Hey fellow brothers...

So after plating for about a year i decided it might be time for a LTR again. When looking back at the last months I keep falling into the trap of seeking validation and becoming the nice guy. I know why it happens (read NMMNG, Rational Male, sidebar) but I still keep falling into the trap.

I (m24) habe been on this red pill journey for about a year and it’s been a ride! I’ve been making progress and yes because of my family I’ve been blue pill as fuck. Been lifting, meditating, plating (added about 20 to my n-count the last year) and trying to improve myself.

But I keep falling into the trap of seeking validation, by changing my behavior, what I like, how I act around my LTR. How do you guys deal with that? Do you have any tips? I