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Scarcity is challenging to get over because in my early 20s I developed the idea that men’s self worth depends on whether or not you can attract women. It’s hard to get over because there’s always weak men with red pill mindsets who project their insecurities like this into other men
/r/ExRedPill05/07/24 08:57 PM
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Yea it’s been a year since I dated due to my financial and living situation made it so I don’t ever have time to.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/24 04:01 PM
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It’s a lot of “A” unfortunately I think. My last relationship with a woman wasn’t really positive but most of my relationships whether they’re intimate or platonic were usually positive other than the last one. It could be both tho
/r/ExRedPill03/07/24 09:33 PM
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This is pretty spot on. I’ve had multiple therapists strongly suggest I have ADHD (or add). If they’re kind to me I assume they’re the person I’m going to marry. It goes by the same for me because I know that just because they’re nice to me doesn’t mean they’re goi g to be my next partner but the feelings I get from being validated cause me to think that maybe I’d be open to trying something out with them. The back and fourth between this often leads to me overthinking these relationships and ev…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/24 08:15 PM
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Not every time but just in longer conversations with someone. I usually ignore it and move on
/r/ExRedPill03/07/24 07:24 PM
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Nah. Nothing beats getting off your phone and actually trying to talk to women. You don’t need someone trying to sell a course to tell you how to do that.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/24 03:30 AM
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Feminism is an achievement of the western world and if we’re really being honest red pill appeals to cultures where a lack of sophistication and intelligence is the norm.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 07:22 AM
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No it’s not
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 05:35 AM
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How is it not?
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 01:38 AM
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I’m talking about the lack of meaningful experience. I have very little experience and the relationship and intimate experience I have wasn’t satisfying. I understand that some women won’t mind but I really think it comes down to fearing intimacy and commitment. The latter especially since I’ve moved 4 times since moving out of my parents and while I consider moving back in with my folks again to get my financials back up, I’d be in the town they live in for only about a year and if my partner d…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 12:39 AM
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I haven’t dated in about a year. The woman I was seeing was a bad influence and when I moved out of my parents and into a new town I didn’t even say goodbye. I had some bad habits during that “relationship” and since then my method of meeting pple was the same way I met that person - going to bars and doing coke in the bathroom with random women - not very sustainable. That said, career is a much bigger focus than dating at the moment but at the same time I’d expect women to always go with a guy…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 07:37 PM
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I have social skills and it’s not like I haven’t or don’t do these things. I literally get to do what I love(music) for a part time living for example Like I said I have tried dating/seeing people before. It’s now a matter of if the people who I surround myself with are people I actually like or not and are good influences because some social circles including people I’ve dated were not. So while I’ve done the things you’ve mentioned I lose interest in the people I just met shortly after I start…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 04:23 PM
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Right?! Like get a fuken life
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 07:10 AM
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Nothing beats reality and trying things yourself.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 02:52 AM
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Wasn’t trying to. I don’t disagree with your statement. If I’m going to listen to someone online I’d rather it be someone like varg than anyone red pill. My statements above are the reasons why.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 06:03 PM
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Red pill is most common with people who come from cultures that are simply incompatible with western civilization. I guess it’s only true for those who belong to cultures where chauvinistic attitudes are the norm. I’m obviously against violence but some cultures are less sophisticated than others and The red pill is just a result of one that’s degenerating.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 05:32 AM
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Aren’t conservative extremely pro Israel while most alt righters aren’t? And if they do agree on something like this it’s for different reasons For alt-righters and neofascists its more because Israel supports American imperialism and for conservatives it’s because Israel benefits the U.S. financially. At least that’s how I understood it.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 08:22 AM
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Alt right was something different. If you look at the people today (like Richard spencer) they’re pretty against mainstream conservative and red pill values alike. A lot of red pill people use Islam to justify trp which the alt right is vehemently opposed to. And that’s why I’d now support the alt right over red pill any day
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 08:06 AM
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Varg is based af. Actually has insight on modern issues unlike red pill horseshit
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 07:59 AM
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Exactly. It has no place in the western world whatsoever either.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 05:04 PM
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In terms of how things are going currently, I have a lot to look forward. I don't think these are things I need to dwell on. I'm in therapy but I haven't brought it up much It happened a while ago and to tell you the truth, I'm not sure what the impact is, I guess i've overcome it but the problems I had back then haven't gone away. Like not knowing how to put myself first and easy to convince and even taken advantage of. That's kind of why I was easily convinced by the red pill, they always said…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 04:13 AM
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I only count emotional abuse. I was groomed by a guy on facebook posing as a teen my age at the time and was coerced into doing things i didn't want to do. Years later when I was 20 or so i gave an impact statement in court.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 04:20 AM
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He's funny, He basically agrees with what trp says but thinks the whole community is stupid and does a good job at criticizing it..
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 05:48 AM
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none of these people are happy or even successful from what i can tell...it's just sad
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 04:31 AM
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it's because they want to be the guy who tells his friend advice so they can feel better about themselves hoping that you're dumb enough to fall for it. They don't want you to have a good relationship and they don't want to see you improve. If anyone's a beta male it's these types of "men". Knowing this, it's pretty safe to say any experience can be dismissed.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 05:14 AM
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If you’re a sperg and if think of everything really rigidly and robotically then I’d totally understand why this would be convincing.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 08:28 AM
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I know I didn’t say I’m only awkward with women, It’s talking to people I have an issue with. I feel the same sort of lack of connection with men a lot too..
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 09:48 PM
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Yep, pretty much. That's why I always would get annoyed when guys insist on giving me their advice which is only applicable to them. It isn't talking to women thats a problem bc I can do that fine. It's the thought of being exposed and people finding out about unattractive traits I may have and it leads me to be very reluctant to open up to people since I've tried that and it never worked previously
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 01:54 AM
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Male dating advice is usually a guy trying to sound cool and trying to be all alpha. You don’t have this dick measuring thing with women but their experiences will be different from men so I could see why it isn’t helpful. Best way I think is to go out and figure things out and see what works for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 09:23 PM
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Yes I also see a therapist about once a month and she thinks I have ADHD. I was already diagnosed with a learning disorder since age 8. Never really got the whole making friends thing down. Another problem I have is repeating mistakes which might also be an ADD thing as well. I wouldn’t be surprised if I had it bc when I do try to talk to people there’s usually ten different things going on in my head but I don’t particularly care to have a diagnosis, just find someone who is a good fit.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 05:23 AM
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Men’s improvement is just a euphemism to distance themselves from incels even though that can be the same audience for both.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 02:10 AM
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The second one. They try to have this moral high ground at the same time. It’s fucking degenerate
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 03:22 AM
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I don’t think red pill is the same as alt right so If you’re looking for former red pill followers who are fans of people like Richard spencer or American renaissance, you might have a hard time finding them however some overlap exists..
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:38 PM
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I was exaggerating. Unfortunately I assume that red pill tactic is just average male behavior. I know it isn’t true but it’s something you want to out for
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 05:30 AM
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No, but you shouldn’t care what they think
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 10:00 PM
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What if they’re 17 and a few days from turning 18? Would they still hit on them? I always had these type of questions and wondered if those guys are just pedophiles deep down
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 06:45 PM
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