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FIELD REPORTAmilliBee/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 06:58 PM
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FIELD REPORTAmilliBee/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 12:44 AM
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OFF TOPICAmilliBee/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 07:23 PM
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DISCUSSIONAmilliBee/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 10:57 PM
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OFF TOPICAmilliBee/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 04:59 PM
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ADVICEAmilliBee/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 12:10 AM
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ADVICEAmilliBee/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 09:10 PM
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I think you should read through some more highlighted posts on this sub. It might help your understanding of how RPW think/give thoughts for this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 11:39 PM
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This this THIS. So many times I just leave threads because it's such a "he's the worst dump him you're a prize does he provide if not leave him." To me it's like they see the surface level goodness of RPW and latch on to something without realizing you don't get a good captain without being a good first mate. They want leader men while they keep their roster open. It's completely not how I understand RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 10:48 PM
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If that is what works for you that's great. This is what works for me and in letting my man lead in our relationship. I'm a first mate, not a captain, so I think it's only natural to not have too many cooks in the kitchen when somethings happening (STFU-ing) I see it as me respecting him. I hope you get what you want out of situations where you do things how you think is best.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/24 12:15 AM
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Thank you so much!!! 💓
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 09:02 PM
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This is good insight. It's easy during daring before marriage to forget that this man is not your husband (maybe, yet). Balancing being gracious and being self-sufficient is a delicate dance and you gave great solutions.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 05:43 PM
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You're so welcome I wish you the best on your journey. Remember not to be too hard on yourself! You're learning. And if you can only focus on one thing at a time to not get disheartened that's OK. From the start of my almost 3 year relationship to now I've grown to be way more feminine a little bit at a time. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 05:37 PM
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Not depending on a man and accepting things from a man are different I had to learn. Depending is "I can't pay my rent unless you send me money." Or "I won't eat unless you buy me food." Accepting is he knows you can do for yourself, and he wants to help you and make life easier. It's like a gift. For example I work to sustain myself. My boyfriend works to provide for US. I don't need him in order to survive. But I love to accept his help. I hope this helps.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 05:32 PM
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I'd say start accepting help. It's hard, I was raised by a working independent mother who even now supports her husband. However I just started saying yes when men offered their help or service. It's hard at first and I even felt like a burden or I can do this myself. It gets easier with time. Find hobbies you enjoy (even gaming can be a feminine hobby!) Spend time really being the "main character" in the hobby. Allow yourself to feel and be vulnerable about it. If something makes you giggle to …
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 05:16 PM
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Completely agree. I was very similar. Bought my ex weed. Paid both our half of rent. He'd ask me to go out with him and his friends because I'd pay for him. Supported him while working and coming home to him playing video games. Even helped him try to get a job which ultimately fell through because he failed the drug test (I didn't buy him weed, he mooched off his friend when I wasn't around). Eventually HE broke up with ME. And it was the best thing he ever did for our relationship. My current …
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 12:13 PM
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Try online thrifting! I just got 3 high quality skirts that are cute and flowers for thrifting prices + 40% off. They always have deals/offers.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 11:57 AM
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Exactly! And this is true for all men not just partners. If your father is helping you move the same would apply. I think it's respect for their manhood. Of course it's easy not to realize but effective when you do.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 11:42 AM
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It's been years of practice. Early on I did a lot of "but I think..." and I visibly saw how it grated on my boyfriend. That look of being shut down and dissapointed helped me avoid it at all costs. I do a thing where I swallow like I'm swallowing the thought and pray "God soften my heart please." If you're not religious I'm sure something similar could help.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 05:09 AM
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I'm glad that came through. I really did debate posting this, so I understand the distaste
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 01:31 AM
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I wasn't saying I'm better I'm juxtaposing. I think she is sweet, cares for her son, and wants to help. She said so. I'm using an example to explain the effects. I don't mean to say "I'm better" as I can never replace his mom. I didn't say she was a headache. I said she's sweet. I did argue with myself wether I should post this or not. In the end I decided the lesson was worth sharing. If I'm wrong I accept that on the hand. I'm only human and I pray God's forgiveness daily. This may be on the l…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 01:03 AM
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Yes! Ego and support. They want to feel in control from their sense of wanting to provide. To seem like they're good enough. I'm more than happy to help him feel that way.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 12:59 AM
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Absolutely not okay with working more or earning more. I like an ambitious man with drive. I'm lucky my person likes to work and wants to provide so I can stay home. We aren't there yet, so I do work. However I work to support myself to ease burden until he gets to that point. And he works to provide for us and build to that point. He had a talk with me about how he likes to work and will work 8 hour days (or 10) when we have a family. It turned me on! I love a man that loves to work and provide…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 12:53 AM
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Just last night, my boyfriend was the most loving and sweet and doting he's been in our entire relationship. He kept saying how much he loves me and how our relationship just keeps getting better over almost the 3 years we've been together. He said he likes how I let him be the dominant one. He was nervous in the start but the longer we're together and I show appreciation for when he does take lead and control and tell him I like it he's gotten happier, more loving, and more comfortable. It's al…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 09:51 PM
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Yes. And a joke about a song. I hope it's not taken too seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/24 11:02 PM
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Maybe it's my dark humor. After all, I make jokes about my dad having passed. I found humor in the situation, which I can admit can be extremely inappropriate. So I apologize if this rubbed you the wrong way. That wasn't my intention.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 08:56 PM
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I agree!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 08:55 PM
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Yes, I'm sure there is so much going on behind closed doors. This was just an off handed jojob. For all we know, she DOES cook and clean. We don't know their personal lives, just that her relationship was not ideal.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 08:54 PM
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I will definitely be keeping this in mind come Fall/Winter. It's funny, I grew up reading (all) the Clique books and remember the oatmeal thermos, yet never thought of its convince until reading your comment XD Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 10:55 PM
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I never even thought of this! Y'all are really helping me out here. With all these great suggestions, it feels silly I was drawing a blank, but I am grateful nonetheless. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 10:23 PM
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This is a good point. He does eat cold leftovers. I think in times when I didn't prepare enough time in advance for a meal, leftovers are a good choice as well! Helps me not stress too too much. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 10:21 PM
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I love that. She really put the old saying to the test, haha. I'm going to check out that link, but before I do, I'd like to ask if you have any sushi recipes or if you are thinking store bought? He does really like sushi, so I think that's a great idea. Or even rice balls/onigiri! This is giving me so many ideas. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 10:20 PM
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I didn't know these existed! What a great idea! His birthday is coming up, I could see this being apart of his gift.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 10:17 PM
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I screenshotted this! Such good ideas. I love the adult lunchable idea. He does like salad as well. Thank you so much for helping me out.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 10:17 PM
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OK. I appreciate you assuming the best in OP'S partner. Now, let's assume the opposite. He apologized, yet he stays out late every night with no updates. He still hides his phone and is sly about his interactions with people. I'd say OP would be fair to say he apologized, but it isn't changing or, as OP put it, getting help. It could be that she is trying to fix things, and his apology was empty based on his actions. But I don't know the situation. You don't, either. So I think it's unwise to as…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 08:00 PM
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I think you're making a lot of assumptions about a very vague post. It feels personal. Do you have information we don't?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 07:51 PM
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I disagree with this. It may not be as extreme as prison, but something like going to therapy may do the person well. Or some other way that the guilty party is showing that they are trying to save the relationship that they ruined. Of course the trust isn't there. They broke it. I'm not sure what you're saying with your comment. Would you care to elaborate on what you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 01:00 PM
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How long have you been engaged? Your most recent Tinder post is fairly new...is your fiancé someone who is okay with that?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 01:10 AM
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I don't completely agree with this. My boyfriend and I discussed our timelines. He believes 3 years is the proper waiting period (all of his previous relationships cheated on him by that time period, so I think he's cautious). However, that doesn't mean he isn't into me. We talk about marriage. He's planning the music set he wants to do at our wedding. Asks me about if his sister will be in my wedding party. He's asked me about what I prefer for proposals and such. He talks about our future toge…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 08:30 PM
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My boyfriend loves saying things that fluster me and make me shy. Mostly PG things like you are the most beautiful women inside and out. He likes the reactions it gets out of me. So, in my opinion, guys like nervousness. As long as it's not a permanent state of being. Guys also value confidence.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 12:14 AM
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No, I don't wear Nike or eat Tyson, but that's beside the point. I'm not trying to be an SJW. I'm just saying there are better, more sustainable options. I'd be disappointed in myself if I didn't bring up those options. I'm not saying you're evil or wrong, as that's not my place. I'm just saying that you can be beautiful on a budget without investing in shops like Shein. (I do have a smartphone, though LOL)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 12:21 PM
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I'm not trying to be "better than thou" ...it's just better options. ThredUp is my favorite. I got a nearly new Levi jacket for $10. As for Shein (besides the obvious), it's more affordable, but it's cheap clothes. They snag, tear, ornget holes so quickly it becomes not even worth the money. In my experience, at least. But again, this is my opinion...that I'm sharing on my smartphone 😉😅
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 12:18 PM
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I find our men want to help us and, yes, solve our issues. Being honest and vulnerable opens up that opportunity (even if the issue stems from something the man has done). And you're right! Nothing is more feminine than being vulnerable, open, and honest about your emotions and feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 10:06 PM
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I'd recommend that you please don't shop Shein. Thrift or online thrift like ThredUp instead. Or splurge on stores like Lulu's or Altar'd State. Shein is one of the worst options, in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 10:01 PM
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I don't know how you feel about using apps, but I have used Bumble BFF to find friends local to me and friends who have the same values. We aren't the same people, but we have amazing conversations and are there for each other.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 07:56 PM
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What a good idea! I will put together a wardrobe and share it with you! But a tip that I use (I forget where I heard it) is to get dressed and have 5 points or higher. Each article of clothing gets assigned a point value. So a plain t-shirt may be 1 point. A flowy skirt may be 2 points. Together, that's 3 points. Jewelry adds points. Accessories add points. I dont wear shoes at home, but if you're going out shoes add points as well. I try never to be less than a 5 and strive to be a 6 on most da…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 07:49 PM
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Yes! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 08:15 PM
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This is absolutely inspiring! I'm currently doing my own deep dive, and this gives me motivation to keep going. I'm so overjoyed for you and your marriage! Thank you for sharing this story.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/23 10:21 PM
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I have so many that vary greatly! I love to bake, garden, read, and draw. I also enjoy video games and camping/hiking. I love advancing my yoga practice, although I don't do it as much as I'd like. I like anime and anything Sherlock Holmes related! I'm so glad you asked this, I enjoy talking about my hobbies!
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 09:33 PM
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This brings me back to my cheerleading days...if you chose to wear shorter skirts, I think that is the best option
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 07:18 PM
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How do you keep cool in the hot months?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 07:17 PM
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Have you considered getting things altered/tailored? It's not in the budget for everyone, so maybe you could invest in a sewing machine and learn yourself? I don't know for sure how that works as I don't sew or anything like that, but it seems like a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:23 AM
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I'm right there with you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:21 AM
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And I am enjoying the journey!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:19 AM
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I agree completely!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:18 AM
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I am small... not quite petite but 5'4 and thin. I'm not bust-y (large A cup/small B cup), and my hips have only recently gotten wider than my waist. Short skirts do look good on me...I just don't like them on me anymore. I've started to believe that as you get older, changing your dress style is inevitable as you mature. So it's not ALL about the clothes, yes, but the clothes play a part. I acknowledge that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:17 AM
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Hey, if it's 90+ degrees out, you can't keep me from grabbing a pair of shorts!! Dressing appropriately for the season is just as important in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:13 AM
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Thrift stores are your friend for sure! Trying to find good modest clothing in popular fashion places is a little difficult. Outside of thrifting, I also love the store Altar'd State. They have some shorter stuff, but a lot of REALLY cute more understated things as well.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:10 AM
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After hitting my late twenties, I feel like dressing like a teenager doesn't really fit who I am anymore. Also, I've been influenced by other women who dress more modestly. I find it elegant and beautiful. I especially like dressing modestly around my partner because he is the only one who knows what's hiding underneath! That can be so fun sometimes!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 12:08 AM
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Yes, I mean mini skirts. Mid thigh or higher. My business skirts are typically knee length, and I think that's totally fine, and I feel confident and comfortable in them! I appreciate the top advice as well. I am not abundantly blessed in the chest area, but I sometimes have problems with tops.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 03:03 AM
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Thank you, and happy cake day!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 12:37 AM
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That's a great point! It's great that you get an excuse (a beautiful one at that) to buy dresses!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:11 PM
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I totally get this! When I was in college, I liked dressing "hot" and getting compliments from men and women about how good I looked. It's been a transition for me, and I've done it on my own. My thoughts do get solidified in moments like this past Valentine's Day. My boyfriend and I decided last minute to pick each other's clothes out. From underwear to jacket. He picked lingere for underwear but a big baggy turtleneck sweater and jeans for clothes. He said when he first saw me in that sweater,…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:17 PM
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