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EDIT: Formatting Whelp. I just got banned too for posting this: Hi. I am the OP that comment is from in /r/seduction. I do not understand why you (and many others on this subreddit) feel that seduction and inner game are such hateful terrible ideologies. To quote another member on the /r/seduction: Seducing women and respecting them are not mutually exclusive. Ultimately the lessons taught by seduction are meant to give you self confidence. As someone who went from a being the "forever alone" st…
/r/seduction09/01/12 10:21 PM
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You make a good point, and in the situation I point out in my OP you are absolutely correct. I do wonder though, can one really make such a display of affection so public and maintain inner game? Honestly I wish you were able to comment earlier because this is extremely good food for thought for 0this subreddit.
/r/seduction09/01/12 03:50 AM
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Careful, another smiley or two and you might come off as one of the guys in those pictures :P :D :( :s
/r/seduction08/01/12 10:29 PM
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Yeah, they have the "friend" whose birthday they go to celebrate at midnight.
/r/seduction08/01/12 10:04 PM
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An ever increasing fount of knowledge he is
/r/seduction23/12/11 11:29 AM
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Nice finds. You are credit to subreddit.
/r/seduction23/12/11 11:11 AM
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Listen to this person. (S)He has the right of it.
/r/seduction05/11/11 05:39 PM
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I respect the individual, but rarely the organization.
/r/seduction27/10/11 07:02 AM
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Define authority?
/r/seduction26/10/11 10:42 PM
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Respect people because most of them have done nothing to lose it.
/r/seduction26/10/11 09:18 PM
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The fact that you realize your mistakes is a bigger boon than you realize. Separates you from being an AFC.
/r/seduction20/10/11 02:35 PM
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If you are looking to seduction to "just get this one girl" then you are coming for the wrong reasons. Read the side bar and get a feeling for the seduction mentality before you seek help with specific situations.
/r/seduction30/09/11 04:59 PM
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This has been talked about to death back when this came to light on reddit a few months back. According to the ask science reddit (this is from memory so I could be wrong) this had a negligible affect due to the type of testosterone produced.
/r/seduction23/09/11 07:52 PM
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I 100% agree with this. Just sayin it is not the only reason to get into seduction :P
/r/seduction18/05/11 09:46 PM
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It is like that nice guy post that was put up yesterday. Many people who come to seduction are like that. The truly successful PUAs always show that in the end it is about having fun, which does not always mean getting laid.
/r/seduction18/05/11 06:55 PM
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I whole-heartedly agree. I came to Seddit to improve myself, using seddit as a tool to do so. Getting laid more often is merely a consequence of me being who I want to be and improving my self image.
/r/seduction18/05/11 06:14 PM
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Tofu, helpful as always. Thanks a ton.
/r/seduction08/05/11 05:00 AM
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While on the subject, are there any good resources for kino. I feel a bit lost on how to start it.
/r/seduction08/05/11 03:38 AM
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After all the work that I have been doing with myself for the last 6 months on improving and in general being a more fun person, it just seems like taking the advice in this article would be backsliding. To me it seems like anyone in any relationship would be happier with someone who didn't need "pity dates."
/r/seduction20/04/11 05:20 AM
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No judgement or advice here. Just wanted to say you're a boss for managing that and still having the energy to keep your eyes open.
/r/seduction03/04/11 06:20 PM
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I can understand reading something in Dr. Farnsworth's voice, but reading things in the Dude's voice? This needs to happen more often.
/r/seduction30/03/11 03:34 AM
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This guy has a point. Getting shot down does help, but at a certain point it becomes as useful as banging your head against a wall. With that in mind perhaps after that amount of time working on the fundamentals would be the best option. Savoy said it best when he mentioned that no matter your system the fundamentals are the most important part of anything you do.
/r/seduction29/03/11 11:32 PM
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I am a wordy person by nature, so it is difficult at times for me to be concise. looks at what he just typed Shit.
/r/seduction24/03/11 09:43 PM
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Friend test?
/r/seduction09/03/11 01:05 PM
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Get. Out. Of. My. Head. @.@
/r/seduction02/03/11 09:06 PM
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Can't blame you, but give him some credit. Better than just staying at home or not talking to her at all :P
/r/seduction19/02/11 09:18 PM
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Cant wait for more tofu :D
/r/seduction19/02/11 09:09 AM
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I was about to quote that as well when I saw it. I think that if people take away anything from this writeup, it should be that sentence.
/r/seduction28/01/11 02:26 AM
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Hmmm....and what is RSD?
/r/seduction26/01/11 12:13 AM
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Stay away from Magic bullets? I thought that was a mainstay of the seduction community.
/r/seduction25/01/11 09:55 PM
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What?!? I actually have to work for it?!? :P Thanks though, best advice Ive gotten from this board.
/r/seduction18/01/11 02:44 PM
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Someone a bit better in social situations and who is a bit more confident tbh.
/r/seduction18/01/11 02:26 PM
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Congrats to you OP. I hope to one day soon be able to post the same sort of message :P
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:39 PM
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The problem with the sweet-passive kind of thing that the guy in the link has going for him is that typically that kind of guy is looking for someone to take care of, not a partner (this is coming from a guy who used to be that way). My guess is that she has some sort of crippling insecurities and he is the natural white knight type. Not my type of gig.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:37 PM
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Now that is fucking scary right there. I would love 10,000 years to work out everything like he did, but I would hope that I did not need 10,000 years.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:30 PM
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Thanks for the share. As an AFC looking to be an aspiring PUA, this article might be the most important I have read. By far.
/r/seduction07/01/11 05:54 PM
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Good stuff. Thanks OP
/r/seduction16/12/10 12:49 AM
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Excellent. Thanks for the guide. This will be a good help.
/r/seduction22/11/10 10:53 PM
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Good read, would upvote again.
/r/seduction18/11/10 08:30 PM
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Then go with that. My methods worked for me, but like I said, I am no expert :P
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:46 PM
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I am no super good PUA or the like. I do not claim to be some supreme guru in the ways of sreddit, but what it ultimately comes down to is getting women to see you as a luxury, not a privelage(this is how I see it). You want <X>, she is giving you <Y>. The problem here is you need to live for yourself and stop pandering to others. Show her you want <X>, and will get <X> from others if not from here. Canceling now is a shock. A deviation from the norm. And if you tell her you found someone else (…
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:22 PM
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The point they are making is you already set yourself up as the guy to go running and crying to when something goes wrong in her life. You have to make her realize she has to earn your attention, your time. She can't be your friend and your girlfriend.
/r/seduction18/11/10 05:55 PM
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Upvote for obligatory captain obvious comment. Sad someone beat me to making it.
/r/seduction11/11/10 05:05 PM
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One thing that works with me is sympathizing a little bit about the fact that she is working. If it is evening, something like "awww, they still have you working even though it is <time> on a <day>?" Transition into small talk from there.
/r/seduction11/11/10 05:02 PM
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I guess it is a difference of tastes. Having a fun night of drunken debauchery and getting a girl to come home with me are not mutually exlusive events.
/r/seduction11/11/10 05:00 PM
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Downside? Swapping spit with so many chicks in a night can lead to catching something. And why stop there? A chick in the sack is worth ten on the dance floor.
/r/seduction11/11/10 04:55 PM
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Well I just need a plan. Coincidentally I did text her that night with my name, so yay luck!
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:45 PM
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Just got it Friday, so today/tomorrow most likely. Any ideas on what to do?
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:27 PM
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I would punch myself in the face, tell myself to sleep more and stop being such a pussy. That would pretty much do it, even as non-specific as that is :/
/r/seduction01/11/10 02:35 PM
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I don't understand the downvote on this, he stated it was his belief. Me however, and this is coming from an introvert, i find that the biggest issue for introverts is the fear of people having a reason dislike us. But the OPs statement and message is still valid. I am not comfortable at social events, I do not like crowds, but after doing some work on myself (much of which is like the OP) I find it is easier to strike up conversations and the like. It comes down to realizing that just because y…
/r/seduction30/10/10 01:41 AM
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This was actually an old acquaintance finding me and friending me on fb. A phone number would be better, but until I get it, not much I can do but this.
/r/seduction16/10/10 07:10 PM
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I meant text-based message, not text messaging :/
/r/seduction16/10/10 07:09 PM
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