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We have some of the same accusations against us/FDS too so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:22 PM
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I first heard a whisper of this a year ago listening to a video of a dude from Norway interviewing a woman who had escaped with her family. I'm not sure how to help other than raising awareness right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:15 PM
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Teal swan just put out a video about how there needs to be both love and conscious transactions in relationships. If there's no love, people are using each other. If there are one sided transactions but there is love, one person being used and will be resentful. If there's love but no transactions at all, neither one will get their needs met. https://youtu.be/RRWKNtbmg00
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:09 PM
22

Exactly. And they often know exactly what they're doing to you and you confirming and "communicating" it to them just gives them something else to get off on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:00 PM
24

That was my life too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:23 PM
89

Hobosexual?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:39 PM
22

Theyll contact you later and ask why you didnt chase them too. It's hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:46 PM
51

I feel this in my soul. I learned this difficult lesson from the last one I dated. "He pulling away when he's struggling with something, just means he's also going to pull away when YOU are struggling with something."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:44 PM
70

This needs to go into the archives as a warning lesson to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:38 AM
4

I've been making my own stuff for a few years now and that sensation of being able to use an actual useful pocket is chef's kiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:23 PM
4

His other videos are awesome too. He gets it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:21 PM
141

You're home washing the stains out of his underwear and he will be out on the streets cheating on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:45 PM
35

Bleed on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:23 PM
8

We do it's called r/FDSSuperFans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:25 AM
76

Because when you date a LVM as a pickme, every other woman is a threat to your relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:44 PM
46

Bombard him with dick pics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:49 AM
28

Nope. You cant make a husband out of a ho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:28 AM
11

I've always known they were LV but I've changed how I've interacted with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:52 PM
1

I dont miss fb at all. It's a complete cesspit of nonsense. Once I deleted it tho, people got WEIRD on me, so be ready for that. Dont be afraid to say "fb is complete waste of time". I have instagram but the reels annoy me and make me want to delete, but I have some of my favorite relatives on there and I like seeing the pics. I only keep real life friends and family there. I've never used snapchat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:29 PM
102

I've been told that I'm a completely different person now and people dont like it. But I like me more now, and that's what's important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:18 PM
139

"The egg doesnt chase the sperm" "If he wanted to he would" "A man worth crying over wont make you cry"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:37 AM
47

Never met one that wasnt related or already married. Occasionally I'll run into a man who gives off HVM vibes. Its something about their eyes that makes them look more alert, but not in a predatory or sleazy way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:22 AM
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To them, if you're not doing something that benefits them directly, you're doing something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:19 PM
126

"If something is free, you are the product"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:15 PM
77

Of all the things I'm insecure about, it's never been my body no matter what weight I was, and I've never experienced a scrote cut me down over my physical form. I have however, experienced extreme abuse to the point where I developed ptsd from scrote number 3 in my life. Number 4 came along, I told him all about it, and he dragged me thru hell for a few years reminding me of what I went thru daily. Lesson learned. Sometimes the best thing you can do is take it all to the grave. (After you've sp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:12 PM
19

If a HVM had a terrible ex, he would bring it up months or maybe years later and completely matter-of-factly and only once or twice, and usually only when you ask directly. It's a HV trait all around to heal your trauma as best as you can before dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:27 AM
21

Scrotes wont accept that we are NOT judges or therapists, but if we do that as our profession, we only do that with our CLIENTS, not the general public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:24 PM
81

Excellent vetting technique.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:22 PM
109

If he pressures you for sex before the 3 month mark, he's not into you, he's into using your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:25 AM
117

Save this one for the history books. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:44 AM
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Theyll go on about the "friend zone" but ignore the fact that they put every female friend in the "f*** zone".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:44 PM
8

So I was a sahm before I filed for divorce, and and at the first hearing I was court ordered to report 25 job searches (where I applied and who I spoke with and phone numbers) every week to my ex husband. The judge speaks down to me at every hearing saying stuff like "nothing you have to say is worth hearing" and I know that's because I can only make 1/4 of what my ex makes in a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:47 PM
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Just know that in the states you'll be treated as a deadbeat if you were a sahm mom and get divorced. But a man who requires you to have someone else raise your child is a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:10 PM
82

Best response. We both need to see other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:23 AM
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Men have been babytrapping us since the dawn of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:17 AM
90

I saw this post and just about tossed my phone. This was me back in my early pick me days. My ex even had me return the court ordered child support TO him. I worked and he didnt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:13 AM
83

I wish my sister in laws did this for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:09 AM
111

Bowling or arcade maybe as the 2nd or 3rd date. Excercise is bad idea. Dont forget that its very important to limit your time with your date early on to prevent false intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:37 AM
4

"Hoping to get picked? Visit us at FDS and learn how." Lure them in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:34 PM
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I read once that about 60% of men leave their wives when their wives get sick/get cancer. I've seen it happen. I'll be making sure to set myself up well so that I'm supported if that ever happens to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:14 AM
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I'm super thankful to have been able to EBF when I was with my NVM ex. It wasnt like he was going to prepare bottles of formula and take over Feeds, and there was no way I was going to give myself more work prepping bottles. Nor was he going to allow the extra cost of formula. Not only is there feeding to do, there is burping, changing, and cleaning up the explosions, which men should do. I see a lot of women burdening themselves with expressing milk just so Other people can feed the baby for fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:20 PM
73

The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:07 PM
99

Fap needs to be on this list 10x.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:18 AM
234

His racism is showing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:36 AM
294

Number 1...not married. Excuse him wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:13 AM
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❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:03 PM
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I avoid men in general. I dont have Male friends. Not worth the risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:25 PM
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We should(FDS) come up with a checklist of things you HAVE to do/have IF you get married. 1st being hidden money in two places, 2nd being a trade or a degree to fall back onto, 3rd being your own property somewhere protected by a prenub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:24 PM
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Ever not laugh at a man's joke? It will ruin their week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:15 PM
36

Some men only have a paycheck to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:51 PM
17

New way to say serial cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:22 AM
118

Women are less than animals in their view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:07 PM
86

That was my ex husband. I had $200 to stretch all month for food, diapers, etc. He made 80k per year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:26 AM
33

This is why porn is so popular
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:12 PM
162

I got serial killer vibes when you said he had a whole night planned for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:01 PM
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"I said "How do you KNOW he doesn't have ALL the Problems and is making his WIFE do the secretarial job of contacting you?" I see this sooooo much, women doing the unpaid labor of being their man's secretary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:58 PM
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It's either in Why Men Love Bi*ches or The Rules, but you just dont tell them any details. Maybe before you get married you can tell them general stuff. I was of that mindset too where I felt like I was being dishonest if I didnt reveal my trauma but its really none of their business. HVM who learn about their woman's trauma later on just accept it as part of the woman he loves. A LVM will use the info to gaslight the crap out of you. I've experienced it and that alone got me a ptsd diagnosis fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:54 PM
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I'd recommend a regular marriage counselor for his reason. I wonder if theres some sort of online or book program that does the same thing for couples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:49 PM
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I kept getting regular comments I made removed just for associating with FDS. Haters gonna hate I suppose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:49 AM
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“FDS is very big on establishing your own life, keeping busy and having your own interests, because then it makes it a lot easier to see if a man is adding value to your life,” explains Savannah 1000% yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:06 AM
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On the podcast their guest mentioned "I have a husband, but now I would like a wife."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:54 AM
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Theyll just outsource the childcare to their pick me girlfriends and enabler mothers, just like men with any custody do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:57 PM
7

This especially sounds like a good tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:53 PM
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What is a good way to vet for this early on? Basic HVM vs LVM traits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:00 PM
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So many men complain that they arent complimented enough by women but now I understand why. They have nothing to be complimented on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:15 PM
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I was blackmailed into a relationship and marriage by my own parents at age 20. I was able to escape about 6 years later. Now theyll hint at "the guy we bought our lawn mower from is single and owns his own house maybe you should date him". I absolutely loathe going anywhere with them because my mom will make a huge scene if a man even looks at me. Theyve gotten old enough now where I can basically gaslight them into shutting up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:40 AM
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This needs to go on roast a scrote for the youtube channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:43 PM
20

Does the 2 per day count the men ranting to themselves in our reddit inboxes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:55 PM
7

Let go of your dick once in a while 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:03 AM
129

I "kinkshame" as often as I can. And by that I mean I ask the woman expressing their kink "what unresolved trauma do you have that makes you want to go thru with this". And for men "yeah that sounds like sexual flavored domestic violence. Gtfo"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:53 PM
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Men. Getting. Triggered. Over. Women. Not men going their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:02 AM
4

The fact that he has multiple or high degrees doesnt matter to me, it would be whether or not he was cool about it, how much debt he has, and if his degrees are dangerous to me or indicate hes a psycho/narcissist. (Like doctor, lawyer, etc). I dont care if hes better at stuff than me but if he tries to use it against me, or tries to compete with me, that's an immediate dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:02 AM
12

Being a girl is more expensive and I remember having to spend my allowance on things my parents should have purchased while my younger brother got to keep his. I wasnt allowed to go to a real college, or go to work full time either. But they paid for him to go to the best colleges in our state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:22 PM
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"The devil has enough advocates"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:28 PM
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If he's not ready, that's an automatic goodbye. Dont waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:41 AM
21

Your comment would be an awesome answer to "tell me men hate women without telling me men hate women". LVM/scrotes are delusional AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:52 AM
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Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:40 PM
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I've noticed too that the CF community is very much seeped in misogyny, especially because of the names they come up with for women who do have children. It really is starting to sound like a hate group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:17 PM
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Something I heard once from a right leaning youtuber was "not everyone gets to have a partner, and not everyone gets to reproduce". This was directed at men who were complaining that they couldnt get dates or girlfriends. You'll hear scrotes online complaining about women only wanting "chads". But its biology. We want to be with the fittest, most competent man who has stable resources and a good temperament. Its only via shaming that we get bullied into dating LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:57 PM
5

One tried to strangle me in my sleep and pass it off as if I was falling out of bed and he was "saving me". Plus he would always pull his knees up and drive them into the sides of mine while he was sleeping. I had joint pain for years because of this. And he didnt keep his toenails in check so.... Damn mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:00 AM
133

Well it was either look happy or get beaten back in the day so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:42 AM
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"If ain't no ring on my finger, you ain't goin' on my 'Gram…"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:21 AM
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I have noticed that sometimes it's a lot clearer on dating sites when a man is CF and a LVM because theyll say they want a woman with a good career who makes good money. He doesnt want children because HE is the child in any relationship. HVM arent interested in any woman's money, and are more interested in a woman's happiness than rather she has a "good" career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:00 PM
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Because the normally homeless women live in homes with their pimps and other sex workers. Plus a lot of homeless men are veterans and there are more male veterans than female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:43 AM
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Yes to bring back the bases! But we need more than three nowadays. I think we need a hashtag. And basic hygiene 24/7. I've seen too many relationship sub posts from women complaining about their man being a pig and even giving them infections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:01 PM
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Scrotes always say to their women : "just TELL me what to do!" When it comes to household chores. Their women need to tell them to gtfo and go back to mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:20 AM
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Marriage might be a bigger commitment if you're marrying a complete manchild. I need to add, never get married to the father of your child because you have a child with him. Worst idea ever, and it gives him a lot of control over your life married and divorced. But he needs to marry you before you put your life on the line and have children with him. Your friend is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:18 AM
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The dirty white t shirts. Not muddy or greasy like theyve been working outside, but legit stained with food/sweat etc in pictures. At home, whatever, but pictures?! So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:10 AM
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Single mom to a 7yo boy and his older sister. It was a battle in the beginning because their dad kept trying to alienate them from me. They used to call me by my first name instead of mom. It took a few years but they respect me 100x more than their dad. I responded to their repeated insults with "is that what YOU really think about me?" I've also avoided anyone else who disrespects me in front of them. Clear boundaries and immediate consequences. I talk to both kids, but when I want my son to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:45 AM
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1000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:21 AM
27

"But I dont know how..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:01 PM
5

Dislocate while play wrestling or in an accident, sure, but break....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:13 AM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. Its sex-flavored domestic violence. Women "agree to it" as a fawn response because they're afraid of him doing it to her anyway without her "consent".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:12 AM
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Brilliant book, good moves on your part, and "Like someone in my last post suggested, I DID NOT say I thought it was my ex. I just told them, "Someone rang my doorbell in the middle of the night, I think there might be someone trying to break into apartments, we need a police officer to patrol the complex," etc" This is SO important! The best way to get police to help is to play dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:27 PM
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I never answer the door unless I'm expecting someone, and even then, I look out the window first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:55 PM
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I'm never doing a man's laundry again unless he's sick. Idgaf if I'm married, it doesnt make me his mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:50 AM
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I hope she countersues and he loses everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:40 AM
5

There are ways to get a man to propose that have nothing to do with any talk about marriage or proposal at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:10 PM
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That's super worrisome. Dump all you want. It's part of leveling up. If you can, stall as much as possible or outright refuse if he wants to get passports for the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:43 PM
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Same with my mom, except my now ex was worse than even my dad. One word of caution when you stay with a LVM with your kids; kids learn to disrespect you when they see someone else disrespect you. It could be their dad/stepdad, grandparents, a stranger, etc. So if youre not ready to leave now, level up internally, squirrel away money, pick up a very part time job, improve your education, do your best to instill good values into your children (get them to help clean up), work on your social Connec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:33 PM
5

It's like the chicken or the egg question. Am I asexual, or do men just suck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:39 PM
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We can assume hes making 100k, and she's making 45k. Depending on where they live, 45k should cover living expenses for a year most places. She's running OUT of money. 100% he's keeping all his income from her, even if he pays a few bills, and she's funding the majority of their life together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:15 AM
7

Good book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:34 AM
8

Absolutely spot on. I've also noticed that the moms get super controlling over everyone else because they have no control over their own lives. My ex used to drive 6 hours (to and from) every other weekend to have his mother do his laundry. I wasnt living with him at the time but of course I played that 🤡 role when I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:45 AM
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Usually it's his wife posting about his problems for him. "Ever since I gave birth 1 month ago to triplets my husband has lost his desire for me and he's really depressed and quit his job and plays video games all day. I work full time and sleep 20mins a day. How can I improve myself so he will stay with me/not stray?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:24 AM
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People tend to frown on mothers abandoning their adoptive sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:51 AM
6

That's exactly what I see too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:47 AM
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I did not know that book exists! I've only read Why does he do that. Looking into your recommendation too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:56 AM
1

My mom would say the same stupid thing. I'd get my dad on the phone before I'd tell her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:33 AM
1

Thank you for this! But also, dads have more custody than mom! Abusers who go after more custody win 70% of the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:32 AM
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The Golden Rule of Misogyny: Women aren't people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:06 AM
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LVM can stay single and die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:47 PM
30

Thing is, even in the best case scenario with her turning him in for it and him going to jail, he will still have access to their girls. The family court will order her to take the girls to the jail weekly to see their father. Family court is a pedo's dream. She probably knows she's screwed no matter which way she turns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:41 PM
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I'm definetly open to other suggestions thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:11 PM
2

I'm so using this in my vetting process
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:50 PM
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I'd rub it in even more every time I saw him just so he can cry about it .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:10 PM
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I had to watch my kids go thru this with their nvm dad bringing home different women and sometimes their kids for a sleepover with my kids. Its heartbreaking and disgusting. I think it's ok for your kids to know that you're dating but they dont need to know any details. I'd be happy with moving all in together after getting married and never before. It's an immediate no for me on OLD if I see a guy's kids or any kids in a picture, or if he mentions meeting the kids early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:58 PM
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-insert list 3 miles long-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:42 PM
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I've had a couple of scrotes absolutely fume at how my parents have helped me out. Even one's who's parents paid for his college (my parents didnt pay for my schooling). My parents are toxic af but have helped me live a decent life since I divorced my ex. I used to be ashamed of their help but now I see it will be an excellent way to vet men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:27 PM
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"We have big cOmMuNiCaTiOn problems" Womp there it is. Typical scrote statement. And "obliged to give her the opportunity to work things out"...HER? Tf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:29 PM
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Time to waste his time with a burner phone number. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:49 AM
5

Totally forgot this one but YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:48 AM
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Should have popped up as a flair but yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:44 AM
12

Theres a post about how to do this I think its called "blood in the water" to test how they react to things like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:38 AM
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I had one sit outside my house all day until 11pm at night when he admitted to watching me and had questions for me about an accident I wasnt involved in. It must be a common excuse for them. I keep my lights off after dark now. Stay the F away from cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:29 AM
5

This plus how smart he is with money and how generous he is with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:25 PM
3

I've done this too. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:04 PM
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USA equivalent would be a rodeo clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:14 PM
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None at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:25 PM
2

No he had it on his shoulder. Looked like a barn cat with super matted up eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:36 PM
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True. This is just one method.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:42 PM
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"She belongs to some man" is what that phrase means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:25 PM
366

Agreed. One time I accepted that my ex dumped me, didnt beg for him back for once, and he comes back telling me all the things that went wrong-things I had been telling him for years yet he rejected. They play dumb but really they're just cruel AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:22 PM
33

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:19 PM
38

Yep. People who dont want better for their children are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:33 AM
10

I was going to laugh but then I remembered that furries do sexual stuff so that would be a cross between beastiality and pedophilia. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:57 AM
72

One of my ex's tried to get me to watch him stream his game. The "watch me play, mommy!" Vibes killed whatever was left of my desire for him. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:44 AM
65

Kept on with his "you'll never hear from me again " bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:21 AM
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I saw one earlier today that went "so I annoyed my fiancee of 3 years all morning, sneak attack style sexually assaulted her in public, and she slapped me. I cant believe she slapped me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:24 AM
21

My ex does this with our kids. So far he's scared all the single moms away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:21 AM
34

Or they have children in their pictures but they don't have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:15 AM
16

I just came across a guy's profile pic of him and a sick cat. Like WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:15 AM
35

Dear God Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:48 AM
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If it's a seasonal thing where he plays when his favorite game comes out sure. But if it's his go to "hobby" absolutely not. You want to get screamed at every time he makes a mistake?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:22 AM
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Lol did you see that post in relationships? Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:20 AM
45

Slightly related but my now exMIL gave me baby pictures of my now ex for Christmas. Framed. ... These men are clueless at best and pedos at the worst. When I flip thru OLD, I find maybe 1 per 60 men suitable. As in no red flags on their profile. OLD certainly draws the scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:18 AM
53

Mine did. I still have the texts of him asking for pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:12 AM
52

Serial cheaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:50 AM
218

From what I can tell, pilots are serial cheaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:30 AM
36

Half the teachers I had in high school were male, and only two were non-pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:09 AM
17

Lol same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:07 AM
24

How about other veterans who now have a normal civilian job?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:06 AM
173

The egg doesn't chase the sperm. I told my now lv ex that a few times when he threatened to leave me over something he did to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:35 AM
46

I was a sahm and lost a lot too. The bar is in hell for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:33 AM
28

Yep. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:14 AM
76

That's a good way to think about it. So many men get into the military to pay for school, but they dont realize they're exchanging it for their own mental health and the lives of other people. Pretty sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:07 AM
141

It's illegal but men still get away with it all day every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:13 AM
51

You're not high matinence, they're just low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:05 AM
2

" Men always tell themselves they can have something for nothing, they can have it all without paying a cost, and that's usually not true. All that mindset brings is drama." Deep wisdom right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:00 AM
61

"do not know how exactly to do things that a man would likely do" If they wanted to they would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:50 AM
244

That's terrifying. Keep your dog close and away from him so he doesnt groom your dog to accept him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:55 AM
33

Do not inform her father. Figure out who this boy is and get the police to go after him and his parents. Your daughter will probably have to make a statement with police about when it happened and that can help protect you in family court. Please let her know that she's not in trouble but she needs to help protect herself and others from this boy. And once you have all this information documented with the police, then tell your ex, via email, that it started on his placement time, and you expect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:59 AM
45

Hypothesis: LVM and LVW use "I have to find out if we're sExUaLlY CoMpAtIbLe" as an excuse to use women for sex or to get a man to pick her, early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:17 PM
2

Sex trafficking also increases. The highest amount of sex trafficking in the states happens during American superbowls. Giant sporting events.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:14 AM
2

I did too! But now that I'm out I'm kicking myself for being such a Cinderella
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:36 PM
2

My parents used to call me Cinderella for all the stuff my now lvx's family put me thru. They all looked down on my family, yet had the most disgusting eating and digestive process habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:59 PM
36

If he's a little bit crazy, his mom is going to be 100x crazier, and you're going to end up on the justnomil sub if you stay with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:09 AM
5

Thank you for a breakdown of the study. A sahm is worth about 150k right? That's because they work so many jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:22 AM
3

This is like negging but worse. We should come up with a word for it so its more recognizable to flag as shi* behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:16 AM
16

110% agree. Any man who talks about gold diggers doesnt have any gold to be dug. I told this to a previous bf of mine because he kept saying his buddies were worried I was a gold digger (he spent about $100 on me in a 4 year span, and I spent a good $500-kicks self). He never mentioned it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:25 AM
1

Wait till these guys find out that being financially stable is part of the bare minimum to be datable.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:20 AM
4

The two "ugly" women I knew from high school turned out to be super hv women with handsome hv husbands. They're excellent moms too. And ugly men can get gf's and wives if they are high value, but most of them cant manage a daily shower so I guess theyll be forever alone. Theres a male nurse I run into often who is not conventionally attractive, but kindness and love just radiates from him to the point where I'd say yes to a date with him in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:34 PM
38

I got stalked thru walmart again yesterday. There were at least two working together. The main creep saw me going for the self checkout lane and got there before me, so I went and looked at clothes for 10 mins, came back and he was still checking out. By the time I went outside. He was 20 feet behind me without his stuff, so I just stopped my cart, turned around, and looked straight at him. There were a lot of people around. He did a 90 degree turn and marched off. Last month some creep tried fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:45 PM
23

I feel this in my soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:45 AM
10

1000000% yes. I've read a few books on the subject and it definetly made me a stronger person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:35 AM
19

When I turned 30 I felt a pure sense of freedom. Partly because I knew I aged out of the patriarchy's perverted "target zone".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:44 PM
18

"You have no obligation to take along to his bar with him and his buddies so you can entertain the one dude's pickme wife who is sitting there bored and miserable." That was me. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:15 AM
7

Been there, lived that life, never again. If you visit the parenting subs, you'll see just about 1/10 posts are from women just venting wanting to take a shower, but their overgrown child husband wont even watch the kids properly for 10mins. The bar is literally In the ground for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:24 AM
2

I saw that too. Super disappointing. When it comes to relationships+finances I prefer Dave Ramsey. You can just hear his eyes roll when someone mentions 50/50 finances on his show. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:11 AM
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