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I think some of those do fit my description so I’ll try
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 05:17 PM
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Yeah, this is just quite unhelpful.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 02:45 PM
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I personally think it’s unhelpful to just say “Get over it”. You probably wouldn’t be saying something like this if a woman had body image issues or was dealing with thoughts of suicide
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 02:38 PM
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The problem is that people don’t want to be friends with me because I’m neurodivergent
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 01:48 PM
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They’re very militant on moderation unfortunately. Even though I’m improving myself, because I still have questions, they just straight up banned me and removed my comments
/r/ExRedPill21/10/24 11:56 PM
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Thank you, this is great help.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 12:09 PM
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Not even your family? Your parents? Not even, otherwise I wouldn't be posting here. My therapist is currently on a break as well. I'm often ignored in social situations. I was talking with this group of people a few days ago, and as soon as they spotted something more interesting, they just straight up left me. I feel like I have no value as a human being and it feels so isolating.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 05:21 PM
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So what if people would laugh at you? Some would, probably, but those people aren't in your shoes. Personally, I've struggled with serious mental illness, and I know how goddamn hard it can be to just... exist. I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm proud of you for getting out of bed in the morning. Thank you, I'm just really going through something at the moment. I feel unheard and invisible. People always like to assume that men aren't ignored in conversations and social settings. I spoke to …
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 04:36 PM
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Personally, I feel best when I've done things that benefit others in some way, but you can define "good" however you like. Then, when you've identified some things that make you feel good about yourself, see if you can do more of them. I'll try to do this and I saw people suggesting simple things like getting out of bed in the morning but it feels lame. Like, people would laugh at me for celebrating these things. And as for the relationship thing: it just feels like as people grow older, people …
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 04:10 PM
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Being LGBTQ+ doesn’t prevent someone from being an asshole, especially men
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 01:24 PM
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I have been going to therapy, you're just making bad faith assumptions about me. Therapy isn't always the end all be all solution.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/24 09:48 PM
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You are mocking me, you’re calling me sociopathic and narcissistic for posting this even though I know it’s wrong and I want to improve myself. I posted here looking for advice, not to brag about how my mindset is correct
/r/ExRedPill31/05/24 12:42 PM
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I’ll be honest with you, it’s not very easy for me to do something like that because I have a pretty limited perspective: my own perspective. I feel like from my perspective, I’m not having my needs fulfilled but others are, so it’s hard for me to be able to tackle cognitive distortions
/r/ExRedPill31/05/24 12:41 PM
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I’m really sorry that happened to you and I’m glad that you’re doing better now.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 11:49 PM
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You have a point and I do understand now that social media doesn’t give the full picture (as multiple people have said). It was just a sort of knee jerk reaction that I’ve been trying to justify to myself even though it’s wrong. People have been telling me to get off social media which is probably a good idea to be honest.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 11:29 PM
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I mean, you probably haven’t been in these sort of depressing situations, you’re already living happily. Obviously it would be hard for you to sympathize with people like me who have depression, social anxiety, no emotional support, etc
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 11:01 PM
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Yeah, the big thing is that “you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink” applies so much to life improvement. We can talk about disproving these red pill ideas that posters may hold, but if they FEEL like these ideas hold more weight than what normally happens, there’s nothing much we can do. I remember seeing someone say this and I thought it was apt: You can’t reason someone out of an idea that they didn’t reason themselves into
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 10:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/whenwomenrefuse/ I think you should take a look at this subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:52 PM
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Yeah, I don’t know if OP actually wants to improve or not if they won’t respond to the multiple good posts that people have made
/r/ExRedPill17/04/24 01:43 PM
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He's interested in spreading his red pill ideology here since he agrees with their views.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 02:35 AM
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When I used to talk to women (I'm in a LTR now) it was mostly in bars (which isn't the only venue for flirting, but it's a good one). I'd generally talk to anybody who wanted to talk. At points I'd talk to women near my own age. If I thought they were cute I'd try to smile and make extra eye contact (not too much, just a bit extra). If they seemed to return that, I'd compliment them. Not on they're looks directly, but on their clothes or make-up or some such. I'd just keep talking to them and en…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:46 AM
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Ah okay, now I read it fully, and OP just seems so full of himself tbh. Says he's "incredibly intelligent" and yet he can't fathom what difficulties women may encounter in dating?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:33 AM
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What does that mean “destined for great things”? It just seems very ableist for someone who’s neurodivergent like me
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:20 AM
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I feel like the thing is that I have to just solely talk to others about themselves and hope that they’re considerate to me to talk to me about myself in return, in order to make friends or find a significant other. It hurts when your efforts aren’t reciprocated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:41 PM
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Saying that there’s 7 billion people on the planet is a gross simplification. It’s like saying “Don’t feel sad over not having significant other because there’s still lots of people. You’ll find one” because you’re never going to meet most of those people. Admittedly, I did cherry pick though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:25 PM
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I’m trying to, I’m on the waitlist for a therapist. But do you understand how hard it is to have to learn social skills that people my age are already fluent in? I’m lacking in fundamental social skills because of my genetics and upbringing. Do you understand having to be the person to make the move because no one’s going to approach you directly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:21 PM
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No, Ted Bundy just used his charm, good looks, and good social skills to lure people in. And people trusted him because he looked good Boston marathon bomber literally had women who were defending him saying he couldn't have done it that he was too attractive. I remember reddit was only talking about who he was and accusing random people but when he was found out some women formed facebook groups on his attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:16 PM
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But they CONTINUED to be in relationships and/or be desirable. Admirers were at Bundy's courtroom, Penn continued to be in relationships after abusing Madonna, Weinstein married someone after the sexual assault allegations, Brown has been in numerous relationships since abusing Rihanna
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:14 PM
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Okay fair enough, you have good points
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:13 PM
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What makes it predatory? There were no unethical predatory practices being applied when these guys CONTINUED to get relationships/be desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:12 PM
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I do have social anxiety, so it definitely does affect my social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:10 PM
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Too much money, I can’t afford it being a student. Plus, I can’t grow taller
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:18 PM
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Yes, but no consequences for the other people I listed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:48 PM
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No it's not, it's a mental disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:38 PM
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The kinds of people who value looks etc over anything are already establishing themselves as shallow and therefore do not care about values. I think that every place has shallow people tbh. But doesn't EVERYONE value looks? I keep seeing people in this thread saying that physical attraction matters. No one would put personality and morals over looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:37 PM
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Honestly, being nice to people close to you says nothing about how good you are as a person in my opinion. How kind you are to other people who can't do anything for you, or who are not close to you defines that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:35 PM
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I don't have foaming vitriol, but I'm tired of being lied to. I'm tired of the disadvantages that I have due to my genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:31 PM
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Whether you do or don't have ASD, have you tried playing D&D and writing a character who is high in confidence and socially skilled? How does this help? Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:25 PM
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Just because good and bad are abstract concepts doesn't mean that we can't be labeled by them. Abstract concepts are the pillars of our society, that's what separates us from other animals. Because we can even think of these concepts and apply them to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:21 PM
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What doesn't make morals sexy? Why would I not want to be with someone that shares my values for having empathy for people? People who are honest and kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:21 PM
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You are probably the exception then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:18 PM
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I don't disagree, but that's still my point. Morals don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:18 PM
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Boston marathon bomber literally had women who were defending him saying he couldn't have done it that he was too attractive. I remember reddit was only talking about who he was and accusing random people but when he was found out some women formed facebook groups on his attractiveness. That is absolutely crazy, halo effect and pretty privilege are very much real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:12 PM
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You have a point. I've been narrow-minded. It just feels so unfair that because of my genetics, I'm already disadvantaged when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:55 AM
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But they CONTINUED to be in relationships and/or be desirable. Admirers were at Bundy's courtroom, Penn continued to be in relationships after abusing Madonna, Weinstein married someone after the sexual assault allegations, Brown has been in numerous relationships since abusing Rihanna
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:13 AM
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The 2nd point, in relation to attraction. I say that men don’t care about empathy either tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:10 AM
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Okay that definitely is a fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:54 AM
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But in the bigger picture, why would one even ask this question about male morals and female attraction, and not the other way around? I'm talking generally about morals and attraction. You don't earn a woman anymore. You choose one and if you are lucky, she chooses you back. But when you don't even get the chance to be chosen because you weren't born lucky, that's an unfortunate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:47 AM
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Having empathy isn't important to people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:46 AM
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What part about being appealing to look at or sexually alluring has to do with moral compass? I'm saying that attractiveness means what I said conventionally, not what you said. And why wouldn't moral compass make someone attracted? My point is that people keep saying that you should work on yourself and be a good person, but that's not the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:40 AM
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Believe me, I'm trying to be. I don't like the idea of being amoral either, I have a lot of empathy and I'm an emotional and sensitive person. I know people don't care about it, I know people don't even like that in a person. I just have to not care about it not being tired to attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:32 AM
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Literally all it means is to allure, to bring attention to, to bring towards something. Attractive: (of a person) appealing to look at; sexually alluring. I feel as though moral compass doesn't matter to people, therefore by adhering to it, it doesn't help me in terms of people being attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:59 AM
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Morals that I've learned. For example, stealing from a convenience store is wrong. I saw a guy do it, and still have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:56 AM
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And there is no attraction to morality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:54 AM
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I'm branding the correct people as assholes and bad guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:51 AM
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So what is then? I'm genuinely curious myself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:49 AM
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I don't think morals are that important tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:32 AM
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Yes, I don't think any of these people were socially awkward. Ted Bundy had to navigate social situations well to isolate and kill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:32 AM
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It's just very discouraging to see assholes get women just because they look good and they're good in social situations. I wasn't born like that, I was born short, ugly, and socially awkward. Makes me feel like empathy doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:31 AM
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So then what makes you a bad person then, if you doing bad things doesn't qualify?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:26 AM
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To be fair, I doubt any of these men went right to the abuse, rape, and murder. They didn't, but AFTER they did, they were still desirable and/or got into relationships. Morals are in fact a big part of keeping a relationship and that relationship remaining happy (which is always oddly left out). And you have to meet a general bare minimum to get one from the majority of humans. I think love is, not necessarily morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:15 AM
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No? Case in point: the people I mentioned above. Good social skills has nothing to do with morality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:13 AM
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a devoted and revered pastor can be a violent child rapist. Then he's fucking evil lmfao, if he's "devoted to his faith" and yet raping children. A violent drug dealer can b a loving and attentive dad I believe the mark of a good person is treating most people with decency. Not just the people you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:12 AM
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Or if you just look sexy and have good social skills, then you can be a complete dickhead. (I'm not a dickhead, but I'm just saying)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:10 AM
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The point I'm trying to make is that if you aren't physically attractive, if you're a bit socially awkward, then your personality and morals don't matter. People will not be attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:55 AM
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None of those people introduced themselves as horrible. They were very good at hiding it. But they CONTINUED to be in relationships and/or be desirable. Admirers were at Bundy's courtroom, Penn continued to be in relationships after abusing Madonna, Weinstein married someone after the sexual assault allegations, Brown has been in numerous relationships since abusing Rihanna
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:45 AM
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How? The general consensus is that morals do matter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:41 AM
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Exactly, it's so privileged to get on a soapbox and say that looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:42 PM
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I was born undesirable, people are selfish, vain and superficial. I can’t do anything about genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:33 PM
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Which is funny, because people are driven by their emotions in general
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:46 AM
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Yeah, the problem is that anyone can become fat while being short is immutable and only affects a small part of the population so there will be less people sympathetic to height problems
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:15 PM
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