Be aware of “holiday daters” looking for an entertainment while on vacation.

Maingurl · 2021-12-27T16:25:58+00:00

Aka I'm here until the 2nd If you wanna fuck

ItsFreezen · 2021-12-27T17:08:03+00:00

I've come across guys who said they're planning on moving to a different country while looking for dates. I don't get this stupid male logic.

DuchessDurag · 2021-12-27T19:53:50+00:00

I live in a transient town, and a lot of online dating profiles sound like the post. As women we have to read between the lines and treat Every man online with discernment.

These types of profiles are fantasy. They create a false sense of intimacy and romance in a urgency sense.

I made a scrote mad when I refused to jump up and down for him just cause he had a “quick” trip in my city 😂 He made out that he was more attractive than he was. When I pointed out that my area already has enough attractive men he was in shock 😂

Truly If things are meant to be there’s no need to rush anything even if a man is passing through where you live.

Go on dates with them if you want but don’t sleep with them.

Sage_Planter · 2021-12-27T18:31:22+00:00

I'm not a tour guide, a local hot spot, or a tourist attraction.

I don't entertain men who are "just visiting" or "in town until [date]."

The audacity to expect some woman to show you around, fuck you, and whatnot.

candyfox84 · 2021-12-27T16:38:37+00:00

You just know he's married & using a fake name.

Spittens · 2021-12-27T19:38:42+00:00

Ah yes, the old 'Tour-guide fuck-buddy' ploy. Either that's what they're looking for, or they're pretending to be looking for that so there won't be any long-term expectations when they have to go back to the wife & kids.

vbych76 · 2021-12-27T18:46:58+00:00

Oh my, oh my, a "visitor". No woman would miss the opportunity of having meaningless $ex with someone, she doesn't know or care about, that could also be potentially dangerous or be ridden with STDs. And ofc no orgasms either. What are we, I dare to ask? Men?

otter_bott · 2021-12-27T17:02:19+00:00

Translation - convo 1: “Fortunately for me I’ve got two weeks away from (wife / gf / real life) to fuck as many different women as possible with no pressure for commitment or decency, but let’s pretend I care about your feelings and throw in an ‘us.’”

Convo 2: “This is a minute fraction of disclosure intended to set you at ease to distract you from the larger and more relevant fact that I am married with kids.”

Professional-Ad-457 · 2021-12-27T16:42:37+00:00

When a guy writes ‘full disclosure’ he knows he’s being shady

greenwalrus1999 · 2021-12-28T02:46:37+00:00

LMAO I cannot stand these assholes. When I was in college in NYC, it seemed like half the people on the apps were tourists trying to get laid. Absolutely pathetic and a complete waste of time.

It's also hilarious to see the ones who bought Tinder plus to change their location and plop themselves in your results while visibly, according to their profile, actually being 3,000 miles away. The desperation is unreal.

The fact that so many of them use the 'here for a good time, not a long time' bio knowing how trite, gross, basic, and overused it is really speaks to the kind of people they are.

riseaboveagain · 2021-12-27T18:37:45+00:00

It’s a lie. They aren’t actually “just visiting”. These are locals who are either married, or use travel as a handy excuse to fuck and duck, so you don’t expect any kind of relationship with them.

BrightIdeaGenerator · 2021-12-27T16:31:27+00:00

"Well, you're welcome to take me out in April after you've settled in, if I'm still available. " the 'if I'm still available' is key. That's only if you ACTUALLY want to go out with this guy, like to keep in reserve and fill out your roster. I wouldn't put my hopes in him. Otherwise, block and delete.

Edit: Grammer.

ErikaNaumann · 2021-12-28T07:48:33+00:00

I used to live in a popular turistic city, and I absolutely despised summers. The amount of dudes wanting a "holiday girlfriend experience" was dauting.

I avoided them like the plague.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2021-12-28T09:19:42+00:00

Oh gosh, yes. I had those but I also had a guy try to book me in for a date a particular night… I couldn’t do that night, so I suggested another night, turns out he was moving states the. Next. Day. My friend at the time was like “well what’s his point in seeing you? He must be really keen and doesn’t want to miss out…” … giiirlll haha.

NoMoreLVM · 2021-12-28T11:16:59+00:00

I HATE this shit so much. I see so many guys “looking for a guide” in my city and some men will match knowing that they don’t live there and don’t reveal it until you’re talking. Such entitlement

cookiemonstergirls · 2021-12-29T04:35:40+00:00

So he wants a free escort service?

esthermaniii · 2021-12-29T18:32:22+00:00

I hate these types of men. I’ve encountered many when I was on OLD.

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Title	Be aware of “holiday daters” looking for an entertainment while on vacation.
Author	AmeliaEmiliaEmma
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Comments	32
Date	December 27, 2021 4:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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