So I'm 31, I would consider myself reasonably attractive. I'm in shape and don't have any deformities. I'm recently divorced (roughly) 8 months ago.

What I've found after 9 years of marriage and 11 years total with the same woman that I'm not very good at making good first impressions. The women I've slept with since the divorce have either been people I've been around awhile and they got to know me, and 1 lucky tinder hookup.

When I go out I dress well and try my best to approach women in a non aggressive way. But I haven't been able to get past the intro, just turns into awkward conversation and then I gotta bail.

I need some advice on how to get past that stage because I seem to be relatively successful if I can get a girl to get to know me.