| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | No matter your success, do not doubt RP because AWALT | Meta | AnEyeForAnAye | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | No matter how good you think the girl is, remember the basics: AWALT | Meta | AnEyeForAnAye | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | What made you decide to change from a beta cuck to what you are now? | AnEyeForAnAye | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 06:09 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | LTR told me I can go fuck other girlsThe first step to freedom is realising you are a slave. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Dudes who have been cheated on, did she twist it to be your fault or did she take responsobility?Yup. But from experience I think learning this the hard way is a gift really. No way back to the blue pilled world unlike without experience you can slowly dip back into the blue pill mentality | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Dudes who have been cheated on, did she twist it to be your fault or did she take responsobility?i thought I had a unicorn. AWALT of course.. of course. But the words 'well it was kinda your fault too' were hilarious but not inaccurate I suppose. Got lazy/no ambition/became too beta bux/ and lost my fitness so the 'it was also your fault while retarded sure, it does have some merit. It is as if they are saying 'you weren't keeping/raising your SMV and now you're beneath me'. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Too much dread?It is up to you to decide if it's 'worth' to continue. but just know as soon as you agree to the 'demands ( lol )' then it's pretty much game over and a matter of time really. Like Patrice O'neal said and i'm paraphrasing here but : The way you go after a woman to fuck her right? that drive to smash right? That's the kind of drive they have to pussiFY you my man. They consciously or unconsciously are trying to make you into a little bitch. And once that happens it's game over. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | I failed at everything , need some guidanceThis happened when you're 21? wow you lucky cunt I know now it may not seem like it ( trust me I'm talking from a very 'somewhat' similar experience ), but this is such a good thing that what ever happened, happened WHEN you are 21 and not 31. And no matter what, no matter how fucking unfair the situation may get, always look at it from a perspective AS IF it was your fault ( even if it wasn't ). That way you will be able to more clearly see the behaviour patterns that caused you to pop up in … | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 02:39 PM |
| 21 | LTR cheated. Need advice.OP. I got cheated by a 4LTR that I helped so much in those 4 years and was planning on building a life together. Just like that POOF. These 2 months after have been THE BEST of my last 4 Years Jesus fuck..... trust me you will have low days but overall the amount of time and SMV increase in these 2 months is making me regret the 4 years of waste lol | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 10:56 AM |
| 15 | Don't be a haterOne mistake reading that book is actuslly looking at the laws like lessons. Rather extrapolate the behaviours of the people Involved in each scenario ; basically see what actions can have what consequences. Its not that knowing those laws will make you able to pull off that type of shit, rather knowing those laws will allow you to not be a victim to those games. Good luck | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/19 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Don't be a haterI think this reminder is good from time to time, especially for people who have swallowed the pill but have not internalized it. Hating people "just because " is retarded and you should deffinetly strive to be a "decent " person. But let's not kid ourselves. This is 2019. Most people are so fucked up where men are girls women are - I was gonna say boys but that's a bit too much. There are good on both male and female sides sure, but when you have the unfortunate "pleasure" of traveling on a publ… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/19 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Non TRP book recommendationI would suggest at some point or the other, pick up " virus of the mind " | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Being friends with womenIt's hard but just so you know, as long as you Interact with her - especially physical, this thinking of her will never stop. And you gotta be careful, our brains work in such a way that if you think about "x" all the time, you're just strengthening those neural pathways so you'll yhink about that topic more often ; ESPECIALLY if you get an emotional kick from it - doesn't matter if it's positive or negative. You can't " stop" to think about a " thing ", rather like you say gym helps, thats beca… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Being friends with womenDude she's an x for a reason. I was in a similar boat somewhat. She calls you up for attention like you would call up for a booty call. Idk your particular situation but you need to cut her off or else this will never stop. She is as good as dead to you - is the mentality you need to start practicing. It sounds to me that if she asked you to spend sometime together to with a potential hook up you'd drop everything and do it. You are torturing yourself for no reason my man. You're bettee than thi… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Being friends with womenHow long has the " Still thinking about " been going on ? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 04:06 PM |
| 15 | Is it bad that I actually love the post-nut clarity? I like that I briefly don't want women anymoreIt means when your happiness/ validation/ drive etc comes from something other than immediate gratification like sex, or the NEED to be with a woman for psychological or physical reasons. Basically once you put pussy off the pedestal FOR REAL, you do have that mental clarity almost all the time when it comes to women. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 10:25 PM |
| 3 | How to overcome these beliefs?And it is very much appreciated that you take the valuable time to spoon feed the retards that would otherwise get fucked up somewhere down the line ( including myself of course ) | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | 2nd time this week that I dream about my Oneitis with her bf and I can't sleepHope you're doing better now brother | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | 2nd time this week that I dream about my Oneitis with her bf and I can't sleepWrite. I won't get into detail and of course many would disagree ( and this is no place for this debate ) but a good way to look at dreams is not that they are random ( if they are really random you're schizophrenic) but rather from all the stimuli that are in your head you are "thinking" in your sleep ( dreaming ). And the images you see are really your thoughts without the daily mental blocks and rationale; and they really can be completely fucking random from looking at them objectively but m… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Self Love & it’s ImportanceI agree to a degree. There is a limit of stress you're able to take at anytime. Having the MAX STRESS plus a LITTLE extra is a good way to grow REALLY fast. Having too much stress than you can handle can hinder you. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | i need serious help, either that or i just need to accept myselfYou need to read and think about the type of philosophy you want to live by. I know it doesn't give you much to go on but its just too much to get into. Therapy is a good option too if nothing else works . I lied a lot. Like A LOT. My value as a man was very low, And from an early age I learned to manipulate people; that evolved to lying about any little shit which would sound cool or funny or ANYTHING ehich would raise my perceived value. That evolved further to just lying as a HABBIT. But you … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Is it REALLY possible to turn your life around?While he does have more time, you also have a good chunk of it left man. Imagine you realised this type of thinking at 62.. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 09:06 PM |
| 3 | LTR & I have a cellphone account togetherOneitis is a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Father beats up LTR for finding out she's dating me,and is being overprotective,a jerk,won't even let her hang around boys.Our inner betas tell us that we should then rescue her from the claws of her family and be her hero I think this pill is one of the hardest to fully swallow for people when they discover TRP. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Father beats up LTR for finding out she's dating me,and is being overprotective,a jerk,won't even let her hang around boys.'Later on you will notice red flags' 100 fucking percent. OP to me it sounds like he believes he found a 'unicorn'; you haven't OP . This is a good advice before you get into a LTR with a vetted female = stop thinking with your dick. One thing for by-readers I'll mention if people are in new LTRs or so, and this is a quote more or less by Patrice: 'The most you can love a girl is 90%. THE ABSOLUTE MOST. Because if something happens ( very likely ) you have at least 10% for yourself left' W… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Planning on breaking up with LTR, how do I get out of this impending doom of loneliness?I have been focusing on work to get a house ( I did ) for last 4 year's. During that time I was with my ltr living together. And now we are no longer a thing. So I understand your thinking of affection of anytime, trust me. This is the perfect opportunity for you. FEEL that lonelyness. You might be sad for a day or a week. Dude for fucks sake there are people who lose their whole families to accidents and have to move on. Stop being a modern age beta. Now instead of talking for hours for no reas… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 04:42 PM |
| 7 | How to do a successful monk mode?What ever you " don't feel like doing " is pretty much an indicator that you should do that. As a general rule of course. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 04:34 PM |
| 14 | How do I make what I say more persuasive?These sort of comments are greatly appreciated by many here. Thanks for taking the time | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | The value of learning more and advancing?Read all of the side bar. There are many resources that redirects you to videos and other reading material. You decide what you want to dig deeper in. Every piece of info is important | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 08:11 AM |
| 2 | The value of learning more and advancing?You answered your own question in the first 8 words of this post. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 10:03 PM |
| 8 | Former "catholic" girl boasts cucking her husbandLol you know I really doubt we will learn "THIS" time. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/19 04:15 PM |
| 40 | Unmarried 35-year-old woman reflects on her adventurous life of fun & travel : "This woman’s .. life plan is that she chose whatever made her feel good from age 18-35+, and now wants to enter into a marriage..."The fun part I meant as sarcasm, it will be very ugly for a LOT of people | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/19 08:24 PM |
| 201 | Unmarried 35-year-old woman reflects on her adventurous life of fun & travel : "This woman’s .. life plan is that she chose whatever made her feel good from age 18-35+, and now wants to enter into a marriage..."You know, the next few decades are going to be really fucking fun. It's literally the frog in the boiling water. Where the boiling water is the time and the frog is... well, fucking everything. From the financial system, to the male-female 'relationships'. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety AttacksDo you like coffee for the taste or the effects ? If the latter get some yerba mate. It does take like dog shit though imo. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 12:37 PM |
| 2 | What red pill facts surprised you the most?The only movie that started off as a fiction, and ended up being a documentary. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What red pill facts surprised you the most?if the truth hurts, get some lube. but if you use lube to reduce the pain of truth, you'll just get fucked longer anyway. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety AttacksHow is your sleep recently ? If this is one off then eh. If this starts to become a " habit " obviously first it's the usual : exercise , eat , sleep. If still persists try ashwaghanda and L-theanine. If STILL persists then it's something you need to dig deeper with a professional. From experience, anxiety is like a snowball. You feel it , tend to dwell on it and that makes it grow -> start cycle again. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 05:25 PM |
| 60 | Modern Women "I’ve Had Sex With Well Over 100 Men, but That Does Not Define me as a Slut"As patrice oneal once said: She sucked a 100 dicks and that's not impressive. Why ? Because she easily could have sucked a 1000. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/19 11:47 AM |
| 3 | I decided not to care whatsoever...Dear diary... | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 10:17 AM |
| 7 | I get insanely bored on my datesIt sounds like a case of redpilled with bluepilled goals. Speaking from experience. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Do any recovering Beta Males come to despise your past self?Not necessarily. I agree with your general idea, but from my pov I knew about trp, used it for blue pill goals < once achieved I went back into being a beta as my " goals " we're "done". And while slowly getting burned, and seeing the burning, I kept ignoring the lessons of TRP while being wilfully blind. Basically a regret of a purple pill if you like. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Do any recovering Beta Males come to despise your past self?what if you had the tools, KNEW that you should use them but decided to be wilfully ignorant. Do you think a feeling of despise would weigh heavier on your shoulders? | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How can a young guy transform himself into a masculine man and find his purpose in life?Lietuvis ? First read the sidebar. If you have, then read it again. Also I would recommend use the search option on here and TRP reddit as this question gets asked every week - you might get some sort of ideas where to look next. This is a type of question where only you will be able to answer it, no one else. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I give in about the wedding ?100% agree but this is less of a burning and more like a complete hydrogen bomb drop waiting to happen. Many don't recover from it. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Feeling very empty and missionless - is there a fix? Therapy?ok so your life is going so well that you feel fucked up from your OP. and this is the exact situation where a lot of people are stuck at= they want to do x; but if they do x then its going to completely fuck up y, and if y is fucked up they might be able to do x for long. Again this is a question where unfortunately only you can answer to yourself. It might take you years or decades. MAYBE you will never find the answer ( and that shit can weigh on you heavy ), but it is the act of us moving … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Feeling very empty and missionless - is there a fix? Therapy?if you died RIGHT now. What would be your BIGGEST regret? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Feeling very empty and missionless - is there a fix? Therapy?I don't have an answer to you and most won't on this type of topic. But as you're thinking about this at your age you are much further in figuring out the meaning than most your peers. try to reverse engineer even a short term meaning. Think about where you want to be in 10 years lets say ( pulling numbers out my ass here): 1- Where you wanna be in 10 years? high detail 2- Where you are going to be in 10 years if you continue to do what you're doing right now. 3- Where could you end up in 10 y… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Can't stop thinking about my ex since I ran into her at a restaurant last week. Not sure what to do?Yes. Until you try it and see the difference for yourself, it does seem like that type of meditation or in general - it's 'eh' We train our body in gyms and activities, but most people then just don't bother with the mind. Sure reading a book or learning a skill does train your mind, but meditation is a completely different 'type' of exercise for your mind. Another exercise to do which trains your memory recall hardcore over time is this. Every time you go to bed, while trying to fall asleep rem… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Can't stop thinking about my ex since I ran into her at a restaurant last week. Not sure what to do?Instead of living in the past, and day dreaming about the future, try to discipline yourself yourself to live and act on the present. It's actually a lot harder than people think and takes time to learn but once you do, these sort of situations will be rare and very short lived if they do come about. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 12:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys do with your free time after work?It sounds to me like you need hobby / goal. If you don't know where to start just do anything. Go biking -don't like it? Try Ice skating - don't like it? Etc. I mean, do you plan working where you work all your life ? No ambitions for something ? Become an expert in that ? I mean it is an overused question but only YOU can decide how to spend the currency of time ; and it SHOULD be you who decides. I'm sure you are aware of it and don't really need me or anyone to tell you but : goals. Find a mo… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Holy shit... I think I'm slowly actually getting it.You know its ironic. You think you found literally NAWALT unicorn, and you think " ok this is actually it, no way is this like all the other fake unicorns" But that's just your oxytocin and serotonin and dopamine just tricking your logic that : "if this is LITERALLY a classic SAME scenario , then the results should also be the same ..." Lol.... it was the very EXACT feeling of " ok this is something special" that was a massive red flag that it most certainly wasn't. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Holy shit... I think I'm slowly actually getting it.I find it so god dam weird because it's almost identical situation for me but just that it was a 4 year relationship which turned me Into the beta supreme. Thought atm I'm monk mode and the feeling of loneliness sometimes weights down, I'm glad there are many people waking up slowly to this bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 10:59 AM |
| 6 | The Real Reason You Have One Itis : The Sunk Cost FallacyYeah maybe you're right. Reflecting up on it, it wasn't oneitis, it was more of a non existent abundance mentality making me think this is the best I can do. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/19 06:47 AM |
| 10 | The Real Reason You Have One Itis : The Sunk Cost FallacyI agree with you especially with the " you can be loved for all your faults " delusion. But sunk cost does come in some cases. For instance I put too much effort and just all round beta behaviour into a relationship with the 'fault love' belief, but once the issues started rising I could not see the future with the woman; but I deluded myself that all my efforts are an investment and if I broke up now, all of that would have been for nothing. So it can play a role in certain cases | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/19 10:19 PM |
| 10 | The Real Reason You Have One Itis : The Sunk Cost FallacyGood read, thanks. Pretty much why I stayed with a female that pretty much did nothing on her own and showed a million red flags. I was worried to 'throw it away', after spending god knows how much money and time on her. As the red flags and negatives of the relationship kept floating to the surface, I kept hamstring that if only I put more effort in, there won't be a loss and the return of all my effort will GROW. Of course the ship sunk anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | [Long post] Could someone identify what I want? I've been suffering from an existential crisis for yearsYou're asking for an answer which only you can give yourself. You can get clues from people and opinions but ultimately it is up to you. And to be honest, majority of people living today are living in a state where they fear tomorrow, have guilt about yesterday and most importantly FORGET about today; the fact that you are asking these question means you're further than majority of people currently just being 'alive'. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 08:43 PM |
| 0 | [Long post] Could someone identify what I want? I've been suffering from an existential crisis for yearsFeel free to disregard my opinion but what you came up with is nothing really. Validation. Riches . Legacy . These are things that you want, that's just desire, which isn't necessarily bad but it isn't very meaningful by itself (usually) Meaning isn't something usually that you just think about and go " oh ok I want X in my entire life ". I won't go into all motivational yadayada but if you are REALLY stuck, try looking from an opposite angle. Instead of looking for meaning, start thinking about… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 12:58 AM |
| 3 | I thought I wanted a unicorn.I think for a lot of unplugging, low abundance mentality guys ( was there ) what you said is very dam true and I never realised until the LTR ended: "you are using LTR/girl as coping mechanism, smokescreen for something else you're missing in your life" You don't even see ( I personally ) the level of flaws and non unicorn traits and absolutely crimson flags that show up all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you remember and internalize everything?Thanks for continuing to contribute to RP. I remember you from years back when I lurked and learned but did not internalize and now I have payed the price; but now I move forward again . Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Distracting yourself is the best pill against onitisLook up intermittent fasting. Or even fasting in general. I can't give you medical advice of course but look up zero carb type of eating too. As for nihilism, even if you find no meaning in anything, think of goal to reward ratio. If you really don't have meaning why you stressing? Out of greed or desire what u want in ( time frame here ), then think what u doing now that doesn't get you "it", then what you need to change to get " it " In honesty, I think you just need to read a tad bit more. Do… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Distracting yourself is the best pill against onitisI agree but I would suggest distracting yourself long-term with goals and working on achieving them. Games are a short term band-aid. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 11:50 PM |
| 4 | When money gets in the wayWell can't really tell from this one instance but a potential red flag. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 08:14 PM |
| 11 | Are nofap or noporn are actually good and help with women?People who say its bullshit are usually the ones that don't whack off several times a day and don't watch porn everyday. There are diminishing returns obviously. If you wank everyday for years and watch porn for hours at a day - go cold turkey for 7 days and come back to me. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Might be stupid and obvious, but do you think mental health problems arise because people aren't doing anything with themselves?Good advice . I would just add: prioritize, SIMPLIFY , and then execute. I find this makes it much easier, personally ofcourse | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.I read your post and I was confused as i am completely agreeing with you. My AWALT comment was to the user /u/Velebit who didn't think this view was accurate. Sorry for waisting your time bro lol | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 11:55 AM |
| 1 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.Well if you think every female is a slut from the get go ( and again could be, could be not ) then either you'll have to go full nihilism or just enjoy the ride. Understanding that if you meet a " good girl" that loves you will all her " soul " and all that Disney stuff , but you act with very beta behaviours then reality sooner or later will hit you like a brick wall. AWALT doesn't mean every girl is a slut or will cheat on you. AWALT means every girl can potentially BE a slut and potentially W… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 11:12 AM |
| 2 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.AWALT doeant mean every female has had the same experiences. AWALT means no matter what kind of " unicorn " you have , no matter the type of " good girl" you have, her psychology is the same. EXAMPLE hypergamy, branch swinging, shit tests etc. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 09:26 AM |
| 9 | How to stop falling in love so quickly?!shit. That's a good eye opening for me... | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 08:02 PM |
| 28 | Girlfriend called me on skype to break up after 4 years together. Says she still loves me as a best friend but not attracted to me anymore.Your last two words really struck with me and should with anyone in similar situation. If you really internalize RP, learn and build yourself. You. Won. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 01:03 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend called me on skype to break up after 4 years together. Says she still loves me as a best friend but not attracted to me anymore.If you're trolling you should be more obvious it's trolling as OP might really take your advice lol... | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 12:31 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend called me on skype to break up after 4 years together. Says she still loves me as a best friend but not attracted to me anymore.Hey OP, I am in a literally SAME position as you. 4 years - all the " soul mate" bullshit , spend rest of the life together. I have been focusing on work past 5 years that now I have literally no friends apart from few far away and my work. I have been lurking TRP since 5 years ago and I learned some trusts which allowed me get my ex but I didnt internalize them, making me a beta fuck which in turn this breakup. She went two weeks holiday with her best friend as fucked some dudes- she is VERY in… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Some of guys are missing the pointI agree with your overall message you're trying to give. And while it is annoying, most of them are so dam bluepilled, they are basically women. They need to be TOLD what to do i.e READ THE DAM SIDE BAR for their brains to even register it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 03:52 PM |
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