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If you have lots of options, it's totally normal to enjoy hanging out with them all and going on dates with them all to see who you vibe best with. This girl is just living her life. The only reason it triggers you is because clearly you get attached way too quickly and you're assuming that's healthy and normal when it's really not. There's absolutely nothing wrong with going on a date, having a good time, hoping it will become a real and deep relationship, and yet still seeing other people beca…
/r/seduction27/07/26 11:23 AM
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He's talking about missing people you ARE compatible with because you're not being authentic
/r/seduction21/07/26 12:47 AM
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Troll is not Gen Z dude it's either Millennial or Gen X or even older. Banter is at least as old too. Bantering is very similar to playful trolling
/r/seduction21/07/26 12:46 AM
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Sounds like a version of the Madonna-Whore Complex
/r/seduction19/07/26 09:45 AM
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That's one way to look at it But since she did sleep with him once, this case seems more like she liked him before she got to know him, and then got disappointed. Which is really a situation you wanna be taking notes on for personal development, cause ideally that should never be happening and it generally indicates some issues in relating to your masculinity properly. If you don't fix those problems, other women will get turned off by them too
/r/seduction16/07/26 09:58 PM
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She's not attracted to you enough sexually, but she does enjoy your company and the emotional connection. However she's giving you the chance to turn her on again, in which case she would sleep with you, but she doesn't like you enough yet to invite that, only to not close the door on it
/r/seduction16/07/26 07:10 PM
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If you can tell someone is trying to flirt and you don't want to people are pretty quick to shoo people away
/r/seduction29/06/26 08:31 PM
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The girl who is shy but likes you will be trying to stop herself from looking at you The girl who doesn't like you will be trying to avoid looking at you
/r/seduction29/06/26 08:30 PM
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Childhood trauma is the main thing holding most people back I think Cause if your self esteem is fucked, you unconsciously seek validation and healing from girls. And then they feel that energy and it feels like having to mother a boy, rather than falling in love with a man. And so they bounce, and what extra hurts is it makes sense that they bounce, cause that isn't what women are looking for in a relationship You must unlock the healing you're seeking within yourself, so you can stop unconscio…
/r/seduction27/06/26 01:49 PM
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You're thinking of something a bit different to what I was thinking of when I said connection, but I can't be bothered arguing with you about it
/r/seduction21/06/26 08:07 AM
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If you do it with no attachment to outcome you won't burn out at all
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:11 AM
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This is autistic cope. There's tonnes that goes into etiquette, subcommunication and interpersonal attunement that shapes how you come across to people and whether they enjoy the interaction or not. Looks are secondary unless you look like an actual monster
/r/seduction21/06/26 02:22 AM
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Bro this would definitely be an unhinged overreaction. I think you've got repressed assertiveness and this is it exploding out in an uncontrolled excess. Work on bringing it out more naturally in appropriate amounts
/r/seduction21/06/26 02:20 AM
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The point of approaching is to try to connect with them, not just grind another 'set' for XP. If you can't find any viable pathway to connection as you're checking then out, you shouldn't just 'go for it anyway'
/r/seduction21/06/26 02:17 AM
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Yeah man I hate this culture of "well someone complained so I have to be seen to discipline you" How about have some ethical standards and if someone makes a frivolous complaint tell them they don't have the right to make frivolous complaints?
/r/seduction21/06/26 02:14 AM
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Thanks dude. I guess I'm tryna emphasize a slightly different part here. In the other post I said it's not enough to just be "a guy", you need to be special in some way. You need a brand In this post I'm emphasising that your brand can't just be "guy who isn't a creep". That's better than being known as a creep. But it's still a fucking low bar. In fact it's such a low bar that it isn't even a win. That's still a shit brand that will get women ignoring you. It's necessary to be defined by your p…
/r/seduction31/05/26 08:30 AM
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If you're focused on signalling that you're not a creep, rather than presenting something positive and interesting, you're already fucked. Women are looking for an adventure with an interesting guy. They aren't looking for "a normal non creepy guy". Being not a creep is an assumed prerequisite. If a guy is putting any energy into signalling that he's actually signalling that he's not that far away from being a creep and his vision of his "best self" is "a normal non creepy guy". That's miles awa…
/r/seduction31/05/26 07:25 AM
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Getting girls is directly downstream of personal development. The primary thing girls are attracted to is maturity and masculinity. Personal development and becoming more attractive to women is the exact same thing
/r/seduction31/05/26 07:22 AM
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Girls absolutely do care about a guy having a fit body. That's pure cope if you've convinced yourself you don't need to go to the gym And yes most guys strike out on online dating, but also the vast majority of guys have absolutely shit photos. Id generally recommend against online dating but you can improve your chances substantially with a good body and artistic photos
/r/seduction31/05/26 07:21 AM
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You need to make yourself someone unique. You need to create a world and a life to invite people into. You can't have your primary identity just be "I'm a 5'5 guy from India". You need to make yourself into someone so that people go "Oh that guy? Yeah he's X. He's really cool because Y. Regardless of how you look, if your identity is just your stats that you'd find in a government document you're fucked. Women want an adventure, so you have to be some kind of adventurer who is defined by somethi…
/r/seduction31/05/26 07:19 AM
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The culture has been changing over time too, so it might not be that when you turned 33 people sawv you differently, but that the way people engage with dating apps etc in general changed for the worse just around the time you were turning 33/34
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:20 PM
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Yes definitely
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:17 PM
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Avoiding assigning blame is precisely how you get bottled up resentment. Blaming the people who deserve to be blamed is literally what you need to do in order to not bottle it up. OP isn't whining like some child. He's identified what went wrong in his upbringing, and now he's wisely seeking to fix it by posting about it here and inviting people to talk to him so he can train this ability he missed out on training properly when he was young. All of the worries you listed are things to be cautiou…
/r/seduction22/05/26 01:13 PM
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OP isn't "moping around", he's posted explicitly asking for people to talk to so he can train the ability he realised has been left underdeveloped by his upbringing. That's literally exactly what he should be doing and your cynicism isn't helping anything
/r/seduction22/05/26 01:10 PM
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Identifying where the wrong beliefs, wrong habits, etc entered your life and your psyche is a vital step to deprogramming them. Blaming your parents for fucking you up is absolutely a healthy thing to do. It allows you to distance yourself from those aspects of yourself and realise where and how you were trained in unhealthy and unnatural patterns, which allows you to see what parts of your "code" to edit Dunno why you're hating on him for that. "Best way is just to engage with people" is shit t…
/r/seduction22/05/26 12:37 PM
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Hey bro this is a great piece of self awareness. Carl Jung taught that "Until you make the Unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it Fate." That's a sick quote. But it also means that by succeeding in making something conscious, and realising explicitly beliefs etc that have been running unconsciously, like you just have, is a huge step to fixing it and getting it deprogrammed I'd be down for a video call in a few hours today if you want. I could probably use the prac…
/r/seduction22/05/26 12:34 PM
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Yes dude have you met people. Have you talked to women and asked them what percentage of guys they find attractive? I promise you it's not even close to 50%
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:43 AM
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Most guys absolutely did not, are you crazy? The overwhelming majority of men have no idea how to flirt with women
/r/seduction10/05/26 10:20 AM
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If you're a beginner in the gym you're always gonna look less hot or whatever than the trainers and experts. So don't bother worrying about it. Go to the gym to get fit, not to pick up girls. Pick up girls somewhere else where you don't have to stand beside the fittest men in the world while you try to talk to them lol Bars, Parks, Streets, Clubs, Coffee Shops, there's a whole world out there of places where you don't have to stand beside the worlds fittest men while they work out. Lol it sounds…
/r/seduction05/05/26 12:54 PM
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These questions get close to the core of what makes men in general attractive and unattractive to women. Whether it will actually get incels laid is another question, but it should definitely move everyone at least a few steps in that direction if they do it honestly and authentically. Those are deep questions that get deep enough into what we all have in common as humans that it should have leverage for everyone
/r/seduction05/05/26 07:10 AM
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This is really good dude nice one
/r/seduction22/04/26 09:17 AM
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It's definitely not a date and she's almost definitely not interested in you. But if you think they're cool people to hang out with then go ahead. Hit on her friend if you think she's cute. Don't think about it as a long term investment, just a short term experience, if you think you'd enjoy it then go ahead, just don't think of it as a date cause it's not
/r/seduction28/08/24 12:27 PM
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I told you already dude
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:14 AM
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No I don't think you understand what turns on women very well. Especially with an older woman there's no chance some witty line like that makes you look like anything other than a cringe child
/r/seduction03/08/24 03:48 PM
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Seduction doesn't work via witty lines and comebacks. Not really. It's all about authenticity and creating an emotional connection. Spending energy on wordplay and witty lines is energy not spent on getting in sync with her vibe and creating sexual tension
/r/seduction01/08/24 12:52 PM
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Not really, they have certain stereotypes and expectations, but if you stand out in a way that turns them on they're not gonna force themselves to be not turned on because of some arbitrary commitment to white supremacy or something lol You might have a race you prefer or default to fantasising about but I'm sure that if a sexy girl started flirting with you and turned you on, you'd be willing to fuck her regardless of whether she's black brown white purple whatever. Girls are the same way. We'r…
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:08 PM
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If you have to remind yourself to shower and smile you're still in such beginner levels of seduction it should be unsurprising you're not exciting women
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:42 PM
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Cynical mindset. It's not hard for a guy to stand out if he really works on himself. Girls don't care about race, they care about a good emotional vibe. If you can make them feel that they're not gonna care what race you are unless they're actual racists, which you'd obviously want to avoid anyway regardless of what race you are
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:40 PM
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You're just bad at cold approach. It's an actual skill and art. It's much more than just having the confidence to go up to women. Women can be attracted to all sorts of different types of men. You just need to keep working to make yourself more attractive, more sensitive, and better at flirting
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:37 PM
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Don't tell anyone "I'll make you feel young again" lol. They don't see themselves as old, just you as too young
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:18 AM
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Do you have a daily meditation habit?
/r/seduction17/07/24 03:05 PM
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I promise you if you are uploading pictures of your abs you're hurting your chances with girls. There's a number of reasons why but the most simple is that it's really feminine behaviour
/r/seduction13/07/24 03:53 PM
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I'd like to see those stats if you actually have them I think a photo of you shirtless while outdoors surfing/rock climbing etc would look attractive But a shirtless photo that you've taken yourself at home with your phone? Absolutely no chance
/r/seduction13/07/24 03:32 PM
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Posting "thirst traps" as a guy is cringe af. Don't do it. It's feminine behaviour. Maybe if you're like 16 you can get away with it but if you're in your 20s posting pictures of your abs online everyone's gonna think you're a loser. I think you just fucked your chance with her. If she shared your pic to her group chat it was more likely to laugh at you than to go "look at how hot this guy is" also she probably has a fetish for white guys and wanted you to lean into it, instead you got weird and…
/r/seduction12/07/24 06:21 AM
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The key to creepiness is lack of recalibration based on feedback If you do something, and a girl doesn't respond well, and you back off and show her that you are reading her signals and recalibrating appropriately, she won't feel unsafe and you won't come across as creepy
/r/seduction10/07/24 04:40 AM
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Most people who have one night stands would be happy to see the person again if they're cool and there's a good connection beyond sex
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:23 PM
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Maybe you've got fuckboy energy and they don't see themselves in relationship with you. Are you a good friend? a good listener? interesting to talk to? have fun and meaningful hobbies? a good career? a nice apartment?
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:22 PM
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haha okay buddy
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:47 PM
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I'm sure you're having a great time dating the hundreds of women who are wet for you on sight
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:03 PM
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True, but if it hasn't even been a day yet then it doesn't really count as ignoring. Could easily be just putting off replying til later when she has free time to sit down and think of a response. You wouldn't wanna jump to conclusions like that and ruin it
/r/seduction27/06/24 05:08 PM
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True
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:41 PM
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Sounds insecure and passive aggressive af
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:40 PM
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Give it up to 24 hours since the like and then text her something like "Does that like mean yes haha? You wanna meet me at [bar] on [day] at [time]? I especially like that place cause [reason], I think we'd have a lot of fun"
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:32 PM
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Busy often means I don't have the headspace to think about this right now. People don't have to be actually engaged in cooking dinner to not wanna reply to a message, especially if they're invested in the outcome of that conversation
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:29 PM
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What are you even in this sub for?
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:28 PM
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OP's just realised there's more to creating a passionate long term relationship than literally just the first time you meet a person Yeah dude, no shit. If you make a good first impression but then are boring to hang out with people are gonna flake and leave you. Is this surprising to you? This shouldn't be surprising to you If you want to seduce a high quality woman and make her fall in love with you you're gonna need to be a high quality man and worth falling in love with That's gonna require …
/r/seduction27/06/24 12:34 PM
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So meet up after dinner for drinks. Dinner dates are bad dates, they're harder to flirt in because it's kinda professional, and you're locked in if it goes bad. If a girl isn't willing to see you unless you're buying her dinner then she doesn't even like you anyway, so you need to focus on the more basic aspects of seduction and learn how to actually get a girl interested in you
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:25 PM
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You need to actually get good at seduction then. Your problem isn't gonna be solved by going to some poor country where a girl will be willing to pretend to be your gf if you buy her stuff Learn about seduction dude. Watch James Marshall and Brian Begin and understand what actually turns women on. 1 out of 15 means you've got a lot of work to do. Your problem isn't lack of money, it's lack of ability to actually turn women on. That's a skill, it's not a number. Learn the skill dude
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:22 PM
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Go to the park. Walk around. Turn her on with your seduction skills and then invite her back to your place. If you can only seduce women when you have money then you can't seduce women
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:20 PM
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Stop paying for dates you retard The point of learning seduction is meant to be so that you can connect with women and turn them on enough that they want to hang out with you even if you don't buy them things If you're paying all this money for dates that's basically just prostitution without the sex, which is prime moron behaviour Stop fucking around and do some self improvement properly and learn how to actually seduce women, not just throw money at them
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:18 PM
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I think you can probably work out how to handle a marriage and kids with bipolar. Stephen Fry has bipolar and he's had a very successful life, including marriage
/r/seduction20/06/24 10:07 AM
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Pretty cringe oversimplification
/r/seduction20/06/24 04:19 AM
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I just don't really think there's a need to mention it to anyone you're not already close with?
/r/seduction20/06/24 04:18 AM
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At minimum he will be hoping for it if things go well
/r/seduction31/05/24 01:36 PM
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Because you're attracted to him and it's inherently fun, and also a good way to learn about his vibe and how he handles himself sexually etc
/r/seduction25/05/24 09:36 PM
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You can easily kiss a guy and then not date him afterwards. It's not a contract
/r/seduction25/05/24 09:00 PM
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I'm explaining the principle involved here. He didn't miss by a little bit, he completely fucked it up. He probably really did offend her, so it's not like he's innocent. And if this can be a moment where he realises how far away his behaviour was from what women actually want then it'll be really useful
/r/seduction24/05/24 02:06 PM
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This is cope. Girls want relationships too. Relationships start with kissing You're acting like kissing her would give her the wrong idea or something but obviously that isn't true. Every romantic movie girls love is about relationships, and that magic starts with kissing The truth is you're too scared to make the move, so you're tryna lie to yourself and now us that your ideal dating scenario involves not making any physical moves for like 3 months The reality is if she had have made the move f…
/r/seduction24/05/24 01:02 PM
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Dude that girl was really into you, yet you didn't go for a kiss? Why the fuck not. You should be aiming to have sex if a girl is that into you. Kissing should be taken for granted. She probably went home insulted and disappointed. That's why she was like "fuck this guy. I thought we had a lovely date but apparently he thinks I'm ugly or something cause he didn't even try to kiss me" You said the date went great, but you didn't kiss. If you didn't even kiss it definitely doesn't count as a great…
/r/seduction24/05/24 12:44 PM
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I think you are overdoing it tbf. The point of having short one line sentences is that they stand out and hit harder than if the sentence is buried in a paragraph. But if all your sentences are stand-alone one-liners? Then it loses its effect and becomes tiring to read. Like how if you raise your voice it can make what you're saying stand out. But if all you do is shout then no-one wants to listen to you and there's no contrast and variety to create the impact you want
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:01 PM
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Dude actually said loads. It's sad to me that you couldn't get anything out of it
/r/seduction21/05/24 11:58 AM
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I'll pass on the mid tier content from 10 years ago bro thanks
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:42 PM
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You absolutely are. And also, if you think true seduction is about manipulating women you're still very lost
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:28 PM
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You're changing the topic to try to avoid the criticism
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:45 AM
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Not that I know of. Smoke drugs and go to an Improv class. Charisma on Command is the closest youtube content I know of. Check that out and watch all their videos. But what I'm talking about is really something different
/r/seduction23/03/24 06:23 PM
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Nah man it's a cool memory
/r/seduction19/03/24 04:18 PM
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Feminine energy is inherently fun. You can enjoy the feeling of being on a date with a woman even if the rest of your life is shit. In fact that might even make it easier because the contrast is so great. Enjoy every moment of your interactions with her and don't think about the future or the past, just enjoy the present when you're with her and feeling her beautiful energy
/r/seduction17/03/24 02:04 AM
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This is really good dude. Good core idea and very well explained and elaborated
/r/seduction17/03/24 02:03 AM
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Not if you do it while being totally honest and authentic and respectful and adapt to her feedback and any subtle signs of discomfort
/r/seduction07/03/24 12:21 AM
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One thing you can start with is stop being so literal and logical and learn to think and talk more poetically, playfully and creatively. Maybe start going to an Improv class to develop that skill
/r/seduction07/03/24 12:20 AM
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How To Avoid The Friend Zone - Zan Perrion & Brian Begin
/r/seduction07/03/24 12:19 AM
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Women aren't gonna get with you because they think it would be an accomplishment. They don't think that way. They'll get with you because you make them feel excited. Trying to do this is just shooting yourself in the foot
/r/seduction20/02/24 05:51 PM
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I dunno man some drugs are pretty cool. There's a big difference between mushrooms and heroin. If it's the former that's a pretty cool girl to get into a relationship with
/r/seduction17/02/24 12:02 AM
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But the cheeky joke is also a real winner with a lot of girls. Different horses different courses
/r/seduction15/01/24 01:59 AM
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He wasn't joking it's a good line
/r/seduction15/01/24 01:58 AM
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Touching someone's hair is never gonna backfire. It gives them plenty of opportunity to pull away a little and signal they're not up for escalating physically. It's totally reasonable for her to just wanna chill. But it's totally reasonable to make a move on a girl if you invite her back to yours. So no-one vaguely sane is gonna act offended or kick up a stink if you make a tiny move like touching her hair It's a perfect test of where her boundaries and interests are. Only way that backfires is …
/r/seduction15/01/24 01:58 AM
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Because what I said sounds more mature than the teenage insecurities you just talked about? You got me
/r/seduction25/10/23 06:45 PM
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Why not find a girl who's mature enough that she won't care about that stuff. Seems like an obviously better option than limiting and repressing your own life, and living inauthentically, just to protect your future loser wife from feeling bad fee fees. Quit simping for a woman you don't even know yet. High quality women aren't looking for simps. If you don't want her to feel like she's being compared then treat her well enough she feels cherished. Repressing your sexual drive so you literally h…
/r/seduction25/10/23 08:24 AM
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Why wouldn't it be good for you?
/r/seduction25/10/23 01:01 AM
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Very cool dude nice one
/r/seduction21/08/23 08:47 PM
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What do you think this sub is for? The answer is get really good at seduction
/r/seduction15/08/23 08:15 AM
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The best way to build confidence is to have a long list of undeniable accomplishments, such that it's unreasonable for you not to be confident. Go do some hard stuff. Get muscular, get stamina, create a good style and get cool clothes, learn a musical instrument, learn a martial art, learn a new language. Clean your room and redesign it. Create a career plan for yourself. Make an inspiring vision board. Do some stuff that actually makes you impressed by yourself. Then you'll be confident.
/r/seduction17/07/23 10:26 AM
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Many girls are looking for guys to buy them things rather than actually make a connection. That's why the conversation stopped when you said no. Don't sweat it. You dodged some bullets. They wouldn't have been authentic with you even if you did buy them something and they stuck around longer. So don't worry. They're just out running their own game and are best avoided and ignored Nice job with the other girl you connected with and kissed
/r/seduction10/07/23 11:11 AM
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No he's definitely gone through a legit transformation
/r/MensRights23/11/22 10:29 PM
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It's not a game, it's just people's emotions. Stop seeing girls as the enemy
/r/seduction21/10/22 11:04 PM
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This is really unlucky. I also wouldn't expect this from a date that went so well. It's possible something just came up at work and she's emergency busy. But it's alright to be sad and disappointed. Ghosting sucks and is rarely deserved It's also possible that the date wanted more than just kissing and holding hands, and so you should have escalated further and followed the passion. If she was feeling that and you didn't deliver it could have disappointed her, made you seem timid, and made her l…
/r/seduction21/10/22 11:03 PM
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If it's how it works it's how it works. You've gotta play within those rules. Toxic doesn't come into it. If you have certain ethical standards and rules then go ahead and follow them, but you can't take issue with human biology/psychology
/r/seduction10/09/22 10:10 AM
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Why are you behaving that way then if it's not a hobby/lifestyle you respect?
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:19 AM
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Absolutely with ons. What's with this "seduction is all about following rules" bs. Seduction is about emotion and being in sync with your natural drives. What possible benefit do you get from avoiding cuddling after a ons?
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:18 AM
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There's nothing weaker than putting on a fake show to try to give a certain impression cause you're convinced someone won't like you if you're real Girls love cuddling after sex. I dunno where you heard that resisting your desire to do that was a good idea, but that's dogshit advice. If all you are is feminine energy then yeah girls are gonna think you're weak. If you've just successfully seduced a girl and given her a good time in bed, your masculine credentials are beyond question. Not only ca…
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:16 AM
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If girls are ghosting you then obviously you could still work on your skills a lot more. If you'd really mastered seduction they'd all be desperate to spend more time with yiu.
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:10 AM
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TL;DR: find better women You've got good at not fucking up the animal attraction that naturally exists between men and women. This isn't the end of your journey, it's the beginning. Now you're good enough with women you don't have to just think about having sex as a victory. Now your goal should be seducing women that you genuinely respect and are impressed by and are unique and you'd want to develop a real friendship with and have in your life. When you do that, sex isn't empty anymore, because…
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:09 AM
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Okay that's a really good start. A lot of guys really struggle to get to that point, so that's an excellent foundation to build from. Are you really serious about improving this area of your life within the next 6 months? If you are, DM me (not chat) and I'll make you a little step by step program to follow to see results in a month + 1 free coaching session with me. You seem like a good dude, I'd like to help you out
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:01 PM
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I think introversion and extroversion are both normal. Everyone has an introvert and extrovert side. So it's not right to see introversion as a disability. It's just not well adapted to the social world. Which is a really important part of the world. I used to prefer to be alone than with people. Because being around people made me feel judged and inferior, and I was putting loads of energy into trying to maintain a persona, when I would rather be at home playing videogames because I was in my c…
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:51 PM
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https://youtu.be/-juyEIgwhGQ This talk changed my whole mindset regarding women
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:45 PM
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Meditation was transformative for me. I consider it a key skill. Also developing the empathic ability to feel how other people are feeling. Super vital for connecting with anyone, especially women The sense of groundedness and masculinity that you develop through lifting heavy weights for months is also extremely valuable for shaping your personality in an attractive way
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:44 PM
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Yes almost definitely it hurts them. Move to a new country where your traveller status makes you cool. Or at least move to a new city in your country
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:59 PM
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Sure but it's a bit of a regression for society if people go from being friendly by default to being closed off by default
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:57 PM
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I strongly think that anyone who wants to take improving this area seriously should start by reading/listening to this book: Models: Attract Women Through Honesty. Models is the first book ever written on seduction as an emotional process rather than a logical one, a process of connecting with women rather than impressing them. It's the most mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women without faking behavior, without lying and without emulating others. A game-changer. Inside, you'll l…
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:22 PM
3

The skill is in becoming the kind of person who will make her attracted, and knowing what to do to help/harm that connection; rather than just hoping to get lucky. High level social skills and seduction is not luck. There are steps you can take
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:36 PM
2

You must be doing it wrong then. All humans are deeply adaptive and can learn any skill. That's true of things like coding and painting. But it's way more true of something that is fundamentally built into our species for reproduction and survival purposes. You've become disconnected from your natural state, not trapped within it. I was definitely super introverted, shy and beta af when I started, and now I'm literally a dating coach If you wanna DM me I can give you some criticism/answer some q…
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:33 PM
9

What resources and training practices are you currently already aware of?
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:11 PM
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No it's not. There's tonnes of good resources out there now. You can learn to get really good with women in like 6 months even if you're totally shit to begin with Most people's problem is they don't really try. They'll watch a couple of videos on YouTube and ask pointless questions in this sub. Far too many incel types resigned to their fate. People need to hear "actually make a real effort" far more often
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:08 PM
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Follow it but work on growing up asap. You sound like you're like 14 or something. Read Models by Mark Manson. Then start talking to women. Then read it again. And join the gym and listen to the audiobook again. There's nothing more unattractive in a man than this "ooh could I please maybe have some sex please?" vibe you seem to have got going
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:58 AM
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If you've got free time, intentionally work on getting better. Rather than just hoping some more desperate people will give you charity
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:55 AM
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Same as with younger girls really
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:54 AM
1

Shit man this is the best tip I've read on here in a while
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:17 PM
1

How did things turn out with this?
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:10 PM
1

I don't buy this "you're exes, you'll never be friends before like 5 years" thing. That's some pussy shit imo. I'm friends with loads of my exes. Just takes some maturity to not meltdown cause you break up, but just take things down a couple of notches but still respect and appreciate each other
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:09 PM
1

Really good post actually. Cheers
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:46 PM
4

Not caring doesn't substitute for a lack of good social skills. But if you have that down, the not caring adds a lot of coolness on top
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:28 PM
1

I think all 3 phases are seduction
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:23 AM
2

Good attitude. Best of luck in your future endeavours
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:22 AM
1

You should respect yourself enough that you want to take space away because you're actually feeling pissed off at her. So you shouldn't miss her like that. It shouldn't be something you're forcing yourself to do because it'll create the outcome you want. You need to learn to be more selfish and not just put up with being treated badly for the sake of having access to a girl. Work out why you would miss her like this even though she's being an unlikeable bitch. That will give you good insight int…
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:41 PM
2

Raise your standards. The fact your ex was crazy reflects badly on you if you would still be willing to put up with that again now to get some pussy
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:37 PM
2

This going insane under PMS thing is another thing only immature entitled women do. If your girlfriend is like 25 and still goes insane once a month you need to raise your standards cause you're with someone who doesn't understand their body or emotions and can't maturely adapt and control them effectively
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:34 PM
0

If you don't see how understanding how to relate to women and manage relationships with them is relevant to seduction then you're very lost dude
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:32 PM
2

You're right to recognise that that kind of behaviour damages relationships. But if she does it a lot anyway and you don't want to in case it hurts the relationship more, that shows that she doesn't care about the health of the relationship enough and is happy to let you carry all the weight of keeping it alive That isn't a long term viable strategy, and at least will make you develop resentment towards her and not feel free in the relationship. I think you should seriously consider why you allo…
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:29 PM
2

Strong post. Nice one
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:06 PM
2

That may be true, but that's a separate point. Saying that he feels positively about getting to know her more doesn't say anything about sex, it just emphasises the desire with emotion
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:31 PM
4

Sounds like your problem is more with dishonesty than honesty. And also just sounds like you've got much bigger problems with that woman too. I don't think anything good comes from playing games and being dishonest. Hiding your feelings is pretty beta shit imo
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:15 AM
11

What do you think is the problem with talking about your feelings?
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:33 PM
1

Your question implies that if I was a woman, I'd be less qualified to give you tips on how to impress women, which just doesn't make any sense at all. Literally everything you say screams that you've got no clue where to even start with seduction
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:54 PM
0

God you're retarded
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:09 PM
1

Deception is absolutely not part of the game, and is not going to work most of the time. This is what I mean when I say you're completely out of touch
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:29 AM
1

You really don't know anything about seduction do you?
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:33 AM
1

Always just be honest. It's the easiest and most effective strat
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:28 PM
3

This is a terrible response. People can usually always tell when you're lying, so not only do you miss the opportunity to come across as confident and grounded, you actually come across as sketchy and dishonest
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:27 PM
1

I dunno about "have to", but for most men it's probably a really good idea yeah
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:10 PM
2

If you were being needy it's good to fix that. But I wouldn't recommend swinging over to the other side and making new errors by doing things like leaving her on read, which is kinda rude if she reached out to you and might make her lose attraction to you. Just be chill and normal and not needy. But there's nothing good about pretending to not like her and playing games and shit. That makes you look immature. If you like her reply to her cause that's what a relationship is
/r/seduction26/04/22 12:03 AM
2

I didn't say you should give it up. My recommendation is just to avoid woke people and spaces because it's a real danger there
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:30 PM
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I've known a few different guys to be me too'd for absolutely no good reason. Just depends on your social circle, but in left wing social circles girls will absolutely be me too'ing anyone they want to get rid of basically, even if they didn't do a thing wrong
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:29 PM
0

I got me too'd as revenge for breaking up with a girl. I know a few other guys who have been me too'd for just trying to flirt etc. Depends what circles you're in. If you're in a quite left wing social circle it can be a serious risk to be anything other than basically a full on soy boy type
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:28 PM
9

The more you do it the more you get desensitised to that
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:26 PM
1

Why are you even in this sub if that is your perspective on seduction?
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:25 PM
4

Cause the whole middle east isn't actually run by ISIS
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:24 PM
9

Driving drunk is wack dude. Doing that seriously puts innocent people in danger. I'll never get behind that shit
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:22 PM
1

Start training brazilian jiu jitsu
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:25 AM
1

Really good video about this: https://youtu.be/8YorL1WGlwM
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:32 PM
0

Much more important for online dating yeah. For real life I think looks are about as important for a guy as confidence is for a girl
/r/seduction20/02/22 12:41 PM
2

For guys looks are nowhere near as important as incel types make them out to be. 1- Confidence, Honesty/Trustworthiness & Masculine Vibe 2- Flirtation, Playfulness & Emotional Connection ability 3- Looks People who think looks are first simply do not understand women
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:47 AM
1

Exactly!
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:44 AM
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Bad advice. Looks are not nearly as important as flirting ability. Approaching is one of the best ways to develop that. All the time you're spending improving your looks you should still be spending approaching and flirting because that's where you're gonna get the real gains
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:34 PM
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Keep it up. Are you watching the Natural Lifestyles and Charisma on Command on YouTube? You should be binging their content. Don't worry about not getting many numbers. That just means you haven't really mastered it yet. Keep analysing yourself and working out what you're doing wrong. Think of approaches as opportunities to train and improve your flirting ability. Don't expect to get numbers and dates if you haven't mastered flirting yet. Approach to level up. Once you've leveled up enough then …
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:32 PM
1

Who cares who 'has the power' if the relationship is gonna be a write off.
/r/seduction25/01/22 11:26 AM
1

I'd chat to her about it and be really honest. Tell her how hard it is for you and since she told you she loves you etc you'd really started investing in her and now her pulling away is really hurting you etc. It's understandable for her to want to go at her own pace, tackle her trauma in her own way etc. But if she actually does love you and is a half decent person then she'll recognise that she can't just be super selfish if it's really hurting you. So if you sit down and really talk through a…
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:33 AM
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Lol okay buddy, good luck making the rest of the world bend to your will
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:28 AM
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Unless you're like over 50, asking for a number is kinda weird nowadays. People use Instagram generally as a way to keep in vague contact with someone and find out about them via stalking their pictures etc. The distance and lack of commitment that comes with it is a feature, not a bug, that's why people prefer it Giving a phone number is seen as a next level up in terms of intimacy etc and hot girls would need a burner phone if they were in the habit of giving their number out to everyone who c…
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:23 PM
1

Sounds like your text game is to avoid having a text game. To avoid coming off as needy send some interesting texts that she'll want to reply to. I'm not saying you keep texting her over and over when she's not replying. But it's not needy to have a conversation with someone you're both engaged in, so the trick is to develop an ability to hold an interesting conversation over text. There are some good resources available for that if you look, but really it builds off being able to have a good co…
/r/seduction17/12/21 02:29 AM
1

Doing a good enough job at texting that she increases in interest in you over time. Standard textgame. It's not necessarily easy, but there's no point in writing it off as if it's impossible
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:51 AM
1

Just because you haven't blown them away yet doesn't mean you have no chance. Yes, her responding to you straight away and being super keen is ideal. But there are plenty of levels below ideal that can still be turned into something if you play your cards right rather than giving up
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:05 PM
1

Yeah man just send her a message proposing an alternative date/time for thd date. Sounds like she's up for it and was just busy, no need to be pessimistic
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:47 AM
1

Plenty of women forget about text messages. Plenty of men do and women are humans too. But women generally have way more people texting them so forgetting to reply, being text fatigued etc is definitely a thing and probably happens even more with women
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:45 AM
1

True. But if you can be internally strong enough to not let it mess with you (which i think there are ways to do) then you can get the benefit of those extra %s
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:44 AM
3

It's meant to be said in a joking way
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:02 AM
3

Preach. Inner game > outer game. Principles > techniques. Lifestyle design > whining
/r/seduction27/11/21 03:45 PM
11

100%
/r/seduction09/11/21 04:36 PM
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Don't just complain you can't do something naturally as if anyone who does cool stuff can do it naturally. Set aside an hour one day and sit down and try to actually learn and remember a joke/story and i bet you'll be able to, and then your problem is solved. Write it out by hand on paper, present it to an empty room like you're giving a speech. Then go for a walk and tell it again as if you're walking along the road with a friend. Spend an actual hour or two on trying to learn something impress…
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:45 PM
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Really encouraging to see a good thread with really good comments in this sub again. Been a minute from my perspective
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:59 AM
2

He didn't say only dude, he said primarily
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:55 AM
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"Hi there, hope you're well. What made you decide to reach out to me?" There's no reason to assume almost anything about her motivations if it's been 3 years. Could easily be she's trying to apologize and fix things etc and doesn't know how to start a conversation better then with a youtube video. Asking her a question like this is a good way of letting her tell you exactly what her motivation is, and you don't have to jump to conclusions like some of these other paranoid insecure people here ar…
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:41 PM
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Think there's a lot of people in this thread getting off on the "ahah now the tables have turned, how do you feel now, Female?" aspect of this situation, and aren't actually addressing your situation honestly. Fuck em. It's possible he's had bad experiences with casual sex in the past, so he's carrying all these assumptions about what it would mean, feel like after, etc. By "I dont like causal sex" he might actually mean "I didn't really enjoy the stuff ive classified as 'casual sex' in the past…
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:56 PM
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Zan Perrion has a lot of very deep ans intelligent things to say on this same topic. Worth checking him out if you dont know of him
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:53 AM
2

Okay well im 100% sure you're wrong. Every girl wants to feel wanted like that. If the media has taught you otherwise they've taught you wrong. That's literally what dates are for- seeing if you have more than just a friendship connection. If you're playing it really conservative in order to take it slow because you think that's 'respectful' you're mistaken about what respectful actually means. Girls dont get dressed up sexy to go on dates if they dont want the person they're meeting to be turne…
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:36 PM
1

That's literally what dates are for/about. I think you need to rethink how you conceptualise dates. That will go a long way to being more successful on them. People want to be looked at that way by people they're interested in
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:05 PM
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Sex is a dance, and it begins at the start of the date, not when you get to the bedroom. If you want to fuck her in the bedroom you ought to be fucking her with your eyes and words and body language while you're at the bar/park/wherever
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:01 PM
3

Now we're getting somewhere
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:11 PM
2

Whooop! Yeah sometimes it just takes time. What did she say?
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:16 AM
3

Nice one dude
/r/seduction22/09/21 12:53 AM
1

What are you even trying to achieve with a comment like that tho?
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:31 AM
1

Jesus
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:16 AM
1

What's it about?
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:16 AM
1

I agree with a lot of the others here that it's likely you've accidentally adopted cold, negative, "don't talk to me" body language, and/or your fashion style is shit. What sorts of outfits would you typically wear, and do you think there's anything in the body language idea?
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:15 AM
2

Good luck until then bro
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:37 AM
1

Cool, well if you wanna hit me with any specific questions/problems you have atm I'll do my best to answer them. I'm like an expert in this stuff and your post touched me
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:42 AM
2

Have you read it? Did you enjoy it? Get a lot from it? I can recommend some good books to read next
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:08 AM
1

That's really tough I'm sorry you're in this place. There's probably a lot of advice I could give you about how to deal with mental health and what strategies to employ in life to get yourself in a better situation, but I think it's important to make sure you have the basics in place first before focusing more on specifics So have you read Models by Mark Manson? It's vital reading imo. Teaches you so much about what the right mindset is for approaching girls, developing relationships etc. If you…
/r/seduction12/09/21 02:51 PM
9

You have to go through being shit at something to get good at it. When you're good at it it'll help with women
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:16 AM
1

Act normally. Say hi to her if you see her but don't talk to her unless she talks to you. Otherwise forget her and have a great night. Best case scenario is she sees you having fun and thinks you're cooler than she originally thought and tries to talk to you, you can hit it off and make out and stuff. But don't bet on that. Most likely she didn't really change her opinion so you're better off not assigning too much brain space to her and just having a fun night regardless :)
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:55 PM
1

Pretty shallow idea of seduction mate
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:28 PM
1

Techniques to improve your sexual performance are absolutely an important part of seduction. If you cant give a girl what she wants in the bedroom then you're not going to be as attractive to her as you otherwise would be
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:30 PM
0

People only get mature by learning dude, no need to hate on people for being less experienced than you
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:09 PM
1

Should go without saying dude. Dunno what people you're hanging out with where you think this is something you need to inject into a conversation about sex technique
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:07 PM
0

Two hands around the neck from the front like in movies. But only apply pressure to the sides of the neck with your fingers, dont push with your thumbs. Hold it for like 3 seconds and then let off the pressure for a second but keep your hands there. Check her reaction to see if she wants more or has had enough, if she likes it you can hold for longer, but make sure to give little breaks every few seconds cause actually blocking someone's blood to their brain can knock them out in like 5, 6 secon…
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:06 PM
4

My perspective is the more mature people become, the more capable of connecting with people they get, and the less confused and held back by their insecurities they get
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:04 PM
2

Okay mate. Weird definition imo but okay
/r/seduction10/08/21 08:55 PM
1

She rejected him because she was taken because of her personal ethics about not cheating on her bf, not because she wasn't interested in him. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have given him her number or replied to his text
/r/seduction10/08/21 02:19 PM
-4

That's a good thing to default to if in doubt, yeah 👍 Once you get more advanced though there is a lot of room for nuance
/r/seduction10/08/21 02:17 PM
0

You must have misread the original comment cause otherwise you're making no sense- he did get a real number from someone who was actually interested, and when he texted her she texted back. If you think that's an L and not a W you're looking at this shit way wrong
/r/seduction10/08/21 02:10 PM
-4

I don't know what point you're trying to make, but OP is a perfect example of when no doesn't actually mean no
/r/seduction10/08/21 01:55 PM
14

But it was extremely successful. They had a good interaction, he got her number, and then she didn't flake but actually responded when he texted. The only problem was she was with someone else at the time, but that's nothing he did wrong. It was a massive success of an approach, so it's more like going to the gym, having a great session, and then never going back because despite your great session you noticed someone else lifted heavier weights than you
/r/seduction10/08/21 01:52 PM
-1

Facts don't care about your feelings
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:36 PM
-9

It's possible to be somewhat persistent whilst still coming across as polite and not creepy
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:35 PM
1

This is the truth, but that doesn't mean it's easy for everyone to properly integrate that into their daily worldview
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:34 PM
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Doesn't make any sense to decide not to approach again over that
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:33 PM
1

She might be actually into you but also just be a total idiot. Do you really wanna date an idiot who can't hold a conversation?
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:59 AM
1

It's not a matter of not enough escalation. Could be too much escalation too. Escalation should just be one tool in your belt. The goal is to create an emotional connection with her that you can grow into sexual energy, and dance with that sexual energy so that she's turned on. That's what we mean by spark. If she doesn't feel a spark, not escalating enough could be just one of a thousand things you did wrong
/r/seduction05/07/21 09:18 AM
1

Bring some chocolate and be more chill about setting precedents and whatnot. You can just do whatever you want in the future so it's all cool
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:31 AM
20

Wish more people had this perspective. It would make the world a much better place
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:07 PM
0

They're ways of improving yourself and healthily individuating. They're important whether you are around women or not, but if you want to attract women, being a healthy and mature man is the way to do it easily, rather than playing games and running superficial strategies
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:02 PM
4

There's no problem with making it obvious if you've got the ability to follow through and be unapologetic about your interest. You should read Models by Mark Manson, it sounds like you're still doing beginner game
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:00 AM
2

If you find yourself having to play games you're doing it wrong. If you got friendzoned then you're doing things wrong in how you cultivate your Masculinity and carry yourself. The fact you think you have to play games is part of what is making you fail
/r/seduction27/06/21 10:58 AM
1

Even if she is a little self involved, you can tell her that and ask her to be better. She'll make an effort to if she likes you Communication is key
/r/seduction19/06/21 01:08 AM
1

Watch everything on The Natural Lifestyles YouTube channel. You'll be alright :)
/r/seduction10/04/21 02:41 PM
1

It contributes to it. It's a spectrum. Better than nothing
/r/seduction03/04/21 05:13 AM
1

Assuming you're gonna get a positive response on 100% of your interactions is pretty arrogant lol. The more people you try to hit on the more rejections you're gonna get, that's just the way things go. Doesn't mean it's not a good idea to hit on people you like
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:22 AM
18

Just because something is logically possible doesn't mean it's actually correct or appropriate
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/21 11:49 AM
2

By some yeah it certainly is
/r/seduction18/02/21 10:51 AM
5

Joe Rogan is literally one of the least insecure people i know of. You're a terrible judge of character
/r/seduction18/02/21 10:50 AM
1

Yeah this is the smart take on this issue imo too
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/21 10:05 AM
2

Everything is something you can communicate with her. If you aren't enjoying how she's doing X then absolutely you can look for a time to bring it up and talk to her about it
/r/seduction31/12/20 07:38 AM
-1

Do you have any evidence to support that claim? It's in direct contradiction to the claim made in the official response you quoted in your OP, and i didn't see you rebut it already. They claim it also functions as a service for victims. Why should i believe it isn't?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/20 03:01 AM
-1

Because they specialise in dealing with men. Male and female psychology is significantly different on average. Someone who is trained and experienced working with male psychology is not necessarily qualified to offer the same standard of psychological support to women. I think their position is completely reasonable and OP is trying too hard to have a fight
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 01:47 PM
-2

I dunno man i actually think their response to you was pretty fair and i would have found it satisfactory
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/20 07:43 PM
1

Anything that is positive for your life. Search for "dopemine detox" on YouTube etc. Do one of those and you might see things from a new perspective
/r/seduction17/11/20 02:28 PM
1

Some people don't like even trying to think about something. They need people to lay it all out obviously for them, so they don't have to do any mental work.
/r/seduction17/11/20 07:27 AM
8

So now that it's been identified, what are you going to do to fix it?
/r/seduction17/11/20 07:26 AM
26

It would be wise to begin reprogramming yourself to get it from elsewhere
/r/seduction17/11/20 07:25 AM
3

I think actually the science is pretty clear on the differences in interests between men and women. The largest difference in interest is between "things" and "people". In general men are more interested in things, and women are more interested in people. This basically lines up exactly with what we would expect biologically from a sexually dimorphic species in which one sex is biologically tasked with the raising of the young and the maintenance of social cohesion And we see this same pattern a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/20 01:32 PM
3

Fair enough, yeah i actually agree with you more than i disagree with you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/20 02:54 PM
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Of course this hurt men and boys, this organisation (Girls Who Code) is funded by big corporations. how excluding men and boys from educational opportunity don't hurt them ? Just because an equivalent org hasn't been created for men doesn't mean they're being excluded per se, it just means men haven't stepped up to do what women are doing here. The fact Girls Who Code is funded by big corporations is a separate issue i think to the principled argument. But this could be separately addressed with…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/20 12:44 PM
13

I think the Woke movement has been more damaging to the genuine Leftist movement than anything since the USSR. If we want genuine Leftist principles to succeed politically, Step 1 needs to be winning control of the "Leftist tribe" back from these pseudo-leftist authoritarian fraudsters
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/20 12:27 PM
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I think because most girls aren't interested in coding, having a group for girls who are is valuable, and in principle it doesn't hurt men in any way. If a group of men wanted to create a "Men who do cheerleading" society I'd like them to be able to make it too. Men and women are fundamentally different in some important ways, i think it's legitimate to have sex only spaces sometimes. Especially when it's for people who are in a sexual minority within their field and want to support each other. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/20 12:07 PM
7

Authorities forcing people to be/do anything is rarely a step in the right direction imo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/20 12:00 PM
3

Wow he really got banned for that?! That sub's mods must be fucked
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/20 01:21 PM
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I think it's worth getting tinder. You're exaggerating how bad it is. In truth there's actually a decent amount of normal and friendly people who are looking for relationships too and just not looking to get laid. Also talking through text first before you meet up in person seems great for someone with your speaking issue. You're gonna get plenty of fleshlight searchers for sure, and plenty of cringey losers, but there's decent people in between those if you're willing to do the work of picking …
/r/seduction21/08/20 12:26 PM
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Nice one bro
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:49 PM
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Having a good logical point is almost never as important as the emotional feelings that whatever you're saying generates in the other person. Flirting and seduction is all about bringing positive emotions out of each other. Sometimes a good point, even if it really is correct, can change the tone or the feeling of the conversation in a way that really isn't worth it. Remember: "facts don't care about your feelings, and feelings don't care about your facts". And seduction is primarily the world o…
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:47 PM
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For me i basically just watched every video on The Natural Lifestyles and studied them to work out how to be like those guys
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:43 PM
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As you get started dating different girls you'll get better and better at flirting and building relationships. So it follows logically that the first girls you date are gonna be when your seduction skills are lowest. So it follows logically that the girls you can attract right at the start aren't necessarily gonna be as good themselves as the ones you can attract once you've got the hang of it all. Girls aren't these perfect angels that we need to do the right things to impress. They're flawed h…
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:42 PM
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Very telling that this post has been removed too. Clearly the mods need to be replaced, they're not honourable or responsible enough to be allowed their authority
/r/seduction15/05/20 02:07 PM
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Wasted opportunity bro
/r/seduction10/05/20 01:57 PM
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Text her more if you like her and want to get to know her better. If you don't like her and want to get to know her better then forget about her Just be authentic
/r/seduction03/05/20 01:12 PM
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If they haven't talked much already there's not much reason she'd be into him
/r/seduction03/05/20 01:11 PM
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I think i accidentally wrote psychoanalysis twice, when i meant the first one to say psychology. There's an important difference between Psychoanalysis and the wider field of Psychology, so i think it's a valid point. At any rate, the discussion of data is not central to the real debate here, which is about the theory of psychoanalysis and whether it stands up to scrutiny. Unless you're willing to argue that nothing that isn't supported by data can be true and valuable then the analysis of the t…
/r/seduction30/04/20 08:44 PM
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Hey, im glad you liked it :) I reckon a good place to start with Peterson could be this short clip of one of his lectures. Check it out and tell me what you think of it and I'll recommend you something to follow it :)
/r/seduction30/04/20 08:39 PM
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I didn't say Psychoanalysis Psychology doesn't use data sets. I said Psychoanalysis doesnt much, because it's more about theory. There's plenty of data business in mainstream psychology What piece of counter evidence do you have to back up your assertion that im wrong?
/r/seduction30/04/20 05:54 PM
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I'm not interested in fetching citations for some reddit post im replying to while out shopping. OP made a good and very helpful point, some guy came along trying to brush it off with what I think is an undereducated understanding of how the mind works, perpetuating a dangerous myth that hurts people. I was simply stepping up to defend OP's point from what I see as misinformation. If you're keen to construct an experiment to disprove the existence of the unconscious, or its ability to affect the…
/r/seduction30/04/20 04:27 PM
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I think this is a really good mindset, and id encourage you to stick to it. but I'd also suggest you to stay open to using drugs as a tool to achieve your goals. Ive known a number of people who've found antidepressants to be useful for them, and if the drugs in cannabis and mushrooms can be really useful for personal growth then clearly medications aren't all bad
/r/seduction30/04/20 04:15 PM
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The field does barely receive any funding lol. I'm not saying Freud and Jung didn't ever use data, just that data isn't as core to psychoanalysis as it is to the hard sciences Also, everyone doesn't know Freud and Jung. They're sadly not very well respected by scientists
/r/seduction30/04/20 04:10 PM
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Psychoanalysis isn't really based on data sets so much dude. It's mainly a theoretical discipline. We haven't really developed any technology yet that would allow us to get the kind of data etc that hard sciences use. It just doesn't work in the same way. As to what i studied, ive done a good amount of work with the primary texts of Jung and Freud, as well as Lacan, along with a lot of the more recent work of Zizek and Peterson. That's on top of a university education in european philosophy with…
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:59 PM
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What are you rolling your eyes at dude, that's how it works. Your brain runs on chemicals and electricity, everyone knows that already. But your thoughts change how your brain produces and uses those chemicals. Studying psychoanalysis is one of the best things ive ever done, and exploring and understanding my unconscious is what allowed me to overcome my own depression and be now free of it for years despite once being trapped in it for years. This "its just muh chemicals" superstition is a dang…
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:33 PM
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I think it's more reasonable to say the chemical imbalances develop from the actions of your mind, than the other way around. Unless you have some kind of genetic disability then your brain isnt meant to have those imbalances. OP is talking about how you developed those chemical imbalances in the first place. He's highlighting the underlying psychological mechanism which caused your brain to stop producing as much serotonin as it's meant to
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:00 PM
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How does it not stand on its own? What are the criteria for standing on its own? I think it does
/r/seduction11/04/20 12:43 AM
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Then you agree with me. So why did you make your comment look like you were disagreeing?
/r/seduction27/03/20 06:15 PM
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What, they won't ever? You don't think we're ever going to be able to actually build a good and will functioning society?
/r/seduction27/03/20 04:52 PM
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I make up for it by having a tiny penis
/r/seduction27/03/20 04:58 AM
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Because I'm actually intelligent, I'm not a fundamentalist about any principle I believe in. This is a time to temporarily surrender personal freedoms for the sake of the society
/r/seduction27/03/20 04:58 AM
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Yeah true, but my point is they shouldnt be
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:14 PM
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Yes i understand that. That's why it's so important for the government to do what it's created for and step in and provide financial support for all citizens for the duration of the necessary quarantine time
/r/seduction26/03/20 05:35 PM
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I'm a huge Libertarian but the government does have some important uses, and any government that is just "choosing to not get too involved" because of "personal freedoms" is utterly failing in its duty to serve the community. A global viral pandemic is like the one time when the government, local or otherwise, needs to be stepping up and taking control to make sure we execute what the scientists say is the best plan. It's necessary to sacrifice freedoms and luxuries in times of crisis, that's ju…
/r/seduction26/03/20 03:25 PM
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Shouldn't matter what certain states say. The WHO and other expert bodies have made it very clear we should be self isolating until the virus starts to die out. Anyone not doing that rn is being irresponsible, even if their government decides to give them the go ahead
/r/seduction26/03/20 03:01 PM
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Give her a chance. This is a time for increased compassion
/r/seduction25/03/20 06:25 PM
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Same applies to recreational drugs though
/r/seduction16/03/20 08:29 PM
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Then find a girl to spurt over once a week then. The more you associate cumming with looking at a screen, the more your brain will be confused when you're with a real woman
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:20 PM
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That's the point
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:19 PM
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/r/NoFap
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:19 PM
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Can we not talk about "drugs" as if they're some monolith and they're all the same. The range of drugs out there is very wide and their effects and mechanisms and risks and benefits vary widely
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:18 PM
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Understanding what to do when you get there is very useful in giving you the confidence to make it happen. Even if you're not having sex yet, learn how to be good at sex now. Then when you get to the bedroom you'll be ready to go, rather than feeling lost
/r/seduction11/02/20 04:22 PM
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Not very many though tbh. Much better to go to the gym and actually improve yourself, rather than clinging to mindsets that make you feel a little better
/r/seduction07/02/20 06:55 AM
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You'll not get very far in this game if you write off everything that isn't immediately actionable as fluff. The real gold advice in this scene is all deep principle stuff about mindsets, psychology and spirituality. If you think it's all about techniques and 'actionable' stuff you're still at a beginner stage
/r/seduction24/12/19 04:52 PM
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This seems pretty weird bro. I think you've got the right principles there but your execution is flawed
/r/seduction14/10/19 03:24 AM
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I was with you til the mom in the hospital thing. Then nah, fuck you. If you have lots of girls flaking on you it might be related to the fact you seem like a sociopath
/r/seduction14/10/19 03:23 AM
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I think you're exactly the kind of man who should read this book. It's honestly very very insightful
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:56 PM
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It's just a framework for humans to think in yeah But also no im not seeing how you think all animals are feminine? I think most people intuit, for example, that cats are feminine and dogs are masculine
/r/seduction29/09/19 10:12 AM
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Who said anything about being exclusive to men?
/r/seduction28/09/19 07:16 PM
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Yeah man i think you've nailed it
/r/seduction28/09/19 10:57 AM
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Fair enough but i strongly disagree
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:02 AM
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I'm glad! I find it super hard to put into words! Cheers
/r/seduction28/09/19 01:18 AM
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blindly assuming there's merit to it because it has the TEDx logo. I don't think many people do this
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:17 AM
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I guess everything does if you're ignorant and arrogant enough
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:12 AM
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This is a silly thing to say. -1. No they can't. TEDx just means it's an independently run event using the TED format and brand. But it's still people who care about their conference inviting people they want to come speak and demanding a certain standard. You can't just roll on up to your local TEDx event and hop on the stage -2. There's plenty of great TEDx talks. Here's a few bangers: https://youtu.be/Lp7E973zozc https://youtu.be/wSF82AwSDiU https://youtu.be/rni41c9iq54 https://youtu.be/LBvHI…
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:09 AM
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No, actually thats the opposite of what this video is saying
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:50 PM
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I think you've actually misunderstood the point she's making mate
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:50 PM
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We call them feminine and masculine because we're seeing them through the lens of being human. And in humans each sex has kinda chosen one to specialise in. Hormones and physiological differences and stuff, compounded by social norms, kinda bias one sex towards focusing on one side of things, while the other focuses on the other side. Eg. A woman has to open up and allow a man to penetrate her. Whereas a man has to direct his penis and thrust inside to penetrate her. So already even in the act o…
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:49 PM
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In a sense it is, you can call it active/passive, hardness/softness, yin/yang or whatever you want. The basic idea is that all things have 2 different, opposite ways they can express themselves and be interacted with. We find this binary polarity in every part of our universe: Left Wing vs Right Wing political ideologies, Fermions vs Bosons, Science vs Humanities, Giving vs Taking, Meditating vs Philosophising, Weightlifting vs Yoga, Eastern Philosophy vs Western Philosophy A healthy life requir…
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:41 PM
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Exactly! Altho i think as a man you should be a little more in the side of masculinity because that complements your sex well, and women should default to a little more on the side of femininity for the same reason. But both should be completely capable of operating in "the other's" world when it's appropriate. ie. If your gf has just had a terrible day, then the correct response may be for you to go into your feminine and hug, comfort, care for her etc. And if you're being a wimp about somethin…
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:25 PM
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Definitely. I think actually it's important to realise that all things have both masculine and feminine going on in them at the same time. Just one thing will generally be the dominant energy in each. eg. Cooking: Following a recipe and choosing and weighing the right things is masculine, but caring for and cultivating the meal as it cooks, and crafting a beautiful look for it when serving on the plate is feminine. The 2 come together in the act, hence cooking feels deep and meaningful, because …
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:16 PM
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I can love the taste of whiskey, beer and cigars. Who said you couldn't? Healthy humans have a mix of masculine and feminine energies. If you dont get this, your game will never reach the highest levels That's experience, not results, and well established as masculine. Just because something is associated with men or known as a thing men like doesn't men it's masculine. Men like women and women generally aren't considered masculine lol
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:57 PM
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What makes you say that? What about it do you think is inaccurate etc?
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:54 PM
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Would you say you have any history with social anxiety, shyness, etc? Unless the guys are being super weird about it i don't think there's much reason it should be nerve wracking? Talk for a bit and then leave when you want to. No guy should be making you feel like you have to talk to him. Although I'm sure that does happen sometimes so I'm sorry if you've experienced that
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:30 AM
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Im not a fan of just “approaching” random girls.. its high pressure and puts both of you on the spot.. It's exactly that high pressure that opens the door to easily creating sexual energy. Instead of running from that pressure, run into it. Accept it, own it, enjoy it, and play with it. That's absolutely key to seduction. You'll never get good if you run away from tension at the time and look for the lowest pressure way to meet girls. Because even when you meet them, that tendency to run from te…
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:27 AM
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Indirect is never as effective as direct, and should only be used if you are still working on your confidence
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:32 AM
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It's the only way to do it, otherwise you're just friendzoning yourself. If you don't know how to do it then you have a lot of work to do, because it's got nothing to do with how you look. But if you don't believe it's possible then you haven't even really begun to learn seduction. There's some good links in the sidebar, but i recommend The Natural Lifestyles and the Fearless Man youtube channels
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:30 AM
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First think of what it is about her that makes you attracted to her Then walk up to her and tell her that you wanted to talk to her and tell her that Then ask her name and what she's up to Have a conversation for about 5 minutes, but instead of running away from the sexual tension and trying to neuter out the conversation to just a friendly professional chat, try to lean into the sexual tension, and keep the topic orbiting around the fact that you find her really attractive and want to get to kn…
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:09 AM
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The fantasy aspect is why I don't have much interest in Rocky and Gladiator. Fine films but not all that deep. I think this is really quite naive tbh. Imo they're incredibly deep films. When was the last time you watched them? Perhaps it was a good while ago and you were too young to notice all the nuance? Calling Gladiator not deep is absurd to me. You have to look past the flashy violence and focus on the character development and the themes being played out. There's no shortage of violent act…
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:49 AM
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Oh ive heard of this but never watched it! Cheers for the recommendation :D
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:29 PM
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A good rule of thumb, if it makes your eyes roll, like Keeping Up With The Kardashians, it's probably a good way to understand women. I cant get over this statement. I wanna give you some advice: You really need to raise your standards for women. If you're just going after these low quality types of women you're missing out on a whole lot
/r/seduction26/09/19 09:55 PM
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I agree with you. But i think i must not be explaining myself well enough cause im not actually talking about actors, im really talking about plot points, themes, atmosphere etc.
/r/seduction26/09/19 09:52 PM
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Yeah it should really be called "1 unnecessary man pretends tries to show off how much he knows about sex by talking down to 2 girls sitting awkwardly beside him in their underwear who clearly aren't attracted to him and actually have such consistently valuable things to say it's obvious the show would be better if they were the hosts like the name implies and the man wasnt involved at all" But I guess that isn't as snappy sounding But there's loads of good advice in it. And there's another cour…
/r/seduction26/09/19 09:46 PM
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Good luck on your journey brother
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:55 PM
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If your haven't added meditation to your life it can be a great help with things like performance anxiety
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:51 PM
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100%
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:50 PM
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Great advice
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:49 PM
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Most women, like most men, aren't so psychopathic to see possible partners primarily as sex objects
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:48 PM
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Very no
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:46 PM
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I think that macho action movies are more like a cartoon stereotype of masculinity. Extremely hackneyed and repetitious. Definitely agree, hence why i didn't include any in my list. I think they're the masculine equivalent of Keeping up with the Kardashians etc. What you want to watch for is brief clips where very little is happening, but a cool male character is literally "carrying the scene" with his charismatic body language such as how he walks, stands, general posture, head held high, and u…
/r/seduction26/09/19 06:34 PM
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It either has value or doesn't, stop being stupid
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:23 PM
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Actually you originally said that tutorials have no value. That's what I was protesting to you can watch as many tutorials as you like but you only get better over trial and error
/r/seduction26/09/19 04:56 PM
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Yeah fair enough. Might as well then
/r/seduction26/09/19 04:55 PM
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No, but suggesting that they just plug away at it and it'll come in time is bad advice because while true it completely neglects the fact that getting good at sex is a skill that can be learned like anything else- by dedicated study
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:09 PM
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It was a good "shit test" yeah but the line about her breaking up isn't good. If she likes her bf then she's not gonna wanna break up with him, so you've just associated yourself with negative emotions for her
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:05 PM
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No, assuming that because the first couple of times were bad for you, then they'll also be bad for everyone else, is generalising
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:03 PM
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The fact you can't tell this is clearly legit is worrying. You need to focus on developing your empathy and warmth if you don't wanna fuck this one up
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:02 PM
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I'd just tell her what you told us. Honesty is always the way to go. Tell her you were nervous cause you were so excited to kiss her, but since you got more drunk than you meant to you couldn't manage to control yourself properly and it turned to shit. Then joke about how much you kicked yourself etc when you went home. Dont apologise because that was a bad kiss. Rather, that doesn't count as a kiss at all. Tell her you'll make sure to not be so drunk next time, so you can kiss her properly
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:00 PM
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I presume you can buy it from his website or something
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:55 PM
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No, tutorials definitely help. And sex doesn't need to suck the first few times. You shouldn't generalise out your experiences to everyone else
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:54 PM
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Feels kinda creepy off the back of you replying to her story, rather than after a rejection, which is basically the only place you can make it work i think. "lol ok" is pretty dismissive so i think she maybe felt the same too
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:48 PM
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You seem to be missing what I'm going for. The bachelorette and the Kardashians are incredibly stupid and immature manifestations of femininity. Im not looking for trash, im trying to go after what the core of femininity is. If the core of femininity is on show in the Kardashians i think im gonna put all my energy into trying to turn myself gay instead Nausicaa isn't feminine, it's a man writing that story. I don't see why it's relevant that it's written by a man. If that man understands the fem…
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:42 PM
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Especially if the other girl is showing interest, it shows that you're socially capable and desirable, and you having success elsewhere can cause her to second guess whether she was right in rejecting you
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:37 PM
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Any interest you show in anyone else while you're talking to her undermines whatever interest you're showing in her. Showing interest in the girl you want is an important fundamental of seduction, so you're just shooting yourself in the foot
/r/seduction26/09/19 12:02 PM
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Same ideas apply. You need to just learn the basics. There's links in the sidebar and channels like The Natural Lifestyles and The Fearless Man on YouTube
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:53 AM
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Have you watched a bunch of "How to" tutorial videos? You can find loads on PornHub etc. Try searching like "How to finger a girl", "How to last long in bed", "How to eat pussy" etc. Knowing "what you should do" can go a long way to making you feel more comfortable in the moment, cause you have at least a theoretical foundation to fall back on/refer to There's a torrent too of a course called 2 Girls Teach Sex. Despite the name it actually has a kinda cringey and douchey male host. But if you ca…
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:51 AM
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You need to go out drinking more
/r/seduction22/09/19 03:33 PM
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You don't tell girl you learn game is basically the core message inside my comment Yeah and I'm saying you're wrong. Keeping stuff, any stuff, hidden from someone is evidence that you're not going about it the right way. Why are you so arrogant though? You're so quick to get so loud and angry and frustrated. And just repeat yourself over and over instead of actually engaging with what I said. You shouldn't be so insecure
/r/seduction18/08/19 03:06 PM
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It's like woman asking how many girl you been with. You keep that shit on down low, you don't EXPLICITY tell her. You're just not getting it
/r/seduction18/08/19 03:04 PM
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If you are "learning game" in a way that would appear offensive to women then you are learning some shit and you need to stop and do it better. You should never be ashamed of the things you choose to do in life. If you wouldn't share it with someone you're interested in then you shouldn't be doing it in the first place. Stop "learning game" from PUAs and start learning how human emotional and sexual connections work. This isn't /r/PUA
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:46 PM
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No, you're saying if you find something repulsive about the person don't tell them before they're completely invested because they might stop having sex with you. Your analogy is broken. If you were trying to make that analogy, you would mean that the girl shouldn't wear makeup until the guy is invested. Because your point is if there's something about you that would be repulsive to the other person, keep it hidden. But what you've said is that if you find something repulsive about someone else,…
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:43 PM
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He's not saying she's being submissive. You're completely missing it. He's saying she's being more playful and they're connecting better. You need to learn more about the psychology of seduction, because while i can see your comment is coming from a good place and with good intentions, it's also coming from a place of ignorance and misperception. What he's doing is 100% playful and positive. It creates positive emotions and energy between the two of them, and that's why it's effective
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:38 PM
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Which part did I mention sleep with girl that you repulsed by? Here: Same as some man who find woman that used heavy makeup or breast implant repulsive. You kept that shit in the down low UNLESS she ask, which doubt it as she's too heavily invested into fucking you and falling for you to care about it✌️
/r/seduction18/08/19 03:58 AM
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Clearly his gf didn't agree. She liked it. So you're just wrong
/r/seduction17/08/19 11:12 PM
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Ah yeah i understand that. But my point was that if you understand what 'game theory' is a bit deeper, then you'll 1- realise it's a lot deeper than just gaming women; and 2- be able to articulate it in a way that doesn't sound cringey and bad. Your view of game theory impacts the way in which you describe it. And it can absolutely be explained in a way that sounds positively impressive, rather than shameful. But that requires going beyond just 'learning game'
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:40 PM
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Yeah Dan Bacon has a lot of good stuff. Ive learnt from him for sure. My top tier though are still The Natural Lifestyles and The Fearless Man
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:36 PM
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Nice one :) They're absolutely great channels. Changed my life
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:14 PM
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I don't think that really changes anything. There's no kind of magic that protects women from being bad at understanding seduction, so you're just as capable of being wrong as any sausage owner. I guess the term 'white knight' is typically applied to men, but i don't think that really matters
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:13 PM
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You're failing to see the difference between a playful challenge with no real expectation that she must obey, and some kind of genuinely abusive scenario in which he's dominating, intimidating and belittling her. It was just a playful joke/challenge. As evidenced from the fact she was smiling and playing along. The fact you think it's misogyny and making her a slave and stuff is a big misread of the situation and shows you've still a long way to go. There's really good resources on YouTube on th…
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:51 PM
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Thought I was a good lover but I was more like a submissive lesbian with chicks. This is an excellent way of describing something that I think many people here have probably done. That's great advice btw, nice
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:33 PM
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Manipulating women isn't cool. But manipulating women also isn't what seduction is about
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:31 PM
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If you find a woman you're with repulsive in some way, but you're keeping that on the DL to avoid her stopping fucking you... Jesus that's a sorry situation. Get better at seducing, and then only sleep with girls you aren't repulsed by. If you ever have to trick a woman to sleep with you/not leave you/etc. then you're not as good at seduction as you need to be. Being that desperate for anything with a vagina is not healthy, and lowering your standards that much does damage to your mental health
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:29 PM
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Anything you keep a secret has negative effects you can't control until you admit your secret. If you think there's something bad about learning how to create sexual and emotional connections with people then you should go and think more deeply about it until you work out how it's actually a healthy part of life. Then you will be able to share your desire for self improvement with others without any shame
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:23 PM
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You're missing the point. He could. But getting the fork washed wasn't that important. Using the opportunity to create a positive interaction through a silly game was. If he had have just washed it himself then he wouldn't have been able to add a bit of flirtation and energy and fun and drama. Creating that positive energy in moments is absolutely key to creating connection between people. He took something mundane and turned it to something that created bonding between them. That's real quality…
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:21 PM
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Beginning to sound a bit like a White Knight dude. You sound like you're not quite on the same level as OP and some of the others here, so try to have a bit more humility and look for what you can learn before you look for what you can teach/correct. You may in fact be the one with the wrong ideas
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:16 PM
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Nah I can definitely understand how this would work in the right context. You're just not seeing it yet, but it's definitely legit
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:14 PM
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Yeah boiii!! The key trick to being good with women is just becoming a really great, well rounded, and high level human. Thus 'learning seduction' is actually a door to learning how to live well and be the best person possible. Soon you realise it transcends just being successful with women
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:13 PM
6

Try to look past the individual words and work out what the theme/topic the sentence is bringing up is. Then realise she's said the sentence in order to bring that topic into the interaction. If she mentions her bra, the topic is boobs, so she's done that to introduce her boobs into your mind. So a good response is to say something sexy about her boobs and/or escalate in that direction
/r/seduction05/08/19 02:26 PM
8

If you're feeling tired in your 30s you need to fix your diet and start exercising. That should not be a thing
/r/seduction05/08/19 02:22 PM
3

I dont think you did much wrong. You're acting in the right way. Put out the invitation, didn't get too upset when it didn't go how you hoped, and then double checked with others to get feedback on your choice. Seems like you're on the right path
/r/seduction10/07/19 05:46 PM
3

This aint the sub for you then bro. We like and enjoy girls here
/r/seduction10/07/19 04:52 PM
3

I think she probably wanted you to be like "Noo it'll be a good idea, cause I really miss you and X and Y and please come on lets fuck again it'll be great" If im right then she'll have been disappointed you left like you did, regretting her tactics now, and probably hit you up again like next week or something to try and have another attempt
/r/seduction10/07/19 04:51 PM
11

That feels pretty artificial and not really like what a high level human would do
/r/seduction10/07/19 04:49 PM
1

Yeah i agree with that
/r/seduction01/07/19 03:40 PM
1

Do you not realise that the strategy you just described completely is manipulation? I think you still have a lot to learn about how to seduce women. But also, that wasn't even the question OP asked
/r/seduction30/06/19 12:33 PM
2

Because good people care about being good partners
/r/seduction30/06/19 12:31 PM
2

Or just every girl you can get to talk to you
/r/seduction30/06/19 12:29 PM
2

You're tall enough. Insecurity about height will do your game more damage than lack of height ever could
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:03 PM
2

Stop your trolling
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:11 PM
1

I found this short video clip really helpful for helping me take the next step. https://youtu.be/ESYYby1FuPc Think of something you want to improve about yourself and write it down. Put it up on your wall, and if you can't think what to do next ask me and ill try to think for you :)
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:09 PM
1

Having music on when someone arrives is a good idea tbf
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:20 PM
4

Obviously you're clearly immature, but i honestly can't see how you thought i said anything about spending money
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:04 PM
15

Stupid attitude. Dates are about connecting to the person and seeing what happens, not scoring specific goals. Get rid of this attitude to improve in your seduction
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:26 PM
1

Perfect response: Ah damn, that's disappointing. But yeah you seem cool so i hope we can be friends too She's not available.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:42 PM
1

"What's the thing about them you like the most?"
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:17 PM
2

A few good dates implies they've agreed to go out with you dude
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:37 PM
2

There's some good links in the sidebar. You should also check out The Natural Lifestyles and Fearless Man on YouTube
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:36 PM
2

Knowing some Chinese girls i don't doubt this one bit. Good advice
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:50 PM
2

Valley Uprising is really worth a watch for inspiration and motivation. Especially recommended with some weed
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:33 AM
1

It can be worth watching Chinese produced porn to get a feel for how the sexual norms and expectations are different from in Western culture. You could also just ask a question like that to a Chinese girl you're flirting with
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:22 AM
1

What's wrong with video games and wrestling lol?
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:43 PM
3

I think you've a deal of maturing to do as an adult before you'd be able to understand the advice i would have for you, so i don't think it would be a good use of my time
/r/seduction06/01/19 07:52 PM
4

Such an oversimplification shows you really dont have much experience with women tbh bro
/r/seduction06/01/19 05:39 PM
8

These are English idioms. You should Google them
/r/seduction06/01/19 05:38 PM
1

Youre saying bachata usually attracts a younger crowd? I've started learning salsa already but I'm only like a month in so not super invested. Would you say it's a good idea to switch to bachata instead?
/r/seduction28/09/18 07:01 PM
1

Thanks for the explanation :)
/r/seduction28/09/18 01:46 PM
3

Thanks :)
/r/seduction28/09/18 01:45 PM
1

I want to know why bachata and not just salsa
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:52 PM
2

Why bachata?
/r/seduction28/09/18 10:12 AM
9

Doesnt sound good, even as a joke
/r/seduction25/09/18 12:40 AM
21

What the fuck are you calling yourself a predator for dude?
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:49 PM
0

You didn't answer though. You answered a different question
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:00 PM
0

That's a stupid response. Answer it properly or quit throwing insults about
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:00 PM
2

Fair enough, sorry man
/r/seduction08/09/18 02:33 PM
2

What is the line between spam and sharing your own work, in your opinion?
/r/seduction08/09/18 12:20 PM
1

Work on trying to integrate the fake parts of you that are working for you into your real self, so you start to actually become the person you want to be. In time you'll realise you're not faking it anymore
/r/seduction08/09/18 12:18 PM
1

It's definitely a good idea to dress well. If you think you have to lower a girls expectations to give yourself a better chance of pulling you're really misunderstanding some of the basics of seduction
/r/seduction08/09/18 12:16 PM
0

Jesus man yeah I don't know what's up with this thread. This sub usually has its head screwed on, but I guess this post has attracted the ones with little experience actually going to bars and learning bar etiquette. It's fucking basic stuff like
/r/seduction02/09/18 11:45 PM
1

Why is this something that's intimidating you? Why is this something you would be mad about? Are you mad at your GF for being attractive? That would be pretty stupid so I presume it's not that lol. So are you mad at this guy for trying to talk with your GF? He probably shouldn't be pushing since he knows she has a BF but fuck dude it's just no big deal. Chill out. If your GF likes you then she'll stay with you. If she was planning on cheating on you or leaving you for him she wouldn't have told …
/r/seduction01/09/18 06:39 PM
2

https://pca.st/fdeT The Natural Lifestyles have a podcast, if you're not familiar with them through their youtube channel you're definitely missing out
/r/seduction27/08/18 01:51 PM
2

You can still learn. Anyone can still learn. Even if it's harder for some than others, most don't even bother trying to learn. Don't be one of those, you can still learn and succeed
/r/seduction26/08/18 05:11 AM
7

This is the correct answer OP. Yeah it's possible she was lying about saying she'd meet up, but there's nothing you can do about her not being an honest person. What you can change is how you act at your end. And this is good advice. If she is on the fence about whether or not she's interested, asking her to pick/suggest a date/time might be that extra bit of work on her part that makes her go "fuck it I don't care enough to bother". Whereas if you pick a time for her you'll have a better shot, …
/r/seduction23/08/18 12:51 PM
1

Quality contribution. Thanks OP :)
/r/seduction16/08/18 10:12 PM
6

Yo that's a great Fort Minor reference dude. Big up Mike Shinoda. You got yourself a cool chick
/r/seduction12/08/18 01:33 AM
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Plenty of better things you could do with that time tbh
/r/seduction11/08/18 10:01 AM
1

I thought casanova was well liked among women and generally was quite respectful towards them?
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:54 AM
1

That's not what womanizing means though. Womanizing is the negative, immoral and exploitative version of banging loads of women
/r/seduction10/08/18 10:13 PM
1

Im facinated by that quote about truth and lying
/r/seduction10/08/18 06:53 PM
1

Dont think he really 'womanized' did he?
/r/seduction10/08/18 06:52 PM
0

Dude the clitoris has more nerve endings than the entire penis. You've literally got no idea what you're talking bout. Go read wikipedia
/r/MensRights25/07/18 05:54 PM
0

Why are you bringing up reproduction when that's not what this post is about?
/r/MensRights25/07/18 04:49 PM
3

What makes you say that?
/r/MensRights25/07/18 03:51 PM
10

The post says AS important, not more important. You've made a reading error
/r/MensRights25/07/18 03:40 AM
5

You're definitely misreading this. Work on your reading comprehension
/r/seduction13/07/18 10:55 AM
1

This is also true, but you're just emphasising how much they need help
/r/seduction07/07/18 10:19 AM
1

Climbing is a great idea too. You climbed anywhere cool?
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:37 PM
4

Incels are really just people in a really bad place who cant see a way out. I think it's better to shine a light for them and show them the way out rather than laugh at them for being lost. I do do a bit of laughing in private tho
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:36 PM
14

Mate you post on incel subs, you don't have a leg to stand on. Seriously dude accept that you're a beginner and make use of the good resources here, it'll improve your life significantly
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:16 PM
9

If you honestly think so then you don't have a clue about women or seduction. Start with the resources in the sidebar or The Natural Lifestyles on YouTube
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:11 PM
10

You must be on the wrong sub. How the hell else do you increase your chance of seducing a girl than by making yourself more attractive to her? Remember attractiveness is not purely what your face looks like
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:55 PM
13

If you aren't willing to change career to something less sausage-festy, then join some kind of mixed gender social activity, like taking dance lessons (salsa, swing, tango, etc), going regularly to a local music concert venue, group meditation class/yoga, book club, gym, etc. Also you almost definitely don't have autism, you've probably just got bad social skills due to underuse. Just keep trying to socialise both outside and inside your comfort zone and it'll come with time. Also. Can you manag…
/r/seduction06/07/18 01:02 PM
3

Just be honest to everyone involved. Make no apology for your feelings and for following your desires. If you like girl 1 ans don't like girl 2 then tell girl one you like her and tell girl 2 you enjoyed kissing her but you dont see anything else happening, and that also you do like her friend
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:48 PM
1

Bait and switch?
/r/seduction19/06/18 06:57 PM
1

Yes, it can be. But in this case it amounts to "Im too insecure to hear you say bad things about my gf, stop talking so i don't feel offended pls". A real alpha doesn't shy away from conversations because they make him feel uncomfortable. No one is perfect, including your gf. If someone else has negative things to say about her maybe there's truth in it and maybe you should listen if you care about your gf. It's beta af to be like "nooo don't say anything bad about her! I won't listen to it!"
/r/seduction19/06/18 01:21 PM
1

Says the guy who thinks you should act one way to attract a girl and then a different way to keep her o.O Please explain to me what is good about paying for all my gf's friends' drinks just because I've got a dick?
/r/seduction19/06/18 01:19 PM
3

Where this metaphor falls down is that in the real world with women the fish actually want to be caught though
/r/seduction18/06/18 08:53 AM
1

Jesus this is weird advice We can be hard to understand, but once you embrace the rules of the game, it does become more straightforward. Please no. Being honest and authentic (good) is the opposite of "embracing the rules of the game" (fake) 1) This just looks like you're trying to put on an act to impress her mom and grandma 2) Why the hell should the guy be buying everyone free shit for just because he's the only male? You've got some fucked up views about gender 3) This makes you sound like …
/r/seduction18/06/18 08:52 AM
1

Have you considered it might be important to develop both sides of the spectrum, and that the truth doesn't just lie in one extreme?
/r/seduction18/06/18 08:44 AM
10

It's not a competition
/r/seduction18/06/18 08:43 AM
11

You might have been learning pretty artificial and insincere "pickup techniques" which feel weird when you do them with people you know and respect because they're kinda fake. What resources have you been studying to improve with women?
/r/seduction17/06/18 06:55 PM
2

Nobody follows the mystery method anymore dude it's not 2001 anymore. I think there's a decent consensus now that mystery-style manipulation and indirect gaming is inferior to cultivating natural polarity and direct engagement
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:37 PM
1

PUA is mostly bullshit dude. But in the seduction community, rather than the PUA community, there's pretty decent consensus on almost all topics. You seem to think the most important part of seduction is how "handsome" you are. But that's just really not true. Girls are much more attracted to personality and "vibe" than physical appearance Check out this video, it's really good: https://youtu.be/-juyEIgwhGQ
/r/seduction12/06/18 03:24 PM
1

A girl knows what you're really doing when you say "Can I give you a compliment without it sounding like I'm hitting on you". She knows you're trying to hit on her. So between the two scenarios of "This guy is hitting on me but too shy to admit it directly so he does it sneakily" and "This guy is hitting on me and has the balls to just be up front about it", she's definitely gonna find the second guy more attractive for all the obvious and basic reasons. You're not gonna have better success by p…
/r/seduction12/06/18 02:06 PM
38

Direct approach > indirect approach
/r/seduction11/06/18 01:31 PM
32

Don't wait to see her pupils dilate before you make a move lol
/r/seduction10/06/18 01:53 PM
0

I know psychology
/r/seduction10/06/18 04:31 AM
4

I know for me, I dont sleep with girls I dont know. Some of them get offedned by that. Oh well. Perfectly legitimate way to live 👌
/r/seduction10/06/18 01:02 AM
0

If he's making out with girls he's bi not gay. And if he's pulling girls to make out with that's cause he's being not that effeminate
/r/seduction10/06/18 12:29 AM
1

The one gay guy you know is effeminate and successfully pulls girls? What do you mean by pull?
/r/seduction09/06/18 11:11 PM
0

Gay people aren't intrinsically effeminate dude, and that's kinda shit to gay people to suggest. But also even if they were they wouldn't be pulling loads of girls. They'd just be gaining loads of girls as friends.
/r/seduction09/06/18 10:06 PM
0

You're not gonna have a good time trying to seduce women who like men by acting effeminate
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:10 PM
3

Don't do that
/r/seduction09/06/18 03:02 PM
3

They don't care about pulling girls, so they aren't all nervous and weird around them. They have the confidence to talk and have fun with them, and the emotional skills to actually bond with them and develop a relationship. If you can do that, you too can get girls
/r/seduction09/06/18 01:34 PM
7

Works whether you're in a committed relationship or not :)
/r/seduction09/06/18 01:31 PM
2

Fair. I didn't watch the video either and i didn't realise that's what he was talking about
/r/seduction02/06/18 02:43 PM
1

I would read that as she's into you, so didn't wanna tell you about her bf, because that would end the flirting atmosphere with you. Whereas she was willing to end it with your friend
/r/seduction02/06/18 01:49 PM
1

It's a great app
/r/seduction02/06/18 12:56 PM
3

I guess it must depend on what country/culture you're in. In the UK, in my experience, pasta is what every student lives off when they start uni, and cooking pasta as like a special meal broadcasts "I don't know how to cook". It's seen as a bit childish and amateur i think. So YMMV with this id say. Pasta and Pesto to me is a very boring meal and if i came over to someone's house for a meal and then it turned out to be pasta id be disappointed and kinda think less of them. But if you're in a cul…
/r/seduction02/06/18 12:50 PM
2

This doesn't actually show why to not double text. Am i missing something? It's just two screenshots of you texting once. There's no shots of you double texting. Wish you the best of luck, but this post doesn't add anything
/r/seduction16/05/18 02:21 PM
3

I don't really think many people are saying it's a great song. But the video is really good
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 04:17 PM
1

Fair enough. I'll check it out :)
/r/seduction09/05/18 05:40 PM
2

This guy sounds like a total douche
/r/seduction09/05/18 02:57 PM
11

Second this! Kiss her somewhere in the middle of the date. Then you can have the second half of the date with post-kiss fuzzies
/r/seduction09/05/18 02:24 PM
0

Having good sex is in my opinion one of the best ways you can spend your time. What sort of things do you prefer doing?
/r/seduction08/05/18 06:02 PM
0

Oh its from surveys. Surveys asking people what their favourite amount of time to spend having sex is. Sounds trustworthy and scientifically reliable, thanks
/r/seduction08/05/18 03:40 PM
1

No, it's because A) that's bullshit, no one actually wants to fuck for several hours a night, statistically ideal sex is between 4 and 12 minutes, Lmao dude that is some buuuulllllshit. If you think ideal sex can be defined by a numeric duration you don't know the first thing about sex. smh. If im having a good night of sex i want it to be multiple hours long for sure. B) this guy claims multiple exes contact him in new relationships to tell him he's a sex God Totally plausible that exes will co…
/r/seduction08/05/18 03:25 PM
1

This is actually good advice, despite the fact it's downvoted cause people think you're just boasting
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:10 PM
4

being a good person is attractive
/r/seduction27/03/18 04:33 PM
1

I think you're right. But also when you're on a date you don't want a girl to feel sooo comfortable that it kills any tension in the interaction and makes you feel to her like more of a friend then a lover. If she feels like she doesn't have to work any to impress you or make you smile, then you'll not seem like so much of a catch to her, and she might lose interest
/r/seduction19/03/18 08:03 PM
2

Yeah that was what i was trying to say :)
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:23 PM
1

So you'd recommend full fat milk?
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:27 PM
2

Oh yeah so he has, I hadn't refreshed the page lol
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:59 PM
1

But milk is so tasty :'(
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:57 PM
1

People don't buy it. So many people are so pessimistic and cynical that when someone appears overly positive, people often presume they are being fake and manipulative, rather than believe they're being genuine. So being less positive can actually make you appear more positive, because the positivity you show is more believable and you don't get written off as dishonest
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:52 PM
20

If you don't know how to dress, copying someone else's style is a good place to start. You can begin to develop your own style out of that, but it provides a better foundation than wearing your normal ill fitting shit clothes
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:41 PM
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This is an interesting comment, and id like to see OP's response. If i had to guess id say that strong positive body language and eye contact can help a lot with covering over being rude, and result in a 'net' image of strong but friendly. Whereas on reddit, where all of the subcommunication is stripped away and communication is 100% words, someone can come across then as a bit of an arrogant dick, even if their actual personality is more well rounded
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:39 PM
2

Great comment, exactly right
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:27 PM
10

In lieu of understanding what they really find attractive in men, women will often focus on superficial things like height or salary. But if you can create that emotional connection that's at the heart of seduction they'll suddenly find themselves attracted to guys who are "not their usual type"
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:25 PM
1

Usually if you go tell staff you've got an issue they'll try to resolve it for you yeah. You're a customer and it's in their financial interest even if they aren't motivated by general kindness
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:35 AM
3

Bit more than a hint yo hahaha
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:38 AM
11

If a girl tells you you're creeping her out tho you've definitely fucked up there and taken a wrong step
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:46 AM
1

I've never seen anyone in the real world stab a person, but I'm not about to go around claiming it therefore never happens
/r/seduction12/03/18 04:39 PM
1

Thanks dude :)
/r/seduction10/03/18 12:53 PM
3

I didn't suggest he be an asshole, learn to read better. And they were just examples. Climb down out of your own ass. Drugs are an interesting hobby, but you shouldn't be so insecure about doing/not doing them that you end up insulting people over it.
/r/seduction09/03/18 08:48 PM
1

Alongside the other advice here, it's definitely hard to be mysterious if you don't actually have any depth to your life or genuine mysterys or stuff going on. That's not an insult to you or anything i dunno if you do. But im just saying that as a rule, unless you got some interesting stuff going on behind the scenes then trying to appear mysterious is just fake and lying, so even if you pull it off, people will see through it soon enough Join some sports, do some drugs, get into some crazy situ…
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:12 PM
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Bad boys are pursuing their interests and desires. Sure they probably try to be polite and caring, cause otherwise you're not a bad boy you're just a cunt. But nice guys prioritise politeness and fitting in with others above expressing their own feelings and desires. Nice guys always wanna minimise tension and find their path through life by letting others choose theirs first and then fitting into whatever space remains. Bad boys push ahead and carve out their own path through life according to …
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:06 PM
2

It's a bit stream-of-consciousness and run-on-sentence-y. But honestly it's not so bad, just not perfect
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:30 PM
1

You could do with upping your compassion and downing your bluntness i think too
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:29 PM
1

I believe James Marshall has a book now, and I've heard good things about the alabaster girl by zan perrion.
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:04 AM
1

Text her if you think you've something particularly impressive/important to say. Otherwise just try to set up a date, it's hard to build attraction through text when so much of being attractive is the atmosphere you create when you're with a person face to face. Especially if she's not being responsive over text, the more you push that the more you'll look desperate. Maybe she doesn't even text that much and that's her deal. Id just go for the date and try to do as much communication face to fac…
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:00 AM
1

If she's playing these weird fucking games shes bad news. Doesn't matter if she's sexy, if you know how to pick up girls you can find someone else who's sexy. You don't wanna fuck with someone you can't trust. If you are gonna try to hook up with her, make sure it's on your terms. Tell her you'll give her a shout if/when you fancy a hookup, and then when you do invite her over to your place, don't be the one going over to hers. You need to regain a bunch of power in the relationship, cause it so…
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:56 AM
11

Could be she thought you were a badboy™ but the message you sent gave her niceguy™ vibes and she lost interest cause she's fickle. More likely she is some kind of asshole who does shit like that to fuck with people. I maybe would've complimented her for such a brave move etc, but either way seems pretty clear she's a lousy person. Dodged a bullet there.
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:53 AM
2

Could be weird in specific situations but it should usually be fine
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:48 AM
3

There's a girl im talking to at the moment who im not super into and ill often forget to reply to her for a day or so, and that's cause i just dont really care enough to remember like i would with a girl i was really into. But she has some potential, so if we go on a date and she seduces me, i know she'd have a higher priority for me after that. If she fucks up the texting by being too weird tho we probably won't meet up tbh. Could go either way, it's basically up to her to make herself look mor…
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:44 AM
1

She might just be shit at texting. How long are you leaving it between double texts? Hours or days?
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:32 AM
1

Movie dates are generally a bad idea cause they kinda get in the way of the basic mechanism of how dates work- a date is different to just hanging out with your friend cause there is sexual tension, and instead of running away from the sexual tension, and trying to make it just friendly, you sit in and enjoy the sexual tension and play with it and try to cultivate more. If you're in the cinema together, you cant really talk, so you can't really flirt, so you're just sitting there in silence for …
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:47 PM
2

Seems like you're doing a lot right. If she's too shy to go on a date with someone that's kinda just something she has to overcome herself. Hopefully she may have done so in the time between when you last asked her out and now. She was probably kicking herself when you cancelled meeting up after she asked to bring her sister. Hopefully she regrets fucking up her chance then and will try to be a bit more brave this time :) I'd just ask her out again casually like you did before. Seemed to work th…
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:33 PM
1

Dinner is a bad shout, especially if you're 17. Go hang out somewhere fun. Especially if she shy af you wanna avoid those intense and inescapable situations. Is there a cool milkshake place near you? Maybe an interesting science museum you could walk round? If it's a good day you could get ice creams and walk round a park?
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:28 PM
0

I do have an android. They work the same way. This is just the standard across the board
/r/seduction25/02/18 12:38 PM
6

Boxes immediately beside each other were sent right after each other. The ones with the larger spaces mean there was a couple of minutes or whatever between them being sent. Maybe text someone once in a while if you're this unfamiliar with technology
/r/seduction25/02/18 12:43 AM
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I think the idea is that you can never really predict how they're gonna act once you want to pull away. And if they blow up some drama, often third parties will be more willing to believe her than you, because she's "an innocent little girl who's been taken advantage of". Don't get involved with someone you can't trust.
/r/seduction25/02/18 12:41 AM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/seduction11/02/18 10:38 AM
1

Can you explain a bit more please?
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:39 AM
1

I think the AskReddit post is a thing anyone could get value from actually
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:37 AM
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Hopefully no-one here is sending sexually agressive messages, or catcalling people on the street. That's some incel shit. Seduction is about actually connecting with a woman and so offering her sexual opportunity that she's actually attracted to and interested in Being aware of how women experience sexual harassment and pestering etc is important for all men to know, but it shouldn't be particularly relevant to this sub, as this is /r/seduction, not /r/badseduction. Catcalling and sending sexual…
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:52 PM
2

My bad, yeah you're probably right
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:31 PM
1

That isn't rape at all. Women aren't stupid. They aren't tricked into having sex just because you're giving her pleasure through touch. She feels good and then makes the rational decision to let you keep going, it's not like they enter a trance or something. Yeah dude this is exactly my point :) i think you must have just misunderstood, i guess my comment was a bit convoluted Rape happens when there's no consent, if she's passed out/drugged/being forced. 👍
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:21 PM
5

I don't think you did anything wrong. It's on her to contribute to creating the right vibe too
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:19 PM
5

There's a difference between saying "just do it" and "dont ask", and a difference between getting explicit consent and getting clear implied consent. Consent is vital, but you dont have to go about getting it in the most unsexy way possible that destroys all sexual tension and turns the thing into some weird passionless business exchange. Asking someone if you can kiss them/touch them/fuck them is the most timid, unconfident, unsexy thing in the world lol, and it turns the vast majority of women…
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:17 PM
1

But if she asks, say sure. There's a reason you don't ask. It's not sexy because it releases the sexual tension in words, rather than either releasing it in actions or building up more tension. You should wanna have good sex, not just any sex so you can add another tally to your list. So if the girl makes a mistake like this cause she's the one who's kinda crap at seduction, dont just go along with it cause it'll get your dick wet. Tease her for it, flirt with her more, make her do more work. Re…
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:14 PM
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Flirt? Yes flirt. You should ideally be flirting all the way through any sexual encounter. Flirting is how you build sexual tension, and it's the release of sexual tension that makes sex passionate. He's already made out with her, which means the already could've had sex with her. Jesus dude no. There's a billion scenarios in which people could make out but sex isn't on the cards. Someone kissing you does not mean they want to fuck you
/r/seduction25/01/18 04:05 PM
2

When a girl stroke your hair for example, it can make your hair messy, but you can hardly tell her to stop or remove her hand, because it gives you a good feeling, your rational thinking is inhibited by the pleasure of her stroking your hair, it works the same way when you escalate and have sex with a girl I don't really like this framing. For me it seems to imply that rationally a girl wouldn't want sex, but we almost like trick her into it cause it feels good, even though she wouldn't rational…
/r/seduction25/01/18 03:52 PM
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Not necessarily etc etc etc. But act as if she is until it looks like she isn't. It's entirely possible though that she could be super shy, trying to make herself go as far as she can, but ultimately okay with being naked and fooling around but doesn't want to have sex If you're being respectful and responsive to her signals etc tho, it's never an insult on her to try to go further and then be stopped, so presume if she's getting naked she wants sex
/r/seduction25/01/18 03:38 PM
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It's normal to ask yourself what you did wrong, what you could have done better. But i think in this case she's just plain telling the truth. She probably isn't looking to date at the moment, for the various reasons that people can not want a commitment and be free of that for a while (maybe she recently came out of a relationship that was really clingy and wants her independence now) But just cause you don't want commitment doesn't mean you aren't horny. So she's gone on tinder for some casual …
/r/seduction25/01/18 03:36 PM
1

Im on your side. I can't read an article while in the gym, walking to the bus, or making dinner. But i can listen to a YouTube video
/r/seduction24/01/18 12:14 AM
1

A tip: if you don't feel comfortable enough with confidently touching her stomach area it's too early for a kiss. If you're gonna put your lips on her lips you should be fine with putting your hand on her stomach area
/r/seduction22/01/18 04:02 AM
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Remember, your end goal is not to get with fit & sexy women. Your end goal is to become the type of man that they want to get with. 100%. I have an image of FemShep from Mass Effect as my phone wallpaper, and it's not so superficial a reason as i think she's not. The reason is every time i look at it it reminds me to become the kind of man who can seduce a woman like that. http://www.misucell.com/data/out/6/IMG_97606.png
/r/seduction22/01/18 03:54 AM
2

Nah this is definitely not true
/r/seduction22/01/18 03:23 AM
9

It's cool, you did well 👍
/r/seduction21/01/18 11:50 AM
5

There was a great analysis video i watched of the absolute master Russell Brand on a TV show. He was being extremely sexual, flirting with everyone, touching people. Doing all sorts of stuff that would seem rude if most people did it. But the video author's point was that, because he had this reputation of being a massive flirt, it didn't seem so extreme when he did it. Cause it comes across as authentic and innocent- he's just being Russell Brand- and he also has a reputation for respecting wom…
/r/seduction17/01/18 02:40 AM
1

/r/relationships, /r/sex, /r/seduction are probably good shouts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:16 AM
2

Good post, I have saved it for further review. Wow thanks dude. I actually haven't directly coached anyone with autism before, but i know a few people in my life who are autistic so i i guess i just tried to adapt the principles of seduction to the experience of autism as i understand it You seem to have done a bit of research into the idea of getting fit, which is the ideal first step. And you're right that there's definitely an upper limit to the amount of gains you can get out of dumbbells. H…
/r/seduction15/01/18 09:29 AM
1

Sorry what?
/r/seduction14/01/18 07:22 AM
2

You really think "looking my best" being average-looking as I am now (though thin and a lazy dresser) would yield significant improvements? I don't think dressing better will yield significant improvements, no. I do think getting a gym routine to look something like this + dressing better would yield decent improvements. (That would take about 3+ years to start getting near looking like that, although obviously you would see good improvements within even the first month) But social skills are no…
/r/seduction14/01/18 07:15 AM
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Well yeah you're right in saying there are men willing to get with very average looking women just cause they want some bonus sex. Likewise there are women willing to get with very average men just to have a bit of bonus sex too. You're right though in that being autistic doesn't make it easy. But being autistic doesn't stop you from hitting the gym and getting a really excellent body. And good body + stylish clothes will really give you a better chance. Women don't really care primarily about p…
/r/seduction13/01/18 06:58 AM
1

Okay yeah i was talking about incels who are neurotypical. I guess if you have a real condition like autism then that is different. But surely there are a bunch of autistic girls you could try to date and that would remove that from being a factor?
/r/seduction12/01/18 05:41 AM
1

Yes! Good analysis, i missed that!
/r/seduction12/01/18 01:58 AM
1

Lol :D
/r/seduction12/01/18 12:07 AM
1

Seems you're just venting about your lack of success on tinder dude. Do that somewhere else
/r/seduction11/01/18 06:38 PM
1

Yeah i almost feel like, since she seems to kinda wanna draw a line under that all and move on, you might have to just work on being a good friend to her for a while. And exhibit those new qualities you want to show off that you think you were missing before, from within the place of being her friend. And then after some time, when you have shown that you're chill and mature and whatnot, that you can respect her boundaries and that you're not desperate etc. Start to test the waters with a bit of…
/r/seduction11/01/18 11:00 AM
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Super valuable advice. I think also m that the girls higher level of resistance to the average guy implies that the average guy is less sexually attractive in the UK (cause otherwise why would they be cold when everyone wants sex with sexy people) If the standard for guys is lower, so even lower # girls are not that excited by the average guy, then that opens the door for someone who can really own his sexuality, masculinity, and sexual intent to be very successful, as that guy will stand out fr…
/r/seduction11/01/18 10:52 AM
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Yesssss maaann. This is good shit. You really understand this stuff. I've loved reading your comments here
/r/seduction11/01/18 10:37 AM
1

It's basically getting masculinity completely wrong. Being shy, introverted, pessimistic, misogynistic, needy, desperate, clingy, creepy, social uncalibrated, etc etc. All of those characteristics are changeable
/r/seduction11/01/18 10:34 AM
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I guess you were able to attract her enough that she said she was in love with you. That's good. But then you fucked it up by being cold and distant, and she found someone else who excited her. She wasn't gonna wait forever Best thing you can do is probably change to be less cold etc, then once you have that change in your personality locked in, apologise genuinely to her for fucking that up. Tell her you're still excited about the idea of being with her etc etc, and be the guy who won her in th…
/r/seduction11/01/18 10:26 AM
5

How is it not? He's saying and doing things to create an emotional response in the girl and excite her about the idea of being sexual with him. Yes it is seduction
/r/seduction11/01/18 09:54 AM
15

Really solid profile dude, nice one
/r/seduction11/01/18 09:53 AM
2

I'd literally be straight with her: "Hey, so im not really looking to start dating you, but it seems that doesn't seem to be stopping me fantasising about making out with you... wanna hang out and make out sometime?" Loads of peeps are up for FWBs scenarios. If she's really into you she'll probably accept that as a plan b to properly dating, i mean why wouldn't you. She'll either be happy enough getting to fuck you, or think she'll have a chance to seduce you further and date you, and you can co…
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:49 AM
1

You can usually just Google "salsa <city>" and get good results
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:43 AM
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I think it's a great line. Shows you're chill, don't take life too seriously, are fun, wacky, creative, and sexual. But i also think that the fact you actually got a reply to just saying "I think you're cute" means you've got an A+ profile. Or at least an A
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:42 AM
1

I've done it successfully with a girl i knew for 2 years, tried to flirt with and got shot down cause i was a nice guy, but then hit the seduction knowledge hard and reinvented myself, and came out of the friendzone to where we've been dating for about 6 months and i think she's even more into me than i am into her. So it definitely is possible. You gotta just make sure to make a proper break with your old self. It's easy to start at 2, then try to change and temporarily become like an 8 as you …
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:31 AM
5

Wait until you're at your state's age of consent and then get on tinder. You should have no problem
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:22 AM
1

I couldn't really follow your story but don't get too caught up thinking men amd women's psyches are vastly different. We all deal with the same things, some things are just more pronounced in different genders because of the reality of developing in a world with different experiences expectations and pressures. Try to imagine what kind of motivations you would have to have to act that way and it's very likely that'll be where she's coming from too
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:18 AM
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Ah damn. Well hey, you know what you did wrong for the future tho at least now :)
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:14 AM
1

Ah shit sorry dude. It might be redeemable if you act differently next time you see her, she might realise she's seeing a different side of you and give you another chance. What happened if you don't mind talking about it?
/r/seduction11/01/18 05:29 AM
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Haha yeah. When you wanna talk to a girl cause she's beautiful, that's a totally legitimate thing to feel. But for her she's seen and heard that all before, so though she might appreciate it, especially if she has a crush on you already, it's usually gonna be a very low impact way of starting a conversation
/r/seduction09/01/18 11:49 PM
1

How in the world did you get to thinking being obnoxious is a good thing?
/r/seduction08/01/18 06:34 PM
1

I don't disagree
/r/seduction07/01/18 11:10 PM
1

Lmao you're a bit cringey dude. You know homophobia isn't cool and edgy anymore right? It's just obnoxious and lame, and it screams that you aren't comfortable with sexuality generally
/r/seduction07/01/18 09:01 PM
1

Lol what are you like 13?
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:50 PM
6

Go up and talk to her about something she takes for granted and is bored by
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:46 PM
1

Exactly, it's an unpleasant fact. So it takes away from the situation knowing that you're just going along with someone's manipulation cause you wanna get sex. It creates a distance whether you're manipulator or willing manipulatee
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:22 PM
2

Wow you've got such an outrageously unattractive personality. You know that's pretty important for seduction right?
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:09 PM
4

This sounds kinda like you wanna manipulate girls rather than be honest and seduce them. Seduction isn't about psychologically tricking girls, it's about creating a genuine connection and cultivating sexual tension
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:27 PM
4

Great help you are
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:25 PM
3

Complimenting style or effort they've made is definitely better than just complimenting their body/face yeah
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:25 PM
2

If your argument is that seduction is irrelevant the trick is to luck into them liking you already then i really don't know what you're on this sub for
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:24 PM
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Rich people know they're rich cause it's like objectively true that they are. Likewise a hot girl knows she's objectively hot, because 1- she's got eyes, a good sense of aesthetics, and a mirror. And 2- everyone she meets in life has been telling her/implying it to her since she was like 12. So when you rock up and tell her "i think you're beautiful" it's not like this surprise compliment that makes you stand out as someone who sees her beauty, and you're not bringing her any news. How would you…
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:22 PM
3

Gonna need more explanation there to believe you're not just saying something very superficial
/r/seduction05/01/18 08:44 AM
1

Thanks dude i appreciate that!
/r/seduction29/12/17 06:55 AM
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That's solid, but girls almost always want more than just a sexual connection; they also want to learn that you're funny, interesting, safe, etc. You know nothing about most women, than, this is just some nice guy bullshit to make women seem deeper than us man. I'm making no such claim. Men and women, both being human, have the same potential for depth as each other. Just generally women can afford to be much more picky than men, because they usually live in greater abundance- they know they can…
/r/seduction29/12/17 04:08 AM
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No it's exactly the example i mean. Guys like Weinstein and Trump didn't really need to learn how to seduce girls cause they could literally just grope them and get away with it, or request sex from them with the implication that if they don't agree their career will be destroyed. Men with that much power (until recently it seems) can just abuse and exploit people and people will keep quiet/go along with it cause they don't have the same amount of power
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:58 PM
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Yeah man go ahead, ask me whatever you want and i'll do my best to answer if i can
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:54 PM
2

Hey thanks dude, i really appreciate that :)
/r/seduction28/12/17 10:05 AM
2

Haha i have no idea what this is a reference to 😄
/r/seduction28/12/17 04:41 AM
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I guess I'm feeling in an essay mood tonight ha, so here's my take: Men and women naturally want to have sex with each other. All the obstacles that get in the way of that can be boiled down to psychological and sociological things. Male and female we're both the same species, it's really just the different experiences we have that are the main factors in how we become so unnatural when relating to each other. Men in general don't really know or understand what it is about us that makes us sexy …
/r/seduction28/12/17 04:11 AM
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I think you made that far harder for yourself than you needed to. She wasn't particularly flaky, rather you kept missing the signs she was giving you, and it's clear in your analysis you misinterpreted them too. And that just made it take longer before she was really willing to meet you. You started with being sexual, and the two of you had a decent back and forth flirting. That's solid, but girls almost always want more than just a sexual connection; they also want to learn that you're funny, i…
/r/seduction28/12/17 12:58 AM
1

Yeah man i really like this
/r/seduction23/12/17 09:05 AM
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Presuming all rape allegations are false is an utterly absurd position. There's no rational reason to think she was lying to you
/r/MGTOW18/12/17 09:54 PM
15

Nah dude seriously i dont see how you cant see it but the way you talked to her there was completely unjustifiable
/r/MGTOW18/12/17 09:53 PM
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Why the fuck would your default be to presume someone is lying to you about that?
/r/MGTOW18/12/17 09:50 PM
2

Women don't hug men they aren't attracted to. They definitely do. Maybe you just don't have any female friends? I used to wonder why girls would hug me if they didn't wanna date me, and then i realised i had friendzoned myself. It's very common for girls to hug their friends. Women do not stare at men they aren't attracted to. Most of all, women don't do this with COMPLETE fucking strangers unless there is a sort of attraction. I never said she wasn't attracted, just that she didn't want to have…
/r/seduction13/12/17 06:01 PM
1

No it's really not bro
/r/seduction13/12/17 11:47 AM
1

you have no idea how to read women
/r/seduction13/12/17 12:34 AM
1

Where did you get the impression this was for validation rather than because he wanted the girl? You gotta get out of your head the idea that sex is wrong/sinful and an attractive guy trying to create something sexy with someone is a burden to then rather than a blessing
/r/seduction12/12/17 03:32 PM
1

In plenty of cultures girls hug all the time. Adultery isn't cool
/r/seduction12/12/17 03:30 PM
1

Jesus you're shallow as fuck
/r/seduction12/12/17 03:27 PM
4

Are you telling me a fish is dry when it's in water??
/r/seduction12/12/17 03:26 PM
4

I don't even understand why someone who thinks seduction is all about looking hot is on this sub
/r/seduction10/12/17 06:48 PM
10

It's never gonna hurt to look good, but You can look better. Without applying the actual personality, energy, and polarity lessons taught in the community you won't get very far even if you are hot. You can get far applying those lessons even if you're not hot.
/r/seduction10/12/17 02:28 PM
1

Wow sounds like you've got a great friendship there, awesome :D
/r/seduction08/12/17 06:27 PM
2

If you know your friend is into her, and still might have a chance, and she isn't polyamorous, then it's kinda uncool to be trying to pick her up. If you know she isn't into your friend, and you think she might be into you, then it should be okay as long as you're appropriately respectful and careful not to be a dick. But if she doesn't seem to be into either you or him, and you both like her, then i guess it could be okay for you both to try to seduce her. Your friend ideally by showing how he'…
/r/seduction08/12/17 04:42 PM
6

I'm not gonna hurt these women! Why would I ever hurt these women? I feel like you're not getting this at all
/r/seduction03/12/17 02:37 PM
1

I've never even heard of that book/play/movie :/
/r/seduction03/12/17 02:34 PM
12

Dont do/be this ^
/r/seduction03/12/17 03:19 AM
12

Because of the implication
/r/seduction03/12/17 03:17 AM
2

Yes you do
/r/seduction02/12/17 04:16 PM
10

I think whatever phrase it really was doesn't translate well into English haha
/r/seduction02/12/17 12:30 PM
1

Baby steps. Go on tinder. Match with a cute guy. Tell him your situation, and invite him over to help you explore your sexuality. Maybe Day 1 you meet up, have some drinks, and then practice kissing. Date 2 you kiss some more. Work your way up to being more sexual ane you will become more comfortable with it as time goes on. You're not broken, you've just had some bad ideas planted in your mind that have taken root. Yeah you could go see a therapist like others have said, but tbh you already kno…
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:33 PM
1

A therapist is just someone who is a professionally trained listener and advice giver
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:27 PM
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Does it also upset you to hear your girl talks to her friends or family members? Edit: Genuine question im not tryna be a dick
/r/seduction22/11/17 09:19 PM
0

I don't see why you can't have that in a non monogamous relationship?
/r/seduction22/11/17 09:19 PM
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Why do you even value a monogamous relationship in the first place?
/r/seduction22/11/17 07:30 PM
7

He did know what he wanted though. He wanted a serious relationship
/r/seduction21/11/17 06:07 PM
38

Speak more slowly. And leave a pause before you respond to the things she says
/r/seduction21/11/17 05:07 AM
1

https://i.redd.it/8f5z7gbbc5zz.jpg
/r/seduction20/11/17 04:31 PM
1

I know you feel that way, but it can be hard to judge that for yourself. What you have here though is a bunch of other people on a public forum (where the users generally have an above average awareness of how to seduce women) looking at the way you talk and telling you you sound like someone with a terrible attitude and unattractive personality who is deluded about how to pick up women. If you just refuse to believe that, at least ask yourself why you refuse to believe it. What makes you so sur…
/r/seduction20/11/17 04:09 PM
1

You might also want to consider that, since feminism is concerned with liberating women from oppressive and abusive power structures in society, openly attacking and insulting feminism might be be hurting your chances with women too.
/r/seduction20/11/17 04:07 PM
2

Personality doesn't matter to most women. Maybe the morbidly obese ones. But no matter what my personality, I'll never date a non-deformed woman who isn't morbidly obese. This is your problem right here. You fundamentally misunderstand women and what it is about men that makes them attractive to women. Not only do women care about personality, they care about it more than physical appearance. If you're giving out weak, insecure, unconfident, untrustworthy, boring, immature vibes, then they'll no…
/r/seduction20/11/17 04:03 PM
3

It definitely is. The Fearless Man is one of the biggest seduction coaches on YouTube and he's totally bald. The insecureness you feel about it will be unattractive, but as long as you can go fuck it girls won't care as long as you've got the masculine vibe about you. I know plenty of people with hair just like yours who are dating stunning women.
/r/seduction20/11/17 06:46 AM
1

Yeah you might be right then. But if you've got nothing else on it cant hurt to message her again
/r/seduction13/11/17 04:21 PM
1

She's just busy yo. Don't lean too heavily into one size fits all. She seemed eager, she's just a busy person. Hit her up today and ask her out again, tease her about how shit she's been at making your previous arrangements
/r/seduction13/11/17 02:18 AM
0

I guess if you've got nothing else it wouldn't hurt to take a day to walk around your city and do some photography, and stick those pics on Instagram. Then find a dance class or something, people are always taking pictures there, and it's a great way to meet new people
/r/seduction10/11/17 11:34 AM
1

Definitely sounds like she's into you and wants to go on a date to MOMA. What happened? Did you go on the date?
/r/seduction10/11/17 11:27 AM
1

You don't. It's 2017. Try places like The Natural Lifestyles and Fearless Man for better seduction advice
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:53 AM
3

Tell him you've enjoyed seeing him at these parties and you'd like to hang out with him one on one cause you think you like him
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:52 AM
3

This isn't helpful
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:51 AM
13

If you think like this you're not having as good sex as you could be
/r/seduction01/11/17 05:12 PM
4

I think this is probably it
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:27 PM
2

Yeah but it's rude tho. Someone asks you to pass the salt and you just ignore them or stare at them silently? Yeah it's within your rights to do that but you're still being a dick.
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:27 PM
1

Id count those things as replies, just through a different medium
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:24 PM
1

It should be part of the etiquette, but it usually isn't followed because there's no penalty for not doing it, so basically no-one does, except for people who really try to be nice and kind, which is a shame :(
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:19 PM
2

If you send texts as boring and generic as these they're easily ignored and forgotten and make you appear bland and unexciting
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:15 PM
31

Also send a more meaningful text than these if you want a response
/r/seduction25/10/17 05:01 PM
2

Outstanding
/r/seduction17/10/17 02:27 AM
8

If you're honourable and ethical and kind amd whatnot, and she is too, then there wont be a problem, even if it doesn't work out. Problems only come when people are selfish/manipulative/uncaring etc. If it doesn't work out but you are honourable and loving throughout, the relationship can simply settle back into a friendship again.
/r/seduction15/10/17 02:49 PM
2

I think the important idea here is that help should be unconditional. If we get too attached to the idea that there should be a particular response, we're setting ourselves up for frustration or other negative things. We also risk starting to do this for potentially problematic reasons, like adulation or profit. For me i think the annoying thing is that if someone asks a question, and it gets answered, that thread can be a useful source of info for someone else looking for advice on the same thi…
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:28 PM
4

It's not anonymous if people know your username
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:23 PM
72

Shit people if you're embarrassed about posting in this sub or whatever that's cool, just use a throwaway account so you can leave the post up.
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:47 AM
2

Yeah it's messy for sure
/r/seduction02/09/17 06:41 PM
2

Or it could just be near the start of the friendship and it's a clarification of the nature of the relationship
/r/seduction02/09/17 06:18 PM
3

It's a shame you've had such bad experiences :( Having platonic friendships is highly valuable in itself, but as a straight person, having good friendships with people of the opposite sex is particularly valuable for improving your seduction. Even when there is attraction on one side, that only proves to actually be a problem if that person doesn't have an abundance of other opportunities they can find fulfilment in.
/r/seduction02/09/17 03:00 PM
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"Oh shit haha im sorry, i was def planning on it to be a date, you seem pretty cool and i thought we clicked and whatnot, which is why i asked. Hope you don't mind if i just hold on to the ticket for an actual date then 😅"
/r/seduction02/09/17 12:09 AM
3

Honey Jesus Christ
/r/seduction02/09/17 12:03 AM
16

Just to hang out, play video games, whatever. Ive gone round to hang out with girls I wasn't attracted to before. Friends are a thing that exists like.
/r/seduction02/09/17 12:02 AM
8

> using pickup lines > 2017
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:36 AM
2

Since everyone's doing it id like to take a look at your profile too :)
/r/seduction15/08/17 09:49 AM
2

Excellent quality post, thanks OP 👍
/r/seduction07/08/17 08:43 PM
1

What is unmanly about emojis?
/r/seduction07/08/17 08:43 PM
1

I've found 😶, 😠, 😐, 🤔 and 😢 can be useful and fine in serious conversations too. Also :) and 👍
/r/seduction07/08/17 08:42 PM
7

That's what makes it extra exciting when you meet someone who doesn't just want to talk about themselves :D
/r/seduction25/07/17 08:12 PM
2

Start workouts with big compound lifts (Deadlift, Bench Press, Barbell/T-Bar Row, Overhead Press). Then follow up with isolation exercises in drop sets til you are failing with like 4kg dumbbells. Isolate bis (Barbell Curl, Dumbbell Hammer Curl, Zottman Curl) on the days you do back, and isolate tris (Skullcrushers, Triceps Rope Pushdown, Overhead Cable Triceps Extension) on the days you do chest. Hit em each twice a week. Track your food with MyFitnessPal, make sure you eat 500+ calories over y…
/r/seduction21/07/17 11:15 AM
2

Yes. Others have pointed it out already too. sort yourself out. if everything you do in life is justified by whether it will help your game or not your life is kinda a mess
/r/seduction28/06/17 01:22 AM
1

Awesome story man! Hope you got her facebook so you can chat to her a bit and maybe meet up again if she is back in town in the future or if you go to visit her town sometime
/r/seduction27/06/17 11:44 PM
5

wtf you talking​ about?
/r/seduction27/06/17 11:41 PM
1

Jesus, man
/r/seduction27/06/17 11:39 PM
-5

But you don't have to be a member of a feminist organisation to be a feminist. Just like you don't have to go to church to be a Christian. You can just choose to be one and be one. No sign up required. What element(s) of feminism do you have a problem with?
/r/MensRights30/06/15 02:50 PM
-2

But that's really selfish. :( Why should you only support a cause if you have something to benefit from it? I'm not black, but im on the side of the anti-racism protestors. I'm not Palestinian but I support them through their oppression. Feminism is concerned with the cause of women, not equality in general, but you should do something because it is right, not for what you can personally gain from it.
/r/MensRights30/06/15 09:41 AM
1

That shit'll eat you up inside; and make your life just that little bit darker. Let it go. Don't let the bad things they did to you then still hurt you now.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/15 01:19 AM
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Ha, yes I didnt notice the date. I checked your post history to see how good your english was, because you said it wasn't your first language, and couldnt resist responding to this one.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 03:29 PM
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1/5 is still pretty fucking unacceptable though. 2 wrongs don't make a right.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 03:07 PM
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