How to establish attraction

sinbad2011 · 2018-03-18T01:30:24+00:00

This comes down to your subcomminitcation. When you talk to the girl, are you maintaining eye contact. Intense. Especially at the start?

How is your body language? Are you talking to them as if they are better than you? Are you reacting to them?

What you say does not matter much. You are supposed to talk and talk and talk about whatever you want. Take the load off the girl. The sub communications tell it all.

Friend zone conversation will be a result of bad eye contact, bad toneality (talking up and not like a fun boss).

So you have to master the nonverbals. Focus on them for now and talk about whatever you want.

plowzedong · 2018-03-18T08:45:00+00:00

You answered your own question:

"I see advice that you don't want to blatantly hit on girls all the time because you'll become the campus creep."

Have friendly conversations, screen for girls who are attracted to you, use sub communication, move them to a more private location.

SheanK8 · 2018-03-18T09:08:58+00:00

I think some girls will just be naturally attracted to your personality, I don't think you can really force it.

It may take a while to find the right person. The only thing I can think of that seems to make people fond of you is being quick witted in a funny way.

My general rule is if your going to hit on women you run the risk of seeming like a creep to those uninterested.

It's an opinion everyone has them, let it go and move on.

Cantloginhere · 2018-03-18T10:44:02+00:00

There are loads of ways to instill attraction, improving appearance is good place to start. NLP tricks like fractionation, being interesting (stories), push pull, touching, being more manly, invoking strong emotions, talking about you as a couple, qualifying yourself with other women, being good at something, mysterious.

Do some reading, start with the art of seduction. People are biological robots subject to stimulus and response, just don't expect a 100 percent success rate.

LingeringGnome · 2018-03-18T01:44:17+00:00

You can't create attraction.

It's your job to not reduce the attraction that's there.

Title	How to establish attraction
Author	EfficientStore
Upvotes	15
Comments	6
Date	March 17, 2018 11:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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