I hate whining but I need to get this bullshit my wife did off my chest. My wife and I went out for drinks with one of her friends and another girlfriend of hers from out of town. After a drink at this one place, my wife suggests we all go to another bar that she and her friend went to when I was out of town last week. We get to this other bar and the bartender (big fucking guy) comes around the bar, introduces himself to me, and then walks over to my wife and picks her up. She laughs and they talk a bit. I'm standing there like a fucking asshole with no idea what to do other than to kick this dude in the gut and fuck her friend's hot friend (I don't do either). Then we sit down she and the bartender talk for awhile. I end up flirting with her friend for a bit, ignoring my wife, cause fuck her. After we get home I tell her how fucked up it was to let another man pick her up like that and she just plays if off like she didn't have a choice and how she was just being her friend's wingman last week and her friend was interested in the bartender and so that's how they became friendly with the bartender. Well this guy didn't touch my wife's friend or really talk to her the whole time we were at the bar. Ok. My bullshit radar is going off. I now know when I'm out of town and she's out with her shitbag friends she flirts with guys while I'm sitting in a fucking hotel room by myself like an asshole. Time to frame up and get lifting. Fucking bullshit .

EDIT: as an update to this. I went through her phone and found a text exchange with another guy in which he says they tried to fool around but were too drunk.

Looking for a lawyer now.

Fellas learn from this. Where is smoke, there’s fire.