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Dude, RP is not the ultimate reality. There is always gonna be subtle differences. Nobody’s the same, cultures differ and so on. You gotta make your own reality. I also believe that there might be some girls who are able to be faithful. BUT I know that they are also capable to fuck with you and your frame. So keep doing your thing, lift heavy things, be successful, have fun and please do it without depending on a girl. If I find a girl that suits me well and is loyal, good for me. But it won’t m…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 07:39 PM
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I agree with you man. I don’t need to be successful in every way of life to be happy and live a content life. Sometimes less is more.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:51 PM
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Just attract a group of two girls in a club for example. Introduce your friend to the one you’re not so attracted to, voila.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:12 AM
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I think you’re right. Without knowing my parents put me in this position. But I feel like I know that I have this problem, I just wonder how to fix it. You think this already requires therapy to fix? I’m not sure since I usually don’t deal with depression.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:23 PM
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Yeah you’re right. It’s really tough when you get feelings for them, but I guess letting her go is the only way to save myself. Thank you, V.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 07:47 PM
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Sometimes in life you gotta be egocentric and just do the right thing for you. You ended it and you saved her and your time by doing it. That’s always a good part about breaking up. So don’t feel bad for her, she’s going to survive it just like everyone who was in a similar situation.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:58 PM
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Yeah, it’s really dark. I know I can’t save her and that she has to deal with it herself. But it just feels so wrong to know that something like that happened to a girl you had feelings for. How did you cope with that knowledge?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:54 PM
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Already did twice..
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:55 AM
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Tbh it depends. I’ve been improving my game in my early 20s and now at 24 have a n-count of 25. What I’ve learned is: just be attractive and have fun with the girls. It’s not about the money (I mean I’ve been a student the last 4 years) or so much about the body. Though I’ve been lifting and seeing progress the whole time.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:10 PM
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On point. That’s what I’ve been trying to tell myself: There is no woman in this world that will love me the way I would like her to love me. If she can, it’s either a phase that doesn’t last long (enjoy it while you can) or it’s my mum.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:54 PM
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You also market Onlyfans-pages?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 05:56 PM
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Thank you man! Very true and I actually also think of it as a road to success. I’m just so glad that I can reflect upon myself and see the mistakes I do. Will definitely put myself and my mission first. Everything else is secondary.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:06 PM
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I lift 4 times the week...
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:14 AM
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Dude this isn’t your problem. It’s your life. She sounds like a horrible spouse and I’d run If I was you. You are responsible for your life and if my girl would put her TV-shows in favor of time with me, I’d go and leave her. You sound like there is no alternative than just staying with her: guess what there is plenty. You get to choose who you spend your time with. And by what you say, I’d suggest you spend some time with yourself in the gym.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:32 PM
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There always is. Don’t forget that TRP is a guideline it’s not the Bible. I don’t give a shit if TRP generalizes or not because I live by my own standards. Just observe the world around you: lots of women behave the way TRP teaches us, but there’s always exceptions. But nevertheless I appreciate the knowledge you get here because it teaches you valuable lessons about life, and especially how to treat yourself. See that’s why I don’t give a fuck about Merkel. She’s more like a men to me than a wo…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:28 PM
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Is she the kind of women you would like to plate? For me it’s a hell no, so I don’t care. There’s always gonna be exceptions.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:21 PM
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Yeah it’s a valuable lesson and basically what NMMNG teaches you. Put yourself first and stand up for yourself, even if a women stands in front of you. Respect your own boundaries and yourself and people will respect you. Thank you V
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 05:37 PM
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What can you recommend? I’m in my early 20s and already trying to set up my financial freedom path...
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:51 AM
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Tough reality to accept but it hurts to see your own father fail and be miserable because he’s been so blue-pilled the whole time...
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:15 AM
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Thank you so much for that response. It’s red pill lesson hands on! You know I told her before she should quit that job. Told her that I won’t allow anyone to treat her like that and that I will make sure you won’t put a step into that office again. She actually thanked me for being this consistent and dominant, because „my dad always just says yes to my decisions“. She told me that in front of him... How do you think should I urge her to go to therapy. Since she’s super emotional I think she’ll…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:49 AM
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Well he’s not a bitch, he’s just not the dominant part of the relationship. I sometimes wonder how daily life would be if he would be the dominant part.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:52 AM
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The problem is, that my dad and mum live alone in a huge house. We live in the same city but usually only see each other on the weekends. I think we’ll do that! It’s a good idea to actually make the doctor tell her, that she might want to talk to a therapist because it might help her deal with the situation. Thanks for the advice man.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:50 AM
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That nobody loves her...
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:54 AM
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I don’t consider her as a LTR yet. I’m planning on keeping her in my rotation because I enjoy the company and the sex. BUT if she keeps being a good girl and shows no other red flags I might consider commiting at some point. That’s why I’m asking if it’s possible to actually have a good relationship with a girl like that.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:22 AM
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Good point.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:17 AM
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She actually does, her step dad is kinda like that BUT it’s not like she has a great relationship with him. But she calls both of them their parents. I’ve never heard of someone going to therapy because of that. Is it common?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 11:16 AM
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But after all, it’s just a plate. I feel like you’re trying to hard to not loose her. If you don’t feel comfortable taking pictures of her (which can also be pretty fun tbh, I’m a photographer myself) then just don’t do it. Nobody’s forcing you man.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:43 AM
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Dude what the hell? She is like one in a thousand for only having slept with one guy. You don’t even wanna know the n-count of some of the girls out there and it shouldn’t bother you anyways.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:54 PM
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Nah you have potential. I’d say grow a beard and get a better haircut man. Dress better and there you go.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:37 PM
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Dude there’s only one who can to fix this: YOU! God damnit just start to get rid of your unhealthy habits one by one. You don’t have to stop everything at ones but get your shit together man. You’re young and you can still achieve anything you want, just be consistent and stop doing things that are bad for you. Now you can shape the future of yourself, better use the time wisely man.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:35 PM
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Thank you mate. Great reply.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:37 PM
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Can you elaborate being aggressive about career progression? Like leaving the company if there is no way to climb the ladder?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:01 PM
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Tbh I also have had a HB9 and usually only date HB7+ and they don’t really act different around me. It’s just nice to know that you’re the one fucking them while many orbiters are trying their best to do the job. There is a downside: I had this unbelievable cute, hot, sweet and submissive HB9. She kinda fucked up my expectations of girls, because her body was perfect, the sex was insane and she was also a good company. I wonder if I’ll find a girl like that again. Sometimes I feel bad that I tha…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:45 PM
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Shit happens dude. We’ve all been there but it’s just no good to keep chasing her. Use your time for the next girl and do it better. Doesn’t make sense to chase a girl that’s not interested, and from what you say she is NOT interested. The medium is the message...
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:51 PM
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I kinda had a similar thing happen in my last relationship. She got a cystitis every time we had sex, god knows why. I had the feeling that it kinda was psychosomatic. And she just believed that she’ll get a cystitis every time we have sex, so that’s what she got. Guess what: sex life was non existent because she was so scared about getting another one. I’ve never had this issue with other girls...
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:48 PM
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Old James Bond movies are gold.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:18 PM
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If that’s your way of discussing this matter, I’m sorry for you. If you only see the matter in a white/black frame, you’re missing out imo. I’ve been with enough girls to know that there’s a difference and trust me I don’t even look at fattys. It’s just what I enjoy more and if you don’t care about the girls you’re fucking, good for you. It just doesn’t cut it for me.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:16 AM
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Bullshit. There’s a real difference between girls that are actually interesting and girls who only care bout Netflix and instagram. I love to actually talk to interesting girls, fuck and have a good time. If you only care about fucking them and that’s it, good for you. That’s not my way of approaching it. I don’t care about ass and tits if the girl actually has an opinion, on books, movies or music. Whatever it might be. That’s way more sexually appealing to me imo.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:56 AM
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Happened to me once to, who cares, I just nexted the girl because I don’t need that shit.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:56 PM
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Don’t be to hard on yourself, it’s good that you actually approached her in the first place. You know, there is always room to improve. If she’s really into you she could shoot you a message anyways.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:22 PM
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Just think about it that way: even if she wouldn’t have been a virgin, absolutely nothing would change about your life. NOTHING! So why do you care about it so much?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:11 PM
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WTH man, why would you even care about her being a virgin or not? It doesn’t fucking matter my friend, just get over her and go for the next girl. Get on your purpose and stop obsessing over her.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:09 PM
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This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you so much for these words man. I love the way of seeing pain as something great, as something necessary to grow. Life isn’t easy but man do I love it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 10:07 PM
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Yeah thank you for that insight, it probably is gonna be exactly that. My dick is also thicker than average which probably also doesn’t help... Yeah been doing that I guess you just gotta keep taking it slow and help her getting used to it. Maybe she should also see a doc
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:09 PM
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Oh man, you are the living example of AFC. First of all you fucked up in so many ways, I don’t even know where to start. First of all: NEVER SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. Do you think it’s a good idea to plate a girl that’s next to you in a class you have on a regular basis. Hell no! Fucking dumb. Secondly you even realized you acted blue pill as fuck, why would you still go for it? God damn that hurt to read. Get your shit together man.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:13 PM
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Seems like this is only a bad habit for you. Just replace it by reading or an hobby or whatever. Since it’s only a small amount it doesn’t make any sense anyways. So just stop doing it.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 05:07 PM
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This reply is gold. Patience is the key and be on your fucking purpose. I know it is hard at the beginning but you’re having severe signs of oneitis and you gotta see other girls ASAP. Trust me if you fuck this up now by being to needy and available she will be gone in no time. I also always have to remind myself that there is no unicorn and they gotta fight for your time, not the other way around. You are the prize, don’t forget that. Cheers!
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:00 PM
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Videographer. I love to create creative content and the appreciation is insane. Also very Good paying if you know what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:15 AM
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True that! I walk around in my shared flat without a shirt most of the time. ;)
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:40 AM
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This hurt to read. God bless the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 09:24 PM
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I feel like this is a trend... everything tends to be summarized but you need the full bandwidth of content to internalize it.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:28 PM
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I’ve been trying to stretch regularly but I haven’t found a good guide. Do you have resources how to stretch effectively? Thank you so much in advance
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 03:05 PM
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Never ask a question you don’t want to know the answer for. I feel your problem but just like the others say, it doesn’t matter. That’s why I never really talk about sexual experiences of the past, because I don’t care and I don’t want to know.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:54 AM
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This is gold! Thank you so much. What you’re saying is basically get the imagination of the girl going. My learning: I have to tell more interesting, funny and sexualising stories and watch the girls react to it. I feel like you really have to embrace the childishness of women. Leave the real world shit to bros talk.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:37 PM
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Escalation latter and this Post are gold. Thank you man!
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:25 PM
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I read it, what articles do you recommend to reread tho?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:05 PM
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Had something similar happen to me but with the exception that I passed out in bed and woke up having sex with this girl. I wasn’t exactly upset about it (because she was a HB7) but just imagine happening the same thing but in different roles...
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:58 PM
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If it’s not a hell yes it’s a hell no my friend. The medium ist the message, always have that in mind.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:08 AM
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Really impressive Comeback! I really think it’s essential to have this IDGAF-mentality when it is about awkward situations. Just like you said, you gotta laugh about it and keep on going!
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:28 AM
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Just tell her it’s not working for you anymore. There we go
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:37 PM
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Plating, plating, plating! You have to implement the „I am the prize mentality“ and fucking live it. Trust me, you can be very happy without an exclusive LTR. Focus on yourself and girls will follow ;)
/r/askTRP27/09/19 08:24 AM
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Go out and fucking talk to people! Join a sports club, go to party’s,...
/r/askTRP12/09/19 05:40 AM
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You should implement the IDGAF mentality. Read The subtle art of not giving a f*ck and try to live it. What I took from the book: Life is too fucking short to worry about things like approaching women and what other people think of you.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:19 AM
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How do you enter a lodge like that?
/r/askTRP08/07/19 11:27 AM
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If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a hell no...
/r/seduction30/06/19 08:54 PM
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Yeah just don’t worry about it. In Germany we have a saying: other moms also have beautiful daughters ;)
/r/seduction24/06/19 07:30 PM
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Let me tell you the simple and hurtful truth: if a girl is attracted to you and wants to actually meet you again, she will respond usually immediately. The medium is the message. Girls are on their phone 24/7.
/r/seduction24/06/19 03:52 PM
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Well you if you are too excited and show to much interest it will work against you. Just put it into her perspective, you seem way too needy, if you act like that. Nobody wants to meet a needy person... so don’t be that person.
/r/seduction24/06/19 03:40 PM
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Yeah but don't try too hard! I've been in the same situation and I fucked it up exactly because of that thinking. You have to act like she is nothing special to you. If you let her know that you are excited as shit about talking to her, you already lost her.
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:31 PM
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You gotta stop thinking about it so much. She is just one girl you happened to meet in real life. If she doesn’t respond, who cares, next... it’s not worth it to spend your time thinking about the response of one girl that you might never see again.
/r/seduction24/06/19 12:24 PM
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Have you heard of this magical app called Tinder? Just ask for a girl to show you around.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:41 PM
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Honest and straight forward. This is the way to go. Same for me, I also just approach the date without any expectations. I don’t know how the night will end and I fucking love it. That’s the thrill. Just enjoy yourself and take the girl on an adventure.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 10:21 AM
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Dude I literally have had the same thing happening to me and I also wonder why this is happening. Lots of people here will say that it is your fault and that the girl just isn’t into you that much. I kinda doubt that. In my experience not every girl is into it at first, it might change over time though. It’s just that I usually don’t think it’s worth it to wait and teach the girl, because some girls really are into it from the start. If I fuck a plate for the first time that really enjoys being …
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:40 AM
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Hatte ich auch letztens mit einer aus Amerika/Spanien. Hat wunderbar funktioniert. Ist extra hergeflogen und hatte ein Wochenende Spaß 😜
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:25 PM
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Seems like a very reasonable advise. Thank you my man! Even tho I lead her in bed, she doesn’t really respond to it. I will try to dread her a lil and see if she responds to it. Thank you man
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:25 AM
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That‘s exactly what I try to do every time. And it seems to work with every plate I have except her. Two nights before her, I fucked another plate, that just couldn’t get enough. Very rough sex, she loved to be dominated and fucked pretty hard. Came on her face after.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:22 AM
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Impressive advice. That’s not the issue.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:36 AM
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Thank you for your insights. I’ll do it this way.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:02 AM
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Since I don’t have any test results yet I can’t knowingly spread anything. Won’t have any Sex in the next few days anyways.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:59 AM
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Nah I got a 10 day treatment. HBU? When will the fucking symptoms disappear?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 04:53 PM
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Nah I used condoms with her every time, because she’s not on birth control...
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:38 PM
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Dude, if you are the price, why would other males be of higher SMV? Why would you even waste a minute of your time overthinking the SMV of other guys. If she wants you fucking go for it and if she doesn’t: next...
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:48 AM
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I think when I game a girl I always banter by challenging the girl. Let’s say, she says she is a good cook. I will never believe the girl just like that, I banter, „Well you can say lots of things. Prove it, I will challenge you and we will see who cooks better.“ Always a good transition to go to her place or set up the next date. Just don’t take everything she says seriously and joke around. Have fun and challenge her, that’s my approach to bantering.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 08:42 AM
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No my friend. I told her that I wouldn’t leave without a kiss, so I went in for the kiss - to leave.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:15 PM
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Yeah exactly. She was a very interesting person and I just wanted to know more about her and have fun. We drank some wine and enjoyed the time together, including some cockiness on my side. I actually didn’t talk that much at all.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:14 PM
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Just this last week. Had a great date with a girl and we talked for hours in my car in front of her dorm. I had to go to the bathroom and asked her if I could use hers. Went inside and said I will leave now. Told her I won’t leave without a kiss and we made out a little. I still insisted on leaving. 5 Minutes later she texts me it was a great date and if my hotel room is that bad, like I told her. I said yes and she replied: well my dorm is small but my bed will probably fit two... Guess who F-c…
/r/seduction13/05/19 04:45 PM
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And they are not only not committing, they are actually complaining about their life and how life is punishing them. I met so many girls like that and immediately was turned off, really pathetic, big red flag for me.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:50 PM
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They may seem happy from the outside, but you never know, what actually happens behind the curtains. I have so many friends that act just that way: when in the public they act like the perfect couple, but when in private both of them (especially my AFC friends) really struggle. Right now I get far more IOIs and affection by my plates than in any previous relationship. I’ll just enjoy this behavior as long as possible and if I see no red flags I might upgrade to a LTR.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:06 AM
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Good advice! I also recommend The Rationale Male to actually understand specific dynamics of our society. It’s very theoretical and a great to understand society and why AFCs are AFCs and women act the way they act.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 09:57 PM
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Well yeah, I'll internalise this mindset. Fucking amateur mistake on my side.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:29 AM
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That‘s the wrong thinking. It‘s the process of getting your shit together that is important. Just like stated above, don‘t wait till you get there, which will never happen anyways probably.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 11:54 AM
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Well I guess you know you belong the top 20% percent, when firstly top tier girls match you and secondly they will also go out on dates with you.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:10 AM
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