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You don’t get to dictate exclusivity in a relationship alone. And it seems pretty clear that your gf has chosen non-exclusivity. If you don’t want this to happen again, then the least you could do, and I do mean the least, is to enforce the boundary retroactively by going out with a few women, too. She decided this would not be an exclusive relationship with her actions. Now go enjoy your end of the bargain.
/r/askMRP10/06/25 12:45 PM
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The utter desperation and complete lack of frame. He needs to be his own point of origin instead of being so fragile he lets other people influence his feelings so easily. Weak. Going to the gym fixes all that. Not a popular answer in this cesspool of failure known as Reddit but it’s the cold hard truth.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 01:48 PM
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What’s your age, height, and weight? Be honest. You sound like someone who desperately needs to get into a gym.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 12:52 PM
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I wonder if she will pretend to enjoy the flowers before or after her branch swing plows her on Vday.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/25 12:02 PM
19

Man my "wife" cheated on me with a "friend" too. And several other "friends" saw it unfold and never told me shit. She cheated. Your friends aren't as close as you think they are.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 08:25 PM
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I like the part where she tried to couch it as NBD. She knew she was at high risk of this getting back to him so she placed a value bet before anyone else at the table raised the stakes to all in.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 07:54 PM
9

Can't go forward until you properly diagnose and fix what led to this outcome. You seem to be unwilling to accept this. Also that wasn't an emotional affair. She cheated on you. You should be balls deep in strange right now regardless of if you have officially broken up with her yet.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 07:51 PM
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If you think building an abundance mindset is costly then you'll probably find out how much worse it is to not build one. You say best shape of your life and congrats on that. Arrow in the right direction there. But what does that mean. We're on reddit after all - most of the "men" here weigh almost 300lbs and can barely tie their own shoes. What body fat % are you? Are you building muscle or falling into the cardiobunny trap. Good luck regardless man.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 09:38 PM
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You shouldn't burden a gf with any of your emotional issues. That's what your buddies are for. And immediately glomming onto the first woman you date afterwards is a sign of weakness. If I can pick that up in 5 seconds of skimming your whoa is me post what do you think your gf thinks? You don't sound like you have abundance yet. If you did one woman dissing you would be water off a ducks back. How many times have you been to the gym in the last week? Quit with this weak shit.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 03:18 PM
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There is no "moral high ground" in MRP. Sounds like your use of that is just an excuse to stay stuck in her frame. You should be behaving a certain way regardless of your relationship status. I got cheated on 7 years ago and even now thoroughly enjoy returning the favor on business trips, and MRPs advice for me is the exact same as it is for you and everyone else here. Focus on yourself, have definable goals that better your life, lift, and stfu.
/r/askMRP14/10/24 08:44 PM
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Definitely, but also the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time to plant one is today. He's close to figuring it out.
/r/askMRP30/08/24 12:21 PM
9

"I'm not banging anyone else..........yet." is what she meant to say.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 01:44 PM
7

Best advice in the whole thread right here. Move tf on and stop infantalizing her with that whole "innocent little girl" bullshit. She was always who she is right now.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 01:16 PM
4

A lot of really bad advice on this thread, so great to see someone bring some hard truths to it. Stop video games. Stop porn. Stop pining for some absolute garbage human and learn from your mistakes by making yourself better everyday, OP. Gym, redpill books, and for the love of God stop being a pussy. Turn your anger into resolve.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 03:00 AM
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You're more than halfway there if you are as fit as you claim to be. Plus in this instance the cheating is a good step towards doing wtf you want independent of a frigid wife. You mental game is definitely trash though if you're bothered by 25 year old love letters.A solid MRP dude doesn't care much about a 25 minute old love letter because he has abundance and a plan. First mates are easy to hire and fire for him.
/r/askMRP24/05/24 03:25 PM
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Seems like OP has 2 women interested in him and is filing that under "abundance". Maybe I'm wrong but to me abundance is the ability to have lots more than 2 women want to fuck me. He didn't mention anything about going out and at least attempting catch and release (minimum) on his long work trip. Work trips can be excellent barometers of our progress and SMV. If we're on the right path its a fun adventure of catch and release at a minimum, great no strings attached hotel fuck at best. Or we can…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 03:29 PM
1

What state are you in that requires maintenance for life?
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 03:42 PM
4

Here's a statistical fact for you: women rank 80% of men "below average". Do you really believe you're top 20% when you look pregnant? Get in the fucking gym. Your children are way too young to risk them being around this wicked step mother. GTFO immediately. Improve yourself and do your kids a huge favor and don't move them into another household with a toxic cunt like your hopefully soon to be ex.
/r/askMRP25/09/23 04:30 PM
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I'm six years in and there is no black and white finish line. If implemented correctly the desire for improvement never ends. I'd put that 1 month to one year ratio just as the point where some guys can hold frame more often than they lose it. So a 50.1% threshold, not a 100% one.
/r/askMRP25/06/23 02:57 PM
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I have yet to meet an attractive chick who doesn't slut it up between relationships. The body counts vary but they all do it. This shouldn't come as a surprise.
/r/askMRP08/05/23 06:16 PM
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I only have one follow up question that will determine the advice I give. Where did he finish?
/r/askMRP08/05/23 06:12 PM
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What kind of question is that?
/r/askMRP12/04/23 02:38 PM
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The hugs are to string him along and keep him handing over provisions while she bangs the shit out of a new dude and makes moves behind his back to maximize her divorce rape.
/r/askMRP20/03/23 10:20 PM
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Sure did for me.
/r/askMRP01/02/23 03:25 AM
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All that 300lb skin flapping around on a 190lb frame. Imagine the ego. Also when you tell a woman that you went from 300lbs to 190lbs, they don't want to fuck you because you lost a bunch of weight. They're repulsed by you for allowing yourself to get to 300lb in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/23 01:38 PM
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From someone who isn't an addict - nothing screams I'M AN ADDICT like using inevitable life events (parents dying) as an excuse to drink/get high. WTF did you think - your parents would live forever? Perfectly fine to mourn but you're not a child so quit with the child-level excuses.
/r/askMRP02/01/23 11:16 PM
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You aren't "her" anything. Your actions should be the same whether she is in your life or not. You should be an oak in every difficult situation. Saying you are "her oak" makes it sound performative and disingenuous.
/r/askMRP22/11/22 07:13 PM
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The passive restraint and excuse making - this absolutely reads like a failed attempt at using an alt account. It's not "her oak" it's "an oak" and there is a huge difference between the two.
/r/askMRP21/11/22 04:50 PM
1

Amazing how guys can't see it in themselves. Not sure if it's boiling the frog or ego or both.
/r/askMRP26/10/22 08:58 PM
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Name brands don't do shit for your appearance when it comes to women. It's all about the fit. Are you wearing clothes that accentuate a muscular physique without being too tight? If you don't have your body fat percentage under 15, then that's step zero here. An attractive woman will pick a fit guy in a $7 Nordstrom Rack clearance rack shirt that fits vs some fatso in a baggyass name brand 10 out of 10 times.
/r/askMRP26/10/22 03:55 PM
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Yeah you know how long it takes to re-up the gym membership. Literally 5 minutes out of my day. Who has time for that! Now where did I put that jar of Pringles.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/22 08:11 PM
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Great addition to the thread. I'd like to add "don't go crazy with the porn", since I know that is a bit of an unspoken addiction for teenage males now. I'd argue it's unspoken because the same people who hate MRP are the same ones who want us satiated, demasculinized and weak. Porn addiction furthers the anti-MRP agenda and goals so they tacitly support it by ignoring it.
/r/askMRP10/10/22 06:11 PM
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"Hardcore strong independent feminist".......aka "miserable"
/r/askMRP01/10/22 01:14 PM
3

"Do the things you would do it she died" is one of the best ways to get all of this, at least for me. Outcome independence, taking total responsibility for the household, ngaf, dread.....all of it.
/r/askMRP29/08/22 02:02 AM
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I've done the move where I got rejected at the end of the night and got up and left the house. Just told her I was leaving. Would head over to the local bar with a good mix of young hot girls. I'd text my buddy group and sometimes they'd swing by and we'd play darts and catch up. Sometimes would be solo. I'm sure it came across as butthurt to my wife but idgaf. It's what I wanted to do so I did it. Didn't overthink it.
/r/askMRP28/08/22 06:49 PM
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So true and can't be understated here. I'll go so far as to say that brand name shouldn't even be in the consideration set. Does it show off your fitness without being too tight? Then it's perfect, regardless of the label. Every fatass in a Vinyard Vines baggy shirt would trade places with you in your $6 shirt in a heartbeat.
/r/askMRP20/08/22 02:39 AM
1

Agreed 100%. For the most part they have a decent selection of athletic fit clothes.
/r/askMRP19/08/22 09:24 PM
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One of the first things I subconsciously did after getting into good shape was stop giving a fuck about brand names. I look better in a $6 Nordstrom Rack t shirt than some skinny fat beta does on his $80 brand flex.
/r/askMRP19/08/22 04:17 PM
1

You sure as shit can't be RP without an abundance mentality. And I don't mean it in the LARPing sense. I mean actually being the guy who lots of attractive women want to fuck.
/r/askMRP10/08/22 04:44 AM
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As long as you see pop as a "treat" instead of "disgusting shit teenagers like", you'll keep falling back into old bad habits. You have to shift your mental model.
/r/askMRP18/04/22 05:23 PM
2

That may have worked for you but for the vast majority of retards here letting their bitter wives know there is a divorce coming just gives them ample time and opportunity to cook up bullshit DV claims to juice custody share, which not at all coincidentally juices "child support" payments.
/r/askMRP27/03/22 02:34 PM
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I'm with you on the second half of your statement but when in the history of women getting caught cheating has a guy said "I caught her telling her coworker that she won't fuck him until the lease is up."?
/r/askMRP02/03/22 06:07 PM
2

If she were married to Chris Helmsworth do you think she'd be acting like that?
/r/askMRP16/02/22 09:26 PM
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Ehhh.....guys this is a troll based on the recent developments at Reddit's favorite source of propaganda. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.foxnews.com/media/jeff-zucker-cnn-failing-to-disclose-consensual-relationship-colleague-i-was-wrong.amp
/r/askMRP03/02/22 03:42 AM
1

Sounds like there's already another guy working on that.
/r/askMRP14/12/21 12:52 AM
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If you're attractive and fit enough and she's interested, ovulating and thinks she can get away with it (GNO) - it won't matter in the slightest if either one of them is married, single, whatever. You'll get laid. Asking which is better is like asking if it should be sunny or cloudy outside when you approach a girl.
/r/askMRP18/11/21 07:20 PM
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No pearl-clutching and moralizing here.
/r/askMRP18/11/21 07:14 PM
5

This post is way more entertaining when I read it in the voice of Andrew Dice Clay.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/21 08:53 PM
2

Oh and research mouth guards designed to stop snoring. At 6'2" 178lbs you aren't snoring because you're a fat fuck like most other snorers, so get that figured out. And move back into your own bed immediately ffs.
/r/askMRP08/11/21 05:04 PM
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I was gonna reply "this reads almost exactly like what happened to me right before my wife fucked one of my friends", even before I read you last paragraph. Check her phone and computer for confirmation, but not if you're gonna lose your shit if you find something. Knowing she's cheating but not letting her know is an advantage you do not want to lose. Also add a 4th day of lifting. Regardless of what others around you do, the gym is your salvation and your reckoning towards a better path forwar…
/r/askMRP08/11/21 04:56 PM
5

One of my buddies got the vaxx and it triggered rhumetoid arthritis, something he never had before the shot. His doctor told him he was going to get RA eventually but the vaccine brought it on early - up to 10 years early.
/r/askMRP09/09/21 02:09 AM
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I see the treatment here to be similar to boot camp. Why is the drill sargent so mean to me? We know why it's done to new military recruits and this is no different.
/r/askMRP08/09/21 01:50 PM
1

Just gonna put this out there. I was in a dead bedroom too. Worse, she cheated on me. Only at that point did I say fuck this shit and I started focusing on myself and started banging other women. Guess what happened to the dead bedroom within 2 weeks of me getting my dick wet elsewhere - yep, she just rolled over one night while on her period even and wanted me to fuck her. I'm hesitant to share this because if you do this for her it won't work. If you do it for you, maybe it will maybe it won't…
/r/askMRP12/06/21 01:46 AM
2

First and foremost his wife. When the opportunity presents itself, if it hasn't already, his "integrity" will be meaningless to her as she rationalizes away why she is justified in cheating.
/r/askMRP11/06/21 03:37 PM
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Do you travel for work? If so I have a damn near foolproof way that has worked for me. It's for one night stands though, not plates in the recurring sense.
/r/askMRP31/05/21 11:59 PM
3

In my experience, a simple "it's complicated" is all you need if they want to fuck you enough. If they press throw out a couple platitudes about growing apart, she's boring and cold. I'm hesitant to recommend that second part though because for most guys thatll mean DEERing.
/r/askMRP31/05/21 11:57 PM
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Revenge is the sweetest joy next to getting pussy........so what does that say if he can do both at the same time.
/r/askMRP10/03/21 02:19 AM
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Dont want kids any time soon = no need to entangle yourself into a marriage with a girl you met when you were 22.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 06:40 PM
5

Do you want kids soon?
/r/askMRP01/12/20 05:36 PM
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Same. I can't even render a "what if" opinion because I was such an unfuckable faggot for so long. All I know is I'd be a lot more dedicated to myself and what I want. Same as now, only sooner.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 05:29 PM
2

Tinder is great for letting us know when we're in that top 20% that women find above average.......or when we're in that bottom 80% that they find below average.
/r/askMRP29/11/20 01:48 PM
5

My friends and colleagues in their 30s and especially 40s let themselves go to the point where they are completely unfuckable.......then they blame women for why they aren't having sex. I was like that at one point too. Lifting solved that problem and a lot faster than I expected.
/r/askMRP17/11/20 05:40 PM
3

Is your wife's "home-based business" a multi-level marketing scheme?
/r/askMRP03/10/20 10:22 PM
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Line up all 7 billion people on Earth, from most likely to notice and comment positively on your lifting progress to least likely. Your wife will be the last person in that line. That goes for virtually each and every one of us.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 12:37 AM
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I dunno.....after reading that entire pretentious post I'm kinda rooting for this guy to get married and have his wife cheat on him with his best friend - just so he can really put that "she's the real victim here" theory to the test.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 05:42 PM
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There's a whole lot of insecurity buried in them big words.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 01:49 PM
1

It always starts off with a tradeoff. One night of sleep right now and fuck the consequences down the road. Then before you know it you're cockblocked for ages. Your bed is for you and your wife only.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 04:53 PM
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Some of the best advice I've read here was: "Women don't give a single solitary shit about how hard you trained for a race or what happened during the race. They don't want to run the race or even just part of the race with you. They want to hang out around the finish line and fuck the winners."
/r/askMRP12/08/20 07:45 PM
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Sounds like your SMV is now higher than hers. Most guys strive to LTR the highest value woman they can. Not married, no kids - if you're having these doubts now imagine what they will look like after she has painted you into some corners option-wise. Some of this could just be the de-pedestalization of women in general that is at the core of MRP. My advice to you would be the same as it is for every other single guy. Keep her around for the sex/RP sparring while you continue to shop around for a…
/r/askMRP27/07/20 06:47 PM
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"So far out of her league" to women, who are figuratively drowning in cock just by waking up and not being 200lbs.... means that she's north of 200lbs.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:32 AM
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Forget him being forced to pay her alimony - she should be forced to pay him alimony because he isnt making any money. This is one of those rare cases where the guy gets to use all those laws meant to hand women cash and prizes and reverse it around back on her. Take half her 401k. You get half her paycheck for x x number of months. Use every tool in the toolbox, OP.
/r/askMRP09/06/20 10:36 PM
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I think I'll logically lay out all the reasons why my kid should go to bed. I know I'm right so if I just manage to talk some sense into her then she'll understand.
/r/askMRP13/05/20 01:51 AM
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Body falling apart, overly emotional.....and you wonder why she's checking out? What effort have you put into yourself? Be specific.
/r/askMRP09/05/20 12:15 PM
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Those women who didnt want to fuck you didnt want to fuck you because they're lining you up to be the same kind of blue pill beta provider that you currently want to jettison. I used to get that treatment. Now that I've applied RP, embraced lifting and present myself as a HVM you know how many women have balked at getting fucked by me after I tell them I'm married? None. It's full steam ahead after I tell them flat out why I'm not concerned about it and why they shouldn't be either. You need to …
/r/askMRP08/05/20 03:41 AM
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Head on over to the antimlm sub here on reddit. It's one of the few other subs even worth visiting. Plug in whatever #momtrepeneur bullshit she's getting into and you'll find pages and pages of reasons to not get involved. Of course this is an AWALT we're talking about here so there won't be any reasoning with her. Maybe offer to help her build her own real online business since she's so bored? These pyramid schemes prey on the beta males that allow their bored wives to drain their hard earned m…
/r/askMRP23/04/20 01:55 PM
4

First time on here that I've seen the terms "plate" and "getting catfished" confused like this. Just wow.
/r/askMRP16/04/20 04:00 PM
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Yeah but when you're that jacked you dont need mirror selfies. You'll project that physique fully clothed. At that point why look thirsty or when your effort can speak for you.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:52 AM
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Love that rule. I'm adopting it. Thanks.
/r/askMRP07/03/20 12:39 PM
3

Love the quote about how the hell you could ever eat an entire elephant. One bite at a fucking time, that's how.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 08:16 PM
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Don't women get to true all that up at some point? I think divorce laws are written so women can continue to drag guys into court for more gibsmedat whenever the guy gets a raise, even well after the divorce if it's still in the timeframes of the court ordered alimony/child support.
/r/askMRP05/03/20 12:44 AM
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In 2020 if a woman is a smoker, go ahead and add about 20 to that N count. Good luck with that pair bonding.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 08:54 PM
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Three kids with this broad, including a 1 year old. Oof. By my MRP math that'll make you her financial slave for the better part of the next 20 years. Regardless, stay on the path and like everyone said get your divorce house in order, covertly of course.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 07:45 PM
2

Whole lotta projection in your post. Love it.
/r/askMRP29/02/20 01:22 AM
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Banging your friend's girl smacks of lack of abundance. Same reason why RPT strongly discourages fucking of coworkers. Fucking around like that with your friends is also an excellent way to end up murdered. Think that's hyperbole? Go check the statistics.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 06:56 PM
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There are lots of studies that confirm higher rates of infidelity while ovulating. I tried to post a link but auto-mod deleted it. Just google the keywords there and all kinds of research pops up.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 04:42 PM
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Someone around here said it best - women don't care who won the race or the sacrifices it took to win the race. They simply want to hang around the finish line and fuck the winners. This applies just as much to blue haired landwhales as it does to HB8s.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 04:40 PM
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Lots of studies, in fact. Here's a left-leaning source that even cops to it: https://www.salon.com/2015/07/08/infidelity_2_partner/amp
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 04:33 PM
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Minor thing but women get especially horny while ovulating. The laws of attraction listed in this post still apply, but the bar for what a guy needs to do attention/game-wise is lowered quite a bit. This is why when women cheat, it's almost always while ovulating. At least at first. Dual sexual strategy is at work there, too.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 01:51 PM
2

Speaks to a total lack of abundance to me. They eat where they shut because they can't eat anywhere else. Who the fuck would introduce that kind of drama into their lives if they had tons of other, far less complicated options. And I've said this here before. Fucking your friends wives is a fantastic way to get your head blown off your shoulders right where you sleep. This shit happens all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 06:44 PM
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"Yeah ok she was physically violent to me when we were dating, but surely things will drastically improve as soon as I sign over half of my current and future financial assets to her!" Where the fuck is your abundance, OP. Would you start a business with someone who just assaulted you? Then why are you going to enter into a far more restrictive and binding financial relationship with someone like that.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 08:16 PM
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Compartmentalized in the sense that the encounters are left on the road. Everyone's on the same page for business trip hookups. Most of the plates I've had on the home front are auditioning for a promotion even when they claim they aren't.
/r/askMRP03/02/20 07:59 PM
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MRP is generally down on "dating" apps and for good reason, but it does bring positives to the table. For one, it sure as shit snaps into focus that you're in direct competition with other men. To the victor goes the spoils. To the losers go the purple haired landwhales. Using Tinder and Bumble on work trips is one of the best things I started doing on my own personal path to growth. Fully compartmentalized plating and abundance.
/r/askMRP03/02/20 02:43 PM
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If OP is this fragile at AWALT, imagine the post he puts up when his kids hit him with the inevitable "mommy's special friend spends the night at our new house" bullshit that women always do during their branch swings.
/r/askMRP03/02/20 02:29 PM
1

Choosing hookers is incel-think. Stop it. Download one of the many hookup/"dating" apps and get banging.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 03:50 PM
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"Kids are resilient!" ~ Shit women say to rationalize shitty behavior when they're in the process of branch swinging Great advice about focusing on divorce blowback and our children. Sometimes I think that gets underplayed here as some of us have to make extremely difficult decisions because we don't want to tip the scale back towards the even worse decision.
/r/askMRP17/01/20 01:35 PM
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I think you're putting too much of the focus on her here. Maybe she will respond, maybe she won't. Whatever the fuck mood a woman is in at the moment isn't a barometer of a man's success. If you gain muscle mass, lift heavier and act more like a man in the process then it's a success, right? She doesn't factor into this in the least. If you meet your real goals here then there will be plenty of other women lining up to take her place, even if just for a night.
/r/askMRP16/01/20 08:36 PM
1

To me, "not usually my type" is right up there with ILYBINILWY as far as red flags go. Does anyone think when a chick starts banging DeCaprio or Brad Pitt that she's texting her friends with a "he's usually not my type" even when her "type" up to that point has been unemployed losers? It's every bit as much a beta identifier as IlYBINILWY is an identifier of impending cheating.
/r/askMRP12/01/20 03:11 PM
1

Whether they know it or not, people invariably become the company they keep. That anime bullshit is 100% neckbeard, parents basement revolting to women.
/r/askMRP11/01/20 02:58 PM
4

You're living in a fucking fantasyland if you thing A) your wife will never, ever cheat on you no matter how much of a big, fat loser you become and that B) she isn't turned on by the idea of fucking a strong, fit man. The answer to your question is STFU, kino escalation and above all else - LIFT. This "I own two companies" bullshit is a betabux-brag. Guess what - you're gonna own half of two companies if you keep it up with this timid mouse/ar-teest bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 08:52 PM
2

OP appears to still be 50/50 on her "exploring her options" let alone outright cheating. OP - I'll say this with 100 fucking percent certainty. When a woman says ILYBINILWY, they are absolutely, positively entertaining thoughts of branch swinging. I'd say the vast majority of time they already have another dude to fuck lined up at that point. I hope this post is some kind of wake up call for you to conduct some simple OPSEC over that period of time in question. Report back with what you find. It…
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:51 PM
2

What kind of OPSEC have you deployed to confirm this?
/r/askMRP04/01/20 02:57 PM
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If I had to guess, I'd say the fucking commenced right around the time she quit counseling. Looks like the branch swing failed though. She got pumped and dumped and retreated back to the safe harbor of the cash and prizes OP is forced to provide. She's planning on setting sail again as soon as opportunity arises.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 02:55 PM
1

And now I bet this husband that discovered his whore of a wife attempting to branch swing to this beta pussy cannot fucking wait to run into him in the hall. This is how murder/suicides happen. Great job OP!
/r/askMRP02/01/20 04:46 PM
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Great answer. I'm in OP's boat too, and this is what I strive to do. So far (24 months in) it has been working well for me. My two biggest recommendations, being further down the road than OP, is A) play the long game and get her fucking working again. Every dollar she earns is likely 50 cents less in cash and prizes he will have to fork over. And B) once he starts improving his SMV get out there and bang strange. Lots of it. I try to get laid on every business trip I go on, and I go on a lot. I…
/r/askMRP22/12/19 12:28 AM
24

As soon as I started seeing my spouse as the oldest teenager in the house, my desire to engage dropped to near zero. I don't argue with my two young children, why would I argue with an older child.
/r/askMRP20/12/19 02:04 PM
2

I'm one of those fucks. Getting her to start hammering some checks is one of my top priorities.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:59 PM
1

You know
/r/askMRP02/12/19 08:55 PM
6

This week is the two year anniversary of my wife fucking a friend of mine and telling me she wanted a divorce in what couldn't have been a more prototypical AWALT branch swing. In two weeks it'll be the two year anniversary of me walking into that weight room for the first time in my life, taking total ownership of everything that happens to me and turning myself into a man who has a mission and puts himself first. Abundance abounds now (at least compared to the old normal - I still have a long …
/r/askMRP25/11/19 10:05 PM
4

Even 3% is a ridiculous tolerance level given the resources at stake.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 08:52 PM
1

You have to care to the point of knowing when a branch swing is occuring though, right? There has to be a right mix of DGAF and recognizing when I'm getting played.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 04:41 PM
24

Time for some light PsyOps, OP. Not all blow offs like this are branch swings, but all branch swings involve manufactured distance (physical and emotional) between the AWALT and her beta.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 02:32 PM
1

I saw some Pintrest idea where women have their grandma or mom's handwritten recipes as their kitchen backsplash. Really big writing. Impossible for a non artistic person to pull off. Start advertising that service on Facebook community groups and see how well your artistic talents can pay off. Wouldn't hurt if you got fit and attractive enough to fuck those women while you're working in their house, too.
/r/askMRP07/11/19 04:40 PM
1

Goddamn right. Every neighborhood Facebook group I've ever seen is loaded with women with money to burn on Pintrest house projects and not nearly enough enterprising artists to fill the gap. It literally has never been easier to make money from being a talented artist. Never.
/r/askMRP07/11/19 04:11 PM
1

My favorite part of his post is how he isn't lifting because he doesn't want to accidentally look like Arnold. You know how women love Holocaust survivor looking guys who can run 5 minute miles. Being able to run away from trouble quickly sure makes a man desirable to women.
/r/askMRP26/10/19 12:16 AM
19

I was thinking of punching up a post for the mods. Kind of a how-to I've put together off my own trial and error. I'm usually only in a town for a few days, so nights are limited. I use Tinder and Bumble, with the best results on Bumble by far. Fire up the app as soon as you land. Fresh meat in an area (especially a medium to small city) puts you at the top of the deck for the women who live there. The algorithm is totally rigged in your favor for a change. Start matching with women. Be funny. B…
/r/askMRP10/10/19 03:25 AM
2

Do you travel at all for business? It's fish in a barrel if you do.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 02:32 AM
4

Good stuff. Can you get one or two more plates going just to make sure you don't wind up with oneitis.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 11:56 PM
2

Him using "plate" in the singular is the problem. You dont have a plate. You have plates.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 09:13 PM
14

Haven't read all the way down the thread yet but I'll add there's absolutely no way on God's green Earth that she hasn't branch swung already. She's hopping on rando dick but doesn't want him to enjoy himself with other women. Her imperative tells her allowing her meal ticket/betabux to fuck other women risks impregnating another woman, which risks dilution of his assets that he "owes" her. OP - go get yourself laid by someone other than your "wife", because that's what she's doing. Maybe it'll …
/r/askMRP09/10/19 08:41 PM
2

You missed my sarcasm. There's a bu ch of research and statistics that show one of the biggest dangers to kids is moms boyfriend. That said, of course it doesn't apply to all step dads. Not even close.
/r/askMRP15/09/19 04:25 PM
4

Crazy how proof of women prioritizing their new man over their own kids doesn't register in fa.ily court. Luckily there aren't a ton of statistics that prove that the biggest threat to little kids is mom's new boyfriend./s
/r/askMRP14/09/19 05:09 PM
8

Upside - download all her call logs to show a judge how she has been ignoring the kids. Might be helpful come custody time if it ends up being disputed (spoiler: it always ends up being disputed).
/r/askMRP14/09/19 12:27 PM
4

That bar looks like the kind of place where the needle scratches off the record if a hard 3 walks through the door.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 10:38 PM
2

Why wouldn't he. Seriously. Plus a sucker punch or two.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 12:27 AM
2

People in general but especially women - when they're about to do something awful to someone they'll reengineer an entire backstory to make that person the bad guy, which in their feelzie brain makes treating people like shit more justified.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 02:57 PM
3

Can she take a run at claiming "ownership" of half your company through the divorce process? If theres the slightest chance she can get shit that isn't hers through divorce, you can bet your ass she'll try.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 02:51 PM
2

They all are, in the most predictable sense possible. This side chick is on her hustle for that promotion so she can win half of OP's shit (under threat of government). Blue pill guys watch that carrot on a stick drift off into the horizon, never to be realized.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 06:54 PM
1

Great quote and a phenomenal way to summarize how women will utilize the force of government to make you a wage slave to them.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 05:30 PM
4

And only about hers. No amount of detail or storytelling will change that. Someone here said it best. Women do not give a single shit about how hard someone worked getting ready for the race, or what happened during the race. All they care about is that they're at the finish line so they can fuck the winners.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 12:26 PM
2

You and I are in pretty similar situations. The good news is we're in the perfect place to improve and focus on ourselves. Keep up the improvement and the failures will be fewer and farther between.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 04:22 PM
-7

Seems to me like suicide is as beta as blue pill can possibly get. What part of the sidebar says to kill yourself when life kicks you in the balls too many times?
/r/askMRP12/07/19 04:02 AM
10

I've had nowhere near the suffering you've had, but my wife fucked a "friend of mine" a year and a half ago. I got red pill real quick. Gym, sidebar, diet, sidebar, discipline, sidebar, more gym. I've been in that place that many guys are most afraid of, and I can tell you this - if you practice red pill theory? Even that isn't bad. Know why? Because I'm a fun, attractive, interesting man of value who now does what he wants with whoever he wants now. I don't think there are many things that can …
/r/askMRP12/07/19 03:37 AM
2

TRP is all about abundance. With abundance should come a lowering the risk/reward, meaning you arent desperate for pussy and can pass on fucking coworkers that can get you fired, married women that can get you murdered in your sleep and super drunk/weird randos who might cry rape afterwards. You can walk from all that because you know you can get laid as much as you want without taking those risks.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:09 PM
3

Just telling you this right now. I was cheated on. My wife slept with someone I thought was a friend. This was a year and a half ago. Since then I've gone all in on RPT and it has worked out great for me. That said, if I ever see that guy again I'll beat him to within an inch of his life. No talking shit. He wont see it coming unless he sees me first. If you want that possibility (or worse) for the rest of your life then I'd say go for it.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:58 AM
2

Ha! Was just in PR too. Heading back to keynote a conference later this summer. The dating app to setup a meetup there was a little more difficult. Tons of women looking for stateside sugar daddies there. No thanks. And so true regarding the plane ride. Man I'm on like a 100 flights in a row streak of being seated next to either fat dudes or old people. Walk through the airport and there are hit women all over the place. Get to my seat and always a total disaster/letdown. Maybe it's because of t…
/r/askMRP03/06/19 08:02 PM
10

Last sentence is the whole answer. Better yet let this girl see you getting physical with an equal or better looking woman. Then let's see how much this one resists.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:04 PM
4

You're asking about the levels of dread. Sidebar has that covered but the main things are to stop communicating so fucking much when you go out without her (which should be regularly). Either with friends or even by yourself. Stop with the play by play texts of the night. Make her wonder why you're so busy having fun that you don't have time to text her. Also be vague on describing what you're planning on doing. "Heading out with the guys tomorrow night." instead of "Me, Steve and Lou are gonna …
/r/askMRP01/06/19 12:32 PM
2

"Yeah but have you seen how many Likes I get when I post videos on social media of me doing snatches??" ~ OP, probably
/r/askMRP31/05/19 01:30 PM
3

I'm one of those guys that goes to lots of these conferences. Better yet, I get stage time at most (dumb as that sounds to us - it matters to women). They are absolutely, positively the easiest way to get laid. Married, single - it doesn't matter. The women there are AWALT and DTF. I've thought about posting a field guide to it since I have my technique nailed down pretty good for these things. Had a 5 conference streak at one point, which might be more impressive knowing that I'm only in these …
/r/askMRP31/05/19 01:21 PM
1

Spinning plates requires you to be fun and exciting. That's it. If you're someone her friends would fuck at first glance then believe me, they ain't goin anywhere.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:18 PM
1

I use it when I travel and it's an efficient way to hook up with decent looking women for implied no strings attached fun. They dont act like that on my home turf though. They act completely differently when they see me as an out of town business man. Fucking on the first meetup is the norm. They love a good Don Draper fantasy. I would take or leave Tinder as a tool in your toolkit for where you live, but if you travel for work and have high SMV (just traveling for work adds value there) then it…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:17 PM
2

Does she have any interests that you and her could turn into a side hustle for her? Plenty of women do etsy bullshit. Could be something non-arts and crafts depending on her background and education. You successfully own a business so you could help set that up and turn her loose.
/r/askMRP09/05/19 02:20 AM
5

And she was into swapping and shit previously? Plenty of red flags here to proceed with caution. Also I'm no expert here but it seems like he's still talking too much/DEERing. Playing into her drama. Once he said no and she blew up about the money (definite red flag) that should have been the end of the fucking conversation.
/r/askMRP04/05/19 01:00 PM
5

Crabs in a bucket.
/r/askMRP29/04/19 01:54 AM
8

Might as well do the threesome first in that case. No sense leaving good sex on the table on the way out the door.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 12:20 AM
1

No moralizing here. Only way I'd say to pump the brakes would be if this other guy has a violent side. If he does and he finds out, thats 'beef on sight' mode for the foreseeable future. Doesn't sound like he's anyone you'd need to worry about from the limited information you've provided.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 10:36 PM
12

Bitches who cheat never use condoms. That's why that cuck percentage is so high.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 03:33 AM
1

I'm not saying he wasn't man enough at all. Shit it could have been completely out of his control. AWALT and all. As for the place to vent, that's not what this sub is for. If he wants a place to be a victim then I suggest he visit almost any other sub on Reddit, where he can go be a crab in a bucket. This is constructive criticism.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 01:21 AM
2

Lack of dread will kill even the strongest TLR. A woman would rather fight for an increased share in an in-demand man vs. a full share that no other quality women want.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:04 AM
5

I did this and let me tell you - it fucking works. But I've always been hesitant to detail it here because the RP larpers will immediately try to pick up RP theory as a means to prolong their oneitis. Shit doesn't work like that and they can smell it of you're pretending from a mile away. But when you're legit in DGAF mode and have moved on to fucking someone else (don't have to tell them, they know).......you should see how fast they run back.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 11:21 PM
5

Mid 40s here and I couldn't agree more. I absolutely love lifting. The thought of going on the shelf because of some avoidable injury - no thanks. I'm here for a long time, not a good time.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 11:20 PM
4

Absolutely. But the initial hurt and shock is the same, I guarantee that. And the inclination to play the victim and backslide as a man is like a drug. MRP is the way to acknowledge and traverse all those pitfalls and actually come out stronger than ever. I'm thankful every day for this sub and the guys who add value to it.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:41 AM
6

This EXACT same thing happened to me, only I was married with two really small kids. It hurt, probably the same that OP got hurt, and the remedy is the same. Mission first, channel all anger into lifting, abundance....unfuck myself. I'll just say this since I have a long way to go. Even those of us who get knocked down facing our ultimate fear dead in the face. The solution of MRP, drive and a belief in yourself? Trust the process and getting up again, better than ever, isn't only possible. It's…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:23 AM
7

OP was disrespected by the 40 year old dude, too. What's the perfect way to handle some creeper buying you and your casual date a round of drinks? I'd flat out refuse them and ignore him but don't know what conventional TRP wisdom says. If he approaches butthurt at the refusal (which I would expect) I would tell him that I'm going to ask him once politely to fuck off.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:37 PM
26

They sure like to think they are. Then a phenomenon like Trump comes along and causes that bubble to burst in the most entertaining way possible.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 12:44 AM
3

His goal should be the same as everyone elses here - relentless self Improvement. When you're younger than 25, that's damn near impossible when you're trying to keep an LTR happy.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 10:36 PM
135

He's fucking the Cash Me Outside chick, apparently.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 06:43 PM
3

If you're here then you know damn well that an insane amount of ACTUAL gender bias exists in family court. Women can and have literally gotten away with murder and kept majority custody of their kids. I do agree though that the bias is far less in some jurisdictions than others but I have yet to see a truly fair court. And we certainly agree that this guy is still BP all the way. He's already LTR'ed up someone else. He needs an improvement plan that doesn't include the feedback of women in the l…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:41 PM
3

The judge and state laws mandate the terms of the divorce. And you know which gender gets preferred treatment in a divorce. He didnt have any control over that part but the rest has blue pill all over it.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:23 PM
2

Just a suggestion based on your gym situation - there are usually gyms around that offer childcare while you're in the gym. That's what I use and it alleviates a logistical roadblock (aka: excuse) to not working out. Do you have any gyms like that within a half hour of your house?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 01:09 PM
3

It's possible to be both depending on when you found RPT.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 12:44 PM
3

Right after I found out? I was in shock. But fortunately I'm not a victim mentality kind of guy. So I started unfucking myself in preparation for an ugly divorce and being back on the sexual market. I talked about it on the surviving infidelity sub. That's where someone further along in RP messaged me to check this place out. I had already started SL5x5 a few months earlier but coming here helped put the missing pieces together. Already had a great career and mission (see username) - just had to…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 04:35 PM
9

Same thing that brings most here - shitty spouse that I allowed to walk all over me. Thought that doubling and tripling down on blue pill pussy beahvior would solve it. Wife cheated on me with a friend despite us having two small kids. Started doing more red pill shit before someone messaged me to check this place out. Haven't looked back since.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 12:26 AM
23

Count yourself lucky. Mid 40s here.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:03 PM
1

Don't talk to her about it unless she brings it up. Better to lead by example.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:15 PM
5

Women are emotional so of course most will gravitate towards the party that is based on feelz. The Democrats socially engineer themselves this way on purpose specifically to capture emotional females. Understand it for what it is and don't make a big deal out of it. RP theory is pretty clear on what happens when we attempt to coach or apply common sense to a woman intent on being led by feelz. It can only backfire and you'll be temporarily labeled a jerk for not "acknowledging her feelings". If …
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:06 PM
2

Granted I'm after an older demographic than most here but I've found that yes - they're all after validation but also betabuxs. Lots and lots and lots of "I need someone to pay for these kids I just ripped away from their father(s)".
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:09 PM
5

Depends entirely on location. When I travel to urban areas the matches with good looking women are bottomless. When I travel to rust belt smaller markets it's a fraction of the action and a lot less attractive women.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:06 PM
1

Love a lot of Eric Thomas's stuff.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 01:52 PM
22

Cuz they carryin heat in their waistband son.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:52 PM
2

Dude cant even work a grill, and when I read the write up I pictured him working for some kind of gibs me dat leftist. Real men are attracted to making their own way, not politicians who preach victimology and promise the government as a solution to every problem. Men solve their own fucking problems. Maybe I'm totally wrong here. OP feel free to correct me.
/r/askMRP24/02/19 08:57 PM
2

Meant to include with a condom. Sorry.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:49 PM
1

Still fuck a ONS that doesn't want you to wear protection. Just don't go down on them beforehand. No reason to get to the finish line then not cross it. Dick her good enough and she'll forget all about the condom right quick.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:24 PM
53

That's kinda passive aggressive. Can't imagine you're winning many friends with backhanded comments like that but maybe I'm wrong.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 05:22 AM
-2

Thanks. Going out on a limb here and saying dudes with muffins stuffed in their jacket aren't actually high SMV men. That's kid shit.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:47 PM
1

Tf is a magic muffin?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:41 PM
31

That, plus astrology play right into their feelz. Same reason why women are 90% of all pyramid schemes.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:44 AM
3

Oneitis hands over all control of the relationship to the woman, which they don't even want. Give it to them and they instantly start losing attraction. If they know, or even suspect, that other women will fuck you given the opportunity - guess who suddenly is much more attracted to you. The person with the most power in a relationship is the one who needs the other the least. Be that one.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:14 PM
5

If you're prone to Oneitis, then absolutely. If you don't have an abundance mindset, then absolutely.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:00 PM
2

Why DEER at all? Don't provide those details in the first place, even if you just went out with your bros. Easy way to build dread, get her hamster spinning and keep her lippy ass in line wondering how replaceable she is.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:58 PM
5

Being close emotionally with a woman is a bit of an illusion, isn't it? Their moods change like the weather, and any displayed weakness on our part will immediately "create emotional distance" between us and our LTR. As much as we're BP hardwired to wish otherwise, it's fleeting.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 02:14 PM
8

Just wear clothes that subtly show off muscles/your definition. If anyone reading this doesn't have definition yet, you know where to go to fix that.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:47 PM
37

Her reiterating his own career back to him (high earning potential and social value/prestige being a pilot) gave it away. She's trying to lock that paycheck down. Yep - I agree with you 100%. At least this is a rare post where OP isn't being Capt. SaveAHoe and recognizes her beta-seeking game, too.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 08:10 PM
8

Lol. GTFOH with that Disney shit. Your wife will branch swing your ass the minute you give her a good enough excuse to. Projecting "morals" and "love" onto her will not protect you from hypergamy. If anything it puts you more at risk. You need some sidebar, motherfucker.
/r/askMRP12/02/19 05:11 PM
2

I think there is something to this, but it's situational as others have pointed out. Like many here, I married a low-value woman back when I was full-on beta, which is a roundabout way of saying I don't really give a fuck what my wife thinks of me getting a vasectomy. I don't want more kids. With her or anyone else I happen to be fucking. So that's the end of that. To your point though, I will limit the information of my sterilization to my closest bros and wife. I won't be mentioning a word of …
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:10 PM
1

This is consistent with other comments in this thread, unfortunately. Seems like they really undersell recovery time in order to close more procedures ($$$).
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:01 PM
1

Sorry to hear that, man. What went wrong?
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:49 AM
1

God I hadn't even considered maintaining. Makes sense. How important is protein intake when I'm maintaining weight while not lifting? I don't plan on deviating from the protein-heavy diet I've relied on so far. Just curious since the protein I'm eating isn't going towards muscle repair/growth.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 11:52 PM
6

Yeah I've read some absolute horror stories from guys who pushed on that recovery time. It's a great time to work sidebar reading again. Top to bottom. Percentage wise, what did you lose on your lifts when you finally got back at it after 6 weeks off?
/r/askMRP04/02/19 11:48 PM
2

I do public speaking gigs regularly now and am always looking to improve at it. Can you explain the self-referential part to me?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/19 10:52 PM
2

So much great stuff out there. Looking forward to seeing the other replies. Unbroken https://youtu.be/26U_seo0a1g NF - With Me https://youtu.be/KthH7XkiLBk NF - Intro III https://youtu.be/gdLLRj1Ge7g
/r/askMRP28/01/19 10:24 PM
2

There you have it fellas. Pack it up. If one case to the contrary exists, then we can't make incredibly accurate assumptions for the other 99%.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:15 PM
11

Just a heads up that women routinely lie about their N counts. I mean all of them, especially once they get up past a few and the shame starts creeping in. Take that 8, divide it by two and add that to her professed total. She's at at least a dozen, if not more.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 02:03 PM
19

Moms have the hardest jobs on the planet and I'm not afraid to say it all over social media.
/r/askMRP19/01/19 01:15 AM
10

Women aren't stupid. They know in advance where the power tipping point is and constantly push towards that line. Once it's crossed, especially if it's done so with the muscle of government behind it (marriage), they know they're free to display the ugly side of AWALT tendencies.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:54 PM
1

General rule of thumb here, and a good one, is don't apologize period - right? There are ways to say you wont do something again and mean it without apologizing. Women hear their man apologizing to them and they lose respect for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 05:25 AM
8

It was a Bumble hookup and my profile has a swimsuit candid on it. My overall number of matches dropped some when I added a shirtless pic, but all it really did was weed out some of the beta bucks seekers.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:36 PM
14

ONS I met on the road. Raging liberal/feminist, but self-aware enough to tell me that she loathes conservative guys but "the body type she's attracted to is usually attached to Republican-type guys."
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:26 PM
1

Personality and being fun is huge but how many points can that make up in a SMV differential? 2, 3 points? The example I made my BB comment on was a SMV5 dude with a 10 chick. I'll go out on a limb here and say no amount of personality and game will work for a fat and disheveled dude (your garden variety nonRP guy) in approaching a true, real 10 unless he's straight up betabux material to her. She ain't viewing that dude as an alpha under any scenario. Obese bald dudes have no problem getting 10…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/19 03:09 PM
7

Sure, but almost all the time those dudes are beta bucks. We all know how that ends for them.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/19 02:28 PM
11

Whole article could be summed up by your final two points. I'm mid 40s and hit on most of the major points of MRP. I'm known in my community, am an officer at my company, lift, know how to cold approach people and start fun convos. Most of the women that show interest in me are over 30. Most are over 35. Over 35 women are gallons of milk a couple days past expiration date. Most of the time you don't want to take a sip but occasionally theres a gallon that's still fresh. The wall is no joke.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/19 02:26 PM
2

Yep. Getting a vasectomy in a couple weeks and wont be able to lift at all for two weeks. Going to be absolutely BRUTAL. Worst part will be the strength I lose. Been at this for a year straight now, have taken every step to ensure I didn't get injured and have to stop. I'll probably start my own thread here on starting lifting again after the big V.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:07 PM
3

Or cheated on him. I was in his shoes and she took the next step and branch swung on me. Don't be old me, OP.
/r/askMRP11/01/19 09:17 PM
2

I get that and it totally makes sense. I'm just providing my field report here, take it for what it's worth. Maybe it really does work against me and everything else I do (lifting, looks, conversation, eye contact, status in my community, career, etc.) is enough to sail past it. But I have yet to have it backfire so far. I also talk about how she wants to work it out but how I can't be with a cheater, liar, someone if low value like that. Maybe that saves the pre selection part? Whatever the fuc…
/r/askMRP11/01/19 09:05 PM
2

I'm kinda in this boat as someone who came to MRP after it was too late to save my marriage (caught her mid-branch swing). So I'm still married while I work the overlapping stay/go plan and move her from a SAHM to a working mom so I don't get completely obliterated in divorce court, while I make the most of seeing my two little girls every day - which will unfortunately end post-divorce. In the meantime I'm enjoying my newfound freedom to fuck whoever I want guilt-free. If you're up to it, just …
/r/askMRP11/01/19 03:46 PM
2

Not when I have a vasectomy. I'll still wear a condom if it's a ONS to protect against STDs. Bases are pretty much covered and everyone has a good time. Less worrying and more doing.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 05:13 PM
2

Yes. 2017.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:45 PM
2

Started Stronglifts 5X5 on Dec. 4, 2017. Starting Sq: 70lb Bnch: 95lb DL: 95 OHP: 60 Row: 65 1st plateau Sq: 205lb Bnch: 165lb DL: 265 OHP: 110 Row: 130 Current Sq: 260lb Bnch: 196lb DL: 315 OHP: 128 Row: 165
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:30 AM
2

Absolutely. Building muscle doesn't help when it's covered up by layers of fat.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:13 PM
26

Attractiveness is a scale, not a black and white line that can be crossed. Your attraction level also varies wildly minute to minute with women, depending on how well you're holding frame and even things you can't control like if the woman judging your looks is ovulating. That said, pretty sure everyone here who has successfully gotten more attractive has one common answer: "I can lift a lot fucking heavier things than I could when I was less attractive." My personal experience after cleaning up…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:51 AM
5

"It won't happen to me." ~ Every guy it has happened to
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 10:18 PM
6

Great move if they can keep the story straight. The only real piece of logistics needed is a hotel room. One of these days as the woman drives me around a strange town I may end up in a bathtub full of ice with my kidney removed, but until then it's a fun ride. All kidding aside, this is also a great way for married guys to get side action. Very low risk of ever being caught.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 02:10 PM
41

By far, my easiest closes are when I'm traveling for business and am looking "for someone to show me around." The circumstances of the setup always end up back in my hotel room. They love the out of town successful businessman schtick, and I'm happy to provide it.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 05:13 AM
52

Oh they mean more than words. It also represents them now having full force of the government to fuck your friends, then take half your shit as a parting gift.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 09:25 PM
2

I'm just laughing over here at the fucking hoops we, as men, jump through to get laid. And I'm fully on board with rp theory and have been practicing for the last year. Petting tarantulas, walking past lucite cases of roaches like it's a god damned centerpiece and not at all abnormal, watching videos of the broad getting drilled by other dudes. But we make one beta misstep and a chick is totally off fucking us. I get it and don't think there's anything wrong with it - it's just this is the perfe…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:48 PM
45

I'd hazard a guess that most of us here found our way here because we let our wives define and eventually emasculate us. This is a great message and reminder for the holiday season, when the temptation to buy into the Disney "happy wife happy life" fairytale is at its zenith. Merry Christmas to the men here who helped guide me through my darkest hours, and provided me with the toolkit to turn adversity into strength - physically and mentally.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/18 11:25 PM
2

Hope the guy gets whatever results he's after but yeah - point of my post was that if I can natty get to (or keep, not sure which) a decent T level from adhering to the basic principles here in my mid-40s, then the 20-somethings should be able to also if they just put in the work.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:16 PM
1

Thanks for the explanation. Have a good one brother.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:13 PM
4

What's pin? And I really don't give a shit what you think of that number.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:01 PM
1

You're confusing plates with the cock carousel. Women ride the carousel, usually until they subconciously approach their wall realizing the caliber of man they're fucking is starting to slip a little. Then they go into betabux-hunting mode. Women don't plate men. They fuck Alphas and settle for betas.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:53 PM
11

I don't think anyone should even consider TRT until they've eaten clean and lifted for six months. Then get tested. I did both and am in my mid 40s. Got tested and I'm at 588 now.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:10 PM
2

A redpiller reading a post I had on r/survivinginfidelity reached out to me suggesting I check out MRP. Changed my life for the positive. And I've never been anything close to suicidal. As correct as don't talk about fight club is - I like to think that guys who have experienced the worst in a relationship/partner have a lot to gain from at least becoming familiar with MRP principles. That surviving infidelity sub is a great place to land for support immediately after uncovering an affair, but i…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 08:34 PM
6

I'd love to learn/read a longer form field report regarding your experiences on that Facebook group board. Seems like it would be a fascinating window into MRP proving grounds. I just got booted from the Reddit divorce sub for just hinting at MRP principles offering a lifeline to a suicidal guy posting there. My bad for discussing Fight Club. That FB group must be just as bad as far as reactions go.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 01:42 PM
2

Courts are now rigged through"no fault" divorce to not take cheating into consideration. Which becomes just another log on the fire that is modern hypergamy. Happened to me, too. But the good news is that once you unfuck yourself you too can exploit this law. No penalty for fucking whoever you want while married? Make it a two way street. Or better yet a one way street in your favor by utilizing dread. Turn the tables. What you have to lose is mitigated by no-fault. Cheating or not, the settleme…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:43 PM
2

The way she changes how she dresses/presents herself as the timeline progresses. Hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 07:17 PM
1

Piggybacking on this to ask: what intermediate programs have the best apps? I've been doing 5x5 for the last year and it has been great. No stalling. Gradual strength gains after the noon phase ended. But I owe a lot of my success with 5x5 to the paid app. Love it while I'm working out. What else is out there that's a step up that has a killer app?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:05 PM
2

Not qualified to render an informed opinion here regarding how to break the news to her, but first thing I thought was - can you use the threats of self harm to drive a better divorce settlement for you? Is so, then however you break it to her make sure it's recorded/documented somehow. If you're hesitant to play that card, this sub is littered with guys who started out pulling punches, trusting their STBXs, only to have it come back and bite them in the ass. False charges, alimony out the ass, …
/r/askMRP03/12/18 04:53 PM
0

Marriage is fine as long as she agrees to a prenup that puts your finances on a fair and level playing field and protects you from divorce rape. Good luck with that though.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 01:34 PM
2

Not knocking you, man. Your career side of the ledger here is certainly impressive. You're getting stronger month over month and that's all that matters. Keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 02:09 AM
1

RuleZeroDad covered a lot of what I was thinking, but I'm not qualified to render opinions here yet. I just wanted to add that there's nothing wrong with fucking women right now. I'm in the exact same boat as you, with an almost identical timeline from the looks of things. One thing I've really enjoyed since discovering my wife's affair with a friend of mine (on Thanksgiving, no less) was going balls deep in other women. Give it a shot, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 06:43 PM
1

The C suite career adds some points here, but I'm not sure a 148lb. 6' tall man can hold an SMV of 7. That seems a little generous for a guy who isn't even posting his lifting numbers.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 06:21 PM
12

Been lifting for 10 months and there is no line in the sand of when you suddenly look muscular. It's incremental gains, looking slightly better every month. I'm in my mid-40s but 10 months of lifting still has me in a place where folks who haven't seen me in a while immediately comment on the change. I imagine that window of transformation is shorter the younger you are - assuming you're sticking to your program and going ham every time, as you should be.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:35 PM
7

And OP - if you're worried about looking like the bad guy for divorcing someone with depression, guess what - no matter what the circumstances you'll be viewed as the bad guy in a divorce. That's how they work regardless of why. So apply DGAF here regarding what other people might think, then ask yourself what you want to do.
/r/askMRP14/11/18 01:22 AM
3

Anecdotal for sure but I can vouch for this in the context of running. ALL of my friends that have mistakenly (instead of lifting) taken up running have ended up with a gamut of nagging, semi-serious injuries. Without fail.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 01:12 PM
3

He absolutely NEEDS to divorce before the paychecks roll in, and more importantly - he starts paying into that big fat government pension that's waiting for him (assuming he goes into some kind of gov/education work with a PhD since that's what most do).
/r/askMRP09/11/18 08:35 PM
1

I've played Call of Duty with you before. I'm sure of it.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:30 PM
13

Here's what I do as soon as I touch down somewhere for business and I know I'll have at least one night free. I fire up a couple dating apps and do some swiping. Sets my location and puts me at the top of girls decks as fresh meat. Usually takes a few hours, then the matches start. Make some jokes, be fun, let them know I've never been here before and am looking for someone to go to some fun new places with. The beta/provider hunters fall off fast. Pick the best looking one and make plans for th…
/r/askMRP04/11/18 10:24 PM
2

Well whatever you're doing doesn't sound like it's working. Have you tried switching from that cardio bunny bullshit to something that will make you stronger, like 5x5 stronglifts?
/r/askMRP03/11/18 10:30 PM
2

What are your stats (height/weight/% body fat/lifts)?
/r/askMRP03/11/18 04:32 PM
1

That's why I think suburbs are where to be. The open positions by me get 300+ applicants for every opening because it's such a cushy gig with astronomical pay and benefits. Typically $250,000 paid into a pension will return $2 - $4 million. Of course that's present day. These pensions are pyramid schemes built on the backs of taxpayers who are fleeing the high taxes the pensions produce. So I don't think it's sustainable.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:09 PM
3

Working in Sales is a great stepping stone to owning your own business. With sales though, there are a lot of absolutely awful entry level spots so be selective. B2B sales is way better than, say, cell phones or any other retail-ish gig.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 02:28 PM
2

Firemen in my area start at $80k and work 1 out of every 3 days. Almost all of them work 2nd jobs, many with enough free time to work a second full time (!!!) job and still have as much free time as you and me. Working a major metro department would be a lot of work. Rural districts are super slow and tighter budgets. Suburban districts are the honey holes. Loads of money, most powerful union around, days off like crazy, and far far less risk than urban firefighters.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 02:26 PM
0

I have 6 that I trust with my life. Friends that I made in HS and college. Another 20 or so that I could call any given night to hang out. Caveat though - my wife cheated on me with one of the "friends" that was in this circle. That's what brought me here to start taking more ownership of the weaknesses in my life. So the friends thing can be a mixed bag, but it's not much different than finding a good woman. Vetting is important.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:11 PM
-2

Being friends with a woman means becoming their emotional tampon. No thanks.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:05 PM
2

Don't forget all the "I'm so brave living life on my own two feet." posts where they always neglect to mention that 80% of their income is from an ex husband they fucked around on then had a judge force him to pay her the bulk of his earnings. So brave. So independent.
/r/askMRP30/10/18 03:44 AM
23

She's morbidly obese. I guarantee it.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 04:40 AM
2

I'm someone whose wife cheated on them. I'm executing my go plan but it's a long process as I'm in the worst possible position legally (SAHM, 2 very young kids - you know the drill). Allowing myself to be put in this position contributed to the inclination to cheat, but of course everyone here already knows that. In the meantime I'm initiating and executing all other areas of RP, including spinning plenty of plates and having ONSs on business trips when time allows. Am I still considered a cuck …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/18 01:28 PM
1

Doesn't sound like you're too far into red pill if you're still referring to marriage as "the most sacred vow" someone can make. AWALT makes a mockery of that regardless of what kind of mistaken pedestal you try to prop up underneath it. If you think lifting only helps in getting laid, then you aren't doing it right. My mission isn't to smash good looking women but that is certainly a side benefit along the way. I get asked to present at conferences often. Representing myself, and my company, in…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:25 AM
3

You're not asking the right questions. What is your MAP? What makes/will make you a man of action? What path do you want to make for yourself? Answer and begin executing those. Then if a woman comes along who adds value to that mission - great. There's your marriage potential. That said, I'm in the situation I'm in because I am married to a SAHM in a no fault state (meaning they can cheat with impunity and I still owe her over half my money and assets). I'd advise if you meet someone and you wan…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:46 AM
4

That's the best part of this whole story. Started on 5X5 a month before discovering MRP. Discovered the cheating right after Thanksgiving. Hit the gym Dec. 1 and haven't missed a lifting session since. I'm down 25lb. on the scale but am down more fat than that as I've added muscle. I go balls out at the gym. It's my sanctuary. Friends and family comment on it. I went to a Halloween party as a Roman Gladiator and had a couple of my wife's friends grabbing at my underwear. Hot chick I sat next to …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:35 AM
7

Getting cheated on is a pretty common reason why guys find rp and mrp, unfortunately. I don't give a shit how anyone here views that. I'm taking the steps I need to take to unfuck myself, which to me at least is the difference between a beta cuck and myself. I now fuck who I want when I want. Cheating wife is none the wiser. As far as she knows I might still want to work things out. That said, I'd rather get cheated on and discover married red pill principles vs. continuing to live as a blue pil…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:33 PM
2

Plausible deniability is a phrase used here a lot. Simplified: you usually can't just tell a woman "let's go back to my place so I can stick my cock down your throat." We have to offer a plausible alternative to advance the situation. Same goes with being married if you're gaming someone else. If you have your shit together, have a purpose in life, lift like a motherfucker and just generally adhere to steps 1 & 2, a woman who wants to fuck you (a married dude) will be looking for that plausible …
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:32 PM
1

It definitely brings out the Sex God method.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:26 PM
4

For the time being, yes. Getting ready for divorce and steering her to an outcome that doesn't involve me getting absolutely divorce raped (she's a SAHM and I make all household income). Also have two kids, 1 and 6 at the time of the cheating. I've been unfucking myself over the last 10 months as now I have the abundance necessary to not really give a shit what she does. There's no shortage of hot women out there willing to fuck purpose driven, rule 1 and 2 following, fit (lift!) men who have be…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 07:12 PM
9

Living in someone else's (cheating wife's) frame. It's a daily struggle but an internal battle I welcome every morning.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:36 PM
11

Even with you being deaf, I was surprised this post wasn't from an 18 year old kid. That "just tell me so I can move on" message was 100% blue pill bullshit. Better message would have been "Cool". Then no contact until she reaches out again. You have other options, right? When you do, it really doesn't affect you when plates tell you they're moving on. Half the time they're just attempting a power move to force your hand into a relationship promotion. Other half the time they've found another ma…
/r/askMRP21/10/18 03:49 PM
2

You think she'd be nearly this magnanimous with your money if she ever decides to branch swing for a richer dude and file for divorce?
/r/askMRP20/10/18 09:48 PM
3

I added a body shot so I could better convey what I'm looking for without having to say it. That keeps a woman's plausible deniability alive and well. My match rate dropped a bit as I shed some of the betabux seekers, but my close rate increased dramatically. Oh - and don't be autistic. Keep your face in the shot.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 01:12 AM
6

Usually the smaller the town, the easier it is. At least that's what I've found in my business travel. Too small of a town though and there isn't a big enough pool to draw from.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 01:09 AM
4

That's why RP theory advocates for strong relationships with male friends. THAT is where we can vent when need be. Our bros won't judge like a woman is programmed to do.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 02:39 AM
3

Yes. In my state alimony is incremental and steps up every 5 years of marriage. Her earning again not only impacts alimony but child support, as well. That's why I highly recommend prenups to any earner (male or female) that is planning on having their spouse stay home to raise the kids. If both parents work then the divorce laws are actually pretty fair, at least in my state.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 10:42 PM
4

This is currently the only thing keeping me with my "wife". Caught her cheating. Executing my go plan but to win against a SAHM requires the long con - getting them back to work. Not stopping me from leading a fun and exciting life in the meantime, and there's no shortage of good looking women willing to fuck a cheated-on married guy who adheres to step 1 and 2.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 07:18 PM
0

Yes you did a DNA test or yes you convinced yourself that she "looks like you".
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/18 04:21 PM
4

Can't access TRP anymore (at least on my Reddit Is Fun app). Any other way to view?
/r/askMRP01/10/18 10:37 PM
7

You're redpilled but not executing the most important step? You need to lift. It's central to every other tenet here.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 12:51 AM
3

I'm in a really shitty situation for a little while longer so what I do might be a little different than most here. I travel often for work and come across these situations regularly. Mainly because I seek them out when possible, plus I've been adhering to TRP tenents and my 9 months of religious lifting and disciplined diet have elevated my SMV well into 80/20 territory. I practice game at a minimum and fuck them if possible. Again this is much easier because we're in a neutral location, typica…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:05 AM
8

Crime statistics 100% confirm this. The greatest threat, by far, to an underage girl is her step-father. And more controversially - the mother who puts her daughters into that situation by prioritizing finding a "provider" ahead of the safety of her children.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 11:49 AM
1

Currently wrestling with this myself. I'm doing well at the other aspects of RP but this one, due to two very young kids and the financial implications (I'm a worst case scenario due to wife being stay at home mom), is the toughest part of the pill to swallow. Becoming an employee of your deadbeat, shitty spouse for over a decade in the form of child support/alimony is horrific. My current game plan is to get her working again to offset that financial hit, but she's AWALT to the max and knows fu…
/r/askMRP03/09/18 03:21 PM
5

Eating ass works to get them curious. Just keep her on her stomach, act like you're going down on her for the umpteenth time....then do a little offroading. Then keep your hands involved and she'll really enjoy it. They love the plausible deniability. This move has acted as a gateway for a couple women who were previous hard nos who I ended up fucking in the ass.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:45 PM
8

More accurately, he should report it stolen - right? That way they turn off service and essentially brick the unique ID.....I think.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:37 PM
3

Sidebar answers this. Basically you have to do relationships with women (AWALT) on your terms and your terms only.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:09 PM
4

Women are attracted to the appearance of strength. But this is definitely a Venn diagram and we want to be in the overlap.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:56 PM
19

It creates another problem: the feedback loop. No otherwise hot girl is going to hear an honest opinion from a guy trying to fuck her. "Oh yeah, that looks amazing! Where did you get it done?" All complete bullshit but an easy way to pass an initial shit(comfort?) test. Kinda like women who name their kids ridiculous mashed up names with y's where vowels are supposed to go. Everyone hates them and everyone lies to the mom's face about how heinous the name is.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:49 PM
5

That's cool - to each their own and more power to you. A good looking woman would never ever commit to the same hairstyle or style of jeans for the rest of their lives, so why do it with a tattoo? Only answer I have is AWALT. Feelz over realz, and that makes irrational/poor decisions seem like good ones. This is just example #3,826 of that to me.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:39 PM
24

For sure. Just figured I'd add some color from outside the usual age range here. When I was in college all the hot women were getting tattoos on the small of their backs. Then the term "tramp stamp" took hold and the fad died overnight. Little too late for many of those girls though. I'm positive tattoo sleeves will have a similar end as the next generation looks for differentiation from the previous. Essentially a sleeve locks these women into an age range/expiration date. They just don't know …
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:27 PM
37

I'm older than most of you (early 40s) but tattoo culture is rearing its ugly, and I do mean ugly, head in my age range for sure. It's women hitting their wall. They're desperate for a way to draw out that once easy to come by attention from quality alpha men (orbiters/betas don't count). They think tattoos take attention away from their failing looks, which now unfortunately pairs with their failing AWALT attitudes that men used to pretend to look past long enough to fuck them/give them attenti…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:15 PM
3

Pretty sure the laws have caught up with this trick everywhere. And I seriously doubt AWALT, in such a heightened emotional state, would have the wherewithal to cover her tracks via VPN or something similar.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:30 PM
10

You think it was an accident that you noticed her wallpaper?? Don't give her the satisfaction of caring.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:44 PM
1

Survivinginfidelity is a great place to start after discovering your wife cheated, but it's not healthy to stay there for long. There is no real OYS element to it, and that explains why people crawl into a hole of depression there and never crawl out.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 11:20 PM
2

Mine as well. Chris Rock has a great bit on how quickly women become entitled. Talked about letting her ride coattails while he was checking in to a Four Seasons hotel. She was all "WOOOOW". Flash forward two hours and she's on the room phone berating kitchen staff over fucking up her cinnamon toast order.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 02:01 PM
6

Some poor dope out there who took her out on one date in college has no idea how close he came to being named as the "rapist" in her fabricated-on-the-fly account of sexual assault.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 04:08 PM
3

What about plates? I'm in the same boat as you. With 2 small kids I'm finding fucking other women whenever I want gives me the outlet I need right now. I'll never forgive her, but this at least buys me daily interaction with my two kids - who need the stability only I can provide. Any plates with you?
/r/askMRP26/06/18 04:30 AM
2

Feel free to read some of my previous posts if you want to see the extent to which women will lie. AWALT. OP: you've been warned.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 12:14 AM
94

Leave some adoption paperwork scattered around the house.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 04:57 PM
4

Seems like dread game is your friend here. Your wife, like all women, loves hearing about their friends branch swinging because they see it as a proving ground for their own potential exploits down the road. You want to make sure your wife's first reaction to hearing about a friend of hers cheating is to know that a betrayed husband will immediately upgrade on that post-wall ass, and upgrade with lots of women.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 01:48 PM
23

This post doesn't lead me to believe that you've read the sidebar at all.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:31 AM
1

I've been combing the TRP citadel here for 4 months now and haven't gotten that impression. I think the overarching narrative is to be dominant with sex, but as you correctly pointed out there are plenty of ways to eat pussy and even ass and still dominate. Besides that, it's a good way to get them off so you can REALLY feck them without concern of leaving them hanging in the orgasm dept.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 02:24 PM
4

My two activities that really seem to excite women: kayaking and astronomy. The key with kayaking is to own two boats so you can take them on paddling adventures. Easier than ever now with Lyft and Uber. Take one car, float some miles, take out, Uber back to the car, take the car back to the kayaks and you're on your way. Pack a picnic lunch and bottle of wine along the way as an excuse to ramp up kino. Astronomy works really well for me because I own an observatory-grade computer controlled sco…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:17 AM
8

I mean this in the nicest possible way here - you need to stop fucking worrying about shit you cannot possibly even begin to change. Focus on the fact that humanity is in the best place food wise it has ever been in. EVER. You're looking for shit to worry about, like a goddamned woman. Agreed on your final point about eating organic and clean whenever possible. That's something you can fucking control.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 01:32 AM
9

Yeah I'm pretty new here but not sure how RP it is to get PTSD from watching a half hours worth of dumbass farm animals getting slaughtered. When the alternative is mass starvation of human beings the ends certainly justify the means. Worldwide hunger levels are at the lowest point in the history of humanity right now. Some folks just need something to worry about. And if they don't have a legitimate thing, they invent one.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 12:33 AM
10

Outcome independence. Trust in the process, not the results, because you can 100% control process. Results rely on a number of factors that preparation cannot always overcome.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 01:28 PM
11

I'm currently operating at DL11, so definitely on the controversial side of this discussion. Not that I give a shit because she cheated on me, but the moment she started to suspect that I was seeing other women, she suddenly wanted to work things out. I added a few of these women as FB friends, which I'm sure she noticed. A couple are SB8s, one obviously prettier than my shitty wife, who has a very pretty face but a disaster of a body once the clothes are off because she lost a lot of weight bef…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/18 10:51 PM
6

Don't be angry that you were lied to, be happy that you now know the truth and have a proven path to success at your disposal, if you are willing to work for it. Never be upset when an opportunity presents itself, regardless of the conditions in which it came about.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 09:11 PM
1

I don't think so. Don't let this scare you off from future easy conquests. Just lowkey document the consensual nature of it somehow.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:41 PM
1

It's literally called Audio Recorder. It's on the play store. I'm sure Apple app store has dozens too.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:24 AM
1

First off relax. It's highly unlikely but if she has a boyfriend or husband she might be more likely to pull this shit. I audio record all my ONSs on my cell phone. Not to be a perv or share it or any of that bullshit. Just to cover my ass. Not sure if you've heard the news but sometimes women only think of themselves and lie.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:19 AM
0

Did you happen to record audio of it? Hoping for your sake she doesn't come down with a case of 'feminist regret".
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:07 AM
6

I wouldn't be opposed to simple a RP rule along the lines of "wear slim fit shirts, and if you're too fat to do that - eat right and lift until you do look good in slim fits."
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 11:52 PM
6

Bumble has the better cuts of meat for those of us over 40. Tinder has a whole lotta fatties.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 07:37 PM
1

Same here but I'm older (low 40s) and can display some of my SMV social proof (as a VP) right there in my header. I've intentionally kept my 'before' pics up so the women I meet in person are VERY happy to see someone 20lbs. lighter and significantly more built thanks to 5 months of balls out lifting and nutrition. I wasn't fat to begin with (6', 195lbs.) so that helps. For me these apps especially come in handy when I travel for business and have the time for an ONS.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 07:32 PM
1

Ironically enough, RL Polo polos are (were per your post?) the worst offenders in ill fitting, way way way too long polo shirts.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 01:46 PM
1

Just posted a more detailed reply further up this string, but I feel it bears repeating. Check out any polo shirt by J Lindeberg. Idiot-proofs the entire polo shirt selection process. If someone doesn't have the time/patience to find a good deal on a Lindeberg polo stateside (they run $75 - $120 new in stores), then only buy slim fit polos. Even those can be hit or miss. As the term becomes more popular it's being co-opted by regular gobs-of-fabric fits trying to flatter fat guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 01:43 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree with the good/bad polo opinion. If all of you want an idiot proof, very stylish polo selection - hit up a color combo you like from J Lindeberg. The fits of their polos are tailored specifically to the body type that RP promotes (ie: not a fatass/dadbod). They accentuate biceps, pecs and toned waists without coming across as a try-hard. There is also what I consider to be the perfect amount of designer badging. Enough to let women know you're not wearing a 3 for 1 Khols buck…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 01:35 PM
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This is a great tip. It's real easy to fall into a trap of talking too much about it. STFU in another form, especially after results start becoming evident to others.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 12:53 PM
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Same situation with my career. Traveling the country staying at 4 star resorts is a great way to build social proof and SMV. It's also insanely easy to get laid. Like spring break for adults. My rules of thumb have been to not engage in hooking up activity when attending conferences with coworkers (I'm married as far as coworkers know) and also not hooking up with women attending my conference in particular. There are usually several conferences/meetings/weddings going on at once at these nicer …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 12:39 PM
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Life is a social game whether we play it or it plays us. And like everything else that is worthwhile, the more reps we do - the easier it gets. Eventually it isn't lying. Fake it until you make it, right?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:12 PM
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No. And good point about how that's impossible. But I do mean it when I say TRP discipline is helping me become a better man, which has changed my entire attitude over this to one of self-assuredness.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:25 PM
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Thank you for the great advice. Here's the weird (or not so weird) thing - I'm not miserable at all. Not since I unplugged. Since then I've never felt more in control and assured of myself. Lots of hard word and discipline over the last 4 months to get here, but I feel I've never been in a better place than I am right now thanks to TRP. And the best part is knowing that when I bust my ass even harder tomorrow, that I'll be in an even better spot then.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:05 AM
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I like the way you think.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 03:54 AM
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I'm in the state of denial, apparently. For real though I'm in a no fault state, of course.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:35 AM
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All true. I've consulted with a couple and it hasn't been pretty due to me earning 100% of the income (I'm sure you're all shocked on that one).
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:45 AM
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Thanks for the great advice. I'll work more towards mentally preparing myself to ignore and maintain frame next time I see him. And bigger picture couldn't agree more on my life getting better. I'm already really motivated and have a ton of cool interests, now I've added/adding a muscular build to my outgoing personality. TRP methodology has played a huge role in all of this so thanks to all the contributors, even the ones dishing up tough love here. I appreciate it and continue to build off it.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:44 AM
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So ignore him when I see him? Man that is going to be really, really tough to do. I'm tempted to at least verbally go after this pussy.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:24 AM
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There was definitely a shift after we got married. All women realize what advantage they just gained, some are just more sly when it comes to gloating about it/acting out because of it.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:22 AM
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The "it was just my turn" and AWALT truths have been big helps in getting me past all this. I'm actually doing really well all things considered. This thing hanging out there with the ex-friend is probably my last loose end/thing that's bothering me. My SMV is at an all time high and I owe it to the hard work I've put in over these last 4 months improving myself according to RP doctrine.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:20 AM
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Good points for sure. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:05 AM
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Good advice. Going to be difficult to do this but I've embraced every other RP challenge thus far. This will be no different.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:04 AM
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Totally get that. The problem is she didn't just do this to me - we have two young children, too. Plus she's a SAHM which means I'd have to pay max vaginamony. All of that means significantly less resources for my children. I want to focus on this asshole of a "friend" I had. If you're thinking he's some kind of Chad, he aint. As I said I'd mop the floor with this jerkoff.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 11:43 PM
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The kids really make the difference here. They're really, really young. Even if I can provide stability for them for another 5 or 10 years - every extra day of it helps. Right now we're in a nice house with a big yard, trampoline, play set, forest to play in - the works. We get divorced and my wife already said she won't work, just live off the vaginamony and child support I'd have to fork over. So the kids would have to go from one nice stable home to two condos with no yard and shady, lower in…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:30 PM
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I get that, and if raising my two young kids in a stable two parent home wasn't such a priority for me I'd have been gone immediately - financial implications be damned. Not sure where the balance is here, or if there can even be any, but the new look/attitude me has definitely changed how the wife looks at me. Plus she's not stupid - she knows I was out with other women while we were trending towards divorce. That dread and realization of my true SMV has driven her decision to try to work it ou…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:00 PM
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Owning my age is definitely what I've been doing going forward. I know now that women don't give a shit about age. Working to be the fittest guy in the room takes care of any of that "I'm too old" bullshit, too.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:46 PM
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Oh I agree completely on it being stupid. But I'm also looking at it as a case study/test if how I handle myself in these situations. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:42 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. Definitely know I have faults here and working on them every day. Appreciate the candor. Can you elaborate more on the amused mastery?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:25 PM
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Well I'm up to over 60 pushups at a time so maybe I'll go that route, lol. Good point on the latter but this peer group as a whole is good. All very successful and most importantly, fun. And they all have kids my kids ages. They enjoy a good time. I'll never look at these non-day 1 friends the same way after what happened to me, nor should I have in the first place - but I'm not going to wall myself off to just my OG friends either. So it's really just this one shit test that I know will happen,…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:22 PM
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Totally get that, but at the same time I'm using the rage and fire inside me for personal growth. Lifting, focusing on work, testing my new game with women I want to fuck. So I really appreciate the words of caution. I have a lot to lose if I get arrested, but in the meantime I'm controlling the emotions that attempted to control me.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 05:59 PM
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Speaking from experience, an asshole I once considered to be my friend had sex with my cheating wife. I called him out and he lied and ran away like a coward. It's a small world though and next time I see him, be it at our local bar or on the golf course where I bump into him - he's getting suckerpunched the fuck out on the spot. He isn't nearly as strong as I am and that was before I started lifting hard four months ago. So unless you're ready to catch hands (or worse in many cases) when you le…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 03:53 PM
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I started Stronglifts in December. How's it going for you? I'm really enjoying it. Was fairly fit looking already but have lost close to 20lbs. in the last few months while putting on some great noob gains. I'm 6', 180lb and now within less than 20lbs. of being able to bench my own weight, which was a metaphorical goal when I started after being cheated on.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 01:03 AM
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Now I'm scared of mediation.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/17 04:23 AM
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Can you provide an update to this post? I'm just starting the process an would love to hear what you've learned so far.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/17 06:11 AM
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