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You need to be studying the technology and economic imperatives of global instantaneous comms, social media , and algorithmic sorting. These are structural issues which have nothing to do with sex-war ideology; they precede it. Entry level starting point is Jaron Lanier's work.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/26 02:37 PM
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10 years ago, MRP was a totally different place. A lot of energy & creativity, people like jack10 writing amazing stuff. Then the inevitable happened: it hardened into an orthodoxy and ended up being run by mediocre mods who just regurgitate the same old lines. MRP has failed to renew & reinvent itself, and is thus dying off of intellectual arteriosclerosis
/r/askMRP07/06/26 05:40 PM
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Stop with this nonsense, eat 2x as much as you're eating now, and start a simple straightforward barbell strength program like wendler.
/r/askMRP27/01/26 12:37 PM
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In a very non serious way I did say I’m sorry for my wording and tone. Brutal frame, dude😂
/r/askMRP04/01/26 01:05 PM
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I live for myself. You understand how your whole post is the opposite of 'living for yourself', right?
/r/askMRP27/11/25 05:43 PM
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seems like it is more of a mental model of being fertile and blowing sperm filled loads on your woman. And here we have an object lesson in body mind connection.
/r/askMRP27/11/25 05:10 PM
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Frame: it ain't a wooden rectangle around a painting.
/r/askMRP12/10/25 05:29 PM
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Mission: find my mission😾
/r/askMRP23/08/25 01:01 PM
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I never understood guys doing MRP with girlfriends they can walk away from at anytime. The whole point of this place is that it's hard mode, the french foreign legion of game, the last outpost. If you arent operating under divorce threat you're not doing MRP.
/r/askMRP06/08/25 06:17 PM
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It's amazing how you can check off every single MRP box and not have an ounce of frame anywhere in your body.😒
/r/askMRP06/07/25 12:02 PM
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In medieval times, the only way to recover your honor from the shame of cuckoldry was to slay your wifes lover mano a mano via cold steel on the 'field of honor'. As this option is no longer advisable, you could try alcoholism, antidepressants, whimpering or even just accepting your suffering, humbling yourself and moving forward with your life like a man.
/r/askMRP23/06/25 05:32 PM
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If you as the man of the house cant afford something you just with a straightforward & masculine demeanour tell her that you cant afford it, and leave the bitchy 'ask in a way I appreciate' shit to the females.
/r/askMRP23/06/25 05:28 PM
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Every time your wife teaches you an important spiritual lesson by kicking you in the swollen ego, say 'thank you,ma'am! May I have another?!" and then drop for 10 by the numbers. People climb mountains in tibet to seek wisdom from the old man in the cave and you're getting it for free at home.
/r/askMRP23/06/25 05:25 PM
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"The black pill" is the mood or worldview promulgated by young men who have been formed by the following circumstances: 1. Grew up under dating apps and can't imagine another way to meet a woman 2. Views of sexuality & female attractiveness and the necessity of having an impressive mate created by constant heavy ingestion of internet content, social media, pornography and streaming "movies and shows". 3. Entire life spent in front of a screened device or soullessly pursuing hobbies recommended b…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/25 11:16 PM
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Weaponizing my kid and our relationship is next level delusional. This is why married red pill is the only real red pill. The stakes are high.
/r/askMRP27/05/25 11:33 AM
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MRP Comment Of Year??? ✅️
/r/askMRP27/05/25 11:23 AM
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"Never met her." 😂🤣🤣😂 "Spinning plates" with a female you've never actually met is a prime example of 'MRP Concept Devaluation'. Other examples are "gaming my wife' (ie occasionally slapping her on the ass) and the ever popular 'dread game' (clumsily attempting to flirt with barista in wife's presence).
/r/askMRP27/05/25 11:22 AM
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Better just give up and play video games.
/r/askMRP22/05/25 01:19 PM
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We all went through it. The mindset shift is like a phase change.
/r/askMRP21/05/25 01:00 PM
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Let me save you a couple years of dancing monkey program: The problem here is you and your feeling of entitlement. The 'koan of MRP' is that the motivation (getting sex from wife) leads elsewhere ( not caring any more).
/r/askMRP20/05/25 03:36 PM
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You people still havent figured out that lifting is a sign to being on the right path rather than some magical thing which makes women want you because you're muscular. It's ALL mindset. Lifting is the easiest way to teach mindset to literal-brain autistic losers. Simply the most entry-level, retard-friendly way to teach you to take your focus off the wife & her moods and put it where it belongs.
/r/askMRP16/05/25 03:46 PM
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This is sort of true but the reality is that men in bad marriages are in a specific double bind situation that forces them to change. Most men who need MRP but are not in a bad marriage to force it simply don't have the motivation.
/r/askMRP10/05/25 09:50 PM
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"She calls and I listen to her a bit blabbering about her day etc.. ." So you ignore her (hearing her communication as 'blabber'=ignoring) and then run some red pill boilerplate on her and then get bent out of shape when she feels ignored. I know we 'treat her like shes a teenager' here but that's a rule of thumb, a mindset hack, not a literal set of instructions. Believe it or not, females are human too. Would you want to spend time around someone who clearly thought your talking was blabber an…
/r/askMRP09/05/25 04:57 PM
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You're not going to change a "girls night out" woman by 'establishing a boundary'. Just be able to percieve those kinds of people beforehand (not too difficult) and avoid them altogether. The best boundary of all is NGAF, having an exciting life of your own which constantly draws your attention, and not needing to control females.
/r/askMRP09/05/25 04:40 PM
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5x5 consistent until you plateau, then switch to Wendler 531 BBB.
/r/askMRP09/05/25 03:05 PM
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Why are you wasting time posting about abstract semantic concepts. Your time would be better spent lifting or anything in the physical world really.
/r/askMRP09/05/25 02:42 PM
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"I simply stated" belongs in MRP Bingo along with "I calmly stated", "start BJJ next week" and "mission is to find my mission"
/r/askMRP08/05/25 06:01 PM
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troll 🙄
/r/askMRP08/02/25 08:36 PM
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Your first mistake was being a clumsy spazz and splashing a puddle to begin with. Then it went downhill from there.
/r/askMRP06/01/25 09:51 PM
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You could do that if you had frame....but you don't which is why you're reading it in the first place.
/r/askMRP04/05/24 05:37 PM
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If you have frame you can talk rp to her all you want. But why would you; you have frame, you lead by deed & example, not boring theoretical discussions that she has no interest in whatsoever as a female. She just wants the results. You do not "counter act ideas in her head." You either have frame, and she will respond to it because shes hard wired to do so, or you do not have frame.
/r/askMRP27/02/24 08:34 PM
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Does the concept of "blue pill" still have any validity, 20 odd years after it was invented? It originally meant "the unquestioned background assumptions of mainstream society, as queried by men on the internet". Now it seems to have hardened into a self aware and largely reactive ideology...the mirror image of "red pill".
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 04:27 PM
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🎯
/r/askMRP20/02/24 02:57 PM
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If theres one piece of advice I have for young men that is rock solid, it's this: The submissive "5" who lives to please you will make you far happier than the beautiful "8" who thinks she's doing you a favor by dating you. For your own sake, outgrow the competitive girlfriend thing.
/r/askMRP17/02/24 09:29 PM
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It makes perfect sense when you understand who the target audience is.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 02:49 PM
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If you're weak, you're weak-whether you show "vulnerability" or not.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 08:18 PM
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I was exposed to pill theory for the first time as a grown man with decades of relationships, dating and experience behind me. I was able to discern the good from the bad and keep what worked for me. I'm very glad that I was not exposed to it during my formative years (and to the internet in general).
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 01:16 PM
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I'm sure it all comes down to the internet, like most other negative trends.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 10:13 PM
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There's a whole lot of real estate between avoidant/permastoic and needy/pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 09:53 PM
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The worst of redpill is toxic. The best, such as much of the older content on Married Redpill sub, is best viewed as the bottom iteration of an upward spiral. It's information that many never recieved & processed in their formative years. As one spirals upwards, one returns and sees the validity of red pill truths from above, as it were. From a higher perspective that also admits vulnerability, openness, and need. Many remain stuck at the lower level, especially content creators whose lively hoo…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 03:01 PM
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"Got my macros dialed in"...."I calmly stated..."...."is this anger phase??"...."starting BJJ next week"...."mission is to find my mission" MRP starter pak ^ In all seriousness, "gambling addiction" plus "slovenly" probably means untreated adult ADHD. Get a diagnosis.The stims will give you plenty of motivation
/r/askMRP21/04/23 08:55 PM
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Apologize for what, working? "Gotta go, work call on the other line. Love ya!"
/r/askMRP22/03/23 02:33 PM
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Someone ought to do a post about ADHD here, I bet it's way more prevalent among MRP guys than the gen pop.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/23 09:48 PM
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You claim you dont drink except for rare social occasions and then a couple sentences later, contradict yourself and admit to resorting to alcohol every time you fall into a shame spiral. You're an alcoholic. Get sober.
/r/askMRP02/03/23 12:07 PM
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Remembering when my wife was in sleuth mode and printed out heartistes list of "rules" and was waving it my face going "what is this misogynist crap!!!" and I was like "this is just some stuff that everyone knows which had to be spelled out in black & white for internet losers"
/r/askMRP01/03/23 08:20 PM
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🎯🎯
/r/askMRP01/03/23 11:43 AM
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Anything, anything at all except for the reddit whining "pay attention to my boring life"
/r/askMRP27/01/23 10:01 PM
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So she went to her man looking for support & guidance and got a big sulk because you couldnt handle her feels. Frame. It aint a wood square around a picture.
/r/askMRP26/01/23 07:37 PM
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Still dont get unmarried guys using this sub. This place is for when your back is to the wall. Thats what generates the mojo.
/r/askMRP23/01/23 07:22 PM
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LOL shes got you tied in knots. These girls are very good at this. Your head-level red pill knowledge is nothing compared to her gut-level, purely instinctual feminine wiles. As you lack frame, it would probably be a good idea to avoid these type females.
/r/askMRP20/01/23 05:04 PM
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For a lot of guys who have never known anything but DEERing, a retard robot STFU phase is kind of normal. After a while, you kind of internalize it and start to loosen up.
/r/askMRP16/01/23 02:42 PM
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From one who's been there: getting sober is the most important thing for mrp progress. Really, you should take 6 months off from red pill and focus on sobriety. Come back when you have at least that much time under your belt. An active addict has no frame. The DOC is their frame.
/r/askMRP15/01/23 08:51 PM
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"who says you aren't phat already?" [/dry humps ass]
/r/askMRP02/05/19 07:15 PM
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Women want to be fucked by a man who seems to be doing what he wants to do, but who is actually taking her subtle cues. Like tangoing.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 08:29 PM
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Logged in to upvote this!
/r/askMRP08/04/19 01:39 AM
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Legit. I realized I had to stop waiting for verbally expressed buy-in/compliance with my wishes and just plow ahead regardless. Again & again I have seen that my wife cannot resist long term steady calm movement towards a goal of mine; even if in any one particular intstance she fails to respect mah authoritah.
/r/askMRP14/01/19 07:49 PM
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how do I transition out of this. Good question, one you'll more or less have to answer for yourself. Getting past anger phase IS the work of MRP. The rest is supplementary.
/r/askMRP12/01/19 12:09 PM
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Red pill works on women whether they know about it or not. You can talk about anything, if you have FRAME. You want to "share the knowledge" not because you want to "discuss parenting" but because you want validation, confirmation, "don't worry, you're doing this right". In short you lack frame & SMPO. Not talking about it makes it easier for men without frame to fake it.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:35 PM
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You managed to resolve that conflict between nmmng & the mrp paradigm on your own by the common sense method of listening to your own instincts. So why are you wasting good electrons on this one?
/r/askMRP10/12/18 11:19 AM
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Somehow "gaming the wife" has become shorthand for grabbing ass and aggressive "kino". Gaming literally means gaming. Mystery Method. IOIs, DHV, top hat, goggles, the whole 9 yards.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/18 09:12 PM
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Bench-266 Deadlift-356 Squat-451
/r/askMRP21/11/18 09:56 PM
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Job 1 is stop smoking weed. You're not an occasional casual user--you are a stoner. A pothead. "420" in any quantity is the anti red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 07:41 PM
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haha nice. i use puppets with my daughter to talk about stuff but never thought to do it on the wife!
/r/askMRP17/11/18 06:40 PM
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Dude my wife's PMS would try the patience of a saint. The double binds and frame tests and other weird shit she comes up with that has no name but could only be found in a textbook of graduate-level fucked up female psychology and mindfuckery. It's nothing but deadlifts for your frame. Every single time you start getting pissed off, STOP, stfu, and ask yourself what your own ego-contribution to incipient frame loss is.
/r/askMRP17/11/18 06:38 PM
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I avoid the problem of keeping my wife accountable for long-term money goals by handling all the finances myself, having everything in my name only, making all the Investments and paying all the bills. She's a SAHM on a cash allowance.
/r/askMRP16/11/18 02:37 AM
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read PFP asap esp on vetting, early frame announcement and betaization. most underrated book on sidebar.
/r/askMRP08/11/18 08:33 PM
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BPP has a pod that helped me alot with fake AM/AA. He says it was designed for pickup and guys who get bitched at 24/7 would present as a clown if they always AM. It's ok to nod & smile aka stfu. I came to see AM as a symptom of strong frame. If it arises authentically I go with it, but I never force it, especially if I'm feeling any butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 06:14 PM
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Bad framing. She doesn't want you on your knees, but you're making her very nervous by upsetting the usual order. " I don't have time for dealing with this weekling getting up on his hind legs for a little while" is what she's thinking. Prove her wrong. That's what she wants.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 04:29 PM
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There is hope, Rambo was down and out and he made a comeback. Marriage is my Nam. MRP is my Green Berets. @rian_stone is my Col. Trautmann. FRAME is my big ass survival knife with a compass on the handle.
/r/askMRP06/11/18 02:51 PM
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Classic frame meltdown. Use the humiliation as a means of enlightenment. Reality is showing you that your protective self image isn't aligned with things as they are.
/r/askMRP06/11/18 12:43 PM
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Your wife is doing you a big favor by weaponizing. Adamantium frame is forged in the fires of weaponization.
/r/askMRP05/11/18 02:57 PM
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At some point you're going to be caught on the horns of the stfu dilemma: to talk is to DEER yet to be silent is to look like a big dummy or worse, an angry stonewaller. WISNIFG is the book that explains how to make communicationesque mouth sounds that don't lose you the power struggle. You need dread one no matter what happens. It's the cornerstone of frame.
/r/askMRP04/11/18 10:02 PM
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What should I do when I see her then? "Hi how's it going?" Then stand there with nothing to say while she looks upset. You just described the first 3-6 months of MRP, aka STFU aka Autist Phase aka Dread Level One. WISNIFG from sidebar prereqs gives you the tools to deal with this phase. Learning how to cope with the codependent anxiety & fight or flight alarms that are going to be shooting off in your sympathetic nervous system as you attempt to engage your female in a non supplicating frame is …
/r/askMRP04/11/18 07:05 PM
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would she break up after I apologize? That sounds like some twisted logic right there. Welcome to the female mind, son. If I sent an offensive passive aggressive butthurt text then I should 'man up' and apologize face to face. That's what adults do (not betas). I know I screwed up with that needy text. But she will likely be expecting an apology. Women are always expecting an apology. It's a trap. Am I suppose to meet up with her and stand there like a jackass "Hey hows it going?" and ignore wha…
/r/askMRP04/11/18 06:56 PM
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upvote
/r/askMRP04/11/18 05:42 PM
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we need to chip in & hire @rian stone an intern so he has time to mod these muppets.
/r/askMRP30/10/18 01:48 PM
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You can almost watch this place getting dumber in real time since TRP folded.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/18 11:11 AM
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Dread IS hormone therapy. Literally. And it's free.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 10:59 AM
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My wife used to play the same cock tease game when she weaponized. She's yanking your chain. You should thank her for that...she's showing you where you need work.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 04:54 PM
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The answer is, both. When you have frame you will not be butthurt @ her antics. When you have frame you will enforce boundaries. (& have options & somewhere to go/something important to do) Obsessing over being treated like shit IS butthurt in action. When people here talk about "getting rid of ego" this is what they mean. "Deterioration phase" is definitely a thing. Set up all the boundaries and stop acting codependent while still radiating butthurt & your wife is going to react negatively. I r…
/r/askMRP25/10/18 10:59 AM
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MRP is not for you. The hope of ending DBR is the motivating factor here. But stay on your present trajectory and you'll be there soon enough.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 12:07 AM
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Got a long way to go, but at least you're in the game now. Most of the real work is changing the weak parts of your character that cause you to react to her standard issue female bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/18 12:07 PM
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Barman, a round of whatever this guy is having for all the guys in here. This is like a time machine back to the old time mrp of our forefathers.
/r/askMRP15/10/18 10:48 AM
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OP isn't anywhere near having the frame to pull off the R Lee Ermey "getting 2" from his wife's face" thing. Any female worth her salt will flip that on a beta so fast it will make his head spin & next thing he's neck deep in her frame being accused of abusive behavior. Take control of the situation, remove kids from harms way, set boundaries etc but keep a grip on yourself OP.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 07:10 PM
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Oh, the microdosing beer guy. I remember you. I was hoping you'd become a regular here as a break from the usual STEM jockeys. Sounds like you handled it perfectly. Hold frame, prepare for the worst, and remember that, as a pillbrother, you only do relationships on your terms. "better to die on your feet (get divorce raped) than live on your knees "(supplicating beta existence).
/r/askMRP12/10/18 06:53 PM
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My wife never pitches me this softball because she's built like a black jessica rabbit and knows it. I'm always hoping though. I say things like "how do you get your ass in those jeans" and she's all teehee.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 06:46 PM
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Another day, another poast on AskLTRRP by another muppet who hasn't even pretended to sidebar. Rollo.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 10:44 PM
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"I am not mad" lol. One thing I've learned...whenever the urge to do something relationship-oriented "in an earnest manner" starts sneaking up on me...which still happens from time to time...I know to slam on the brakes and not listen to the beta shit goblin....what William Burroughs called "the Mark Within".
/r/askMRP07/10/18 05:51 PM
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The problem is, he doesn't know a hard from a soft no...and who can blame him in this climate.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 10:27 AM
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The benign bait and switch of MRP.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 10:07 AM
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alrite, you spergs have officially ruined the ass smack. It's supposed to be a spontaneous demonstration of frame & sheer joie de vivre...not something you deliver with a butthurt grimace (aka "smirk") as you hobble past nursing your blueballs and telling yourself "I'm such an asshole...chicks dig it!"
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:18 PM
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Anyone fantasizing that MRP is going to escape the fate of TRP better wake the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 10:22 AM
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8 just means "a number that suggests I'm confident without being arrogant". It's the most common self-SMV assessment because it is smack in the middle of 6,7 and 9, 10.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 02:20 PM
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some double distilled top shelf harsh wisdom.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 02:13 PM
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read rollo on buffers
/r/askMRP28/09/18 08:04 PM
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Some advanced Machiavellian s*** here.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 11:53 AM
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You have to laugh at the audacity of her framing. "Shady" implies both "morally suspect" and "furtive". It implies that you're doing bad stuff but without any kind of bad boy glamour. It's a perfectly contemptuous term. It doesn't really matter what you say...the delivery is everything. The typical AA, served up with a butthurt smirk, is in itself shady af. Instead of acting like she's your mom and she's not the boss of you, just do what you like when and why you like it and then answer her ques…
/r/askMRP27/09/18 11:11 AM
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Mine is, "I know, I'm just as bad as Trump."
/r/askMRP10/09/18 01:47 PM
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Phoning it in, Tfa. Best thing about this piece is the catchy title. Otherwise reads like it was written to check off a box labelled "patch up the sales funnel" on a checklist. Miss the old days when guys like strategos were writing with real intensity from the front lines.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 09:20 PM
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When she goes back to work (sahm), I'll increase her mad money, but I'm depositing the paychecks.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 09:02 PM
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I broke thru my 5x5 plateaus by working volume: dload 20% from plateau weight, start w 4x8, then add reps and sets every session until I'm lifting a given weight 8x8. Then add 5 lbs, 10 on deads.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 08:56 PM
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This poast epitomizes the least attractive aspects of red pill...the empty, "positive thinking" tony robbins huckster side. I feel a need to drink a bottle of tequila & skip leg day for a month after reading this crap.
/r/askMRP02/09/18 04:43 PM
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I think for the most part, Rollo knows he is dealing with guys who are so beta & self sacrificing that they couldn't be Corey Worthington if their life depended on it. Sonething for them to aim at, and maybe they'll hit something more in line with SMPO and actually have that beer with their buddies without checking with the wife first.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/18 07:17 PM
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The most alpha guy I know, my father in law, never provided leadership or cohesion over anything and definitely isn't a veteran. Just a guy who roams the world doing exactly what he wants at all times. Kids by at least 10 different women, supporting none of them. Strictly gospel according to Rollo: Corey Worthington, the alpha buddha. SMPO + frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/18 06:39 PM
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OP needs to post a pic of him so we can see how Alpha he really is... He has posted a pic before. Looks damn good for 51.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 09:22 PM
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RM3 is fucking awesome...best book on the sidebar imho.
/r/askMRP10/08/18 11:52 AM
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Take her to Paddles NYC and parade her around butt-naked in a collar.
/r/askMRP10/08/18 11:45 AM
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The Bible is red pill??? Who knew?
/r/MGTOW06/08/18 12:48 PM
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Yah mon, sure sucks when you can't just handle a female TRP OG style by nexting them when they annoy you, because you're married. oh wait, you're not married. TRP teaches how to get women, and even what to do with them after you get them. It doesn't teach anything about what to do with them when they get you.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 12:08 PM
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tbh it has gotten to the point where i don't even trust men who aren't baldheaded or at least balding. you know who had a full head of hair? elliot rogers.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 11:48 AM
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when my daughter does this, i blow a puff of air in her face and laugh. she ratchets up the bawling another level, repeat...always ends in tickles.
/r/MGTOW04/08/18 12:23 AM
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The standard answer if a woman threatens to leave you is “the door is right there.” For a man who intends to keep his balls come what may, this is the only possible answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/18 12:43 PM
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This problem started long before you ever found MRP. Why are you so worried that you might be fucking something up?
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:02 PM
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Great post. Hope to hear more from you. What's really driven this home for me in the last few years is how easily you can lose frame. Married guys can relate. And as an aside, I truly believe you do not know what it is like to be married until you are married. This is evidenced by the sheer number of unmarried guys who tell me or other married men how marriage "should be". I thought I had mad frame before I got married because I was quick on the "next". Once that option suddenly had a very steep…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 01:15 PM
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It seriously bothers me that she doesnt open up. Instead of spinning your wheel about being a rambo and day to day tactics, think deeply about why it seriously bothers you that she won't open up.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 12:38 PM
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The Virgin Prince of Wales vs the Chad Laborer
/r/MGTOW01/08/18 02:13 PM
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"..the witchita line worker...is still on the liiiine..." nah doesn't work.
/r/MGTOW31/07/18 02:53 PM
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"buff german entrepreneurs" lol. This is like an outtake from Sprockets.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 03:36 AM
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Your wife fucked a fat chad. It happens.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 03:21 AM
2

I don't know this chick, but I know that unhappy bitchface well. It's the dissatisfied, jaundiced look of a creative class female who just got done handing Joshua and Eleanor off to the west indian nanny and is now contemplating a tweet on how she is exhausted from all the emotional labor. Putting some marriage therapist's kid through college. Filling the void with tasteful, expensive consumer goods, after carefully over-researching every purchase. Sex twice a month with her highly paid bugman h…
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 05:50 PM
2

Does that make sense Only when I tell Google Translate to "recognize Hampsterese". Work the sidebar hard and try to figure out why you're so afraid of leaving her.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:36 PM
5

I can think of several times where I wanted to break up with her but just couldn’t, just from being a pussy. But right now I’m at a different city, I have just started to support myself but I’m still broke and have a contract for 1,5 years of rent bla bla bla You're on the right track here with some good introspection and then your hamster took over and ran you into the weeds.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 12:52 PM
0

infinite regress!
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 06:18 PM
3

This would be a good novel; somewhere between Confederacy of Dunces and Houellebecq's Elementary Particles.
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 01:20 PM
2

David Mamet "oleanna"
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 03:36 AM
2

"fat slappers"
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 02:50 AM
3

I'm teaching her to rule the ruins like tina turner in mad max. after 18 i wash my hands of her...i'll be watching from the bar.
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 02:37 AM
2

...then she was all "well why didn't you stop me!!??" frame lads frame You're gonna need it mgtow or not.
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 12:48 AM
1

Good point. There are useless dirtbags who have SMPO of dark star density; dragging everything into their orbit. SMPO first last and always.
/r/askMRP28/07/18 11:11 PM
12

I think if it ever comes to this for me; I'm going to say "with all due respect your honor...gentlemen of the jury...go f*** yourselves." Then go MGTOW, jailhouse style. Reading shakespeare, playing chess, doing handstand pushups, worshipping odin, eating motherf*****'s peanut butter and jelly sandwiches...
/r/MGTOW28/07/18 03:53 PM
2

He's a famous anti-masculinity activist. He was repping soy back when most of yall were in pampers.
/r/MGTOW28/07/18 12:35 AM
2

That was the first thing that occurred to me too.
/r/MGTOW27/07/18 05:04 PM
4

like sure, you can learn how to catch that ball, but you'll never be a pro baseball player. Yeah, but you'll still be a superior man, playing in your weekend amateur league, to the homo sitting on the couch.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 02:47 PM
4

That is an ancient chinese sage, travelled from the caverns beneath wu tang mountain to discourse on longevity, raw chi, the proper balance of Yin and Yang, the vampiric and life shortening properties of females, the cosmic harmonies, and such like.
/r/MGTOW27/07/18 02:34 PM
16

normal, balanced functional man with his shit together would never partner with a BPD woman. She would be dismissed It always takes two to tango in these BPD clusterfucks. Show me a bpd marriage and I'll show you a codependent male. So what's the point of this long screed other than venting for the OP? Psycho women are out there, yes. They don't play fair, yes. Now what?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 07:02 PM
0

Couldn't ask for a better breakdown of atomization in diagram form.
/r/MGTOW25/07/18 06:41 PM
2

Legit. At 71 he was there for the wildcat/Smokey & the Bandit/CB radio glory days. Must have some tales for sure.
/r/MGTOW25/07/18 06:32 PM
1

My wife has that book on her shelf. Was the author on T? Not legit otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 05:46 PM
3

If a Chad stopped her from shoplifting she'd love it.
/r/MGTOW25/07/18 05:44 PM
1

There are no alphas in relationships with BPDs. None. Meditate for a moment on the reason for this.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 03:59 PM
1

As an old hillbilly trucker once told me "anyone can drive a truck going forwards...it's backing up separates the men from the boys". Or you might say... backing up in Midtown Manhattan separates the men from the bots.
/r/MGTOW25/07/18 01:55 PM
-4

You either have frame or you don't. If you have it, BPD means nothing. If you don't have it, even an average female is going to have you DEERin' & supplicatin'.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 01:23 PM
1

" I was cut from her belly with a Stanley knife/ My daddy did a jig with the drunk midwife"
/r/askMRP24/07/18 06:10 PM
7

Sure, as long as he punches his way out of any situations arising from dressing like a girl, boy named sue style.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:28 PM
8

Softest nigga in the game.
/r/MGTOW22/07/18 12:11 PM
0

There's wisdom in the "book of pook" but I was distracted by the fact that I became obsessed with the concept that it was written by an Asian. That weird precious, twee diction just reminds me of anime type culture. Also at one point he starts talking about cooking rice which would never occur to a non asian Probably Korean...the pilled asians.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 06:02 PM
4

Not to mention Geneology of Morals, Might Makes Right, Sex And Character and Miss Julie.
/r/MGTOW21/07/18 01:03 AM
1

The workers don't like being at Amazon? They are free to leave. You know what else they're free to do? Use whatever clout they can organize to tip the playing field in their favor...just like Bezos did.
/r/MGTOW20/07/18 03:12 PM
2

As a married man with mgtow spiritual leanings and a submissive yet liberal wife I can kinda sympathize. I know frame is a dirty word around here, but you're going to need it. Strong frame and a DNGAF attitude towards her political shit tests and she'll know her place. Weak frame and butthurt will be a disaster no matter how good your arguments are.
/r/MGTOW20/07/18 01:27 PM
1

One word for you: actuarial death spiral.
/r/MGTOW20/07/18 01:15 PM
1

If you're not willing to leave London to learn your trade, you won't make it as a journeyman. Especially as a welder. Willingness to travel is important in that field if you want to maximize income.
/r/MGTOW20/07/18 01:08 PM
1

That light at the top of the ziggurat appears to be the same one over your left shoulder in the video. Otherwise, nice calming presence and dig the "take me as I am" warts n all vibe.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 11:08 AM
1

VERY weird soft and fatly veal pen effeminate "fatly veal pen effeminate". Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 10:56 AM
2

Unions. Which is a fancy way of saying politics and control of borders.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 10:27 PM
1

Hopefully he waited until she was of legal age and then got his money's worth out of her chubby ass. "Not yours/your turn".
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 08:57 PM
1

I've done a couple highrise elevator shafts. They give me the creeps.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 07:08 PM
27

Residential roofers are the serfs of the construction industry. Think major market union electrician making a solid middle class living with bennies and pension doing work involving little physical strength.
/r/MGTOW19/07/18 02:06 PM
1

Congrats. Fatherhood destroyed my sex life (and brought me here) but is otherwise very rewarding. Look into home birth...it's epic.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 08:18 PM
1

My wife is a chaotic shitshow. I can't complain about this...I picked her specifically because I was sick & tired of controlling type A striver females...the kind who research every last purchase exhaustively, etc. So now I have to run everything or we'd be completely fucked. Fortunately she mostly stays out of the way outside of whining for an allowance increase.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 07:02 PM
2

On the other hand her having $6000 on a credit card at a 20% interest rate is going to hurt both of us I don't see how her credit card problems hurt you at all... unless you marry her because you're a codependent niceguy caretaker caught in her tractor beam while telling yourself that you're "providing leadership".
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 03:45 PM
1

Just looking at the screencap of the couple in bed...guy looks like he lifts, smv & grooming on point, macros dialed in...what gives?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 02:18 PM
1

This is why I work in construction.
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 11:50 AM
5

BOTS BEFORE THOTS bots up thots down! "Bots before thots" ahahaha
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 11:39 AM
1

For a while, my policy has been "only when I feel like I really, really fucked up"; but I'm starting to lean towards "never". There's just nothing to be gained from it. Put the psychic energy spent apologizing to work improving.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 10:37 AM
2

...or just make another amazon account, in your own name.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 11:37 AM
1

Lifts or gtfo.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 11:30 AM
18

There is no such thing as a very honest and open relationship with a female. That's a blue-pill mirage...a consequence of the mental model applicable to dealings between (equal) men. She'll talk your ear off about openness, equality, communication, etc. Do not listen. You were lied to in your formative years.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 11:27 AM
35

Blue Pill aka Neo-Liberalism is the source of most of your problems. Yes that's a big bold statement. lol. Red pill is neoliberalism on stilts. Atomised, hypercompetitive (Tinder competition spiral), obsessed with self...healthy 20 year-olds on testosterone replacement...any day we'll be getting a post about how cyborg implants are a must for the aspiring alpha... A product of instantaneous global communications. Organized around the concept of "sexual market value"...half the guys on here were …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:27 PM
1

I dunno man. My personal theory is that it's all part of the efeeminization of modern man. Picture yourself as a warlord in Merovingian times. When you arise horny after the feast, many wines to the good, and visit the women's quarters, you don't wait for your wives and concubines to "initiate". You summon the most comely of your slave women with an imperious wave of your hand, order her to spread herself on the wolfskins and prepare to receive a son from your balls. You aren't concerned with ho…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:44 PM
9

Actually lolling out loud here because this place is full of married guys who'd give anything to be young, fit and unattached as you currently are. If you understood why your LTR leaving was the best thing that could possibly have happened to you...you wouldn't have posted this. It's kind of a paradox. You owe her nothing. Any need to reason or DEER with her or fix her feels is your inner beta talking.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 04:16 PM
2

WISNIFG can be kind of tedious due to the hundreds of pages of corny 1962-vintage conversational examples but there's an incredible ammount of value in there and it keeps getting deeper as you circle back to it with more experience.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 03:50 PM
1

There's going to be a whole hell of a lot more of this kind of thing...months and months of it...as she starts digging in her heels on your attempt to extricate. Also you'll begin noticing her frequent use of powertalk which was there all along. Make sure you read NMMNG and WISNIFG right away.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 11:12 AM
1

After reading this comment, I checked out his post history...bearded hipster of the microdosing/craft beer clan. It's fascinating to me to watch pill knowledge diffuse into previously blue subcultures. Start off tripping like a hippy, then microdosing, then illimitable man-style boutique nootropics ...and next thing you know, you're deadlifting in a backwards MAGA hat.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 10:59 AM
1

As General Andy Jackson told his men at the Battle of New Orleans, "don't shoot til you see the whites of their eyes.".
/r/askMRP14/07/18 11:11 AM
1

My wife found the reddit pill world and it definitely made things more difficult, but no less effective. She just tested longer and harder and more stubbornly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:21 AM
2

After the reset event, she'll be spreading her legs for the local warlord in exchange for a bowl of gruel and a job hauling water from the river.
/r/MGTOW13/07/18 12:55 PM
4

Domestic violence: when you're so deep in her frame all you can do is try to punch your way out.
/r/MGTOW13/07/18 12:42 PM
1

At least you found this place before you got married.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 11:29 AM
4

He uploaded his consciousness to an immortal machine and set off to explore the cosmos.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:41 PM
1

I have the same tendency to think of RP as contaminated by the huge number of hacks, "life coaches", side-hustlers and other dodgy serial entrepreneurs trying to monetize but lets be realistic...that part of RP was integral to it from the very beginning and the grassroots aspects evolved in tandem with the hustle aspects.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:39 PM
5

Supplicating guarantees resentment.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 12:52 PM
1

Being butthurt is an inevitable part of the process. Also, your wife sees right through the pretense. So, let her see that you're taking that anger and doing something SMPO oriented with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/18 12:21 AM
4

It's at this point some of us start to realize that something is not quite right, we’ve been sold a lie and nobody is offering a fucking refund, we take our burns and we turn them into tools. Now imagine doing this in 1993, with nothing but a copy of "Story of O" as a guide. Talk about flying blind.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 05:11 PM
1

Lol. Polish girl got a live one on the hook.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 11:17 AM
10

"Attention all hands! This is your captain speaking! You may have noticed that I appear stern, calm, competent nd commanding. However since it is important that you all know what I'm doing in my life I have decided to inform you that I am stressed out and full of fear and my calm appearance is merely a front. As you were.Carry on!"
/r/askMRP09/07/18 10:05 PM
2

Stop worrying about your wife. Set and enforce your boundaries with persistence and consistency. You'll either wear her down or you won't...in any case you will have acted with impeccability.When the Great Supervisor comes to do our Lifetime Performance Review, that's all that counts.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 06:15 PM
11

There's some good stuff in here, but the unnecessary hyper-rationalistic style just obscures it. It's like rollo at his worst, when he goes into "credentialed academic" mode.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:12 AM
1

Why are you posting under two names here? Pick one and stick with it.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 10:01 AM
3

just absolutely turn into a dick. Now you're catching on. Try rephrasing it to yourself as "being a man with balls". And if she doesn't like it.....what?
/r/askMRP05/07/18 09:55 AM
3

Why are you so worried about escalating the situation? It doesn't really matter how you respond as long as you do it with strong frame, which begins with not giving a f***.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 09:46 AM
2

If feminists understood how domestic violence is a result of beta rage their minds would be blown.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 02:49 PM
11

She sounds a little bit like my own lazy ass wife who was bone idle before kid and now regards 30 min of diapering, dressing and feeding as a day's work. Sometimes I wish I could clone myself and raise my kid as 2 gay dads.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 10:43 AM
1

Not so sure I'd pick Bukowski as the opposite of pussy-whipped. He was as blue pill romantic as they come, in a gutter-chic way, although his strong sense of mission is always inspirational.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/18 10:35 AM
1

Philip Roth's "My Life As A Man" is maybe the finest depiction of impotent beta rage ever written.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/18 10:32 AM
1

The next time we met (without my wife around) I had to tell her I couldn't talk because my wife was with me. What is this, anti-dread?
/r/askMRP01/07/18 01:43 PM
5

I took the virginity of my wife's butt.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 11:00 AM
1

Broken record when your wife is demanding that you DEER & supplicate is like deadlifts for your frame.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 10:50 AM
1

OP, a good low-hanging fruit boundary for you would be password protecting your phone. I use the iris-scanner. When your wife shits and starts ranting about "what are you hiding" it will be like shooting fish in a barrel, AM/AAwise.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 12:25 PM
3

My first big frame victory was the epic frame battle that ensued when my wife discovered this place. It dragged on for a whole day and culminated with her flinging a printout of 16 Poon in my face like a trial lawyer producing the smoking gun. I just shrugged and said "that's some shit I've known since I was 18 years old. They wrote it up for internet losers." redpill is a cult! Misogyny! They're probably all white nationalists! Etc etc etc. I just broken record "it's a self improvement program"…
/r/askMRP30/06/18 12:21 PM
4

"We should be more thankful and less nagging.To which I agree of course." Why "of course"? Why are you taking her nonsense at face value? As far as I can tell, every word out of your wife's mouth is a plea for a man who is...funny, irreverent, amusing, dominant, cocky...call it whatever you want, anything but the mopey straight-man you present yourself as. Do you ever tease your wife? Break her balls? Come on man.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 04:32 PM
2

Plus the gym has gym females squatting in tights.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 02:01 PM
5

Does your wife post on reddit as u/ChokingDownChokingDownRP?
/r/askMRP21/06/18 08:57 PM
1

They just made a post on TRP dealing with this exact situation: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ru7he/women_will_be_sexual_with_lesser_alpha_orbiters/
/r/askMRP21/06/18 09:59 AM
1

Like to fuck, do you? Then having a kid probably wasn't the best idea; on top of being a chubby manlet. At least you found this place early and you're puking your victim pukes here instead of all over the wife like I did when my daughter was 9 months old. Think getting in shape is hard? Try digging your way out of the hole created by full-on grovelling and sulking for sex. You're at the beginning of a long process, but at least you're in the game. I consider you lucky.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 09:46 AM
1

Marriage can work if the man is fully prepared. The problem is that the preparation takes a lot of work; mental, physical and emotional. And hard work requires motivation...exactly the type of motivation that is not happening during the lovebombing pre-marriage relationship. So men marry before they are ready, with predictable results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:40 AM
1

88Will88 speaks painful truth. Disregard your ego and heed his words, OP.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 08:32 PM
1

RT is a uniquely perceptive and farsighted thinker. He is also both compassionate & humane while unafraid to follow the logic of his ideas all the way. There are no official spokespeople, though. It's basically a Wild West situation of hacks, ideologues, true believers, life coaches, normal dudes and weirdoes all clamouring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:50 AM
1

Rollo Tommasi, the St.Paul of pill theory, dealt with this concept of "children with dynamite" in his Rational Male trilogy. That's the place to start if you are trying to understand this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:38 AM
7

This place did more for my marriage than thousands of dollars worth of counselling by credentialed experts. I believe the continuity of this forum to be inherently unstable and temporary because the practices we learn here are so powerful and so totally out of step with current norms. I understand the hamstering behind DEERing our very existence but let's face it: pill theory is unacceptable all the way down. All the purple paint in the world cannot disguise the revolutionary nature of what is t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/18 03:30 PM
2

It's a good thing they're so damn cute & loveable or I'd be living in a heart of darkness compound in surinam right now being serviced by native females and drinking Forres Park straight out the bottle. My daughter pronounces "bicycle" as "buy giggle".😍
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 08:57 PM
6

Sounds like you probably genuinely aren't any fun and she's legit aggravated with you for being a drag but still wanting to use her girl hole. That said, I was never much for the witty comebacks either. I kind of turned a corner after listening to one of bluepill professor's pods where he kind of explains the difference between PUA game and married game. Long story short, the main thing is not to get sucked into her frame. If the best you can do is STFU...then you STFU. When I was in extrication…
/r/askMRP16/06/18 08:14 PM
3

Just practice on your wife.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 11:50 PM
3

3rd para was excellent description of post baby betaization.That's exactly how it happened to me.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 06:48 PM
6

The BDSM scene is full of beta "doms" and dorks who can't deal with females without a lot of external (sub)cultural trappings.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 09:35 AM
5

You are the prize. "Fucking our chances together" is a frame you want to avoid like the plague.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 12:56 PM
4

It's good to read a detailed FR from a guy in the middle of the process with a good attitude.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 08:19 PM
1

I was reading along, thinking "this isn't necessarily a troll...there are actually chodes this goofy out there" until I got to the part where OP busts a judo move on the Chad (who I picture as looking exactly like Joaquin Phoenix in "Her"). Yeah, that happened.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 10:31 AM
7

Look real hard at your own motivations for wanting marriage. If it's not coming from strong SMPO, don't do it. And definitely don't use your LTR's current behavior as any guide. Of course she fucks...now. Her verbally stated sexual politics mean literally nothing. If your own frame, game, attractiveness, mission and most importantly SMPO are drum-tight....then you're still a god damn fool if you get married; but you're gonna do you irregardless.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 10:09 AM
1

I just go to the barber and say "No. 1 guard" and he does the rest.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 09:10 PM
1

the hand: frame the belt: frame squared
/r/askMRP08/06/18 01:35 AM
1

I got that same rush off the RM books especially the last one "Positive Masculinity". That's what it must have felt like to read a mimeographed copy of Gulag Archipelago in 1960s USSR.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 01:27 AM
2

"If she spends her portion of it before the month is over, oh well. She’ll learn." Reality: she goes over budget in a week and then makes OP's life a living hell until he relents.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 09:53 PM
2

Master Mantak Chia's books are fantastic. A lot of Deida's stuff is watered-down Chia.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 09:48 PM
0

Good point. An actual sociopath would be out torturing animals, lighting fires and wetting the bed.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 10:51 AM
2

Or Bill Clinton dealing with a hostile interviewer.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 11:11 PM
7

Less time spinning your wheels over dumbass MRP paradoxes and more time lifting and improving yourself
/r/askMRP04/06/18 11:55 PM
8

It's ok. Having gay sex with your sister-in-law's gay boyfriend doesn't make you gay. In fact if you play it right, you could spin gay plates. Tight gay dread game confirmed!
/r/askMRP04/06/18 10:34 AM
2

Roving polymath/web personality Vox Day has a lot to answer for. When his books and blogs and schemes are long forgotten, men on the internet will still be calling themselves "Sigmas" to general mockery It's too bad that this concept was the only part of VD's "sociosexual hierarchy" to gain traction outside of the STEM-christian nerd-o-sphere. The idea of "gamma" was more original, useful and amusing. "Sigma" is pretty obviously something VD came up with to describe himself when he found that he…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:53 PM
1

Repeat, repeat, repeat, repeat.
/r/askMRP02/06/18 10:58 AM
3

Another day, another post for AskLTRRP. OP, you've chosen to larp the "bored roommates" phase of a dying marriage with your girlfriend for some reason. Go read rollo on LTRs and Practical Female Psychology on the relationship death spiral. I think Archwinger posted a good recap on the main sub.
/r/askMRP02/06/18 10:39 AM
4

We need some new subs...LTRRP and AskLTRRP.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 10:26 AM
1

Definite covert contract. I remember getting totally twisted one weekend a month after my pilldate because the wife wanted me to watch my daughter instead of build shelves.(owning my shit maaaaan /nasal pothead voice). I thought the only escape route from my sexual frustration nightmare had been slammed in my face.This bitch won't even let me do my fucking captain duties!!#@%h MRP is a bit of a "bait and switch", but in a good way. OP read NMMNG. Or do you not understand what "prerequisite" mean…
/r/askMRP30/05/18 05:48 PM
1

Don't kill yourself trying to be subtle. There's always good old stoic STFU if nothing clever or funny comes to mind. The important thing is to extricate. Sounds like you've got a live one...I wouldn't be surprised if you found yourself in one of those ANSWER ME!!! battle royales.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 11:13 AM
6

You crushed the fuck out of the prostitute shit test and shrugged off a divorce threat. Think how that stuff would have had you DEERing and supplicating a year ago. Legit.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 10:56 AM
2

Great comment. OP...you know something is not quite right with the blue pill rationalizations you grew up on, but you don't understand why. The sidebar prerreqs...NMMNG and WISNIFG...will clarify this greatly and are not super "red". They are mostly operating in a modern therapeutic modality that will feel normal. Get your hands on NMMNG this week and read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 10:46 AM
1

I had to lol at the tire shine shit test, with her asking dumbass questions and you responding in earnest like Howdy Doody sitting on the ventriloquist's lap. You've got a lot of low-hanging DL1 fruit to pick. You've already spotted the powertalk dynamic going on. You're going to have fun coming up with ways to subvert it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 10:27 AM
2

Here's an idea for a sexperiment: next time your wife gives up the chocha, the very first thing you do is position her in the way that YOU find most stimulating and then make yourself cum using her body, as fast as possible. Then without "returning the favor" or "making sure the lady finishes too", roll off with a big smile like you're well satisfied. I know this isn't your preferred mode but it might help stretch your boundaries.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 10:13 AM
1

Save this shit for your diary.
/r/askMRP29/05/18 04:07 PM
6

Except you can just leave, because you're not married. I don't get guys who understand red pill and act like some LTR has them locked down. pill+unmarried=upper hand
/r/askMRP27/05/18 05:48 PM
2

Solid. I really like the idea of the book club. Thank you for spelling "dominant" correctly.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/18 10:20 AM
1

I didn't make a "groom speech" but I was sufficiently red to insist that my wife vow honor & obedience to me without reciprocal vow on my part. (My vow was to "protect and guide"). After I lost frame & SMV post child, guess what? Her vow of obedience wasn't worth the crumpled utility-bill envelope it was written on. Moral: words mean nothing. Make sure your frame, game and attractiveness are tight before hurrying into marriage. Your couple of months are just a beginning. No rush, right? She didn…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 05:35 PM
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Good stuff. OP...accentuate the positive. You are making progress...you managed to directly state your needs...something very difficult for certain bashful NiceGuys. (That said, what kind of kinky pervert are you??? Wanting your wife to actually suck on your penis and swallow your cocksnot?? You should be ashamed of yourself for wanting to degrade women like that!)
/r/askMRP24/05/18 04:58 PM
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You think you have it rough? My wife was raised by females in a lesbian collective. I'm talking about gnarly old school 70s grad school manhating lesbonians...the Andrea Dworkin/Valerie Solanas/SCUM type. She can run rings around me if I actually engage in argument about "the patriarchy" or any other feminism related topic.So I don't play. I just lean back and smirk. One of the high mucketymucks of the man-o-sphere, rollo I believe it was, once said that feminism itself is a massive meta-shit te…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 12:30 AM
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The main reason I've been following resolutions316's saga with interest for 9 months now is that he obviously IS a soyboy...unlike most of the alpha_engineers, red pill christians, family alphas and general bros who make up the rank and file here. He's as soy as they come and he's trying his best to change. Respec', resolutions. I admire your writing ability, humility, sticktoitiveness and willpower. That said...over a year here and you're doing smith machine squats?? For god's sake man, toughen…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 06:25 PM
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This comment makes it clear that you have backed yourself into this corner because you don't even know your own mind. (ie lack frame) By your own admission you don't actually feel threatened by the guy. Your issue is with your wife's disrespectful and successful attempt to slap you around emotionally. You could have crushed this shit not with these goofy "boundaries" but with ice cold DNGAF, SMPO, frame, and merry stoicism. Your boundary doesn't elicit respect. It's like holding up a sign saying…
/r/askMRP19/05/18 11:43 AM
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Agree. When my wife swallows the seeds I'm filled with a sense of the rightness of the universe and things being in their proper place. Would never have married a non-swallower. Anal on the other hand doesn't do much for me. The feeling of flopping around inside a rectum is offputting. I didn't get this from porn; which bores me.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 09:56 AM
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It's common around here to bemoan how we would have done things differently if we had pilled before getting the ol ball and chain riveted on. This poast is a nice reality check. It takes the harsh realm of marriage to pill a man. They say the expensive painful lessons are the ones that stick.
/r/askMRP14/05/18 06:45 PM
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Your comment is timely for me today because I just had a related epiphany: I've been trying too hard to split the difference between MRP and my old blue version of fatherhood aka my wife's frame.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 08:02 PM
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Your external accomplishments are all that matters to the world. No one but you and your therapist are monitoring your feels.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 10:09 AM
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My wife pulled the same shit on me when I was starting to extricate from her frame. With her female acuity she knew that the kid was the chink in my SMPO and she was right--the blue pill conditioning associated with "being a good dad" was the prime factor in my betaization. One time when I was leaving to do man stuff against her wishes she grabbed her coat and ran down the stairs past me to beat me to the door saying "oh no you don't. You're staying here to take care of your daughter!" To my sha…
/r/askMRP13/05/18 09:53 AM
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Who knew Mormons were so blue? Channel the spirit of Brigham Young and the great patriarchs of yore and implement dread immediately!
/r/askMRP12/05/18 09:53 AM
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It was also Aleister Crowley's.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:29 PM
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You think that's bad, wait til she finds this place and loses her shit over you getting life advice from a bunch of bitter misogynists. Why is she in your amazon account anyway?
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:27 PM
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300? Wow, you're generous. Mine gets 120 and regularly gets docked for shenanigans.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:10 PM
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This place has provided so much free value. If you close your eyes and listen hard you can almost hear the gears grinding as life coaches and other hacks try to figure out a way to monetize what goes on here.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 10:49 AM
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This comment sums up MRP very well. Cooperative frame=contempt. The exact opposite of what we're taught. And yet you try it out...and it works.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:13 AM
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If he had the frame to physically discipline her on her backside the way she so richly deserves, he wouldn't be in this pickle to begin with.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:53 PM
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Been following your oys since I pilled. Keep it up. We need to see the grinding long haul.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 05:43 PM
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That reminds me of my first job out of trade school. I had to break a frozen bolt holding a wear plate on the bucket of a cat 988 wheel loader so I got a 20' length of pipe and 3 guys and broke an expensive wrench belonging to the head plant mechanic instead.He locked me out of his toolbox. There is no try!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 05:01 PM
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The bad news is, you're a ned flanders doormat. The good news is, you have a lot of low hanging fruit to work with. Remove the handle thing.Bonus points if you come up with something smartass to say to your daughter when she complains.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 04:49 PM
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I'm the exact opposite...I naturally followed no MRP tenets except those related to sex. In the sex department I was precociously dominant, especially for a bloop. (The sex advice section of MMSLP was like, "duh? Isn't this obvious?) But frame and SMPO were revolutionary concepts to me...and there's no way I would have tried to cast off my upbringing and learn them if not for the trials of marriage.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 10:01 AM
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Yep. I knew about red pill concepts long before I got married, but I didn't think they applied to me. It took marriage, children and DBR to put my back against the wall and show me the light of the gospel according to rollo.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 09:55 AM
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Do what you need to do as you extricate from the wife's frame. I used to picture myself as a solitary wanderer on top of a peak in an epic Nietzschean Alpine landscape. I'd clench my fists, close my eyes, lock my root chakra and roar "Frame! FRAME!! FRAAAAAAME!!!" and simultaneously envision a bolt of lightning striking the crown of my head, running to ground through my spine, charging my entire system with raw chi.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 09:43 AM
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Copy that. I went through months where my only options were DEER or literally STFU like a mime. I racked my brains during those sessions for the third way..."what would jack10 do here...think, dammit, think!". I'm actually not autistic at all, just so thoroughly socialized and shamed into bluepill ways that anything outside my wife's frame: ("WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY FOR YOURSELF???!") did not compute. For a long time, my stonewalling became the source and topic of the endless warring in a self s…
/r/askMRP27/04/18 04:17 PM
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I've been following this guy's saga for months hoping he one day pulls a stunt like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 07:40 PM
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OP: your a drunken bafoon.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 10:38 AM
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Getting hurt sucks, but if you have to do it, at least be doing something masculine. "Yeah babe my arm is killing me...i think my playstation controller is giving me carpal tunnel."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 09:53 AM
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Good stuff. I've been following your progress with interest on here because we're about the same age, same lifts and similar pilldate. Can confirm every point you make here. I had to lol at 9a....my wife has said every one of those things, most of them multiple times.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 08:36 PM
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Yeah, this is pretty much where my head is at too. When I pilled 8 months ago and started flailing around, my wife went through some type of mirror rage-phase and began to utter divorce threats in the course of every blowout argument...that is to say, a couple if times a week. This never failed to terrify me and have me dancin', DEERin' & supplicatin'. Back in your betabox, boy! (All while fooling myself that I was "holding brutal frame" because I didn't actually drop to the floor and grab her a…
/r/askMRP01/04/18 04:24 PM
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I ran out of steam partway through. Too much abstract thought. From what I was able to understand, though, this poast will not help me bang my wife. It is in fact somewhat disheartening. Is it all hopeless? Should I just go homo? Spin gay plates?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 11:18 AM
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Without the shock of fatherhood on my comfortable life I never would have pilled to begin with. Pre child, if you had tried to explain frame to me I would have shrugged it off as a flake concept for tryhards, losers and the type of tools who watch a lot of Tony Robbins videos.Multilevel marketers. Tophatted pickup magicians. My wife was orally compliant...what was "game" to me? Took the kid and destruction of my sex life to learn the hard lesson: I was a man without frame.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 05:05 PM
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A sabbatical is a break from teaching responsibilities to focus on research, writing and academic production. Publish or perish. In other words, not a time to "find yourself" but rather a time to execute original mission work. Do all the finding beforehand so that come sabbatical time you can be out of the house constantly, producing. Otherwise, it's just "Summer of George", wife-opticswise.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 04:03 PM
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Yeesh. Have you ever hatefucked your wife? Maybe try it sometime. You seem to be in nothing-to-lose mode anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 05:44 AM
1

Check out the works of Master Mantak Chia for getting a handle on your minuteman tendencies. (The same Taoist tradition finds a watered-down Californiaized expression in David Deida's books).
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 10:03 PM
1

Everyone here is a 7 or an 8. It's just shorthand for "I'm pretty good but not arrogant".
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 10:00 PM
1

What you say about the insecurities of weak men is very true, but Hemingway was an easy target. I always found it amusing that his trademark masculine staccato style-probably the most imitated and recognizable style in 20th c. Lit-was lifted wholesale from a bluestocking lesbonian; the Gertrude Stein of "Making of Americans".
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 06:39 AM
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ahaha...throw in "should I start BJJ"..."got my macros dialed in"..."my SMV is 8" ...and "mission is to find my mission" and you'd have MRP Bingo.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 02:34 AM
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Sounds like you're doing the whole tiresome Nice Guy sex thing...the whole How To Make Love To A Woman thing. "Kissing her body" to stimulate her and hoping she'll respond. So she feels like she has to act all into it. Plus a baby and maybe breastfeeding. Try just rolling her over and humping her from behind like she was a realdoll. Don't pay any attention to her response-just use her body to get off.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 02:12 PM
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The first time I tried to fog my wife said "what the fuck is this? Some conflict-management shit you learned from a book?". She's a master of, as you say, noticing the technique and trying to break it. If logic traps and double binds won't work, maybe a full on freakout tantrum will do the trick.... And the pill process grinds onwards
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/18 09:54 PM
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I get where you're coming from with this. I go through the same thing. You're actually doing well if the pill process has jammed your nose into the true emptiness of your life. Maybe less Peterson and Palanhuik and more serious fare. Nietzsche and Dostoevsky work for me. Get outside more. Play with your kidsa. Find a physical activity with some risk to it. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/18 09:35 PM
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Should you relent from what? It's not like you actually did anything other than stop asking "how high" when ordered to jump. Enjoy this level of batshit insanity while it lasts...it gets much worse. Then better again, they tell me.
/r/askMRP25/02/18 03:20 AM
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Nobody knows. It hasn't been tried large scale. Why not start a subreddit, attract a large number of high value gay posters trapped in sexless marriages, work out a "praxeology" specific to married gays and report back in a couple of years when the bugs are ironed out and newly jacked men are doing FRs about spinning gay plates.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 09:00 PM
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Butthurt is unfortunately a major part of this process. There's no way to avoid it: the only way out is through. I like to think that the butthurt (of a lifting reading stfuing man) is the growing pains of frame. Also, our wives know when we're butthurt. That kind of mind reading is child's play to them. That said, I went through the same phase of kicking against the "compliance tests" and became a colossal prick for months. I eventually realized that it was better to just go along and not act o…
/r/askMRP17/02/18 04:09 PM
1

This screed was both hilarious and depressing. It reminded me a bit of Houellebecq's "Elementary Particles"...the suffering of a "small souled bugman" in the inferno of late modernity.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 07:56 PM
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Having spent a lot of time around emo indie-rock musicians (was one myself), I recognize the symptoms and I can tell you that getting over that massive john cusack boombox oneitis you have for your wife is going to be painful. You're going to have to let her go, either emotionally or in reality or both. Comes to the same thing really. There is no OI, no abundance and no SMPO without letting her go.It's a straight up destroy the village to save it situation. I know your wife's type of female all …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 05:41 PM
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In one of his pods, the BP Professor says something like this: "some guys get shit tested so often that if they AA they would present as a clown". He goes on to make the point that AA was developed for PUA pickup game...in other words for dealing with pickup shit tests; which are a form of flirtation. He suggests that simply ignoring the shit test is the best option in many cases. This was an eye opener for me because all I saw here on MRP was "AA! AM!".I'm a born straight-man....sometimes I thi…
/r/askMRP05/02/18 02:38 PM
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What is this wife in all but name bollocks? MRP is hard mode because when our relationships die we lose half our assets and our kids. I wish I had your lame girlfriend woes.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 02:21 PM
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Bingo. The guys watching the superbowl just need to get in shape and dress better. OP has much farther to go. "No friends".
/r/askMRP05/02/18 02:11 PM
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"Rematriating" more like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/18 09:42 PM
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I have the exact same issue with my wife and 18-mo old daughter. It led to some big fights right after I pilled and started seeing "compliance tests" everywhere lol. Advice to be busy and OYS is good. The other thing that helped with me is stoicism and letting go of resentment. For a while there I was turning every single request to go get a sippie cup into a power struggle because I had no frame.
/r/askMRP20/01/18 12:26 PM
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Not strictly on topic but this post made me think. I've been predicting for 20 years that maledom/femsub D/s would go mainstream among regular heterosexual couples at some crossover point when traditional power relations of the sexes (mdom) came to be regarded as perverse. The "Chateau/Roissy" refence at heartiste seemed like confirmation. However, I've been watching "the scene" for some indication that this was about to happen, but self conscious kinksters, at least of the outspoken and organiz…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 08:23 PM
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n example: She: "Can you call this-and-that company to do work XYZ on the house, I've got some money now?" Me: "I want to put it in the budget first and see that the numbers checks out" Her: "Ok, then I'll call them myself, I want to get this done now and I have the money" This is why I love MRP. Feeling sorry for myself because the wife won't give up the chocha like she used to and then I read this and think "holy shit, that's my ex...the one I almost married."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 04:27 PM
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I was never too worried about the sidebar material, most of which is pretty harmless except for Rollo's books, which my wife is about as likely to crack as a tome of chinese calculus...and if she did she'd just think it was male whingeing. To percieve that it contains nothing less than the playbook for an insurrection against our feminized society would require considerably more work and thought than she is interested in investing. She did, unfortunately, find MRP and I was forced to own my pres…
/r/askMRP18/12/17 12:12 AM
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The best book on this is Master Mantak Chia's "Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy". 25 years ago I was a preemie...if I lasted 10 humps that was a good session. The exercises in that book gave me full control over my response.
/r/askMRP17/12/17 03:09 PM
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Look for a NMMNG working group near you. Good way to meet guys on this path with the same issues and concerns as you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/17 11:15 AM
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job changes that were good enough to build her a big nice house but not enough to take her on expensive vacations yet so what good am I?. Rollo has a great section in "Positive Masculinity" (the best of his tomes imho) on "female solipsism" that I underlined, highlighted and starred because it helps me deal with this same resentment. In a nutshell, not only do women not appreciate what we give....they can't. It's evolutionary wiring.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 11:45 AM
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That's how I roll. Just pretend she's a big ol RealDoll that cost half my net worth.
/r/askMRP20/11/17 12:53 PM
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Marriage is a CONSTANT battle, jockeying for position, playing Dread games, pretending to NGAF and constantly reminding yourself that she can be replaced. The harsh reality. It never ends, and half the time we are just faking it ("pretending to NGAF") in order to get by. It's actually good in a "might as well laugh as cry" way to hear the bleakness from a top MRP poster.
/r/askMRP19/11/17 01:08 AM
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Glad I'm not the only mook here perusing SA. Don't get me started on "SA Game".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/17 09:34 PM
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I go because I'm trying to buy time to build frame. Things were headed for the ditch fast...wife going into rages. I know her well, there's not a chance in hell that she won't be bored and fed up with this therapy within a month or two, probably just a couple weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 07:53 PM
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I don’t tell our MC or my wife this directly. That's where I'm at. Sitting in marriage counselling, nodding and smiling and then strictly operating according to rollo and the MRP sidebar. There's still a little voice telling me "this is wrong! you aren't being open, honest, up-front and forthcoming!" I ignore it as best I can. Note to self: be more Machiavellian.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 11:24 AM
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"authoritarian/beta". I love that...it speaks to my heart. Should change my username to "beta authoritarian". Seems closely connected to the concept of 'beta rage" which I've seen mentioned around here.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 11:00 AM
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