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Red Pill ExampleAraphoren/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 03:24 PM
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Red Pill ExampleAraphoren/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 09:09 AM
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Red Pill ExampleAraphoren/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 01:09 PM
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LTRAraphoren/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 01:18 AM
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Everyone has their limits before they decide that this struggle isn’t worth it anymore. Never understood it before, but recent experiences have me at that edge
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 03:42 AM
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You’re assuming my expectation is: “I’ve done good by you so I expect you to do good by me” which isn’t correct. 1 positive action for another positive action. My expectation is: “I’ve done good by you so I expect you to not fuck me over” which I think is fair. 1 positive action for 1 grossly negative action.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 09:03 PM
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Think we all find friends like that eventually. I think what we really want is really simple: a partner that won’t betray them. Someone that can think, “Oh yeah, I remember that he moved here for me” or “He was the one that pulled me back down from the railing of the roof” and then, you know, not treat you like shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 02:29 PM
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You’re wrong on almost every point at least regarding me. Sex is secondary, genuine partnership and support is a far greater prize. Sometimes it really is as easy as that, for many people, the grass is greener over there.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 02:18 PM
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Yeah you’re reading this correctly. I’m not 100%, it’ll take a while but I’m working on it
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 04:59 AM
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What a great question. Was trying to do what was right for the dog we raised, but now that I’ve had time to really think you’re totally right. Makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 11:29 PM
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Was uncontrollable and was not aware, they met up out of town. Haven’t spoken to him in 4 years. Nothing I could do.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 02:46 PM
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dog tax
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 01:12 PM
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Whenever the trauma is triggered Can it be replaced with “whenever a traumatic event is triggered” or “whenever a highly stressful situation” is triggered that the winning valences are defaulted to
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 01:53 AM
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I was working 100% of the time while still allocating time towards her doing meaningful things. Was a very busy period of time. I sacrificed some aspects in the long term for her, such as long term career trajectory and moving with her when she got a job she wanted. This is what I meant by sacrificing.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/23 09:26 PM
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Just someone we all went to school with. Haven’t seen or talked to him since 2019 when he apologized to me for the first time. GF was out of town playing with an orchestra he was subbing in. He knew of our relationship and actually had sent a “congrats” message when he heard about it first on. Super fucked
/r/TheRedPill08/06/23 08:45 PM
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I’m getting opposite perspectives of advice, from “forgive him, focus on you” to literally “go cap him”
/r/TheRedPill08/06/23 02:29 AM
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We have been living together for 3.5 years, both split the last 2 leases. I wrote a check for the rest of my part of this lease and moved out.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 11:19 PM
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We all went to school together. He was playing in an orchestra she travelled to go play with in a city 1500miles away. No way to know.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 11:28 PM
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4 year rebound? Kudos to the hunter mentality.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 03:56 PM
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Remet this girl in NYC in 2019 (we went to school together) while she was visiting 2 weeks after her previous LTR. She decided to go down on me and fucked me on the 2nd date. 4 years later, thought she was the one. Then she did the literally exact same thing to me, cheating with this guy in NYC while visiting.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 03:51 PM
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This week https://imgur.com/a/GmKNa3e
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 02:07 PM
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Responses here have been helpful. No other community gave me helpful info
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 12:17 PM
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She went to work for a week in a a different city about 1500mi away in an orchestra he was subbing in. He was aware of our relationship - he had tried to make amends for homewrecking my first relationship a while back and said “congrats” on the new one with my now ex GF.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 12:11 PM
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It’s hard, my man. I think the most difficult thing here is to come to terms the person that was supportive/loving up until 2 weeks ago is somehow gone - or maybe wasn’t there. It’s a real mindfuck. That the day after the girl fucks a new guy, comes back and starts off with “I missed you two!” and stuff like that. The urge to find that girl is countered with the reality that the real girl is a deceitful lying cheater
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 02:12 AM
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Certainly am open to self reflection, but find it hard to see emotional abuse on my end. She was drunk, hooked up with this guy, and liked the feeling so started spinning plates. Fucking with the source of your partner’s trauma doesn’t seem normal. And FWIW the mother of this girl asked me to call her to convey that she thought her daughter had some mental health issue. TRP readers understand this is just normal shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 11:15 PM
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So what’s your response then. Raised a dog for 3 years, she chooses to go off that night with a guy knowing she’s losing the dog and the dude. Calls back 2 days later for the dog. Both are equally good with dog. Do you ignore her calls? Do you just block her? What’s the move here? You’re gonna be more of a beta and give her the dog that’s in your name cuz she asks nicely?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 07:40 PM
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She chose the fling over the dog. Not only shitty, but not a responsible thing for dog. Not gonna trust that shit. I said if you want to fix your fuck up, you’re welcome to and then we can talk about the dog. Seems pretty fair to me. Reverse the roles.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 07:31 PM
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“If you abandon us, we’re leaving.” abandons us we leave “Can I have dog back?” “No, but I’d be open to you trying to rectify the situation and then reconsidering.” I’m missing it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 07:28 PM
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Bro, what. She literally abandoned me and the dog for the dude after literally me stating if she did we would leave. Then she called me and wanted the dog after we left. I said “you made your choice”, and that I would only consider talking about her taking the dog instead of me if she prioritized the dog over the guy she already chose. Is this emotionally abusive?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 07:24 PM
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Had no idea, noticed her behavior was off the week after she got back. Paid attention and looked around the day she was gonna leave for more work in Chicago (4 days after fucking me), found a message of hers to him, she was planning to meet him there to hook up more while acting the part to me for the week. Confronted her, then it snowballed
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 06:19 PM
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We’re all orchestra musicians and all went to Juilliard. She was subbing in NYC for a week in an orchestra he was subbing in as well. First time was in 2018 during school.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 06:09 PM
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Appreciate this. Full disclosure, took a long hard look at a knife this past week wondering what the fuck was the point. Then I bought an expensive fucking camera with the ring money set aside and took my new old dog on a couple hikes in the cascades
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 04:45 PM
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Piece of shit sat down and apologized for the first time in 2019 saying how sorry he was and how it messed with his head, etc. I called him from recent GF’s phone after she told me (she unlocked the phone) and this fucking guy pretended not to hear me for 15 seconds saying “what, what” and then hung up and wouldn’t answer again
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 03:38 PM
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Explicitly said we would not get back together, refused to have her stay with me, was solely to figure out plans for dog we co-owned and to say fuck that guy But also who am I kidding, there’s probably truth in what you’re saying bc I am a relapsed beta apparently
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 03:31 PM
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I've been working out 7 days a week for a while now. Adding 10 minutes of posture exercises at home in the mornings and evenings. Starting the book "Becoming a Supple Leopard."
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/17 07:07 PM
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I've always been fit and wiry (within 142-147 lbs from 16 to 24 years old, 5'9", always active in sports) and have always eaten nutritious food, so my goals now are to actually eat enough to gain muscle. My biggest problem has been skipping breakfast because of time and habit, I've skipped about it about 98% of the time in college so far (currently getting Masters). My goal is to eat 3 or 4 substantial meals a day instead of just 2, add fruit and nuts every day, and increase to 2 scoops of prote…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/17 06:55 PM
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Push-ups done, reading "The Mind Illuminated" by John Yates. It was cold here, set up indoor picnic with blankets and pillows to surprise my wife when we got home at midnight. Included hot chocolate with cream we whipped ourselves and other quick/fun food prep things. She was delighted and enlivened after an exhausting day.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 04:19 PM
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There's not much for me to be worried to face from within myself, I'm still young and had a good life so far (24 yoa). I think my biggest problem I've avoided tackling is lack of control over the amount of time I spend on my smartphone. I could definitely spend a couple more hours a day working on my craft than I have for the last few years because of consistently reading Reddit or playing games. I keep meaning to cut off the vice but never do for hamsterish reasons ("this online game is a good …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 03:53 AM
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Read this post near the end of a long bus trip home yesterday, I'm all in. Set my 6 goals while finishing the bus ride. March goals are (1) school related, (2) finance related, and (3) social skills/appearance related. Longer term goals are (1)(2) career related and (3) spiritual improvement. Got off the bus at 2 AM but didn't stop to sleep until doing 100 push-ups.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 03:37 AM
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I see you're being down voted initially, but does someone want to share their viewpoint? Is reading 2xx worth it in a "know your adversary" way? Or should we stay on the side of being amused masters, and not care what women have to say among themselves? I guess it depends on each man's current journey; maybe it's useful to read what women think as opposed to what they do, but I'm more inclined to say you probably shouldn't be wasting time on the 2xx subreddit in general.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:22 PM
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If you think this is likely her mindset, it then follows that cuddling is something you don't want to do in this situation. So, do what RPMahoutsukai suggested: cuddle if you want, don't cuddle if you don't want. Just be busy doing something else you want. If you still do want to cuddle but are wondering if it will be counterproductive for you (given your thoughts on possible reasonings), I think the answer is that it isn't very big of a deal. Don't focus on exactly what she's thinking. You'll g…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 03:59 PM
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/r/askMRP20/08/15 01:42 AM
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I also had "trouble gaining weight." I was the skinny guy who could eat however much / whatever I wanted because of my "fast metabolism." Well, as it turns out, you actually just need to eat more. Natural metabolism only accounts for a small amount of variance in the amount of calories you naturally burn in comparison to anyone else in your weight/height range (just a couple hundred calories more or less). What you need to do is count calories. I downloaded "My Fitness Pal" and started using it,…
/r/askMRP13/08/15 06:07 AM
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What does OOP stand for?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 08:29 PM
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FWIW, the concepts in this video are exactly what I needed to hear. Been reading, lifting, lurking, haven't made an intro post, wanted to improve myself first. But this video put me over the top of setting a proper course for self improvement. If anyone needs strategy for implementing stoicism, forming (or dropping) habits, overcoming "bad situations," or motivating themselves, there is a lot to learn from in here. 80 minutes that are very much worth spending in my opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 05:00 PM
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Hmmm, my understanding of 5X5 is that you do it to exhaustion and when you are able to do the full 5X5 you increase the weight. Well, when you start out you should be light enough that you can do the 25 reps without the last one being extremely difficult, and just adding 5 pounds to each workout from there. This is opposed to doing as much of something as you can... Instead just the 25 reps, 5 pounds more next time. If your 25 squats were to failure, you wouldn't be able to do heavy deadlifts wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 05:36 AM
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A lot of guys here are on the Stronglift 5x5 program or a variant of that, which doesn't focus on lifting to failure like most programs. This means that instead of targeting muscle groups for a day (leg day, back day, chest day, arm day) and tearing them up so that you can't work that muscle group hard again for at least a few days, they're just focusing on adding small increments of weight each workout and making use of full body compound exercises every time they hit the gym (hence the squatti…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 05:50 PM
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