be late so the girl would get her drink or whatever and pay for it, then he shows up with a drink in his hand from around the corner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 03:32 PM
108

I was in a talking phase with some idiot when he mentioned some other girl had just showed some interest in him and I “better step up my game”. I just laughed and said “Nuh, she can have you.” He tried to back paddle how it was a joke, the girl is not his type anyway, I’m better bla bla. No, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 10:11 AM
34

He should kick himself in the ass she even answered to his email. Even in professional world we can’t have peace without ignore/block/delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:11 AM
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Did you date my ex? He was a chiropractor, his (now ex) wife was a lawyer. We dated after he got divorced and he married for the second time behind my back while still dating me. Total piece of shit. Has some serious criminal charges now after I talked to his current wife. She works for the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:18 PM
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They probably confuse it with being confident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:18 AM
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I had not said I enjoyed the bars “gotcha!” Crowded bars and restaurants are “no thank you” but crowded gyms are ok? I saw his next move- suggesting to meet up 1:1 for Netflix and chill or such. No, thank you. One orange flag that I let slide- when talking about what his job was “risk bank”, he said:”I work for a large bank basically being a mom to people 10+ my seniors.” No title, no bank name, nothing precise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:49 PM
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There were a few guys who were constantly reopening new profiles after I block them and try to match me over and over. It was so annoying. I reported some of them and haven’t seen them since. I hope it was enough for the app to ban them for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:10 PM
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I have on my profile stated that I can solve Rubik’s cube in less than 1 minute. Some messages I got for it: prove it! and what if not? drinks on me if you really can is that by peeling off the stickers? I’ve got to see that! this is what got my interest, the nerdy side. I’ve dated enough models with eating disorders than I care to remember. If you want to bla bla (I’m a model btw, he is an overweight hillbilly whose pictures are typical truck-driver seat selfies).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:52 PM
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Not the first time I’ve seen this! In some religious groups, when a man is extremely abusive, they tell their wives “it’s because devil is tempting them”. And it’s like a sign that the man is so good and close to god that devil is jealous and tries hard to mess them up. The mental gymnastics is just so insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:56 AM
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Yes. I talked briefly to a guy who had 39 listed as his age. Then he did “a big” confession that he was actually 40. I found his full name through his work, dug around, he was 41. So still lying. I figured, it’s just to get under 40 mark to get to the younger women. Ew. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:05 PM
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I would like this to become normal, not just with ex wives but ex girlfriends too. I would gladly help any new girlfriend of any of my ex boyfriends if they reached out to ask about the details. I am all for women sticking together and not seeing each other as a competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:32 AM
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I’m a bit skeptical about divorced men. My older sister keeps saying- a woman doesn’t divorce a good man for a small reason. I’m childfree, but I wouldn’t mind one kid that wouldn’t be my responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:24 PM
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I moved to the USA from my home country to have more rights as a woman. It’s insane that in case I got pregnant, I would have to fly back and have it taken care of in my birth country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:13 AM
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BV is awful! I had issues with that myself while dating some dirt bag. Boric acid is good for both, BV and yeast infection. My gyno gave me a round of antibiotic then 30 night of boric acid suppositories, then Luvena moisturizer & lubricant every 3 night to keep everything under control. I still use it now once a week or so. Some say using just Boric Acid takes care of everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:37 PM
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Absolutely! BV, yeast infection from dirty hands... No, thanks. I have to say, I can hear everything that’s going on in my bathroom. From all male friends/dates etc. only ONE guy ever washed his hands after using the bathroom. “I didn’t touch anything dirty, my dick is clean” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:37 PM
53

Oh, I feel personally attacked! Lol I’m in bed by 8pm because I’m up for work early, and I don’t feel like I’m missing out much anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:11 PM
8

Let me tell you- I was an egg donor, and in the contract was stated that if married, husband must sign too. For my eggs, to give them away, I would need my husband’s permission! I wonder if it’s the same for sperm donors. HA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:06 PM
2

Thank you! I will check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:01 PM
14

She is gorgeous! One day, she will be so embarrassed of this cringe part of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:02 AM
16

BeCaUse iT’s GaY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:59 AM
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I’ve tried, no doctor wanted to do it because I have no kids am StiLl YoUnG and CoULd cHaNgE My MinD. I’m not on BC, I just don’t have sex at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:51 AM
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That’s what I learned from forensic files. Strangling is very personal and telling of how deeply person is in need to be in charge of someone’s life (and death). He should definitely be avoided by all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:42 PM
118

The dog is the smartest one in the story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:37 PM
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STEM female too, childfree. Even if I were not educated and successful, I would rather K*ll myself than be an incubator who completely depends on a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:06 AM
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I believe it could be because some pickmes are truly desperate so men assume all of us are like that. I know quite a few women who think their biggest achievement in life is having a husband. Who cheats on them, hits them, abuses them etc. BUT they have a man and are not spinsters. Very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:13 PM
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Oh my ex loved to cook, but he was actually good at it. The problem was cleaning up after cooking which he would leave for me. After I confronted him about it, he said “but you like doing dishes, so I leave them for you.” LOL! Hell I like. I just can’t stand the mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:07 PM
121

That’s why I don’t feel bad for old men who get ripped off from “mail ordered brides”. What the hell were they thinking those poor women were after? LOL!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:11 PM
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My dad would say to us, his daughters, to get married ASAP, because “every year, there are younger and prettier girls coming”. I don’t speak to this person anymore, but he was a great example of what NOT to look for in a man. Yes, there are younger/prettier girls coming every year. So there are men. Men their own age those girls would rather date. Second, why would I rush to get married to someone who would possible be interested in younger/prettier girls?? Would a marriage stop that kind of man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:42 PM
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It happens more often than you think. The audacity! I had my friend say a guy (doctor btw, quite classy) asked her to check if I would be interested in hooking up. She said his words were “I don’t want to date her, I just want to f*ck her. She is too pretty, she would cheat on me.” I’ve never greeted that guy again after I heard this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:34 PM
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I had a guy asking my friend if I would be interested in him, to give him my number. I said no. His response (through her) was to ask “ok, she doesn’t date. How about just a hookup?” LOL! I had fun discussing this with my friend how, even if I were into just hookups, I would do it with a guy who is gorgeous, AND YOUNG so he doesn’t need a viagra pill. I’m actually border line asexual, and find sex repulsive most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 05:49 PM
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I read one book from this series (Daphne and Simon story) and I’m still disgusted by it. I’m not even going to give a try to watch the show, no thanks. Considering that many people like the show, I’m sure they did not include the “controversial scene” from the book. Even without that “part”, characters are just so awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:17 PM
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Don’t let him confuse you. The reason many women stay in bad/abusive relationships is because they are holding on to GOOD times and ignore the BAD ones. That’s what he is trying to do here, manipulate you to focus on good moments only. You don’t need that crap! I will use this to give shoutout to book Educated I read. It was a true story, written by a woman who grew up in an insane, abusive family. It shows the struggle she had to walk away when she constantly was going back to “good times” they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:42 AM
24

Animal cruelty is something that enrages me the most. The way some animals are treated makes me believe this planet is the actual hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:31 AM
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He is! I doubt he would accept criticism though and change anything. I just wish I could contact his wife to give her some support or options so she doesn’t have to deal with this type of crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:12 AM
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I believe because he was bringing more value/knowledge to the research than me. Have you ever met anyone in the science research field? They are so competitive and jealous, it’s their whole life to get something published.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 09:59 AM
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That’s awful! You’re stronger than me though. I pretty much let it all go so I could graduate and be done with all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 09:48 AM
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Thank you! I did graduate on time, but not with the highest honors. It was stressful to decide how to deal with everything. I felt so powerless, invisible, and irrelevant. I just walked away because I wasn’t strong enough to take it all on the next level. I had no support. The biggest shock were female professors from his department who wouldn’t face me, but would work behind my back to bring me down. I still remember walking into the honors dean office and her not even looking directly at me wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 09:46 AM
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Be careful! Something similar happened to me, and who ended up being screwed over? Me! I couldn’t finish my research because we couldn’t work together anymore (after me complaining), no time to start new… Honors society wouldn’t let me change my classes to accommodate the change unless I resign (lost the scholarship when I did). EVERYONE started ignoring me and giving me cold shoulder. I talked to student affairs, cried my eyes out to them, they wanted me to start a complain and they would get m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:19 AM
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Can confirm this! I’m 35, look great (I do professional modeling STILL on the side of my main career), men 10 years younger than me are interested. My problem with them is that we are not at the same place in life. I own my own place, they usually still live with roommates or are renting. They have not established their careers yet, some haven’t even figured out what they want to do in their life. Some are still in college or have student loans, I don’t have any debt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:23 PM
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I was naive in a way of thinking giving a chance to someone beneath me would make them appreciate me and be grateful. When it comes to players, womanizers, I cut them off pretty ruthlessly even in my teens. Never liked being called “sexy”, and was known as “a nun”, “grandma”, “boring mean bitch”. I realize now I was just classy. But yeah, I gave chance to guys who were below my league and that was pretty stupid. I was 19 when I decided to date for the first time thinking the guy would treat me l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:31 PM
24

I consider myself a homebody because I put a lot in my work then I like to relax. I still like dressing nice and going to nice restaurants or other classy places. I absolutely would not do camping, 4-wheeling, or any activity that would require me to get dirty. Seems that men take pride of being “active” which ends up being them rolling in mud for fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 07:20 AM
54

He ain’t the prettiest, but he is also really dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:05 PM
148

I would never go back to my teens/early 20s just because I did not have the experience, knowledge, stability I have now in my 30s. Also, no money, bunch of creepy dudes, stressing over college. One of my college professors told us her favorite years were her 30s. She was so right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:47 AM
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You know, and when mentioning other guy being interested, we get “he just wants to fuck you” which is a pure projection. And an insult, like there is nothing more we have to offer. We do, there is so much more to us than a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:21 PM
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“I don’t want to date you, but I don’t want you to date anyone else either. I want you to stay single and wait until I’m ready to be with you.” Legit text I got years ago, but I remembered every word of it because it made me realize how insane and selfish this POS was. They want us to be around as an option but not having other options ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:19 PM
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I would give small compliments, but nothing too flirty. It’s probably connected to the type of men I pick too, never liked over sexual dudes. Not to brag much, but I’ve accomplished so many things in my life that I get their attention to focus on that asking for more and more details. I’m 35, so there is a lot to talk about lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:51 PM
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Lately, all men I meet don’t even push for kiss saying ‘I’m hard to read’ so they are not sure what I’m thinking. I usually kiss on 4-5th date, and they didn’t have a problem with that. Don’t worry, there are men who won’t push physical things until they get a clear green light. There is hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:52 PM
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I think they do! It’s high enough for them to play dumb and turn it on us being insecure/cocky etc. if we get offended and complain about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:54 AM
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I’m usually not attracted to blondes, but I’m attracted to you (I’m a blonde) you’re pretty, but that’s nothing unique. There are a lot of pretty girls. you’re 8/10 Is that some temporal job until you find something better? (After discussing my successful career that I absolutely love) ew (after mentioning what I was cooking- traditional dish from my home country) That’s just from top of my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:39 AM
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Even 12 years ago, before FDS, I wasn’t explaining myself to men. I remember some guy invited me out for second date, and I declined. He asked for an excuse why not, “I don’t need an excuse” is all I said. He is still bitter about it! He is married with 4-5 kids now, my close friend is friends with his wife and she told me he still makes faces whenever my name is brought up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:36 PM
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It’s a shame his face wasn’t/couldn’t be included because other women should be aware of this guy. He’s a ticking bomb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:08 PM
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My cousin is very clean/neat and he keeps his house spotless. My aunt raised him well. His father (my uncle) is a big time HVM so he also had a good male example growing up. I will use this opportunity to mention how powerful my aunt is- successful, smart, gorgeous and very opinionated. No wonder she married well and raised her kids properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:42 PM
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My cat is super friendly to people -friends, strangers, everyone. Except some electrician guy who was doing some work at my place. The moment he walked in, my cat bolted to hide. I was super alert about this and kept safe distance. He made gross sexual jokes multiple times that I ignored. It was scary. I was alone with him, my cat was under the bed which he NEVER does… I couldn’t wait for him to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:34 AM
40

My friend said his coworker was caught red handed going into CHILD’S laundry like that. His company was informed, and my friend’s words were “it was bad and messy, but he did not get fired.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:24 AM
7

I have issues with one male coworker. I started working here about 2 years ago and he latched on to me, standing above my head while I was working talking same thing over and over “I need a wife, I need to find a wife”. He is 20+ years older than me. Then he would “joke” how WE should just get married, how his mom would love me etc. I finally had enough when he texted me something so irrelevant about work and I said I was on a date and would look into that later… I got “are you cheating on me?” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:03 AM
7

That’s horrifying!!! I don’t even want to imagine what they were doing to them!!! It makes me so sick! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:26 PM
44

So true. I’m childfree by choice and had a discussion with one ex who was hoping I would reconsider. I basically said that HE would have to take care of the baby mostly because he is the one who wanted it so badly. He did not like that idea at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:05 AM
3

I used to play poker online. It was a struggle until I found a fun group that was always at my table and they didn’t stay quiet when someone started being creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:54 PM
53

Comical yet sad. I had men tell me, in the beginning/talking phase, how I seem quite content and happy with my life and everything I have/do, and “do you even need a man??”. No, I don’t NEED a man, but if I’m dating someone, it’s because I’m enjoying their company and the way they treat me. I can’t remember what famous woman said that and I took it as a life goal, I think it was Cher. Paraphrased but something like “my dating success is that I never needed men I dated, I was with them because I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:03 PM
17

My ex was quite good looking but a bit shy and oblivious when getting attention from other women. I liked going shopping with him and just getting away a bit and watching how other women try to chat him up and how it goes over his head. The good side was that we complimented each other well and there were no insecurities and trust issues. When we go out, random people would approach us to say how we are “quite good looking couple”. Sadly, he wanted children, I am childfree, so we split.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:53 PM
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Yeah! And idiots are attacking him too in the comments being racists and how “she is about to become single mom with the phd”. It’s disgusting. Just unbelievable how bitter are those losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:51 PM
114

I am tall, blonde, skinny woman. I met some guys who preferred short, or curvier, or dark hair women and not even once I was offended by it. Good for them to actually know what they like/want instead of just trying to get with any woman even with the ones they are not really attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:22 PM
588

Not to mention how SHOKED he is that it’s Chemistry PhD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:16 PM
995

It’s hilarious how scrotes are going after her in the comments how she’s going to die alone, yet in just 10 seconds there is a guy asking for her number. And of course, you should see the pics of the men insulting her LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:46 PM
66

I would say young and naive, and he fakes success very well, mixed with love bombing and getting them to use drugs with him. I was a “boring one” because I said no to that crap. It’s all “you’re sent by gods” bla bla until they start having their option about anything. Then it turns into verbal abuse. Then apologizing and all classic abuse manipulation. I wish I could say that to this poor girl, but I would be called crazy ex for sure. The girl that was 9 years younger than him, he dated her whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:21 PM
190

My loser ex fits this description. He gets older, but his girlfriend’s age is always the same- barely legal! I was 5 years younger than him, next was 9, then 13, then 15 years younger! He is 40 and engaged now to 25 year old who is getting a bit old for his taste so I bet my life he is about to replace her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:22 AM
94

Do the shitty thing Just apologize and it’s ok Their logic. When I was a babysitter, kids would be so disrespectful and mean, but their parents would say “he said ‘sorry’ so it’s ok”. No, it’s not! Teach your damn son not to be a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 10:29 AM
6

Oh, yeas… “Dating over certain age”, I go to their page when I feel like facepalming myself. I honestly cannot believe things I read over there, it’s just impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:44 PM
6

Chlamydia is not permanent like herpes, HIV, HPV (viruses). It’s a bacterial infection that is 100% treatable with antibiotics. Literally, it could be treated with just ONE pill and gone. It’s shitty, but I seriously doubt you could sue him for something that’s so easy to treat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:22 PM
293

I just checked out google, and her husband was 21 years older than her and not attracted to her anymore because she aged??? Seriously delusional man. I will quote what some guy texted me last week “I am a man, we are allowed to be hairy and gross. Women are to be smooth and delicate.” It annoys the hell out of me that women are so highly judged and criticized for their appearance while men don’t even bother to try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 09:17 PM
11

The moment I bought my own place, I felt like I achieved everything I ever wanted in life. My own place where I can do whatever I want, whenever I want! I feel at peace and stress free. My career is established, I’m a homeowner, driving my dream car, AND I have the cuddliest, most talkative cat ever! No more depression, anxiety at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:50 PM
4

You CAN and WILL do better without him, trust me! What good think he’s adding to your life? Stress? Humiliation? Insults? What example he is for your kids? Imagine them picking up his characteristics thinking that’s normal. Once a guy told me on like 2nd, 3rd date “you’re pretty, but there are so many pretty women so it’s nothing unique”. Pff, ditched right away. It’s probably harder for you because you have invested time, love, energy into this guy and it’s hard for you to let go of that loss, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:56 AM
51

USA here… I met a biggest drug-lover ever who tried everything, including this on himself. He said, from all the possible drugs, GHB was the hardest one to find! And he knows over dozen drug dealers. Honestly, I was glad to hear that it wasn’t easy to get a hold of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:10 PM
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How I’ve heard, that’s how some celebrity men do it, especially if they are married. James LeBron for example that (I overheard myself). I guess that way they could always deny they were actually interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 05:34 PM
53

I turned down a guy because I was dating someone else at the time. As soon as my relationship ended (about 1 year later), he reached out to say “yeah, so how did that work out for you lol”. Like my failed relationship would make me regret not giving him a chance instead. LOL! No regrets here, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 05:50 PM
8

A disgusting book I was reading “Becoming Mrs. Lockwood”, grossed me out so much that I didn’t even want to finish it. I hopped on google to see the reviews and there are a lot of people LOVING it!!! An 18 year old girl, still in high school, got involved with 31 year old man who kept calling her “baby girl”. And people reading it thought it was a great love story?!! Ew ew ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:32 PM
1

I’ve had dates text me right before our first date when I say I’m about to do my hair “you don’t have to do your hair FOR ME.” I don’t, I do my hair every time I wash it. And that’s exactly what I say every time. I also dress nice because I like walking around looking good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:17 PM
116

Applause and “oh you got me, haha, you’re a great player, points for you”. I love the quote “the biggest coward is a man who awakens woman’s love with no intention of loving her.” I’ve been tricked before to catch feelings, it was brutal. Over 2 months of him playing perfect guy every day 24/7 until he realized he got me. I wish nothing but the worse to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 10:25 PM
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Oh yes, and gatekeeping things I mentioned I had knowledge in (chess, poker, Rubik’s cube). I got so many “prove it” comments that I lost the count. Like get lost, I don’t need to prove anything to you. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 05:10 PM
13

How creepy and disturbing! It happened to me too. I never send nudes, and this guy I was dating snapped a naked photo of me when I wasn’t paying attention. I felt so violated, he wouldn’t delete it. That’s just one time that I noticed. I wonder how many times something like that happened that I never found out about. When I was 19, I worked at computer parts store where men would joke and think it’s funny that some of their friend had hidden cameras in their bedrooms recoding girls they bring ov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 12:51 PM
142

Be aware of phones, hidden cameras, etc. It is so easy to be sneaky today just to get to brag to their friends, peers, then it gets out of control. It is illegal, but that doesn’t mean it would stop some of them to be “cool”. At that age, many of boys take pride in hurting girls because that’s what’s thought to be “popular”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:54 PM
119

Salt and pepper, natural highlights! I pay almost $200 to get grey highlights, and you have them for free lol I just love it! I never ask for anything I don’t offer myself which is not what most men do. Somehow it end up with comment how I’m being too picky. Really?? I am/have all the things I am looking for in my partner, how is that being too picky? Meanwhile, men out of shape want a tiny, skinny girl. Bald men want women with extravagant hair or something (George Costansa comes to mind). Comm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:59 PM
16

I have never regretted leaving someone who wasn’t making me happy, NEVER! You will be so much better without all that crap, I promise you. Early 30s is still very young, you are not late for a new start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:45 PM
6

One of the things I remember from my teenage years is my (about 10 years older) neighbor passing me with his friend and just pointed a finger at me saying “she will be gorgeous when she grows up.” Short 2 second eye contact and they continue talking to each other about soccer or something. For some reason, I still gladly remember that moment. He just saw me as a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:49 PM
63

I was wise enough to do FaceTime before meeting- it’s a must! This guy pushed while chatting how “he is so funny” how he “has a great personality” and it was till the point it was obvious he was trying to steer me in that direction for some suspicious reason. Sure enough, FaceTime and…. Guy is at least 50lbs heavier, with a beard, put a hat on to hide he was bald now. Aged terrible from probably refusing to use sunscreen. His height was probably a lie too. To be honest, he wasn’t funny, he did n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:11 PM
127

One popular writer, now deceased, said “As a bachelorette, I was hiding I could cook because I did not want anyone marrying me out of primitive instincts.” (It may sound a bit off because it’s translated by me lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:24 PM
60

One guy, first date, suggested to “split it” by him paying the bill, and me covering the tip. “Sorry, I don’t carry cash with me”, left, blocked and deleted. That’s after him blowing smoke up his butt the entire time how he is so successful. Yeah, right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:15 PM
46

Would that mean that “pickmeisha” flare that I see occasionally is somewhat degrading? Or is that work in progress sort of thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:21 PM
14

It’s a joke he took from the internet “if you don’t remember her name the next morning, take her to Starbucks”. Poor attempt to be cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 11:35 AM
3

Omg… I regret looking at the comments lol bunch of losers being bitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:52 PM
28

Her movie Perfect on Paper is on Netflix and it got my blood boiling. Good educational watch though. **Good on Paper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:50 AM
48

This is what helped me through my worst breakups- imagining all the annoying, low-effort crap other girl is going to deal with. Sadness over breakup quickly moved to “thank god that’s not my problem anymore.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:01 PM
39

My last long term boyfriend hated cats. We didn’t live together, and whenever I would say “I want to get a cat” he would blow up “NOOO!! I hate them! NO!” Etc. I would laugh if it off and not get a cat. I wasn’t even thinking much about his reaction until he said “you would have a pet and wouldn’t be able to come over my place over the weekends” and that had me realize… I was the one driving to his place (1h away) because he always had that excuse “I can’t leave my dogs alone”. That further made…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:37 AM
10

Back when I was renting, maintenance didn’t do 24h notice ahead of coming in. Instead, they just randomly showed up. I heard a nock on my door and decided to ignore it because I was butt naked- just got out of the shower, going through my drawers looking for undies. Then I heard the key turning and the door opened. I yelled so loud “I’m not fucking dressed!!” They backed out and came back 10 minutes later. Oh I was so pissed but didn’t do anything since my life experience thought me I wouldn’t b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:46 PM
12

I will pick just one! His mom didn’t like me, so he let her insult me in front of him saying how he was handsome, smart, so much better than me, and I was a dumb whore and “ HE HAS MUCH BETTER FITURE WITHOUT ME”. 9 years after the breakup and no contact, I got to test his emergency biopsy- aggressive cancer. He died just 2 months after that at age 36. Never married though, I don’t even think he had a girlfriend after me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:44 PM
92

I got that too!! “You’re fat”, meanwhile I’m 5’8” 120lbs trying to gain weight. Oh, and one scrote that used to work in the same building as me asked me out, and I declined. He then tried to use that “did you gained weight” neg the very next day. I acted like he complimented me, “oh I sure hope so, I’ve been trying for years”. I still remember his dumbfounded face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:35 PM
15

As soon as I see a guy is fallowing that idiot on Ig, instantly I lose all interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:07 PM
26

Unfortunately, I went out with some complete scrote who said angrily how his twin brother got married because he was “tricked”. A girl he was sleeping with got pregnant, and he married her because “he is such a nice guy and wanted to do the right thing”. He wasn’t raped, he willingly did not wrap it, but yeah, poor nice guy got so tricked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:57 PM
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The thing with lawyers that I have noticed is that alcoholism is very common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:30 AM
21

I’ve never liked that show. There is nothing in it that I find appealing. Ok, maybe shoes, I like wearing nice shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:12 PM
111

“It’s average” lol Nuh it’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:32 AM
11

Ugh, the limp dick, gummy worm… This guy I was seeing thought if it was completely dark and he didn’t let me put my hand on his penis I wouldn’t notice it was limp. I tried to address the issue and first he denied it was limp (umm, I know how a hard one feels like honey), then the condom was the problem, it was tight, feels less intense… then he switched to me not being inspirational enough. LOL! Nuh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:11 PM
86

With an ED. Even if young women could get over their beer bellies, bald heads, hairy backs… they definitely would not enjoy a limp dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:49 PM
28

I had a guy tell me his house was a mess because “he lived alone”…. Meaning, if he lived with a woman, it would be clean because there would be someone to clean after him. He did not see anything wrong with his logic. My response was “you need a mother? Are you a child? You just wrapped yourself in a huge red flag.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:16 PM
17

Yes. It’s way too obvious he is making “this is how you sound” mockery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:05 PM
14

I dated a guy who had some serious thick criminal file but I could not find anything because he (mentioned it later) paid someone to spam the google when googling his name so the bad info don’t come out. ??? I still do not know why he still had his chiropractor license up to date but wasn’t practicing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:39 PM
15

One of the most gorgeous woman ever said “What did I have from my beauty? Nothing. Men had most use from it because they got to enjoy it, not me.” Something like that when translated to English. She talked how men get more manipulative and would go very low just to trick her into having sex with her. Then of course, brag about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:12 PM
8

“Are you one of those people who never drink?” “Yes. Are you one of those lawyers who are alcoholics?” “Haha I like to go out and drink often, yes” Me- unmatched
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:05 PM
8

My last guy had some ED problems, which is totally something that should be addressed with a doctor. I gave him 3 tries, it was the same- penis 60% up and that’s me being generous. He tried to gaslight me that it was 100% up like I wasn’t present for the intercourses. Then switched to condoms were tight, me not being ‘inspirational’. Every possible excuse just not to admit that he needs to seek medical advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:21 PM
14

I’ve decided to use this account ONLY on FDS. Once, someone asked for recommendations for subreddits that boost women’s confidence etc, and I recommended FDS. Dear lord! Someone even said “FDS actually hates women and feminism, it’s a toxic sub full of hate…” I was threatened to be banned, and it was on some women’s only subreddit. The insanity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:24 AM
1

One of my personal experiences- a guy pushed for making out, massages, touching on our FIRST DATE. I said I wasn’t doing hookups nor I felt comfortable doing anything physical before getting to know him. His tactic was to ghost me for 7 days then answer with “Wait, omg, I thought I answered to this. I’m so sorry! Bla bla” To me, it looked like he was trying to cause some reaction in me to be like “omg, I better give in next time he asks for it or he will just move on”. Instead, I acted cool sayi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:35 PM
7

One of my former friends fell for that story “I nEeD to SLeeP WitH a WoMan BeForE I kNow wE Are a MatCh”. He dropped her like a hot potato after they had slept. I told her... she didn’t listen...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 09:15 PM
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