I feel like a monster for not being able to read the body language of the girl that invited me to her place after the 1st date.

I just started dating after more or less 8 years of being single (now 27 with seldom dates here and there but nothing physical). I thought the 1st date went well and she invited me back to her place. This is where I feel absolutely terrible because I was nervous and made an aggressive move (going for a kiss while she was semi laying down on the couch) on her too fast (literally within 5 minutes of arriving) and the kiss seemed OK so while I asked her to let me know if she was uncomfortable she said taking her jacket off would definitely make her uncomfortable as I tried to do just that. So I backed off and understood this to mean OK no more than kissing but looking back is probably wrong. So I tried again to slowly pull her in for a kiss a few minutes later and she seemed frozen so I backed off. I tried again a few minutes later and she seemed more receptive, but I now realize I went way too fast and she just saw me as too aggressive that couldn't read between the lines. The occasional kissing kept going on and it turns out that after a while (maybe an hour) she wasn't feeling all that comfortable and I blame myself by not recognizing this sooner and putting her in that situation. Eventually it was extremely awkward and uncomfortable for her that this guy is in her house and I was understanding of it and left after a few minutes of trying to clarify what just happened. I don't want to make to sound like "just" kissing as anything the other person doesn't want is NOT ok. I want to be clear that I didn't try grope her or go beyond the occasional kisses

She's mentioned in our previous chat's that she's conflict averse and is my guess why she wasn't more vocal but I feel like I'd be wrong to rely on that and not understand the fact that she just invited a guy she never met (matched online) to her place on a first date and I should be extremely careful. And words can be taken the wrong way by a man. I was extremely nervous as this was literally the first time I was invited over to a date's place and that just clouded my judgement as I did not know how to act or what to expect.

I sent her an apology text a day later (don't expect a response but wanted to acknowledge my mistake) but regardless of what happens I feel afraid of myself for not being able to read these situations and I am afraid of trying to find more girls to date

I'm sorry if this is all over the place I just wanted to vent and see if anyone has had an experience of being too physical and learning from it