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Ah, MN here. Thought we met the same chic haha.
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:28 PM
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Weird I had a girl that's a nurse tell me the same thing about looking like Dr. McDreamy. What state do you live in?
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:27 PM
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Yeah that's been done. I'll check out the video in a bit, thanks!
/r/seduction26/03/18 08:33 PM
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Your first suggestion is a good one. To make this easy ask them "how" questions. So instead of "do you like your job?" Ask "how did you end up in the X profession?" The responses are drastically different and the latter gives you a lot more to go on and continue conversing.
/r/seduction20/03/18 06:30 PM
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Like the guy above me said, the biggest problem for us guys is that women are drowning in messages from other guys. So you have to set yourself apart. I try to do this by not opening with the same old "hey how's it going?" Or by interviewing them with 20 questions. I make assumptions, for example the last conversation went like this. The first girl had two pictures of her wearing Christmas lights around her neck. So I said "I think you have a thing for wearing Christmas lights." She said "Well I…
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:56 PM
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I think you meant "cockblock"
/r/seduction09/03/18 10:21 PM
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As opposed to having a text convo fizzle out until she doesn't respond ever again? Look man, I get it. You don't want to call her because you're thinking that she'll look at her phone and think "why is the creep I just met calling me?" What you're doing is superimposing a fictitious personality upon this girl without really even knowing who she is. Maybe she will think you're a creep and never talk to you again. Or maybe she'll admire the balls it takes to straight call her and it'll set you apa…
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:06 PM
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"Wasn't going to." That would have been perfect.
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:57 PM
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Thanks for the link! I'll definitely check it out.
/r/seduction08/03/18 09:18 PM
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My marriage was almost 8 years, so I feel ya!
/r/seduction08/03/18 02:24 AM
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I don't know if it was confidence as much as just going for it. I was nervous and after she walked away I went flush in the face and my stomach knotted up. I felt like a dumbass the whole drive home. I just try to shrug it off. Even told all my friends at work and made a joke of it. Hell yeah man, a divorce is a crushing experience. Took 8 months to cold approach a woman. I think I've hit the point where I feel like I just need to move forward.
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:01 PM
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Thanks man. Hopefully it'll eventually pay off.
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:59 PM
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Thanks for the reply man, well detailed an appreciated. It's seems it's a consensus that I need to add more to the convo other than interview type questions. I'll try to apply this next time.
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:59 PM
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Duly noted. It did feel like a forced question, but I didn't have much time. She had already grabbed her drink. Perhaps I should have just said "nice talking to you" and left it at that. Just need practice.
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:51 PM
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This is a solid point, I did stand there interviewing her. Fuck me! I would say at no point did I try to build attraction. I'll work on that, by looking up some techniques and pointers. Thanks man.
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:41 PM
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Alright, thanks for the advice. Real quick, what do you mean by being more man? Also, gave up too easily? Should I have chased her out the door? Seems...weird.
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:40 PM
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For real? I've never thought about it, so I don't really understand why quitting porn would improve my game.
/r/seduction06/03/18 12:10 AM
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Find someplace private. I lost my virginity in the back seat of my car. Pulled into a construction lot and parked between two bulldozers. Looked at her and said "back seat?" Away we went.
/r/seduction02/03/18 11:35 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:12 PM
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I didn't suggest lying, I suggested just the opposite. I can understand that you'd not want to consider purposely creating a conflict in schedule and that's fine. The point still the same.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:33 PM
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I said I was done, but I have to say. That shit right there, that feel sorry for yourself attitude. No girl wants to fuck that. Man up, dude.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:06 PM
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That's not a detailed story. You've literally just stated that you gave up asking women out for 3 years because you got rejected by a girl? Dude I got rejected twice at lunch today, guess what I'll be doing tonight? Getting rejected again. You're the classic case of "you need to fix yourself before you start getting women" There are no safe spaces when it comes to trying to date women. Go out, get rejected over and over again until it's normal. Then you'll start getting some dates. This will be …
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:03 PM
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You need to schedule a time to hang out with her as "friends" then cancel because you have a date. Don't respond to her texts for awhile. (I don't meant ignore her for a week) I mean if she texts you, read it and put your phone back in your pocket and go do something. Try to forget about it. Then text her back later that night. You changing your normal behavior around her will cause her to ask questions. Be vague in your answers. Tell her you've been busy hanging out with "insert girls name" Mak…
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:51 PM
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Well you've had to have tried to attract women or get dates, have you not? If not, then there my advice. Start asking. If you have and they've said no you need to give a detailed story of one or two so we can get a feel of how your game is. If your giving us a blank canvas to work with we're going to start basic, which is everything you've already heard on this thread alone. You keep rejecting that and saying "I'm doing those things" ok, so tell me what happened with the last girl you tried to a…
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:46 PM
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Because your post is vague as hell man. All you've stated is "women don't find me attractive" and "I'm a good conversationalist" So what can we determine from that? Nothing. You have a fucked up deformity or something? You've given no examples and scenarios that will help us help you. Ask vague questions, get vague answers.
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:16 PM
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OP, you seem to just be shrugging off anything anyone is saying. So I have to ask, why are you posting here? Looking for reassurance you'll be alright? Looking for confirmation that you're fucked? In the end, you're in control of you life. All you can do is try your best to learn. Go for it, and learn from mistakes.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:12 PM
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That assumption pretty much nails it.
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:36 PM
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I'll give you an example of my last approach. I was out with some friends and was walking back to our table from the bathroom. Saw a good looking girl sitting by herself (her friend must have went to the bar for a drink) she was wearing a big pink winter hat. So I walked up to her and said "hey, I like your hat where'd you get it?" She said: Amazon So I jokingly said that I'd go buy one but I'm not sure I could pull off the look. She laughed and then the convo went on for another minute about th…
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:45 PM
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This, fucked a coworker. She wanted a real relationship, I didn't. She went ballistic, and its weird now.
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:30 PM
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No doubt, just don't have the knowledge or tools I guess. I'm alright at an initial approach, but I kind of lose my way after that. Conversations end up being roughly 2-3 minutes.
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:20 PM
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