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A sea of viganas dried up when you pressed " post" on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 01:31 PM
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Men she wants to be with get to see her in what makes them happy. Do with that information what you will.
/r/askMRP10/11/24 01:18 AM
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Based on observation of many people... Yes. Hearing things like " I didn't like him but yeah I slept with him" is not at all the uncommon from women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:53 PM
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Laughs in " height filter" No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:55 PM
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I told a woman to bring me a step stool if she wanted the D. She later received the D in that exact manner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:20 AM
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Women rape men and drink soda. They both happen. They are not the same topic. If you don't understand that they're different topics I don't know what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:56 PM
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Nah. But don't discuss having sex with a guy you don't know and rape in the same sentence. It's disingenuous. And since you brought up centuries ... Lots of men died to provide and protect women. So what. No one cares. You weren't born then and you are alive now. You aren't those women. Thanks. My narrative is people are responsible for what they do. If a man gets an STD from a woman it's his responsibility. Same the other way around. If it's your body your choice it's also your responsibility u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:13 PM
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Yeah once you bring up actual crimes in the same discussion as responsibly taking care of yourself and your body we aren't having the same conversation. And I don't talk to people too far gone to not mix the two. And no. In fact the man isn't allowed to do shit but pay for 18 years. Court mandated and no marriage required. Literally posted by some women as a strategy to make money. You're right. It's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:52 PM
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Women not knowing how the uterus works is the best argument to repeal certain rights. For women's safety. If men are responsible for your actions we will be in charge. The above is your argument. Control your uterus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:09 PM
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This sub is the dunning Kruger of all fallacies If anything it made me less willing to hear people out. I already know what they will say 80+ percent of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:43 PM
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If one looks at single parent statistics and outcomes for the children it's : Shitty forethought Shitty planning for the future Lacking responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:58 PM
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Lol. Yeah. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:01 PM
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We don't like older single women. They still remember how they got treated in their teens and 20s and expect the same. Sorry. You're no longer attractive enough. Welcome to having to be a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:14 PM
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It's like the prenup thing. If you love your partner you'll understand why they want one. If not , remain butthurt and selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:15 PM
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Yes. Definitely listen to yourself and ignore it when people who are actually involved tell you what's going on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:14 PM
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This is the correct answer and will have zero replies because it can not be argued with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:50 AM
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Please understand that when we trash " older women" it's " older women who are actively single and dating at this point in our lives " We are trashing the behavior we have seen and experienced. Just like women do. Yes I will absolutely trash a woman I know from junior high age when I saw who she picked as a partner. And the next one and the next. When I know she routinely didn't pick good men. But picked men anyone who cared about her could ) and did / tell her was a bad idea. Yes I will trash t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:45 AM
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So you don't stand by what you said then. Because situation changed. Many men live with this fear btw. So if you want to be considered full on equal adults go ahead and show men the empathy you expect them to show you when you are afraid of something... Even if it's unreasonable to you. Put another way ... It's a simple non invasive way to make your male partner feel emotionally safe. Can you do that? Or is it about your emotional safety only?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:36 AM
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Do you remember the whole " teach boys not to rape "? I do. It's a bunch of crap with an assumption of guilt. If you didn't have a problem with that ... You don't have a problem with this. We are just trying to make sure the right male pays after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:38 PM
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What if you didn't want another child at the moment? He should be offended right? Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:34 PM
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Lmao. If that beta man fucks your wife whose fault is it
/r/askMRP19/01/24 12:27 AM
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So exactly how long have you been this different person? Coz you've been a loser for 18 years. And now after a few months you want her to change how she sees you? Seems unreasonable
/r/askMRP12/08/23 05:26 PM
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Well this post went about as expected
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 01:56 AM
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Every man that hates women does so out of years of experience. Usually starting with their mom.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 02:45 AM
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Barely adequate
/r/AllPillDebate26/04/23 01:10 AM
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You right. I trained with a guy who is 6'8". He couldn't get hoes either
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 08:42 PM
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You're not exactly short either
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 10:59 AM
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Get chin implant
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 02:25 AM
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That's like asking why blue is blue. If you don't know I don't think I can help to be honest
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:54 PM
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There is no category of woman who has fewer sexual and relationship options than the analogous group of men. I don't feel bad at all. In every instance of this the girl has passed up multiple men who would have been great partners in life. In B4 " but her options were bad " Ok. They were still better than the analogous mans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:08 PM
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Read what I wrote again. I didn't say anything about using power. That seems to be a you thing
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 12:17 PM
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It's like being mad that women with nice makeup and a nice body wearing well fitting clothes have more male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:19 AM
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Height and muscles aren't a personality If you mean charm , people who are charming generally have social power and status
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 09:25 PM
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There are no women on the internet
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 06:44 PM
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Most women are attracted to aspects of power in a man. Charm and wit as well as height and having muscles are different aspects of that. It's not " power over you" type of power - which is apparently how you see the concept
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 06:43 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 12:42 AM
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It's not feminism. It's women not having to rely on men for a decent life. They still want a kind badass who can be dangerous to others and has followers ( not in the social media sense ). Women are attracted to power in all it's forms and unlike what " patriarchy bad " types seem to think most men in any time in history never had power of any sort
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 07:37 PM
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Incel community? What makes you think there's a community? It's not something you join. There's no application. Lmao. It's an unfortunate state more and more men find themselves in
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 11:38 AM
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Who exactly is taking advice from thousands of men who don't have experience with women? Or more to the point.... If you want to be a successful athlete....do you go to a good coach or do you get coaching from a talented athlete
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 04:35 AM
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Ok then. Your response is ridiculous
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 03:46 AM
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You know what a strawman is right?
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 03:14 AM
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That poor strawman is already dead. Leave it alone
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 05:18 PM
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Men don't * seek* age gaps. Men are attracted to the same age women throughout their lives. The reason men don't want to constantly " trade in " for a younger model is that it's a pain in the ass and gets harder after a certain age and frankly we may just love the person we are with. Women see it creepy because the women who do see it as creepy are projecting their own bias and insecurities and perhaps a negative past experience onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:25 PM
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Whatever makes you feel better man.
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 10:52 AM
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Obviously more than some
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 12:32 AM
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Dude. Go get laid
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 12:06 AM
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Here is the dick pill. 4 inches is enough to hit the g spot if The woman knows what she's doing The guy gives a shit. This woman is wrecking her life. She doesn't love her " bf"
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 05:35 PM
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Ftm tend to think their life will be easier because they will be treated as men. Then they found out why many many ftm can't handle being seen as men. Sad for them
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 05:31 PM
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Bro. Honestly. Unless you're grossly obese there are girls in most people's concept of 6-7 that you could be dating Unless you're facially deformed, like I don't mean ugly I mean you had an unfortunate accident and wear a mask to protect the vision of other members of the community - at 6'3 you're probably just stepping on your own dick
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 11:20 AM
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Bro I'm short bald and all of that. I plain don't care what women I'm not interested in think or do. Wtf dude.
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 03:02 AM
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Nah. Come on now. That's more like 80% of women. .I don't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:10 PM
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Run in the other direction
/r/AllPillDebate29/03/23 08:00 PM
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Intelligence and prior entitlement
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 05:21 PM
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That's ok. We only value two to three qualities in a woman. One of them is how she makes us feel as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:56 PM
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I still think she's attractive. Being physically attractive and being psychologically attractive are different.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 08:38 PM
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I don't know what you just said
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 07:06 PM
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What's the difference
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 06:36 PM
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A
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:38 AM
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Yup. You know. If you're a woman who enjoyed reading 50 shades of gray you're basically promoting rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:21 AM
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Right ? Lol. I keep forgetting... Who made 50 shades popular??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:10 AM
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Now we are comparing physiological response to actions. Ok. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:40 PM
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It's one of those taoism things. Be persistent but don't expect results
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:05 AM
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Don't worry. Once these assholes die - you'll be the asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:36 PM
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Not ideal hardly equates to terrible. Cry me a river
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:49 PM
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Everything is a scam if you buy it with the expectation of specific results
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:08 PM
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Wait till you grow up and realize persistence guaranteed nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:05 PM
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Hitler much?
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 08:43 PM
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Trp is a trauma response caused by women. End thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:31 PM
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Ok and ? Kill all boomers ? Jail them for crimes against younger generations? Boomers also had older generations that influenced their world view as well. So what's the point of this ,?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:50 PM
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Ok and ? Kill all boomers ? Jail them for crimes against younger generations? Boomers also had older generations that influenced their world view as well. So what's the point of this ,?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:50 PM
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I do. Because I want to make sure it's taken
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:39 PM
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He is an excellent grifter. I don't rely on his podcast to show this. In fact he's gotten worse over time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:39 AM
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It's mostly based on their experience with women. A ton of bad experiences will tend to change ones world view. Women literally created the red pill you're characterizing as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:36 AM
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I wonder how men become so bad when they are raised by good mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:34 AM
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Sure. Women get mixed signals. Men get mixed signals. Women want a guy who is nice to them but date assholes. I've been drawing my own conclusions since middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:49 PM
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I thought strong independent women make their own decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:47 PM
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I'm happy for you that your child custody case went well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:31 PM
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Yea men aren't running away from custody. There is the idea of primary custody and it's usually the more available parent. Aka works less hours which usually means makes more money. And people will often decline to allow the other parent to work less in order to be equally available. Stop using outliers. We know that most of the time mothers are considered the primary parents because " children need their mommy" and fuck the dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:24 PM
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Nah I choose to blame the women who deny 50-50 custody in order to get more child support. Since we are making canvas statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:47 AM
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Bill gates isn't drowning in women
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 11:39 AM
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Big dick energy without being pompous. This can't be faked but can be developed
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 02:52 AM
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At least one of you thinks it's the adult woman's fault and not " society"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:54 PM
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Of course. But if my wife were to say I raped her after getting me drunk and having sex with me ... That rape kit would prove we had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:06 PM
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Don't worry. I saw your edit. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:39 PM
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Didn't you know their emotions are facts. How dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:38 PM
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You're confusing a culture of elitism with rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:38 PM
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You must have missed the many posts on this sub where feminists poo poo male rape victims or just minimize it because it's " other men " who did it. Even when it was women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:27 PM
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How do you prove rape ? Take me through the process. It's hard to prove because it's hard to prove. Nothing that is illegal can be said to be normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:15 PM
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It's a much more easily proven crime. Would you say we have a culture of theft ? Culture of assault? Culture of (( insert anything else that's actually illegal because society hates it ))?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:14 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:12 PM
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You mean how women rape teen boys ? I guess if women would feel shame for false rape allegations even when proven false then society wouldn't tend to have questions when allegations arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:52 PM
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Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:50 PM
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That's because it's hard to prove. Not culturally approved
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:50 PM
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Jesus man. I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:36 PM
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Yeah. No. Rape is a crime. No one " tolerates" rape systemically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:34 PM
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The only part I'm familiar with is making fun of or not believing male victims. But I'd say that's a feminist thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:33 PM
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Stupid podcast but What is rape culture ? Is the argument that it's not a crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:01 PM
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I smell fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:59 PM
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Yes. Eyes see initial presentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:42 PM
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Women have always had more options than the vast majority of men. Wth are you even talking about? Are you comparing the one prince or noblemans son to the village girl ? Or are we going to compare apples to apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:32 PM
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First of all I didn't claim anything. Second of all having one or two sexual partners in a lifetime on which to base your choices is hardly success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:17 PM
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May I ask what illness? Because I also have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:31 PM
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By noting the regular average good guys who aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:30 PM
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That's the definition of " initial".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:21 PM
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Yes. It shows the initial screen done by both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:36 AM
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So you're saying height matters a lot huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:03 AM
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You're 5'10. Slightly above average in the US. If you have any dating profiles up change your height to under 5'5. Then see what happens. Also change it to 6'4" and See what happens Just change your photos so your height isn't visible. Before you tell me OLD isn't the real world... Sure. But it can show you initial selection biass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:02 AM
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Years of marriage, ltr , female friends and moms aunts and so on. I have plenty of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:39 PM
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Following OP's logic since I don't experience it - it can't be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:17 PM
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What is your source for feeling it's insecurities vs disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:17 PM
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There are no matriarchal societies that aren't ruled by others. Also. . " The discomfort women feel from their periods is a social construct and we should teach those that believe that they feel pain that it's just in their minds "
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:15 PM
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Because they are more likely to have a good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:30 PM
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The male suicide rate is a direct indication of the fact that no one cares enough to help men. Showing that we live in a gynocentric model of the world. Stop blaming me for the fact that women - their mothers who were supposed to nurture them - messed up. Also. Based on what you've said everywhere I just think you hate men. That's it. You just honestly hate them. You literally are victim blaming over suicide. Like damn. Do you even have a soul
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:15 PM
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Who is this " we" who didn't teach men ? How can I argue about what " we " teach men? You're stating it as a fact. I can't argue with your facts since you won't be able to provide anything other than " what you've seen" and I'll be at it with " what I've seen" At the end of the day women don't want men who can't do more for them in measurable ways than they can do for themselves. If your argument for being " independent" is women can hire out for services they don't want to or can't do themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:30 AM
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It's interesting that when men make any kind of argument they are " crying". I don't think you're here for a real conversation. And no one will believe you believe you are until you realize how inherently sexist your idea of men is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:19 AM
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I can't argue with this as it's absolute rubbish. I've seen those deep friendships you're talking about. They are so deep a gust of wind breaks them. Whereas I have several men I can go to with any problems. This is either written by a woman who has no idea or by a male who hasn't touched grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:16 AM
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Bad easter bunny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:11 PM
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They only matter if you want one or the other. So of course it " doesn't matter" in the same sense that you don't matter or I don't matter. Individual experiences only matter to the individual and we can't convince you about what should matter to you. Or to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:30 PM
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Compensating for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:17 PM
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I've done similar things on ppd back in the day with non gendered language. The results were fascinating
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 02:47 PM
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Lol. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:38 PM
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You may not treat people like car mileage but many women are taught to treat people like arms. Stop moralizing and go touch grass. Certain behavior do require a physical correction. This is not a gendered concept
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:10 AM
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So here's the thing. None of them help you without your own context. I've listened to all those. Meaning I've heard what they have to say and do what I want with that information considering the source. They aren't guru's. F+f show you how many women behave. Rollo is great at breaking down stats and stuff. Rian stone is cool and very much a realist. Be your own master
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:42 AM
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Yes. I obviously don't have the necessary diction to discuss such a deep topic with an erudite master such as yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:54 PM
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Sounds like something a person who's never done it would say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:37 PM
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That's what I said. Except now women still " deserve" a traditional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:28 PM
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But both have different choices and types of choices
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:27 PM
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Y'all wear degrees on your forehead? And women can select from who approached them. And - I know this is shocking - they can also more successfully approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:49 PM
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Men don't seek out women. They approach as many as they can and perhaps are selected by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:33 PM
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Yes. Because energy expenditure for incubation of a fetus is high. It's not a moral thing. It BECOMES a moral thing when women moralize about wanting those qualities to be morally superior to men who want specific physical features and complimentary behaviors from women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:32 PM
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You sound pretty nt to me
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 05:18 PM
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What's NT
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 05:05 PM
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No effect on physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:45 PM
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Get you a white boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:02 AM
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Ok. You don't understand math. That's ok. I'm not here to explain little things like average and mode
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:59 AM
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And a lot of men are going to be attracted to someone who is good to them. I don't know what skin color has to do with anything. Is it a cultural thing where you're from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:12 AM
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This scenario doesn't happen. If she is older she had 20+ years to find someone. Women get male attention much earlier than the other way around. They don't find someone for the most part due to being either bad partners or having goals that don't include finding a partner until she's suddenly older. Aka " the wall"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:10 AM
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Because they are under 35 themselves and dumb.
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 12:08 AM
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Tldr Duh
/r/askMRP15/03/23 08:28 PM
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Wait. So you have a decent body count.... Were those boyfriends or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:12 PM
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@23? Did you mean 32?.
/r/AllPillDebate15/03/23 08:10 PM
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Too dumb didn't read. Sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:54 PM
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No one thinks that. Go beat another straw man
/r/AllPillDebate15/03/23 07:53 PM
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Looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:00 PM
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Notice the other words I used besides thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:59 PM
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I didn't specify melanin content and it applies to all shades
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:58 PM
2

" nobler" Sure. Let's debase the way half the human population feels love Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:57 PM
1

Most men are low tier ? Most ? Like.... You are actually providing every black pilled loser right. You can't even put a logical sentence together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:56 PM
3

I've seen the dm's of unattractive women. Most of the women are fat. Most of them don't have some sort of illness leading to getting fat. This isn't theoretical. The vast majority of non fat facially unattractive women suffer from not wanting a relationship with the men ( multiple) that would want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:55 PM
1

Lmao. Yea. Like the girls with body counts that look like the list of a marine platoon. Definitely quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:53 PM
47

There are no thin friendly women who can't get a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:29 PM
0

Assholes always get the women because women like assholes. You don't have to be built like Arnold. It's enough to be a decent shape asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:06 PM
1

How many people went to Oxford? Sons of what percentage of the population? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:05 PM
2

You don't know who you're arguing with. She will tell you what you meant , explain how it's wrong and beat you with experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:28 AM
5

You know formal education to any significant degree for either gender is less than 200 years old and was mostly religious in nature right? Boys worked the farm or the trade whatever that was or got killed in the wars that were constantly happening. It was haves and have nots. Not gender vs gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:27 AM
13

You literally just built a straw man and burned it down. Good job
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:21 AM
2

Just agree and tell her to make you a sandwich
/r/AntiFeminists12/11/22 07:34 PM
1

Typo. You sure speak for why men do something. You must be a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:17 PM
0

You look now exactly why men do something huh. Wow. You must be a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:08 AM
2

Women have frienemies. Men do not. It's that simple.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 11:07 AM
1

Many of the responses here show that the needs of one partner outweigh the needs of the other for most of you. And that the gender stays the same. No wonder we will never find a " solution".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:03 AM
-1

Studies are great. But there's always something about how data was collected. I work in healthcare on the trauma / acute side. I see many more women leaving men. Take it for what it's worth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:57 PM
0

And I'm telling you from down here and many experiences with different guys that's what it seems like. But you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:27 PM
0

What workout program did you use ? What was resulting bf%? What can you bench or deadlift at what height/ bodyweight? Then we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:59 PM
2

Yes mien fuhrer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:57 PM
0

Yeah. Now it's confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:21 PM
0

" you" wasn't personal. But in your case I guess it was. I feel you man. I guess you should cry about it some more. From what you wrote it sounds like you put in almost no effort. You know how I know ? I've seen quitters before
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:38 PM
1

Do you want it to be easy or do you want to feel bad for yourself or do you want to be able to become as attractive as you can ? Unless you're making good money ( for yourself not anyone else... Money gives you confidence and the ability to make your life easier) and have at least a 4 pack with decent muscles you're just crying in your Doritos
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:08 PM
0

So is the first. You're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:58 PM
1

And when I go out with my Russian/ Ukrainian girls I'll pay. Because yes the standard is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:56 PM
1

Nwe? North West europe ? Maybe. Maybe not It's still a bad sample to use to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:02 PM
3

Since I don't live in Sweden this wouldn't apply. It's slightly more than half the population of NYC. Culturally and ethnically monotonous. How would that apply anywhere else?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:30 PM
1

100 percent true with one caveat. Many more women as a percentage of the whole are found to be attractive so we notice A Lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:10 PM
4

This is wrong simply because it's a big ass covert contract. Become a man women tend to be attracted to and it takes care of itself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:06 PM
1

It's not " fertility" It's signs of fertility. Thanks for coming to my ted talk
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 07:49 PM
1

The woman who tried to live life as a man killed herself. That is all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:53 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:58 PM
4

People here confuse red pill behavior with being or rather considering themselves red pilled. Plenty of guys exhibit rp traits without knowing that the " red pill" exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:16 AM
1

Of course it is. It proves not only that you're bad at sexual partner selection, it also means you're letting your body be used repeatedly which then prevents you from recognition of a guy who actually would have given you that relationship you all say you want. And if you keep picking men who don't want a relationship with you time and time again it means you're not learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:49 AM
2

You're confusing the word post with the word comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:10 AM
3

Show me the word divorce in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:24 AM
5

The post was about AF/bb. By definition it's not celibate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:14 AM
5

We aren't talking about those women are we then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:39 PM
3

What ? I'm telling you a couple of events from my relatively low n count life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:42 PM
3

So Just to be clear All Women Are Like That Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:41 PM
2

If you don't know we won't tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:17 PM
2

Listen. I have far far too many female friends who are " just friends" not to know what's up. You all want a relationship but when the itch strikes go through 20 dudes a month for fun. Well. Those of you who look attractive enough. I've been the dude who someone's fiance wanted to fuck so we fucked on their bed before he even slept in it. I've been the dude who got head from someone's gf on the side of the road coz she was bored. I've been the guy whose semen is on her face when she calls bae an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:15 PM
1

Yes. Bars are the only place men and women interact. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:07 PM
2

Hate bars
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:25 PM
3

Because casual sex is easier for women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:24 PM
5

What's your question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:46 PM
6

Lol. Yes I'll ignore what I see and go with what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:48 PM
4

Ok. I'll just ignore the behavior of most women I know irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:35 PM
5

To you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:35 PM
1

You mean " can you dumb it down for me?"" No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:18 PM
7

You used " single " and " married " to mean certain things. Don't act like you didn't. Also women can just go to a bar and get hit on. Men can't. What're they looking for ? The same thing women have less trouble finding my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:17 PM
14

Men are much more likely to remain the ones who wanted a stable monogamous relationship. Women are much more likely to enjoy playing the field longer. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:09 PM
5

Yeah I get it. First they choose the guy to marry out of the guys who asked them out and they chose to date then it's the men's fault. I got it. Yes there are bad and good men and women. Women choose who they sleep with which leads to weeding out who can possibly marry them. Women have a choice. Don't forget it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:08 PM
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Ah yes. Another person who thinks that like them - others don't go outside. Stop it. Go outside. Talk to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:00 PM
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But you're wrong. Because in a few years those same women file for divorce and seek out hotter men to be with that aren't provider material or won't commit. Or they cheat with that type of guy. Again. It's observed. If women consistently do this in statistically observable ways their " stated reason" no longer matters. They have had men's attention since they got boobs. They are smart creatures. Either they consciously pick men in a particular pattern or they lack insight. Either way it's on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:58 PM
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It's an observable behavior pattern. There is no misunderstanding. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:52 PM
1

It does all the time. Wtf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:29 PM
3

It's like I know the sidebar
/r/askMRP20/09/22 11:09 PM
6

Here is a better question. Why isn't divorce an option? Why does SHE get to put it on the table for YOU? The problem is you're more scared of leaving than she is scared of you leaving. The rest of the post doesn't matter
/r/askMRP20/09/22 05:30 PM
1

Correlate the things that really turned you on about the abusive guy with his behaviors and don't do it again. For example - a girl I dated was really wild and fun. Liked to dress in certain ways. Had certain speech patterns. I don't date girls like her any more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:25 PM
1

That's ok. I'll just be aware of how girls think and not expect them to be my mom
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 03:31 AM
1

People will ignore what they don't want to hear quite a bit. I've been on both ends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:07 AM
1

This is dumb. I have never heard of a man who wants to fuck women his dick doesn't want. Age. Race. Weight. Whatever.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 03:04 AM
1

Gents. She's literally being honest about what her emotions do. This is all women. Don't get upset
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 03:03 AM
2

As individuals yes. But they are also more likely to be meek and not cause problems
/r/RedPillWorkplace18/09/22 03:46 PM
2

For you maybe. For others not so much. Depends what you're born with
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/22 07:43 PM
6

There are a few archetypes of attractive men. In DnD format one is the Elf. That's your kpop. Another is the warrior. That's the buff dude.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/22 02:34 AM
2

The patriarchal society is better and safer for women than a feminist society is for either gender. If you're confused by that read up on what the words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:06 PM
3

The thing about being a cunt who knows he's a cunt while also having more experience with cunt that the majority of people is that while someone will talk shit - other well seasoned and proven cunts recognize when someone knows more about cunt than the average cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/22 01:42 AM
4

Her child failed? LMAO
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 05:59 PM
3

They aren't a class based on birth.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/22 03:17 PM
3

I'm about to hurt feelings. I don't think people who have not served a nations military should be able to vote or hold office. Irrespective of gender. This whole potential with selective service is a close second. It's ok though. All sorts of feminism stops in dangerous situations. I've said " bad feminist" to many women if such topics ever come up. They always giggle.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/22 11:13 AM
2

How's the face? And diploma doesn't really seem all that sexually attractive. Piece of paper isn't most guys kink
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 11:46 AM
6

Caveat - the man only has relationship options with women once he is chosen as at least a sexual option himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:10 AM
3

I'm a poor immigrant as well. I happen to be white but it doesn't matter. Since my name is foreign it's all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:49 PM
6

Both marines and investment bankers eat crayons. But investment bankers will tell you how they want theirs prepared and how only Wharton/ haavaad / whatever is an acceptable school
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:47 PM
5

Easy. Be fun attractive and don't make us " work for it ". If you're educated great but don't lead with that. If you're a smart person we will figure that out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:44 PM
5

Many. As soon as that is tied to child support
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:22 AM
1

Hormonal responses be hormonal. Don't marry people who tell you that they don't want things that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:15 AM
4

It's 1:30:00 you lazy bum. And Rian knows my actual home number if he wants to chat.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 08:58 PM
1

You play Vidya games here
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 03:08 PM
2

What the hell is " too many blowjobs"?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 02:00 PM
0

Women I consider dating do things for me / offer to do things without being asked and don't act entitled to my time. They are available within reason and are made happy by helping me. I don't think this can be faked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:53 AM
1

Well. Ya can't buy something that isn't for sale.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 08:28 PM
4

Hey man. Good to see you. Listen. I'm not in oncology but if my low effort causes cancer I may find a new product line
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/22 08:28 PM
1

Are women responsible for anything they do or nah ?
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 08:26 PM
1

Women get Asked for sex. Asked. Blaming men is like blaming McDonald's for your food choices.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 06:23 PM
3

I really don't know what the argument is. For something to have value it has to BE valuable. If a given person has given it away for free ... Whether that's attention or something else... It's not valuable. So I absolutely have a 3 date rule. Here is why.... If you said yes to a date ... You obviously like me enough to consider sleeping with me. Date 1 is to make sure we aren't totally weird to each other. Date 2 should involve something more physical after having fun with each other. If it's a …
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 06:21 PM
1

Having been married... It doesn't matter where you keep the money you earn during marriage as long as it's traceable ( you know... Don't deposit money from your cocaine sales ) ... And you don't mix it with pre marriage assets. As far as how you spend it ... If you're married and in this case I'd hope y'all know what the other makes... I'd be pissed if my spouse expected me to pay all the bills) mortgage etc and she didn't participate.( As long as that wasn't pre arranged)
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 08:53 PM
1

Men take risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:33 AM
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Does it hurt that I literally did this while cleaning up after getting head from a 24 year old ?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/22 01:55 AM
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Balls will be drained. She gets first shot
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/22 07:03 PM
2

I don't mean the results. I mean the biological drives.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 05:40 PM
4

Therefore it's a different experience and should not be equated. We agreed
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 01:11 AM
2

Nah. For * most women the sexlessness is a choice. For * most men it's not.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 11:04 PM
2

I've worked in healthcare for going on two decades. Ive seen your patients slide back and forth. But more.than that ... It's interesting that you confused substance abuse... Which has many core causes ... And morals and values. For fun and education look up the Adverse Childhood Events inventory.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 05:36 PM
1

Complete brain development means it's ready to start decaying. The morals are what they are by 15 or so. Plenty of proof for that. The articles having to do with brain development have nothing to do with a person's values.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 05:33 PM
1

Exactly. It's not age related
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 11:30 PM
2

Yes. If you wait ... Do you think you will be guaranteed a guy who won't cheat on you? I don't think being " mature" comes with age or experience. You either have a value system by 15 or so or not. This goes for both genders.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 11:29 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:32 PM
1

I've seen prettier girls at the mall. Nothing has to do with my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:20 PM
1

Did I say UN attractive? But here https://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Zb1LfP5mQZw/S9jGItIOwxI/AAAAAAAACoE/jvxrINfesvE/s1600/vuitton+models.jpg Some of them need to eat. They'd be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:06 PM
2

Because models aren't necessarily attractive. They are models for things... An outfit designed for a certain look or height and body proportions. I've seen too many girls at a mall who are way more attractive than many models
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:48 AM
1

Well. I dunno. Maybe inventing the internet so that their kids can listen to emotionally unattractive women blame grandpa for her bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:54 PM
1

Well men are dogs apparently soo...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:19 AM
6

Ok and ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:09 AM
15

I like how you brought up abuse. Yes. Many women are excellent at abusing their partners physically and emotionally. Because he has to be a man and take it. The divorce rate is sky rocketing... With women filing. Surely they are all divorcing the abusive guys. The guys they picked out of many who asked them out. Surely when women out earn men the women cease to see value in their partners. Women literally talk about how a man has to be tall handsome good body and make her feel protected and be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:15 AM
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Women have had the run of the store so to speak since about the time they hit puberty. If you keep saying yes to the same types of men over and over perhaps it IS your fault. This goes for " too tier " men who can't settle down if they want to. But those guys are rare enough to be the exception. Yes. It's a double standard. Just like in a world of " equality" men are still expected to bring more objective value in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:59 AM
3

So your secret is to act like a man?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/22 12:43 AM
2

Why are women so easily influenced by height and money? Look man - testosterone is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:29 PM
3

I've tried to engage with people who respond the way you do to what I think are easy to understand statements and explain them. It never goes anywhere. Let's just save the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:30 AM
3

Honestly if you don't know what " people make excuses to justify behavior" implied , any further explanation on my part is a waste of my time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:49 AM
3

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:47 AM
7

Lol. Of course they avoid it. People are great at justifying their behavior though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:40 AM
11

You could try being me. She lets me do anything I want
/r/askMRP27/05/22 05:49 PM
1

Not at all what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:16 PM
6

Women in any equivalent sub category will have an easier time than the comparable male. Fat/ fat Ugly/ ugly. Too short / too tall - even in this one most men don't care about how tall you are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:46 PM
20

Vegans girls date vegan and sleep with carnivores in secret shame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:23 AM
57

If she likes you it won't matter. If she doesn't - there is no " right way"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:10 PM
2

It's mostly because people who care about that tend to want to count things out rather than both parties contribute to the household in whatever way works for that couple
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:43 PM
8

Once you meet a girl who knows how to fuck it's great. Oh and in4b " but then you'd call her a slut". No. Mostly it's about showing enthusiasm. That doesn't require significant experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:03 PM
6

No one does care. And I say that as an unattractive man. Listen. I won't sleep with a fat girl. Or a girl I'm not attracted to no matter what anyway. It sucks and you can't legislate sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:01 AM
5

Have you ever tried pulling out halfway through and walking away? Another consideration -. Why are you giving a woman who doesn't want you your dick ?
/r/askMRP17/05/22 09:58 AM
1

I've seen some girls try to approach a guy. They manage to make 17 yo guys high as a kite sound like Casanovas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:55 AM
1

You literally made up a group to put people into just now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:25 AM
1

I was talking about dismissing men who are... Let's call it open enough... Strong enough to show their weaknesses... To tell people about their negative experience with women. Something many women call " complaining"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:23 PM
0

I think it's always easy to dismiss a group by assigning people into it and adding statements like " bitter " and deciding how vocal someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:08 PM
0

It's an insult for him. On a lower scale than cuck. Perhaps I should have gone with " Larper "
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:49 PM
1

Yes but an insult deserves an insult lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:38 PM
1

No. It's saying he doesn't sound like he has the experience to make the determination. Also no kids were mentioned at all. He is using the term cuck wrong as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:10 PM
-2

Yes. But you know. He started it. Anyway. It wasn't an insult. Only people who havent been in a relationship or even with a woman would larp hard enough to call someone a cuck based on what I commented
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:06 PM
0

Lol. You're a virgin right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:59 AM
9

I can blissfully ignore some evidence of a high N count as long as I'm otherwise happy. But having it presented to me directly makes me physically ill. I don't care who you have been with. I literally don't want to know. This isn't fear or comparison or anything like that. It's purely visceral
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:15 PM
1

And I'm sure you knew him so well at the beginning when you met huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:27 PM
1

I love how women think they know men so well while assuming men know nothing about women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:22 PM
1

Men can be turned on and not have an erection. Men can also think about wanting to sleep with a girl in such a low key way that women don't get it. I have a theory - based on testosterone and so on ... That women kind of like are either "on" or not. ( I could be very wrong) What I do know is that most men can be attracted to someone and act / be / physiologically feel completely neutral about the whole thing. I don't think a lot of women understand just how often we are turned on without being p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:19 PM
1

I'll ask him after you go to bed what he thought it was
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:11 PM
1

If you want to pretend that physical touch between two people in a romantic relationship isn't in any way sexual you can go right ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:21 PM
1

You're missing the point entirely. I think if you ask most men , cuddling and forehead kisses from a woman you're interested in physically are not platonic. Then again some people think sex is basically a handshake so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:27 PM
1

That's great. I'm sure you are platonically kissing and cuddling lots of unrelated men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:58 PM
6

I'm 14 % body fat athletic look. But I'm short and bald so whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:34 PM
1

Military intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:23 PM
0

That's close to a good answer. But you do understand that you gave a bunch of sexual examples right? Cuddling kissing etc. All that stuff wasn't platonic even if it didn't happen during sex Btw. Was sex on the table at some point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:21 AM
-1

What can you give ? Every time I ask this I get some sort of generalizations that are pretty meaningless. Meanwhile.... Every time a group of women want attention on something important in life they nearly always use sex or nudity or some other sexual thing to get that attention. I love women. But honestly it seems like all you guys want to bring to the table revolves around sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:10 AM
1

We are the Idiocracy people at the beginning of the movie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:01 AM
1

Highly educated men tend to be more risk averse In general. Other folks here said some very correct things ... I'll add one ... Our dating poop is more shallow because we have more to risk socially from relationships with women we may physically enjoy but can't or shouldn't be seen with. For instance I like punk / emo / etc type women but it would kill my career to be seen with one in my professional circles. This applies when you're high status but not that high that you can " get away" with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:00 AM
3

Nice just means boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:48 AM
1

You sound about 22-26 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:49 PM
2

Almost as if giving blanket advice is reliable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:19 PM
5

Fair. My point is the place doesn't matter as much as whether you're attracted to the guy and he's not awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:18 PM
9

Huh. I thought girls go to the gym to work out and not be hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:25 PM
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Story time. I was sitting at a restaurant with 3 other guys. 2 of them fit the " Chad" stereotype. The waitress - pretty, cute , a bit trashy for my dating tastes but whatever - was hitting on them hard. Telling them how she and her boyfriend aren't even touching anymore. Literally out of nowhere. We were watching UFC fights and eating. I'm not even sure how she got to that point. All the guys would say is ' oh yeah ? Huh that's cool " and laugh. She volunteered when she would be free that night…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:58 AM
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The other thing they don't understand is that THEY are the hoe in some other girls story. And that even hoes have hoes. And hoes are real people too. If a man they want goes for another girl - that girl is automatically a hoe. But to the new hoe the last girl you were with is a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:52 AM
3

And if it means household chores so be it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:06 PM
35

Your spouse should make your life better. Both of you should strive to make the other person's life better. Draw your own conclusions on how
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:52 PM
3

It's not about trusting the partner. It's about how the law counts things during a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:21 AM
-1

Lmao. I'll tell you this. I'm all for abortion. But IF I am the " father" I want the right to say no if she has the right to say no. Blah blah I should control my ejaculate. Fine. You should control who you fuck without a condom. Most abortions are there for convenience not rape incest or any other medical thing. I don't really care what you do tbh. But stop acting like you're not aware that you have a womb and men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:40 AM
3

In what way does higher education negate or stop promiscuous behavior? Asking as someone who interacts with MD/ JD/ PhD women daily
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:26 PM
15

People forget the whole responsibility part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:21 PM
3

This stuff is so predictable. Man has low level success with women despite not being " hawt" Reeee he must be stopped!! Bahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:34 AM
1

Women's sexuality is responsive. That means a man has to have or be something they want. Feature. Not bug. Women aren't men bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:00 AM
1

All I've got to say is this conversation is going exactly how I thought it would with all the old tired arguments on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:37 PM
1

This would be great if we could all count on ours and everyone else's former partners being kind and honest. Most people have negative feelings after a breakup on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:34 PM
1

That's a weird way to say I treated both genders equally. Isn't equality good ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:28 AM
1

I'm giving you ONE Possible example of how listening longer may give you more information. And you're arguing with that. And I said her. And I don't know what year or decade this happened since it's all just an example. Listen. If you wanna just admit there are certain things it's ok to be shallow about we are good. Shallow including time. I did notice how you didn't even argue that you edited your post. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:18 PM
1

You brought up someone being a sex offender as enough of a.reason to not to hear more about it before making a decision. I asked " what if this was the story about how they become a sex offender" ... And now I'm the one bringing up minors ? If you don't see how those two connect then I don't think you're worth further time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:28 AM
1

Tell me how it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:10 AM
1

Lmao. It's literally a fleshed out example of the actual example you gave. No worries. You can edit that comment later too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:11 AM
1

Ok cool. Use extreme examples. Here is one. What if she ( the date) was a child herself and did not understand that she shouldn't sleep with another teen and got charged because the other teens parents didn't like that their kid was gay. I know you're going to say something like " that doesn't happen" ... I mean since you're making up stuff I'll just go with it. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:14 AM
1

You know full well there was an edit. I'm fairly specific because I was specifically responding to a phrase you used that stated something about time- which is what I was talking about. Maybe I hallucinated it. It's possible. But I doubt it. As far as where it was - right under " trivial surface level information". You know. The kind where one doesn't take much time to make a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:00 AM
2

The one you posted. I'm not going that far back on the app .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:01 PM
2

Where did I say I don't want to acknowledge it ? You put up a definition that includes time. Therefore if you rejected someone before a significant amount of time trying to find out about them ... By YOUR definition... Thats shallow. Again. None of this is about me , what I want, or what I think. Your. Definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:47 PM
2

Show me where I'm pretending that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:20 PM
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I don't take anything you say seriously. Your non point about saying you aren't shallow is contradictory to the definition of " shallow" you posted. Most people are shallow. As are you. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:17 PM
3

Lmao. No. I'm not struggling to find average women. You described " a woman of worth" as an average human being does tell me that you think most women are below average humans. As far as asking a question... Yeah I guess you've never heard of asking something to see what another person thinks. Interesting. That tells me you're not very bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:13 PM
2

Choose to. Then are the ones that file the overwhelming majority of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:12 PM
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I don't have to ask gtfoh with that talking down to people. Btw. You described what should be an average adult. I haven't yet heard anything outstanding. Which tells me that you, personally, have a pretty low standard for quality in women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:11 PM
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By those definitions unless you spend a significant amount of time getting to know someone before making any sort of decision about them you're being shallow. So. Again. Most people don't invest enough time to go deeper than surface level things. Aka. Most people are shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:43 AM
0

Went to a conference this weekend. Lots of 45 yo + doctors. Some of the female doctors recently got divorced. They were Shocked dismayed, shocked and dismayed I tell you ! When talking about how their ex husband either doesn't have to pay alimony because she has the same earning power as him or that she has to do the paying Basically its like " but I'm the woman!" And the male colleagues are like " remember how when he was working 18 hrs a day and you had a chance to start that business on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:40 AM
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Can you define a woman of substance? What exactly can a woman of substance bring to the table? .what does she look like/ act like / do? I'm curious to see your vision of a woman of substance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:25 AM
1

I'm not sure you'd understand tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:32 PM
1

You would not know the why
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:46 PM
1

My point is that it's not on purpose. Many people don't even notice when they do this. Anyway. Pretty privilege is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:07 PM
1

It's well known and statistically shown that attractive people have social advantages. Do you think that doesn't mean people aren't nicer ? I can treat someone nicely no matter what they look like. People however do tend to be nicER to attractive people. This isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:02 PM
1

Ah. And that's the difference between boys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:19 PM
2

It's not that. Men aren't nicer to you because they wanna fuck you. People are nicer and kinder to people they find attractive whether they want to fuck em or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:01 PM
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A nice guy tm is a basket term for a harmless guy who doesn't take rejection well / and or thinks " acting nice" is attractive. The other is a nice male of adult age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:53 PM
2

Some humans are bad. Men and women both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:45 PM
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For reference I'd bet the guys who looked at you at 12 were not the same type of men who are looking at you now. Personal experience as the looker - I've looked at girls who - as we get closer while walking by or whatever I realize are too young and I stop looking. Sometimes having an adult female outline gets the look. The face - which is what can be what can tell you an age better - is harder to see at a distance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:31 PM
1

Yea the where's my hug thing is terrible. Hope you told him it was elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:06 AM
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.... Because she said so. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:15 PM
1

You've been hurting his feelings by not just telling him for how long now??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:05 PM
1

No. I don't. The nicest thing you can do is say " hey. I'm not interested in you" then block him ..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:45 PM
1

I wonder what's meaner. Cutting him off or saying something vs letting him keep trying in vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:26 PM
3

I remember getting freindzoned once when I was younger. We were decent friends and everyone thought we should get together. Best thing she ever did for me was tell me " you don't give me butterflies". It took her 4 years of us being friends. Actually friends. And the funny thing is I wasn't into her. I was into the idea of her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:47 PM
2

It's usually not that black and white. Just like a girl will make internal excuses for her behavior in the " used for sex" scenario " a frienzoned guy will also make excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:09 PM
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If a woman is aware of the situation and she keeps doing it she is leading him on malicious or not. Yes it's the guys fault for hanging out with her. But let's not say in a two person relationship ( friends / whatever) that both parties aren't partially at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:42 PM
2

Have you tried blocking his number or telling him to not contact you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:30 PM
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It's really easy to tell yourself that you're not leading them on. If you aren't treating them very platonically ( no hugs no even minimal flirting) it's probable that you know that you're leading them on a little. It's a nice feeling to have someone you like as a person who also likes you show you some attention. It's often not on purpose that you lead them on. But don't kid yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:30 PM
2

Just make sure they like you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:33 AM
3

And Ive seen slow insidious things. And sudden strokes before any symptoms. And plenty of people who can't change their lifestyle fast enough. Anyway. It sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:33 AM
3

Nah. You really really don't Trust me. Im the doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:29 AM
3

I'm all for it tbh. Professionally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:28 AM
1

That's the catch 22. By the time you can't live independently it's really hard to kill yourself successfully
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:24 AM
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Nah. I have seen many caring families and so on. But also sometimes there's not enough love in the world. Caregiver fatigue is unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:23 AM
2

You gotta get old first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:22 AM
3

Nah. I sprung your trap. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:21 AM
1

This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:21 AM
2

You won't. They don't respect the weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:21 AM
3

... no. But I'd love to see anything you got on how exogenous hormone replacement controls pheromones..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:20 AM
3

Depends on the question and how it's posed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:09 AM
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Y'all think growing old and loving etc is so beautiful. Fuck nursing homes . That is all. Also fuck dementia and fuck getting to where you can't take care of yourself and don't even know what's going on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:09 AM
3

Do you know what pheromones are ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:07 AM
2

Yup. That's why post nut clarity exists. Otoh I haven't met many women who improve their ability to contribute financially significantly over time relative to their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:32 PM
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Wouldn't survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:05 PM
2

It just tells you what men find to be worth the risk. I don't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:05 PM
1

You haven't seen senility. I work with this population
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:04 AM
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Live well and leave a good looking corpse. Why would I want to live into senility? What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:51 AM
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It's not gotchas at all. I'm just saying that the basis of your argument is wrong. Men and women cheating is wrong. But it's different. If you can't acknowledge that - then really I think you're a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:55 PM
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It's funny that when it suits you ... You use the biological argument. When it doesn't , you ignore it. When a woman cheats she is risking bringing another man's offspring into the relationship. If a man cheats - at most he is risking ending a relationship. These are different. We can argue which is better or worse. But it's freaking hilarious that you tell people to " man up" but want to pretend we as a society don't , in fact , judge men and women differently. You're literally doing so in your…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:05 PM
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Exactly. Thanks for making my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:01 PM
2

Exactly. Man up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:01 PM
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Also. Since we are solving inequalities... Why would you tell someone to man up ? That's pretty sexist of you. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:00 PM
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When society doesn't bend to biology let me know. I'm glad you agree that there is a biological difference however.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:52 PM
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Because if one side does it without the others knowledge the other may be raising kids not their own. This only applies in the case of one gender cheating without leaving. Fin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:32 PM
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You base your argument on the idea that it's the same offense. It's not. You haven't shown how it is the same offense. You just default to it. It's like a math logic problem from 8 th grade. Given X what is Y Your " given " is wrong. Make an argument for it being right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:18 PM
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It's not the same offense. Cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:09 PM
1

Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:12 PM
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Wait. So a porn stars job is to endanger her life for the lives of others ? Hmmm. How many dead porn stars have been killed while saving or attempting to save a life. As far as who made any jobs - congratulations on your silly ass argument. Men made all jobs. Happy ? Made doctors and chefs and cooks and farmers that all work so you can have this shitty little argument. Men made the world what it is. You don't like it ? Go do better. I'm sure you can get on a spaceship and do it better without me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:32 PM
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You keep making your point - which has zero to do with mine. You've beaten me. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:29 PM
0

Which is my point. It technically wasn't alimony and therefore won't be found in statistics about alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:44 PM
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I did state it several times. Did you read anything or were you busy making sure I know that you alimony a debt?.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:38 PM
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That wasn't even in the same topic as my point but ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:32 PM
2

Decent starting point. We aren't going to do anything here anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:57 PM
1

What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:57 PM
2

Honestly... I think prenuptial agreements should be nearly mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:25 PM
1

We protect minorities all the time. No ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:09 PM
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There is something called alimony pend lite or something along those lines. It's not technically alimony but it's calculated pretty much the same. It goes until the divorce is finalized. In the state I was in at the time the higher earning partner has to pay it until the divorce was done. Needless to say my ex took as long as she could to get things finalized. She knew that she couldn't get actual alimony based on the length of marriage. I offered to pay all her expenses instead but she chose to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:50 PM
1

No I'm not talking about hasidic Jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:19 AM
1

Yup. You live until you die. That's like a fact of life I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:18 AM
1

No. Are you stupid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:17 AM
2

What is a predominantly female profession that is routinely expected to put it's life in danger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:16 AM
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What freaking statistics? There are literally jobs that pay people to put their lives on the line for strangers. Oh and those are male dominated. Don't come back with " well they get paid " ... That's not the point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:25 AM
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That was sarcasm directed to the person saying that men don't routinely as a whole protect women and children before themselves, often at the cost or potential cost of their own lives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:04 AM
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Fats
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:59 AM
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Men are terrible and selfish Oh. https://www.dailysignal.com/2018/11/08/multiple-men-were-ready-to-take-a-bullet-for-any-single-one-of-us-says-woman-who-survived-california-shooting/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:58 AM
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You too buddy. Live a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:53 AM
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Last paragraph. You can sit here and say " well it doesn't happen to the majority" etc. But like many other things where the majority of people aren't affected... Would you then not make laws that make sense for those whom it does affect?..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:20 AM
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Lol. Ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:18 AM
1

You're right for an ideal world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:10 AM
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It was implied in the past where I said " legally". It's ok. It was worth it. My point , again , is that it won't ever be found under the " alimony" column.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:03 AM
1

So you're saying that anyone who is exploited is ok with it ? Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:01 AM
0

Give me your address.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:00 AM
1

Like I said. That's not how those conversations happen. You are imagining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:41 AM
-2

Cool. Do you imagine that's how these conversations happen? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:14 AM
3

Do you believe that you rightfully owe any bill presented to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:44 AM
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Then you are either young or inexperienced in life as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:30 AM
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If and when it all works out yes I agree one parent at home for a while is great
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:51 AM
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Per the law yes. My point is you'll not find it listed under " alimony"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:45 AM
1

Well with that attitude. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:45 AM
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Yes. Usually that's the ideal case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:44 AM
1

Why? You haven't said anything that would make me think you'd believe me...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:43 AM
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I really don't care what you concern yourself with. OP said it doesn't happen in the US. As in zero percent. She's wrong. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:36 AM
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Sometimes the ultimatum doesn't have to be made. Sometimes the men are pressured into working more hours so she can stay home. And then get blamed for not being there for her and the kids. We all got stories. I'd assume a person as smart and educated as you understands that these things aren't black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:35 AM
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Listen. I didn't pay alimony. I did pay some other stuff that was slightly more than half my gross income for nearly two years. But she can say she never got a dime of alimony. Btw. I'm not mad about it. I'm the one who filed. I'm just saying that when someone looks up " alimony statistics" it's not all that apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:33 AM
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Who is OP? I don't recognize the name. And as I said. Joint decisions are only joint when one party doesn't stand to loose more than the other if it doesn't go well. Regardless of gender. Mind you - I'm not against stay at home parents and so on. But let's not pretend there isn't more out there than their " joint decision"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:27 AM
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Read what you just wrote and then we can talk. Anecdotes are things that happened. Your silly insistence on studies assumes someone cared enough to study it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:24 AM
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Yes. People who make significant . money are a minority. When you have nothing to take it's not an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:22 AM
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Because it is if the other person wants to keep the family . You've been around long enough for me to not have to spell it out for you. Don't act like you don't understand. It's silly at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:20 AM
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It's like you've never been in a relationships nor ever faced consequences for other people's actions. You'd really leave a spouse because they have chosen not to work and you can provide for the family? Typically a female approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:42 AM
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Cool. So you're a troll. You're not here to discuss and listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:39 AM
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So it hasn't happened with many men and women I work with and know socially and professionally. Cool story
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:31 AM
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Let a woman? It's like you think men control their women and they aren't people who can act independently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:12 AM
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No. Silly. They don't buy the house before marriage. They buy it for the family mostly with their own resources. Their wives often decide to not work or work less than she could. Even if she works a full time job often If there is a divorce that financial contribution is very minimal as far as any financial support during separation or divorce goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:11 AM
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I lived in the Midwest and now in the south. People over a certain financial status tend to have that experience more often than not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:42 PM
0

Which I didn't do. Why are you still arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:00 PM
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I didn't define what I meant by " young" For certain values I'm right. I'm sure as hell right if I changed " young" to " babies" yea?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:46 AM
1

Yup. It was designed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:25 AM
1

Then you would have loved the comment I was replying to. Mine was made with the same energy just more actual integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:11 AM
1

Ok cool. My point overall is that " mom" by default doesn't equal " good" as our society and how the courts rule show.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:25 AM
1

I originally said that for kids below a certain age. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:42 PM
1

Not the one I remember but here you go. https://news.uoguelph.ca/2015/10/new-study-compares-mothers-fathers-who-kill-their-children/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:33 PM
0

Google is a brand new product.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:59 PM
0

Listen. This was a study I read once. You want me to remember if it was statistically weighed one way or another?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:12 PM
0

That sure sounds a lot like " kids are annoying enough to kill" for me to be creeped out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:16 AM
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I didn't have to find anything. I remembered reading something on the subject. Interesting how you seem to think people find data that supports them rather than use data to form opinions. It's interesting however... That when women find an age group they CAN kill ... They do more often. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:25 AM
1

Ah yes. It's not like moms don't kill young kids more often than dads. I'm sure you'll find how it's a man's fault somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:29 AM
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Long time no talk buddy. Hope you're well
/r/askMRP22/04/22 12:17 AM
9

This. Mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:12 PM
3

Most women look almost totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:01 PM
5

Whenever people here post good nuanced comments they don't get the attention they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:10 PM
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Don't take this the wrong way but you sound like you think sex with the lights on and a bj on the couch before 9 pm are adventures.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:55 PM
3

When you say things like " more than'.... You might wanna back that up with numbers. Otherwise I'll just say football players should all be jailed because there's a tendency to cut off the heads of wives .. Ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:46 AM
2

Laughs in ray rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:44 AM
9

That's because people who can injure others know they can be injured. Fighters/ MMA/ BJJ people are usually the least prone to violence people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:39 AM
1

It's hard sometimes though. We interact with people we are around. Most people spend most of their time interacting at work. In college it's easier obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:18 PM
1

Reread your post and tell me what you'd say if this was your friend. I would tell him to go to a good divorce attorney.
/r/askMRP19/04/22 02:31 PM
4

Would you like me to sleep with her too for you ? A girl I dated for a while who was on paper out of my league and I had 14 years on her was talking one day about going back to her town to see her family and get more of a local beer. She brought it to a Christmas party where we were chatting about it. Anyway I asked her to get me some next time she goes ... I'd pay and all that. At the time I just wanted the beer. Anyway. Some time later she said she had it. Somehow in conversation I got her to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:22 PM
2

Make it her idea. But also understand that if this girl wants she will ruin your life. Find a job where people try to work. Not gossip
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:05 PM
1

I mean ... What are we talking about?. riding a bus instead of having a driver use your Bentley? It's low class to flash wealth. But some sweatshirt and jean combinations.can run several thousand dollars without having brand names all over them. It's a filtering mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:01 PM
3

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:26 AM
1

Bratik
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:38 PM
3

If you don't want a kid you probably shouldn't have one. I mean you. Specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:32 PM
1

Sounds like the parent is blaming the other parent not the kid. Good to know you can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:31 PM
2

Russia takes indian conscripts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:28 PM
3

Sure. But also women would have to pay child support for kids that they had no say in and may even not be theirs. But probably not. Men tend to not have wombs so ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:26 PM
3

Or they say what they wouldn't otherwise. Who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:03 AM
1

Aww
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:28 PM
8

Yes. I was " rp" or whatever before I came here but I thought that some of the levels of utter lack of empathy other men were talking about was way exaggerated. Women of ppd basically showed me that - if anything - the worst behaviors and patterns of behavior and thoughts attributed to women by RP are as nothing compared to what many women here actually believe and think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:15 AM
24

No Women can love you, fuck you , and divorce you. On the same day.
/r/askMRP15/04/22 03:58 AM
3

How could he misinterpret " honor and obey"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:38 PM
9

In the spirit of " there are no women on the internet" good job bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:19 PM
3

You know... All married sex is rape right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:05 PM
1

Humans aren't by and large great at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:54 PM
2

Oh totally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:44 PM
1

That was the case for a while in the 40-50 I believe. It's not actually religious doctrine. Unless you want to site some religious doctrine. Then we can chat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:44 PM
1

Which specific branch of Christianity are you referring to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:43 PM
1

Lol. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:21 PM
1

My point is why are you even commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:08 PM
1

If you want to look into it on your own you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:49 PM
1

To have and to hold... To honor and obey. If we are limiting ourselves to basic Christianity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:40 PM
1

You are assuming that to be my bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:39 PM
2

Ok so if the story is pointless why are you even entertaining the post. Aka why even comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:39 PM
2

What's the point of discussing anything when someone like you is just like " nah that didn't happen"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:02 PM
5

No. Religion isn't the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:22 AM
4

Actually strictly speaking she is committing a sin. I'm not defending him not leaving her. I don't really understand him there. What it comes down to was he made a promise and he wanted to keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:21 AM
8

Observation of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:19 AM
2

You're so focused on anal and changing the premise of a given situation. Lol. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:18 AM
13

He was very religious. In a serious way he took his vows seriously. She ... She liked the idea of being religious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:14 AM
24

Yea this wasn't that. She told him after their last kid that she never was going to sleep with him because sex is for having kids. So yea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:50 AM
5

Wanting your partner to not lie to you. Wouldn't that be nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:49 AM
33

Yea well. I know a man like that. He had sex with his wife prior to both kids. And nothing since. Never cheated. His youngest is about 34 or so now. Good guy. But I just couldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:51 AM
10

Like I said. Imagine that it's not about the act itself ..silly I know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:43 AM
3

So in the OP she lied about it apparently. So let's go with that. As far as what specific situation would it wouldn't upset you... or me ... Can we agree that it's 1) an intimate scenario and 2) people being somewhat different - a person can be upset over anything they want. I may find something that upsets you or mrsdegree silly. But I'm not going to sit here and judge them for Being upset
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:42 AM
1

What do you want for dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:07 AM
6

And I wasn't even talking about just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:06 AM
2

No idea. Wasn't an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:25 AM
6

That's fine. Your standards and feelings are the only ones ever worth considering
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:25 AM
5

I forgot. are you one of the neurodivergent types ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:24 AM
7

Ok so you can't imagine feeling betrayed on a deep level. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:18 AM
7

How about something like murder ? Incest ? Child abuse ? Just imagine something you personally don't like. Now imagine seeing your husband doing that. Now pretend you have actual evidence he did. Before you say " but it's not the same thing" imagine that whatever it was felt like a betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:14 AM
23

So you've can't imagine ever wanting to try something new in your life ? In the bedroom or otherwise? Wow. That's heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:12 AM
11

So. Now we know that specific thing wasn't a problem for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:02 AM
13

I bet if you were to find a 20 min vid of something your husband lied about doing or not... Or something that you never even considered to ask about... It may change how you view him and the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:44 AM
20

Post says that he wanted to explore. That means this may be a new desire. If she would have said * I've done that before but honestly I'm not into it" it would still sound hurtful but it wouldn't have been a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:37 AM
14

Fine. Exclude the anal or whatever. Exclude the asking. If I found out that my partner lied to me about something like that they are gone in my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:36 AM
22

So human lie detector. Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:33 AM
16

It's not the acts. It's the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:32 AM
119

The man in the situation should feel ... However he damn well pleases. We can't control our feelings. If his wife LIED to him about it as your post suggests ... Well. I'd start questioning a lot of things. Good relationships aren't built around lying about intimate things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:31 AM
6

Are they having sex with hookers then not paying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:52 PM
1

More than some think. Less than others hope. More than some hope , less than others think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:51 PM
1

It's excellent. The other day she was shocked to hear that it's not uncommon for a woman in her 20's to have 10+ sexual partners in her lifetime. Next attempt to find pathology where there isn't one. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:28 AM
3

It's not unattractive. It's just not attractive. It's neutral. Like a little plus sign after we already feel attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:29 AM
5

Money isn't an attraction trigger for men. So we don't care what you make. Only you care what you make and maybe what a guy makes. Relationship - 22 yo. Hookup 32 yo. Ime 32 yo women are just difficult to work with and ( commonly) not worth the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:16 PM
2

Sure. We just need a nice little war to wipe out like 60%of men. You down?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:38 PM
1

Dude. The people who agree with you can't be directly replying to your post. They can reply to the automod. It's like " change my view " " I agree with you". That's not trying to change your view
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:16 PM
2

Same with women and n count. A woman with a high body count is a.red flag. Even a perceived high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:40 PM
1

Nope. But it's not worth my time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:33 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:29 PM
2

If my kid doesn't deserve respect from people by not earning it or worse expects it before earning it. It's my fault
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:27 AM
-1

Meh. Depends on how it's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:17 AM
1

We really shouldn't use that word toward human females. Too disrespectful to dogs. You're right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:08 AM
0

Do you think a woman should have respect she didn't earn because she is female ? Or do you think you missed the part where he said he doesn't respect those who don't Earn it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:07 AM
1

So are military contracts and college loans. But they happen routinely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:12 PM
0

You're right. It's totally predatory of her to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:21 PM
2

The only factor that concerns most people is their particular pet issues with either party or whatever " badness " the parties in question represent to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:20 PM
2

Find someone who knows grappling of any sort but also how to draw a firearm during that encounter
/r/askMRP08/04/22 04:27 AM
1

Yes that's just sport. Which is great.
/r/askMRP08/04/22 04:25 AM
2

That's not jujitsu. Do you know how to shoot in a non military scenario
/r/askMRP08/04/22 04:19 AM
1

Only if the car lines up with your traditional lifts
/r/askMRP08/04/22 04:18 AM
3

BJJ is great but it'll build cardio rather than help burn fat. I know plenty of heavy ,( overweight or fat ) pretty good non competition practitioners. It's definitely not there to give you the aesthetic. But I do love the sport so it's cool
/r/askMRP08/04/22 03:57 AM
1

Oh. Yes. This is true. Feature. Not bug. It applies to family relationships or in group relationships as well. For instance I train in combat sports with some women who we all treat as our sisters. If something starts in a non platonic way it's up to the girl to initiate the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:44 PM
2

Or she takes normal behavior as possessive. .who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:30 AM
1

So you're saying that it's not uncommon for men to be more possessive or it's not uncommon for men to be possessive more often than women ? Either way since it's not only you it must be the majority huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:02 AM
3

Welp. Let's start with the premise presented as fact may be not a good way to start a discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:49 AM
5

Who said that men are more possessive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:14 AM
15

Can't tell if you want to be with this woman or not. Notice I didn't ask about the family or kids. Just about the woman.
/r/askMRP07/04/22 03:55 AM
7

It's not in a question of trust per se. It's a question of adding " right now" to everything they say. I've been with several women who were in various serious relationships and cheated on them with me. Often I didn't know about the relationship initially or they told me they were broken up. People can say things like " oh they were trashy girls " or something to that effect. You wouldn't know it from their socioeconomics is all I'm going to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:52 AM
0

Women choose who they mate with. Fin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:31 AM
1

And I know those that don't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:40 AM
1

Thanks for telling me what all men want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:02 AM
2

You're thinking too much. It's basically about exposure to more women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:08 AM
1

The men you and her are finding attractive before you get to know them are certainly doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:47 PM
1

" without too much effort"? I dunno. People who say that need to put down the Doritos bag tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:43 PM
1

Something... Unpleasant about the idea of hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:24 PM
4

Those are not your friends. That's a brother or dad's job
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:11 PM
2

Is that really what they said? Wth. If I was your dad/ uncle / whatever I'd tell you to look at them with disdain and ask if they thought it was the kind of thing they want said to their daughters/ wife/ sister. What ever is appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:10 PM
2

You don't want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:50 AM
2

We aren't. Again. What exact method would there be to " change your view"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:29 PM
3

So how exactly would you want to have your view changed ? How many men telling you that they know many women who would consider 20 bodies + pretty average? Like do you want a study ? Do you want half the world's western population to admit their body count? Like ... What exactly do you think people will be able to come back with to change your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:19 PM
6

It's about the time I decided I that living vicariously was probably not the answer. Stop looking for a fucking cheat code
/r/askMRP01/04/22 11:59 PM
2

This was an ... Excessive case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:09 PM
15

A " fiscally responsible person" ... Turned out to be psychopathically cheap. " An introvert"-. I discovered I can't handle people who never want to be social or can't mingle when the need arises
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:57 PM
-1

Yes. Idiots. Reading something and taking it to an extreme is surely the sign of a higher level of cognitive ability
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:30 PM
1

What are those high standards that let you wind up on a date with a dude who ate his own boogers? I'm pretty sure there were other tells about his ... Grossness
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:39 PM
1

Last few guys wives picked me up and put me on the bed so they could get fucked. I just work here man
/r/askMRP29/03/22 05:05 PM
3

I'm curious about this incentive structure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:20 PM
4

I love posts that start out with " you're missing out" and end with " I don't like that I'm viewed as (x)" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:36 PM
2

Oh man. Well. I guess banging navy wives will have a new definition
/r/askMRP29/03/22 01:18 PM
5

Oh shit. You're going to be a navy reservist. Did they issue your thong yet ?
/r/askMRP29/03/22 05:08 AM
4

Wait what. You just called me a bitch? Oh no!
/r/askMRP29/03/22 04:30 AM
25

If you're asking this go lift weights. Or fuck your wife.
/r/askMRP29/03/22 02:58 AM
1

Nah Just imagine what it's like to want to cheat. What your partner has to go through. Then imagine you suddenly get a girl who is into you. Flip side. You go out one night and have so much attention you're spoiled for choices. Your only problem is they are all bad choices. But guys are throwing dick at you all night. Anyway. Or flip it for a second. Why aren't men supposed to hit women ? Because they have a natural advantage in strength on average and they are looked down on for abusing that ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:55 AM
1

Not initially. Which is the point of discussion Because initially genitals aren't being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:51 AM
0

I love how the author decided she would tell men about how men should think and feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:46 AM
2

I think I was one of the ones who came up with the maxim. Without knowing the details ( I read your post but still kind of don't understand what's going on) I would - since it seems you're getting divorced anyway - make sure I kept my kid and not her since she makes those threats.
/r/askMRP28/03/22 12:44 PM
2

Tell people the reality of life. Tell both genders about what the average male / female is going to be looking for and don't disparage either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:04 AM
1

I don't really expect much from society
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:49 PM
2

Funny thing is I've used that same line. And she did bring me a stool. It's funny what they do when they want a dick in them.
/r/askMRP27/03/22 11:24 PM
1

What do you mean? What is this accountability from society? Who ? What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:23 PM
2

We aren't angry about it. Most of us get annoyed when the woman in question and " society" flatly denies it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:19 PM
4

Bruh. I'm 5'2 and I bet your wife would fuck me
/r/askMRP26/03/22 04:26 PM
15

Have you tried being fuckable? ....
/r/askMRP26/03/22 02:47 AM
2

We have had this discussion recently. Apparently women here find it very difficult to understand that a man may acknowledge that a female friend IS attractive and even acknowledge that IN other circumstances he"d want to sleep with her ... But that none of this means he is trying to sleep with her or actively wants to. Add to this that the barrier to being attractive physically I'd much lower for most men. Then add that personality can make a person more attractive.. And then add that I am not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:18 PM
4

Personality. Everything else is available for sale
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:09 AM
1

No. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:03 PM
1

Goalposts successfully moved
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:24 PM
1

In general getting compliments is better than no attention or negative attention. It's simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:13 PM
1

I didn't realize we were discussing whether you value the compliments. Just that you get them. As you said you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:33 PM
2

Maybe I wasn't explicit enough. Girl posting plants and and wholesome selfies once in a while was getting comments from random men. You're posting content that's pretty creepy to comment on. So no. I disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:19 PM
1

You have a very .. um specific cosplay account from what I can see. It won't be seen by a lot of men at all. If you either went slightly more sexual or even just not content that would be creepy to comment on you'd see many many more male comments. My ex would post a selfie with plants once in a while or something and literally guys would ask her to marry them. And honestly she was cute and while really pretty to me at the time she was the kind of pretty that happens when you are attracted to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:22 PM
2

Literally that's the girl version of approaching. Off dating apps it just kinda looks like a girl is suddenly around more. In some social situations it's often hard to distinguish WHO she's around more for. But it's not THAT hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:03 PM
15

Man child is just a term for " I failed to change him into a man who would have a stable relationship with me "
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:59 AM
1

It's not about you. It's about her. If she's smart and into you the alphaest alpha won't be able to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:37 PM
1

I don't " go out of my way" to talk to anyone. If I want or need something then it's on my way. This includes men and women. However I will not start a conversation with a woman I don't have a reason to in certain situations because ... Why? They can talk to me. For instance in the gym or martial arts school I don't start conversations with women I don't need to. This doesn't mean I avoid them either. I honestly don't understand this question I think... I talk to people I want to talk to. Whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:02 AM
1

That wouldn't piss. Me off. Saying something rude or very obviously silly would have annoyed me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:38 PM
2

Either way very pretty eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:11 PM
4

Please tell me lady #5 isn't someone whose personality on here I've disliked?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:06 PM
1

Laughs in " women select their sexual partners"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:28 AM
1

Men aren't asking not to do their half or more of the work in a household
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:22 PM
1

Even when I was a virgin as a teen I never wanted to be with a virgin per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:21 PM
6

It's called being an adult. If you don't want to do chores find a way not to do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:17 AM
1

Ever hear of Don Juan? His whole thing was game
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:14 AM
2

Let's go back to the part where you think that someone saying a person is attractive means he wants to ' try to fuck them " You got called out for being a POS then and you kept right at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:48 PM
1

I mean if you're going to misrepresent me... I might as well return the favor
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:55 PM
0

In reading your reply it's easy to assume you mean that you can have sexual attraction for your siblings. Like I said. Just because someone doesn't act on it doesn't mean it's not present
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:39 PM
1

There is usually some level of sexual attraction between people who find one another attractive. What they do with it is another matter. Are we defining the " platonic relationship" as " nothing sexual has happened yet " or " no one is attractive enough to generate attraction "?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:31 PM
1

It's not truly platonic then ..but then again it can only affect the friendship if you allow it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:23 PM
1

Yes there is a huge difference between " would sleep with" ... " Would like to sleep with"... " Would like to have a romantic relationship with" and so on. As I got older the times where I would develop a " crush" would happen less and less. A " crush " is really feelings that you have with the person you imagine the person to be. Rather than the " real person" Like ... I'm not going to allow myself to develop feelings for someone who doesn't reciprocate them to some significant degree... And if…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:22 PM
1

You already made up your mind. Why would I want to change it? Anyway. I explained it in detail to someone who was asking without being aggressive about it. Go read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:13 PM
1

Still attacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:49 PM
1

Notice how they can't understand that finding someone attractive doesn't mean a man is trying to get into their pants
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:03 PM
1

Listen. You obviously misunderstood something then went on basically calling me names for a while. Then instead of saying " hey I apologize. I must have misunderstood you" you go with "so what was the point..." Be nicer and I may help you understand what I meant. But at this point why would I even try ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:57 PM
1

Not at all. My point was that if I'm friends with someone their personality is attractive to me ( by definition). If someone is attractive physically then they are attractive physically. So attractive personality plus attractive physically = very attractive package. It doesn't mean I'll do something about it or want to do something about it. I think that women don't understand this often because from what I know women aren't walking around having the experience of being attracted to men ( for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:54 PM
2

Apparently to upset you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:11 PM
1

I don't remember writing that. Show me where I did tho if you find it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:04 PM
1

Omfg. It doesn't at all. My point was that being friends with them makes them more attractive. It doesn't mean I actively want to screw them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:59 PM
1

Nah. You are either gaslighting or you can not read. I'm going with " can't read"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:53 PM
1

You're 16? At some point you'll learn that there is a huge difference in acknowledging the potential for a romantic relationship if other things aligned and actively wanting or pursuing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:52 PM
2

Read what I wrote and tell me where I said I am friends with no women. Or only two women. Hint. I didn't. I'm friends with many women superficially ( my definition) I am friends with many men superficially. I'm friends with a few people closely. People who'se kids know me as family while not being related. People who I call from across the country and the world and relationship based on decades of mutual life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:49 PM
1

" healthy at any weight" is a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:39 PM
-1

Do you know the difference between the terms " would" and " want to" ? Or are you just creepy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:38 PM
0

Lol. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:37 PM
5

Who said trying to fuck em ? I can say I find someone attractive without trying to fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:35 PM
1

Nah I just define friend as different from friendly and sociable. Your obvious inability to tell how those are different is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:35 PM
8

An woman who I find even mildly possibly attractive who has a personality I enjoy instantly becomes attractive to me. Even an ugly girl can become cute when you enjoy her company. I have exactly two female " friends" who I would NOT sleep with. And honestly it's a pretty shallow friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:44 PM
0

It's possible but very unlikely. Male friendships are based on shared experience and often going through something hard. I have female friends who are either too age inappropriate for sex ( aka older than I find attractive) AND are usually my male friends partners. Oh. Do FWB count as " platonic"? After all sex isn't romantic by itself right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:40 PM
1

Women have zero concept of what it takes to maintain muscular definition with a bit off fat. For reference average middle age US male - mid 30' has a BMI of 30. ( Obese ) Let's go with body fat. Look up any body fat percentage image for reference. Women won't pick the men about 25% and up. interesting article here - https://www.nbcnews.com/healthmain/real-shape-american-man-dudes-youre-porky-8c11394082 Anyway. What women mean when they want " dad bod " is more like " retired athlete who works ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:36 PM
1

Ye that'd what's considered a healthy weight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:22 PM
1

It's kinda for themselves. Ass backwards. " It makes me feel good"... There's a part missing " Knowing that I now look such that I am closer to what society considers attractive makes me feel good about myself" I know a lot of people don't have the ability to tailor clothing. But imagine a suit / outfit literally made for you ... That's the feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:20 PM
1

As soon as child support laws change sure. Or you know... She can give up custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:55 PM
1

It's funny but you didn't define " huge body count" which is what people actually care about. And that number tends to be subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:15 PM
1

Not you specifically. Just how we assign meaning to words that in reality have completely different meanings
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:15 PM
1

Y'all are funny. The definition of the word " romance" literally is " having no basis in fact " I love English sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:04 PM
1

Neither is better than the other. These terms describe the reason women choose to be with certain men. They are the extremes on a sliding scale
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:30 AM
6

Why do you think OLD apps allow you to filter out height for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:13 AM
2

No tomorrow. Why are you making fun pre teens ya perv
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:50 PM
3

You're right. You are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:36 PM
3

A and b are wrong. You may want to clarify b here because I may not have seen the "b" you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:27 PM
7

I read it. My response stands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:50 PM
9

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:37 PM
2

Lmao. You never had game
/r/askMRP01/03/22 12:53 PM
0

I don't drive cars I don't want to drive. And I'm happy to continue to not drive cars I don't want to drive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:50 PM
-1

The brain chemistry doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:48 PM
15

Of course it does. Have you even seen what happens when a woman is rejected by someone she wants ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:48 PM
5

" this isn't working any more. We are over. " The other stuff is just logistics so you don't suffer
/r/askMRP28/02/22 01:46 AM
1

Look. After a while we know what posturing looks like.
/r/askMRP27/02/22 01:30 AM
3

A 7 who I love and who loves me is a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:28 PM
0

If he was a good guy you got along with as a friend he wouldn't still be trying to do boyfriend things. Why does he ignore it ? Because you ignore jt. If your verbal boundary doesn't match your actions it's not a boundary. If you still have a place for him in your life after he breaks a boundary that's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:28 PM
1

Outliers are outliers for a reason. If a method of thinking accounts for most people in common situations that's all it's supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:45 PM
5

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:42 PM
0

Cool. Working 30 hrs a week... Exactly how do you get free anything? Anyway. All that would be nice if humans didn't automatically try to compete for resources
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:03 PM
1

I'm literally here for the downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:11 AM
6

How do you know? Have you ? Does your wife know that other women will take her place? Notice I didn't say " fuck other women ". But also. You're here asking questions. It's fair to assume your relationship with your wife isn't where you want it.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:52 PM
3

Be 100 percent sure you can replace her in your bed in a week.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:35 PM
5

Ah yes. Sex is still a favor she grants you. Do you see the problem with that ?
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:23 PM
6

If you're the author it's pretty much your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:29 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:15 PM
3

It's the only conclusion I could think of based on the post. It certainly didn't have a positive or neutral flavor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:14 PM
10

I think you're trying to say that red pillers will be into a bdsm kink because of the power dynamic or whatever? Like " hurting women good "? If that's the case good luck in your fetish lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:00 PM
1

I've been cheated on. I've been cheated with. I had a fling during the tail end of my marriage - we were separated so I don't think that counts. I've been to a strip club 3x. Twice with my ex wife. If I were to make a judgement based on my experience I'd say more women cheat than men and women can't be trusted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:58 PM
1

I have female friends. They don't get the romantic side of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:32 PM
1

They only want to. They aren't in the game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:40 AM
5

No one was ever upset that the girl who didn't have sex with other guys didn't have sex with this one guy. C'mon now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:39 AM
2

No no. They key difference is what she thinks his intentions were as far as when she complains about it. Women talking about lying like they don't is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:17 PM
2

Is getting ready to screw your hot pool boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:41 AM
3

" if you've had access to the candy store for a decade before someone else, you don't get to judge their candy selection" me. Based on the candy store analogy. Also. The " husband store " story
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:28 PM
1

It's funny tho. The men being divorced now didn't have those things you claim men had. So ....who are you even talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:36 AM
1

It's funny tho. The men being divorced now didn't have those things you claim men had. So ....who are you even talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:36 AM
1

It's funny tho. The men being divorced now didn't have those things you claim men had. So ....who are you even talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:36 AM
1

Would this include having the same testosterone level as men relatively more? Hang on. I'm going to invest in whatever companies make dildos.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:00 PM
4

And that's ok. Many women don't. But enough do that there is a decent market out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:16 PM
4

This is how this goes from here - I give examples from my life and the lives of other men. Then you'll say something along the lines of (" those aren't " good" / mature/ whatever positive thing ) and proceed to put down those women. At the same time you on someone else will make a reference to older men " taking advantage of" younger women or something. And at some point you or someone else will just say I'm ( or guys with similar experiences) are lying. Look. It's time to wipe so I'll be going …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:02 PM
2

Of course. Are you new ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:58 PM
1

Psst. You're not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:57 PM
1

Have a cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:56 PM
9

It's funny how you said this. If 40+ yo men weren't attractive to women this wouldn't matter. So either you're a younger man sad about the silverback taking a girl you somehow considered " yours "... Or a female that got dumped by a 40 yo man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:03 PM
9

As stated in another thread. Testosterone is a hell of a drug. That's also why the whole " post nut clarity" exists. Like damn. Why would I want this woman in my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:46 PM
1

Women don't have to put in as much effort to have sex as men. Therefore when it comes to cheating male behavior is more obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:43 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:09 PM
2

Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:36 PM
1

I know that part. But there are probably levels to "escorts" Aka those who chose as adults and those who ... Didn't. I doubt they file 1099's a whole lot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:46 PM
1

Would it be considered a " profession" on paper ? Meaning it's not like you have a " American Escort Association" like you do American medical Association.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:26 PM
1

Legit question. Do you think that survey data for escorts as a job could be collected in the first place? I'm talking from a legal pov not anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:58 PM
1

Most young dumb redpillers would roast me for still wanting to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:56 PM
1

I'm not explaining that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:27 AM
1

Yea humans aren't bees.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:45 PM
1

The truth is that the only reason this species doesn't keep women in cages is that we like them. Because men could. But in most of our societies chooses not to. I love women. But your post is just utter nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:37 PM
1

Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:30 PM
1

I'm here to impress you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:08 PM
0

Have you had sex with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:01 PM
1

What are the actual answers to those questions?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/22 10:58 PM
1

Attracted? No. Huge bonus in a relationship sure. But competence in areas that are relationship related. Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:08 PM
1

I'm just responding to the idea that modern women commonly want to be treated in a " traditional" way. Or the " right way" meaning dinner dates And getting to know you etc before sex. Like. No. If you present yourself as not worth it you you won't get it. " You" is generic here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:32 PM
5

She didn't choose him. She couldn't have as much fun as she used to with who she used to because she didn't get invited anymore. So she settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:55 PM
0

Women who want to sleep with you don't do things that annoy you. After all. What the hell ya gonna do ? Leave ?
/r/askMRP08/01/22 01:50 PM
1

Meh. If women want to be woed- they should be worth wooing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:19 PM
2

In the past you'd be a virgin, or a n count that can be done with a couple of fingers. Perhaps your father had some businesses he wanted to pass on to your future children. Youd probably understand how to do housework or if not be of a station that knew how to properly tell the servants what needed to be done. But hey. It's not like we live in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:00 AM
0

You sure don't seem to understand men given you're a self proclaimed pick me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:12 PM
1

If you're really 16 find a dad to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:22 PM
0

Of course it is. It's not like you are the one who has choice removed. Remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:23 PM
2

People who don't lift weights and work out assume the blonde guy doesn't work out / lift It's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:17 PM
1

Not enough men have sex regularly enough to risk saying something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:38 AM
1

Because men are more likely to seek power and be able to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:37 AM
6

In order to be my friend you have to go through some shit with me. Shared experiences/ struggle you went through together. " Let's just be friends* isn't a request for friendship. It's a rejection that attempts to " be kind " or as some women on this sub say " make sure the man doesn't hurt them "
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:27 PM
3

They all acknowledge this already. Aside from a few morons here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:12 PM
1

They heirarchy exists but it's very very narrow at the top. So are we so we speaking about the Average male physician of dating age ? Or are you going to support your whole point by conflating the 5% at the top with the rest ? If you work even tangentially in any similar system you already know you're wrong. Don't make the 1 Neuro or Ct surgeon who does good business for a small town hospital into the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:49 PM
2

Most doctors are either employees of the hospital or of a large practice. Most private practice docs don't see their own patients when they get admitted. New docs are cheap labor and easily replace experienced ones from a production standpoint. Don't conflate the average doctor with the 1% who owns the practice or is the medical director/ CMO/ CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:20 PM
3

What country are you from ? What relationship to the medical system do you have ? I need to know what amount of incorrect information I'm working with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:10 PM
0

I came to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:47 PM
3

This is totally incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:57 PM
3

Any woman that works around high value men ( whatever that means) has more temptation to cheat. Kind of like doctors who work with a lot of young attractive female nurses. It's just ... There. Doesn't mean someone acts on it. But I know many examples of nurses and doctors who partake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:15 AM
21

Nope. We write patient care orders. They are documented. Unless a nurse literally does the wrong thing she's fine. A doctors orders a doctor fault. Nurses are more represented in hospital leadership. Much more open to criticism. I've seen female nurses get away with comments and actions that would get a male physician fired on the spot when it comes to sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:12 AM
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Nope. Different and parallel authority structure. Doctors aren't in charge of nurses. Can't fire em. Can't hire em.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:43 AM
9

It's literally the perfect environment for women who are more hypergamous. Like. They are surrounded by men who they / society views as " superior". And they are around when docs save lives and act decisive and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:41 AM
5

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:06 AM
4

The female doctors are either married or dating the even older attendings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:05 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:36 AM
1

Basically here is the deal. A divorce / and marriage is a three sided contract. Two people and the government who is the arbiter. If you trust your spouse you Should have NO Problem signing a prenup both parties lawyers put together. Why ? Because you trust your partner. If you want another entity to tell you and your partner what to do I think that it's a much much worse sign than any type of argument against signing a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:41 AM
2

Gym. Jujitsu are my current hobbies. I literally don't have time for more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:18 PM
1

Sounds like I was missing out on a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:46 PM
4

Does that really happen? I ... Once tried to talk to a girl at the gym. I wasn't even trying to hit on her. More like " hey how many more sets ?" Got chewed out. Went to a meathead gym after that. The girls there are better at being human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:38 AM
1

It doesn't change my self perception nor my ability to make adjustments to the actions I take ( as opposed to my instincts) ... It does change how I view what other people do in context. A red pill context is a more accurate framework to explain how people act. What this means is that when viewed from a red perspective more of the time the actions of people make more sense than from a " blue pilled" perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:10 AM
2

That's fine. But in that world what's your success worth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:00 AM
3

I don't know. I'd rather compete in a competitive environment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:18 AM
1

Its too bad. I enjoy good company after sex. Most women just aren't. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:31 PM
4

My point is that ime most women don't have a personality/ things that are valuable much beyond their looks. Just like most men aren't " leaders " or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:24 PM
4

Sure. Some people get attention from looks and forget to be interesting. In my experience a lot of " pretty" women are in this category
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:55 PM
6

You understand that you have to show that you're more than your looks right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:06 AM
2

Is this amateur hour ? Good God. So you expect dogs to talk and birds to walk on 4 legs too ?
/r/askMRP17/12/21 11:11 PM
1

Those are an experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:36 AM
1

I'm expensive for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:20 AM
1

So you're saying you can't afford it. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:19 PM
1

Lmao. It's my job to teach you tho. But I charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:24 PM
3

Funniest thing ever is telling a woman she needs to do something different herself. They get soo upset
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:29 PM
1

You didn't know ? It's always men's fault. About anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:28 PM
5

I've seen the ones who said no to me 10 years later. Bullets dodged successfully
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:08 AM
2

It's the big tiddy goth and it's mostly cope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:21 AM
16

No. / End
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:08 PM
4

Alex is dead. Much like my interest in your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:32 PM
0

No. The brain doesn't care about theoretical safety. It's a much older drive. The brain cares about immediate safety/ survival. Which ks physiological
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:26 PM
15

Thanks for providing the exact example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:14 AM
19

This. " If you were a real man you'd put me in my place" " Waaah you hit me with your chest when I hit you with my first and now my wrist hurts "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:55 PM
2

There's a sidebar link ( I hope it's still up ) that basically days the stay plan is the go plan. Look that up. But briefly- if you had other women show active interest in you - how bored do you think your girl would be?
/r/askMRP12/12/21 02:21 AM
1

Dismissive is negative. Not acting thirsty is the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:18 AM
2

But they do make partners women value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:11 PM
3

Umm. Ok. By the same token men want women who aren't slutty and are nice to us. Oh. And in shape and younger than us ( most men - statistically) And they get mad about that ish Soo I guess it's their fault they don't know that their income and degrees matter for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:40 PM
2

" I understand" " I got you "
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:40 PM
3

For men that's a sign of success
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:38 PM
1

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:38 PM
-1

In general men at least do the initial approach
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:37 PM
1

" may actually have a point there " Are you low-key snarky / passive aggressive or is it just how you speak?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:19 PM
2

No man who ran through high numbers wants a virgin. Manwhores don't statistically exist. Men have to work to get laid. Women have to be available. It's literally nothing alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:14 PM
1

They did not. Watch the video. As far as my values - I value how a person treats me above any uncontrollable for them factor. I'd highly encourage anyone to try it. It's something you might think about carefully. Having a minimum set too high for something people don't control is not a great plan. Whether it's a physical feature or intelligence I'd much rather set those at " average" and look for partners who treat me well. Again. I highly recommend it. It literally makes more sense than anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:05 PM
1

Jada sure as shit mistreated her husband. And honestly... If I were to limit my sexual partners to women who can keep up mentally I'd get screwed. Or not screwed at all. Fwiw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:55 PM
2

I'm not calling you stupid. I'm saying that a standard of 2 standard deviations above the mean in terms of IQ is so hard to find I doubt you will. I don't know why you have to use outliers like Leo. I don't know how he dates. But hey. The Kardashians , will smith's wife etc are excellent examples of women rationalizing bullshit. So. Yes. There are shitty examples on both sides. In my every day experience I'd say men date with much more romanticism than women. But hey. You do you. All I know is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:24 PM
4

Lmao. Everyone has their own self image. Do you deny that you have a self image? The idea that you would find someone telling you that you have a self image " patronizing" is telling. And yes. I know many men who think at least as idealistically as you do. Most of them are actually more idealistic. See. You're totally wrong. I'm telling you that more men are more idealistic than women. Therefore you're wrong. Lmao. IQ. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:50 PM
3

Your entire point was a projection of yourself on other women. My experience with seeing other women interact over the span of lifetimes as far as their ages , as girlfriends mother's wives etc is different. " Women in general" act in ways to protect their self image even when their actions directly contradict their self image. Again. Your entire comment was about yourself. You're literally generalizing women to be like what you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:34 PM
5

" in general women do/ think " You -. " No I'm different. Tell I'm not different. I'll prove you wrong. Also I'm different!" Lmao. Yeah. I'm not sure you should be using IQ as a basis for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:25 PM
0

It's Twitter. Wear that like a badge of honor. What confuses me is why it would even remotely bother you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:21 PM
1

Red pill doesn't say don't pay. It says - if anything- be aware that some women will use you for free dinner / drinks. The most common inference is therefore dont do expensive first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:59 PM
0

It may not be my fault. But it's damn sure my responsibility to act. If I don't act then it's my fault
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:37 PM
1

" where's a good world war when you need one'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:47 PM
2

Did pepe not enter veve? Virgin. Unless you're Mormon Apparently they have their own rules
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:37 PM
1

That's not what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:02 PM
1

If we made rules where people have to understand anything about RP to post in this sub it would exist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:34 AM
1

Or the rich potential partners don't view them as good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:30 AM
4

The only sex that counts as sex is consensual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:28 AM
2

Any man that uses a prostitute more than once has not experienced sex with a woman who desired him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:01 AM
1

More like " hey. I like my wife and daughters. They should vote" 50 years later .... WTF ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:14 AM
1

Love. War. Fair is not involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:13 AM
2

What's his number? I need to buy him a beer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:20 PM
2

Injury isn't libido. I'm pretty sure OP meant someone otherwise healthy. Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:07 AM
0

Yea. Forcing anyone to do anything they don't want to do is insecure. They also don't have to be partners
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:36 PM
3

Probably as often as girls talk themselves out if getting called the next morning
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:30 PM
1

It's not insecure at all. Either you treat me as well or better than you have your previous partners or you obviously don't value me to the same extent. If bloops think it's about a specific sex act or entitlement they are honestly tone deaf morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:26 PM
7

In the past I'd buy women flowers. Nice things. Jewelry. Shit I basically bought my now ex wife a house we didn't need. Now that I'm more mature and confident I don't feel comfortable doing those things. It's not that I don't love you honey. It's that I used to do more stuff for other people and I really don't like it then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:21 PM
1

Came way back when I was on mrp. Stayed because it's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:38 PM
-1

So. After he proves he's good enough for sex. And then he ghosts you. ... Whose fault is it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:19 AM
2

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:18 AM
2

yes. yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:51 AM
3

How do you tell the difference before sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:38 AM
1

What is the difference between sincere and lust ? Lust cab be sincere. Love can turn out to be fickle. What do you mean when you use the term " sincere*?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:36 AM
2

And ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:33 AM
4

Too easy. If SHE thinks you are using the friendship as an excuse... That's the problem. Of course if you are doing that on purpose... Well that's just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:57 AM
1

If I believed in giving Reddit money id give you an award
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:58 PM
0

Mental and physical attributes- So if a man works out and is smart and therefore makes money and has a nice life that seems attractive to a woman - nice clothes , skin care , etc - ability to spend resources on cool things he enjoys, experiences etc ... Aside We also know that early childhood nutrition grants people better physical and mental development. What category would you place that under?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:09 PM
2

Just talking to them. Flirting. Looking for her body language as a clue. I'm not here to manipulate anyone. I'm trying to see if someone is fun for me to be around and the reverse is true. Then again I don't go to bars to "pick up women". It's literally one of the worst spots. If I see a girl I want to talk to I go over and say hi. It's situation dependent what happens after that What I won't do is buy a girl a drink as a way if saying hello. That's just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:26 AM
2

You're right. Women do vue sex as a transaction. Damn. And here I thought that was considered bad. How much protection for one pepe touch ? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:46 AM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:44 AM
3

" yes hello ? Yes I do provide dick delivery"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:07 PM
1

This has to do with who is home more so has more available time to do the stuff. . Or at least it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:07 PM
1

Exactly .but the overall point is .. not what was said but how. Outcome independent and decisive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:59 PM
7

How often would you use the line he used with you successfully with a woman on a date? I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:18 PM
2

Not with the women here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:09 PM
2

Um. Ya. He's not like oh I don't know... Literally the godfather of the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:08 PM
0

Oh honey. Y'all aren't traditional. You're on line larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:10 PM
-1

Lmao what ? I'm talking about men women pick. If you keep picking bad partners it's not my job to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:21 AM
1

No no. The problem is it's too damn easy to devalue marriage for those who earn less. And in most cases it's women. Anyways. You did exactly what I expected. Now run that to through your head as if I was the female and my ex was the male. Post it anywhere with genders with the one who didn't work being male. See what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:06 AM
5

Most men who have sex outside of their relationship won't leave that relationship. Most women who have sex outside the relationship are no longer mentally in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:08 AM
1

Show me a traditional woman over 22 and I'll show you a wife or fiancee.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:31 AM
0

Meh. You keep picking wrong. Sorry. We ain't your plan F.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:02 AM
1

When some one uses your work and salary to pay off their cc debt , school debt, doesn't treat you well during your marriage and then uses the fact that they kept delaying actually working all the time as a reason to collect more funds during separation. Yes that's gipped. Now. If you tell me it's all my fault I agree with you. I never would have picked her if I had understood things then as I do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:01 AM
-2

Umm. Yup. Because women are generally not worth investing in given current social norms. At least not before a man is like 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:47 AM
1

Long story. Needs it's own post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:45 AM
-3

Sigh. No. It says the government contract of marriage does this. Women can choose to take advantage or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:33 AM
1

Make sure he doesn't feel gipped by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:19 AM
-6

Nope. Many red pill guys would welcome a relationship. There's a difference between stupid red pill guys and smart red pill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:18 AM
-2

There is a difference between the conclusions many red pillers draw and the actual advice. Christianity says many things. Christians do many other things. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:17 AM
1

Do you realize the problem with this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:04 AM
-5

That's not what red pill says. It does say that marriage has more investment from a man than a woman. Be a better quality partner and you won't even care if your husband is a Rollo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:48 AM
-4

So by definition if a red pill man wanted to have a relationship with you - that would make you a low quality woman. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:45 AM
2

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:19 AM
2

If you have an issue take it up with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:13 AM
3

That's the point. Any strategy on behalf of men will be considered misogynistic. No matter who states it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:59 PM
6

So same advice without any specific strategy. Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:49 PM
1

I - at 5'2" - have learned that those are some of the best ways to a) get over some of the insecurities and b) to turn those slights into dates
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:37 PM
2

This is a totally involuntary process and I suspect not as intense as it is in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:48 PM
1

Is nuclear power an energy source or a weapon of mass destruction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:32 AM
3

It's inherently a shit test. Can you banter or are you boring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:33 AM
1

Absolutely it works. But most men don't understand negging. It's not about being mean. It's about teasing. It's a back and forth. " You're cute for a short guy" " You're pretty smart. Makes me think the blonde washes out"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:33 AM
4

We don't know your standards until we talk to you... And then you decide to talk to us. We go for " everyone "- and purely statistically get rejected by the majority. Again ... Very broadly speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:30 AM
6

Your post indicates you're already with the person and the only issue comes up because of past behavior with other people. By your post you're inherently at least ok with the state of the current situation until you find out about past behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:28 AM
2

Pretty much this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:26 AM
5

Interesting way of framing the question. Here is an alternate one. You are dating a man and suddenly find out that he treated his past partners- heck - even his ons and Fwb benefits in a more romantic / better way than he treats you.... ( Whatever those particulars are as determined by you) How does this make you feel about yourself. How does this make you feel about his feelings or respect or desire for you? What do you now think about your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:25 AM
2

She's described as what the average guy sees as the average behavior of the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:31 PM
28

Woman #1. Even if you made #2 gorgeous she doesn't seem to want to prioritize a relationship nor have the time for one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:57 PM
2

Being attracted to other women and acting on that attraction are vastly different. If you are a good looking woman with a spouse that you want to have attraction to you then by definition he will be physically attracted to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:15 PM
11

Came here to say something like this. Very very kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:52 PM
3

There are some blue pilled men who love the idea of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:32 AM
0

Not at all. At least not the first few dates. If I really like you , I'll probably take you somewhere that I want to go to anyway because I want to share that with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:32 AM
2

Here is the reason- Men with high enough smv to be married to a provider female have so many options it's not funny. Men don't need to fall out of love or respect to sleep with another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:48 PM
2

My initial knee jerk reaction to any failed relationship that you regret is that you chose wrong. Maybe the best you could at the time. But wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:39 AM
5

Because many men do want to have ltrs. Trp is a reaction. There are no players out there in trp land.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:34 AM
1

Again. Trp teaches men to be worth a damn. Money muscles social status and social awareness. I didn't read the rest of your stuff because you seem triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:33 AM
3

The difference between fds and trp is that FDS actually teaches women that their vagina is their only commodity. Trp actively suggests that a guy should have his shit together before even dealing with women. Fds just assumes that all guys want Is the V and it doesn't matter what package it's in. Not personality. Not fitness. Not ability to provide for itself Nothing. .FDS assumes that the value of a woman is solely between her legs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:57 PM
1

I know several women who should intimidate men. And other women. All of humanity really. The same goes for some men I know. Some people are indeed intimidated by others because of their psychological development.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:34 PM
2

Can I ask why it ended ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:32 PM
2

New people. A few years rp was declared the " winner ". Yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:59 PM
17

That kind of shit is what women totally dont get. They say they want to be able to be vulnerable and safe with their partner - but leave the degrading shit they love for the ONS. That's akin to a man giving an engagement ring to some girl years ago but you get a plastic band because " I want you to respect me ". F to the no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:37 AM
4

There are things I won't do with a anyone ever. There are things that I might do with some girls sometimes. If I don't want to do a thing with you that you want - and I've done it with other people- chances are I'm not too sexually attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:34 AM
2

Work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:54 PM
2

Strong female characters - like strong male Characters- like strong X characters- shouldn't be perfect and should play to realistic strengths ( unless you're writing fantasy) Looking at something like game of thrones - there were tons of strong characters. Including dwarves , eunuchs, queens, warriors, young girls and so on. Character development in a way that make sense is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:58 PM
2

That's because you filter experience through emotions rather than thought
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:35 PM
3

Experience and how you feel aren't anything alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:58 PM
1

I'll change the periods to commas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:40 PM
28

" here are some observations. See if they fit your experience and act accordingly"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:33 PM
1

So as a core belief system or whatever it is would you say it gives women effective advice for meeting their goals when it comes to men ? Does it have a core set of anything? Is there an equivalent to the sidebar ? I'm curious because I've looked through it twice ... Laughed and went away
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:08 AM
1

Bold of you to assume I fucked my then wife. Also. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:05 AM
1

Ex wife. That story got told. But not here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:26 PM
1

And the fucked part is that's not even the thing that red pilled me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:55 PM
3

For me it's about intent. If you're waiting just to wait to prove some kind of point then no. I think it should come naturally. If you both want to do it - do it. If someone doesn't- don't waste their time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:59 PM
3

First of all - yup most "rp " guys have trauma. Almost literally by definition. Second- - If the best they want to do is hookers and blow let them live their lives. third - RP influencers aren't marketing to most guys. They are marketing to subsets within subsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:08 PM
2

Most rp guys understand that F+F is charitably Oprah level content
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:04 PM
3

It means your friend is a jackass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:10 AM
1

Are they vegan and cruelty free?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:40 PM
1

That's kind of the thing. I take her trying to pay as a soft reject and act accordingly. At the same time - I don't go on dates with women who don't interest me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:05 PM
1

I think that if you don't want to see the guy again this strongly then frankly get up and go pay your half at the register or whatever. No need to be pretend nice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:22 PM
2

I wouldn't go out on a date with someone I wasn't interested in having sex with. That's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:20 PM
-1

Most women don't have a physical type in common. What they have is an emotional response within themselves that they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:17 PM
3

To be honest basic boundaries are sort of an mrp issue
/r/askMRP18/11/21 03:45 PM
2

Make a plan and kick him out. Hard but simple. If it's a hill you're willing to die on
/r/askMRP18/11/21 03:43 PM
2

Let your husband care then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:48 AM
1

I looked through the recent exchange. You accused me if being snarky. Your prior response- You know that’s not all it is come on man don’t act like a tool about it As for implication of lying and further snark Well i know you’re not stupid but pretending it’s some sort of objective toolbox is silly Look. You are very capable of this low key snark hiding in more tame words. I am too. But I prefer not to. You've been around long enough to know better. The fact that you seem to not - either tells m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:01 PM
1

Don't be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:31 PM
1

Every time I say something I believe to be true you accuse me of either lying or being intentionally obtuse. Or you accuse me of being mad. Attempting to add emotional connotation to my words is a commonly used shaming mechanism I encounter here and in the real world from grade school dunces. I haven't been in grade school for a while Either take me at my word or don't. It's pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:56 PM
1

Projection looks bad on you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:58 AM
1

Keep talking to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:58 AM
1

Ya. Ok. And now we are back to regularly scheduled bullshit. It's been real
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:48 AM
1

It has no ideals. It promotes men to do what they want to do to achieve the results they want. Not all men are nice. Not all men are mean. You want people to judge a thing based on what people do with it. I get it. But it's like anything else. Say a wheel. A wheel can go on military vehicle used for good or ill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:33 AM
1

Praxeology isn't vague. Praxeology is the study of those aspects of human action that can be grasped a priori; in other words, it is concerned with the conceptual analysis and logical implications of preference, choice, means-end schemes, and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:15 AM
1

Keep going. Keep telling me what I think. I already defined it. Do you need me to do it again?.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:08 AM
1

I am entertained
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:53 AM
1

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:47 AM
1

They then can go back to elementary school and maybe learn how to read. Look- there are only two rules in all of RP. The rest is arguments about what goes under those rules. Again. Until people like you - who have been around long enough to know better - stop lying to themselves it's pointless. RP is a praxeology. Datz it. If tomorrow - communicating deeply , sending flowers and writing poetry suddenly got the results that most men want when it comes to women - those would be the most commonly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:35 AM
1

Who is this they ? The church of RP? Holy shit. I must have been excommunicated for my sins. Or something. Mongrel- say it with me -. Pra - xe -o- logy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:27 AM
1

That's all RP is. RP itself. By definition. Not the followers of specific sub sects. Like look. I can read the Bible and draw my own conclusion. Don't need the clergy. Or rather if I want to talk to clergy I can pick one that isn't stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:13 AM
1

Depends who and what you read. Filtering bullshit is important. Like. I filtered all of roosh. All of it. You know basically it's actual incels that make the sub hard to read. But whenever I read " red pill says " I feel Max cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:09 AM
1

It's all about " hey. Here are some things that tend to be true as for many men". That's it. Apply as needed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:02 AM
2

I just thought all men are dogs and where have all the good men gone ? Or was it " men are pigs " Dammit. I'm confused again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:00 AM
1

That's ... Not how genetics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:45 PM
1

My reality is my own. Anyone who tells me " how to be a real man " or anything along those lines is a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:09 AM
1

Yeah as soon as someone tries to tell me what " being a man" is or anything like that I can't take it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:43 AM
4

I'm still awaiting someone to tell me what a true measure of a man is. Oh. Ok. So guys who die in war prior to having kids weren't men ? Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:44 PM
2

Yea. After that I learned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:27 AM
3

I'm not sure what you're saying? It's better to be the one being cheated with. Not on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:29 AM
3

No absolutely not. I don't cheat on people in with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:24 AM
5

Shit happens. You move on and learn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:23 AM
14

Fds can all loose 100 lbs each before I care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:22 AM
11

Oh. I've since been on the other end as well. It's a much better view
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:34 PM
8

It's the tickle in the back of my brain that I ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:40 PM
20

Exactly. And they will find a way to blame it on the guy for not being " enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:28 PM
3

Inshallah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:42 PM
3

I always wanted to ask. What part of Islam are women right about? I just really wanted to know what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:40 PM
1

That too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:38 PM
26

Pretty much. It's part of the reason I have trouble with " volunteering".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:30 PM
67

I drove my ex gf to what I later realized were covers for dates with another guy. I mean. It's not classic simp since I didn't realize it. But pretty bad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:39 PM
0

Well. Downgrade yourself to prince of Slut Country then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:16 PM
1

Burning... Where ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:14 PM
1

How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:13 PM
2

There is a reason I asked the question. I don't really have numbers In mind but I know many men do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:09 PM
1

Well. How would you " do the math"? And why will it get removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:08 PM
1

Reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:00 PM
2

Ooohhh. Write another one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:00 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:00 PM
4

Welcome to the human race. Where people just wait for their turn to talk. At best
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:56 PM
5

A few years ago there were some posts that basically stated RP " won" the debates in general because most of the complaints were " we don't like how you said it " rather than " it's wrong". Yet here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:48 PM
1

How can we change your view if it's purely subjective without data ? Here " No no. They are more common just look at XYZ" You - " no. They are just louder ". C'mon man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:45 PM
2

You're not supposed to give her shit from a hurt pov or to hurt her feelings you jackass. You're supposed to be so much higher than her mentally that ' giving her shit" comes off as teasing. Not " I'm trying to put you down". You jabba the hut looking MF" " yea. I am definitely the lord of a criminal empire. And I need a snack. C'mere " Not " well you're a tubby yourself, tubby "
/r/askMRP13/11/21 06:43 PM
1

It's not a question to ask. It's a question whose answer can be found by observing the woman. Look. When this question was asked on shows and so on the bottom line is that many many women either answer too generally to be a useful answer or they wound up saying different versions of " sex/ p#$$y". I've had other " answers " that I've seen in life that were much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:25 PM
2

Women are often more attracted to the character played. Additionally the camera work makes actors look better than irl I think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:40 AM
5

If I have to spell out how you literally wrote something then deny writing it... Dm me. I'll send you to an English comprehension class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:18 PM
0

Well. I came to say this. Hope she messaged you
/r/askMRP12/11/21 11:10 PM
10

" quite frankly what's the difference..." Heaven and earth bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:33 PM
17

Respect doesn't equate to desire. That shit is limbic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:16 PM
1

Chivalry was a code of conduct for noblemen in war. And to take the warriors and make them more civil when not at war.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:16 PM
1

Do you generally want to make your partner happy? Do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:51 AM
11

Trp basically tells men without any dark triad traits to sometimes show enough DT not to fall for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:55 AM
2

I have neither the uggs nor the patience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:24 PM
1

.... I just can't. That's no longer an Oreo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:20 PM
1

... how ... How is it ? I'm simultaneously a little excited and a little scared
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:16 PM
1

Cider donut Oreos ? My brain is confused
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:09 PM
1

https://www.worldatlas.com/amp/articles/child-marriage-rationale-historical-views-and-consequences.html
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:13 PM
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Actually among European nobility - as far as I know - it was quite common to have an older guy marry a younger woman. Anyway. My point - which you and someone else seems to ignore - isn't that it should or shouldn't be done. I literally said I didn't agree with marrying at that age. It's that - it DID happen - for a large majority of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:01 PM
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Of course it is. If you're not picky about what you actually want anything will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:58 PM
2

Didn't say it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:54 PM
2

What are you talking about? Men are shamed into dating fat women with other men's children. They re shamed into marrying ( read sign contract with government) when logically they get nothing out of the marriage contract itself. Told that women are wonderful etc etc. Listen I'm sorry your relationship didn't work out how you wanted. Seriously. But both men and women have preferences. That's fine. Women prefer " 6 6 6 " Men prefer "hotter younger tighter " It is what it is. Try to be a good person…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:54 PM
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You can loose weight. Or. At least I did. Having a higher than average n count for a woman is usually correlated with other impulse control issues. In the present the X number of men may be going for whoever they want. But the reality is a HVM is literally a luxury item that doesn't have to settle nearly at all. Meanwhile the women are the primary initial consumers as far as picking guys off the shelf so to speak. And they routinely seem to pick guys who have no reason to settle down ( as oppose…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:16 PM
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Women will always have more sexual options compared to men. If you want to compare sexual options for men - you have the compare different categories of men. For instance 20 yo guy in college vs 40 yo man who is an accomplished professional. If all else stays the same ( relative looks / being fit and so on ) I'd say the 40 yo guy probably has a higher chance with a 40 yo " milf" and her 20 yo daughter. That's just by my observations
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:10 PM
1

Again. Controllable factors. I didn't say anything about " the only standards " I said controllable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:02 PM
1

Again. Controllable factors. I didn't say anything about " the only standards " I said controllable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:02 PM
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No. What women so is say " where are all the good men " and so on. Very rarely do women actually look at themselves realistically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:40 PM
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CAPULET I can only repeat what I’ve said before. My daughter is still very young. She’s not even fourteen years old. Let’s wait two more summers before we start thinking she’s ready to get married. PARIS Younger than she are happy mothers made. PARIS Girls younger than she often marry and become happy mothers. He wanted to marry of his daughter at 15. While I don't endorse it- humanity has been doing it for 90+ percent of our history
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:26 PM
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Well. Since I'm not talking about me per se let's put it this way. Fat - poor impulse control and poor work ethic ( blah blah medical issues bla bla. Medical issues aren't statistically significant here ) High N count in a woman - also. Poor choices if she was / is looking to be in a relationship. Either way - what distinguishes these two factors is that they are controllable. Women's standards often aren't controllable or outright statistical silly. As for me. The one thing I've learned is when…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:11 PM
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Non sequitur much ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:13 PM
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Because dating "fat high n count women" isn't about being picky. It's about having partners who give a shit about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:17 PM
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Aww. A shaming attempt. Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:11 PM
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Last 3 in order Used me for a nice life and gaslighting me all over the place. I was apparently the dick appointment for about a year. I was the dick appointment and confidant but apparently " too different from her circle" to actually date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:29 AM
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That's my problem with most anti RP posts here. They basically strawnan from some idiots post rather than read the sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:21 AM
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They are all different. Because they are people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:15 AM
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That's my point. People read about what other people say about a given thing and allow other people to make their opinions for them I'm glad you took some time to read on your own and make your own opinion b
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:08 AM
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Wait wait. First you hate it and all that jt represents etc. And THEN you read it. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:49 AM
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My folks were 13 years apart. It happens. First wife was 8 years younger. You get down voted because they don't like hearing about real life examples. We know it's not a majority of women. But they exist enough to try for it in the right circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:14 AM
2

If you can pull it off more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:27 PM
2

I understand what you're saying but for most men providing is inherently important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:53 PM
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Neither do the college or professional school loans
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:43 PM
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More so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:23 AM
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No. It's not intentional per se. Women are generally risk averse and don't want to hurt people's feelings. Which leads to giving unhelpful and possibly hurtful advice. Also they don't really have a point of reference for dating from a male pov. So their advice is often not applicable. Example. When I was fat and wanted advice from women I knew - not one said " look dude. You're fat. Girls don't want to sleep with a fat guy usually" While it seems silly not to understand - in the context of alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:11 AM
1

Omg. You're making sense. People are people! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:08 AM
7

Got Oreos ? They are sorta my jam.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:06 AM
1

I'm just here looking at the comments that assume that most women who would will be called gold diggers. Then again some of them will be. And some will just want to feel secure in a relationship. You know how when we grew up we heard " women care more about your personality than looks "? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:05 AM
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" you don't Have to do well financially" While true... It helps to do well financially to be able to live a life without worrying about what you have to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:39 PM
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Then change the post because right now it sounds like a troll post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:44 PM
2

That's confusing to most people. ... In the US I am considered white. Grew up in Brooklyn NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:37 PM
4

I'm a man and I have never thought this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:32 PM
3

It's absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:31 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:55 PM
1

Mostly. But it goes to the " no true Scotsman" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:42 PM
1

The internet amplifies idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:41 PM
1

Those guys - if they said exactly this and you're not extrapolating - have never been in a relationship. My response in that post did not use the word " sex" on purpose. I said " sexual attention" As a person with a chronic painful medical issue I can tell you that there is a world of difference and that lack of sexual attention kills relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:28 PM
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It's not just these communities. Most communities online have the loudest portion of idiots as compared to the overall community. In the case of TRP/ FDS - Trauma that they haven't dealt with yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:20 PM
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Every single wall of text post is a shit show. Try cutting out words that you don't need to make your point
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 06:18 PM
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I don't know much about what they say in there. Having said that - I watch what people do. So while it's not a " no" - it's mostly depending on the individual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:15 PM
1

As important? That's all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:13 PM
1

considering Considering what ? How common Common enough that there are entire subs dedicated to dead bedrooms. IMO sex is the initial basis and the glue that holds romantic partnerships together... Marriage or otherwise. If , as a couple, you aren't having sex in adequate volume for BOTH partners - the one who is not getting their needs met often feels ... Trapped ? Unloved. All that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:54 PM
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And yet without actual consequences it's so so common. Honestly I think that divorce law should make cheating behavior grounds for loss of any financial claims. For both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:03 PM
1

Whatever. You were sick. It's normal. You didn't have a history of faking being unwell to get out of sex. That shit is so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:51 PM
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people don't know what words mean. Did you have another man's child while telling your husband it's his ? No ? He ain't a cuck. As for " just so they can mistreat people". ? Project elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:11 AM
1

Cool. Are you in Omaha?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:17 AM
1

Or certain African American neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:36 AM
1

Come to Philly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:53 AM
1

There are whole demographics that have nothing to do with this that speak like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:25 AM
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Lmao. Fuck no. Listen. At least half of every group of people are on the low side of average in intelligence by definition right ? Unfortunately- stupidly people tend to be the loudest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:02 PM
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It can be used that way by those who don't understand. Like.... There are no ploy's. It's just observations. If you tell a girl you really really really think she is like totally the most attractive woman you've ever seen ... Youre going to get shut down. Or the whole " negging " thing is really misunderstood a lot. It's just flirting and teasing. You're not supposed to insult the girl. " your outfit is not suited for your body type. Vs. " Hey. I really like how you put that green sweater and or…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:46 PM
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Interesting. You know I know many men who have no idea what rp is that would agree with similar statements. " Man. Relax. Another one will come along and then you'll remember that one from from 2021 like " oh yeah. Her " "
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:41 PM
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Because we aren't a fucking monolith. RP is " hey this is how the world of straight male female dynamics is " and then the individuals respond in different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:28 PM
1

Interesting. What specifically do you look for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:26 PM
1

If someone is word for word repeating things they are stupid or young and inexperienced
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:44 PM
1

It's both
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:42 PM
1

That wasn't meant as an example of using the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:29 PM
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Context matters. Besides. By the time you'd hear me say anything about male / female dynamics you'd have an idea of who I was. Whether you would tag me as RP or not. Doesn't matter. Your either like me as a person or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:15 PM
1

That's a little bit like me saying if she wants me to pay for dinner she must be a gold digger. But ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:48 PM
1

No. It brings you dog back and your first and second wife back. And apparently fixes your truck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:47 PM
1

Female isn't a buzz word. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:41 PM
0

I'd say this. Your husband is probably closer to a red pill man than 90% of red pilled men online. Think about that. And if someone said " you know. Fds is misunderstood by those women who got hurt. It's really more xyz. Give them a little but of time and they will figure it out" I'd listen. Anyway. I'm one of the guys who is recognized by the some of the bigger sphere names. I'm red pill. I love women and respect people who earned respect. Youd never know me or you met me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:39 PM
1

Right. Like the most I'd ever say is something like I'm familiar with some of the stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:33 PM
1

Just play a country song backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:30 AM
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That's because "you people" project so much. Red pillers are mostly kind romantic guys trying to cope with what we see in the world. Y'all made us. People are used to hearing " men are pigs". And accepting it. They aren't used to hearing " women are whores" or much negative about the female gender. Get over it. I guarantee every red pill man would be a better husband and father than 90% of the guys who tell you what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:25 AM
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Most of them are failures. This has been pretty much proven. Failures need to call other people failures to feel righteous. Also KS is a grifter. He's not wrong. But his grift is strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:01 AM
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You wouldn't know an actual red pill man if you met him. That's almost by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:52 AM
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You my friend have too much patience for these people here. They want to believe what they want to believe. You can tell them that you love women and love your wife and daughter and they will say you're a lair and manipulative. You really can't have a forthright conversation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:51 AM
2

You're so wrong I don't know where to begin. The less I have to " pay" in a way I'm aware of the better the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:35 PM
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What issue ? You're not married to a woman who loves Ms respects you. And as for threatening to tell family ? Let her go for it. " He only married me for sex" " Sex ? Newlyweds have sex ?" What will happen is that whatever the friends and family say - what they will think is " chump" of you and " idiot " of her.
/r/askMRP07/11/21 12:35 PM
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If you are going to use red pill terms try knowing them. Men cheating does not mean branch swinging. Starting a new relationship that you go to is branch swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:59 AM
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" getting a woman" isn't difficult. Getting a non obese decent human being is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:33 AM
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In relationships I have found that very little can stop the sexual attention of a partner that loves you and is attracted to you. Obviously outside of illness or injury lack of sexual attention from either partner is not acceptable. . In my experience I don't seek it elsewhere. I'm not a woman. I don't need to set up a " branch swing".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:31 AM
4

Which one are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:05 AM
1

I've never asked. They've always told me at some point. Usually after asking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:05 AM
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Honesty is kindness. Comforting lies are cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:23 AM
1

Marriage is for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:43 AM
1

I'm not convinced there are any women here at all tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:02 PM
2

Because it is often ( and in the op) presented as something men want rather than women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:25 PM
2

Yeah. Wether you're into it or not.. it takes a lot of trust for me to consider it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:52 PM
2

I'm not asking you to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:33 PM
1

There are no consequences if you know what you're doing. You create the illusion of danger. Not actual danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:20 AM
2

I don't love the " 69" but I'll do it since it's not hurting me in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:03 AM
1

Why ? I like making my partner happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:44 AM
3

That's not what therapy is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:17 AM
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Therapy. Get it. To all the idiots- the above statement isn't a put down
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:11 AM
5

Sounds like a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:08 AM
5

Wait he wanted to be on top? This is sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:05 AM
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I'm a short guy. So most of the time the women are taller. But really I can either enjoy what I'm doing or what's being done. I'm not enjoying both at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:04 AM
8

It's literally the most awkward thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:02 AM
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It's funny. Every one of those " only creepy dangerous ( insert negative word here ) " thing I've done was literally requested by the woman. .things im hesitant to do again- 69 It's just awkward for me. I like to focus on what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:58 AM
0

Did you have a seizure and not read ? I'm not telling you to sleep with anyone lmao. You're so self centered you can't even theoretically take yourself out of a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:27 PM
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If you want one then act like it. You shouldn't wait once you know. And if you don't know- don't expect him to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:20 PM
2

She has all the initial options yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:14 PM
2

It's all about you. Individually. Great gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:14 PM
2

I'm not telling you to fuck every guy you meet. I'm telling you to understand that in th current market he has no way of knowing whether you will ever get ready ( for him ) and he does have other options come up. Use your own judgement. And understand that in order for him to be invested ( assuming you're not the only girl who has ever looked his way ) - he is going to need physical evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:04 PM
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The issue is also that you're thinking of this with your woman brain. Guys who are made to wait for sexual connection often feel deep down that you did not really want them even once you're " ready'. It's a balancing act. If a woman wants a relationship she absolutely should not make a guy wait too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:37 PM
1

No one. Absolutely no one , slut shames like a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:26 AM
1

How about a middle aged woman who suddenly wants a relationship after having been in a series of str or fwb situation? Should we take her seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:37 PM
1

When was this ever disencentivized
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:48 PM
0

Or the female led divorce rates. Most are no fault divorce. Most filed by females. Because " she felt like it " legally speaking. So. Yea. Start with with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:47 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:57 AM
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