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| 37 | Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the moneySomeone else commented on here that lvm envy golddiggers because they want to be one and get that kinda lifestyle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 09:10 AM |
| 105 | Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM?This so much They learn to get better at lying and playing the long con | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Social media potential flag - should I block/delete?Tbh Facebook settings are kinda hard to navigate, those pages could be from years ago and he has no idea Only way to know is ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:34 PM |
| 83 | This Is Why You Should Never Give An Ugly Man A Chance. It's The Audacity For Me. Hell No!Ugly men are the worst The outside really does reflect the inside | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:08 AM |
| 30 | Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick meThe only person you should be making lunch for is your child who can’t reach the kitchen counter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 121 | Update on my most recent post. Digging into OP’s comment history only confirmed to me what I already thought; he isn’t a good partner to her & she deserves better. I seriously doubt she doesn’t fake cum with him because she sounds v turned off. He asked some1 what a clitoris is. Is this April fools?This so much Plus that poor woman probably gags at the thought of being under his 300lb cheesy smelling body | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 08:07 AM |
| 417 | TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔The one about the mother and two daughters 🤢🤢🤢 Those poor girls, my god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:12 PM |
| 182 | Men are two-faced & will say one thing to you & a whole other thing about youWow wtf I’m glad she put him on blast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020Okay so this thread made me recall a similar “joke” a scrote I was formerly friends with said to me once Well I took it as a joke at the time because I thought no way is he serious He asked me “hey ever thought of committing the perfect murder and getting away with it?” I was like “no lol, have you?” He replies “yeah i know exactly how id do it and where id bury the body” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts?Wtf that’s terrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyNo guys older than me by more than one year No ugly guys at all ever No Londoners (no offence to anyone) No finance or tech or medicine guys No travels the whole world and brags about it types | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 12 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Thank you so much I should go back and reread it, it’s been a while | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:06 AM |
| 50 | queen sh*tShe’s a legend Why was he devastated 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 11:52 PM |
| 13 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Question If a woman earned way more than the guy does she have to contribute more? Or would fds advise she find a man who makes the same as her? Also the guy in the screenshots is totally a tightwad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 104 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.Wait So the wife has to use her “allowance” to buy groceries and pay bills It just got sadder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 10:23 AM |
| 54 | Just sharing a song I think many of us can get behind, wait for the endThis is super catchy😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 09:41 AM |
| 27 | My male coworker is being a jerk. Need advice on how to proceed aka: Can you notI’ve experienced this briefly when I was 22 and Co worker aged 17 tried something similar and I reminded him firmly that I was older than him and also had seniority and wouldn’t tolerate him speaking to me that way I said this in front of other Co workers on the spot and I think that coupled with embarrassment stopped him from continuing I feel your best option is to tell him to back off or go to HR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:40 AM |
| 32 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?It’s a no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:06 AM |
| 15 | I couldn’t find the original source of this text unfortunately, however I felt like this has to be shared. I was groomed into ddlg as a minor & am still unlearning the collective gaslighting from the kink community. Daddy dom/little girl or caregiver/little is not harmless. It glorifies pedophelia.Wtf wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 11:20 PM |
| 118 | I don’t even know what to say 🤦🏼♀️Never ever propose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 09:00 AM |
| 9 | Any experiences with a “wolf in sheep’s clothing”, a man pretending to be a feminist…Can you tell us more about this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:01 AM |
| 8 | Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats?Nah wth Would he hide her glasses/medication in the same vein This it not okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 11:35 AM |
| 13 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceUsually makeup is somewhere high up like a counter or a drawer No way would toddlers be able to reach this He handed it to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 09:14 AM |
| 97 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringCan confirm My best friend wanted to buy a home with me and we would live in it together or rent a place together (an idea she floated, that I wasn’t too keen on because I knew she’d flake) Next thing you know she meets a new guy and out goes that plan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?Nah sis Just nah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Nah sis.Just no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 11 | Suspicious?Brilliant thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:30 PM |
| 21 | Suspicious?I thought so, It seemed very fishy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:26 PM |
| 50 | Suspicious?I blocked :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:25 PM |
| 25 | Suspicious?Same this is the second message I got regarding fds, the first one was from someone asking what does LVM stand for and what does pickme mean I explained briefly and then closed the chat They never replied again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:24 PM |
| 20 | Suspicious?That’s just what I did after screenshotting :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:22 PM |
| 20 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Yes they do it on purpose This guy would spend at least £100 every shopping trip, buying alcohol, scratch cards and tons of junk food And he would get a taxi to and from the store every time, and one of my colleagues told me that the smelly customer actually lived near another store but chose to come all the way to this one, probably to terrorise us all Also many times the taxi base he’d call would hang up on him, as the taxi drivers hated having him as a passenger, and one time he demanded a ri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 177 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Omg this reminded me So when I was still at uni, I had a part time job as a cashier at a supermarket There was a lot of smelly customers but one smelled so vile you could smell him when he was in the queue waiting to be served The other colleagues would take the piss out of him behind his back but be nice to his face He was absolutely vile and had an equally vile attitude Many times I would just leave my till just before it was his turn to be served by me, and I’d say I’m going on break (I’d onl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 19 | Makeup Give UpI’m glad for this :) I hope natural hair can also be embraced too, I’ve always gone without makeup but I’ve felt the pressure to style my curly/wavy hair rather than just leave it be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:46 AM |
| 161 | How to prevent hornyness related pickmeness on datesCouple of things that work for me Don’t shave/wax or trim bikini, pits or legs Wear granny style undies Eat beforehand so I feel bloated and therefore in no mood to take clothes off Act like they’re a co worker maintain personal space at all times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about the difference befween Anna Delvey and The tinder swindler?An lvm acquaintance (no longer an acquaintance) told me he was watching the Netflix show and that he wished he could do the same as the tinder swindler, and went onto say how he could get away with it by switching countries so the police can’t catch him, when I pointed out it’s a crime | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 27 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laid🤢 I knew most men thought like this, but reading it just makes my stomach turn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:51 PM |
| 62 | Imagine All the Productive Things She Could Be Doing with Her Time Instead 🤦♀️Why? Is he a child? This reminds me of my 2 year old cousin needing help with his jigsaw puzzles, and I hand him the correct piece when he gets stuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 06:43 PM |
| 66 | Anyone disgusted with the way men talk?They want to be OP and be spoiled Jealousy really xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 32 | Stanzi just dropped "Men trying to humble women"Yes I’ve had a few recruiters (all women) try to tell me I can’t expect x salary or x Benefits or x job title with my experience level, and yet for every negative Nelly I found a recruiter who believed in me and I got that salary or that benefit or that job I was coveting Like if you’re not gonna help me get to where I need to go, please stay quiet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 06:02 PM |
| 46 | Detaching from the outcome -- how to keep your heart on the lockdown during early stages of dating a man?Google him before you go on a date, search his social media etc The things I’ve found with a quick search save so much time and spare you from going on a date to find out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 12:16 AM |
| 30 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceStop talking to her unless you have to because work reasons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:26 PM |
| 9 | Friends with Men?I don’t think male work friends can be your friend outside of work tbh I’ve never had any beyond the chatting at work to pass time, because I just see no need for male friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:19 PM |
| 28 | Financially abusive Scrote strings along his 4.5 year live-in girlfriend, finally "gets engaged", yet cries when he finds out that he wasn't entitled to ALL of her money after all, etc. Next, he pitches it to the audience about whether he should take the money, then dump her any way.Why did she confess, worse why did she offer him the savings He’s just salty she was smart enough to save that much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 09:16 PM |
| 33 | Vetting: if a worst case scenario happens to you, can you rely on him?If you’re a bit of a hypochondriac and he’s aware of this but still tries to help ease your worries rather than ignore you or tell you to get over it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 02:55 PM |
| 33 | What has been your biggest bullet dodged, and which vetting strategy do you attribute to it?I dodged dating a really ugly guy when I was in my early 20s, because I was shallow af In hindsight he was manipulative af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 41 | Somehow this is worse than those room rentals on CraigslistI love that tlc song | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 02:06 AM |
| 10 | Men Who Are Bored/ Claim You’re BoringOmg yes you’ve perfectly worded what I’ve been struggling to describe, I nicknamed her cuntwick to my bf and best friend, because her surname is xxxxwick xD She caused me to have a panic attack in front of her, then I cried a few moments after, because of the shock, as that had never happened before to me, and the next day I resigned because I just couldn’t force myself to go back there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Men Who Are Bored/ Claim You’re BoringYeah I had a manager like this, after I resigned she told me I wasn’t “friendly or chatty” enough, she was a total pickmeisha too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 08:11 PM |
| 22 | Men Who Are Bored/ Claim You’re BoringReport them to HR because this stuff can escalate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 6 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?We could make a discord | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 12:41 AM |
| 65 | Adopt a scroteOne of the comments called her a whole other level of Pickme XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 81 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItHe looks scary and ugly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 25 | Signs of Cheating: How to spot them?They have a secret folder on their phone with pics/screenshots They also may have a safe where they store things from the affair person They start doing new things like take an interest in their own appearance, eg new wardrobe, join gym They also spend a lot of time “online” on WhatsApp but they’re not texting you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:58 AM |
| 117 | Jordan Peterson + Childless WomenGuys in another clip Jordan Peterson is talking to his daughter (it was a Podcast) and in it he said “when you were growing up and your mom was raising the infants, attention in the house was limited for me” (this scrote was complaining how his wife couldn’t give him attention because she was raising his children) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 07:30 AM |
| 21 | I finally get itYou don’t need to be bitchy per se Be assertive and know what you want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Why do so many men have bad breath?Because they don’t brush their damn teeth and they also don’t floss They also have cavities and put off going to the dentist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 10:00 PM |
| 10 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereWTF Dare I say this is worse than those Craigslist posts offering places to stay in exchange for abuse dear god 🤢🤢🤢 (To clarify I meant those ads were obviously creepy, this scrote is another level of creepy) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 01:56 AM |
| 6 | Disgusting Vday GiftsNah why they gotta ruin Etsy like that, I only use it to search for cute resin/expoxy art gifts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 8 | I’ve seen so many of these, the entitlement is real. No one wants to be your live in bang maid, especially not for FREE!! They’re hoping to take advantage of a woman in need, forget that women can room with eachother without the expectation of chores and sex. We don’t need men like this🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 The last one he said this arrangement worked before, dear lord which poor women fell prey to this fat scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 01:03 AM |
| 832 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Dude she created a profile using your pics without Consent I’d stop being friends with her at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 02:58 PM |
| 12 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitSo Jane the woman he cheated with matters more than his wife Dear god someone help the OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 01:36 AM |
| 9 | Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!”I have standards I don’t date ugly guys I’m waiting for marriage I don’t leave my house | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 01:01 AM |
| 15 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦I like to do movie first so can talk about it after whilst we eat XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:22 PM |
| 15 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦How is a car park a date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:20 PM |
| 158 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"Wait she needs to like move and make sure he can’t find her as well, Incase his family try to hurt her or her baby Remember that UK case where this young white woman had a Child with a Pakistani man and she knocked on his door and told his family she had his baby, the Pakistani man asked the woman to meet him by a canal and murdered and tossed her body into it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 09:21 PM |
| 9 | The audacity! Time to abandon or murder your pet, as all good women doThese same men would try to get rid of a woman’s child the same way It’s atrocious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 03:33 AM |
| 193 | You guysss 🤮🤮🥲 “Ugh- husband woke me up in middle of night for sex and it was gross”I couldn’t finish reading this 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 69 | I love herWow what an asshole, and btw your job is awesome :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 02:56 AM |
| 123 | I love herThat’s why he was jealous, the fugly scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 02:55 AM |
| 34 | Found on another sub. I was grossed out by how many people thought this was so cute and #couplegoals material 🤢I’m dying 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:20 PM |
| 34 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)This so much, some female colleagues will literally ask you your entire life and then go tell other colleagues this info, and I’m like wth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 04:00 AM |
| 32 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Can confirm I used a guys name and school once and found an annual report article he was in from a competition he won as a teen And it literally took 2 minutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 03:47 AM |
| 5 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Thank you, luckily I have no desire to have children for other reasons, but my god this only further cements my choice I had no idea how badly childbirth ruins your body beyond peeing when you sneeze and possible stitches down there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 19 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Holy hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:43 AM |
| 21 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himSame I’m also waiting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 7 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪I’m glad you blocked, it was the right choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Ladies who have dated Desi or Muslim, how did the misogyny affect how you were treated in the relationship?Yep as a south asian woman myself I agree, Lvm exist everywhere, irregardless of race or religion, I think it’s easier to vet certain men from certain backgrounds as they tend to tell on themselves much sooner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:46 PM |
| 102 | When they tell you to settle for the guy’s attractiveness and the moment he levels up, he dumps you.Nah never date ugly men, you gotta kiss that face lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:29 AM |
| 30 | Porn ruins menGreat read Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 31 | Porn ruins menIt usually means they’re butt ugly but not obese so therefore we should consider them gods XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 09:51 PM |
| 131 | Porn ruins menThe changing the car to an automatic part made me gag 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 32 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?Yes no 7 the angry eyes/staring, it’s terrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:27 PM |
| 11 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?Do they touch you without consent before you get intimate, eg do they invade your personal space by putting their arm round you, when you’ve just met them, How do they speak to you? Is there a harshness in their tone during playful banter? Also just listen to their stories, anyone who brags about bar fights they got into or how they wouldn’t tolerate a woman doing xyz is usually abusive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:25 PM |
| 14 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?I found it because a guy was ridiculing it and sent me a link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:10 PM |
| 15 | Proof that the main beneficiary of casual sex & relationships is men!!!!Yes I’ve always felt this They don’t Believe normal healthy relationships exists and are convinced that any happy relationships are just fake and behind closed doors every couple is miserable Many relationships do fake it for social media/appearance but there are equally as many actually happy real couples out there too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:08 PM |
| 81 | Pickmes at workYes before FDS I wouldn’t have really paid attention to any of those things they were telling me, but now it’s so much easier to spot flags and makes me so much more thankful for FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:58 PM |
| 5 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?Nah don’t help them, unless it’s a very close friend or relative and they come to you for advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 6 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.He looks like he’s her dad 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 02:33 AM |
| 3 | you're allowed to want a fairytale wedding & a pricey ringAs if he tried to convince me a brass ring is better XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 12:30 AM |
| 30 | girl whatSame a friend of mine wanted an annulment (they had religious ceremony but not official one) and her scrote ex refused to give it verbally so she just paid for the religious council to assess her case and they sided in her favour for a couple hundred quid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 02:18 AM |
| 2 | girl whatMy god this is the stuff of nightmares I hope she gets out of that marriage unscathed financially | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 12:47 AM |
| 12 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayEven nuisance calls last longer than 30mins if you answer them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:33 PM |
| 6 | you're allowed to want a fairytale wedding & a pricey ringYep I deserve gold damn it XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 45 | you're allowed to want a fairytale wedding & a pricey ringSo I have ocd and this guy I was talking to once said he would get me a brass ring because apparently brass is antibacterial or some other bs and I was like no I’d like a real a ring, thank god I blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Attracting HVW on Bumble BFF?Honestly you’re better off going and enjoying your own hobbies and meeting women at those places to befriend It’s easier to connect via shared interests for eg at the gym or library Or even at college you could befriend a classmate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 11 | That would be instant ICK for me followed by my departure and blocking everywhere. If he is doing something this gross in front of you, imagine the filthy shit he's doing secretly 🤮I’m howling 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you NOT want to get married one day?I don’t want kids, I’ll be fine financially career-wise, but I do want to get married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 55 | "Women 32% more likely to die after operation by male surgeon, study reveals" I am lost for words...This happened to my late friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 02:56 AM |
| 10 | Forced Female Bonding Over Kids Though ChildfreeSame, I have a cousin whose 2 and I like to play with him sometimes but when his nose runs or he has a tantrum I don’t want to deal with it One time I was sitting with him as he watched frozen and I needed to pee and I realised I can’t leave him alone at all (he was under 1), and I was like holy hell a child would cause me so much additional stress and anxiety, how does anyone do this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Forced Female Bonding Over Kids Though ChildfreeI usually say I’m unmarried/live at home with parents still and that stops them asking more, as most that ask me tend to be religious/traditional, I never tell people I don’t want children as it just isn’t their business, and most will never accept “I don’t want any” as a valid reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!Question does the same apply if I don’t like a guys pets It’s not personal I just don’t like animals that shed hair/fur, so I wouldn’t want to date someone with pets, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:14 AM |
| 26 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysSame, the guys that like the outdoors are the same types have terrible hygiene imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 7 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysSame the only kind of outdoors i wouldn’t mind is a theme park or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 4 | It’s just me or you also find man cave a bull$hit ?Nah he can have the garden shed or garage, I need a woman cave for my Lego and toy story collections | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:20 PM |
| 9 | What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?”It’s just poor planning tbh, esp now that you can wfh easily why wouldn’t you work even if you had a kid to watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:31 AM |
| 3 | What Do You Guys Think About People Playing Matchmaker?They’re asian and Muslim (so kinda like Amish lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 10:55 AM |
| 10 | 'RACE PLAY' probably means he's lowkey a RACISTThis also goes for men who are the same race as you and then say to you “you don’t look like your race, you look mixed/other race, I don’t like women from my race usually but you’re different looking”, and they expect you take it as compliment when it’s not, it’s just a massive insult Like f you and your fetish for Caucasian looking women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 06:09 PM |
| 9 | What Do You Guys Think About People Playing Matchmaker?Yes, and the whole visit the mom, the sisters and the bride kept trying to ask me when I’m getting married, saying how 25 is too old to not be married, etc I wanted to go home, like jeez I only visited as it had been 5 years since I had last seen them and as I wasn’t going to the wedding I thought it was the least I could do, i won’t visit again XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 05:59 PM |
| 26 | What Do You Guys Think About People Playing Matchmaker?So last month I visited an old elementary classmates house because she was getting married, anyways her mom randomly tells me that she has wedding CVs of grooms if I’m interested to look at (these are CVs her daughter rejected), I politely decline and say “I don’t need those” with a smile, like dear god not everyone wants to get married before they turn 30, some of us have other goals and even if I did want to get married I wouldn’t be picking my husband via cringey CVs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 36 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.I’m dying at the mother line 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 12:36 PM |
| 10 | VET VET VET your male friends to the same standards you would a potential partner!OP it sounds like he lured you to his place, wore you out from all the packing and moving furniture and then attacked you when you least expected it and was too tired to be able to fight back or run It’s terrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?No Because first of all I’d want all the marriage stuff to be both mine and my partners first experiences Secondly I don’t wish to have kids of my own, so kids are a no for that reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.What else has he lied about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 01:38 AM |
| 52 | I went to a party and was never more relieved to go home alone. 🤣I kinda wish op had more interactions with these characters for the stories because I can’t stop laughing XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?Grade 7 I sat alone at the front in history class and a disruptive kid called Jordan got moved and seated next to me, I wasn’t happy about it because I liked to sit alone I never spoke a word to him but he actually calmed down and focused on his work and finished it and would sit and read a book like I would do by the end of the semester | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 08:24 PM |
| 7 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Was looking for this comment They are hella ugly and very big headed in my experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:35 AM |
| 34 | I surveyed a bunch of men so you don't have to! : Why guys ask those VERY personal questionsI just wanted to share last week I went to a family friends house and met the new daughter in law who gave off pickme vibes and for some reason asked me three times “why don’t you want to get married?”, that I ended up saying “why do you keep asking me that?”, I had already said “no, I’m in no rush” politely when she first asked. It was so annoying, and just to add she was only a year older than me and had only got married 3 weeks ago, has no job, no licence/car, relies on her husband for everyt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 22 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?Yes I want to, it sounds and looks cooler next to my first name lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:40 AM |
| 15 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesThat all sounds terrible I hope you find a remote job really soon :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:57 PM |
| 40 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesThis makes me glad to work from home, I don’t have to tolerate awful co workers anymore In my last job a pickmeisha co worker was pining after a married man (who was no catch and on his second marriage) They would even go on secret dates without his wife knowing and he would get her gifts etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 76 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.No way, they will still perv over other women behind the wife’s back and watch porn etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:44 PM |
| 9 | He didn’t want a fat wifeI bet he deprived her of sleep and downtime, plus made her eat out/unhealthily and ruined any semblance of routine for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:31 PM |
| 85 | He didn’t want a fat wifeAnd a handful are both 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 09:04 PM |
| 194 | He didn’t want a fat wifeI didn’t date him, but I did exchange messages with a man who was very unattractive and very opinionated on what kind of woman he wanted to date looks wise, he specifically wanted someone very slim and very pretty, whilst he was fat, bald and very ugly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 12 | workplace dynamicsReport it OP or find a new job in my first ever job as a 19 year old at a dessert shop, one of the male staff would make lewd remarks and dirty jokes and get in my personal space. The other females either enjoyed his behaviour or overlooked it as his “personality”. I couldn’t stand it and tried to tell the manager many times, (she was female and friends with him and did nothing about it) He even showed two other female coworkers a video of him jerking off during a shift These men are trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 6 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Actually when I shared a bed with my sister there would be yellow stains on her side of the mattress Idk how or why And I noticed when I would change the sheets her pillows would have the same yellow stain 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:20 PM |
| 87 | Even some men in the comment section were saying that they wouldn't like it if their lady proposed to them but were attacked like anything !Oh oh oh I have a story about this This woman who was friends with my friend proposed to her boyfriend one year into the relationship, the boyfriend was 30 and she was 24 maybe, anyways he accepts and they’re engaged and guess what it’s been 5 years and they’re still not married 😂😂😂😂 And I remember when she told us she was gonna propose to him and I politely said good for you (I didn’t know what else to say), and she used it as an excuse to give a lecture to all of us about how “women shouldn’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 10:05 AM |
| 15 | This is very smartI am memorising this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 01:08 AM |
| 58 | Men lack selfawarenessthis happened to my best friend My best friend is and always was 5’3 and 115-120lb She is beautiful and has never had any sort of weight issue Her awful ex husband had the audacity to call her fat, he said to her “before we got married you promised you wouldn’t get fat, now you’re getting fat”, He caused my poor friend to have body image issues on top of the stress he already caused her from being a massive abusive narcissist And to top it all the ex husband was obese, pushing 40, (my friend was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!When we met I was very shy and socially anxious as was he, so we got along well plus we shared similar interests Looking back I realise he was always a toxic friend but I over looked it because he would be helpful for big things eg when I had a panic attack | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!No he didn’t XD He also was very overweight but did manage to lose some of it and it made his already inflated ego balloon up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 9 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!His beard had patches and looked like pubic hair, he was very self conscious about it XD He also was considering getting hair plugs/transplant because he was receding a lot xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 13 | The process of getting over a man who was no good for you is hard yet refreshingSometimes I lookup the horrible men I had crushes on/hurt me on something like LinkedIn just to see their profile pic And I’m always like “damn wtf did I see in this ugly mofo, he’s receding” It reminds me to not settle for men I don’t find attractive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 11 | Never leave your home without a big bill tucked in somewhere that has the sole purpose of getting you back home safely.A year ago I went to a city I was unfamiliar with for a job interview, I didn’t really look at the bus route in detail and assumed apple pay / card would work on all buses I was wrong, luckily I had a spare fiver in my wallet and that covered one of the buses there and back which only accepted cash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:22 PM |
| 92 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!This reminded me An ugly toxic ex guy friend tried to tell me my current bf (before he was my bf) was ugly When in reality my bf is highly attractive and had everything the toxic friend lacked eg hair, youth, 6 pack, beard that connects, and my attention XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 14 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!PREACH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.That’s so scary omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 4 | How to talk to men😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Instagram Influencers / Youtubers promote pickmeisha cultureSame, I feel so bad for kavon, he gets neglected and palmed off a lot, I’d be surprised if Naz and mel stay married Because he seems low key abusive and she seems to have resentment towards him for it I also can’t believe Mel doesn’t contribute financially at all and Naz allows it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Instagram Influencers / Youtubers promote pickmeisha cultureHer husband is a bum, there’s a whole discord chat dedicated to roasting her husband and her pick me ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:11 PM |
| 82 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?I’d joke to my friends I want the triple 6 6foot 6inches 6pack and I’d be willing to overlook one of those if he made 6figs XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:58 AM |
| 8 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?I’m a groomed beard/muscular/nice smelling/six pack kinda gal, bonus points if dark haired with olive skin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:56 AM |
| 42 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”Exactly, and then he called me shallow XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:12 AM |
| 60 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”I told a guy once that he wasn’t my type and physical attraction was important to me I said it matter of factly he got butthurt over it, Even though he told me himself he considers himself a 3/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:03 AM |
| 6 | Would love to flip this around and ask sons of fathers who visited prostitutes, how do you feel about what your father did?I’ve seen this documentary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:32 AM |
| 6 | Beware the Aladdin TrapYou sound like you’re living your best life :) Also what is classpass because it sounds so cool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:02 AM |
| 30 | Not surprised scrotes were defending this obvious predator in the comments...Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:57 AM |
| 10 | Chinese dad makes beautiful dresses for daughter; the dad is adorable, the daughter is adorable, and the dresses are adorable! From the South China Morning Post YouTube channelMaybe the girl chose those styles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 06:18 AM |
| 16 | He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children.Is this the same couple that pranks each other? I saw a video where they have a little girl maybe age 3 and the parents think it’s funny to smack her head with talcum powder as the prank It wasn’t funny at all and downright abuse imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:26 AM |
| 2 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).The ruching makes it worse XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:22 AM |
| 2 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).Loool 35 bucks really How embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:19 AM |
| 55 | Patron saint of women who don’t want to talk to you on public transitI just remembered a few months ago, I was at a crossing waiting to cross, and I don’t like to cross till the green man appears (unless it’s obviously quiet and no cars will come), and this huge fat man dressed in religious attire on the opposite side was talking on the phone loudly and then shouts at me to say “there’s no cars cross”, I ignored him and waited for the green man, and then when I crossed over I heard him call me “stupid and blind”, I was so mad, I just kept walking because I had wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | I just realised that best looking guy I was ever with never negged me...Glad you said no 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:37 AM |
| 5 | I made a post on the exm sub and one of the commenters proceeded to share this (link) https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/comments/f5f015/anyone_dated_or_even_married_someone_from_this_sub/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmfExactly 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:13 PM |
| 9 | I made a post on the exm sub and one of the commenters proceeded to share this (link) https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/comments/f5f015/anyone_dated_or_even_married_someone_from_this_sub/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmfhttps://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/comments/f5f015/anyone_dated_or_even_married_someone_from_this_sub/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 53 | I just realised that best looking guy I was ever with never negged me...Been there, ugly ass men are so shallow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | How to protect your financial future when considering marriage to a man.Thank you so much, This is really helpful :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:14 AM |
| 10 | LVM think women are stupid.Yes omg your last sentence, so so true xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:11 AM |
| 8 | How to protect your financial future when considering marriage to a man.Few questions What about student loan debt? Also what if he makes only a little bit less because of the career path he’s chosen? But otherwise is a great guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:26 PM |
| 4 | Don't compromise food (cooking or ordering) for a man!Keep going, you’ve got this 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:16 PM |
| 29 | I’ve never related more to a tweet in my life 🤣Same But I’m keeping my standards high and my legs closed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:50 PM |
| 18 | Don't compromise food (cooking or ordering) for a man!OMG yes I had a co worker who said she gained weight whilst dating her ex because all he wanted to do was eat junk food in bed and watch shows at home After breaking up with him she joined the gym 💪🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:42 PM |
| 9 | In 2020, the pickmes are... uh, I guess bragging about how their husbands never wear their wedding bands?Question What if husband doesn’t have a ring, for eg my dad never got a ring from my mom or wedding band Or should the woman make sure the guy has a ring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:57 PM |
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