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| 133 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I am | Lifestyle | ApocalypticBroccoli | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Videos of pickup through smart glasses | Resources | ApocalypticBroccoli | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 12:45 AM |
| 5 | success rate drops when I open my mouth | Outer Game | ApocalypticBroccoli | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 01:00 AM |
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| 1 | success rate drops when I open my mouthI dodged that for three reasons: It's all context dependent. I don't use canned lines anymore, haven't in years. I don't think a sterile written transcript of the words I spoke would convey the interaction accurately. I can think of several successful pickup attempts that went over really really well, but if you handed somebody a typewritten transcript of the words I spoke without any vocal inflection, facial expressions, body language, etc, it would read back as totally creepy. And yet it went … | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:03 PM |
| 1 | success rate drops when I open my mouthWell, I certainly didn't mean it that way. At least, not towards you. I am pretty passively aggressively opposed to the fact that the Reddit hivemind has a few topics that it's obsessed with and which derail every discussion as soon as anybody touches them. Autism is one of them. Height is another one. It's really tiresome. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 02:58 PM |
| 2 | success rate drops when I open my mouthEye contact is easy for me, it's my strong suit. Although I would not describe myself as "quick witted", I can ramble easily to avoid awkward silence. Or be silent to create tension at the right time. I appreciate your comment; unfortunately because of it I had to delete this post. It's going to turn this entire discussion into a pissing contest about autism. You have a point though, Reddit is probably the wrong place for me to ask this. SoSuave is probably a better venue. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | success rate drops when I open my mouthWords. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 01:13 AM |
| 1 | success rate drops when I open my mouthYou seem to think I wrote that what I say is least important. I didn't write that. Nor do I believe it. What people say and how they say it is incredibly important, but I'm good on that front. Good presence, good confidence, not needy/thirsty. If you think otherwise, come up with a test. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 01:11 AM |
| 1 | success rate drops when I open my mouthNo I think what you're saying is probably the highest issue not the least....lmao. I think you misread what I posted. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 01:08 AM |
| 12 | marriedIt'll open your eyes to reality. Please elaborate. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 02:33 AM |
| 11 | Is it true that Arizona universities have the wildest college parties?It's Arizona in general. ASU just happens to be located in Arizona. Something about the heat and low humidity makes the women hypersexual. This is what the middle east was like before Mohammad; when you think about that Islam makes a lot more sense. Also, it's really uncomfortable to (a) be fat here or (b) wear lots of clothes here. So all the women are fit and running around half-naked. You'll find prettier faces in LA but hotter bodies and higher libido in AZ. Vegas is similar but it's a much … | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 03:10 AM |
| 1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amYou didn’t even message me. Because you're a man. | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amHrm really? I have heard a lot about Miami, I believe that. Tampa though? | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:13 PM |
| 0 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amAnd yet, no pics. You're a man. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:12 PM |
| 1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amEven the late-30s/early-40s women? | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:11 PM |
| 4 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amExpanding on that: If she totally avoids eye contact leave her alone, she doesn't want to be bothered. If you lock eyes for less than a full second, take a shot at her, but don't take it too hard if you crash out. Think of these girls as practice. You need lots of practice. If you lock eyes for a full second you should expect to get digits. If you lock eyes for three full seconds she wants to fuck right now. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I am"I wanna play a game of jenga" This is actually really good. There's something cryptically sexual about that game, without being overt. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:08 PM |
| 4 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amBecause there are no old people in Florida at all, right? /s | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:06 PM |
| 0 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amNot anymore. All the fit women my age are catfishing with 10-year-old photos of themselves. Tinder allows and encourages this. Wading through all the catfishes is a huge waste of time. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:04 PM |
| -1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amI'm not screening out married women. All of them cheat. But they don't take care of their bodies. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 07:02 PM |
| 5 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amTo be fair it is kinda disturbing how much they like it when I make them call me "daddy". If you haven't tried this yet you should. You'll be surprised. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 06:01 AM |
| 6 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amEye contact. Look for eye contact. She'll call you over with her eyes. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:58 AM |
| -5 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amSo, out of whose ass exactly? | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:54 AM |
| 1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amit's like they say: pics or gtfo also, username implies you're a man | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:52 AM |
| 4 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amSame places. Just talk to them. It's not hard. Flirt a bit, ask for their phone number. Text them and invite them to get drinks. If this sounds implausible to you it's because you're imagining the average "man in mid-40s". That guy will crash and burn. I have all my hair, I'm in better shape than most of these girls' classmates, I dress well and I don't let my musical/cultural tastes go stale. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:38 AM |
| 10 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amThe hack is this: you can troll and agitate redditors by harping on height. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:37 AM |
| 5 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amPark, grocery store, gym, mall, outdoor concerts, bookstores, restaurants, or just walking down the street... it's not hard to find fit 20somethings. The fit late-30s/early-40s are the ones I don't know where to find. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 04:45 AM |
| -1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amDon't know whose ass you pulled the number 1000 out of. Maybe you stumbled into the wrong thread. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 04:41 AM |
| 3 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amNo, the apps have been useless for about four years now. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 03:10 AM |
| 10 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amAlways in person. Apps were great four years ago; now they're a scam and a waste of time. Move near a university. Don't try to pick them up on campus, that's tacky. But you'll see them all over the place like 2-3 blocks from campus. Go to a gym that's near campus. Go running in a park that's near campus. You'll meet tons of them. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:52 AM |
| 10 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amWhen I say "date" I mean drinks. We bounce between three bars, then I take her home. I've had great success with this strategy. Honestly I have not had success with "hey wanna go back to my place" right after I just met her. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:50 AM |
| 4 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amYes. They do weird shit like the waitress just completely ignoring us until I get up and walk over to her to ask for the check. Or the waiter will ask my date for her phone number right in front of me and then say "I'm assuming you're her dad, right?" It's like the normal expectations of human politeness disappear if you're an age-gap couple in a liberal town. Probably the same as being a mixed-race couple in the deep south 50 years ago. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:49 AM |
| 9 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amThis is why I moved to Arizona. It's too hot here to be fat. LA may have prettier faces, but the women in Scottsdale and Downtown Tempe have hotter bodies. Because being overweight here is really really unpleasant. Downtown Tempe is extra awesome because you can get around without a car (can't do that in Scottsdale) so the thermal penalty for fatness is even worse. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:46 AM |
| 1 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amFrankly I think he's trolling. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:41 AM |
| 5 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amI've heard this elsewhere. Not a big fan of humid places (spent a few months last summer in West Palm) but I'll give it a shot. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 01:23 AM |
| 22 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amWelp so much for trying to hide my location. Really trying to find a solution to this problem that doesn't involve "move to Scottsdale". | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 01:09 AM |
| 8 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amThe stares and rude comments don't bother me but they bother the girls. Also, although I can pull 25yo girls now easily, in a decade I probably won't be able to. Now seems like a good time to get used to dating fit 35yo women. I just can't seem to find any. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 12:58 AM |
| 12 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amGee you are just a barrel of sunshine now aren't you! But seriously, there's kind of an unwritten rule that women over 35 can date any age. I expect to be dating 35 year olds when I'm 55. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 12:43 AM |
| 21 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amusername checks out | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 11:50 PM |
| 13 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amI think you wandered into the wrong subreddit. Try moreplatesmoredates. The boys over there will take care of you. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 11:32 PM |
| 23 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amYeah pilates / workout classes have been my plan. Waiting two more weeks for an injury to heal before I can do that. The run clubs around here are all 20somethings. Not just the women but the guys too. So I definitely look out of place. I've never seen a run club with people over 35; how do you find them? Tons of 20s run clubs, those are easy to find... just show up at any public park around sunset. maybe go to a body building competition Well, I'm not looking for guys. And I'm not "swole" (and … | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | High SMV but struggling with the "Tourist Time Crunch" in a major European city. How do you escalate before she leaves?This. If you're going after tourists, you have to be going for same-night lay. They're on vacation; they'll go for it if they like you. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 11:14 PM |
| 5 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amYeah but are the 35-40yo women fit? If they are, maybe we should swap apartments for a few weeks. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 11:04 PM |
| -3 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amHey man thanks but... you think I haven't thought of that? I would if I could but it's a liberal town. After two venue changes the odds of an awkward confrontation are basically 100%. And like I said, I can brush it off but the girls can't. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 11:00 PM |
| 2 | If there's no way to actually date women who aren't attracted to you; aren't incels and looksmaxxers kinda... right? :|There is nothing misogynistic about looksmaxxing. Heck women do it too. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 11:58 PM |
| -6 | Gym baddies…how toNo, you come across as an orbiter. LJBF. Look you have to make your sexual intentions and interest known — usually nonverbally — the first time you speak to a girl. Otherwise you’ll just be swimming upstream trying to get out of the friendzone. And the gym is a sacred space in a certain sense. Women get to prance around in tights and bend over right in front of your face, and you get to enjoy that. Very much like a nude coed sauna, but tolerable to American prudishness. You get to experiment and… | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 05:27 AM |
| -5 | Gym baddies…how toDon’t approach at the gym. American gyms are like German saunas. | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 03:38 PM |
| 1 | all men have the same problems?This question is regarded | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 06:35 AM |
| 29 | Should I approach women who are checking me out?Yes but not with that line. It puts them on t he e defensive. Honestly the only time that line works is if they weren’t checking you out (and you deliver it with a lot of swagger). Also don’t approach at the gym, even if the women are checking you out. American gyms are like German saunas that way. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Weird eye contact pattern I’ve noticed while walking aroundNormally I would post some kind of witty comeback about how “brain damage” is the opposite of a pedestal, but today I’ll settle for being honored that Woujo responded to one of my comments. However: wen book, dawg? Still waiting for it. | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 05:45 PM |
| 15 | Weird eye contact pattern I’ve noticed while walking aroundThe 10s are neurotic and fucked up in the head. The 9s are usually really sweet, nice people. It’s pretty night and day. Always being the hottest girl in every room, all the time, causes some kind of brain damage. 10s are never worth it. | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Feeling jadedThere are a few of us, a very very few, who have been on both sides. | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Feeling jadedPresidents are a better example. With one exception (Jimmy Carter) all US presidents in the modern era have been 6 feet or taller, rounding to the nearest inch. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heights_of_presidents_and_presidential_candidates_of_the_United_States | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Feeling jaded> The looks themself don’t help that much. How would you know? You’ve always had them. It’s like asking a fish about water. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Feeling jadedI’m a good looking guy and I can tell you while it does help and you aren’t totally wrong it helps wayyyyyyy less than you think. How would you know? Very few people have gone through a truly radical change in appearance, like from being a 5 to being an 8. Experiencing that will make you jaded about humanity. It’s the price you pay (on top of all the money and the physical pain), and you pay it for the rest of your life. Honestly everybody else is like colorblind people arguing about paintings. … | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 04:29 PM |
| 30 | Girls smell your insecurity BEFORE you open your mouthOr they can sense it and are attracted to dark triad traits. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 04:21 PM |
| -2 | Girls smell your insecurity BEFORE you open your mouthEr, not really. They have a very acute ability to sense insecurity. A friend of mine has perfect pitch (he can hear a note and tell you it’s C# in the such-and-such octave). He has a very acute ability to sense sound. That’s way cool but acknowledging his unique skill doesn’t put him on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Girls smell your insecurity BEFORE you open your mouthYou forgive your friends, not your lovers. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 0 | How to open naturally in everyday normal situations?“I like your energy.” | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Red Flags Advice“Asking me about red flags is the biggest red flag” | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 50s than my 30s))lamo at “women around [36yo] don’t want to just hook up” you are hanging out with the wrong women. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 50s than my 30s))I get laid way more in my 40s than I did in my 20s. Probably because grad school consumed my entire life back then. But the dividends pay out eventually. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 50s than my 30s))No way dude, have you heard about the chlamydia rates at retirement homes? Old retired unmarried people fuck like rabbits now that we have viagra. They have nothing else to do all day. Not saying you should wait around to be old to have sex… young pussy is always more fun… but old peoples’ sex lives are a lot more interesting than you’ve been led to believe. Unless they’re married of course. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 08:37 AM |
| -1 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sWon’t go outside? | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sYou have to be successful. Not necessarily money, although that is one sign of success. In your 20s all the guys are unripe, women can’t tell who will be successful, so it doesn’t matter. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Have a girl thats super into me, but I need to know how to keep her like this.Why? | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 07:52 PM |
| 2 | i like her body but not necessarily her face. should i still date her?Paper bag. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 07:42 AM |
| 4 | What's your default opener for situations where there isn't enough time to think and take in to account unique circumstances?“Hey I like your energy. What’s your name?” | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 04:40 AM |
| 86 | How often do you work out?Every day. Biggest ego boost in a while was having a girl tell me “your abs are fire” right after sex. If you get ripped, try cowgirl more often. She gets a better view. Especially if you grab her hips; it’s basically flexing your deltoids and biceps/triceps. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Need advice with bullshit and banterSimply not being fazed isn’t going to get you laid. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Need advice with bullshit and banterYou have missed the point. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Need advice with bullshit and banterIt’s not worrying any more than a chess player “worries” about what move his opponent makes next. You don’t have to be afraid of upsetting her. You do need to know ahead of time if what you’re about to say will upset her. Quite often the right move is to say it anyways. But if you are blindsided by her reaction it won’t end well. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Need advice with bullshit and banterThis attitude is what gave us the batshit-crazy woke phenomenon of the mid-2010s-to-early-2020s. Most people thought it was bullshit, but it was in nobody’s individual interest to stand up to it in social situations. At some point you need to start respecting other men who have the integrity and clout to stand up to the BS. If enough men do this, genuine integrity becomes an alpha signal and gets these guys laid. And then others imitate that. This phenomenon, played out in elite circles by peopl… | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Need advice with bullshit and banterOTOH being able to manage other people’s emotions is basically 100% of social status. There’s no trick for this. You simply have to have a larger part of your brain devoted to emulating other people’s thought processes and thinking a step ahead of them. Politicians select for this. But Algernon’s Principle strikes here: no free lunch. If most of your brain and time is devoted to this you’ll be popular but not particularly good at anything else. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Between October 2023 and June 2024, I got over 40 numbers and since then I've gotten over 100. Every single one has ghosted me. I'm starting to think there is a problem with ME.There are no beautiful women at Walmart. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 07:34 AM |
| 35 | Instagram or Phone Number?Number. IG is a tool that women use to manage their flocks of beta orbiters. That’s not me. Signal if she’s smart. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 07:31 AM |
| 1 | I asked my date after it went sideways on what went wrongPost cock stats. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 06:38 AM |
| 178 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?Basically never. They don’t bother with approach, they just start sucking my dick in the dancefloor. It’s really annoying I wish they would make bullshit small talk first. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Office Work Environment is all FemalesYeah but the post about shitting on your countertop is way mo’ eloquent. Save ur upvotes for that guy. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 03:37 PM |
| 6 | Office Work Environment is all FemalesHit on the other women in the elevators, not the ones you work with. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 03:26 PM |
| 10 | Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You….Dude you have missed the point. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You….This is the best explanation I’ve seen yet. Like humor as an attempt to break the awkwardness they are feeling. Yeah that lines up. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 03:36 AM |
| 36 | Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You….Yeah guys totally get the brain freeze / loss for words thing but I don’t turn silly around gorgeous women. Just dumb. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 03:35 AM |
| 37 | Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You….No, it’s the attraction. You can have all the masculine frame in the world, but this behavior change we’ve noticed doesn’t happen if, for example, you’re not her type. Eg imagine a woman who has deeply ingrained biases from her upbringing about what race she’s attracted to. Of course masculine frame helps you be more attractive, but it’s the attraction that causes this not the frame. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 03:30 AM |
| 24 | Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You….Yep best I can describe it is like the way a happy dog acts. Normally women act like cats. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 03:25 AM |
| -5 | No-nonsense dating app pickup line to secure a date within a day or twoLeave the apps; the only women on there are damaged somehow. Think about it: women prefer shopping at a mall to shopping online. They like to see the guy 360 live in person, hear his voice, etc before committing to a date. My last (ever) app date was stunningly gorgeous and flirty as hell. An hour in she casually dropped the fact that she’s a diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic and hears voices. Asked to come home with me. Hell no. These are the only women who actually date on apps. Normal chicks d… | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 07:07 AM |
| -3 | How to naturally become more dominant?Tren. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 02:57 AM |
| 13 | Co worker keeps getting me brickedHire a good sexual harassment attorney. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:56 PM |
| 0 | 'Monk mode' will ruin your life. It'll forever keep you in "I'm not ready yet" attitude.Dirac, Tesla, Gödel, and more all disagree. It depends on what you’re trying to do with your life at this particular time. If you have no greater goal than racking up body count, sure. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:28 PM |
| 3 | How should I go about trying to hook up in a car or hotel on a date without coming off as weird ?Bang her in the alley. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Green and red flags to watch for in behavior and family history if you are looking for a lifetime partnerLDS in the EU must be tough. They have this concept of an “indigenous religion” that yours doesn’t qualify for over there. At least, as my German friends explained it to me. You need to move to the US. Doesn’t have to be Utah; anywhere between the two mountain ranges (Rockies and Sierras/Cascades) except Vegas and Phoenix will have tons of Mormons. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 01:21 AM |
| 3 | I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6sHaving a 5 on your arm will make it a zillion times easier to get interest from a 6. And so on. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like?There will always be outlier anecdotes. The studies’ averages get thrown off by the fact that there are a shit ton of people who are both stupid and ugly. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 09:48 PM |
| 14 | Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like?they live in an alternate reality where everything comes easy and they can be choosy. The cruel part is that they all get ejected from this alternate reality somewhere between 30 and 40. And it completely breaks them. When you’re older, what you want is a woman who had the opposite experience: grew up as the ugly duckling, then became beautiful after her personality developed. These are super-rare but I suspect that GLP-1s will produce a lot of them for one generation. I’m looking forward to it,… | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 09:35 PM |
| 23 | Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like?This is why 9s are the sweet spot. Some if them have these problems too, but a lot of them don’t. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 09:29 PM |
| 24 | So Basically The Game Comes Down To Preselection…That is true but that is not what preselection means. Preselection means that a woman is attracted to men who have already been selected by other women. Like how a wedding ring paradoxically makes you more attractive to cheat with. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Honest question about a dating double standard I keep noticingUnless the guy is hawt and then nothing feels icky. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 02:26 PM |
| 81 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexSo she’s telling you she will fuck you but only after you wash your ass? | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Tonight I'm going out with 7 hot chicks. Any tips?Grow six extra dicks, pronto. | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Did seduction change over the years?Women have always been the deciders when it comes to sex. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 06:10 PM |
| 4 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?The final lesson. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 05:33 AM |
| 2 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?Women already know this and understand what’s going on. That has not been my experience at all. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 05:08 AM |
| 5 | What Are Some Misconceptions That You Learned About The Dating Game?They don’t have options for relationships with guys they really want. This is true, but none of them ever figure it out. Literally all of them go through their entire lives denying it. So it’s kind of an unhelpful fact. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Videos of pickup through smart glassesMy question was where to find videos like this. I didn’t ask if he is a passport bro, nor for your “inner game” advice. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 03:30 PM |
| -1 | Videos of pickup through smart glassesHi, answering your question would require more text than you’re likely to read. And more than I am willing to write here considering how badly every comment except yours has completely misrepresented and misunderstood my request. But I can say this: it’s not so I can imitate their techniques. I have a hypothesis that I want to test. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 03:28 PM |
| -10 | Videos of pickup through smart glassesAlright fine other PUAs then. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 05:02 AM |
| -16 | Videos of pickup through smart glassesI never said I was having trouble finding articles or his name…. Are you a chatbot? | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 02:04 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma hereMatch Group payrollee ⬆️ | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Keep getting rejected at the club by her friendIt’s actually a very rational female sexual strategy. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Keep getting rejected at the club by her friendThat will not work. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting rejected at the club by her friendIf one of the women is like +2 (or a very solid +1) hotter than the other you can be sure the dynamic won’t be competitive. Usually pairs like this have known each other a long time, and one got a bit better looking but not enough to destabilize the friendship. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Keep getting rejected at the club by her friendMystery Method is dated and a bit corny, but his big insight was that you have to learn how to approach groups of girls, because women looking to fuck almost always bring their friends with for a second opinion. Read his stuff, but don’t give too much weight to anything other than his insight about “sets”. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Short dry spell advice“Special needs”? | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 10:09 PM |
| 30 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?😂 | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 02:47 AM |
| 50 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?Yeah don’t ask don’t tell works best. If I asked, like OP, I doubt I would get the truth. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 01:59 AM |
| 341 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?Or maybe they just aren’t telling you the truth. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you balance being yourself and altering aspects of yourself to win?Altering myself in order to win is one of my core personality traits. “You want to know how I did it, Vincent? Here’s how I did it: I never saved anything for the swim back.” | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is Misandry slowly dying?Their annual budget was $40 billion (source: WSJ) and their stated mission was making grants, so it’s very safe to assume they handed out at least half their budget. That’s $200 billion per decade and over a trillion (in 2023 dollars) over the agency’s lifetime. The scale of this monster was truly staggering. There is a reason why it was literally the first thing DOGE went after, the day after inauguration. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/02/26 06:38 PM |
| 5 | When a girl asks for your Instagram while texting, is that a shit test?Wow I didn’t know Mark Zuckerberg read this subreddit! Cool! | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Is Misandry slowly dying?I dunno about centuries. Maybe since the New Deal. But it certainly hit a growth spurt around 2014-2022. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/02/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Is Misandry slowly dying?Broader societal trends are impacted by the media. If you don’t agree with this then we are on very different wavelengths. When an American agency dumps hundreds of billions of dollars of no-strings-attached cash into otherwise-unprofitable journalistic outlets, it impacts the media. Transitive property of impact, QED. It’s not complicated. Corruption corrupts. I know people who were feeding off the USAID largesse, and spending their days pushing extremely questionable agendas while contributing… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/02/26 05:58 PM |
| 6 | When a girl asks for your Instagram while texting, is that a shit test?Everybody has a phone number, ask for it. If she has Signal I put in extra effort. 🧠=🔥 | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Is Misandry slowly dying?Definitely not dying, but it’s stopped growing. Maybe retreating a tiny bit. Why? Because USAID got fed into the wood chipper. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/02/26 06:20 AM |
| 45 | When a girl asks for your Instagram while texting, is that a shit test?This. IG is for orbiters and the women they orbit. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Looking to get back in casual dating - how to proceedIt is way way worse than 2x. Try 20x if you’re counting active profiles. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 06:18 PM |
| 30 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?Including Tyler Durden. | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 12:59 AM |
| 16 | Guys who focused on career/ambition in college - when did women actually start caring about that?It happens when the woman’s beauty starts to fade. Usually 29-31. But it’s different for every girl. It’s called “hitting the wall”. The cruel part is that it never happens until she’s lost her beauty. Don’t get married. | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone remember this Ross Jeffries birthday pattern?Damn that is some ooooooooold school PUA right there. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Huge influx of fake profiles on TinderI’m literally a bot and you are both attacking me. | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Huge influx of fake profiles on TinderAnd yet you keep swiping. | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 06:49 AM |
| 1 | First date with an ENM woman. Not sure how I did.Dude you gotta move out of your wife’s garage. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 06:28 AM |
| 18 | What is the best career to choose where you can "game more often"Bartender. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 07:40 AM |
| 38 | What’s the Best Way to Avoid Relationship Energy When You Only Want Casual?Dude you ramble too much. Half of this post is totally irrelevant to your question. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 07:05 PM |
| 5 | This is the main reason I am frustrated with online datingYep this is why the apps are unusable. The AI face-scanning fad currently underway won’t change that; the scammers already know how to use open-source video face swappers like DeepFaceLive. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 04:59 AM |
| 3 | This is the main reason I am frustrated with online datingAll of them. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 04:58 AM |
| 36 | Tall girls are an untapped resourceIf her legs are longer than yours your toes can use her toes for leverage during doggie style. So glad I discovered this by accident. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 03:12 AM |
| 14 | How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles?This | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 03:53 AM |
| 4 | How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles?Yes they drag your sense of humor down to their level. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 03:52 AM |
| 17 | 25 Pleighboi Principles: All the things that womanizers do (that other guys don't)AI slop | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with?It’s much simpler than that. Actions speak louder than words. If you push for monogamy, it’s clear that she is the best you can do. No woman wants that. They want a guy who can do better than them. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 10:47 PM |
| 2 | I tried mode 1 on a college campus todayIt’s creepy | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 05:20 AM |
| 22 | I tried mode 1 on a college campus todayDude you are a 40yo wandering around a college campus approaching women there? Super super creepy. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 05:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you actually flirt sexually without coming off creepy or too aggressive?⬆️⬆️⬆️ Best reply in the whole thread. And the only one that really answers the question. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 03:15 AM |
| 3 | FWB but I’m confused on where it’s going…It means that writing one huge paragraph is annoying. Please use paragraph breaks. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 05:26 AM |
| 4 | FWB but I’m confused on where it’s going…Your relationship is headed towards paragraph breaks. I can feel it. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | WHY GAME WORKSAI slop | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 11:19 PM |
| 3 | How to 'game' intentional, reserved, relationship-focused women?These women don’t want sex. Just skip past them. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Where should a man move too in the USA if he wants the best dating opportunities? Curious about Miami Florida.Try Phoenix. I moved here from Western Washington and life is way better. Much friendlier, happier people. The construction quality of buildings here is way better because no earthquakes so stuff is made of stone instead of flimsy-ass plywood everywhere. Go visit your friends in WA during “opposite winter” — the three months when it is brutally hot, which are exactly the same three months when Western WA is not gloomy. Phoenix has a great airport, probably my favorite in the US — very well-run, … | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 05:01 AM |
| 13 | Say they don't have social media but gave me their number/asked for mine insteadSounds like this girl values her mental health more than most people do these days. Good for her. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | (M18) I am into older women, but I don't know how to and where to find them.Cougar casualty | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | (M18) I am into older women, but I don't know how to and where to find them.TBF there are few or no older (45+) fit women on Tinder. Tons of under 30 fit women. I just want somebody who takes care of their body like I do… is that too much to ask? Hinge is for getting married not into that. | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | No success on dating apps and little to no success in the wild.Gym gym gym | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 12:07 AM |
| 10 | I Made Duolingo for SeductionThe better to blackmail you with, my darling. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I Made Duolingo for SeductionNeat! Any chance you could allow iOS 17 instead of requiring 18? Some of us don’t want the AI bloat. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I need help seducing this older womanNews flash: old people have sex. A lot of it, in fact. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I need help seducing this older womanOh yes. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Should one get Premium Dating Apps?? Why or Why Not? If So, Which One??Wait how do women “take” money from Tinder subscriptions? I’ve never heard of women getting paid by Tinder. Onlyfans, otoh… | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are such a mixed bagFake/zombie profiles are a huge percentage. Tinder is what like 12 years old? Plenty of time to collect those. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in seductionYes. And I own more than half of my employer’s stock shares. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Woman sleeps over and I never hear from her againYou move on. There is no other move; at least not involving texting. If you can somehow manage to run into her, without it looking like you tried to make it happen, then maybe. But there is no text message which can be sent which will improve your position. BTW the comment you’re replying to is pure gold. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 10:51 PM |
| 1 | 19m here. Is it normal to not cum during sex?Mirrors dude you need mirrors. Go to Walmart and ask for a “floor mirror”. It stands up. Put it next to the bed. Then when you’re fucking her, grab a handful of hair and pull back. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | She falls in love quicklyNothing wrong with daddy issues. Next time you’re balls deep in her, ask her “who’s your daddy?” If she answers, she’s a keeper. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in seductionRuin how, exactly? I’m not married or even cheating on anyone. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps in seduction? | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Age gaps in seductionMen age like wine… Also age gap implies not serious. Paradoxically it’s less commitment/risk for the girl. She knows it’s just fun and you’re not gonna propose to her. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever experienced a random dude interrupt and hit on your date?Pour a drink on the guys shirt. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it a coincidence that the women I treat like a second thought, generally care more about me than those I apply pressure on?They certainly have free will but…. | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Do most pickup artists struggle to form deep connections beyond hookups?Picking up women, I guess? | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsOP hasn’t been a teen for a decade | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?No comment on the religious angle I’m not qualified there. Hard disagree otherwise on the saving face bit. You lose face. If you don’t have many options, lower your standards until you do. Paradoxically this will (over time) make you more attractive and let you raise your standards above where they were. | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 03:44 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate? At what point do you ask to kiss/shag and how?aaaand …. crickets. It’s not “lame Af”. But asking about her favorite movie kiss scene is better. | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | YSK: Unmatch girls on Tinder a bit after you have their contact details or go on a dateThey call it clown world for a reason | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?The problem is that women can’t lower their expectations. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?Why stick around for the hope of sex when you can bolt and find a gal who urgently wants actual sex? | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?You’re probably gonna get a lot of toxic feminist bs here. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:15 AM |
| 0 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?No this just shows that you can control yourself around guys of his attractiveness level. It proves nothing about the fact that you will drop panties on command for a 6’5” musclebound guy with blue eyes and a strong jawline. So basically it’s useless. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?That will weed out all the men sure. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:11 AM |
| 13 | If a woman putting her pinky in your waistband is top tier physical seduction, what is the equivalent for men?Dude, not smart. Imagine the revenge she will take once your schlong is between her lips. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 02:09 AM |
| 0 | I want a gym girl but it’s very difficult to getIt is a test. Always. Every time. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 08:02 PM |
| 0 | I want a gym girl but it’s very difficult to getNope. If she wants you she wants you and she will fuck you and none of that has anything to do with her boyfriend. Even if she doesn’t have a boyfriend she will still say she has one to frame test you. Do you slither away in fear of this imaginary Chad? No fucks for you. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I want a gym girl but it’s very difficult to getYes, my point was that there are almost no situations where approaching at the gym is a good idea. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyYes. Getting snipped is by far the most reliable form of birth control. FAR more reliable than the pill. And you can still have kids. Vasectomy simply means that pregnancies must start the way they (usually) end: in a hospital, under medical supervision. Artificial insemination still works. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/25 05:32 AM |
| 0 | I want a gym girl but it’s very difficult to getTemperature dude temperature. Being overweight in Arizona is so physically uncomfortable that people either lose weight or leave. This is definitely not true in Colorado. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Women in open marriage wants to have sex with meBecause make rules for betas break rules for alphas, duh | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 12:59 AM |
| -1 | I want a gym girl but it’s very difficult to getMove someplace with hot weather, like Phoenix. Even the ugly girls here are fit. Which means that basically 100% of the women here are attractive. It’s heaven if you like fit girls and keep your end of the bargain. PS “I have a boyfriend” is a frame test. Whether it’s true or not is irrelevant. Slay that shit next time. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | I want a gym girl but it’s very difficult to getI don’t think approaches at the gym are such a great idea. Approaching a girl during her workout is kinda like approaching a girl who’s working in some customer facing job. Unless you’re 1000% sure she’s into you, you’ll come across as cornering her. But there is no way to get that level of certainty without losing frame. Two exceptions: definitely approach if she’s running outdoors, or very obviously in the process of leaving the gym. That way you don’t come across as trying to “corner” her — s… | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 12:21 AM |
| 2 | How to handle a girl that seems to play this game.Borderline personality? | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 12:15 AM |
| 6 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?You kiss her somewhere semipublic, like right before she gets in her car to go home. The kiss is where you simultaneously make your case and she gives her answer (nonverbally of course). By the end of the kiss her answer is obvious so you don’t have to ask the question. Just say “come on let’s go back to my place” and she will. If you can’t get a kiss from her in public she ain’t coming back to your place. | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 03:33 AM |
| 4 | Women want to vicariously experience your worldThe problem is that most social media profiles are fake or at best misleading. If you can’t fix that (and you can’t) then avoiding it is in fact a better strategy than using it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/25 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Women want to vicariously experience your worldHow do I get notified whenever it is ready? Will buy a copy. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/25 02:14 AM |
| 6 | Women want to vicariously experience your worldHoly shit that movie confused the heck out of me (although I could appreciate parts of it). Now it makes total sense. OP, forget this Game/RedPill nonsense, you were born to be a film critic. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/25 02:10 AM |
| 10 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?you need to wow her with a mctwist tripple cork humpy hoop flipping jackhammer flip fist. I was totally secure in my masculinity until I read this and realized I have no idea what it is. I am feeling very insecure now. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 01:56 AM |
| 60 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?They love this shit. If you are not strong enough to do this, get strong enough. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular seduction opinion: numbers game is so bad.Quarterbacks disagree. | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid)Solution: give your phone to an autistic child. Then give the child sedatives. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 08:41 AM |
| 0 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?Day Game, Night Game, and now Fent Game. Strange days indeed. | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?The homeless fentanyl addict drooling on the trash dumpster defo gives zero fucks. Does he have rizzle rizz? | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 05:35 AM |
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