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Having a big goal and a bit of ego attachment helped me quit smoking. I wanted to do a cross country bicycle trip with a couple friends, and there was no chance I was going to be the one slowing everyone down.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 07:11 PM
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Sounds like you're still looking for a unicorn. I live in Vietnam, have banged virgins. What you're looking for doesn't exist anymore
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 05:25 AM
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Cuz that's what mgtows do Instead of actually improving their life, they think of creative ways to justify why their life is such shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 10:48 AM
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The butthurtedness seethes from this post. Improve your life instead of whining. This post adds nothing of value to this forum, and your low effort life is getting you exactly the results you deserve.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 10:46 AM
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I bought new jogging shoes after using my old pair for over two years, boxing gloves since i just started taking classes, and updated my wardrope. I could either have waited a week or longer in some form of vain protest, or saved cashed by buying it on black friday. It's not a hard choice. Posting about how cool you are for not buying anything on Black Friday is just another form of virtue signaling afaik
/r/TheRedPill24/11/18 01:51 AM
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Didn't Neil Strauss (hardly rp'd himself) shade Durst for being a huge chode in 'the game?'
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 07:46 AM
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Men like a challenge, not an impossible task
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 06:42 AM
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No offense, but you asking this question is symptomatic of your problem. Instead of taking action, you are looking for someone else to provide an easy solution. The world doesn't work like that. Whatever info you're hoping to receive has already been written thousands of times before. The missing piece is intiative amd determination on your part.
/r/seduction08/06/18 08:11 PM
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Actually.... I want to thank you. You actually used the search function of Reddit. That's leagues ahead of many people who post here. As far as a solution goes: Keep playing the field. Your best shot of getting the oneitis girl is by becoming attractive and skilled with other desirable women, by improving yourself, and by learning to enjoy life without her. Short of that, cut off contact. As woobwoobzoob mentioned, people can be like drugs. In order to get over someone, sometimes it's easiest to…
/r/seduction08/06/18 08:01 PM
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Is this a question? Are you giving advice? Drunk rambling? Emotional vomit?
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:37 PM
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Here are the likely possible directions this could go: a) You ask her out, she knows you like her and says no. b) You ask her out, she knows you like her and says yes. c) You don't ask her out, she knows you like her anyways, but she never goes out with you because you never asked. d) You don't ask her out, she doesn't know you like her, and she never goes out with you because you never asked. In other words, if you ask you then have a 50% chance of going out with her. If you don't ask, you have…
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:34 PM
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I mean, 'don't shit where you eat' is an idiom for a reason. Most guys learn the hard way fairly early on. I'm hardly naturally good with women, but it only took one turn for the worse to make me tread real lightly in places where my professional reputation matters. People who are coming to Reddit to ask about the dime who works with them at Applebees have socialization problems which inhibited them from learning the lesson on their own. No amount of reasoning will help, and the best solution is…
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:22 PM
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Posts with the phrase "there's this girl" should be automatically moderated. Who can make that happen?
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:08 PM
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I would be a bit more subtle than that. Once established, a relationship dynamic is hard to change. Start working out and improving yourself now (as in, this weekend). Be consistent and determined. Make it entirely about you. Be selfish about it. Even then, I wouldn't be surprised if she tries to dissuade you from becoming better. You becoming noticeably more attractive will threaten her security in the relationship. Be firm in your commitment to yourself. If she doesn't like it, let her move in…
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:01 PM
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You sound like a fun person to be around
/r/seduction08/06/18 04:35 PM
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Ever hear of dread game?
/r/seduction08/06/18 03:26 PM
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Your videos are cringey as fuck.
/r/seduction08/06/18 03:22 PM
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You haven't taken any action, yet you still have low self esteem?! That's soooooo strange!!! I wonder what you could possibly do to fix the situation. Maybe try posting on other subs like manprovement. I'm sure someone will have the words of encouragement which will turn everything around for you.
/r/seduction08/06/18 03:04 PM
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What business did you start when you were 15?
/r/seduction08/06/18 02:59 PM
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Most guys (i.e. 80% of the population who aren't natural nor practice game) get laid like this: A girl gives a ton of hints and eventually guides the interaction towards romance. As a result, these guys have a handful of partners and maybe a few drunken hook ups throughout their lives. Likewise, their relationships are always mediocre, usually with a bitchy woman who dominates them. It's obsessive to think you have to control everything as a man. Obviously the girl has to comply and reciprocate …
/r/seduction08/06/18 10:10 AM
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It sounds like you've missed thousands of chances
/r/seduction08/06/18 09:49 AM
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Great. Another 'theres this one girl' post. I'm sure your situation is especially unique and has never been addressed in a subreddit about seduction. Oh, you work with her too?! There's definitely not a well known idiom about that.
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:47 AM
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Don't just eat pussy, eat pussy like a retard on bath salts. Lol
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:37 AM
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As a man, it's your job to lead the interaction. Being passive will get you exactly to result you got. To some extent, it sounds like she was reflecting your own nervousness back to you.
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:35 AM
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If you run away from something you are uncomfortable with, you will continue being uncomfortable with it.
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:33 AM
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Don't confuse being blunt with being negative. My advice took a fraction of the time to write compared to yours. The ops post got deleted. Technically, we both wasted our time trying to help them. I just wasted less. :)
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:29 AM
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Car, friend's car in a Walmart parking lot (not trashy at all), friends apartment, someone else's bed in a hostel (got caught), rooftop (last night), secluded spot next to a karsk mountain, blowjob behind the Bismark statue in Hamburg, grandma's house while she was moving to an old folks home, her basement, my room while parents were watching the super bowl, in the grass next to a pond (not recommended - got a bad staph infection on my knee from that one).. Strangely, never in a public restroom.…
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:23 AM
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'Read the sidebar' 'Talk to other women' 'Figure out how to solve your own problems' All solid pieces of advice for anyone here who is striving to be an attractive man...
/r/seduction07/06/18 05:50 PM
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Idk. You could try something and find out what works for you....
/r/seduction07/06/18 02:40 PM
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So I'm interested in this girl at work. I didn't read past this... But the answer, as always, is read the sidebar and talk to other girls. Learn to read situations yourself instead of relying on strangers (who couldn't possibly know the details as well as yourself) for dating advice.
/r/seduction07/06/18 01:37 PM
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I always find abnormal capitalization off putting. Whatever significance you're trying to convey, it isn't clearly expressed simply by capitalizing a word in a non standard manner. Women hate feeling orgasms? You sure about that?
/r/seduction07/06/18 07:09 AM
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Ignore it and act like her social media post never happened. If you react, you fan the fire. If anyone calls you out, pretend like what you did was entirely normal and she had an abnormal reaction. I.e., hold frame. Be the touchy dude. Don't be the guy who got handsy once, got called out, and retreated into social oblivion. My previous advice still applies. Quit getting black out high. Booze and acid is a lame combo anyways. Being fucked up constantly is an unattractive quality
/r/seduction07/06/18 06:51 AM
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Replace soon with now
/r/seduction07/06/18 06:44 AM
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At some point after actually putting in the work.
/r/seduction07/06/18 05:29 AM
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You've been reading thia shit for years but haven't applied it. That's the definition of mental masturbation. Oh you are 'an introvert.' What a convenient way to explain away your lack of drive in the social and dating arena. People never change and personalities are totally fixed. I guess you're doomed to be mediocre. (Sarcasm)
/r/seduction07/06/18 05:29 AM
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enlighten me Furthermore, fuck you We don't owe you shit. Your life is your responsibility. Either take the info and apply it, or don't. Personally, idgaf. One more gameless chump just means there's less competition.
/r/seduction07/06/18 05:25 AM
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It's kinda weird that you would spend years reading something you disagree with. Either embrace it or find something better. If you can't find something better, get over yourself. In the eyes of society, you are worthless. You can either improve by any means necessary, or you can parrot mainstream narratives and continue to suck with women.. What you've been doing is mental masturbation, pure and simple. Pretending to understand aomething without trying it. It's like me saying that baseball is s…
/r/seduction07/06/18 05:23 AM
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To put it bluntly, women love sex and want men to be competent at seducing them. Yes.... BUT..... Reading about pick up or watching rsd videos implies that a guy isn't competent at seduction. Point being. Do what you're doing, but don't tell girls what you are doing. I've never heard a 'I told her I study pick up' story that didn't end up badly. On the other hand, 'I told her that i help other guys improve with women,' is far less offensive (since it implies you are already competent and even ch…
/r/seduction07/06/18 05:15 AM
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Thoughts? Learn to handle your drugs and don't use them as a crutch when you are practicing game.
/r/seduction07/06/18 05:03 AM
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Asian culture also produces hyper nice guy syndrome. 'Make your parents happy' easily becomes 'make everyone happy.'
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:54 PM
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I've read your blog before. Good shit. Single man's paradise is also hilarious and even raunchier. That said, learning Vietnamese gives you access to hotter younger girls. 80% of the market, and the best tightest girls, are closed off to the guys who only speak English. The only caveat is that girls start looking at you funny when you say you've been here for more than 3 years and are still single. I'm kinda wondering how Vietnamese pimps operate. As in, how and where do they recruit and manage …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:46 PM
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Alright dude. I guess everyone else is wrong and you are right.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:45 AM
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The larger question is why are you fixated on a girl with obvious emotional and relationship issues? Move on and find someone who isn't going to bring you down.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:42 AM
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she respects my game and wont shit talk me to the other girls in the group. You got her phone tapped or some shit? Telepathy? You make a deep connection in your 10 minute convo to nowhere? How can you reasonable make this claim?
/r/seduction05/06/18 04:04 PM
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Cool shit. You look like Dirt Nasty's non-stoned cousin btw.
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:56 PM
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Ya dude. You wanted to prove something to this chick and needed to feel 'respected.' And then you came here to brag about it. You got exactly the response that was warranted.
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:56 PM
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The reason this is downvoted is because seddit is filled with bitches who can't handle the truth. Instead this place has become a circle jerk where pussy-less losers stroke eachothers egos. It's become no better than r/relationships or r/dating
/r/seduction05/06/18 07:59 AM
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I puked in mouth a bit while reading this. Game exists so that you don't end up like this guy.
/r/seduction05/06/18 07:56 AM
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Why waste your 'telling her how to better reject in the future.' That's some serious butthurt shit. If she actually respected you, you'd have a chance with her. Instead, you are on seddit bragging about how some girl who rejected you now respects you. Real clown shit.
/r/seduction05/06/18 07:54 AM
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Nah man. You wanting respect from a woman (who you don't even know) sounds a lot like nice guy ego protection. The fact that you tried to brag about this shit to your little pua online friends. Next time take a hint and move on, don't act salty autist and try to teach a hoe a lesson. Pointing out your beta behavior isn't white knighting, btw.
/r/seduction05/06/18 07:50 AM
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Will you release your own infield?
/r/seduction03/06/18 04:42 PM
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Every famous PUA you can think of has read this book..
/r/seduction02/06/18 08:50 AM
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In all honesty, that's going to be very difficult. Most men in their 30s would rather date younger women. It's a natural and biological impulse. You might need to either shoot for older guys or lower your standards. Unfortunately, the dominant narrative for young women today is 'enjoy your 20s and don't worry too much about the future.' In other words, date around through your 20s a pray someone will want to commit to you afterwards. Those guys who you were rejecting 10 years ago are all dating …
/r/seduction01/06/18 02:52 PM
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Resourcefulness is said to be attractive
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:06 PM
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Keep lurking here and not taking action. I'm sure the problem will work itself out on its own. Oh, and just be yourself. [sarcasm, in case it wasn't obvious]
/r/seduction29/05/18 10:11 AM
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Outside of an abortion clinic
/r/seduction28/05/18 07:06 AM
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She's not into you
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:36 AM
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I'm not advanced. Asking retarded questions indicates a few things. First, these guys are lazy af. It's not hard to use Google, find a pdf of any number of books about seduction, or read through the top posts on the sub before posting a question. Big surprise they can't be bothered to develop basic social skills. Secondly, these guys are value takers. It's cool. Everyone has to start somewhere. That somewhere is reading what is available before asking people to solve problems for you. I probably…
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:18 AM
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This pc shit is nauseating. We label people all the time according the the role they play. Father, friend, employee, employer, teacher, plate, swanky whore, mc, barista, neighbor, dealer, shady pos, etc. Just because someone has a role that you acknowledge doesn't make it dehumanizing. It's probably less dehumanizing the faggy nice guy pc bullshit which pretends everyone is equal in your eyes. You're fundamentally lying and projecting a false image of yourself when you do this shit. Beyond that,…
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:00 AM
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That's funny. I dated a girl for 7 years who I approached at a grocery store.
/r/seduction27/05/18 01:10 AM
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Nice job. You won't get to a yes without encountering nos on the way. Don't stop, practice consistently and reflect on what has worked and where you can improve.
/r/seduction26/05/18 08:33 PM
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Fuck this is retarded.... Posts like this make this place shit for anyone who actually cares about getting better with women. Instead, it's a constant stream of basic ass questions from people with very little social skills. "Is she mocking me" "How do I talk to this one girl" "What does it mean when she said this." If anyone (with a post or comment history) is interested in joining a private sub for people who actually practice and discuss getting better with women, PM me. If your post and comm…
/r/seduction26/05/18 06:54 PM
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Don't offer any sort of commitment. Just try to fuck them.
/r/seduction25/05/18 06:46 PM
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Nigga, shut the fuck up P.S. you look like a retarded fag
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:37 PM
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"Nope"
/r/seduction25/05/18 09:33 AM
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Are you autistic?
/r/seduction25/05/18 09:32 AM
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I'm going to call bullshit on this. This doesn't really contain any value. You're bragging at best, lying at worst. Any manager or business owner would fire you. Not doing so puts them at risk for a lawsuit. Moreover, girls very rarely verbalize they have a crush. A girl doesn't need to be naked to fuck in a bathroom. There are so many things off with this story.
/r/seduction25/05/18 06:04 AM
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You are engaged in mental masturbation. You asked a question, got an answer you didn't like, so you asked again thinking the answer would be different. Obviously, if you're asking twice about the same girl, you are waaay over invested. My earlier advice (not shit where you eat; put in effort to learn flirting and seduction as a skill) was exactly the advice you needed. It's just not what you wanted to hear.
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:26 AM
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You posted this 3 weeks ago.... u/ThrowawayPUA
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:10 AM
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Then why are you posting about it?
/r/seduction24/05/18 09:02 PM
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It sounds like she isn't coming over
/r/seduction24/05/18 08:00 PM
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You should make a greater effort improve your skills with women instead of asking questions about what to do with one woman.
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:57 PM
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You just posted about the same topic 2 hours ago......
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:47 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Cute girls are a dime a dozen. Being fixated on one, especially one you work with, indicates that you lack other options. Practice game and seduction elsewhere. Even if you did manage to date this girl, it wouldn't fix your shyness and social anxiety.
/r/seduction24/05/18 06:16 PM
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Stare deeply into her eyes, lick your lips, and say 'shhhh'... ** This sub helps guys with general skills related to seduction and relationship management. It's not the go-to place to help guys figure out what to do in one specific situation. If you don't have the time to put in effort to improve your dating skills through practice, we don't have the time to offer real advice on mundane bullshit.
/r/seduction24/05/18 05:59 PM
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Are you asking for advice or venting?
/r/seduction24/05/18 05:54 PM
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Have you considered reading the sidebar?
/r/seduction24/05/18 02:07 PM
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Women hang out and chat for no reason. They are more relational focused. Men tend to be goal or activity focused. That's why men tend to work on projects together or do things like hunting.
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:52 PM
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No. Help yourself. Stop bringing people down with your whining. That would be a great start.
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:40 PM
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I'm definitely the first type. I wouldn't fuck half the girls that I see RSD instructors pull on their in fields. Personally, I don't see the point of doing pick up to bang fatties or single mothers. In some regards, I'm resentful of beta dudes for feeding them validation, and I think fat bitches should be entirely ignored until they get their shit together. It leads to a much lower notch count, but much hotter girls that I've fucked. I'm fully aware that there is a strong ego-driven motivation …
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:38 PM
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yo u/ThrowawayPUA
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:31 PM
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"Hey, you seem fun. Want to grab tea on Saturday?" If they like you and are available, they will probably say yes. If they don't or aren't, they'll probably say no.
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:28 PM
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Because it's genuinely odd that a straight man would want to be friends with a woman for no particular reason...
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:22 PM
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It doesn't look very active, but you might try to RSD Cleveland facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RSDCleveland/?ref=br_rs
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:20 PM
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I have a fleshlight and vr, I would get the same amount of pleasure from it. Another seddit success story
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:14 PM
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Pull your dick out. If she holds eye contact, I think its an IOI.
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:12 PM
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Another seddit success story
/r/seduction24/05/18 10:42 AM
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Be high value and fuck her good. All other advice is bullshit...
/r/seduction24/05/18 10:41 AM
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Lol if you're not putting in effort, of course you suck.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:27 AM
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sidebar
/r/seduction22/05/18 09:59 PM
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Conversely, PUAs aren't going to create meaningful, long-term relationships if they can't be vulnerable/authentic and simultaneously non-needy. Are you sure about that (--the necessity of being vulnerable/authentic), or is this a cultural meme that's been passed along until it's believed as gospel? You talked to much during the date. A lot of guys who do the 'photographer friend' routine end up friendzoned. Perhaps you have a playful personality. I'm guessing you are taller than average, low bod…
/r/seduction22/05/18 09:33 PM
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Do you have a link for the pdf of Blueprint? Edit: Found it.... https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B0_yScgs5rLLZmFkNTU4YjAtYWJhZi00YjkzLTk5YWItM2QwMGQyM2YyMjUy/view
/r/seduction22/05/18 07:18 PM
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You talk too much. And you are talking out of both sides of your mouth. On one hand, you want to believe the PC Mark Manson version of game. On the other hand, you're telling us flat out that it caused the date to head south after you already kissed her. Most of all, you talk too much. Is it wrong to use my camera and artistic skill to meet people and potentially turn it into something romantic/sexual if the conditions are right? No. But honestly, you aren't using your camera. You're using your …
/r/seduction22/05/18 06:58 PM
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Fuck 10 other girls
/r/seduction22/05/18 06:42 PM
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Besides whining on seddit and occasionally swiping on Tinder, what action are you taking to improve this area of your life?
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:47 PM
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Wait until you are 45. Maybe by then the pain of regret will be worse than the pain of rejection. The short answer to you question is, "stop being a pussy." Feel the fear; do it anyways. Furthermore, instead of obsessing over your own feelings (like women do), use your presence to improve other people's mood.... How to handle the pain of rejection? Realize you're the most important person in your life. One person's fleeting impression of you isn't important. At the end of the day, the question i…
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:45 PM
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Why is this upvoted?
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:31 PM
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Why would you tell her?
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:50 AM
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Tldr: Don't be a pussy, it's unattractive and will get you nowhere.
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:50 AM
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..suddenly, she started screaming in all capital letters that I had "done nothing but insult her the whole time" I'm not sure why you continued messaging her after that point.
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:35 PM
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Aeon199, Try going out every day for 2 months like OP did. Then, maybe we could take your constant whining seriously.
/r/seduction16/05/18 08:44 AM
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Break up with her. It's not like she has a magically pussy which will feel better than every other girl, as long as you wait. If that's her standard, fine. But it doesn't have to be yours. Let her find someone else who also has a similar set of ridiculously conservative values, or some chode who is willing to do whatever a women tells him. Otherwise, if you stick around with this girl and have a relationship on her terms, it's always going to be you pressing for more and her resisting. Have some…
/r/seduction15/05/18 11:43 AM
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Pointing out the obvious. The guy wants to take action, he's not. I'm telling him he should. Nothing haterish about it. I simply don't play the game of seddit incel circle jerk of positive feelings.
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:03 AM
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I don't get into the friendzone anymore. A girl knows my intentions because I don't hide it. If she doesn't put out, she's no use to me. I move on to a girl who is available, and I don't stick around like an orbiter.
/r/seduction15/05/18 01:02 AM
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Girls do this stuff all the time. I'm convinced that most of the time when a chode gets laid, it from the girl leading the way (but not necessarily visibly or by doing an approach) That's probably why so many of the guys on this forum are rushing to express their enthusiasm for women approaching them and leading the interaction.
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:51 PM
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"Hey guys. I haven't taken any action to meet girls. What should I do?"
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:53 PM
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This should be its own post. Abundance mentality comes from actually having abundance, not from dreaming it up.
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:52 PM
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Fix what you can. Work out, have style, smell good, etc. But here is a secret. Just looking for a relationship makes guys look unattractive. The emotional semi-logic of a woman looks like this: "He's just looking for a relationship?! That must mean he doesn't have any options. Gross! I don't want to fuck him......" "I don't even know if he really cares about me, and he won't commit to me?! I bet he fucks a lot of other girls, but he won't really confirm or deny. I better fuck him harder and more…
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:15 PM
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Step 1: Walk in with a smile. Step 2: Walk to the bar. Talk to the person on you right while you're ordering your drink. Step 3: After a short period of time, talk to the person on your left. Step 4: After a little while more, talk to someone else in proximity. Continue.
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:05 PM
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For everyone new who's reading this sub. This is an example of a useful question. It's based on a recurring issue that's coming up amid the action he's taking. Grea job, u/EmptyReporter !
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:54 PM
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It's not uncommon that you have to spend the first few minutes doing 90% of the talking. Try not to ask too many questions, especially personal questions. When guys do that, it ranges from cliche to creepy. Imagine an older gay dude approached you and was like "what's your name... do you live around here... How old are you?" That's what it feels like for women when an unattractive man does that. If you do direct openers, don't say anything generic or about something they can't control. Say somet…
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:48 PM
1

It boggles my mind that dating multiple women isn't a fundamental principle here.
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:11 AM
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Approach women..... Nightgame: Clubs, bars, festivals Street game: promenade, malls, farmers markets, grocery stores Daygame: Cafes You see 1000s of women every day. Say hello to some of them.
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:54 AM
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Because I could tell you didn't know what you were talking about and wanted to confirm your ack of experience
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:13 PM
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Unfortunately, feminism has made the notion of sex segregated gyms somehow "sexist." In places like Australia and the United States, it's actually illegal to have a male-only gym. Strangely though, I agree with your main point.. Guys: go to the gym to work out, not chat up girls like a scarcity-plagued bitch
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:38 AM
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She walked away from me as I asked for her name You were being rapport-seeking from the get go. It was bad game, and that's why she walked away from you. Seriously, imagine a stranger came up to you and immediately asked, "what's you name?." Unless you happened to have rock solid body language and vocal tonality, it indicates poor social skills.
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:36 AM
2

You are splitting hairs over semantics
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:34 AM
2

How long have you been doing game? Not reading about game, but actively approaching and spinning plates?
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:27 AM
1

No. If you are interested in joning a private sub for people who are more concerned with the technical details and practical aspects of pickup, pm me.
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:22 AM
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It sounds like your are filtering 'what you'd rather say' through some filter meant to avoid conflict and stigmatization. I'd rather say i 'like meeting people.' That's true, but it doesn't exact relate the entire picture in all its details. Social skills and persuasion are really broad. Game is more specific, and deals primarily with the actual process of developing a romantic relationship both generally and in specific situations. If that's really your opinion, why post here and not on r/socia…
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:20 AM
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Should should should Does having an opinion on the way things ought to be help you successfully navigate through the world as it actually is?
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:06 AM
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Tally marks... She was using chalk to count the times you passed to opportunity to make a move. After six missed chances, she assumed you were a pussy and a waste of time for her. I'm sure she appreciated the free weed though. Seriously OP? What sort of answer do you expect from this off-topic spergie post?
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:59 AM
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Your advice is basically, "be a chode." My advice isn't aimed at helping "land" this girl, it's to help him become better with women. Ya, this sub is about helping guys gain skills which lead to having more sex and better relationships. What the fuck else did you think it was about?
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:55 AM
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This. Especially while you're learning, it's better to blow yourself out by going to fast rather than being to conservative. You'll never learn where the line is if you never cross it. In my experience, girls judge pussies much harsher than guys whole are too pushy.
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:32 AM
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Social skills are broader, and the term is used in that way. "He's got a lot of friends due to his above average social skills." "He uses his social skills to meet and convince potential clients." Though there's obviously overlap, game and social skills aren't the same things.
/r/seduction13/05/18 12:14 AM
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Calling someone retarded is not acceptable, even if he has a point. What are you going to do about it? Whine some more?
/r/seduction11/05/18 05:04 PM
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I just offered to give you simple instructions which could improve your life. You totally ignored it and continued the same bullshit whining that you always bring to this sub. The world doesn't own you shit. When people do try to help, you ignore them. You're right about one thing. Losers can get laid. What's that say about you??
/r/seduction11/05/18 05:01 PM
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If I gave you some very simple tasks which would improve your social skills and dramatically increase your chances of getting laid (and are safe, legal, and free), would you do it?
/r/seduction10/05/18 04:22 PM
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You're going to quickly develop a reputation as the guy who hits in every girl at the gym. Not too bad if you are successful. Really bad if you're not.
/r/seduction08/05/18 10:53 PM
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The answer to every "this one girl" question is the same
/r/seduction08/05/18 06:40 PM
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Grow up bro or you're gonna blow yourself out of the relationship. He's already done that.
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:14 PM
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1) She isn't "making you insecure." You need to get a grip on your emotions. Quit blaming your problems and your internal monologue on other people. 2) Every girl is an attention whore. Deal with it. 3) If you tell her to do something or not do something, and she doesn't listen - then she doesn't respect you. Break up with her immediately. 4) The reason you won't do #4 is because you lack other options and are needy as fuck. That's probably why she doesn't respect you. The solution is always the…
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:13 PM
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You are obviously retarded since you keep posting the same shit week after week, get the same answers, yet never act on the advice.
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:26 PM
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How can you not change???
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:03 AM
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Lol Long before I knew what 'game' was, I approached a girl at a grocery store and ended up in a 7 year ltr. Sounds like you have some MAJOR limiting beliefs to work out.... Daygame 'doesn't work' if you are low value, obviously. If a dude tries to pick me up, it doesn't matter the location or context. I'm not attracted to men, so no technique nor trick will change that. On the other hand, if Mia Khalifa approached, the context isn't going to matter. At a bar, Starbucks, in line at the movie, at…
/r/seduction08/05/18 09:31 AM
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u/Aeon199 Dude.... you're an incel. You have absolutely no business offering advice on relationships.
/r/seduction08/05/18 04:40 AM
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Because the moderators tolerate it
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:50 PM
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I agree with this. I think women often throw out 'meddle tests': pulling away or being a bit distance just to see if you actually care enough to chase. They can be hard to distinguish from a girl who simply isn't interested. Context matters in these cases.
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:18 PM
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It's not for historical reasons. It's STILL better than a lot of other books.
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:04 PM
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Being 'direct' can happen one of two ways: You're direct because you're the type of guy who expresses themselves honestly. Obviously, you don't want to creep people out, but what you say or do is more a form of self-expression than reaction seeking. If a girl rejects you, you kinda shrug your shoulders, say that's cool, and keep doing what you were doing. You're direct because you think it will provoke some response. [[ Another Models success story, btw ]] Personally, I wouldn't approach on camp…
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:55 PM
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Please stop offering advice on picking up women when you don't know how. Getting one girlfriend and settling into a ltr is probably the worst thing you can do when you want to become good with women.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:45 PM
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Don't listen to this guy
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:43 PM
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People with autism can learn to read social cues. But they have to consciously learn. It's not something they pick up on easily or naturally.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:43 PM
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Julien is 6 feet tall, has amazing eye contact and frame control. Max looks like a model. Both have film crews following them around, so they look like celebrities. In that situation, it's a given that women are attracted to them. I do street game mostly. Here's what my direct game looks like: [Make eye contact first] "Hi, I'm PlowZeDong." (By this point I'm already trying to hold her hand.) "Hi, I thought you looked interesting so I wanted to say hello. [immediately do a take-away, i.e., say so…
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:38 PM
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u/ThrowawayPUA This is your hill. What's your take? Is this a model of game you promote?
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:41 PM
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She needs to be somewhat invested before you start asking personal questions. Seriously. Picture some random person coming up to you and asking you a series of personal questions. At best, it comes off like they have no social skills. At best, it's weird. Honestly, I would quit asking questions all together. Make statements. I don't know what RSD infields you are talking about. In every one that I recall, those questions come AFTER is the set hooked (i.e., after its obvious the girl is attracted…
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:32 PM
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Another seddit success story
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:25 PM
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this is retarded 1998 'no' girls out of 2000. Seddit really does fuck you guys up
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:24 PM
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Asked their names, what they were up too that night. Asked their jobs. These questions are boring as fuck and oddly personal. If you are doing 2000 approaches and getting laid once or twice, something is wrong. Your method is terrible, and you are just stumbling onto a girl who is easy. Quit listening to seddit. This place is filled with virgins, if you haven't noticed.
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:23 PM
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You are fucking up because you haven't been taking action. Somehow you spent the last few years doing everything besides trying to fuck hot girls. And now you wonder why you suck with women?! It's a no brainer...
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:00 PM
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What are you hoping to accomplish?
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:55 PM
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u/kinosavoy Check out Mystery Method. I used to swear by Magic Bullets. But MM is so better written, simpler, and has some concepts I feel are missing from MB.
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:45 AM
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Those aren't spectacular results. Any guy could do that by going out and getting drunk a few nights a week.
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:43 AM
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I've never heard of anyone having relationship success using models either. I really think "just communicate" is the biggest bullshit advice in the world. Women communicate in a different way than men. Trying to communicate on the level of women just makes it seem like you're a woman. While a woman will settle for a beta provider who is constantly talking about his feelings, she tingles for the alpha who will fuck her without all the sentimental bullshit. There's useful stuff in there, but if a …
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:42 AM
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You're operating from a place of scarcity. You should fix that first. Otherwise, any relationship you enter will end in disaster. In terms of getting better with women, start with the obvious thing and read the sidebar.
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:35 AM
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I've found Koreans girls have huge bitch shields. IDK, maybe they're different in Korea, but I've never heard of someone enjoying their time there. But here's some solid advice: just moving to a different country isn't going to solve your problems. You need to learn to interact with women as a man instead of looking for shortcuts. I live in Asia too. The underlying structure of human psychology doesn't change. Unless you do something different, you'll run into the same problems anywhere you go.
/r/seduction06/05/18 03:04 PM
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They (I’m speaking form myself and assuming they agree) are working on themselves and slowly building there confidence That's good. But do you talk to girls?
/r/seduction06/05/18 10:20 AM
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Confidence doesn't drop from the sky. It comes with competence, which comes with taking action. In short, if you are waiting for confidence or 'hope' before you take action, then you might as well give up. Courage is much more important, especially in the beginning. IMO, the most applicable piece of advice for you is to 'quit being a pussy.'
/r/seduction06/05/18 07:44 AM
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How many video, products, ebooks, youtube videos, etc do guys need?? There's plenty of encouragement. It's just another example of losers blaming other people for their problems. I agree that hope is important. But if anonymous strangers on reddit are your source of hope, you're fucked and have no internal sense of self-worth.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:35 AM
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Mystery also put in a lot of hard work and didn't make excuses
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:32 AM
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This was solid. Thanks
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:24 PM
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Ya, but we all feel good about ourselves, right?
/r/seduction03/05/18 01:20 PM
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Great post. You have to put a noun in front "-oriented" to make an adjective. Examples include growth-oriented, results-oriented, fact-oriented, results-oriented, etc. Fix that and this post is perfect
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:59 AM
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If you were getting laid often by hot girls, you wouldn't care about some random girl at your worksite. Like I said, this sub is about picking up girls, not figuring out how to tie down your oneitis without risking rejection. You asked for advice. You got it. Don't act butthurt just because you didn't like it.
/r/seduction02/05/18 11:57 AM
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The sub is more about developing skills to succeed with women, not "how to win over this one woman even though I've never taken the time to develop skills to succeed with women."
/r/seduction01/05/18 11:06 PM
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Exactly. A guy who is "just looking for a girlfriend" subcommunicates low value. Even if you are just looking for a girlfriend, it's best to let the girl suggest it and feel like she had to win you over.
/r/seduction01/05/18 08:21 AM
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So meetups are usually reoccurring... this is an important point. How you do this sort of game it's really simple. You start going to the meetings, and you become one of the most socialbb amicable, gregarious people there. You talk to everyone. You're loud but not obnoxious. You get everyone else to open up but remain the center of attention. If possible, you present yourself as someone with high value in that interest community. For example if it's a science meet up, you would want to present y…
/r/seduction01/05/18 07:23 AM
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Yes, I think you are jumping into vast. If you have bad approach anxiety, you should start by practicing eye contact with strangers, smiling, and saying hi. It's also very easy to make small talk with cashiers. They actually like it a lot because people normally treat them like a robot. This is kind of creepy but I like to do it. If the cashier is hot or cute or whatever, as you're taking your change back very very lightly graze her hand with your fingers as you're slighty smiling and making eye…
/r/seduction01/05/18 07:08 AM
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Men with options are attractive. Men with options rarely want to fully commit to one woman.
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:25 AM
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I don't have time to reply fully to this. Google and read about the difference between growth and fixed mindsets. Addressing this one issue would fix a lot, though not all, of your problems.
/r/seduction29/04/18 07:08 AM
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If you know all the answers about how seduction works and how this place should operate, why do you ask the same question every week? It sounds like you just want strangers to validate you, and you don't actually care about results. To answer your question: "low functioning," "aspergers," etc.... those are just scripts you're living by. You don't have to. But it's easier to blame your lack of success on a supposed fixed personality trait than to take responsibility for your outcomes. Quit tellin…
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:28 AM
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I had a similar but different experience last week. I live in Asia. I had just finished at the gym, and went to a vegetarian restaurant (fuck off) to grab a bite to eat afterwards. I sit down next to a table of three. I look over in their direction. It's a middle age western couple and a girl I pulled on a day 2 last year (who had a bf at the time... awalt). The girl is a tourguide now, and she's taking the couple around the city. I lightly engage, but don't pay too much attention to the girl I …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 04:21 AM
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Here's the root of the matter. Previously, you were a cool dude from her hometown who had high value because he moved away to go to college. Now, you're some guy who exhibits low value because you put across a vibe that you have no options in college and would consider committing or investing into a girl who still lives in your hometown.
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:15 PM
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The local RSD Inner circle groups on facebook. At least where I'm at, no body gives a fuck about rsd. It's just the defacto local forum for pick up. Don't know how it works in other places.
/r/seduction27/04/18 10:59 AM
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The field is the best teacher. Otherwise, read something like Magic Bullets by Savoy or the Mystery Methd
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:13 AM
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1) Quit focusing on things you fear 2) Start losing weight. Quit making excuses about this, it's within your power. 3) Just talk to people and slowly become more comfortable in social situations. Once you implement these three things, sorting other things out will be much easier.
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:29 AM
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to be fair, the sidebar is a disorganized mess anyways
/r/seduction27/04/18 06:16 AM
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That's a HUGE problem. I also went on a date tonight with a girl I met last week. I tried ti kiss her three time and got rejected each time. And each time, I smiled and acted cool about it. (To be fair, I also kissed her neck once and head a couple times). This went on over the course of hours. Don't tell her you like her, show her it. When it came to part ways, I 'made' her give me a hug. I didn't want to go for a fourth kiss and possibly getting rejected again. There where people around, and g…
/r/seduction26/04/18 09:14 PM
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Tell me in a year :)
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:08 PM
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Ya.... On one hand, I don't want to destroy my health by getting drunk all the time. On the other hand, I don't want my 'game' to be drunkenly plowing 6s while dodging their friends. On top of that, there's the whole beta-esque lying to the friends about how he "really" likes this girl. It’s so weird and supplicating while also being disingenuous. Either way, it was a total comp-out and collapsing in the face of their frame. And honestly, I don't understand why he didn't fuck the hoe on the couc…
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:08 PM
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Shes prolly too busy fucking other dudes and spending your cash........ Here's what you should do: Unless you have children together, break up with her asap. There's no such thing as an ldr. You give her commitment and probably resources while receiving next to nothing in return. On the flip side, you're the problem here. You're the one that feels insecure and butthurt that she's not texting you. You're letting your mood be effected by a woman. So there's that. Either way, it sounds like a shitt…
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:29 PM
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Wtf.... You should bookmark this thread and read it again in a year.
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:28 PM
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I told you in another thread... It's obvious af that you don't know what rp is. What you're describing is classical beta/provider game. Rp game seeks to maximize a guys value as a short term mating partner. Flashing expensive shit is more likely to hurt you from a rp game standpoint.
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:26 PM
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You are responsible for your own emotions
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:15 PM
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yep.......
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:10 PM
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There was no chance. If you're in a position where you are considering "telling a girl you like her," you had already disqualified yourself as a romantic prospect long ago.
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:00 PM
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Sometimes the RSD Inner Circle groups on facebook can be ok places to meet local wings. Just don't drink the kool aid.
/r/seduction26/04/18 05:56 PM
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You don't fix this. You find a different girl and try to do better, not desperately hope you can't fix things with this one girl. That's pretty much the distinction between having abundance and not.
/r/seduction26/04/18 05:15 PM
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She knows you're heterosexual and interested in her, right?
/r/seduction26/04/18 04:41 PM
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Threads like these should be locked and the op banned. Following directions to "read to sidebar" is practice for readings social and non verbal cues.
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:17 AM
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Go try 50 times and find out
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:11 AM
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I really can't stand this shit. You come here asking for advice. You get perfectly reasonable advice. Do you apply it? FUCK NO! Instead, you are argue with the person who gave it to you. Here's the harsh truth: you are 100% responsible for the situation you're in now. The same attitude and line of thinking that you're using to argue, that's what is keeping you pathetic, friendless, and unfuckable. Honestly OP. If you're so smart and savvy, why the fuck are you here asking for advice on basic shi…
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:09 AM
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Yes. This ONE woman was your ONLY shot to find true love. All hope is now lost and you'll never meet anyone else who comes remotely close to her beauty and charming personality. .... I hope you realize this is sarcasm
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:27 AM
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No, only guys with mansions get laid. I'm pretty sure I read that in 'the Game,' so it's definitely true.
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:24 AM
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This is covered in the sidebar and violates the rules. This used to be a place where guys shared tips to bang hotties. Now it's people complaining that they're forever alone.
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:03 AM
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Ok. You whine about me being toxic, and then call me a deadass (whatever that meansll. But the proof is in the reality of the matter. I get laid and have friends, and you don't. So you may think about being a little more humble when you ask for advice or complain about your life. If you want someone to stroke your ego, take that shit to r/ForeverAlone. If you want to learn to get good with women, then shut the fuck up and listen to what people are telling you. Or keep doing what you're doing and…
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:16 AM
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That makes sense why you don't have friends
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:29 AM
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This is emotional vomit. Grow up "Not having friends" is a self fulfilling prophesy. Very few people want to make friends with someone that doesn't haven any.
/r/seduction26/04/18 02:50 AM
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You're a pussy who didn't try to fuck her. She took it as a sign that you lack assertiveness.
/r/seduction26/04/18 01:42 AM
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No. No one has ever in the history of the world flirted or seduced in a second language...... Do you have a question, or are you just looking for sympathy?
/r/seduction26/04/18 01:36 AM
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Ya, I thought you were ignoring girls you like. Though I am curious how you try to meet and where. It's hard to offer a universal approach because different personalities and target demographics are better suited to different styles of game.
/r/seduction25/04/18 02:03 PM
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u/recyclablebanthas u/ThrowawayPUA Are you guys gonna delete this, or is this type of stuff acceptable now?
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:41 AM
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@TheXXL. I agree. But I think as guys get older, it makes sense to begin going more indirect on the open. There are a few reasons for this. One is that I think is subcommunicates the kind of social intelligence which she expects a high value older man to have. Thoughts?
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:32 AM
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What? Where and what type of girls are you gaming? That's a terrible method, and I'm not surprised your results suck. If you're 35 and not taking your health seriously, including exercising regularly and keeping your body fat down, you're not going to regularly bang hot girls in their early twenties (unless you have really high status). This is the real world, not a disney movie where a horny old man is the princess. Logistics and lifestyle also matter more when older too. Living in your parents…
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:30 AM
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This is a tough case. I normally tell older guys to go indirect, simply because it subcommunicates a degree of social intelligence that is expected from older guys while reducing the chances of you looking, from an outsiders perspective, like an older guy who is shamelessly hitting on younger women (which doesn't matter so long as you are successful, but looks really bad when you fail). With guys who aren't beginners, direct approaches can also come off as 'too smooth.' For the girl, confident d…
/r/seduction25/04/18 07:40 AM
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Jesus fucking christ. You've been reading this sub for how long and you think talking to one girl is some milestone?!?! I really think is sub is fucking guys up more than helping them. Congrats on overcoming this hurdle but you still have a LOOOOONG way to go. If anyone is treating you like some sort of pimp, ignore them and quit associating with them. If you want to get good with women, talk and listen to guys who are good with women, not guys who suck even more than you. (common sense which is…
/r/seduction25/04/18 07:26 AM
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4) It sucks that you have to define ideals against women like this. This might work in a dominant/submissive relationship. I'd cherry pick this bit "You [...] need to be centered, dependable, decisive, leading the interaction, and often teasing her." Good words there. Great for general fantastic human interaction This was the one I was afraid would be misinterpreted the most. I work with kids and actually like them quite a bit. So it isn't meant to be the insult that everyone assumed it was. But…
/r/seduction24/04/18 01:31 AM
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I totally disagree with #2 as well, and I think it's a convenient way to sell pick up coaching. "Looks don't matter, only game does, and I can teach it to you in a weekend for $700." As far as money goes, it's stupid to think that more money wouldn't benefit you generally. Even something as being able to afford higher quality food is going to make you healthier and thus more attractive to most women. That said, money can also hurt guys in a couple different ways. First, guys start to attach thei…
/r/seduction24/04/18 01:18 AM
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incidentally I <3 U
/r/seduction23/04/18 12:21 PM
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"Yeah, but giving advice on assumption that women will eventually betray you in some way or another isn't the healthiest approach. Sure, men and women are equally shitty, we cheat, lie, manipulate etc. But you shouldn't really think like that, it builds anxiety and distrust. It destroys comfort. " Not really. When I'm with a girl - whether a day 2 or a FWB - I'm totally comfortable with the knowledge that she'll eventually be turned on more by someone else. I don't resist it, but I use the knowl…
/r/seduction23/04/18 12:14 PM
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That sucks mate. Pick yourself up. Develop yourself as a man and cultivate your options for dating. In 5 years, she'll realize how much you've changed and regret having ruined her relationship with you.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:51 AM
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How to kiss a girl for the first time if you're shy.
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:23 AM
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"I've met a lot of (what you could call "wife material") girls that were better in every aspect than most of men I know." I think this is where we are mis-communicating. I absolutely agree with this statement. I've met absolutely amazing girls. But my point about women isn't about how one particular girl is at one particular moment. That same sweetheart girl, in another time and place (and with another guy - a HUGE crucial distinction) - would be a totally different person, so to speak. I'm not …
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:59 AM
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Before you pass judgement, can I ask what your relationship history is like. What was your longest relationship? How many women have you slept with in the past few months? How many women have you slept with who had bfs? How long (time or dates) does it usually take you between meeting and fucking? Do you often maintain multiple FWB relationships at the same time? All the value judgements and virtue signaling in the world are useless to me. I'm interested in the nuts and bolts and practical issue…
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:09 AM
1

What's your lay count in the past three years? What sort of method do you use to meet women? What are your day 2s like?
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:47 AM
1

Sorry if this post wasn't clear. Women will usually couple with a beta. That means she's date and marry a beta, but the relationship won't be very passionate, and she will rarely reach high levels of arousal with a guy like that. For flings (i.e., short lasting yet passionate romantic relationships), women tend to go for more alpha type guys. ** Everything else being equal, having more money is going to be better for you than having less money. But it won't solve your problems with women.
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:41 AM
0

Yep,,, I would trust the advice over an anonymous reddit user over one who regularly posts about their video game and porn addictions. ...
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:32 AM
1

Actually, it applies probably MORE to relationships that ONS. You've been sold the Oprah/femenized fairy tale of what a 'successful, meaningful relationship" should be... If you have experience in a LTR, I'd be willing to listen in earnest. Judging from your post history, that isn't the case with you....
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:30 AM
3

Or guys who frequently have slept with girls with boyfriends...
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:21 AM
1

Do you go through life expecting to live forever? Does knowing that death is inevitable cast a shadow of fear across your life or lead you to enjoy to time you have??
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:19 AM
0

Porno is watching another guy fuck a women you're attracted to.... It's glorified cuck training.
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:17 AM
-8

Women cheat much more than you probably realize
/r/seduction22/04/18 08:01 PM
1

Those people are wrong.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:50 PM
0

This is quite possibly the worst advice possible. At the same time, I'm really happy guys like this exist. Drunk chodes are hardly competition against guys who are confident as themselves in social situations.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:46 PM
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"Be yourself" is kind of a mind fuck. What does it even mean? Try this instead. Think of your personality. It's a little less abstract and easier to wrap your head around. Now take what you know of your personality. And turn it up to 11.
/r/seduction22/04/18 08:44 AM
0

Ya, people have biases. The intellectual things to do is deal with the biases. "I think x is wrong because y" That's the framework of a debate or discussion about ideas.
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:48 AM
1

What a pathetic non response. Instead of dealing with the substance of WIA20XXs comment, highlight what you disagree with and why, you used a personal characterization to smear the speaker. It's lazy as fuck
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:54 AM
5

There's not enough details here to tell for sure. Can you include his last name, date of birth, and social security number? Record a video of him scaring off women, then show it to him
/r/seduction21/04/18 06:17 PM
1

Wtf are you talking about.... This isn't r/platonicfriends
/r/seduction21/04/18 06:45 AM
2

There seems to be a prelevant notion on seddit that the "self" is some static sacrosanct thing. It's a really harmful view and basically inhibits any sort of real personal growth and transformation. Sure, there are core personality traits, but so what? A better line of inquiry is which personality traits are useful for achieving the ends you desire. I suppose being a lazy fuckwad and worthless to anyone including yourself could be construed as "authentic," but it's not going to help attract the …
/r/seduction21/04/18 06:35 AM
6

The best compliment opener: You: {Any compliment, start walking away} Her: Thanks! You: {Stops, turn toward her} "Oh, you're actually cool too. My names Plow ZeDong."
/r/seduction21/04/18 04:00 AM
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You just admitted you settled, and then deleted your comment... You said "want to settle down for a bit [because you're] just tired of playing the game." That's the definition of settling. You wanted a way out: cheap sex without a ton of effort. Well, you got exactly what you [thought you] wanted... Notice how different that is than, "I've been dating this really amazing girl who actually displays traits which qualify her as someone I'd be willing to settle down with. So, I'm willing to cut loos…
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:51 PM
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It's not psychological analysis. It's context. Simply put, if you had an abundance of women, you'd be vetting girls A LOT harder before you offered any commitment once-soever. Instead of justifying/excusing your actions, you might consider taking advice from people with more experience - not from people who are cheering on your bad decisions.
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:34 PM
2

Transcending social norms, conditioning, and limiting beliefs. Bending the rules to have a life and experiences that few share or understand. Not limiting myself to what is easily attainable or expected.
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:07 AM
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You should quit thinking that you do game, bevause you don't. You've settled for the first girl who will accept you. In the process you've surrendered your freedom to date around before you have any real skill with women. It's a newbie mistake. That's why my advice is always talk to more women But I'm more concerned that the mods haven't pointed this out. The only reasonable advice on this whole thread is from u/WIA20XX. Everyone else is cheering you off a cliff, a case of the blind leading the …
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:43 AM
1

Bro. I can already tell that you lack options
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:28 AM
2

Until very recently, most of society was sex segregated. If you sought out the company of women and children in order to find "community," people would think there is something wrong with you. Furthermore, have you spoken with many married guys? Usually their lives suck. I would much rather hang out with men would prioritize their health and purpose, not guys who feel stuck or lucky to be in some awful relationship.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:28 AM
2

If it's harder, it's because scores of beta dudes are feeding validation to even mediocre looking girls. The simple solution is to not be an orbiter. If a hoe doesn't show respect, cut her loose. By chasing women, you are only feeding her ego and making her feel like she deserves even better.
/r/seduction18/04/18 04:16 PM
1

The richest man in Babylon
/r/seduction18/04/18 03:19 PM
1

"at first I found him attractive, he looks good, but when he started talking it was gone." So, basically he could have fucked her based on looks alone but managed to fuck it up..... Kinda backs up what I just said. If he was significantly overweight, had unkept hair, hadn't changed his style since middle school, he wouldn't have even gotten a second look...
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:57 PM
2

Step one..... read the sidebar
/r/seduction18/04/18 01:53 AM
4

If it was easy, would you enjoy it?
/r/seduction18/04/18 01:51 AM
2

That's awesome that you write FRs. Definitely more valuable than most of the posts here. But I still think you are way off base with the looks things. Obviously, with something like height, it's pointless to focus too much on it since it can't be changed. But anyone can exercise, have good hygiene, and dress decently. Even if game can overcome many of these issues, it's an uphill battle. Personally, if a guy doesn't care about himself enough to handle these issues, I wouldn't consider them my eq…
/r/seduction18/04/18 01:46 AM
1

Ok. Coming from someone who posts on seddit 20+ times a day, then it must be true...
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:39 AM
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Obviously having game will help. But to presume looks and genetic health aren't major factors in male attractiveness is borderline retarded from an intuitive standpoint and contradicts [scientific research](www.archive.is/ARKof) .
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:36 AM
1

Dude. The guy is reporting what he saw. Get off of your high horse. Looks matter. It's not a surprising or complex idea. Don't be a game dogmatist.
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:29 AM
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Our dear mods have taken it upon themselves to ban discussion about Rollo Tomassi. Appearently 10 posts a day by incels is more valuable.
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:27 AM
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And he's not obliged to feed her childish need for attention or validation
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:15 AM
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You don't owe her an answer. It sounds like she just wants attention. Tell her you're busy or don't respond. You offered her a certain type of relationship. She refused. End of story.
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:14 AM
6

A girlfriend is the absolute last thing most guys on here need. Game is a social skill. "Getting a girlfriend" is typically a way for beta guys to avoid learning that social skill. Once you have confidence born from competence, and once your know about yourself due to experience, you stand a chance of having a decent relationship. Otherwise guys just end up entering unsatisfying relationships, only to be dumped in a few years, then they crawl back here crying because years have past and they rea…
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:11 AM
1

A complete waste of time.
/r/seduction15/04/18 11:27 PM
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I’m afraid she’s seeing other guys now too, but I’m not for sure. That's your problem. You should assume that she's seeing other guys, or will in the future, and this shouldn't bother you. She's not yours. You're just with her some times.
/r/seduction14/04/18 09:59 AM
1

You should have read the sidebar, just like it says at the top of the page....
/r/seduction14/04/18 07:06 AM
1

Any time I coach or help someone with women, grooming and fashion is the absolute first thing we address.
/r/seduction13/04/18 09:32 AM
2

Really, following simple instructions like 'read the sidebar is a basic metric for how conscientious someone is. If someone can't do that before posted their spergy question about "this one girl," they deserve to be ignored/rejected/banned until they can figure it out. We aren't helping anyone by feeding them attention and energy when they can't even follow explicit instructions. If anything, we're rewarding and reinforcing their autistic behavior. In effect, by answering newbie questions, we're…
/r/seduction13/04/18 09:31 AM
1

Posts like these are why I read trp.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 04:20 AM
4

Just talk to people. Accept that It's going to be awkward for the first 10 minutes and do it anyways
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:54 AM
1

Jesus, this woman is doing everything short of dropping on her knees in front of you. I though French people were good at romance. You are a huge exception. Keep hitting the books, cause you won't be succeeding due to social skills
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:53 AM
1

type "texting" into the search bar and press enter
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:26 AM
5

Start with small things and work your way incrementally. For example: Day 1: Make eye contact with 5 people Day 2: Make eye contact and smile at 5 people Day 3: Make eye contact and say hello to 5 people Day 4: Make small talk with 3 cashiers Day 5: Ask 5 people for directions Day 6: Ask 5 people for directions and make an observational statment Day 7: Give 5 people compliments And so on. This type of gradual immersion is very effective at overcoming social anxiety, but you have to put in the wo…
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:50 PM
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I mean - most of the posts here are from guys who have terrible relationships with women and little skill in seduction. Of course they're going to say shit like that. It's all part of their limiting beliefs and fear-driven mindset.
/r/seduction10/04/18 11:53 AM
1

What accent do you have? Most (which some exceptions, e.g. Indian) make you sound unique and higher value. Most voice and pronunciation problems can be fixed by speaking slower.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:46 AM
1

You didn't ask for advice. You just described something you didn't like. It came off more like whining than asking for advice. My advice would be to game away from campus. Find a cluster of bars, or a couple night clubs, or a good daygame spot, or a social circle based on an activity you like, and make that your field of play for game. In a situation where the gender balance is skewed that far, you're going to be fighting an uphill battle for the attention of your female classmates. The way to w…
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:42 AM
0

Because she is at the peak of her attractiveness and thus has hundreds of options, many of whom are richer and better in bed than you. Quit being the beta weirdo that's trying to lock girls down into a relationship. If she wants to spend more time with you, it will be obvious. Don't be a buzzkill.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:18 AM
1

Say your busy and don't have time for awkward small talk texting. You'll meet her wgen you meet her. No big deal.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:15 AM
1

Tall to other girls
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:13 AM
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Here's what I don't understand. You claim you're good with women and yet are seriously consider hitting on a family friend. Obviously, those things don't match. If you had more options, you wouldn't consider for ruining your reputation over one girl. Beyond that, it's not even clear what you want? Are you trying to just fuck? Make her your girlfriend? Different approaches are suited to different goals. My advice is to figure out what you want before you embarrass yourself. Secondly, figure out w…
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:11 AM
0

What are you looking for? Pity? Validation? It's your life. Suck it up and deal, or change the situation. Above all, quit treating people like emotional tampons.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:06 AM
1

What have your results been like in terms of skill development?
/r/seduction10/04/18 01:37 AM
1

Post more in the serious group. I would love to read some of your FRs or practical tips.
/r/seduction09/04/18 06:12 PM
1

Every girl is a side hoe
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:20 PM
4

And your going after asian women who are by far the most gold digging race on the planet. Kinda like saying Asian women are the most feminine. I live in Asia. Gameandgains is right. Game is same same but different. Asian guys are usually just pussies who mark themselves as providers from the get go. At least you're only buying bubble tea though. Lot of these girls are getting dinners and movies thrown at them by their provider suitors. Escalate on the sly. Sometimes it's easier to finger an Asia…
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:18 PM
1

God the sub is hilarious
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:04 PM
1

Hey mate. I feel ya I recently started a website to track my progress in improving my text game. It might help you to see how I break down my texts and what I'm thinking about the process. www.mytextgamesucks.wordpress.com
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:59 PM
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This is why guys shouldn't settle into a relationship at their first opportunity. No offense, but you effectively know nothing about women. Girls cheat/branch swing all the time. About three weeks ago, I fucked a girl in a ldr. The next day she changes her fb profile pic to a pic of them together. And she's been hitting me up to hang ever since. Girls fuck the guy with the highest social value who gives them the most emotions, period. She might keep around some loser so that she can complain abo…
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:29 PM
1

People aren't naturally manogamous. Read Sex at Dawn.
/r/seduction09/04/18 09:50 AM
1

ok
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:27 PM
1

check it out
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:38 PM
1

Are you familiar with the term navel gazing?
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:49 PM
1

Tell her you're sorry and you'll try to do better Edit: Don't do that. Talk to other women, derb
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:34 AM
4

No one cares about your feelings
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:29 AM
1

I don't like the way he abruptly stops girls. IMO, it draws too much attention and you'll quickly burn down a venue. Other than that, it's cool
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:30 PM
1

Then why are you posting here?
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:04 PM
1

This is spam for a clickbait website.
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:07 PM
1

He makes eye contact and checks their responce. He's basically look for girls who are a) attracted to him and b) are sexually available (i.e., aren't with their bfs, on their period, etc). The only way he can find that out is by escalation
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:03 PM
1

Wait, why? I try to post a variety of things which I think people will find useful. I posted this so that people could see what rejection looks like, but also what somewhat aggressive escalation looks like. I didn't realize it was taboo.
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:00 PM
4

This the only right answer.
/r/seduction07/04/18 03:55 PM
1

Ask yourself what type of person you want to be in 5 years: a pussy man child or a man with courage. The commit to the path you've chosen. Then realize that approaching is merely a means to that much larger end.
/r/seduction07/04/18 02:55 PM
1

Well, Chris from Good Looking Loser might tell you to hit the gym and maybe learn self defense. I'm not saying that video represents the only way, but it is a way. You be you.
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:26 PM
3

Fourth was a girl walking pretty fast with earphones in. Straight blonde 10. Same "hey you're cute" opener. She just shook her head and kept walking. Don't do that. Find a program and stick with it, at least until you can attempt pulling it off "in field" with fear. I just posted a link to a video on getting laid at bars. It's super gringy to watch, but he pulls. Another program worth follow are those from Tom Torero. He focuses exclusively on day game. And, of course, be working on yourself. Go…
/r/seduction07/04/18 12:40 PM
2

The is a good example of screening game. Obviously, you have to have a base SMV. Otherwise, you are just seeing if girls are DTF and then escalating. All the conversation is noise covering up the non verbal and sub communication.
/r/seduction07/04/18 11:47 AM
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is there a major difference between the two?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 09:18 AM
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Met a girl who went to church every Sunday night and strongly identified as Catholic. Eventually hook up. I've never seen a girl squirt so fast. Then she tells me she lost her virginity to a pastor. That was surprising for me at the time...
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 03:40 AM
1

when I was a more of a noob... If you are asking seddit about one girl, you're still a noob
/r/seduction07/04/18 03:36 AM
2

Talk to other women
/r/seduction07/04/18 03:34 AM
6

Move on. She's is mental baggage that is weighing you down and stopping you from achieving bigger things in life. I guarantee that if you hook up with her, the exact same problems will reoccur and cause you to break up again. As a side note, the sub is supposed to be about attracting women, not attracting a single woman. Tldr: you need better problems
/r/seduction07/04/18 03:34 AM
7

read the sidebar
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:53 AM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:53 AM
1

Why is the sub increasingly becoming a place where people vent about their problems. Get a friend
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:46 AM
1

You're so full of shit
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:07 AM
1

Complaining anonymously online about not wanting to approach random girls makes you a pussy.
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:07 AM
1

Nah... if you respected yourself, then you wouldn't be wasting your time or settling for the pathetic life you currently have. You already lack self respect but make up for it with your oversized ego.
/r/seduction06/04/18 09:45 AM
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Quit posting here. Every few weeks, you post the same bullshit, whining and crying about how hard your life is. And you never take action. It's just a stream of endless excuses. You are, in effect, a huge pussy. Fuck off with that. Please do give up and quit wasting our time.
/r/seduction06/04/18 09:33 AM
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Sounds like you're on the right path. Things aren't going to change overnight, but continuing to build small efforts on top on one another will yield results. The comment about homosexual wasn't to be taken literally. You're coming off as too friendly and somewhat asexual. You can be flamboyant and even somewhat effeminate (which is way better than acting like the terminator), but you have to show some intent. Girls have to realize you are looking at them sexually. Try practicing holding contact…
/r/seduction06/04/18 03:26 AM
2

in=involuntary cel=celibate One of my main rules for life is admitting that I'm absolutely terrible at most things. For example, I'd like to think that I'm decent at driving a motorbike. But get above a certain speed - nothing extreme even - and I lack any experience or skill and could possibly kill myself. This acknowledgement of my suckiness is what allows and motivates me to improve. Rather than avoiding the label incel and all its negative connotations, you should, (to a certain degree) ackn…
/r/seduction06/04/18 03:12 AM
1

Definately too old, and never sent a dick pic. You should post a how to or sequence for doing so. It might help some guys or at least provoke interesting reactions
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:59 AM
1

Don't follow the crowd
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:58 AM
1

I'm saying he's doing something wrong.. That much is obvious. I appreciate folks who have different advice on what he should do differently - and I think a lot of it is valid. My advice is simply to not play that game - don't be the orbiter or the guy who sends pointless messages. She's got tons of those already. Instead, be the guy she's excited to meet. Folks like circlehat have a totally different approach. That's great actually. But again, following his advice would be a huge departure from …
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:57 AM
2

One of my number one rules in life is embracing the fact that I suck at doing the vast majority of things. Imo, it's only from a place of humility that one can actually excell.
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:51 AM
2

Step 1: read the side bar Step 2: follow instructions therein
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:15 AM
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I question how hard you're really trying to date. Are you taking care of your body? What is your haircut like? What does your place look like? Would you be comfortable taking a girl there tonight? Do you have condoms? Are you talking to people on your daily life, generally going out of your way to show you're interested in people? You say you work 40-60 a week. That's quite a large margin. During the weeks where you work only 40, what ate you doing with those extra 20 hours? What are your friend…
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:14 AM
4

What do you think incel means?
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:53 AM
2

No you won't.... It's simple... talk to people. There is absolutely nothing "to look into." You're a pussy who makes excuse after excuse for why you're not taking action.
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:53 AM
2

Youre a pussy who thinks they're more important than they really are
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:50 AM
1

If you are asking a question like this to strangers, you probably have very little sense of self assuredness. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:49 AM
3

Girls who go to church are just like every other girl. The main difference being that they're usually busy for a few hours on sunday...
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:48 AM
1

Read "the sidebar"
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:45 AM
4

I don't know why people down vote common sense. This is seddit, not the make-a-wish foundation. If you want to get laid, quit acting like a derp. Don't think you can "just be yourself" (the same self which hasnt been getting pussy ofc) and magically women will start doing all the work for you. Afaik, this advice is solid. Quit acting like and incompetent chode who hides behind social media, and women might start treating you like a man.
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:44 AM
2

FIXED And a lot of men born after 1980 want to be dominated by women.... People like to be with someone who takes care of the details, doesn't worry, and makes decisions for them. In the case of men, they usually live with their parents throughout their twenties and never seem to have mutually satisfying relationships. Given the basic facts of biology and evolution, you've got much better odds as a man playing the dominating role.
/r/seduction04/04/18 04:43 AM
1

It matters as exactly as much as you think it does....
/r/seduction04/04/18 04:38 AM
1

You sound like a nice guy who is looking for a serious relationship. I can't imagine why you're having trouble with women in your university.....
/r/seduction04/04/18 04:38 AM
2

Reconnect with her when she gets back. In the meantime, stop texting her. Being her texting buddy isn't getting you any closer toward a romantic relationship with this woman. If she likes you, she'll be happen to pick up where you left off. If not, then you've saved yourself a lot of time and effort.
/r/seduction04/04/18 04:32 AM
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There is no such thing as a ldr.... That's just the friendzone where logistics and distance is used as the excuse for her not fucking you. The fact that you would even consider a ldr probably indicated to her that your social value and self confidence isn't as high as she thought. If you had other options, you wouldn't even consider trying to carry on romantically with a woman that lives in another country. Have some self respect and move on.
/r/seduction04/04/18 03:45 AM
1

Who cares. It's one girl.... "Cuz I said so, Amy."
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:31 AM
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A guy in his late teens or early twenties would be foolish to try to maintain a long term relationship. The sexual economics dictate that a 20 year old man is relatively low in smv, especially compared to a girl of the same age. Fast forward 10 years, and the situation is reversed. The man might still not have hit his peak, yet the woman is in the very visible process of irreversible smv decline. If you're a woman, getting into a ltr younger makes sense. Your options are going to dwindle fast. T…
/r/seduction03/04/18 07:24 AM
1

ya...... this is not the place for complaining and whining,.... and as anyone can tell you, I'm the last person who's going to be sympathetic with that. Read my earlier posts for newbies: The Answer To Every Question About "This One Girl" Quickest Ways To Become More Attractive As A Man u/Socialinception also posted a very comprehensive piece the other day: How to Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key Tips
/r/seduction02/04/18 10:36 AM
2

You're not feeling it... You want to pursue personal growth and development while your young and not be tied into a relationship... You have some modicum of self respect and wouldn't dream of lowering yourself to dating an ugly woman who isn't absolutely enthusiastic about fucking you... Or just ghost on her,... but it sounds like she beat the OP to the punch. Seriously, you the OP doesn't owe this girl an explanation. They're barely dating. He doesn't want to date her any more. That's the least…
/r/seduction02/04/18 10:21 AM
1

Break up with her... The relationship sounds fucked. Have a fresh go with a different girl. Next time, set a more dominant and leading frame while also leading able to push her emotional buttons.
/r/seduction02/04/18 10:14 AM
2

Refuse to learn because you disagree with the authors political allegiances. Sounds like your loss...
/r/seduction02/04/18 07:47 AM
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He's trying to show you an example of what an attractive guy who gets laid looks like. He's basically doing charity work, but you seem too dense to appreciate it. If you would quit browsing seddit and hang out with him for 6 months, you'd learn a lot faster. Quit being a little bitch and put your ego aside - ask him to help you instead of confiding in internet strangers like a woman.
/r/seduction02/04/18 02:25 AM
3

Or maybe he knows what he's talking about more than a derp that pays thousands of dollars to get taught how to behave around women.... Sorry your feels were hurt bro. Maybe the first step to getting laid is actually growing a pair, not bitching and whining on the internet...
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:07 AM
2

This..... Notice that after he apologized, it wasn't enough. He still got kicked out of the fb group. The obvious answer is to be more attractive. Fixed your posture, haircut, teeth, vocal tonality and speech speed. Gain muscle and drop weight. That would have fixed a lot of your problems..
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:05 AM
1

She's not into you. Move on. Develop yourself, gain additional experience. Ping her in a few months. You probably lost it because during all that kinky talk, she was talking about her, you were talking about you. There was never any conceptual framing or insinuation of you doing that together. You're never going to fuck a girl over text, so even the kinky talk is just to get her ready to meet in the right frame. You should have withdrawn her after she said she'd only meet you in public. From the…
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:50 AM
1

Read the sex God method
/r/seduction30/03/18 01:28 PM
1

I like Juliens idea of turning your personality up to 11. But, another thing to remember is that our 'self' is very situational. How we think, feel, and act is very different depending on the setting.
/r/seduction30/03/18 09:32 AM
2

Puff puff pass homie
/r/seduction30/03/18 05:44 AM
32

Enjoy the process. That's a great trip for anything, be out the gym, making music, or game. If it's too much of a grind, it will be hard to stick with.
/r/seduction30/03/18 05:43 AM
4

I just got back from a meeting with a "success coach." The guy has lived along the frontier, had successful businesses, traveled abroad, was doing "game" in the 80s, and is an amazing speaker. Towards the end of the meeting, after we had talked about dozens of topics centering around creating high performance habits and group culture, I realized nothing remotely close to this old canard came up. He never once said, "but you just have to be yourself." Instead, it was all about figuring out how to…
/r/seduction30/03/18 05:31 AM
1

Have you considered searching the word "texting" in the search bar?
/r/seduction30/03/18 05:18 AM
1

I've been in a dry spell since Sunday... Keep putting in the effort, reflect on what's working and what's not, and remember that women are a lagging indicator.
/r/seduction29/03/18 05:09 AM
1

That is a responce
/r/seduction29/03/18 04:06 AM
1

I think answers like 'just be confident' miss the point. 'Just be confident ' is obvious, but how? Imo, the best way is two fold. First, get lots of experience with women. Make learning and improving your dating skill your goal (instead of outcomes you can't control, such as getting a number). Try to figure out what are your weak links are in the interaction. For example, this month I'm working on three things: eye contact, follow up texts and phone calls, and bouncing/logistically leading. I'm …
/r/seduction29/03/18 04:04 AM
4

She's paid to be attractive and nice to new members....
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:54 AM
2

You are improving your appearance by getting braces....
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:52 AM
1

In my experience with trying to help socially awkward and shy guys, it seems they can occasionally attract girls from their social circle due to their natural aloofness. But I've never seen a satisfying or long lasting relationship develop that way. Imo, if you just want to get laid, there are quicker ways; if you want a girlfriend, it sets a bad precedent of her taking the initiative and setting the frame.
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:49 AM
3

U/Nicks1234 has really good advice on this. Another thing that helps is keeping a log. Every evening, write a short note or diary entry about the hottest girl or most unusual situation where you made eye contact. It will inspire you to keep going. When you are practicing this, try to be conscious of your facial expression and intensity if eye contact, and see how it affects how people respond. Eye contact is extremely important. Keep up the practice.
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:39 AM
7

Have a spark of aliveness to you. Show a little intent, but too much. Accept that the date may be awkward for the first few minutes. Allow yourself to feel the discomfort without being phased, and to settle into the interaction. Good luck.
/r/seduction28/03/18 11:50 PM
1

If you think r/seduction is so useful, why did you take your question to r/asktrp?
/r/seduction28/03/18 11:09 PM
4

I feel you need to stop mind fucking yourself and just do things and see what happens. That's so true. Usually it's ourselves that hold us back. Great job and good luck.
/r/seduction28/03/18 07:44 PM
2

I wanna be better with women.. How is me belittling "semi-virgins" preventing you from doing that?? just like I want to be healthier and stronger, stop smoking, learn how to manage my finances better and be a better student and get higher grades. And whose responsibility is all of that?.. This is a forum about becoming more effective at attracting and sleeping with women. Getting laid in an optimal way (i.e., not paying for it, for example), along with developing the skills and character traits …
/r/seduction28/03/18 07:29 PM
-1

To be fair. I tell girls I'm a virgin all the time, but it's with a smirk on my face and they know I'm full of shit.
/r/seduction28/03/18 07:16 PM
3

when they get the advice they need, they question people with way more experience then them. That's the most ridiculous part. Asking a question, getting advice from someone with experience, and then disagreeing with it because feels.
/r/seduction28/03/18 06:13 PM
2

Usually people make a change when they realize they have a problem... I'm not going to coddle people to protect their feelings or self-imagine. You're not a child. Grow up. If I wanted to learn about anything else (tennis, for example), I don't need someone (other shitty tennis players, obviously) blowing smoke up my ass about how winning tennis games is inconsequential. By definition, the goal is to win at tennis. If anything, I DO need someone to point out my deficiencies and pushing me to pra…
/r/seduction28/03/18 06:08 PM
-6

In your experience, have witnessed many instances in the field of actual life (not a webforum) where a guy tells a woman he's a virgin and the resulting reaction is positive?
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:58 PM
3

Once, a LTR said to me, "I hate you." I calmly and coldly replied, "you mean nothing to me." She lit up like a Christmas tree and never forgot it. At that point, we had been dating for 4-5 years and were living together. ** The answer is just ignore or amplify. You hate me don't you. "Only when you're talking." "Yep. My whole purpose in life is to make you miserable. Is it working?" "To the moon and back" Actually I know you don't love me. "Have you been reading my diary?" Maybe you don't really…
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:51 PM
1

Don't listen to this. You don't maintain attraction (or respect) by acting like a woman. What you've just described would only work if it was said in an obviously mocking tone.
/r/seduction28/03/18 04:13 PM
1

It's a shit test. She's seeing how much investment she can coax out of her. Don't jump through those hoops.
/r/seduction28/03/18 04:10 PM
-6

No. It was an insult. I know most people here are young... But in the real world, people judge you based on your accomplishments. And in the real world, women judge virgins harshly. Don't give people the wrong impression by saying there's "nothing wrong" with being an adult male virgin.
/r/seduction28/03/18 03:07 PM
-2

It's fucking mind boggling that anyone would down vote you. Has r/seduction become the new r/incel? It seems people here want to be told that they're fine the just way they are. They don't want to hear that they need to take responsibility for themselves. And that's another reason why they won't succeed. They can't handle criticism. They don't want a girlfriend; they want a mother. Seddit used to be an incredibly useful place for info on how to get laid. Now it's ironically become a place where …
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:56 PM
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^ triggered
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:43 AM
3

Have you tried searching "text game" in the search bar??
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:27 AM
1

Ok.....Good for you, i guess.
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:20 AM
1

No one cares about your ego-driven moral proselytizing. She's legal and doesn't need white knight strangers on the internet to defend her honor. Go brag about how great you are to women somewhere else.
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:05 AM
5

You could start by reading the mountain of material already available on the topic....
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:01 AM
3

You should ignore the pinned post and sidebar on seddit.... That is a sure way to get her to like you.
/r/seduction28/03/18 09:05 AM
1

"Don't shit where you eat" isn't some high-level seduction technique. It's common sense. It's such common sense that it has a fucking idiom.
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:39 AM
2

What the fuck are you talking about?? Are you retarded or just an intern for GQ?
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:33 AM
4

You need to read the sidebar and talk to other girls. You're way too overinvested.
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:20 AM
2

What's the value you're hoping to give or receive from this
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:17 AM
1

It doesn't get better if you continue with this woman.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 04:26 PM
14

1) Just like how blue pill men will try to feminize themselves in the belief that it will help them attract a mate, blue pill women will 'bro' themselves out to attract a mate. Lower value women will essentially try to make themselves more relatable to 'the guys,' hoping that it will make them more suitable as a mate. 2) Because men's SMV is often based on skill, mastery, courage, wealth, social connections, actual fitness, etc (all things which take time to develop), it's much easier for older …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:43 PM
2

bwahahahah. I live in one of those countries where people say, "here in my country, girls don't....." Believe me, they do.
/r/seduction26/03/18 10:55 AM
4

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction26/03/18 08:52 AM
3

In 10 years, you're not going to care about the people who you went to school with or their opinion of you
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:41 AM
1

Ok. So you spent all that time repeated what I said and then finger waving at me for fucking hot girls who don't share the same taste in books or hobbies as me. Piss off with that.
/r/seduction26/03/18 05:30 AM
1

What are you texting them?
/r/seduction26/03/18 05:03 AM
1

But why? What could her friendship possibly offer, especially relative to friendships with other people? If that is the case, that friendship with her would actually add value to his life, then sure - be just friends. But that's usually not the case.
/r/seduction26/03/18 04:20 AM
3

His post went like this: "Women under 25 are shallow. That's why I date women over 25." This isn't a personal preference. It's an adaptive strategy. But point was this: Ok, you might be right or wrong. So what. You either work around the issue, or you don't. Asking for advice is great, but simply bitching and whining isn't helping yourself or anyone else. Here's a theory on the issue that might be fairly useful for folks. Because men's SMV is often based on skill, mastery, courage, wealth, socia…
/r/seduction26/03/18 04:15 AM
4

No, you do want a woman who is under 25. But you're butthurt because you think they're shallow. For example. I have absolutely non interest in fucking women over 30. Therefor, you would never see me post about women over thirty since I simply don't care.
/r/seduction26/03/18 03:43 AM
2

Thank god you didn't settle for your oneitis girl! As far as I'm concerned, her call was a subconscious shit test. If you would have jumped at the chance to date her, she would have realized you hadn't changed at all. The moral of the story. Hard work, dedication, and actually doing game will bring you massive results and personal transformation. And nothing gives you a feeling of abundance like having actual abundance. Don't stop now!!
/r/seduction26/03/18 03:41 AM
5

No, he was crying about how women under 25 are shallow. Therefor, he only goes for girls over 25, because apparently they're soooooo much different.
/r/seduction26/03/18 03:30 AM
2

I guess once you become rich, girls will be blown away be your crybaby game...
/r/seduction26/03/18 03:17 AM
3

Doesn't sound they're fucking you though
/r/seduction26/03/18 03:16 AM
6

Nah, girls just don't fuck crybabies
/r/seduction25/03/18 11:04 AM
21

It means always pursuing/sleeping with multiple girls at once. When you have multiple girls you are pursuing, you are less invested into any one of them. Likewise, you have the volume of interactions and relationships so that you begin to learn about game and women much more quickly and naturally..
/r/seduction25/03/18 09:14 AM
2

Don't listen to xVegito. He's an incel who jerks off to anime
/r/seduction25/03/18 05:42 AM
1

Help yourself by reading the sidebar
/r/seduction25/03/18 05:24 AM
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This is a perfect example of why guys need to be spinning plates
/r/seduction25/03/18 05:23 AM
0

Quit emotionally vomiting on strangers....
/r/seduction25/03/18 01:23 AM
1

If you are that insecure, she definitely will
/r/seduction25/03/18 01:20 AM
4

Her not replying is a reply. She's loosing interest. Read the sidebar before any more posting newbie questions.
/r/seduction25/03/18 01:20 AM
1

read the sidebar
/r/seduction24/03/18 07:12 PM
1

Since it's obvious that you don't care about helping guys become better at getting laid, which is the point of this subreddit, it raises the question of why you're even posting here. I suppose it's some self-righteous, self-appointed mission which makes you feel better about your existence.
/r/seduction24/03/18 02:23 PM
2

Ya, it kinda raises a red flag. I can understand friendzoning a girl who you aren't attracted to but with whom you have to be cordial. I can even understand friendzoning girls on the basis of preserving your environment (i.e., not gaming girls from work, professional associations, or even social circles). I don't understand why you would want to be friends with a girl otherwise. A platonic friendship with a women will never offer the same emotional benefits as a friendship with a man. Unless she…
/r/seduction24/03/18 01:21 PM
5

"Jesus fucking christ. That is a lot of money." That was my first reaction. That said, if you consider it an investment then it's not that bad - just invest wisely. I've never taken a bootcamp. But, my game improved dramatically from hanging out with other guys who were good at game. I'm not one of those guys who always wants to go out with a wing. But, you can learn a lot from other guys who know what they're doing: You can see first hand the different mindsets that successful guys have. You ca…
/r/seduction24/03/18 01:00 PM
4

lol. ok. It's funny that you can't see through the dense fog of egotism. I just say what most people is thinking but is too scared to say on this sub. You have a hotline to the feedback from "most people?" Again, more bullshit. Beyond that, what "most people is thinking" [sic] is irrelevant to a discussion of what is true or what works. Going a bit deeper, you might consider looking into a field called behavioral psychology - which studies precising what people do regardless of what they think.
/r/seduction24/03/18 12:36 PM
1

No. Considering this is a forum about trying to get laid, it seems germane af. I just find it humorous that you spew your leftwing bullshit without pretending to be accountable about whether or not it's effective or true. 4 Not that high, but I don't make getting laid my purpose.
/r/seduction24/03/18 11:58 AM
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This post was great- a bit long, but great. What I loved about this article is that it explains a very difficult concept to explain: When aren't attracted to what you do, they're attracted to who you are. This is a bit of a paradox: what you are is created by your actions, but it's the result of your actions and not the actions themselves. It's part of your character, which you can develop over time. Great examples and explanations. I've definately used some of these concepts. Thanks for the val…
/r/seduction24/03/18 11:51 AM
0

You obviously made no effort to understand this article, but I'm sure the pithy remark gave you to dopamine hit you so desired
/r/seduction24/03/18 11:40 AM
-1

xVegito - how many girls have you slept with so far in 2018??
/r/seduction24/03/18 11:16 AM
1

Because 98% of guys are pussies. Being willing to step up to the plate, being available and able to make a woman feel great in bed. Those all have their own value. The fuckboy is the sure bet. She knows she won't be wasting her time on other boring dinner date with the fuck boy. She knows the fuck boy won't get clingy. She knows the fuck is good for one thing and one thing only. When she wants that one thing, she finds the fuckboy. When she wants dinner, she finds a boyfriend. In terms of 'how,'…
/r/seduction24/03/18 11:15 AM
1

Listen to u/dashdotdashdashdot Unless getting fired is your goal, don't game girls at work. Beyond the simple stupidity, it screams low value. If you had plenty of options outside of work, you wouldn't give a woman at work more than a playful glance.
/r/seduction24/03/18 11:09 AM
-1

move on with your life and find better problems
/r/seduction24/03/18 04:09 AM
19

Women are better at the subtleties of communication and non verbal signalling.
/r/seduction24/03/18 04:08 AM
3

Boyfriend zone means friend zone. No, it doesn't. The boyfriend zone is where she sticks beta providers. They get occasional sex, but its never that great, and she's always trying to act coy, hoping he will invest men. The friend zone is for orbiters who are even easier to string along. They aren't even worthy of sex.. Outside of that is the fuckboy zone. These are the guys she will fuck fast, even when she has a boyfriend.
/r/seduction24/03/18 04:06 AM
36

Alright..... Instead of asking strangers on the internet, here's a novel idea. Take action, check the outcome, refine your understanding of the world. It's the same lame noob questions every day.
/r/seduction24/03/18 04:03 AM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction24/03/18 03:36 AM
2

Direct =/= telling a girl she is pretty
/r/seduction24/03/18 03:19 AM
1

I didnt say you shouldnt go direct
/r/seduction23/03/18 09:54 PM
8

Approach more, and push past your own boundaries of comfort. Eventually you'll get numb and icy to it.
/r/seduction23/03/18 07:47 PM
13

Women love to be desired by attractive men. Generally, on the street, when you are meeting girls in public, you don't want tell women that.... unless is it very congruent with your feelings. And that's where, IMO, ZP's magic lies. He's a very sensual person anyways, so him saying that is very congruent with his personality and sub-communication. If anyone has a pdf of that book, can you pm plz..
/r/seduction23/03/18 11:02 AM
1

Talk to other women
/r/seduction23/03/18 10:11 AM
1

I fucked 2 out of the 3 girls I hung out with. The one that didn't fuck me is minor television personality, and I've got a second date set up with her next week. I've got an e book coming out, just went camping on the beach, help give workshops on public speaking, have traveled around the world, and bicycled across countries, among other things. I'd say I'm doing OK. My question remains. You advocate bettering yourself. Upon what basis do you determine if what you are doing is actually self-impr…
/r/seduction23/03/18 10:05 AM
2

According to who?? Being constantly overwhelmed by emotions is called neuroticism by modern psychology. I'm not talking about acting the Terminator. I'm talking about not complaining and whining. I'm talking about having a bit of grit, and a positive outlook. You can play the PC devils advocate all you want, but it's obvious as all fuck which set of emotions is generally more attractive to women. She doesn't want to be your mom.
/r/seduction23/03/18 05:06 AM
0

"Become a better person." That's basically what I said, only stated in a way that has context. Otherwise, a "better person" is essentially meaningless. The value of "better" has to be defined by something....
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:52 AM
1

So you don't change ever?And when you do, it's entirely unconscious? "Don't develop employable skills. Just be yourself. If an employer can't see what a great person you intrinsically are, it's their loss." That's exactly what your post-modern dribble sounds like.
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:50 AM
25

"No worries" Don't try to have conversation about it, and don't act butthurt. Be the chill dude who didn't get upset or start acting weird.
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:08 AM
1

The bad news is that your chances with this girl are slim. The good news is that you can use it as motivation to improve. Quit asking yourself what you would have to do in order to get her to like you. Instead, ask yourself what kind of a guy a girl like her would be attracted to. Then develop yourself into that sort of guy.
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:37 PM
2

I'm not sure what that means
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:20 PM
4

Next her even faster. If she's no longer enthusiastic about fucking me, I'll find a different girl who is. I generally apply a three strike rule. If I girl does three things I don't like, I quit contacting her. No discussion, no warning. It is what is it. I'm left with girls who are pleasant. What a surprise.
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:12 PM
1

You liked in her the context of having lots of options and recently sleeping with other attractive women, or in the context of not....? Seriously dude. It's worth questioning yourself as to why you fell for a girl with psychological issues.
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:02 PM
1

I've never heard of that one. Cheers
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:43 PM
1

It's more that I liked her enough to go exclusive and jumped the gun. That begs the question of why. See again the last paragraph of my comment.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:42 PM
1

Who cares.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:17 PM
1

Hsv is extremely common. If you've ever had a cold sore, you have a form of herpes. As it relates to game... Get retested. Herpes can either be 'dormant' or 'active,' and you can fugure out which one it is. If it's dormant, it not shown symptoms for a while and you're less likely to pass it to others. If it's active, you're showing symptoms and are more likely to pass it. Get your health in check. Whether or not, how often, or to what degree you show symptoms depends in part on the strength of y…
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:16 PM
0

It means you are kinda aspie
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:54 PM
2

We're not mind readers, and it doesn't sound like their anything special about it. Take it at face value.
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:53 PM
7

next her. If she hasn't fucked you and she's playing games, you need to shut that down now. It's only going to get worse if you tolerate or encourage it.
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:28 PM
2

I also don't like the whole "give her support hoping she has sex with you". I mean.... it seems like that's exactly what you're doing. You are on seddit, asking for advice for dealing with a possibly tramatized girl who won't put out. Personally, I'd assume that if you're actually concerned about her mental well being, you'd be posting on a subreddit about psychology or mental health. Yes, I am giving her my time and support with hopes of getting sex and intimacy and all that stuff.... What you …
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:01 PM
1

Ya, the truth usually isn't the easiest thing to hear. You're giving this girl emotional support and getting blue balls in return. Like Wia20xx said, it's not easy to see when you're in the middle of the situation...
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:45 PM
0

What exactly is your goal?
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:40 PM
2

Great responce
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:39 PM
2

Why won't you listen to someone with obviously more experience.... If you had your shit together, you wouldn't have given a second thought about exclusively dating a girl who won't fuck you. Either take the advice gracefully or quit asking about the shitty situation you've created for yourself. Edit: you are being manipulated. You told this girl you would be exclusive with her in exchange for...... nothing. Keep convincing yourself that you're just a great guy who wants to help her. After a few …
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:34 PM
1

You're not compatible/ want different things. Next.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:30 PM
2

Coffee is minimal investment. Within 20 minutes, you know or not if the girl is worth pursuing . If need be, you can bail quickly and easily. I always try to bounce locations about 30-40 minutes, usually a walk or some sweet snackplace that is conveniently nearer to my place. I think if you are doing game (and not seeking a gf), you need a day 2 sequence which has reproducibility. Hell, I know guys that just meet girls at a cafe next to their place and try to pull with 20 minutes.
/r/seduction22/03/18 10:30 AM
3

In this instance, and on a case by case basis, it's a cool idea. A good first date needs to create a 'we' vibe most importantly. With the right girl, and if yoir a dab kind of guy, it could be really fun. So go for it. BUT,..... Generally speaking, it's not a great idea. I.e., it's not something you you should frequently do. If you do a decent number of first dates, say 10 a year (a pretty low number if you just want to have sex with different girls), the cost of ypur average date is going to be…
/r/seduction22/03/18 10:23 AM
1

But my question is how? I’ve tried various different tips and tricks I’ve picked up here before but they don’t seem to be working. How many women have you fucked since you broke up?
/r/seduction22/03/18 09:52 AM
0

Ya, but I didn't enter into some circle jerk about my nuanced perspective of each rsd instructor...
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:51 AM
0

Ok... do you have a logical or evidence based argument?
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:48 AM
1

1) I need to create a more systemic way to follow up for day 2s. Getting numbers is easy, but I tend to not swing through on following up and setting the dates. Part of it is because I'm fairly busy anyways. One solution is to find more social events that I genuinely enjoy and which also imply value. Then I could just set up multiple day 2 there at the same time. If one or all girls flake, it wouldn't matter since I'm just hanging out anyways. 2) My logistics kinda suck, many because I live in t…
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:42 AM
5

You mean I have to put in effort??? No thanks, that sounds hard. I'd rather ask the same question on seddit for the next two years,
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:56 AM
1

You can't go to a cafe or meet in a cafeteria?
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:36 AM
1

read the side bar and FAQ to find out
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:34 AM
2

Try searching "models by Mark Manson" in the search bar......
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:22 AM
1

Watch less videos, do more pick up
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:14 AM
0

I got creeped out just reading that
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:11 AM
1

In some ways, seeing four girls at once is easier than one, as long as you're not putting additional pressure on yourself by trying to lie about it.Whn you date multiple women, there's no pressure to appease one girl. If one girl is acting like a bitch, you can ignore her and talk to another girl. It actually saves a world of drama... Don't stay at a cafe for more than an hour. Go for a walk, preferable toward the direction of your place. Instead of taking girls to dinner, offer to eat something…
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:55 AM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:30 AM
3

I recommend you go outside and talk to other women.
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:02 AM
2

It's amazing how many of the questions are the same: "Dear seddit. I'm a loser who doesn't want to work to fix myself. Any advice?" For starters, quit expecting strangers to hand you easy solutions to problems you're entirely responsible for. And people get butthurt when you call these people what they are: whiny pussies who naturally repeal women.
/r/seduction22/03/18 01:59 AM
1

Quit being a pussy who dumps your emotional garbage on other people
/r/seduction22/03/18 01:57 AM
1

Lol, you've seen my post history, right? But don't let a few facts get in the way of your convenient narrative.
/r/seduction22/03/18 01:56 AM
5

Here's my take.... It seems like you don't have a lot of social experience..
/r/seduction21/03/18 11:56 PM
-8

Step 1: stop being a pussy Step 2: stop being autistic Step 3: Read the sidebar Step 4: Talk to other women
/r/seduction21/03/18 11:51 PM
3

No you dont. You have the reputation of someone who thinks they're way better with women than they actually are
/r/seduction21/03/18 04:10 PM
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You're not a PUA.... Someone who is good with women wouldn't.... ...catch feelings for some girl he doesn't have a romantic relationship with. ...start telling her he loves her for no reason ...write this stupid question with your chodey 'i really like her' line. Your first priority should be not drinking. Insofar as you can't avoid drinking and causing this sort of trouble for yourself, don't ask other people for solutions. Tldr: you fucked this up and made yourself look low value af. Get you s…
/r/seduction21/03/18 04:09 PM
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This is probably the best vid that RSD has put out in a while. Back to the basics, no real marketing or angle, stated clearly, explains some of the nuances without over-complicating anything. Anyone who is new to pick-up needs to watch this video.
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:34 AM
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I actually agree with that. It's really useful to have hot female friends. Bu for chodey ewbies, they need to be able to build up their sense of self worth and groundedness. If they're constantly pining over some girl they're orbiting, they'll never get to a point where they can be 'just friends' without secretly wanting more.
/r/seduction21/03/18 08:58 AM
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You say it with subcommunication: the intensity of your eye contact, trying to hold her hand, being in her space, touching etc.
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:57 AM
1

Exchanging fb or social media info seems less pick-up-y than going for a number. Good call though. Calibrating to the social context is very important. Congrats on all the action you've been taking.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:43 AM
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I think you can potentially have all sorts of frames. I come off as fairly direct but subtle. The girl is thinking and often saying, "you seem like you do this a lot." I shrug my shoulders, smile and ignore it. Sometimes I'll say I'm a virgin. If she tries to talk about it, I'll even play it up. I never deny sleeping with other girls, so she knows I do. But I never give ANY details. When it works, it works well... This conveys massive pre-selection and attraction. "this guy, who can have have ot…
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:08 AM
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It's a fairly cold world, so you have to be tough. If you can't handle a stranger on reddit telling you to fuck off, then the fat cokblocking friend is going to be devastating in a face to face social situation That's helpful lesson number one. Offer value instead of taking. Helpful lesson 2 Put in effort - read the sidebar, helpful lesson 3. Don't reward stupidity and other behaviors you don't like, helpful lesson 4 (that was 4 u). As far as I know, being direct and clear is a far better method…
/r/seduction20/03/18 07:07 AM
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That's an interesting take. I've never thought of it like that, but it makes sense. Kinda weird that most pick guys say the opposite, that lmr is the result of not enough comfort. Thanks for this insight
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 06:28 AM
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So this really cute girl who.... I quit reading at that point. The first 6 words already reveal that you're operating out of scarcity. You're hyper focused on "this one girl" and seem entirely unconcerned about improving your skills with women generally. Start gaming 3-6 girls at once, always. Then you will never be too worried or focused on any one of them.
/r/seduction20/03/18 06:03 AM
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be unavailable for her
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:03 AM
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I'm going to say this with the utmost respect: you sound like a bitch. Firstly: You're projecting your beliefs onto people. Secondly: Quit saying what other people should or shouldn't do. People are going to do the things they do. You can either bitch and whine like a fucking 6 year old, or you can adapt your behavior in order to become more successful.... You know, like every fucking single successful person does. Thirdly: I've know artists with face tattoos and long greasy hair, who's only inc…
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:02 AM
1

Venmo me $100 and send you a special ebook which has all the info you need.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:45 AM
1

You can start by reading the side bar. Otherwise I'm not sure what advice you want: "Quit being a pussy," maybe?
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:40 AM
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You want an answer but you offer nothing. The whole paradigm you're operating from is needy, low value, and based on taking. I can already tell that you suck with women Read the sidebar and take action, or fuck off
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:39 AM
2

It's bad that you rely on tinder, then ask us an irrelevant and ego inflating question about it, which indicates that your social skills likely suck
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:37 AM
2

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:36 AM
3

Absolutely impossible u less you buy the premium edition of my student game product . Pm for details
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:36 AM
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With out even reading past the first sentence, I can tell you acted like a needy beta with a questionable sexual orientation. When you are talking to multiple girls, you won't be so hung up and concerned about one girl, and you'll have much more reference experience, which means you can learn on your own instead of relying on online strangers for advice.... So ridiculously simple, you'd think this info would be readily accessible in the side bar or something....
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:31 AM
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The guys that get good with game aren't afraid to ask questions and listen to feedback, but they are also willing to put in the work instead of expecting someone else to hand them solutions to their problems.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:29 AM
1

The only thing that's bad is you putting in so little effort, and then running here to complain about it. If you are that lazy, you don't deserve to get laid.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:28 AM
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For starters, quit taking girls to clubs unless you have a very solid presence in that environment.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:26 AM
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This is what happens when you don't spin plates.... Read the sidebar instead of wasting our time with a question that's been asked hundreds of times.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:24 AM
1

Talk to other girls
/r/seduction20/03/18 12:50 AM
1

Talk to other women
/r/seduction19/03/18 11:05 PM
2

Talk to more women
/r/seduction19/03/18 11:03 PM
2

Ya.... Fix what you can. Don't worry about what you can't.
/r/seduction19/03/18 06:33 PM
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All excellent points. I actually love that perspective. Thanks for the insights and willingness to offer feedback.
/r/seduction19/03/18 02:58 PM
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You're focused on limitations...
/r/seduction19/03/18 02:38 PM
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Sorry about the other day. My initial comment was partially based on my own misunderstanding that you were a girl. I had kinda initially assumed you were stringing along a lot of orbiters. A foolish mistake on my part. Generally though, I think the way you perceive my 'oppressiveness' is based on two things. First, it's generally annoying seeing the same question posted by people who can't read something that says "read this first." We expect people to read and calibrate to non-verbal cues when …
/r/seduction19/03/18 02:37 PM
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It's one dimensional and can easily come off as somewhat fake. Likewise, women tend to like a little edge. They want to know their man won't back down in moments of confrontation, and hence being overly positive can seem slightly effeminate. That doesn't me you shouldn't have a positive outlook on life. Being generally positive is a very good thing. But being overly positive, unless its very genuine and congruent, can easily seem weird.
/r/seduction19/03/18 02:23 PM
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Why do you think you need to be exclusive? Personally, I think it's stupid to cheat: to let a girl think you're monogamous when you're not. But in that case, the solution is not having the pretense of monogamy. In short, let them know, gently or implicitly, that you see other girls. Don't give full disclosure... i.e. don't kiss and tell, but don't lie either .
/r/seduction19/03/18 01:53 PM
1

Tom Torero is a pimp. His podcast is great too. In this post he does an awesome job of demonstrating how he held frame through text. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction19/03/18 01:48 PM
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Sure, but as recently as yesterday someone asked how to "establish attraction."
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:28 PM
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There is natural sugar in all sorts of food. But processed sugar should be avoided altogether. I would also add intermittent fasting and meditation to tips on health, but I wanted to keep it simple.
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:22 PM
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If you really think a post on reddit is going to solve your problems, and that you can somehow improve without effort of your own... ...well, good luck in life.
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:21 PM
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I would check out the Charisma On Command youtube channel. I think they have a good range of videos which give solid advice about how to best handle social situations.
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:18 PM
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drop the notion of "me". Forget your life narrative, the labels you have for yourself, your beliefs about your strengths, weaknesses, fears, and core values. I really like this. Instead of approaching life like I'm the star of my own movie, I like to consider how I'm a supporting character in other people's movies.
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:11 PM
2

In what version of reality is changing someone else easier than changing yourself?????
/r/seduction19/03/18 10:35 AM
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You told her you work at McDonald's. She went cold. Can you really not guess why???
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:45 AM
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why?
/r/seduction19/03/18 08:18 AM
1

I have better stuff to do with my life... Like what?
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:24 AM
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I think women also do 'mettle' tests to see how readily you give up or walk away from the relationship. I often notice that after a few weeks of sleeping with eachother, girls will become distant or a bit bitchy. This is especially the case if you are openly non monogamous. In order to pass the test, you have to reassure them that you actually like seeing them without coming off as needy. But you do not want to be in a relationship where you are constantly closing the distance. If a girl does th…
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:17 AM
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Simply put, if you're afraid she will cancel, she probably won't like you. Women like confident and self assured men. The way you become confident and self assured is by not having all your eggs in one basket. In short, you need to be talking to and setting up dates with multiple women, not just one. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:08 AM
1

You know how to read, right?
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:07 AM
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Being popular does make it easier to get laid... Simply put, women's attraction for men is based on the perception of social value. That said, you can be an unfashionable loser and still get laid. But it's going to take more work, the quality of girl will be lower, and your relationships will be shorter... Perhaps if you'd quit deleting your repetitive posts, I could quote it for you.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:53 AM
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ok.... cool When you find and seduce the mature women, be sure to share you methods with us. But I really encourage you to take a step back and look at what you're saying: "3 billion women are wrong. I'm right." Fairly egotistical, self-righteous, and delusional. Believe me. No one - not your family, friends, or the women who constantly ignore you - give two fucks about your over inflated sense of morality and self-value. Otherwise, you sound like an Elliot Roger in the making.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:49 AM
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There are people with a lot of experience with women trying to give you advice. What do you do? Act like a petulant little cunt. But whatever. Enjoy not having sex, asking the same questions over and over again, getting more or less the same answers, and repeating that process (until we ignore you just like the women around you). If you knew half as much about women and dating as you thought, you wouldn't be here asking these questions.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:47 AM
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Do you want to improve with women or feel like you're right?
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:38 AM
2

Lol, the guy who keeps asking the same question and complains about his lack of success with women is calling other people a cuck? I don't think you understand what that means, mate.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:38 AM
2

Being popular does make it easier to get laid... Simply put, women's attraction for men is based on the perception of social value. That said, you can be an unfashionable loser and still get laid. But it's going to take more work, the quality of girl will be lower, and your relationships will be shorter...
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:36 AM
0

The mods should simply ban people who don't follow basic rules. That's really the only way to clean the place up.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:31 AM
1

That is a great attitude to have.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:28 AM
1

The probably with a dinner date is that it's very platonic and a waste of money. Unless you are rich (or actually want to get dinner for the novelty of it), don't waste your time and money taking strangers out to dinner. I typically take girls to really cheap cafes, where it's quiet and where I can sit next to them. I always ask about the other guys they are seeing. The other guys typically spend a lot of money, and rarely end up in a relationship or have sex with them. It's just a bad deal for …
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:27 AM
1

If possible, set your dates for the week. Hang out with friends, have adventures, or maybe do approaches during the weekend.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:02 AM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:00 AM
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The simple solution to the problem of the skewed economics of online is going outside and approaching women in public. It's not a hard concept: if a game is stacked against your favor, don't play.
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:00 AM
1

Là ng nước ngoài mà. Bạn ở sg hay hn?
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:58 PM
2

This sub is for guys trying to get laid. Are you trying to do that?
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:50 AM
1

"There's a girl....." Oh boy...
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:46 AM
3

You answered your own question: "I see advice that you don't want to blatantly hit on girls all the time because you'll become the campus creep." Have friendly conversations, screen for girls who are attracted to you, use sub communication, move them to a more private location.
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:45 AM
1

So why have the rule? Why not just get rid of the rule altogether if it's either a bad rule or can't be enforced? IMO, the quality of this sub was waaaay higher a few years ago, and the influx of borderline autistic questions which are addressed in the sidebar material has something to do with it.
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:42 AM
3

Reading the same question posted in different variations is enjoyable for you?
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:35 AM
2

While this works as an indirect opener, that's also it's problem. It's very very indirect. I lived in Asia and learned the language by doing this sort of chodey flirting. I probably could have gotten laid more just by going to clubs, but I actually wanted to learn the language so I figured I'd make it fun :))) At a certain point, once you can speak the language and have a bit more confidence, I would go more direct and in English, and save your Chinese for when you feel like you need an easy ear…
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:33 AM
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I think there is a lot more nuance than that... On one hand, trying hard to speak their language can be a way of qualifying yourself... something you want to avoid if possible. On the other hand, speaking the native language of a country at a conversant level opens up a much much much wider pool of women.
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:28 AM
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In this case, there is an implied subject, "you." Thus, the sentence could also be read as, "You read the sidebar." As in, there is a ton of content available on the sidebar. Start there. In case you're not sure, you might start with the links right below the heading, "New Here." Otherwise, this same question has been asked a million times before. Search "in class" and you will find a page and a half of results for posts from the last month.
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:23 AM
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Ignore her, talk to someone else, and let someone else deal with her dramatic ass.
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:17 AM
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read the side bar
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:15 AM
1

Talk to other women.. If you obsess over one women, your game won't improve. You'll always be the unattractive weirdo asking strangers online for advice about "this one girl."
/r/seduction18/03/18 12:24 AM
0

You didn't disagree though..
/r/seduction18/03/18 12:21 AM
1

"I've had lots of good chances but had bad game and low confidence, so I'm starting to improve myself now." You just said it yourself. While being in better shape, being smarter, having more money, etc would all be good things, it hasn't been what's held you back with women. But whatever. Double down on self improvement. If you get amazing results, feel free to call me out. Otherwise, I have little reason to suspect that your success with women will drastically improve. It's like going to the gy…
/r/seduction18/03/18 12:20 AM
0

Instead of going for this kiss, you should read the side bar. If you don't, you have a strong chance of catching chlamydi-AIDS....
/r/seduction17/03/18 07:04 PM
1

I'm interested. Can you send this cloud dudes info
/r/seduction17/03/18 07:00 PM
2

Grab her hand, pull her to somewhere with less people, make out, grab her hand and put it on your cock, or alternatively start rubbing her pussy. It's not rocket science.
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:48 PM
1

?? Are you asking for advice, giving advice, or just offering your bullshit opinion to anyone who will listen?
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:44 PM
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If you have no clue what you're talking about, don't give advice
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:42 PM
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1) Fuck girls..... These Asian women love to find a stupid rich western guy to lock down into a relationship. Don't be stupid. Be rich, be white, be a guy. Don't settle into a relationship just because she fucks you. 2) "Excuse, can i practice (foreign language) with you for five minutes"...... that's the easiest indirect opener you're going to get. Works just about anywhere where you're not from. Judging by your post, that kind of indirect opener is perfectly suited for you. 3) "excuse me, do y…
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:41 PM
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If you are from any western country then you are not "starting out." If you are 18 and only kissed a girl, then you are far behind your peers. The thing I HATE about models is that it allows guys to stroke their egos without getting any results ("I'm an authentic guy who naturally attracts women.... nevermind the fact that I haven't fucked any of them.") No offense, but without the skills, it's bullshit.
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:30 PM
1

If you want to have boring sex with one woman for the rest of your life, this is great advice!
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:22 PM
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This is the right answer. If a girl isn't available for you sexually, don't be available for her emotionallyq
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:19 PM
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You've effectively screened out any girl with other, more exciting options. Congrats
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:17 PM
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Yes, but your friends are probably fags who put up with you cockteasing them. If they weren't huge pussies, they would make a move, probably get rejected, and thereafter either ignore you or try to sleep with your friends.
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:16 PM
1

To be fair, I've had sex with girls who wouldn't kiss me
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:09 PM
1

Bạn là ng việt ko
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:07 PM
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lol, I read 25 books last year, exercise and meditate daily, speak two languages, do toastmasters, am working on an ebook, and try to go hiking every so often. I'm not ballin on a boat, but I'm not stuck in a rut either. Like I said, the concept of 'inner game' is retarded because it's overly vague to the point of meaninglessness. You didn't dispute that, your just reasserted the need for a vague 'inner game.'
/r/seduction16/03/18 01:54 PM
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I've broken the touch barrier (well she lightly touched me first and I reciprocated) with a girl I sit next to at school. You now have a combination of chlamydia and AIDS: chlamydi-AIDS. I'm 17 if that means anything. You have a year left to live.
/r/seduction16/03/18 12:55 PM
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I always laugh my ass off seeing girls go from guy to guy throughout their 20s, never satisfied, and then they suddenly find themselves with very few quality options. For the first few years, they convince themselves they don't want kids or a family, but a sadness develops and they eventually settle for anyone who will volunteer to occupy their time.. But girl power!
/r/seduction16/03/18 11:25 AM
1

I think you're at the wrong sub. Try checking out r/virtualsignaling or r/feminism
/r/seduction16/03/18 09:47 AM
0

LOL. Good shit u/finchfry157. Never too hard to find a sexless white knight full of advice on r/seduction.
/r/seduction16/03/18 09:46 AM
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I'll the the validation seeking speak for itself
/r/seduction16/03/18 09:45 AM
1

I was talking about men
/r/seduction16/03/18 09:44 AM
0

Alright dude. Have fun being preoccupied over things you can't control, blowing them out of proportion, and jacking off to porn.
/r/seduction16/03/18 09:43 AM
1

How many girls has this happened with?
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:05 AM
1

Talk to other women
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:43 AM
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Fuck off with your white knight bullshit.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:37 AM
4

If you need motivation and tips from strangers online in order to go out tonight, you're fucked. Grow up and depend on yourself.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:31 AM
1

Focus on the present. Living in regret won't change the past, help you in the present, or improve the future. Accept the mistake and move forward as best you can under the current circumstances. It reminds me of a quote: "It's hard to drive on the freeway of life while constantly checking the rearview mirror."
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:28 AM
2

Good job on taking action and incorporating some of the things you've read.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:24 AM
1

Should I strive to get over what can sometimes be an outright fear of certain girls? Or should I just avoid them and not think about it? Are you retarded?
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:22 AM
2

And 80% of looks is controllable. Conversation over
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:20 AM
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This sub has become a circle jerk of virgins telling each other that it's ok to not take action. If a guy can't handle being told to get his shit together, he can't handle gaming an attractive woman.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:19 AM
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The problem is you think girls are as logical as you, and that giving them what they enjoy (the right emotions) is somehow bad.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:50 PM
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Wait a minute...... You are presenting this as valid advice because one guy told you it worked, and you haven't tried it yourself? WTF is wrong with you?
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:49 AM
1

Out of curiosity OP, how many girls with boyfriends have you slept with?.....
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:49 AM
1

There's always going to be an exception. You can do just about anything as long as your confident enough about it. But 99% of times, when I guy asks a stranger, "do you have a boyfriend," it doesn't sound confident and smooth. The way you describe it, it almost sounds more like a rapport break. You're vibing with her, she's already into you, and asking that question creates a break in the interaction and forces her to jump through a hoop. She almost has to make a descison about which way the int…
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:42 AM
3

Kinda like how it's hard for homeless people to find a job
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:21 AM
2

"some guys swear by this approach" Who?
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:14 AM
1

Don't you feel like you're actively wasting your time by hanging around this sub? Wasting time you don't have the luxury to waste? Not only is he wasting his own time,he's wasting time of other people by asking the same basic questions. I imagine this sort of value-taking habit bleeds through to his romantic life, and hence he comes across as low value.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:58 AM
2

Then don't try. If you need encouragement from strangers online, then this isn't for you. Quit wasting our time.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:56 AM
1

I would have went into a different room, but ya... basically.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:53 AM
2

yes. you sound like a fag who reads elitedaily
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:52 AM
2

If you want to look Iike someone who lacks confidence and can't read non verbal communication, then ask.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:44 AM
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Because it screams low value. It implies you're not high status enough to give yourself priority over some who a) may or may not exist and b) who you don't know.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:42 AM
2

I can't think of a more autistic question than, "are you single." It screams low value. If Brad Pitt saw your girlfriend and wanted to fuck her, do you think he'd ask such a ridiculously stupid question? Here's the truth: it doesn't matter of she's single. It only matters if she's available. Those are two very different things.
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:41 AM
8

20% of guys have 80% of sex
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:06 AM
1

And these memories pop up everyday while I'm doing.something important. Holy fuck and it makes me feel so insecure all of a sudden, I have to watch a few seduction videos and articles just to feel better but I can't go on like this. Reading shit like this is starting to convince me that there is something distinctly deficient here. The simple solution is to leave your house and talk to people. Grow the fuck up. Take action before you start asking strangers to provide solutions for you.
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:13 AM
2

Can this be pinned or added to the sidebar. Someone asks this question at least once a week
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:27 AM
1

You are over complicating it. This is a pretty basic question. Try checking the sidebar for info that's already been posted.
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:24 AM
7

Ever hear of the parento principle?
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:47 AM
1

That sounds like areally interesting experience. In the future, don't just calibrate your physicality to the girl, but also to the environment. Even if the girl is eating the kino up, if her friends are offended by it, they can shot talk you after your gone. But this was in front of her mom, so she was probably thinking about her image even more... When she started withdrawing attention you should have done the same but even harder. Cool experience though.
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:32 AM
1

I don't know anything about prosthetic legs, so I can't offer specific advice. But I imagine that if your were generally more carefree, confident, and succesful than the average guy, it would be less of a problem. Who knows, maybe you'll find a girl with a fetish. Or another amputee. Or you could specialise guttergame and 2am instapulls into alleyways. It's hard to say unless you try. Good luck mate.
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:23 AM
2

Wings aren't really useful for day game. It's good to see another person do game both well and differently than you. You can also learn a lot by getting feedback from guys (would know game and aren't themselves inhibited betas). But during the day, having another guy around (unless they are doing all the work for you) is going to be more of an additional variable than anything else. If you're 35, you'll probably avoid clubs. If you do bars, just keep an eye out for the guys who are good with wom…
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:13 AM
1

Whats your workflow or contact sequence like with tinder?
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:00 AM
8

Lol, being bored with something and being unsuccessful at it are two entirely different things. Online daily is stacked in favor of women. That much is obvious. A small number of guys do really well with it. But it's not my go to since it's so much easier to meet women almost anywhere else. You'll find hotter, mire pleasant women in real life.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:55 AM
2

Can someone ban this person. They're obviously a troll.
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:54 AM
1

You gotta P.O. Box close
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:51 AM
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Limiting beliefs. Focused on what you can't do, not what you can do.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:48 AM
2

True. But "motion creates emotion." If someone never approaches, of course it's going to seem scary. If someone always approaches, of course it's isn't going to be scary.
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:58 PM
2

While technically true, this sounds more like an excuse more than an insurmountable obstacle. I guess you'll never pull a Victoria's secret model. Probably should just give up....
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:56 PM
2

Unless you have a major facial asymmetry or some weird skin condition, it's nothing you can't work around. Issues like fitness, style, and hygiene are entirely within your control and are your responsibility. But the deal with self imagine isn't your flaw, it's your perception of the flaw. She's not judging you for your flaws. Instead, she picking up that your afraid she'll judge you for them.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:56 PM
1

Just talk to women. It gets easier
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:50 AM
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One of the most retarded questions I've seen in a while. Luckily for the OP, it takes next to no intelligence to pick up women.
/r/seduction14/03/18 01:58 AM
8

Talk to other women
/r/seduction13/03/18 11:52 PM
2

My suggestions: Have goals and find problems to solve. If your life seems too easy, change your perspective and look for things you could improve or develop further. Find something to absolutely master, whether is be tango dance or jenga. Look for ways to contribute to something meaningful or durable. Plant a tree, give a homeless person 5 dollars, volunteer twice a year, mentor a kid, etc.
/r/seduction13/03/18 09:47 AM
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This. She's not wanted to be tied down, but is open to the idea of fucking. But the OP is giving her the impression that he's more interested in and comfortable with a relationship.
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:08 AM
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I've seen brown-skinned dudes pull off a beard really well IF a) it's well maintained and b) they're jacked. It gives them a barbarian look (think Aquaman in Justice League x2). The opener really doesn't matter. It simply need to get her attention and focus onto you and be somewhat non-threatening. Good stuff mate. Thanks for the value post.
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:04 AM
100

that bedroom scene was the most rp thing I've heard about in a while
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 04:34 AM
3

Sorry, there was a typo... Inner game without competence....
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:58 AM
1

I agree with this. If you had a lot of time, going witg this girl and her friend could help you. (If the friend likes you, she will like you too.) But if you don't have time, there's no point on going on a date where you have next to no chance of pulling. Tell her tgat you wanted to hang out with her alone, but if she's busy then you guys can hang out later. If she doesn't want to hang out with you alone, she either doesn't like you enough or is too shy and sexually awkward.
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:46 AM
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It's not a shit test. She thinks it's weird that you haven't tried to fuck her, and she doesn't want to end up in a relationship with a guy who can't make a move without getting attached... Say "cool" and pretend you didn't hear it.
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:42 AM
4

Yawn
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:39 AM
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This was asked yesterday.....
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:37 AM
41

That's why 90% of this sub preaches self-care, self-love and inner game. And yet, the quality of the posts and level of game discussed has dropped drastically. Inner game without competence is shallow delusion..
/r/seduction12/03/18 11:58 PM
3

This is spam
/r/seduction12/03/18 06:14 PM
8

She's in a public space - #1 sign that you can approach
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:32 PM
13

idk. You post the same thing every week. What did everyone tell you last time?
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:04 PM
5

Exercise, drop body fat and gain muscle. Have good hygiene. Shave you neck for God's sake. Have a strong personality. It communicates that people frequently differ to you. Dress like a guy who gets laid. Stand up straight, look people in the eyes, speak clearly and confidently. Get better friends. Don't have put of with losers or people stuck in weird paradigms of scarcity or inaction. Don't be a huge dick about it, but don't spend time with people who aren't interested in helping you advance in…
/r/seduction12/03/18 06:58 AM
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Here's the deal OP. You can continue doing what you've been doing and get the same results. Or you can try something else. Sorry of you don't find this answer "sufficient," but it's the truth. If you don't change in a positive direction, it's going to be very difficult to sleep with anyone you're not paying. Before you get into your usual routine of blaming the world, stop and consider that you are one person and the world is 7.5 billion people. Out of those two sets, which is more likely to be …
/r/seduction12/03/18 04:51 AM
1

Mind hacks that make talking to girls dramatically easier.
/r/seduction11/03/18 10:02 PM
4

As you see u/supreemkai, there are many different answers. In truth, there isn't a single right answer. When you hook up with a girl, you create a certain frame, a narrative of what your relationship will be like. Maintain that frame and don't switch it over night. The other short answer is that you should be less invested than her.
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:22 AM
0

Roommates ex girlfriend. Kinda happened while we were bar hopping, sans roommate.
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:18 AM
1

Immediately bridge into a statement of intent after the indirect opener, the pull it away, wait for her to show interest then, qualify. If you can't instadate, seed the idea of a date. Don't ask for her number for no reason. Get her to agree to the idea of a second meet up before you try to number or social media close.
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:41 AM
3

r/makesedditgreatagain
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:18 AM
1

This is a group about attracting and seducing women. Sexless fags giving eachother terrible advice is a different sub.
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:04 AM
3

Yep. OG is right. When a girl cheats, it's never the fault of the other guy. He didn't cause anything. There was already a problem in the relationship and he was just the right guy at the right time. The rest of you guys are acting like fags
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:02 AM
1

Thank you. Has this entire place become a haven for moralizing virgins?
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:00 AM
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It's pretty easy for you to identify with the beta boyfriend, isn't it?
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:59 AM
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Lol. You probably don't get laid a lot
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:58 AM
0

Fuck off. Is "being a better person" getting you laid or bringing you measurable success in any area of life. Or are you simply virtue signalling and using yout supposed morality to compensate and excuse the fact you you haven't accomplished much. Don't give other people your pathetic beta advice.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:57 AM
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Fuck off. Is "being a better person" getting you laid or bringing you measurable success in any area of life. Or are you simply virtue signalling and using yout supposed morality to compensate and excuse the fact you you haven't accomplished much. Don't give other people your pathetic beta advice.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:56 AM
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1) Girls cheat. It's not yoir responsibility to exercise morality for her. And part of her will reset you for it if you try. So fuck all the guys here who are trying to shame you for talking to a girl with a boyfriend. That they're so appalled shows how little experience they have with women. Deep down they still fear having their precious princess stolen by some guy with better game, a bigger dick, and broader shoulders. 2) quit being and aspie dweep, and talk to other women. If you care enough…
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:53 AM
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Ya, Tell her how you feel. Then, after she rejects you, come back and read the shit in the side bar.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:46 AM
2

Car, woods, friends house, tree house, park when no one's around. Empty movie theater. Be creative
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:45 PM
10

I thought Italians weren't normally this aspie... The advice is always the same: talk to other girls
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:43 PM
22

You don't ever talk about a physical relationship, or a relationship at all, until physicality has occurred, even then it's unnecessary to talk about. You don't say anything. You do.
/r/seduction10/03/18 03:28 PM
7

If you're not banging them, someone else will be I wouldn't become too attached obviously.
/r/seduction10/03/18 01:17 PM
1

When women ask you "when did you last have sex" you don't give a serious answer. "What time is it?", "It's Thursday, right?." "I'm a virgin"
/r/seduction10/03/18 12:31 PM
1

Don't be an open book. Let her have a peak of what you're doing and what you're about, but never reveal everything and never explain yourself or your reasoning. Don't be an open book. You can do that and still have friends.
/r/seduction10/03/18 12:28 PM
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Lol. Ok. You be the guy who's taking them on boring expensive dates and trying to "connect" with them (really, a manipulative ploy that she smell from a mile away). I'll be they guy they fuck.
/r/seduction10/03/18 12:25 PM
2

Awesome job, bro. Eye contact is definitely important. Try to make eye contact with everyone. Unless you're a white dude walking in a black neighborhood (or vice versa). Then do that very carefully.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:31 AM
2

thats what i thought
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:27 AM
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Nice post. Here's another distinction: At school, when you take a test and get a question wrong, it marks against you. In the real world, the failures and mistakes don't necessarily matter. What matters are the times that you do get it right.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:09 AM
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Don't leave condom wrapper where girls can see them, unless you like ASD. Lesson learned, right? As for the girl, message her in a week like nothing happened, try to get her out for a drink before pulling. If she is still weird, next her.
/r/seduction10/03/18 07:09 AM
2

lol, you must have a very shitty sex life
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:57 AM
1

No, it's not the best way to approach. You are WAAAAAY over thinking this. The approach simply needs to do one thing: Get her to stop and pay attention to you. You can open with anything. I've dropped a soda in front of a girl, blamed it on her, and that was my open. If anything, having an "interesting question," unless it actually has an emotional charge, just comes off as try hard. Really, if you have an interesting questions, you're real opener is, "excuse me, can I ask you a weird question."
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:55 AM
1

I think these sort of direct approaches are OK, but they are very played out. Especially with hotter girls, telling her that you think she is cute isn't that special or impressive. People tell her that in a million different ways all day. I often do indirect-to-direct openers. I will ask the most retarded question as an indirect open and them immediately clarify my intent. "Excuse me. When do you think this building was built? "ummmm" "I"m just fucking around. I thought you were cute and wanted …
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:52 AM
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You learn where the boundaries are by reaching them occasionally. As you get experience, you'll get better at reading people's emotions, and becoming more comfortable escalating in a more calibrated manner. Like theXXL said, she was probably reflecting a lot of your nervousness back to you. You're always leading. As a man, you don't really have a choice. So you'll want to feel as relaxed and comfortable as possible. Also, again agreeing with, TheXXL, escalation is a bit slower. Take smaller baby…
/r/seduction09/03/18 09:19 PM
0

And you're a liar too
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:38 PM
2

Dude. I had a conversation with you a few days ago where I told you exactly what to do. Why do you repeated post the same question and waste people's time.
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:58 PM
1

No, because that rarely happens outside of movies...
/r/seduction09/03/18 09:39 AM
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Fuck off. I agree with you that there is a racist dynamic in place. Find a sentence where I didn't before you start lobbing insults about reading comprehension. But if you think it's my responsibility to tilt at windmills and somehow magically change women's perception of the SMV of Asian men, then I have a mountainous bag of digs you can eat. All types of dicks. I don't create the ideology. Take your bullshit attempt to shame me into validating you somewhere else. My advice was to do what you'r…
/r/seduction09/03/18 04:59 AM
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Let me repeat myself: Being Asian is a disadvantage. So is being short, or bald, or introverted, or having a small dick, or driving a busted car, etc. My point being: you can cry about it, or you can work around it. Unless you are looking for practical tips, simply whining about it on seddit isn't going to help. Here's a useful anecdote. I have a friend. He's tall af, great physique, deep voice, and stupid af and lazy. He gets women easily and his game is shit. If I did the sort of shit he did, …
/r/seduction09/03/18 04:01 AM
0

Go indirect, screen for iois, have good logistics for a day 2.
/r/seduction09/03/18 02:33 AM
1

Talk to other women
/r/seduction09/03/18 02:22 AM
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When I am in state I can do well: a stunner, HB9 (who had a serious boyfriend) even said that my approach deserved an A+ (it was ''very smooth'' according to her). But good results like this are not consistent (might happen 1 or 2 days every 2 weeks). If you didn't make it past the approach, it wasn't anything to brag about. Just go out and approach when you're not in 'state.'
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:42 AM
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nah... pining over your ex looks desperate. Talk to other women
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:40 AM
1

A pair of busted converses
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:05 AM
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life is unfair Duuuuude, that was deeeeep. How long did it take for you to figure that out? Any more resources where I can learn about fundamental truths like that??? Lol, "not crying about it" is exactly what you need to do. Being bitter and whining about shit you can't control is unattractive beta behavior. If this is your mindset, I have no doubt that your results with women suck.
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:05 AM
1

Name me a celebrity caught in a sex sandal who doesn't present themselves like a nice guy/sjw/feminist/white knight...
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:35 AM
1

lol, don't tell them where you work
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:33 AM
5

Dump her and find a girl who enjoys having sex with you.
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:24 AM
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I read it yesterday. It too less than 5 minutes to skim and get the most important parts
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:22 AM
1

Have you read the material on the sidebar?
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:34 AM
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Don't be nice in order to get girls.. be nice because it's the right thing to do in order to get girls.... Makes sense
/r/seduction08/03/18 02:52 AM
1

Try to date shorter girls, or girls who are about your size. But still approach and try to game taller girls to get over the self limiting belief and anxiety associated with facing rejection.
/r/seduction07/03/18 02:14 PM
1

I mean, if you're searching fucked up and embarrassing shit, ya. But if its just a bunch of random girls, so what. If you don't care, she probably won't either.
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:03 AM
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possibly - but I think refusing to be another follower feeding her ego has its own merits
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:58 AM
1

so...
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:57 AM
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I agree completely, but I wanted to give a tip that extreme beginners could pull off to get the experience of a small win.
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:38 AM
0

It's just a retarded, value-less video
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:26 AM
1

This sounds like a case where you friendzoned them to some extent. That or you're leaving something important out. In any case, it's far from the experience of most guys who experience the friendzone. But game is something general, it's not something you pulled off 'that one time.' If this was something you could do again, in a different city for example, within a reasonable amount of time --- that would be awesome. I would want to hear way more about it. Otherwise, good on you for the smash. It…
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:17 AM
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No, I'm just interested. I just noticed that I lot of people come with similar questions and I was wondering how they arrived.
/r/seduction07/03/18 09:57 AM
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Ignore any SJW types. Don't argue with them, and never explain yourself. Don't bring pick up into work. Don't talk about it to people who aren't into it. Don't let people overhear you talking about it. Don't try to practice on co-workers. Don't spend unnecessary time with co-workers. Don't hit on girls in the same building. Don't ever apologize for it, and never explain yourself. The only way to win the feminist/sjw game is to refuse to play.
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:43 AM
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This should be removed
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:39 AM
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You answered your own question I typically establish a casual friendship first then pursue them. It’s worked for me before but it’s seemingly nowhere near as effective as my friend’s tactic.
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:12 AM
1

99% of the problems that people here seek advice for stem from the same issue: investing your time and energy into a single girl and not taking the action to create other options. The solution is always the same: talk to other girls.
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:10 AM
1

You sound like a chode
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:54 AM
1

This is the ONE book I would recommend about seduction. It's a little overly detailed for a beginner. But it has all the crucial info about the technical side of game.
/r/seduction07/03/18 03:58 AM
1

I haven't read it yet. How would it compared to M3, London daygame model, or Magic bullets?
/r/seduction07/03/18 03:57 AM
1

It's the bible of woo woo feel good self help for guys who never get passed being a beginner at dating. Seriously. Manson raised a ton of great points. But if that's your main resource for understanding dating, you're fucked.
/r/seduction07/03/18 03:56 AM
1

Have you read the material in the sidebar?
/r/seduction07/03/18 03:45 AM
2

Out of curiousity, how did you find this sub?
/r/seduction07/03/18 03:22 AM
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That's the type of shit that guys with very little experience say. Moreover, it's disingenuous. You treat "getting to know her" like some trick tgat you do to get a reward. It's text book manipulative "nice guy" behaivor. Kinda ironic that you are moralizing against guys who just want to fuck at least they are honest about it,.
/r/seduction07/03/18 02:02 AM
1

Talk to other girls instead of investing emotions into a girl who isn't into you
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:57 AM
1

Also, the closer it is to a university area, the greater the number of cuties.
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:21 PM
1

word
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:20 PM
1

You and her are approaching this situation differently. You are operating by horny desperation and analyzing it logically. She is thinking about it emotionally, using a set of criteria which you don't understamd. On one hand, her rejecting your kiss isn't a big deal. However, you getting butthurt about it is a huge deal. It's good that you made a move. Congrats on that. Trying to be all logical with her is fucking up your chances. Never explain shit unless you have to. Don't get too hung up on k…
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:15 PM
1

Talk with her friends and win over them If you can make one or two of them fall for you, you would be doing pretty good. That's really smart
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:56 PM
4

As with 95% of the questions here, the answer is simple: Talk to other girls
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:55 PM
3

Read the sidebar
/r/seduction06/03/18 11:42 AM
1

Was it one that you rent by the hour?
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:13 AM
3

an ltr with a girl who doesn't like being touched.... that sounds fun
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:08 AM
1

It's called 'bait the beta.' Find a guy with no other options, give him just enough attention so that he keeps thinking about you, maybe use him for free drinks or to chat with whenever you're bored.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:07 AM
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Try each 10 times and figure out which one works better.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:05 AM
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Mark Manson's approach works when a) you have a high SMV and b) you know the technical aspects of game as if it were second nature. Personally, I would advise focusing on the technical aspects of game while slowly introducing concepts from models. Some of his shit is just wrong though. For example, girls tend to like mystery. Just dumping your opinions, thoughts, and emotions onto a girl is not attractive, not matter how high of self esteem you have.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:04 AM
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bwahahahaha. Ya, I wish that stereotype were true. The girl I was talking about is Asian, doesn't speak English. It's not a culture thing. It's a woman thing. Women are biologically programmed to fuck the stud and retain the provider. Believe me, some alpha will come along and try to fuck your girl. If you aren't holding shit down - she will be tempted to cheat on you. I'm very preemptive about it all. I never try to lock a girl down into a relationship. I tell them they can fuck other guys any …
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:40 AM
1

Great job. Next time you see her, it won't be a cold approach anymore. Continue to convo another day.
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:28 AM
1

If you seem like a cool dude, the friends won't necessarily sabotage you. Make sure you are including them and not making them feel awkward or unwanted. It's when you seem low value, uncalibrated, or too try hard that the friends typically intervene. If you are only going for one sets, you're missing tons of opportunities.
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:27 AM
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Most guys are lame as fuck and won't male the first move. So you're basically going to have do stand in front of him and do everything short of asking him to go out. You can ask him of you want, but I don't think you'll enjoy a relationship where you constantly have to take the lead on everything.
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:23 AM
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This should be pinned. Excellent post and useful for guys at any level of game. Interesting experiment. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:17 AM
1

Girls cheat homie. That's another way of saying that you don't nor will ever own her, and her fidelity to you will always be an contended issue based on how much you've earned it. Your old fashioned romance of love doesn't exist anymore, and it never really did. Just yesterday, I met this girl on the street, a really really sweet looking 18 year old. I even asked her, how many boyfriends she had at the moment. She said she was single and "forever alone." After i isolated and made intent a bit cl…
/r/seduction05/03/18 05:35 PM
12

It's never your bike, it's just you're turn to ride.
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:18 PM
3

lol. No need mate. The value you've put out in this post is payment enough
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:17 PM
1

I can interact with women just fine but I can’t get them to be interested in me. That's hard to say. Maybe you dress like shit, or are really fat. I'm guessing that you're very nice and polite, but not very masculine. There's no real edge to you. Nor do you express any sexual interest girls (via non verbal communication). The skills of getting laid is like creating passive income. Once you get the ball rolling, it's not that much effort. Thanks for the advice man but it seems to me that getting …
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:10 PM
1

Ya, it is a weird thing to ask. But if you say it in a light-hearted way, as if you're just fucking around, then it's not as weird. Trust me, I've asked much weirder questions. Here's the format, and the sub-textual format. "Hi, do you speak English?" (I don't live in an English speaking country. This question isn't really about whether or not they can speak English, and I can speak flirt in the native language. Instead, it just screens for girls who are willing to talk. You could similarly use,…
/r/seduction05/03/18 04:05 PM
1

I’m taking plenty of actions to improve. Been hitting the gym consistently for quite some, trying my best to dress better amongst other things. Those are great starts, actually. And I think that investments into health and fashion will have big pay offs for you in the future. But, you still need to learn to interact with women. I've seen plenty of buff guys with ugly or no girlfriends. So looks alone won't get you laid, but it will make it much earlier. Out of curiosity, what country are you in.…
/r/seduction05/03/18 02:45 PM
1

idk, sounds like a great opener to try: "Excuse me, can I ask you a weird question.... what do you think about guys who are 25 and still virgins."
/r/seduction05/03/18 02:31 PM
1

In reality, in 5 or 10 years, you won't know anyone who goes to this university. Whether you're the weird guy who occasionally struck up conversations, sometimes awkwardly; or you're the "normal" guy who was basically invisible ---- you still won't know or talk to anyone from that school. But one set of actions leads you to having social charisma. The other leads to you continuing to be invisible. Honestly OP, the reason I called you a loser is because anytime someone makes a suggestion, you res…
/r/seduction05/03/18 02:23 PM
1

No, it's feedback. There is a certain intertia to these things. Dying a virgin is a very really possibility for you. If I were you, I would be putting in every effort to blast out of the gravitational pull of this potential future.
/r/seduction05/03/18 02:13 PM
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Ya,... friends, family, and acquaintances are sometimes very bad at offering much needed feedback. My point wasn't that you should go to bars. Bars are generally terrible places to meet quality women (or quality people). It's this: if you honestly think that watching Conan is going to help you, you're lazy. Here's the truth: the results you have now, being a 23 year old without any experience with women, is something you're entirely responsible for. You can blame you parents all you want, but th…
/r/seduction05/03/18 01:38 PM
1

My suggestion would be to go to school 30 minutes early each day. That way, you have the time and no excuse to not talk to a stranger. For now, forget about talking to girls. Just talk to one stranger a day for the next 30 days. I promise you will see results.
/r/seduction05/03/18 01:37 PM
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Thanks. I definitely owe a great deal of gratitude to this sub. It was my rabbit hole 5 or 6 years ago into the world of game. But, my biggest gains came when I stopped reading r/seduction, quit reading books like Models or Magic Bullets, stopped watching RSD videos, and just started going out with the intention of learning. Personally, I'm not a fan of going out with wings (daygame), but getting real time feedback from other guys who know what they're doing was also a boost. For now, I'll defin…
/r/seduction05/03/18 01:35 PM
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With that mindset, yes
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:32 PM
3

New law: all men must be over 20% body fat and keep identification in their purse at all times.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 12:30 PM
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I'm willing to bet the $5 in my pocket that you don't know which specific social cues to look out for. It's true. I got $5 on me right now and I'm down to bet you have zero idea if she sees you the same way you see her. Glancing, positioning her body towards me, looking at me during emotional high points (i.e., in a group setting, where everyone laughs), dilated pupils, bambie eyes, grooming (playing with hair and clothes), nervousness, and general compliance. Beyond that, girls tend to want to …
/r/seduction05/03/18 11:30 AM
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It seems that way at first. I remember being younger a having side girls. It was energy-consuming and dramatic... Mostly because I was lying to all of them about it. And then I went into a serious LTR, then we moved in together, then we broke up, and then I was back to square one. I was back to sucking with women. And then I started again. This time, instead of lying to girls and treating them like they were the only girl I was seeing, I was honest (while still being respectful of their feelings…
/r/seduction05/03/18 10:30 AM
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Fuck no. Are you autistic? OP, do not listen to this advice. Do not "just talk to her." Just do what you did last time, and if she's still responsive, turn her over and kiss her.
/r/seduction05/03/18 09:52 AM
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It sounds like you are looking for the easiest possible thing you can do. If so, here is the honest truth: you are a loser who might die a virgin
/r/seduction05/03/18 09:49 AM
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Also, the whole sociable and making friends thing is just not going to happen right now. Keep doing what you're doing. I'm sure that you'll get different results very very soon.
/r/seduction05/03/18 09:46 AM
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You missed the core mesaage: Quit stressing out about one girl. Talk to other girls and you'll quickly realize she's not that important.
/r/seduction05/03/18 09:34 AM
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Good job on the warm approach. It sounds like she was dropping hints and you stood there like a deer in the headlights. Oh well, live and learn. Next time, try a little bit of physicality. If she's down, amp it up a bit. Then move her somewhere else that's more comfortable and private.
/r/seduction05/03/18 09:30 AM
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You should talk to other women. Simply put, your not going to somehow be good with this one woman unless you learn to be good with women.
/r/seduction05/03/18 09:15 AM
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By trying to sleep with her
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:29 PM
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Study non verbal communication and body language, work on learning to read people's emotions.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:11 PM
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Expat in Vietnam here. I get something similar. It usually happens when you are too comfortable pulling and closing. Here my normal responce. I like to meet people. I find this works quite well. You frame it in a way that she can't argue against, without lying and with revealing too much.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:09 PM
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Good job. I bet all sorts of terrifying worst-case-scenarios were running through your head before you made a move. Then you found out she was waiting and hoping you would the whole time.
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:54 PM
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I totally agree. This is the first time I've put on an online training like this. If people enjoy it, I'll improve it a bit more, include a bit more content, and turn it into an udemy course
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:50 PM
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Course is totally free, and it's simply there to give you a clear outline for talking to more girls. There's really nothing special about it, but if you're want a ridiculously easy way to start along with a bit of support, it's a good resource.
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:48 PM
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No worries mate. I've found that once you can actually approach, follow through on day 2s, and close, the next big hurdle is not tolerating bullshit and being happy to walk away from girls who are being less than pleasant and generally dtf. That cuts out so much stress and just leaves the girls who actually will go out of their way to keep you. As long as you have value yourself, if you're willing to have strong boundaries and actually make some demands, it make your relationship so much better.…
/r/seduction04/03/18 08:45 AM
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No offense. This girl sounds like a slut. She's not going to "bond" with you over passionate sex, then stop fucking other dudes. Even if she did, she'd probably keep guys like yourself on reserve. You should be focused on improving your game, not trying to hold it together with a single girl who is getting rammed up in a weekly basis by other guys. After you develop your skill through practice with many women, holding it down with one woman becomes much easier. It's not a shit test, she's just t…
/r/seduction04/03/18 08:17 AM
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Ya, you are her gay best friend. There's really no such thing as a ldr. You are wasting your time and not getting laid in return. Functionally, it's a gay best friend scenario, regardless of a few sappy snaps she sends to string you along. You get what you tolerate man. If I were you, I'd cut this girl loose and invest you time elsewhere. Talking to multiple girls will make you less needy and invested into any one of them, and you'll be less inclined to tolerate behavior like this.
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:57 AM
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Baskin Robbins has vegan ice cream
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:27 AM
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Talk to other women. When you don't give all your attention to one woman, it's more valuable. When you have multiple women wanting your attention, you're more attractive as a man. When you are getting more experience from multiple sources, you'll learn faster and won't have to rely on advice from strangers online.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:46 AM
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Talk to other women and don't invest much hope or energy into her.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:43 AM
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Talk to other girls. 99% of questions and problems here could be eliminated if guys were pursuing multiple women at once. "Random woman from tinder has messaged back.... oh well, guess I'll have to chat with one of the 3 others"
/r/seduction04/03/18 12:29 AM
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Talk to other girls
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:45 PM
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You should show interest without seeming sold on her. You should less invested in the relationship than her. Basically, she shouldn't be that important to you, but she should know you want to fuck her.
/r/seduction03/03/18 11:17 AM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:59 AM
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I'd say that how a lot of girls treat guys. Especially weird guys who haven't developed themselves, and who lack other options. In the real world, people only care about each other for the value they bring to the table. But things like humor, positivity, boldness, being fun --- these are all a form of value.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:55 AM
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I'm pretty skeptical of anything that's recommended by Elite Daily or the Good Men Project. They both pander toward women and don't really care about men developing skills with women. Instead, they're worried about fitting into some modern cultural narrative of what a "good man" is. It's a great way to win point with feminists and mainstream publications, but it's not a great way to understand what social dynamics are actually about.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:52 AM
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The Global Seducer Quickie Podcast is new but very practical and good. The Tom Torero Podcast is also really good.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:49 AM
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I'm calling bullshit on that. If you never get rejected, then you don't take enough risks
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:45 AM
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Out of curiousity, does your experience also include having sex with many different women?
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:34 AM
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Possibly.... But it's not like the 8/9/10s don't have guys lined up who could just as well give them orgasms. This might be a cultural thing, since I live in Asia. The girls I've fucked from social circles or even online were always more keen on relationships, but closes from street game come off more like an overt pick up. Also, I tend to play the fuckboy/playboy route: I display a lot of intent early on, but consciously don't really offer a lot in terms of value beyond being able to pull the t…
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:45 PM
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Slow down tiger. First off, that's cool you're not trying to make this girl uncomfortable or pressured at her work. Good call. But does she even know your name. If not, you might want to build a bit more familiarity. "btw, I'm Bruce Wood" followed by a handshake should work. Then, the next time you see her, ask her what she's up to later. Regardless of the answer, say that it would be cool to grab coffee some time. If she seems open, get her contact details (social media is better than a number,…
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:53 PM
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This. That's what 90% of guys here don't get. It's a lot easier to pick up and pull one woman when you have a few others you're also actively gaming or sleeping with. Nothing creates a feeling of abundance like.... abundance.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:30 PM
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Sure dude, whatever you say.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:12 PM
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Ya, I guess my main issue is that it's transparently manipulative. Shit like this.... Be vague in your answers. Tell her you've been busy hanging out with "insert girls name" You first say "be vague", then to blabber in a gossipy way about who you've been hanging out with. That's opposite advice. It seems like you're trying to have it both ways. Keeping in contact with this girl, and treating her as a friend. You should be taking the opposite approach: treat her like a girl you want to fuck whil…
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:58 PM
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This is retarded and manipulative. Either she sees through your ploy or feels offended. One of those is the most likely outcome. It shows your a valuable commodity because other women are talking to you and spending time with you. Why not just talk to and spend time with other women. Why lie about it like a weirdo
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:09 PM
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Cool. then can you delete your question, since you've just admitted it's not that important to you and that you won't apply any of the advice you get
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:00 PM
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idk. read it all and find it yourself if you want.
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:27 PM
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You're too available. Talk to other women.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:52 PM
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I'm not even going to read your story this is what happens when you refuse to make the effort to get good with women and instead just want to find a way to get with "that one girl."
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:42 AM
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What cues do you look for to start the conversation so it isn't awkward. There are a few clues to let you when is best to approach. You just have to know where to look. All of that information is in the sidebar
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:39 AM
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Ya, don't only calibrate to the girl. Calibrate to the people around, especially her friends. If you're at a party like that, try to have places in mind to pull. That way, you can know where to take the girl before you even start making out or talking to her.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:36 AM
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I wouldn't ask for a number like that. I would say something along the lines of, it would be cool to chat later over drinks. If she's receptive, social media or number close. Open you phone, hand it to her, and have her punch in her info.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:18 AM
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You could have asked when her birth day is...
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:09 AM
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Ya, just smile, be friendly, and exit the conversation politely. No need to make it awkward. But don't waste time either. Maybe chat for 30 seconds more and then wish her a nice day.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:09 AM
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Cool, maybe you can naturally let money come to you without working, or magically let food enter your mouth. Why try to force it? Once you get to a certain level and have some skill, sure. Let go of the outcome, just flow, "be present," etc. Until then, put in the work to reach your goal.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:20 AM
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This is good advice for most guys, but it's not true. If you escalate too fast (and if you seem competent instead of desperate) before creating emotional connection, you are going to come across as a fuck boy. That's ok. In a lot of ways, she wants you to be a fuck boy. But it's very hard to transition from that to wanting to be her boyfriend. But ya, the 26 year old virgin doesn't need to learn to take it slow. He's already spent the last decade frozen in fear. He needs to learn to man up and m…
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:16 AM
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The fact that the keep asking stupid questioms is a symptom of their problem. Instead of just taking action, they want more reassurance.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:11 AM
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I live in Asia. About half of my first attempts to kiss a girl are rejected. Most of the those girls end up fucking me though.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:09 AM
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Quit being a fag and stop expecting people to hold your hand and guide you through life. Your need for reassurance probably bleeds through in all your interactions, making you look like an incompetent pussy who fears failure above all else. Good enough for you?
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:05 AM
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This. If youre not sure if she likes you, here's you're way to find out
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:02 AM
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Generally, you should always have a backup plan. Your evening should never be ruined if a girl flakes; you'll just get the opportunity to do something else you were looking forward to.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:47 AM
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"aight, gotta run. Talk soon"
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:44 AM
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Vice is a sensationalist rag. Everything they write should be taken with a huge grain of salt. Judging by the front page of this sub, spam approaching isn't a problem for most guys here. Instead, most questions are the same, "how do I talk to this one girl." Very few people here seem to be taking too much action or thinking too little.
/r/seduction01/03/18 08:11 AM
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Have you done this with pick up? Did you receive and unusual response, or was it just the same as exchanging fb info? If it's basically the same, what advantage do you see to having a calling card?
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:04 AM
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I disagree. "Don't go where the girls you are attracted to are" is simply retarded. It's the type of finger waving that people do to lool and feel morally upright. Do things that bring the results you want. That said, if you are gaming on campus, have a legitimate sounding reason why you are there. Or own it. Or ignore the question. Just don't act unsure or hesitant about it. Personally, I wouldn't lie about being a student though.
/r/seduction01/03/18 03:59 AM
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Act interested but not emotionally invested.
/r/seduction01/03/18 03:53 AM
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Expressing that you are nervous isn't necessarily a mistake. A lot of girls find that sort of frankness endearing. Granted, with a really hot girl who're constantly being hit on, she's going to expect guys on her level to be confident. But this doesn't sound like that case.
/r/seduction01/03/18 03:48 AM
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What happens after 2-3 minutes? Just make observational comments, joke around, don't be to serious, be evasive with your answers. Don't be probing for info about her life. Just some ideas. Just try different things and see what happens. Here's some shit I just made up: After two minutes, ask if you she knows how to read palms. Then tell her your to read her palms, and grab her hands. Start to look at her hands for just a second, then drop them, slightly laugh, and tease her believing in palm rea…
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:35 PM
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practice
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:26 PM
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Quit trying to impress them. Instead, do things that make them feel emotions, mostly good ones - but a few negative barbs never hurt. Be subtle about it though.
/r/seduction28/02/18 05:55 PM
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Much of the attraction that women have for men comes down to social proof. When you dress well (or don't act like you need to) and act confident, people around you assume you've had a lot of success, and girls want access to that sort of perceived social value. Quit watching RSD videos and then asking about them. Do something more productive with your time. That's not me being condescending - it's actual dating advice. Sure, it probably won't hurt to have models on your IG. But let's be real. Yo…
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:08 PM
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What do you mean? If there is a biological "meaning to life," it's to reproduce. In order to accomplish that, hormones and neurochemicals ensure that people experience attraction and arousal, making amorous relationships and sexual activity feel good.
/r/seduction28/02/18 01:15 PM
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Sure. PM me details. As soon as I get the email with the ticket info, I'll be on the next flight to come and wing you in Mexico. In the meantime, check out the sidebar material. If you have a question that is more specific than "how do I talk to girls," feel free to ask away.
/r/seduction28/02/18 01:10 PM
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Before answering, I want to point something out for anyone new: “I'm a 28 year old guy. I have always sucked with women. I discover PUA about 10 years ago...I've only had sex with one woman....That was almost 6 years ago.” WTF?! To be blunt, reading PUA material doesn’t work. Watching PUA videos doesn’t work. If all you do for the next 10 years is read websites like r/seduction, you will be exactly where this guy is today. Do not become this guy. The only way toward improvement is action and act…
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:48 AM
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This post is super useful. The title is alone valuable. Thanks. Having a purpose in mind for why you're texting is probably the single best piece of advice for texting. Whether you've know her for 2 weeks or 2 years, if you're regularly chatting with a girl for no other reason than you want to idly chat with her - you are fucked. At least that's my experience. Here's a few concrete things I would add. Keep it simple. Before you send it, take time to read it again once more and delete all the nec…
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:48 AM
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Ya. The hair pull thing used to be standard on all my day 2s. If you are in a public place and don't have the logistics set up for a pull, you might hold off on the neck biting though. Now, I show a lot more intent right away: "foreplay starts at hello" and everything.
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:08 AM
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No, don't "talk to her about it." Nothing ruins romantic suspense and tension more than a nervous guy who wants extreme amounts of reassurance.
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:05 AM
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Don't do that. "Just tell her how you feel," is the sort of advice that virgins give eachother. Girls don't usually brag about their slutty adventures to guys they don't want to fuck. Make a move. (See my suggestion below). If she responds favorably, casually mention that you're not as experienced as she might think, but don't have a conversation about it. Just say something about how she might have to teach you a few tricks. *How to escalate fast with this girl:jj Ask her if she likes her hair …
/r/seduction28/02/18 05:26 AM
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Sidebar?
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:51 AM
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Idk. Try to fuck her and find out
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:46 AM
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My general advice for someone who has no experience talking to girls? Change your shirt, brush you teeth, and talk to girls. It's like asking for advice on playing golf. All the pro tips in the world won't help if you never step onto a golf course. The reference experience you get from just doing it.... that's how you improve, not reading this sub...
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:42 AM
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Talk to 100 other women. It will be far more valuable than any piece of advice you could get here.
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:37 AM
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Should I just take my chances? I kind of want to have the most chances of success before I do it. Another way of saying, "I'm more concerned with protecting my ego and looking cool than improving my skills in romance." You will always stay a beginner with this mindset. You should be embracing failure. Literally. You should be trying to flirt with girls who you think you have no chance with. Furthermore, a guy who's afraid to talk to women unless he's certain of success is about the least masculi…
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:31 AM
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In the next week, talk to five girls in coffee shops. Report back how it went and what worked.
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:13 AM
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It sounds like you need to meet more girls
/r/seduction28/02/18 02:50 AM
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In my experience, the problems never really go away. You'll both still be fighting and upset over the same issues. If you do get together and I'm wrong, please let me know. But I've never seen something like this actually work out.
/r/seduction28/02/18 02:49 AM
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Talk to other women
/r/seduction28/02/18 01:52 AM
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Ya... I'm willing to bet that most relationships in the west start because women initiate it. Guys are pussies. Act like you have a penis and you're already ahead of the competition.
/r/seduction28/02/18 01:51 AM
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This was the gayest thing I've seen a man write in a long time.
/r/seduction28/02/18 01:43 AM
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I'm not sure what sort of advice you want. 90% of questions here could be answered with "talk to more girls." Not sure why that one girl was looking at you during class? Talk to more girls, and the answer will come. Want to get over your ex? Talk to more girls. How should you approach your crush? Talk to more girls. Is night game or day game better for a 25 year old virgin? Not sure... talk to more girls and find out. Point being, some random girl being stuck in your head is a clear indicator th…
/r/seduction28/02/18 01:42 AM
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and everyone who points it out is a “virgin, who’s doesn’t even have any approaches." The quality has gone WAY down here. One of the most recent threads is by a kid who is asking for advice after a couple girls added him on IG.....
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:54 PM
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If that gives you the success with women that you desire, right on.
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:19 PM
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The answer to any "this one girl" question is always the same. Date other women. Learn from experience instead of asking anonymous online strangers with sketchy credentials for advice.
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:17 PM
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"Naturals" were just a little better looking or better socialized at a young age. Because of this, they had a series of early positive reference experiences with women and with social situations, which in turn created a positive feedback loop: people treated them well, so they felt good and acted confident, so people treated them even better, so they felt even better and acted even more confident, and on and on until this was written into their personality. People who otherwise get good often ha…
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:14 PM
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Ya, actually being the guy that will pull the trigger, who will unapologetically try to fuck her (without dragging her on some boring dinner or movie date and nervously working up the energy to make a move) actually has it's own sort of value. As far as I can tell, this works on most girls. But especially inexperienced girls or girls who present themselves as virtuous. But it works until it doesn't. Eventually the girl will want something serious. Or she'll tell her friends about it, and they'll…
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:43 PM
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How To kiss a girl for the first time if you're shy Here's a slightly simplified sequence for kissing a girl, from hello to make out. 1) Demonstrate intent early on. She needs to know, on some level, that you like her. You can do this primarily through non-verbal cues including eye contact and vocal tonality. 2) Get her comfortable with you touching her. Start with 'social touch' that wouldn't be to out of place if you did it with a friend (i.e., on the arm). In order for her to be comfortable w…
/r/seduction23/02/18 06:11 PM
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Has that ever worked for you?
/r/seduction23/02/18 06:06 PM
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First, what is your goal? Are you trying to make this girl your girlfriend, or are you just trying to bang. If you aren't autistic, it's likely the latter case. So you respond ok.' Then you schedule a meet up and escalate like normal. If she says anything about friends while you're escalating, say "ya, just friends", "we can be friends and still hold hands, it's ok with me" "you've never kissed a friend? It's ok. I won't tell anyone" etc. If you tell her that you want to be "more than friends" o…
/r/seduction23/02/18 06:06 PM
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I agree about the dinner on the first date. I only do dinner first dates for novelty, if I'm bored with going to the same cafes or handful of other spots. Even then, I'll do a vegetarian restaurant with low lights, preferably bench seating, and decent enough logistic. (Knowing your logistics, having a few concrete, test options, and having a plan and back ups for dates - major key) I'm not particularly up front about my diet - it's not that important - , but it's not something I hide or apologiz…
/r/seduction21/02/18 02:19 PM
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Ya, I definitely agree with that. But two quick game related points. If we're hanging out, even as friends and peers, and we go to a restaurant. It's going to be place that has something for me to eat. That's just a matter of courtesy, respect, and in some instances frame. If you can be a cool vegan, it can send a real strong signal: wow, 'this guy has high personal standards but he doesn't judge other people, he feels secure and comfortable enough in his own choice that he doesn't have to preac…
/r/seduction21/02/18 02:14 PM
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Until the 1960's the vast majority of marriages were between people who lived within close proximity to each other or were introduced through family. There wasn't really 'pick up' so to speak, which developed as a results of women's greater freedom to select among a larger pool of suitors and to enter relationship would didn't have to end in marriage. There was always the seducer, the Don Juans and Cassanovas, by they were always natural. Otherwise, before the internet, guys (as long as they wer…
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:31 PM
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Like another commentor said, quit jerking off. If you're not even getting laid, you shouldn't be doing those exercises. If you haven't gotten laid in 2 years, understand that that is a big problem. It's a bright red flag that shows that something isn't working. You need to decide whether you want to a) solve the issue through action and reflection or b) you want to read pick up material in between sessions of jacking of while looking at yourself. As a minor point, a lot of girls like to be domin…
/r/seduction11/02/18 11:05 AM
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This nails it. Think about it in terms of the value you bring to other's lives. When you make a habit to approach people cheerfully, you become known as someone who makes people feel better.
/r/seduction10/02/18 06:07 AM
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No, you don't negotiate or verbalize about things like this. You don't debate terms of a relationship, you establish frames and set precedents. It's just something you do. Of course, you also need express your wants and desires. If you want something, let her know. Don't get pissed because she doesn't do something you want but won't ask for. Otherwise, withdraw for bad behavior, reward for good behavior. If there's too much bad behavior, cut her off and find a different girl with a better attitu…
/r/seduction06/02/18 06:22 AM
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"Or am I just too insecure?" Your emotional baggage over this issue is going to be a huge turn off for most women, even virgins. The idea that "virginity means nothing" is retarded. I'm really surprised a guy with any experience with women could even write that. If a girl wants a hard fuck, she's not going to find the shy guy with no experience. Similarly, if she wants a comfortable stable relationship, she's not going to look for a guy with a reputation of sleeping with lots of women. Your best…
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:31 AM
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It would be helpful to know what you are saying. Your conversations are likely going too far into one of these directions: Too boring: There's no emotional impact. You are seeking rapport, and hence you shy away from anything which might offend them. Too weird: To are trying too hard to impress them, you say extreme shit. It's entertaining but unrelatable. Too aloof: "Is he gay?" That's what she may be thinking given your inability to express man-to-woman interest. Too keen: "Whoa, this guy does…
/r/seduction05/02/18 08:17 AM
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If she smokes on the first date. It's not really the smoking that bothers me, it's that she's so unconcerned about my impression of her. If she's not trying to impress me on the first date (and smoking is a pretty clear indication that she doesn't care about my opinion of her), the relationship is already off to a backwards start. I'd rather find someone else who's more concerned about how I view them. To add some clarification, I live in an Asian country where girls smoking isn't the norm. Beyo…
/r/seduction05/02/18 08:04 AM
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Her imagination of your other girls is far more powerful than her knowing for sure through your disclosure... Non-disclosure is the one thing I've changed most about my game in the past two months, and the results have been great. It doesn't end the probing, but you can see her putting in extra effort to please me. As much as possible, I either ignore her questions or put it back on her. "Why do you ask that?" "You don't want to know that." "You think too much." These my new favorite lines. ** A…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 10:29 AM
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Reading your comment just makes me assume I will never get anywhere. No way, dude. 1% improvements every day compound over time. ** A quick point on the super-sexual banter. If you do that, pull back on the actual physicality. Otherwise, it will come off too strong. ** The other commentor, /u/Jackieoo00, had some great points about deep diving into points of rapport. You ideally want her to talk more about herself. It's all she really cares about anyways. Be occasionally vague about yourself. Li…
/r/seduction31/01/18 05:45 PM
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Problem being, I’m thinking too rationally and not emotionally and that hinders me from doing the flirty stuff like touching, etc. Reframe the whole "I'm too rational" thing. This isn't entirely a bad thing. In a way, the more logical you are, the better. It means you can be guided by your own moment-to-moment analysis and less by your own emotions. Focus on two things only: your actions and her emotions. Don't worry about what you're feeling. Don't worry about what she's doing. Only care about …
/r/seduction31/01/18 03:53 PM
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I wrote this as a comment yesterday, but I thought it applied to your question as well. I'll answer your specific questions in a different comment. If you like this advice, show some love (nohomo) and visit my website at www.thegreenpill.net How To kiss a girl for the first time if you're shy Here's a slightly simplified sequence for kissing a girl, from hello to make out. 1) Demonstrate intent early on. She needs to know, on some level, that you like her. You can do this primarily through non-v…
/r/seduction31/01/18 02:53 PM
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This is so fucking true. I fucked up yesterday by not acting like a horny pos. Girl comes over, but I wanted to get some work done and do some other shit. So I take her with me to run some errands, and I don't get physical with her. Emotions flat line, rest is history. She wanted the fuckboy, i didn't give it to her.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 12:34 PM
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Here's a slightly simplified sequence for kissing a girl, from hello to make out. 1) Demonstrate intent early on. She needs to know, on some level, that you like her. You can do this primarily through non-verbal cues including eye contact and vocal tonality. 2) Get her comfortable with you touching her. Start with 'social touch' that wouldn't be to out of place if you did it with a friend (i.e., on the arm). In order for her to be comfortable with you touching her, you have to be comfortable tou…
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:08 PM
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Basically, the girl had to go out of her way to give you multiple IOIs before you took action. Congratulations on the precedent you've set for yourself and your relationship. I'm guessing you'll also let her take initiative in just about everything else, including sex. What a turn on. Like other commenters said, this wasn't a cold approach.
/r/seduction20/01/18 01:08 AM
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It sounds like you are letting your ego take control here. She's obviously sorry, but you don't seem to be satisfied with the degree of her efforts to express it to you. Either cut her off completely and find someone who is more supplicant to you (if that's what you want), or get over yourself and spend Christmas with her.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 04:07 PM
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The Good: Wrote Blog Post Finished e-book Read half of 'The Power of Habit' Meditate x4 days No sugar No screen after 12am Did some reflective writing Meh Haven't really been focused too much on game, did two approaches this week Bad Watched porn once Bailed on a chance to practice public speaking in a professional setting
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 06:35 AM
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New Poster here The Good Wrote Blog Post Signed up for Amazon Affiliate Marketing Account Finished Draft and Created Cover for E-Book Stuck to Morning Exercise and Jogging Routine Second week with next to no sugar (cheated one day with chocolate) Created a 60 page PDF of the most important posts from this sub, read it The Bad Poor sleep habits, staying up way too late Spent much of Thursday catching up on sleep Didn’t meditate as much as I’d like My apartment should be cleaner than it is
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