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Andromeda1985/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:09 AM
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It tends to clash with the whole "team work" idea. If you are constantly giving support and following up on your coworkers, and you get paid the same (same roles), then it'll frustrate you and make the team dysfunctional. The same goes for the opposite scenario. Again, there could be cultural difference here. I've never seen dysfunction get worse or start because of follow ups. Follow ups help hold people accountable. perhaps you're not doing it right. the trick is to use a combination of comfor…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:58 PM
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Unless you are someone's boss in any way, shape or form, following up on someone isn't your reponsibility. I disagree with this. but it's possible we work in different industries and/or countries with different expectations. Then again, I'm usually hired into organizations that are dysfunctional and this is the first thing we correct. If I gave one one of my direct reports a task to train someone, and they didn't do it, I'd rip them a new one. If they gave me the excuses you gave us here, i'd fi…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 06:17 PM
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wtf? I wasn't her boss you pussy shield moron, learn to read and fuck you lol i never said you were. where did I say you were her boss? I don't think I'm the one with the reading comprehension problem. Yeah, too bad I told my boss how she called him a misogynistic dumb fuck. Guess she didn't saw that one coming. And now I got my raise. Watch and learn honey ;) I'm always willing to learn. But I don't see anything here that's actually a lesson. you used information you didn't give us. so as far a…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 04:35 PM
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You've left out a lot. it makes it harder to provide advice. I can tell you this: if this is exactly how things happened I would fire you if I were your boss. Everything from your attitude to your behavior makes me want to fire you. Your only basis for not helping a co-worker out (her gender at this point is not relevant. neither is her need to gossip or her laziness) is that they weren't in your good graces. As your boss, why would I care if someone is in your good graces? how is that relevant …
/r/askTRP18/08/17 03:24 PM
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I need to see one transformation for someone like me to help me get motivated and achieve my goals. A lot of these pictures are marketing scams. most people store fat in their stomachs, thats why there are so many pictures. when people think of unwanted fat, they think of belly fat, not ass fat. Showing you pictures of fat asses going to skinny asses plays into that. they aren't interested in helping you lose weight, they are interested in helping you lose your money (to them). Motivation is an …
/r/askTRP16/08/17 08:11 PM
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I feel like I’m speaking to robots, and I’m pretty sure that most of them didn't even had the same problem as I am. Ok. but did you actually try bulking and cutting? Describe your current bulk and cutting routine. what's your calorie limit for cutting? what's your work out routine? They keep telling you to bulk and cut because it's the only way to fix this. you're not talking to robots, you're talking to experience and science. It doesn't matter where your body stores fat, because you fix it the…
/r/askTRP16/08/17 04:46 PM
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Posture is part of it, but it's more about breath control. It should be no surprise that a lot of BP guys are going to have this problem, so you're in the right spot, a lot of us have dealt with this. 1) use your diaphragm more. when first starting, many vocal coaches will tell you to use your core muscles (push your gut out when you breath in, engage your core when speaking/singing). You can probably you tube some videos and get the basics. practice breathing slowly and deeply at all times. The…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:59 PM
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The primary difference I was trying to highlight is that how you want to behave may not give you the results you want. This is a common problem with BP guys. They want to be BP guys. they are comfortable with it. "the way they want things to be" is they want to continue to be BP but also get lots of girls. but it doesn't work like that. What you really want is to be successful with girls, in order to do that you should understand that personality is malleable. your behavior should reflect what y…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 03:45 PM
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How should I act in this case? How do the people the are attracted to act? act like your better version of that. A good majority of my work and social circles are East Asian, so I rarely befriend non-Asians. I'm getting whiffs of nice-guy mentality here. I bet you get friendzoned a lot too? This also makes me think that by 'brown' you mean 'Indian' I feel that looks and social skills may not matter if a good majority of East Asian women look down on dark skin men beforehand. so instead of trying…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:37 PM
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I think the simplest explaination of frame is, for every single action whether it be conversation wise or others, you are keeping it tight with the way you want things to be. This is pretty close, but it leaves out something critically important. 'the way you want things to be.' can be misinterpreted too easily. IE: the want here needs to be focused on results. those results are generally respect and desire. you want people to respect you, and you want women to desire you. Based on your own pers…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 04:53 PM
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Mental illness, like all chornic illness, must be managed. when managed correctly you can live a pretty normal life. Unfortunately, due to the nature of the illness itself and human nature, most are not willing to put for the effort to be in a healthy mental state. Hell, over half the newbies posting here are suffering from depression. unmanaged it really fucks with your ability to get things done. In general, I have no sympathy for people who don't put forth the effort to make themselves health…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 04:13 PM
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You have to remember one of the core aspects is self improvement. IE: you should always be increasing your SMV. so what you should be doing now, is preparing. Yes, you live with your parents right now. and yes, they are a bad influence. One of the things you learn, we all learn, is that all of our parents fucked up. some worse than others, but part of the path to adulthood is fixing all the fuckups your parents made. most people spend their time in victim mode thinking it's not their fault they …
/r/askTRP21/07/17 01:04 PM
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I've always thought the logic behind this is interesting. Mostly because I find it fascinating when people start thinking about something, but then don't finish the thought. what is your 'true' self? because what you're describing is just who you are right now. IE: this 'true' self you're thinking of is just who you were in highschool. it's the idea you have of your past and current self. 10 years from now, red pill or not, you will be fundamentally a different person. what will the past you thi…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:20 PM
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Young or old is irrelevant. You're making the same mistake 95% of the other blokes that come here make. Your situation is not unique. you're not that special of a snowflake. you need to do ALL of this stuff just like everyone else. There is no short cut, and the starting place isn't different just because you're younger. TRP is like any other paradigm. not everything you read or learn is going to apply to you 100% of the time. This is expected. Much of the corporate stuff will apply to your scho…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:37 PM
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This is much simpler than you probably realize. We often use indirect indicators of how 'fit' someone is. Think about someone who hides problems. are those problems getting solved? How do you generally feel about someone who never/rarely solves their own problems and lets a bad situation fester? how many people do you know want to be in a relationship with that person? Essentially, not hiding problems shows accountability. it says that 'It doesn't matter what you throw at me, I will behave clear…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:18 PM
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What Im saying, could it be a quincidence she is out with her cousin 2 times in a row I ask her out lol Yes. I don't know how well you know her, but from experience my cousin is one of my best friends. They may work together, go to school together, live together, etc. Either way, it doesn't matter. you're too deep in the details, and these details just dont' matter. But I'm really courious what you mean about 'It goes deeper than that'. Is there much to it? It seems to me I'm missing something h…
/r/askTRP14/07/17 07:14 PM
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I didn't want to complicate to the point of me explaining how texts went but it seems necessary so let me do that. It's really not. You know what you did. I don't need a transcript. It's already clear you made a mistake. i'm just trying to point you in the right direction to figure out why. but since you gave me a little info i'll go ahead and dissect it. I didn't know at the time, but this was at the time a flake, pretty sure you don't know that. but it's not really relevant. she could have sim…
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:02 PM
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I lack masculinity in a physical sense. Gain muscle I have crazy babyface (31 but look 22), can't grow facail hair, have barely any body hair. I'm asian. i feel your pain. However, you being 'adorable' has more to do with your body language and diction than your baby face. Trust me, i know from experience. stop blaming things you can't change. focus on what you can: your body language and diction. Girls pay more attention to this anyway It's become a DETTERENT for a lot of women. That's not the …
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:27 PM
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I'm trying to piece together the situation still. You set a date. but were busy. you set a new date. she saw you attempt to set a date, but then she never confirms. her seeing the text isn't the same as her agreeing to see you. IMO, she didn't flake. you pushed her away. you texted her multiple times about the same date. IE: 'yesterday' she said it was ok but 'today' she says it isn't. why weren't plans solidified yesterday? what other bullshit did you subject her to that you forgot to set a tim…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 06:26 PM
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when a comment like the friends one throws me off, I shit the bed. comments like that one will likely throw a lot of guys off, especially the more beta ones. There's this concept that friends can't fuck. you clearly also buy into this. but you haven't asked the fundamental question of: Why not? and most beta guys would respond with 'she wont' let me' it's not about her letting you. This is the wrong approach. Sex is fun. it feels good. it's exciting. if she doesn't want to fuck you it means she …
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:06 PM
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Honestly it sounds like you should next her and sit down and think about what went wrong. The most obvious thing to me is your frame. TRP talks a lot about frame and frame control. I think a lot of guys struggle with what frame actually is because it requires a degree of self awareness that a lot of guys just dont' have. I won't attempt to define it, because if i do and you misinterpret it you wont' be better off. instead I'll try to reinforce the point of it and you can understand it from the c…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:53 PM
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We all generally have a race we prefer. I'm Asian myself and tend to date Asian and white girls most frequently. The Asian girls I meet tend to prefer white dudes and the white girls I meet tend to prefer white dudes or have 0 preference and are all over the map. Now, where this gets interesting for me, is that I meet a lot of black girls that like Asian dudes. This could be because I'm Asian myself but 3 out of 5 times, if I get hit on by a girl, it's a black girl. The rest of the time it's Asi…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:56 PM
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I'll let you know as soon as I figure out how to monetize it ;)
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:03 PM
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Any advice on where to read up on leadership. There's not really one place. Since you're here, I'd start with the sidebar. There's tons of good stuff there to get you started and set a good foundation. Frame control is a bigger part of leadership than I ever gave it credit for. Once I started seriously digging into it and applying it my leadership ability just naturally blossomed. The two most important topic to study is personal accountability and self awareness. This is something that most peo…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:03 PM
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If you want any more book recommendations, or you want to peek at RP-related academic papers, feel free to reply or shoot a PM. Not OP, but I'd like to see your book recommendations and a peek at some RP related studies :)
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:29 PM
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I would not say it includes participating in studies. Having run similar studies, a lot of time the participants don't get an explanation of what they've been subjected to. plus the psychology you should be most interested in should be around decision trees(manipulating yourself), relationships, attraction, first impressions, etc. I suspect almost everyone here practices some form of manipulation. I mean, that's really what frame control is. It's base foundation centers around manipulating yours…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:27 PM
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Roleplaying? Costumes/Lingerie? exhibitionism/public sex? You say you've tried toys, what about furniture? swings, slings, etc. Dominance isn't the same as being rough. have you explored denial/edging play? collar/rule sets?
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:17 PM
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I think the normality of this depends on a lot of things. mostly on her personality. just like beta dudes tend to avoid eye-contact shy girls will do the same thing. Without being there and seeing her body language for myself I can't confirm/deny how into she is, if she is at all. But at the same time: even if she's into you she's not going to spend EVERY MOMENT of a social interaction gazing into your eyes or talking to you. Talk about clingy and desperate. This is not the first time I see this…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 06:49 PM
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I go out with my buddies who are all over 6' tall. i never understood how or why dudes would go out in groups to hit on girls. It's honestly one of the things I watch for. girl sees a group of dude's and one, or multiple, attempt to hit on her. She rejects them, because they are in a group and obviously there to hit on girls. They set a nice low baseline/bar to compare against. All I have to do is be better than you twat's and I'm in the clear. But every girl I talk to it all just crashes and bu…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 04:26 PM
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There was a very detailed study about this. source? I don't doubt it's true but I'd like to read the paper.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:39 PM
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Eye fucking. How you cross your legs when you're sitting. how you move in if you're greeting with a hug. How often you cross your arms. There's a lot of examples. Your best bet is to just observe people. airports are great because there is lots of hugging and reunions. If you hang out near baggage claim, that's where a lot of people reunite. after a while you start to notice the difference between 'hey buddy! i missed you!' hugs and 'I'm going to fuck you so hard later' hugs.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:02 PM
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Libido naturally comes in waves. The frequency and intensity of those waves varies from person to person and, of course, age/hormone levels affect this as well. It's perfectly normal and healthy to not want sex all the damn time. I wouldn't assume there is something wrong with you immediately. (Although you should cut back on porn, as it's most likely a waste of your time and a contributing factor) Getting your hormone levels checked isn't a bad idea, but more than likely it's going to be within…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:10 PM
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You know your height doesn't matter. If you spent any time reading anything here you'd know that. you're blaming your height because it's easy. you can't change it, so your hamster is working overtime to protect your ego. 'It's my height. I can't change my height. I'm a victim of circumstances beyond my control. If only i was taller girls would love me. I don't have to change anything else because i'm already pre-filtered by my height.' This is bullshit. You and I both know it. So the real probl…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:50 PM
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Do. Not. Date/Fuck/Game. at. work. I've worked at about 10 different companies across 3 different industries. EVERY company I have worked for, including a startup, has a story where some idiot fucked a girl at work and then something happened to ruin his life. Plate of mine got fired recently. She lawyered up because her boss (married) was an idiot and hit on her, she rejected him and he ghosted her for 6 months before firing her. He's getting the shit sued out of him and I get a free vacation. …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:58 PM
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How do I behave during the actual date in order to get the f-close? The same way you would on any other date. Any tips on body language/teases/ways to retain frame? Take advantage of her height. I have a similar situation although we're both a little taller (173 vs 181). Her ass is pretty much right above my belly button (she's all legs. yes it's nice.) makes kino fun/easy/more interesting. If you have some anxiety about your height, try to spend most of the date sitting down. it's hard to tell …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:47 PM
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I know logical conversations turn pussies into the Sahara Desert, but a brief convo telling her why her actions are disrespectful might seem worth it, no? This is actually a logical fallacy. this assumes she respects your values equally or more than her own. she doesn't. Which means either you have to change your values or she does. She's likely not going to change her values, I'm sure you're amazing. but in my experience no-one of sound mind and body is going to change how they view, understand…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:51 PM
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She is an extremely emotional person, so even small disagreements or conversations can have big impacts on her sometimes. So it's her problem, you can't solve it for her. Don't even try, it's impossible. I try not to allow my LTR to realize my hatred for this behavior because it comes off reeking as beta bitch behavior, but how do I make it known to her that I do not tolerate her shutting her phone off and ghosting randomly like that? It's not beta bitch behavior IMO. people shutting down is fuc…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 12:51 PM
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I wouldn't lie. I also wouldn't do their jobs for them. Where is your manager in all of this? just as it isn't your job to do their work, it's not your job to tell them to do their goddamn job themselves. This is something that is appropriate to escalate. talk to your boss about it. if he decides to be a pushover and tell you to help anyway, tell him you view this as a promotion. you're now managing people and expect to be compensated for the extra responsibility. If they refuse: quit. abundance…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 12:35 PM
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No-one here is going to know what your dreams mean. There is no real science behind dreaming. We don't know why we dream and anyone who claims to have a reason is just giving you a theory. If you want to fuck one of these other girls, go do it. If you dont' want to, then don't. It's not weird to have dreams. you're over thinking it. you're better off figuring out why the dream bothers you than trying to figure out why you're having the dream.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 12:17 PM
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There are a number of things you can do and you have a lot of options but it also largely depends on the political environment. I'd start with an escalation chain. I'm assuming you have a boss and she has a boss. start with your boss. Talk with your IT guy and form a plan (so he doesn't also get fired for installing monitoring software) to talk to both your boss and his boss. If you haven't, start tracking the time you spend helping her. If it's as bad as you say, you're likely spending a pretty…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 11:58 AM
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The idea was to go for a more playful approach rather than give a direct neutral answer because I don't want to be too calm/laid-back, apparently. There are better ways to be playful. probably better to say that you can be both playful and show class/intelligence. (to elaborate further on the 'goofy' comment) In my case I would have said 'Yes, but I have rule that if I drive you have to wear a skirt' There are only a few ways she can respond to this. she can agree, she can disagree (shit test), …
/r/askTRP02/06/17 07:25 PM
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initiates small talk. This is the problem. skip this part next time. There's a reason you only want to discuss logistics when texting. You should take some time to figure out exactly why. It's likely not THE reason you lost this date, but it was a contributing factor. Without a full text history and meeting the girl we can only speculate. the only thing you could have possibly done wrong is the small talk, everything else seems acceptable. The small talk probably contained shit tests. The point …
/r/askTRP31/05/17 11:51 AM
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the texting was kept to a minimum The day comes and I text to confirm our meeting. Not a word. which resulted in a hysterical laugh emoji. As far as I can tell, you talked to this girl. got her number. texted her 'a bit' the day you got her number. the next day you confirmed a date, but she flaked/bailed. So, obviously, the problem is in the earlier conversation. whatever 'minimum' was; obviously wasn't minimum enough. you chased her away. After you got her number there should have been 2 texts …
/r/askTRP30/05/17 05:15 PM
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porn isn't a realistic depiction of sex. Very few people can pound a girl with the intensity and duration that an average pornstar can. you shouldn't expect to pound her like this, and she shouldn't expect it either. I expect this is likely part of your anxiety. I know more than a few guys that had size anxiety without realizing they are actually well above average. in general the only other dicks we see are in porn, so it can create a false sense of what average sized really is. As you're near …
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:47 PM
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I want to lose weight just by calorie counting (Calories out > calories in) but I don't know if that's a decent method of going about it. It's the only method. There's a lot of information and data available about diets, fads, etc. it doesn't matter: at the end of the day, your body is a machine. energy in, energy out. if you consume fewer calories than you need each day, your body will get those calories somewhere else, starting with fat stores. You can safely ignore any fad diets, talk of macr…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 06:08 PM
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How do you manage to meal prep? I ignore it. I count calories only and try to make protein my main source of calories. I don't have time/interest to do more meal prep than this. No, it's not optimal. Yes, i would see better gains if i 'took it seriously'. I generally believe in the philosophy you can get 80% of the return for 20% of the work. I also understand this is an exaggeration. I put more of my time into the actual working out than the meal prep. My end-goal is to look good. I have little…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:32 PM
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I first want to congratulate you on abstaining from porn. It's extremely difficult in our society today and is so accessible. Have you read the sidebar? a lot of guys here would lie, cheat, murder, and steal to be in your position. you have an excellent foundation to build off of. The only thing that's really clear to me, is you're carrying some shame around with you. No idea why, but if you feel like enjoying attention from other people makes you a junkie there's something going on. This seems …
/r/askTRP23/05/17 12:50 PM
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The biggest part for me, was understanding how I understand how people are perceived. The second part was understanding that how I understand this is different than everyone else. With this, I asked the question: despite this fact, how do some people universally come off as charismatic/funny/sociable? How do I emulate/learn/train to this standard? For me, it was an understanding that charismatic people have fun. they are almost always enjoying themselves. From my perspective, this is what makes …
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:53 PM
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Well, there's not much you can do about it now. It's up to you if you want to come clean. If it bothered me as much as it bothers you i'd probably come clean. then when she inevitably freaks out and storms off I'd just soft next. In the future, obfuscating is better than lying. she doesn't need to know about your past. it doesn't matter. if she asks, say something to the effect of 'they don't matter.' or 'they helped make me who I am, that's all you need to know.' A girl never needs to know how …
/r/askTRP16/05/17 11:27 AM
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I'm reading Antifragile right now and enjoying it. Great! I'm glad you're enjoying it :) What do you mean by Lean schools? Are you referring to the six sigma stuff? Yes. although I'm not a fan of Six Sigma. Toyota's production system is the 'source' material as far as I can tell. TPS > SS but knowing both is best. TPS can get me through almost any situation in what I do. SS has it's place, but it's just not as versatile imo. granted, this has nothing to do with TRP and is likely too far off topi…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 01:19 AM
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I think it's a great introduction to some concepts, but it should absolutely be supplemented with other learning and reading. It's the tip of the iceberg. that being said, i don't like the book. but it wasn't introduced to me as introductory material. There wasn't anything in the book that isn't taught/implied in Lean schools of thought. the main thing i didn't like about the book is it didn't spend much time talking about how to achieve antifragility. It spends a lot of time talking about how t…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 06:40 PM
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the only thing he can do is practice. It's his hiccup, he has to fix it. The best thing you can do, is start him off small. just like with working out, you do what you can and slowly build up to where you want to be. Start with eye-contact. go to crowded areas and just practice doing that. grocery stores, street fairs, gas stations, anywhere you will see people. practice eye-contact. After that, small talk. lines in grocery stores or gas stations are great for this. chat up the clerk. chat up th…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:26 PM
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a mission is different than a goal. it might help if you think of it at a different scale. look up the mission statement of the FBI, or some other organization you resonate with. Your mission is to help you set a priority for when you need to make decisions. IE: if your mission is self improvement then your decisions should always be centered around 'which of these things improves me the most.' if you realize that none of the decisions align with that goal, then you are better off spending time …
/r/askTRP12/05/17 04:42 PM
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I'd start by reading the field toolkit in the sidebar. After you've read that I would read the post on setting a sexual frame, also in the sidebar. Men who are psychologically & physically healthy, do you get aroused seeing a women in nice fitting clothes that shows off her frame or do you mentally stimulate yourself with the thought of fucking her? For me it's more the later. One of the things the literature will teach you is to 'ignore her beauty.' so pure visual stimulation may not be enough …
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:23 PM
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But I express who I am by not faking smiles. The smile isn't an expression of who you are, it's a way of communicating. Why is a smile 'fake' just because the emotion behind it isn't genuine? Are you saying you've never gone to work if you didn't feel like it? is your hard work less genuine on off days? No, of course not. the true emotion you feel behind an expression isn't important or relevant. The point behind expression is to portray a message to someone else or to accomplish a goal. sometim…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:11 PM
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Although this seems bitter for a first sentence in a response, even if you sludged around, being scrawny seals the deal. Being built like a scarecrow (sorry) is incredibly attractive for women. Being a 5'9" dwarf with overbroad shoulders isn't, no matter the posture. You completely missed the message. the point is, if you feel you're sufficiently attractive you've missed something. probably your posture. I am well aware that being scrawny isn't exactly a bad thing. the point is a simple thing ga…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:46 PM
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Losing weight and changing my wardrobe for the better, apart from boosting my confidence for a tiny bit, seems to not having changed how I'm perceived by women. Although going out one to four times a week since January, I still cant count the looks I got on my right hand. Knowing nothing, I assume this is posture. doesn't matter how fit, attractive, or how well you dress. if you dont' hold yourself well then you'll look like a putz. I'm kind of a scrawny guy. simply fixing my posture made a mass…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:52 PM
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What are your career ambitions? which one brings you closer to your goal? If you have no career ambitions, why not? We can't make this decision for you, and anyone giving an answer without context is, in my opinion, at best a troll and at worst an idiot. The fact the decision is difficult for you tells me you have some work to do. As a man you should be decisive. you should be able to weigh the pros and cons against your goals and decide which one is most likely to get you to where you want to b…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 05:59 PM
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I've noticed a trend in a lot of newbies, especially when dealing with other men. 1) We don't pick fights we can't win. If someone is picking a fight with you or picking on you, it is because you appear weak. There is no other explanation. people just aren't dumb enough to pick fights they can't win, so if this is happening to you on a regular basis the problem is you, not everyone else. 2) 'busting balls' can also be called banter. unless you are 10,000% certain that their intent is malicious, …
/r/askTRP09/05/17 05:45 PM
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Because you're young, I would send a note to the companies you've interviewed with and ask if they are willing to provide feedback. IE: What do they think you should focus on to become a strong candidate in the future. I'd also ask this question to your professors: What makes the strongest entry level candidate? I don't know much about the finance sector. but my experience with job interviews has not been as bad as yours. The most I've done without an offer was 3 interviews, right after my first…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 02:56 PM
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It doesn't matter. It will matter to some girls, but not all of them. IE: abundance mentality. I'm not white (Asian), and I'm not tall (5'9"). My main plate is a white girl that's 6' and a belly dancer. you being tall works more in your favor than being non-white works against you. girls don't care about appearance as much as they care about status, and most girls who are adverse to non-whites are this way because they've never dated a non-white. once you show them how much better it is on the d…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:53 PM
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There is some bias in this question. I disagree that they are more traditional. In my experience they aren't as traditional as other women from Asia. IE: Filipino/Vietnamese Women outrank Indians in my book in terms of tradition. Filipino women also tend to be more submissive than Indians and are more in line with traditional gender roles. I'd say my experience with Chinese women puts them above Indians as well. although i've been with more Indians than Chinese. you also have to consider the vec…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 04:46 PM
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In general i've found fat girls give the best head. I once mentioned this to one while she was blowing me ('Damn, thick girls give the best head'). her only response: That's because your cock is delicious.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:59 PM
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I think this depends on context. emotionally, I have never been very healthy. and i think a lot of men/boys are in a similar boat. everyone's specific situation is different, but for the most part we don't do a good job of teaching young men/boys about their emotions, how to deal with them, and how to express them in healthy and masculine ways. As i've gotten older, I've come to terms with my own faults. especially when it comes to vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and the fact that nothing…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:24 PM
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How you date depends a bit on a few factors. your location, personality, funds are probably the big 3. I'm in my early 30s, making good money, so I have a lot of options for dates. My general go-to's are Theater shows and cocktails/foodie locations. but this is because it fits well with my personality. I'm primarily an intelectual, and this can be enhanced by a good casual suit. theater shows are a great way for me to show my dominance. I also love to cook, and can talk around food pairings and …
/r/askTRP05/05/17 05:11 PM
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I think you've misinterpreted some/all of what's in the side bar. It's not we're supposed to be the romantics. it's that in general, men are more romantic than women. The top romantic movies, books, etc. are written by men. not women. This is a general 'problem' with TRP literature. it's easy to misinterpret and it's written in a way that doesn't appeal to BP dudes. I can't count the number of times I've read something and thought 'wow, that was awesome information. but good god is that written …
/r/askTRP03/05/17 07:50 PM
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There are a lot of caveats here, the primary one being: What do you want to become? I'm going to be making a lot of assumptions in this post. The first one is that you've recognized there's something "wrong" (but not really) and you could have handled the situation better. As opposed to you're just here looking for validation. I personally feel like you were in the wrong here. Not because your brother was right or because you violated a principle of TRP, frame, etc. but because there was an oppo…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 09:42 PM
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If you want to remain playful i'd say something to the effect of 'i'll plan my arson with someone else.' and then text her again in a week or two. Otherwise i would just say 'ok.' and then text her again in a week or two or just skip the ok. Either way i would 'soft next'
/r/askTRP01/05/17 08:22 PM
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Take a few lessons from trump/politicians. It's not necessarily about saying fewer words. you can talk a lot without really saying anything.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:28 PM
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I've been thinking a bit about this topic myself and have talked to a few people about it. One of the core concepts in TRP is about frame control. specifically the other person should be in your frame. in terms of switching, what this means is your frame should be in control, and you've separated frame from dominance. within BDSM this is possible, as a good Dom doesn't push a sub too far. they decide when and what is done, but how far this goes is determined by the sub. A male sub can probably m…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:02 PM
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I get that you're trying to maintain your frame most likely, but you come off as incredibly angry in the process. Heh, now for the fun part. This is faulty logic because you never threatened my frame, there is nothing for me to maintain. I laid a trap and you fell right into it. I was hoping you'd use another tactic other than deflection, but you've been deflecting from the onset, so it's not that surprising. as it's obvious that's all you can do it's time for the big reveal. In my first post I …
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:06 PM
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how did you go from 'read the side bar' to 'this guy must be angry I said I'm masculine.' That's a pretty big stretch. Oh, wait. You're insecure. Silly me.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:06 AM
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Are you suggesting that with inner strength I will be PHYSICALLY imposing? I did more than suggest it. read and learn. everything you need is in the sidebar. You're height isn't a problem. You're not even THAT short. you are the problem. While that is true, it is not what I am looking for. What are you looking for then? because it sounds like you're looking for a shortcut. you want a magic bullet because you don't want to actually work. Sorry son, you're going to have to do the work, just like e…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:20 PM
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For a supposedly smart guy you're a goddamn idiot. so here we go: the primary things I talk about with women are philosophy, psychology, and travel. If a girl can't engage me on these topics I immediately next. These topics do not dry panties like the kalahari. you do. building sexual tension and using kino while also engaging her intellect is infinite SMV. I don't wanna one-up them, or show them that i actually know more and they're just being silly talking about these topics. Look up amused ma…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 12:59 PM
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There are so many people here with height complexes. half the posts here seem to be guys looking for validation of their insecurities. Height seems to be chief among them. Anyway... I'm asian, 5'10" with shoes on. I spent last night on my couch with a girl who is 6'0". One of my best friends is Vietnamese and about 5'6" he's been with a girl who's 6'1" (and one of the most attractive and intelligent white girls I've ever met) for as long as I can remember. You may be insecure about your height, …
/r/askTRP19/04/17 12:43 PM
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1) meditate and work on being present at all times. being Quiet isn't a problem. not being present is. (IE: zoning out) figure out why you don't feel the need to pay attention in social situations. 2) There is a post floating around somewhere about one of the tricks to being more social. Essentially: let people in on your inner monologue. (If anyone knows of the post, please link it) If you have no inner monologue you have some work to do. Meditate more and find your inner passion and values. ge…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:38 PM
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I stand by all of my statements. You weren't dressed appropriately. Your work out clothes should not be the same as your street clothes. Dressing formally is not the same as dressing with class. You don't need to become an expert fashionista. You do need to understand how to look your best.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:00 PM
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I hadn't been to the barber for 3 months and had a total Bieber 15s haircut along with sports Nike pants and generally very athletic wear. I looked like a young athlete probably. if you're 30 and your hair is 'a total Bieber 15s' (Which I honestly have no idea what the fuck that is, but seeing 'Bieber' is enough) you have some work to do and it's not growing a beard. so it's a good time to go back to the barber and ask him to make you look like an adult. copy haircuts of people older than you. n…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 10:43 PM
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If I had to guess, it's probably more your wardrobe, speech patterns, haircut, and posture more than your face. your face helps, but If you think she's judging you solely on your face you're mistaken. She's judging you on everything she can see. a 30 year old saying "What Do" is kind of a give away. the way you've written up this most makes me think you're a manlet. Post a picture and we can probably give you more concrete advice. but I'm willing to bet 75% of the problem is your behavior more t…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 09:57 PM
2

I have no idea what will work for you, and there is so little context here its going to be hard to give you anything but a vague half-answer. Still, I'll give it a shot. 1) You don't have an abundance mentality. You're actively reducing your options when you drop plates. This is a choice. Understand this first and foremost. If you've read the side bar, you've probably seen 'pay attention to what she does, not what she says.' the same applies here. What you're saying and what you're doing aren't …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:27 PM
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You're always alone. when you're in a relationship you just have someone to share it with. this is the ultimate trap because it's so easy to get validation externally. it's easier to say 'oh, this person understands me, so i don't have to understand myself' happiness comes from within. it's knowing you have options, you aren't trapped, and you have purpose because you've given yourself purpose. it doesn't come from your relationships. You're never truly alone because you always have your relatio…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:52 PM
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What do you think you should do?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:58 PM
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This reminds me of a joke I saw somewhere on reddit. A girl meets a guy, and he's amazing. He's suave and sexy. Well spoken, etc. etc. she loves being around him because everything feels natural. At the end of the date he invites her back to his place, and she's feeling good about how things are going. She makes it up to his room, and it's covered wall-to-wall with shelves of stuffed animals. 'This is weird.' she thinks. but whatever, she's having a great time. people have their passions/hobbies…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:51 PM
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Wanted to thank you for your tips again. Was out last night and managed to nail a 6. Cute Indian prosecutor. Practicing Charm and how I escalate is a big part of it. It was great advice and I wanted to share with you how I did. I changed my body language and posture last night. Well, I exaggerated it I should say. I did this to the point where I felt a bit like a fool, and stayed in that spot. Seems like that should be my new default. During the first round of drinks she was doing nothing buy pr…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:15 PM
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Sounds like the Mt. Everest of shit tests. Bring it the fuck on.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 12:14 PM
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Are you trying to f-close on first encounter or do you give it 2-3 dates if she puts up resistance. Depends on the resistance. but both. Girl 2 was on date 4 when i realized it was a lost cause and started asking questions. The hot ones put up more ASD and more shit tests, and it sounds like your frame breaks. Yes. This is my current line of thinking as well. First off, keep practicing game on the hot ones. Will do. I started out with the uglies and fatties mostly, as Id get oneitis for the hot …
/r/askTRP08/04/17 08:50 PM
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you will simply not be able to succeed with more attractive girls until you get it up in some way Yes. Exactly. That's what I'm here for. I thought I made that pretty clear. It sounds like the HB6's and above just have access to higher SMV men than you. Agreed. That's why I'm doing something about it. This might not be a simple matter of frame strength. Weather it is or isn't doesn't matter. My frame is weak. That needs to be fixed first. A weak frame holds me back from a lot more than just gett…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 04:29 PM
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In simple terms: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2lxtxz/frame_defining_yourself_as_a_sexual_being_sexual/ This is what I'm working on. right now, I am not accurately expressing my sexuality to higher caliber girls. Yes, my approach is the same. essentially my Frame is not exuding that I want sex, so when I touch her it's confusing because the 'purpose' behind the touch isn't coming through. For the sake of explanation, let's quantify Frame. Let's say that my frame right now is at a …
/r/askTRP08/04/17 03:11 PM
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Tips? Read the sidebar and lift. I'm similar to you, Asian. 5'10" 145lbs and an intellectual. my look is more classic/classy than hipster. remember that the point of this isn't to change who you are. it's to become the man you want to be. read the side bar here. read the side bar on trp. read the side bar on mrp as well. you've tasted the pill but haven't swallowed it yet. To be blunt: your frame is weak. fix it.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:12 PM
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Some basic advice: 1) understand the difference between thrusting faster and harder. this will give you a lot more variety. you can fuck a girl hard without fucking her fast and vice versa. learn to fuck slow and hard, fast and gentle. There's nothing quite like pounding a girl, getting her close and stopping abruptly. see the absolute desire in her eyes while you wait for her to ask 'why'd you stop!?' and then just grin, maybe widen your eyes a bit as you say 'Beg.' or 'I didn't give you permis…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:48 AM
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Thanks. I feel like 'practice more' is an imperfect solution. don't get me wrong, i have no reason to stop practicing, but it wont' ultimately get me to my goals. figuring this out isn't just about exciting women. it will improve my social status and career as well. I'm already damn good, among top 25%. I want to be in the top 5 and an industry leader. bridging this gap is essential for more than chasing poon. It also sounds like the way you initiate kino may come across as not genuine and you t…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:18 AM
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quit this crazy self-doubting I think you've completely misunderstood what I've written. doubt implies fear, anxiety, etc. I dont' have this, and that's the problem.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:09 AM
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I am an engineer by training and primary skill sets. I make no attempts to hide that. you are not pulling the girls you want to into your frame. Some folks will tell you the right SMV will pull any girl, but I don't think that is the case. I actually think it is the case. the problem is my SMV is reduced significantly because my frame isn't strong yet. There is a glaring weakness that needs to be corrected. I figured there were a few guys in similar positions. I lead for a living, and have devel…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:06 AM
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truly not give a fuck. Right now the only thing I give a fuck about is improving my frame. I think you've misunderstood what I've written. It is almost like an uncanny valley where you appear to be alpha, yet your are not fully (eg. being extroverted/social enough to impose your frame into social situations), but you are not beta either. It ends up confusing girls and end up in this 'no-mans' land. Yes, exactly. now how the fuck do we fix it? ;) Not sure I have a solution for this, but being in …
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:46 AM
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I deserve better than 4s and 5s. They are fun, but I can and should do better. If i was content to settle I'd go back to swallowing the BP and probably chase girl 2. she was at least hot.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:00 AM
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It's not an active process. If it was an active process it wouldn't be an epiphany that this is my problem. As i said, I have been meditating for years. why does mediation help with frame? it gives you mental fortitude to not buckle under your own anxiety. This allows the other half of your emotional spectrum to shine through. it allows your humor, playfulness, etc. to become more vibrant because there's no longer fear to hold it back. my frame isn't buckling because of anxiety. its buckling bec…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:57 AM
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If you can identify and mirror emotions, maybe you can just amplify them a little. This is what gets me the date to begin with. the girl feels comfortable enough to get drinks. remember that this is a problem of frame. how I am allowing the world to see me. if part of that frame is a mirror, it's not really me and i'm not really in control of it.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:48 AM
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