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ConversationOGthelegendaryplaya/r/seduction19/10/20 08:28 PM
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It's a bot. Super generic statement that can be posted on many pictures at a time with automated software.
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:29 PM
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Yea, ask the girls for advice. We know how that goes. Bet you get things like, "Be yourself." "Be a gentleman." "Be kind." Blah blah blah Lol my goodness, seddit has turned into guys outright asking the girls for advice? Wow... A fish ain't gonna teach you how to catch it. You have to ask a fisherman.
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:27 PM
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Women have sexual desires they want satisfied just like most human beings. It's not as socially accepted for women to express this desire because she doesn't want to sound easy. Nothing to understand. Women want to have sex. Project masculine energy.
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:22 PM
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Change your perspective. Idk maybe. Just seems like everyone is more open to talking now, especially women.
/r/seduction19/10/20 09:54 PM
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I put together the best ways to improve low self-esteem in this in depth article.
/r/seduction27/06/19 05:53 PM
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Fortune favors the bold.
/r/seduction20/06/19 04:11 AM
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Save your pity for the guy who's wife is deepthroating the boss.
/r/seduction20/06/19 04:06 AM
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If you think I'm being a dick, you definitely wouldn't want to know me in real life. 😂😂✌
/r/seduction20/06/19 04:02 AM
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No shit. That's what I said in the post.
/r/seduction20/06/19 04:00 AM
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You understand I wrote this post right? I didn't seek her out. This ain't the poly subreddit. Trick.
/r/seduction20/06/19 03:56 AM
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She and you can keep your opinions off my thread. I don't want the girl I'm in a relationship with, fucking her old ass boss for money. Call me crazy.
/r/seduction20/06/19 03:46 AM
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Spin it as much as you want. A guy who let's his fiance fuck other dudes is not what we aspire to be. ✌😎
/r/seduction20/06/19 03:18 AM
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You talked him into making the relationship open because you wanted to fuck your boss. Now we know why you like men with no confidence. 😁
/r/seduction20/06/19 03:09 AM
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Yea, "now" you in an open relationship. That first time you fucked your boss on the desk tho, you cheated. 😎
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:38 AM
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You have a boyfriend tho. And you fuck your boss for money. This. This is why we don't take advice from women.
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:23 AM
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You would rather fuck your boss for money. 😂😂 Get off my thread. We have women here who preach one thing and do something different. Your story is hot tho. When I get old I'm definitely gonna be like your boss. Get a few sugar babies. 😎
/r/seduction20/06/19 12:50 AM
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Haha, check the username sweetheart. No problems here. There are females who like the dude who doesn’t know how to interact There are also females that have 6 toes. Good luck finding them. who doesn’t know how to talk to a woman than someone who’s overconfident and comes off cocky. I don't believe you. I guarantee the cocky guy is getting laid way more than the awkward guy. Obviously, because the awkward guy probably won't even speak. Why you wanna argue with me? What's wrong baby? Who hurt you?
/r/seduction20/06/19 12:31 AM
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Did you read the question? What are you talking about?
/r/seduction20/06/19 12:09 AM
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Not if yourself has no confidence. I can assure you overconfidence > no confidence. Take your motherly advice elsewhere.
/r/seduction20/06/19 12:08 AM
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By far, my favorite place to meet women is at the bar. Not the club, but a bar with a small dance floor. Also, local events like block parties are great for meeting women. It's usually local women with a few outsiders. I've been very lucky at these kind of events. The rest are places I've picked up women in the past couple months, but are usually places I pick up women. Hope this helps! Take a break from the online dating!
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:26 PM
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Hope it's not season 5...
/r/seduction18/06/19 02:33 AM
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Really, just showing interest. I usually end up fucking at some point, but not always. I say, it's more about how well you're escalating at the club. I think a lot of guys don't try for the same night sex, but more girls are open to it than you expect. Open body language I guess. I think you overthinking it though. Fact: Many girls are willing to fuck you same night. I wrote a post on it.
/r/seduction15/06/19 06:01 AM
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Damn, that's cold. 😂😂
/r/seduction15/06/19 03:49 AM
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Reply once or twice a week. Not everyday, but enough to keep her interest. Be careful, I had a girl like this and she was a nightmare. She would snap me all fuckin day every fuckin day about the dumbest shit.
/r/seduction15/06/19 03:45 AM
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Sounds like your approach wasn't confident. Either she's grown interest in you or you're completely friendzoned. Nothing wrong with getting her number through passing notes, but don't tell her she's cute, especially the first time, through text. I'd say ask her out again, in person.
/r/seduction15/06/19 03:42 AM
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Did you get your negotiation skills from Motherfucker Jones?
/r/seduction15/06/19 03:27 AM
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This is sad for some reason.
/r/seduction15/06/19 03:23 AM
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Doesn't work that way. I've tried with girls I thought were hoes and they didn't wanna hookup same night. Also, have tried girls who seemed completely stuck up or shy and fucked same night. You should just try regardless. There's no magic answer, "look for the girl that goes whooooo." I would say relaxed and open body language, but that doesn't mean you gonna smash same night. Yall know how people work, right?
/r/seduction15/06/19 03:20 AM
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Good vid bro. Why not just grab the number tho? You was right there. Probably could've set something up for the night.
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:30 AM
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Buy condoms right now. Fuck girls you're attracted to. You reject the girl then, possible to initiate a FWB situation here? You just rejected her. That was your opportunity. What am I missing? I fucked one of my female best friends and I passed on fucking another. Basically, your same situation. I wish I would've fucked her...
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:26 AM
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I found it. He basically follows girls in insta that he sees on tinder. He follows and likes a couple pics, then, if they follow back, he shoots his shot. I haven't tried it personally, but he's been really successful because he has a good instagram.
/r/seduction11/06/19 11:26 PM
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Just slang for really good.
/r/seduction11/06/19 10:30 PM
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"why do you want my number?" "So we can hangout and get to know each other better." The insta approach should be fine, but I really just try to get numbers. That's just me. Btw, somebody in my post history had a fire approach for meeting girls on insta. Might be a great addition for you since you have a good page.
/r/seduction11/06/19 07:03 PM
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Just keep trying. It happens. Possibly she'll let you smash eventually. Might take a month or longer. I'm thinking, she probably has gained a bit of a "reputation" for being easy or a hoe. So now, she's trying to slow things down as far as her body count. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction11/06/19 06:59 PM
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If she's dancing in front of you, get behind her and start dancing. She'll probably stop and look at you for a second, then go back to dancing with you. She knows she started dancing in front of you. But, I feel like rejection can happen more with this approach. If she's to the side, either approach her from the front and start dancing. Or, grab her hand confidently and pull her slowly towards you. That works better for me than just jumping behind her.
/r/seduction11/06/19 06:55 PM
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Kickboxing class, yoga, and pilates usually are primarily women.
/r/seduction11/06/19 06:46 PM
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Do you have class with her or just see her on campus? Just open a conversation. Planning out what to say isn't usually helpful. You want to sound organic, not canned pickup line.
/r/seduction11/06/19 06:44 PM
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Facts. You could be on a date that goes nowhere, then meet a girl and have sex with her the same night. That's just life.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:11 AM
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"Ugh...Gaaaaaayyyyyy!"
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:08 AM
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Why do you have to be better than her? Just connect with her like the 9's you're apparently banging.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:07 AM
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I agree with kenic that she wanted you to escalate but you didn't. I tried salvaging it by saying I guarantee everything you said after this fucked it up worse.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:02 AM
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I agreed until the end. Blind confidence CAN get you laid. Women want a confident man. The source of that confidence doesn't matter.
/r/seduction09/04/19 01:02 AM
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It's hilarious what guys think will get them laid. A Camaro? I was banging girls in my '89 tracer hatchback. When I bought a brand new truck, I still got the same amount of action. More guys notice your new car than women.
/r/seduction09/04/19 01:00 AM
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These help increase testosterone too! Yea, so stop fapping.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:56 AM
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Lake or a park off in the cut. But, during the day that can be tough because ppl can show up randomly. I've got bjs in parking garages, was still kinda paranoid though. You gonna have a hard time finding a place before 4pm. I used to fuck this one girl at my friend's house when I was in high school cause she was on 6 to 6. That's just so early in the day.
/r/seduction03/03/19 09:31 PM
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I started meditating a year ago and it's great. I guess I have my whole life because I always used visualization for sports and it really helped. I have an oddly specific question. In the movie Mile 22, the guy in custody is meditating while tapping his thumb on his index finger and middle finger back and forth. They mentioned in the movie it was some special forces type of meditation. Idk. Have you heard of that? Or do you know what it's called? I know that's a fuckin random question, but it lo…
/r/seduction03/03/19 09:23 PM
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You have to breathe and relax yourself. Relaxed body language is the most natural looking. Something is likely making you anxious. If not, you should research confident body language. I'm putting together some materials, but I like the book, "what everybody's saying. " Joe Navarro is the author. Or just google confident body language. These will increase your confidence as well.
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:01 PM
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Swing and a miss
/r/seduction03/03/19 04:54 PM
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This is pretty much the ego. But, I can agree. I'm not keen on every guy jumping straight to cold approaching though. Depends on social skill level. Developing good social skills helps with cold approach.
/r/seduction03/03/19 04:21 AM
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Some girls are just naturally teasers, so you come across them sometimes. If it's happening to you a lot, you fucking up somewhere.
/r/seduction03/03/19 04:16 AM
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Being awkward throws our body language out of sync. It's like when you think, "something is weird about that guy, but I don't know what." We have that internal alarm that tells us something is wrong, even if we don't know exactly what it is. Women are more perceptive to these kind of things because they have more of a need to feel safe for obvious reasons. That's also the reason women are quicker to use the word creepy.
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:55 AM
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That's definitely not montel williams.
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:44 AM
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Confidence. Every other trait can be explained away. For example, women want a man with ambition, but many guys who work shit jobs still get laid. Confidence is all you need, seriously.
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:42 AM
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Usually, "too busy" means not interested. Otherwise, she would say, "I work Friday night, but I'm free Saturday night or Sunday afternoon." You can try again, but don't get your hopes up.
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:39 AM
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Hard to know the truth. I'm thinking she was being sarcastic. Also, just because she's not sexually attracted to you doesn't mean you're not attractive.
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:37 AM
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Yet, you're still preaching negging. You don't know me bro, don't act like you do. Haha!
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:02 AM
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The bible is for the sheeple. Think for yourself. You don't have to jump on every bandwagon that rolls past.
/r/MGTOW19/01/19 07:48 PM
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Yall sure can get stuck on some shit.
/r/MGTOW19/01/19 07:27 PM
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Womanly opinion or obvious conclusion?
/r/seduction13/11/18 07:14 PM
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So many pop ups. Can't see chart. My phone!
/r/seduction13/11/18 02:55 AM
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Nothing works 100% of the time when it comes to humans. Sheeesh. People criticize everything.
/r/seduction13/11/18 02:53 AM
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Swearing off women just seems so farfetched to me. Even if you become celibate for a lengthy time, that biology is eventually going to hit hard. That's "mother" nature.
/r/MGTOW210/11/18 06:01 AM
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I would have to disagree.
/r/MGTOW210/11/18 05:39 AM
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I lurk around here and it seems a large part of the community are guys that are upset because they got played by a woman. These guys don't plan on swearing off women though.
/r/MGTOW210/11/18 05:32 AM
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From your history: Nobody said it yet? Alright. More like Jennette McCurvy, am I right? :p Hahaha, and you post tons of pictures of girls. Stop fronting for the group.
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 05:29 AM
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You stopped thru my thread brotha. Hahaha. Push on.
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 03:47 AM
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Haha, you talking to the legendary playa. The universe bring me "pussy." I drop 2 pickup 3. I just wanna share my experience with the lesser experienced guys that, jumped into a relationship too early and got played. Now they mad.
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 03:30 AM
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Probably the majority have had a wife or long-term girlfriends. I'd be willing to bet the majority of them jumped into it too quickly. Guys should have a rotation of women for awhile so we can get experienced. Then, its easier to recognize red flags. You shouldn't have been deciding between 2 girls. You should've been been adding 6 more.
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 02:37 AM
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Sounds mental to me. I'm thinking you prefer brunettes so you imagine that you're more successful with them. Or you prefer blondes and you try too hard which decreases your success with them. I've heard of races playing a role because Asian girls love me for a fact, but hair color can be changed so easily. It's more about the types of girls you attract.
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:28 AM
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Ask a fisherman! Hahaha. Sound advice tho.
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:15 AM
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I've lurked around on here. I can guarantee you, a large number of these guys are simply upset and don't plan on swearing off women. You swore off women yet?
/r/MGTOW09/11/18 01:34 AM
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I would appreciate the feedback from you guys. Things like what's helpful, what's you think is missing, etc. Let me know my dudes!
/r/seduction08/11/18 10:00 PM
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Neither one of you have a car? I've received a few bj's in the parking lot because they're usually full of cars. Watch out for security!
/r/seduction01/11/18 03:39 AM
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Step 1: Talk to a girl. Not sure if you trolling because that makes no sense
/r/seduction01/11/18 03:36 AM
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You can't be serious
/r/seduction26/10/18 03:01 PM
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If you can't apply his knowledge, I think you need to read it more closely. know he's legit because he's clearly NOT perfect, whereas the guy who seems "too good" may be compensating or covering up something. Law 46: Never appear too perfect I don't think you've read too much Robert Greene.
/r/seduction26/10/18 03:00 PM
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If you can't apply his knowledge, I think you need to read it more closely. know he's legit because he's clearly NOT perfect, whereas the guy who seems "too good" may be compensating or covering up something. Law 46: Never appear too perfect I don't think you've read too much Robert Greene.
/r/seduction26/10/18 03:00 PM
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You can apply his knowledge without becoming him. Also, he's a best selling author, you think he's not enjoying his life? On his terms?
/r/seduction26/10/18 02:54 PM
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I didn't watch the whole video, but he seems successful. Was that a skyline? The guy is confident, though just looking at his appearance wouldn't seem like he's all that confident.
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:01 PM
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You can be confident without success. Just think about the starving artist or the broke college student. There's plenty of guys who carry themselves with confidence, but "shouldn't have anything to be confident about," from outside judgement.
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:01 AM
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Part of it is mindset. The bigger part is body language. Maintaining an open body language is key to showing people you're open. Also, being relaxed is key. When you look relaxed it rubs off on the people and relaxes them in return.
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:23 PM
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You're overthinking it. Obviously, she had a good time because she had sex with you. Im sure she also thinks it's obvious to you that she enjoyed herself. Don't get hung up on small stuff.
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:17 PM
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I just don't feel she is ready for a real relationship or is willing to take the initiative to build one. You just answered your own question. Sounds like she doesn't want anything serious. Some girls like to be lead and never take the lead. That's good for Fwb, bad for a serious relationship. She's probably just focused on her career, not dating. It happens.
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:02 PM
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Make a move. She's probably about to break up with the bf or he's boring her. You don't know their situation and shouldn't care. Unless he's your best friend, make your move on her.
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:58 PM
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What didn't she respond to? You made a few mistakes like this one tries taking off my shirt. And I pause and say I put on some weight and she says it's cool then. Always maintain your confidence. Girls aren't as superficial as guys. They're more concerned with confidence than appearance. But, she still let you hit. What's the problem?
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:56 PM
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Just progress from getting closer to her, to light touching, to holding hands, then hugging and kissing. If she's begging for it, shouldn't be that hard. I move into her personal space. Sit close to her or have her come sit close to you. Light touching on her arms, shoulders, thigh. Put my arm around her waist so she's really close to me. I don't always hold hands because arm around the waist is more bold. Whisper in her ear, then kiss her ear or cheek. Then, kissing til it's a make out session.…
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:51 PM
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B. You don't wanna start acting like her boyfriend after one hookup. That'll drive her away.
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:44 PM
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I know their shit just stinks as much as ours does. Keep thinking this. Pretty women still have insecurities. I always remind myself, being attractive doesn't make her good in bed.
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:41 PM
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/r/seduction17/10/18 05:27 PM
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Sex should help you sleep. What's the problem?
/r/seduction16/10/18 02:54 AM
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Closed mouths don't get fed.
/r/seduction16/10/18 02:25 AM
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Good. Don't wait too long to make your move. I'd go for it now, especially if she's showing interest.
/r/seduction15/10/18 05:25 AM
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Keep swiping man.
/r/seduction15/10/18 05:12 AM
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Sounds like you in the friendzone. You should've made your move when she told you she's on a break, but telling you to talk to other girls isn't usually a shit test.
/r/seduction15/10/18 05:10 AM
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Is she still acting like a hoe? She could've just had a wild stage. Probably should let her go. Sounds like you already got trust issues.
/r/seduction15/10/18 05:07 AM
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You think seduction only works on young dumb girls? You may have psychological issues because of your childhood. Any woman can be seduced. Just because a girl is smart and successful doesn't make her impervious to seduction. Also, look at yourself. Do you have that confidence to pull these women?
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:13 AM
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Sounds like she's depressed. Get out of the house as much as possible. Definitely don't sleep with her.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:02 AM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/seduction04/10/18 06:55 PM
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Thanks man. Yea, they'd rather treat than cure.
/r/seduction04/10/18 05:21 AM
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You'll probably have to go out more than one time. And try different places, not just the most popular club in town.
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:01 AM
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Start a new social circle in your new city. Do activities, meet new people, etc. If you just want to get laid, are you trying night game? That's the quickest way to get laid, especially if you're a decent looking guy.
/r/seduction04/10/18 12:54 AM
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Facts
/r/seduction04/10/18 12:43 AM
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Social skills along with comedic skills can definitely be developed. The people that "have it" actually come from social families where mom scheduled regular play dates or had friends with kids that would visit often. Without getting too heavy in the science, socializing forms new connections in your brain allowing you to think better on your feet. Even with comedy, everyone can be funny. But, it takes more than learning some jokes. Delivery, timing, relevance, body language, facial expression a…
/r/seduction04/10/18 12:43 AM
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You need to escalate when ya'll are hanging out drinking. Sounds like she likes you, but you're not making a move, so she thinks you're not that interested. You can only say so much through messages. You have to show intent through action or escalation.
/r/seduction03/10/18 08:06 PM
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Meditate. You're spending too much time in your mind. You need to be in the moment. Make a list of your strengths. You're listing your weaknesses which makes you insecure. Focus on what you like about yourself.
/r/seduction03/10/18 05:47 PM
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Im cooler than a polar bear in an igloo.
/r/seduction03/10/18 05:41 PM
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I've never hopped on a plane for a girl. 40 min plane ride is about a 6 hour drive. That's far. You should ask her what does she mean by you not being spicy enough? "Girl, I'm spicier than jalapeno peppers in green chili." Haha My advice would be find another girl because of logistics alone. Say you make the trip, will you need a hotel? Rental car? Sounds like too much work.
/r/seduction03/10/18 05:38 PM
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Is she flirting or just being extra friendly? Its tough to decipher between the two if she's working. Try to talk to her about things besides her work. Ask her how her weekend went, or what she does outside of work. Try to warm her up. Then, shoot your shot.
/r/seduction03/10/18 05:30 PM
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Remind her of the things ya'll were doing when it was getting hot and heavy. For example, "you looked so sexy when you were sitting on top of me." Then, guage her response. If she keeps it going, go a little further with the next text. If she doesn't say much, stop. Escalating through text depends almost entirely on the girl. Some girls fuck like pornstars, but don't want to "talk" about it. Just slowly push the boundaries of sexting with her. I can only think of a few times I escalated successf…
/r/seduction03/10/18 05:24 PM
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You have to take opportunities. Even if the friend is there. Be confident. You can message her, but messaging a girl to go out that you see regularly is kinda lame.
/r/seduction03/10/18 03:00 AM
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Sounds like she's just a flirt. I wouldn't ruin things with my best friend over those flirts. And it sounds like you might be building things up in your head. Especially with the panty stealing and screenshots. That's called obsessive. My opinion, find other cougars. Unless she throws the pussy at you, don't make that move. Just my opinion because I'll do some fucked up shit, but I cant bang my best friends mom.
/r/seduction03/10/18 12:57 AM
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First, you need to keep escalating and try to have sex with her. That way you'll know where you stand. Sounds like she wants to have sex with you, but you haven't really tried. Second, a girl won't normally invite you to her college hours away just to tease you. It happens, but rarely. I've driven 2 hours to spend the night or weekend with girls. If you're not busy, why not? But, you should make sure yall are in that sexual relationship before just making a 3 hour drive. Also, say something like…
/r/seduction03/10/18 12:47 AM
1

Why the falling out? Was it serious? Sounds like it's not a good move tho.
/r/seduction03/10/18 12:29 AM
3

Her talking to him again after it almost ruined the relationship is a huge red flag. 1.5 years is a long time, but the way you described those texts would make it hard to trust her again. I think you should keep your options open and prepare to cut her off. Guys cheat physically, women cheat emotionally.
/r/seduction03/10/18 12:28 AM
1

Ask her in person.
/r/seduction03/10/18 12:21 AM
2

Men are hunters.
/r/seduction30/09/18 12:45 AM
1

Text her. Keep it short and simple. "Hey, let's go hangout at the mall today at 6."
/r/seduction27/09/18 07:06 PM
0

Nah bruh. Women like confidence in a man. I wouldn't even say, "excuse me." Just focus on confident body language and speaking confidently.
/r/seduction27/09/18 07:00 PM
3

So 10th grade? "Let's go hangout at the mall today" or "let's grab some food." Worth a try, but when you wait so long to make a move, it decreases your chances.
/r/seduction27/09/18 06:57 PM
2

Text her with specific plans. The sooner the better. I would try to set something up for tonight or tomorrow night.
/r/seduction27/09/18 06:54 PM
4

Do yourself a favor and get laid. You gonna tell me you meet all these women and none of them are interesting? I call bullshit. Sounds like you mad.
/r/seduction27/09/18 06:45 PM
4

Sounds like you trying to justify your lack of success with women.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:10 AM
17

go across the room to talk to her This is the boldest move. She'll see your big balls if you do this. But, you gotta be more direct of you gonna be this ballsy. Your indirect approach would be better suited for after class.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:00 AM
1

Don't ask. Just sit down as you're talking to her. Or sit down and start talking to her. If nobody's stuff is there, the seat isn't taken. It's best if you can sit right next to her, but can still work if you sit behind or in front her.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:57 AM
1

Keep your options open. Not much information, but it sounds like she's checking out. Maybe she has other shit stressing her out. Or she wants to be free. Don't. I repeat. Don't express your insecurities. That'll make things way worse.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:49 AM
2

Try to spend more time hanging out with her. She's your neighbor in the dorms. You can't ask for a better scenario.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:44 AM
1

Yea, I can feel that. However, you have an easy opener. You gotta shoot those free throws my guy. "Hey, are you from Riverside? Me too! What high school did you go to? Do you miss home? " Your hometown is an easy connection between the two of you."
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:42 AM
9

Is it assigned seats? If not, sit by her. Otherwise, talk to her after class.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:33 AM
1

she wears hoodies/shirts that I recognize from that city, as I'm from that city too. We go to a university that's kind of far from the city, so that could be one talking point. You answered your own question. Sack up and talk to her.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:25 AM
1

"Not typically, but I had to talk to you. "
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:09 PM
2

She's insecure and was from the start. Then, you ignored the red flags and moved in together. You dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:08 PM
1

Hard to tell. Were you scheduling the dates to far in advance? I try not to schedule anything more than 3 days out. So if I meet a girl today, no later than Wednesday or Thursday. Personally, I try to always go for the next night, tomorrow. Nothing wrong with trying to reschedule. If they ghost, forget about her. Worst thing you can do is blow her phone up. Sometimes they come back around.
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:05 PM
2

Just say hi, and acknowledge them. That's social proof and will help you pick up new girls.
/r/seduction22/09/18 09:26 PM
1

Just make yourself make those bold moves. No courage without fear. Mediation would probably help you. You're in your head too much. Be mindful.
/r/seduction22/09/18 09:24 PM
1

Find other girls. Tell her you're not looking for a relationship. But you risk fucking her and getting your car keyed up.
/r/seduction22/09/18 09:01 PM
4

If you can't connect with her. Why would she fuck you? Because you asked a bunch of questions about her? Your game goes nowhere. You're lucky she answered that many questions. Being mysterious doesn't mean tell her nothing about yourself.
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:29 PM
1

Go hangout with the girls. Stop saying you're always busy.
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:07 PM
3

"Cool, I like outdoors too! I'm a hell of a fisherman. I want to try hiking. Where do you hike?"
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:06 PM
1

Stop making up excuses?
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:04 PM
2

You're more interviewing her. Try to find a connection between the two of you. You sound like entertainment tonight or TMZ.
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:01 PM
12

"Do I know you?" Their probably bots.
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:14 PM
2

You should've been escalating, but doesn't sound like you did. I say, forget about her for a year. That's way too far out to try running game. Maybe message her a week before you go back. You snooze, you lose.
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:13 PM
1

You'll have to be creative on that one. Try to hangout with her flat mate in the room,but not sexually, hopefully she'll stop by. You could just knock on the door. Depends on the school. It's usually not weird, but I guess it could be kinda stalkerish. That was a regular thing in my dorms, everyone pretty much knew where everyone lived. Always get the number so you can pursue.
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:07 PM
1

You're way overthinking. Sounds like you allowed yourself to be friendzoned by the other more attractive girls because you thought they were outta your league. That's why they don't make you nervous. You feel like this average Asian girl is attainable. That makes you nervous. That's what I think. Also, just because a girl is average doesn't make her unattractive. We all have different ideas of sexy and something about her salutes your soldier. When you need help with math, ask her. Ask her if ya…
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:49 PM
3

Idk man. Not trying to be a dick, but maybe you're not as attractive as you think. In college and haven't really talked to girls? Were you homeschooled? If I e.g. see a girl waiting before class, how do I start talking to her? Introduce yourself. Then just talk. Talk about the class, "Let's go skip class today." Or "are you liking this class?" You can talk about things outside of class. Anything like, "you going to Joe's party this weekend?" Or "you going to the play tomorrow?" You just need to …
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:33 PM
1

Hit her up and say, "let's hangout tonight." In general, escalate towards sex. You shouldn't be aiming to kiss her at the end of the night. Go for it earlier than that.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:17 PM
1

Yea, pulling her in by the waist would've been better.
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:54 PM
8

Sounds like a longshot, but worth a try. "I'm not gonna fuck around, I think you're attractive and think we should have one last meet up if you're down". I wouldn't say this. Keep it simple. Don't say you think she's attractive. And don't say one last meetup. "Let's grab drinks tomorrow night."
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:18 AM
3

Ideally, you want her sitting beside you so your bodies are closer to each other. Don't wait for the end of the date to go for the kiss. You want to create sexual tension so yall can keep it going in private.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:11 AM
1

It's normal, but don't do it. You're building her up in your head and she'll never live up to that in reality. Also, this can lead to needy behavior that'll fuck up your chances with her. Imagine yourself with scarlett Johansson.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:05 AM
1

Depends on the girl and what kind of kino. If she's just touching your arm, nah. If she's "grabbing" your arm, touching your chest, rubbing her body on yours, yes.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:02 AM
3

She sounds like a tease. Or your "kino" was unnatural. Touching is very important to seduction, but if it seems unnatural it won't work. Sounds like you were working through a process and she probably thought, "wtf is he doing with my arm?" I like the idea of kino, but some of that shit is stupid. Palm reading, gently stroking her arm, sounds weird. Think more of closing space. Pull your bodies closer together. If you're touching her, but still sitting far away, kiss ain't gonna fly.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:00 AM
3

She started to giggle and she seemed nervous so i backed off, didnt make a move. You should've kept escalating. Were you sitting across from her? I ask because you said you rubbed her leg with your leg. You should've been getting closer to her. "Why you sitting way over there? Come sit here." A dead bar is the perfect place to escalate to a full on make out session, then look to go to your place or her place when things are getting heated.
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:53 AM
1

Text specific plans then dont text or call til she replies.
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:47 AM
1

You're doing good by joining clubs and activities. You should do that regardless. There's no way to guarantee you wont meet crazy girls. They exist everywhere, online, in clubs, in running club, doesn't matter. Take a look at the clubs you visit. A hole in the wall bar is more likely to have crazy girls, but sane girls can be there too. An upscale club, usually more expensive, will be less likely to have crazy girls because they probably have their life together to spend more money on fun. But, …
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:38 AM
2

Her thinking you're attractive and being attracted to you are two different things. Once a woman puts you in that "friend" category, its usually difficult for her to think of you in a sexual way.
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:21 AM
10

Girls are different because they're not entirely visual like men. I lost my v-card to a girl that had no attraction to me. She hated football. I was a football player. She gave me no interest. I kept trying, then she realized I wasn't a "typical dumb jock." Some women like persistence and don't want to be seen as too "easy." Also, if a girl sees you with another girl, that can spark her interest. But, I can agree with not wasting time on a girl showing no interest.
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:17 AM
19

"If you want to learn how to fish, dont ask the fish, ask the fisherman." -Some guy smarter than me
/r/seduction24/08/18 03:27 PM
1

Supposedly, up and to the left is honesty. Up and to the right is a lie. You have to read multiple nonverbal cues to make a better assumption.
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:22 PM
3

"Oh man, self improvement, you gotta GAME, don't hate the player, hate the GAME, 500 girls a day, this is a SYSTEM, step-by-STEP playa, numbers game, NO COLD DEAD LEADS, etc. etc. etc." Idk about all that, but this is the seduction sub. Nothing wrong with trying to reconnect, but it sounds like you're relying on this one old fling way too much. That could lead to needy behavior, very unattractive, and she could cut you off or friendzone you. Look to find someone new. If your old fling hits you b…
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:16 PM
1

Maybe not?
/r/seduction04/08/18 07:55 PM
9

Really just a heroic image women craft in their mind. Same with firefighters, police, etc.
/r/seduction04/08/18 07:55 PM
2

Work on socializing with different friends from different groups. Popularity goes a long way in high school. Sounds like you good everywhere else.
/r/seduction04/08/18 07:52 PM
1

Go. Her friend could leave at some point. Good luck brotha.
/r/seduction04/08/18 03:46 AM
3

OP number 2 response is good. Or, something like, "you say that now, wait til you see my dance moves." Basically implying, she wants it too. Like the others said, it's a good sign when she brings up sex first. Just keep calm, and don't talk your way out of sex.
/r/seduction03/08/18 04:50 PM
6

I didn't mean to be rude. I guess I've just been annoyed with women giving bad advice in this sub. Seems to happen a lot more now. Truth is, men use logic, women use emotions. That's why women can't logically explain to men, how to get women. I've suffered embarrassment listening to women's advice several times in the past. So, I appreciate you trying to be helpful, but no thanks, I'll pass.
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:34 PM
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I already get with women, and it wasn't because of women's advice. Damn, get over yourself. Why do you women think you can give advice about seduction? O cuz your a woman? Stop it.
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:16 PM
19

Sounds like woman advice... Ugh, what happened to seddit?
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:04 PM
12

"Hey man, don't you have something to do?" Hahaha
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:01 PM
121

More than half. I'd say, 84% of the time you'll sleep with her that night. Seriously though, it's a good sign when she brings up sex first.
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:59 PM
1

I would come home from college and fuck girls at my parents house. Basement room with separate entry. 😎
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:46 AM
8

I had a similar thought not too long ago. I still crack the jokes, just not as many and not as often. Part of it is maturing. Most of those things we did in hs and college were immature. As an adult you can still have this confidence without going overboard. Just make friends. Probably guy friends you can get drinks with, but sometimes they can interfere with seduction so pick wisely.
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:37 AM
1

Only in these PUA places does it seem accepted to do this You came to this sub. A sub about seducing women, to ask "what you should do about your girl fucking another dude?" She's not your girl, so stop investigating her. I was thinking,maybe she is at a girlfriend's house, but sounds like you have solid evidence. Also, don't let a girl tell you when she'll meet your parents. You decide. The cold hard truth is, she wants to fuck this guy and possibly other guys. Why? You probably let her dictate…
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:26 AM
1

Make some friends, expand your social circle. 18 year olds do the house party thing which makes it easy to hook up with girls. You need to be at those parties. Definitely talk to girls and try to escalate. I'm not a fan of the negging suggested by other guys. Making a joke in good fun is cool, but calling a girl fat is doing too much.
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:36 AM
2

"Damn baby you looked so sexy in that tight pink dress." "I'm gonna kiss up your thighs and bite you on the ass." Hahaha pretty much.
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:28 AM
3

You definitely have to meet her in person. Anything you text her will likely be creepy because you got her number from a friend. Edit: And you need to get her number from her lips.
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:23 AM
2

"Let's grab drinks Friday night at Joe's lounge." Stop calling her.
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:22 AM
2

If you're having a conversation about something at the club say, "come to my place so you can see my art collection, meet my dog, watch my old audition...etc." Also, "come to my place to drink some more," works for me. Just always keep a bottle and soda at home. I try to text the next day because it's easy to forget people you met when you were clubbing and drinking. Say something like, "last night was fun, insert something specific about the night, let's grab coffee later today." If she is busy…
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:19 AM
1

When things are getting heated, put her hand on your dick and kinda guide her that way with your arm around her back or hip. Don't guide her by the back of her head. At the same time, sit your upper body back. If she's with it, she'll make her way down there. If not, she'll keep kissing on you and just jerking it.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:59 PM
8

Just ask. Don't waste time on a girl you're not attracted to.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:49 PM
1

I'm not a fan of canned lines. Try to be witty and come up with something on the spot. If you can't come up with something clever or funny on the spot, just introduce yourself. Most guys try those canned lines and end up sounding like a used car salesman. She's thinking, "how many times has he used that line?"
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:19 PM
14

Get out of your head. Be 100% in the current environment. Look around at everybody. Notice the colors, the smells, the people. Meditation helps you get out of your head. It's really just self-doubt that gives you that fear. Also, realize 90% of the people there have that same self-doubt and aren't paying you attention because they're more worried about their own shortcomings.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:06 PM
1

I did. I identify most with the rake. I find my desire for women seems to attract them even more. I also keep myself mysterious by not being an open book about everything. I naturally have a dark side, so it's easy to show her glimpses of that. However, I don't just pursue women in relationships. Like the book said. I wouldn't limit myself like that. I also find good success as the charmer, but I assume I mix in some rake. The book really helped me with the challenges of dealing with a coquette.…
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:01 PM
12

Sounds sketchy because real women don't usually say, "want to see more?"
/r/seduction23/07/18 02:09 AM
5

Haha... bruh. Those are cam models or bots.
/r/seduction23/07/18 01:57 AM
6

Are you pushing for the nudes? If she, on her own, sends suggestive pics, play it cool. Don't reply with, "let me see them titties." Sounds like you're getting too excited about getting nudes. Play it cool like you've seen naked women before. It's nice to get nudes, but I've seen sometimes the girl freaks out later. She acts on impulse, then regrets it later.
/r/seduction23/07/18 01:37 AM
3

Nah, don't hit her back up. If she contacts you, that's fine.
/r/seduction23/07/18 01:10 AM
-1

Viagra?
/r/MGTOW23/07/18 12:03 AM
3

Sounds like the beginning of a pick up line.
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:41 PM
1

That's an interesting strategy you have. Sounds like it's working well enough. Keep it up brotha.
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:22 PM
2

Very nice. Did you meet them online? Coffee is so effective for dating. Especially online.
/r/seduction22/07/18 09:56 PM
1

Tldr: OP too far in the friendzone.
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:30 PM
1

What changed? Bad breakup? Sounds like you need to get over some shit then you'll be good. Sex in high school is a good sign you, at least "had" social skills. You can get it back pretty quickly.
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:12 PM
3

“I am going to kiss you by the time this conversation is over” I wouldn't rock with this one. You can make your intentions known with body language and touching like your other examples. But, I very rarely verbalize my intentions. Even better than the magic arms is to just put your arms around the small of her back, or hips. You expect her to wrap her arms around your neck. That's a more confident move. Me: Ok, so when we get married we’re going to get a dog together… Whoa...
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:07 PM
36

That's tough. Pakistan does have a negative stigma. My cousin married a Pakistani woman and I had some negative thoughts initially. She's cool tho. Maybe just say the city? Or lie and say another country really close by. If you're looking to get laid. If you're looking for a serious relationship, just keep telling the truth. Some girls will be cool with it.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:51 PM
2

When you meet with the circle your trying to get into, have them sit down. But you stand up and walk around the room. I believe there's a similar scenario in 48 laws of power.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:42 PM
49

Yea. I try to have sex on the first date.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:36 PM
8

Sit close to her. Lean into her. Put your arm around her and pull her into you. Make your moves confidently. Girls like bold moves like that.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:31 PM
7

It is mostly American women, but in my experience, they're the most difficult. Foreign women seem less caring about things like status and potential. All women like confidence. No matter the culture.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:23 PM
2

Hard to say. Depends on where you started. Do you have some social skills or have you been a hermit? Do you have some confidence? Good self-image? Working at a bar will get you lots of practice with your social skills on the worst of drunk people.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:18 PM
2

Wow...somebody salty.
/r/seduction21/07/18 07:37 PM
1

Sounds interesting. Good luck dude!
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:28 PM
1

Talk to her when you see her tomorrow. Even better, ask her out.
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:27 PM
1

I used to talk like that when I was a virgin too. In 9th grade.
/r/seduction08/06/18 02:28 PM
1

Awkwardness implies honesty. I can't move pass this bahahaha 😂🤣😂 Stop trying to rationalize shit to make yourself feel better. Learn to dance so you won't look or feel awkward instead of saying, "she'll think I'm honest. Lol. If awkward meant honest, this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/seduction08/06/18 02:14 PM
1

Right, "your house." Hahaha Your mom should've swallowed.
/r/seduction08/06/18 01:52 PM
1

Hahaha. 💀Keep telling yourself that bruh. Lmao Good luck beating your meat.
/r/seduction08/06/18 01:46 PM
0

Because she's probably going to puke on him before he gets to hide the sausage. Why so insecure?
/r/seduction08/06/18 01:37 PM
2

That's a serious assumption. From a quick video. Point is, women can be awkward and weird. And sometimes its better to just walk away. Edit: Get out ya feelings.
/r/seduction08/06/18 01:31 PM
2

Like you said, car is the best place. Sometimes a park with little light and a table. Watch out for popo. Edit: I used to sneak girls in my room. Lower level basement bedroom, through the window.
/r/seduction08/06/18 04:34 AM
1

Meant to add the links. Thats my fault.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:39 AM
1

Of course, otherwise you'd just ask someone who works there.
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:19 PM
6

Thanks for chiming in. Socializing in a grocery store is completely normal and happens a lot. I think some people overlook the potential of meeting someone new during the day. Great username.
/r/seduction23/03/18 01:55 PM
1

Yea. I think that can be said for almost item. You sound like a pro chef asking about margarine.
/r/seduction23/03/18 01:48 PM
16

That's great for you. Some women are open to meeting new people anywhere. These are meant to gauge openness. I have been eye rolled. I've also set up dates for later. I appreciate you giving your perspective and respect it. But, I found out a long time ago not to take advice about women from a woman.
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:07 AM
1

No problem at all. If she's with it, go for it.
/r/seduction23/03/18 01:19 AM
1

If your date is flirting with you, flirt back! Laughing and touching your hand/arm is clearly an invitation to escalate. You should always be escalating. You definitely should've hopped on that train with her. I'm probably not like most people, but I've walked miles back home just because I wanted to get some. I'll figure out how to get home later.
/r/seduction23/03/18 12:35 AM
1

New user. No posts, no other comments.
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:13 PM
2

Expand your social circle. Groups, hobbies, intramural athletics. Meeting more people helps you meet more women. House parties are the best for picking up in college. I also recommend becoming a regular at your favorite club. Get to know the bartenders by name.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:30 PM
3

Haha, very interesting. I assume she already asked for one. If not, then don't do it. I think it's basic photo principles. Lighting, good angle, flex.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:25 PM
2

You fell in love with a hoe. You could've kept hitting, but you don't wanna ltr a hoe. Im thinking she realized you were catching feelings and wanted to make it clear she's just having fun. Blocking her makes it seem like you're in your feelings. But, if you can't handle the snaps, you have to. Regardless, you gotta let those feelings go. She's enjoying yourself and you have to do the same.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:53 AM
1

Of course not. Two situations could be similar but not the same. I remember you. I gave you really specific advice. I even did some research to give you a better answer. Was it autisim?
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:22 AM
1

Good advice is good for my business. It's actually a hobby because I already run a business. I'm also a consultant. That's how I make my money. It's never helpful to give "bad advice." Not for me anyway. The more people I can help, the better for everyone. That guy is obviously gay and has no life. Demanding shirtless photos of me. I couldnt even read all the shit he was typing. Who does that?
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:30 PM
1

Download a free meditation app. Learning to focus on your breath and clear your mind will help clear negative thoughts anytime.
/r/seduction16/03/18 11:47 PM
8

Dont go out tonight looking for a guaranteed close. It doesnt work that way. Go out to hangout with your friends, have some drinks and meet new women. That's a better mindset. If she's into you, you have to escalate. You gotta take the shot. And leave the porn alone. Keep yourself busy af.
/r/seduction16/03/18 11:41 PM
5

Btw, I'm not a fan of the workplace hookups unless she throws it at you. If you still want to pursue, ask her to lunch.
/r/seduction16/03/18 10:38 PM
13

Not a strong sign at all. She likely just doesn't want her coworkers to think she's this wild, crazy, party girl. Sounds more like reputation management than interest.
/r/seduction16/03/18 10:36 PM
1

Lmao, don't make excuses for spelling like a 2nd grader. Haha.
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:54 PM
1

Do you know what a side side hustle is? Haha, the correct spelling is metaphor you dumbshit. I couldn't care less where you are gayboy.
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:48 PM
1

If you think it's unattainable, then it will be. I appreciate the feedback. You need to get your confidence up man. It's not easy, but well worth the work and effort.
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:09 PM
-1

You're so lame you cant quote correctly. I said helping guys get pussy is my, "side side hustle." Except you, you'll never get laid because you have a negative, pessimistic mindset.
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:06 PM
1

Its so funny how you think your made up frame is supposed to hurt my feelings. The big difference between me and you is I fuck girls, while you fuck your hand. But, keep the hate going. That'll probably be another post. If people ain't hating on you, you live a pussy life. If you don't have enemies you're not trying hard enough in life. You think an online argument is the trenches? Bahahaha. You gets no pussy bruh, why would anyone hear you? Last time you got some pussy is when you were born bec…
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:03 PM
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Btw, stop posting pics. You look like a lesbian.
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:40 PM
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Why you so gay tho? Why you always asking for pics of ppl? Because you need validation. Guess what, my book is the shit, so is my site, so is my life. Who really gives a fuck about upvotes? You think this is my life? Haha, this is my side side hustle. Just like your mom is my side side bitch. It's obvious by the volume of writing you're doing that you whack. Who would waste this much time talking shit online? I'm done fuckin wit you. Yo heart pumps kool-aid. And you softer than wet toilet paper.…
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:39 PM
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Your mom still should've swallowed.
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:29 PM
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Your mom should've swallowed.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:39 PM
1

Rep yo city. Where you at fag?
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:21 PM
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Lmao, are you standing on a chair? Bahahaha Bruh, what you way 130, 140? You half my size lil dude. I been lifting for 17 years. Talking about gains. Strength is my life. You look and sound so insecure. Talking about status and education. Last time I made minimum wage was in HS. And I have a college degree. But, none of that matters because you ain't on my level. I've been to jail for beating up sissy bitches like you. And I ain't trynna go back. Also, I keep the stick for anybody who want smoke…
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:45 PM
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Counseling? You should still have other things going. Not just seduction as your whole life. When you get to the point that just sex is meaningless, time to look for a serious relationship.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:15 AM
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I was keeping it logical, remember, you got personal. Keep reading your philosopher's, but if you need a book to argue logically, you're gonna have a bad time. You sound like a politically correct bitch. I would like to see you stand up for that person getting made fun of in my hood. You'd get killed. You're the type of guy that talks a good game, but when shit hits the fan you run with the rest of the pussies. I'm respected highly among men. That's how i know you a bitch because you talk shit h…
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:32 AM
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Not always. I have rich friends that still struggle with women. Hell, look at Harvey Weinstien. The type of girls who are attracted to wealth are the type of girls to avoid.
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:23 AM
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The list of author's and philosopher's to read is endless. Plus, reading doesn't have much effect on masculinity. Plenty of manly men don't even read. Just some generic bullshit people say. Probably came from a mens health article. Who you else will you be loyal to, your enemies? Also, generic. So generic it hurts. This is a list to increase masculinity. Not "values every man should have." I wanted to put together actionable items to help guys out. Not generic bullshit we've heard our entire lif…
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:52 AM
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Be more outgoing? Talk to more people? There's a big difference between shy and serious. I've been told I'm kind of unapproachable at times or I look mean. It's just my face. Im not walking around everywhere with a big fake smile looking like a clown.
/r/seduction14/03/18 10:03 PM
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Really all you can do is be friendly. Flirt here and there. I'm not a big fan of the workplace hookups unless you can afford to lose the job. Are you thinking ltr with this girl hopping on different office dicks? I hope you just meant to hit it again.
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:55 PM
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Text her at least once a day while you're on vacation. I would even try to call every few days. Needy is different when you're trynna bang girls as opposed to being in a serious relationship. Y'all are supposed to talk frequently if you're working towards being exclusive. I don't like that she wanted to check out some other guy and made you wait. Proceed with caution. But, it happens sometimes and people end up in happy relationships. Still, be careful.
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:50 PM
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Once a day for me, but I don't think there's a definitive number.
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:15 PM
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You said frat boy, so I gave an example of celeb gossip. I was really thinking mass shootings, political scandal, anything popular in the news that's covered by nearly every news source. This helps with banging chicks because the art of conversation plays a role in attraction. Women love to talk. The more you can talk about with her, the more she'll form a connection in her mind with you. Of course you shouldn't be relating to her on a feminine level agreeing, "Brad Pitt is hot." That's a femini…
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:13 PM
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Perez hilton and tmz are the extremes of celebrity gossip. I'm talking general pop culture news. Since when are people on the bachelor celebs? My college roommate was one of the bachelor's a few years ago and he's still a nobody. The more you know about the news and what's going on in the world, the more conversations you can take part in which expands your social circle. When I said, "speak intelligently," I meant hold a conversation about that topic and possibly contribute. Obviously, intellig…
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:05 PM
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I believe you have to meditate to take a cold shower. That's the only way to slow down your heart rate. When that cold water first hits me, feels like I'm gonna die. Then, I clear my mind and slow my breathing. Thats when I feel like a boss.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:51 PM
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That guy is a troll. I always get the number because I want to get personal. Some guys preach about the success of getting social media contact, but I think that makes it easier for her to friendzone or ghost you. Getting the number shows more intent and takes more balls. Women like a man with balls.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:47 PM
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Cold showers spike testosterone levels and calm your mind. I'll see if I can find the research about why cold water spikes testosterone because I can't remember why. Taking a cold shower is uncomfortable until you calm your mind and relax. It's basically a type of meditation. Meditation helps when talking to women because you need to clear your mind for the best interactions. That way you're not thinking negative thoughts or about the outcome. You should be in the moment, not in your head.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:18 PM
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Frat boy Chad can talk to the girls at his frat party about celebrity gossip. Being able to mingle with different groups of people is the key. Another plus, is having different conversation threads that you can speak intelligently about.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:09 PM
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Socialize more. You can easily make friends by joining an intermural league for some sport. They usually hangout after the games too.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:26 AM
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Tl;dr 1. Stick your chest out 2. Speak louder and slower 3. Shadowbox 4. Listen to a podcast of current news 5. Go fishing Bonus: Go to the range
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:12 AM
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When yall were sitting down you should've been escalating. You could've said you're hard of hearing as an excuse to get into her personal space. Then, light touching, longer touching, and go for the kissing. Sounds like you didn't have logistics planned though, so it would've been car sex or something like that.
/r/seduction11/03/18 06:25 PM
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Move on. None of those messages sounded promising.
/r/seduction11/03/18 06:16 PM
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I think so man. Haha. I thought this was seddit.
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:05 AM
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Im glad someone with balls stopped by. hope that by encouraging “good behavior” they’ll somehow save themselves from being cheated on. I didn't even think about this, but that makes sense. Haha. I've been cheated on before. Truth is, it was my fault. I stopped paying attention to her. I took her for granted. Lesson learned and I kept it moving. The game doesn't care about your feelings.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:48 AM
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Smash, cram, fuck, I couldn't care less about semantics. We're all here to find girls to have sex. That's the goal of seduction. I correctly defined homewrecker. Guys like you have just redefined the word to use as an excuse for why you didn't get laid. Ask your mom to define a homewrecker. I'm not dissing you, I'm telling you to ask her because that word was created by an older generation. You obviously didn't read the post because OP doesn't know this guy. I also said, "I wouldn't fuck a close…
/r/seduction10/03/18 11:41 PM
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Solid facts here. Good shit my dude. I think guys really need to read this.
/r/seduction10/03/18 10:09 PM
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the expediency of sex This one. Ain't that the point? My social life was already good, but online dating still allowed me to meet girls I otherwise wouldn't have. Whether it be in other parts of the city, smaller towns, etc. do you really think 8/9/10s need to be on dating apps to have dudes that want to fuck them hanging around? No. So why are they there? Because they don't have time to go out. The CFO was always working so it turned into a fwb situation for about a year. She was a 10. Also, ha…
/r/seduction10/03/18 10:03 PM
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It's hilarious to me how you guys think you can save an entire relationship by not smashing. If she's insecure in her relationship she's gonna fuck somebody. If not you, it'll be the next guy that comes along. You dont know her situation. She could be on the way out the door with that guy. Maybe he sits on the couch playing video games all day. Maybe he verbally abuses her. Either way, if she's secure in her relationship, you won't stand a chance. Also, let me explain a homewrecker. A homewrecke…
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:43 PM
1

Instead of just looking from your peripheral, try to make eye contact by turning your head or looking in the mirror. Sometimes they are checking you out. Sometimes they're looking at something else or just thinking. The only way to know is to catch her checking you out.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:19 PM
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Report deez nuts. I hope you get chlamydia.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:14 PM
1

Dating apps are your target market. It allows you to meet women you wouldn't have normally met. And they're obviously single, usually haha. a large majority of the women on dating apps lack social skills Many women on apps are normal women that enjoy the efficiency of online dating. I've smashed nurses, police officers, even a CFO online. It doesn't happen overnight. It takes time and persistence, but I've had some serious success online.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:10 PM
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Smash. The only thing that should stop you from smashing a girl with a bf, is if the bf is one of your, "close friends." I don't know your living situation. But, I only reply to a 2am text with, "come thru." If she reply with anything other than, "omw," Im going to sleep. I personally don't care about being a homewrecker because it's not my fault, it's her mans fault. He the one not keeping her satisfied. And its her fault because she's in the relationship.
/r/seduction10/03/18 06:51 PM
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Sounds like you're on the right path. I wouldn't delete all the dating apps. Maybe just pick one app. But, you're right about needing social skills. Find a group to join that meets up at least weekly.
/r/seduction10/03/18 06:40 PM
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Stop for a second then,keep trying. If she keeps saying no, even though you're eating out, that's a bad sign. Never eat her out before having sex for the first time. Just kiss towards her vagina, even right on top of it. But, dont pleasure her without anything in return.
/r/seduction10/03/18 06:37 PM
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Take your ass back to India since you want to stick to your kind. I don't fuck with people like you and that kind of ignorance. I've known plenty of Indian girls who never wore deodorant. That's stank. But, I'm not just gonna say all Indian girls stink with a blanket statement. If you're looking for a girl that can offer you cooking and cleaning, maybe you should fuck your mom. We're men. Who other than a woman can offer you pussy? I can cook and clean for myself because I'm a man. I think you'r…
/r/seduction10/03/18 04:38 AM
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Take it from a real playa. Having women attracts more women. This is especially useful for needy behavior. You don't want to be checking your phone every 2 minutes to see if she texted you. And if you text her too often she'll lose interest. Actively pursuing other women gives you more of a carefree attitude and makes it easy to move on if needed. Women like to know they have a man that is wanted by other women. I'm assuming fuckboi is a pua term. Means something completely different where I'm f…
/r/seduction10/03/18 04:25 AM
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The line, "If I find the tag, I get your number," wasn't a good move. Makes you sound like you're not that interested. When you see her, just chat her up, see how she's responding to you nonverbal wise. Ask her what she has planned for the weekend, then take your shot. You should feel her out through the convo to make sure she's not just overly polite. But, you should still take the shot. That's the only way you'll know.
/r/seduction10/03/18 04:04 AM
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You're probably acting needy. You need to find more girls. Its easy to not act needy when you have more than one woman. If she's not interested, move on.
/r/seduction10/03/18 02:51 AM
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Learn to focus on your breath when you have anxiety. Clear your mind of negative thoughts. Then, make the approach.
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:11 PM
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You're definitely not communicating intent. You have to be flirty during the study session. Not super serious. Somewhat carefree studying. Halfway through the material you could say, "This sucks, let's get a drink." But, you still have to show interest, confidently.
/r/seduction08/03/18 08:01 AM
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This was more of a daily improvement list. Learning languages is good, but a huge commitment. Any kind of green tea is beneficial so I'm with you there. 1 hour outside barefoot everyday? I'll pass.
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:53 AM
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They're still women. Some of those attention whores are savvy businesswomen that ball. Some of them are gold diggers. They get tons of dm's all day. You'd be better to try to catch her offline. Especially if you can overlap her social circle. You'll also want to have your own social media built up and active.
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:48 AM
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After one of your study sessions, go get food or drinks together. Text, social media, meet up at least weekly and don't have sex? I was kinda confused if you're gay?
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:32 AM
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Meditation. It helps you stay in the moment, or helps you to be mindful. That's key to happiness. Also, it helps with anxiety because it teaches you to clear negative thoughts from your mind.
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:23 AM
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Tldr: 1. Meditate 2. Workout 3. Eat better 4. Work on your craft
/r/seduction08/03/18 01:26 AM
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Check out this letter written into Kellie about this girl and her bf. And listen to Kellie's advice to keep it moving. This is insight into the woman's mind.
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:33 PM
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If you’re dating a girl solely for looking forward to sex Why else would you date her? you might be rewarded He's not a puppy dog. Sex is mutually beneficial. Women want to be seduced, it's human nature and why we still exist. Since she had to be home so early, it's tough to escalate that fast. Especially with a long drive. But, you should definitely be trying to escalate.
/r/seduction07/03/18 02:21 AM
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Practice or not, it's hard to get into the right mindset when you're not attracted. I'm not saying she has to be a dime. But, at least attractive enough to want to pursue. What separates a playa and a manwhore? Standards.
/r/seduction07/03/18 02:09 AM
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Might be too soon. You can try, just don't be upset if she declines. Those kind of chicks, man. Sometimes you'll see her 4-5 times a month. Sometimes you won't see her for 6 months. In my experience, pushing the issue just pushed her further away.
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:12 PM
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Models is more about inner game. You need to use your body language to communicate intent. You don't just walk up to the girl and say, "you're cute." You can compliment something specific like her smile or hair. Cute is way to general. Kittens are cute. It's really just a normal chat, but your body language should be saying, "I want you."
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:58 PM
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Let her go. It could be a variety of things that aren't necessarily in your control. Firstly, location seems to be an issue. Cars and hotels are temporary solutions. Not exactly suitable for a long distance, fwb relationship. Second, she may be a coquette by nature. Hot and cold. It happens with the mind-blowing sex type of girls. They rock your world twice, then you don't hear from her for months. I'd say keep working on other chicks in your rotation and new chicks. She'll come back around one …
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:49 PM
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Don't approach girls you're not attracted to. No attraction also makes your game feel inauthentic.
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:39 PM
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Read her body language and escalate. First, you need to get into her personal space. Then, light touching followed by longer touching like hand holding. Then, hugging and kissing, etc. Closing is more about body language than verbal communication. Always look to escalate, then gauge her response. Is she leaning into your body? Green light. Is she pulling away? Pump the brakes until she shows you more positive body language.
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:12 PM
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Non issue I would assume. I've had friends with missing teeth pull girls. And friends over 350 pounds pulling petite, hotties. Women aren't as superficial as men, just accept your flaws and be confident.
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:07 PM
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Of course I'm right. I lost track of my body count in high school. But, this aint about being right. It's about seduction. You mean not jerking it? Yea, definitely don't do that. It throws your energy off your energy with the universe. Might sound stupid but its true. That's not to say you can't get laid if you're jerking it. I sure did, but it took way more work. As opposed to when I quit, seems like women were just attracted into my life. Sounds like you're already on the sexual transmutation.…
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:02 PM
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I am in that mindset already, but it took some work to get here. Everybody starts on the outside looking in. The people who make it to the inside put in the work to get there. It takes courage. Which means overcoming your fear and taking action anyway. Embrace the fear. Feel it through your body, then take a deep breath and exhale the fear away. You're not a bulldozer, you're a wrecking ball. What I mean by the analogy is, be bold. Women like when a man is bold. Let your balls hang and assert yo…
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:49 PM
1

Just keep improving. Your day will come young grasshopper. Also, realize that just because she's hot doesn't mean she's good in bed. Such a letdown when that happens.
/r/seduction04/03/18 10:16 PM
1

Have you tried meditation? Sounds like you're in your head too much. You need to be in the moment. Things aren't as bad when you can focus on your breathing and relax yourself.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:43 PM
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It's still a mindset. If I go a week without any action, I turn into a hunter. I'm out all the time taking shots at girls. My need to get laid overtakes any reservations I have about talking to women. Just as nature intended. If the building doesn't have doors or windows, bust through the wall.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:38 PM
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You said you're autistic. I don't know anything about it, but the Google search said, "Trouble with socializing and communication. Also, chains of obsessive thoughts." If you can put yourself around other people that have the same condition, that can help. And resources for coping with this. Like I said, I'm not a doctor. Just trynna help out.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:32 PM
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Stand up straight, head up, shoulders pulled back. Imagine how a king walks and walk like that. Faking confident body language for long enough makes you feel confident.
/r/seduction04/03/18 01:42 AM
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Women aren't as superficial as men. They read confident body language more than anything.
/r/seduction04/03/18 12:40 AM
1

Wrong again.
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:56 PM
1

I was just thinking this. Haha. I always think back to my mom saying, "just be yourself," then I get rejected. "Myself sucks!"
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:50 PM
1

Just keep getting head. Whats the problem?
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:48 PM
1

Keep swiping man. After you set up one date, work on setting up another date and another. You haven't seen her in a month? Move on.
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:46 PM
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If a chick got more bodies than me, she's a hoe.
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:35 PM
1

A different kind of book that helped me out is 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. There's a difference between being perfectly authentic and playing the courtier.
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:28 PM
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I dig it, it's more of a "warm-approach." Guys get so caught up in what to say when it's more about nonverbal communication. I basically do the same thing as you, to the point where I can't even remember what was said. I just see my body and her body attract like magnets.
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:17 PM
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If she doesn't come to you, go to her. Don't miss out because she could be shy.
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:12 PM
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A joke in good fun at her expense is cool, but still not necessary. If she likes you, you should be escalating, not clowning.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:18 PM
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People know they be trynna rationalize some shit away. You think every guy in the hood is just successful with women? My journey was difficult just like everyone else man. I just wake up one day and think, "I can die a virgin or get out there and try." I can agree with, growing up in a shitty place makes you not fear girls. Especially if you've had encounters with death. Girls are seriously an irrational fear.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:11 PM
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Even if you don't have a rotation, you can start working on it. Even when you set up a date, or get laid, you should be working on getting another girl. It's a mindset.
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:47 PM
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I think that's the autism man. I'm not doctor. Autistic coping resources? It says autism effects your communication, but your written communication is good. You might have to try something different. Are there autistic meetup groups? Autistic dating sites? Something that puts you around people who understand and are similar. Get in where you fit in.
/r/seduction03/03/18 05:37 AM
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Bruh, you have this distorted view of the world. Everything doesn't rely on status. I'm from the ghetto, the hood, section 8, public housing, and I still was able to have a rotation. Even some wealthy girls. Also, I'm not a jerk. I can be an asshole at times, but I'm usually pretty friendly. But, I know for a fact that nobody is gonna lookout for me. I have to lookout for myself. Nobody is gonna get me laid, I have to get myself laid. It's not about status, it's about how you carry yourself. Wom…
/r/seduction03/03/18 04:30 AM
1

Correct.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:56 AM
1

I could agree with that, but I was talking more about the guys who basically have a girl open and ready, then they stop for no reason. Or because there's this special time limit you're supposed to wait to smash. Leave it to the woman to stop you. That was my point. But, yea, you definitely have to take action to get action.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:14 AM
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Ah, i see. I love that movie. I take more of the improv/freestyle approach. But, I've always been quick on my feet. Nothing wrong with having some lines ready I suppose, just in case she says something you scripted.
/r/seduction02/03/18 11:56 PM
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I've never heard of the perfect interaction. But, ive never memorized a script either. I like the flow. If things are going well, just say, "Let's go drink some more at my place." You should've escalated to the point where y'all need some privacy. Ideally, after making out and sexual touching.
/r/seduction02/03/18 11:09 PM
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I've heard this before, but I've had plenty of female friends and its just not the same as that male bonding. Not to mention, you don't usually talk about girls with girls. Us guys like to talk about women. And we talk different if a woman is around.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:59 PM
2

Once again, if you're seducing her, you're not gonna get sexual assault. I said, "push" not "force."
/r/seduction02/03/18 09:25 PM
1

For me, I just realized the fact that women want to be seduced. Especially when it's coming from a place of pure desire. That's the truth though, "You gotta just do it." The game remains the same.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:50 PM
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You're very welcome. And have fun tonight! Remember, even though it's a threesome, it's up to you to lead. You're doing God's work brother.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:45 PM
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If you get a sexual harassment charge, you're not doing a good job of seducing. Also, you cant just jump to stage 4 in the seduction process, it should evolve. Like I said, "If things are going well," keep escalating. Don't stop yourself.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:39 PM
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I'll add on to this, the easiest way to cut your losses is to have a rotation. It's easy to let a girl go when you have 4 others you're smashing. Definitely dont beat yourself up when things don't go right. Shit happens, that's life.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:37 PM
1

Solid facts here.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:16 PM
1

You can either keep trying or move on. But, if there's not a hard "no," I keep trying.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:15 PM
1

I'm completely against negging. A joke in good fun is cool, but putting a girl down only works for girls with low self-esteem. You're exactly right, being brave and ballsy is key. You have to put your neck on the line and risk rejection because that shows women you're not afraid to pursue what you want. I would just risk the rejection for the friend. I've never been really interested in having friends that are girls, unless it's to expand my social circle. But, if I'm interested, I don't mind ri…
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:12 PM
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Like I said, "If things are going well, push it." This is meant for guys that are on the path of getting laid, then they just back off because they want be respectful. She wants you to hit, but some guys have this time frame in their mind like, "I need to wait a month before I try to smash." You need to try to smash now. Patience and waiting get you friendzoned.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:00 PM
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What's a "fuck boy" in this context? Is that when a girl says, "You're so smooth, you must be a player." All of my girlfriends started off as fwb, then we moved into dating. You don't want to date a girl for a month just to find out later she sucks in bed. Sexual compatibility is one of the most important things in a serious relationship. If the sex is good, she'll usually want to stick around.
/r/seduction02/03/18 02:56 PM
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I feel you. Real playas get chose. Even if you want her to be your gf, you should still smash as fast as possible. Escalating fast doesn't mean you're disrespecting her. You're seducing her for the benefit of the two of you. It's better to know yall are sexually compatible first, then start making things more serious down the line.
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:51 AM
5

Haha. Thats good use of self-deprecation. In small amounts, that's a good sign of confidence.
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:10 AM
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Probably not. If you don't think much of yourself, why should she?
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:56 AM
1

Exactly. Some guys would've completely quit in that situation. Persistence is essential.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:54 AM
1

Sounds platonic. Move on. You could suggest skipping together one day. But, depends on what she's doing when she skips. Taking bong rips or taking a nap? Don't fail school trying to get some ass tho. I still say move on.
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:31 AM
2

Pull your dick out and put her hand on it, then lean over on her with your hand around her butt. Guide her down by her side.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:49 AM
3

Art of seduction for practicality. The game for entertainment.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:40 AM
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Renegade - Eminem Jay-Z Motivation - TI
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:23 AM
5

Get the food first, then go smoke at your place if possible. After smoking with her, you have a much better chance of getting laid. Something about getting high makes girls horny. Well, I guess that's true of most people.
/r/seduction01/03/18 05:37 AM
1

Recent research shows it's 100x more unlikely.
/r/seduction01/03/18 05:26 AM
15

You sound dumb. You open the door for her so you can look at her booty. Btw, if you have to say, "I'm a bad boy!" You're not.
/r/seduction01/03/18 05:08 AM
2

You disagreed, then basically agreed. Haha I see your point tho. If you are pulling those college girls on campus, buy a backpack. Not my style tho. Those college girls drink at college bars.
/r/seduction01/03/18 05:04 AM
5

Get better pics for sure. After a few messages, look to meet up. Nobody likes the endless messages. Idk if that's what you're doing but, something is going wrong in your messages. Bravo for smashing the 20yo. But, c'mon man, you're 35. You wouldn't want a serious relationship with her. She's in a different part of life.
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:39 AM
3

It's not creepy. People make eye-contact all the time. If she's maintaining it with you, that could be a sign of interest. But you'll never know if you break eye-contact to look at the ground.
/r/seduction01/03/18 02:23 AM
1

Put 2 of your baby steps together. Get her number so y'all can study together.
/r/seduction01/03/18 02:21 AM
3

You mean acting interested, then not interested back and forth? Like a coquette? Personally, I'm not a fan. I want her to know, without a doubt, I want her.
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:51 AM
1

Ideally, you should've planned something when you last seen her. I wouldn't just text her saying, come to my place. Unless, you asked her come help you study. Tell her you want to take her to a small event or bar/club this weekend. Don't waste too much time. If you're moving too fast, she'll let you know and that's fine. But, at least she knows you're romantically interested.
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:48 AM
2

You don't have to catch up to him. Just do you. Guys don't compare body counts. I would also recommend you hang out with him more. Maybe his confidence will rub off on you. That's all inner game is, confidence.
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:40 AM
4

Yea, move as slowly as you can so a guy with balls can come in and smash. Then, you'll be all mad. She offered her number to you. Stop playing and tap that. If you wait too long she'll think you're not interested and you'll get friendzoned. I've seen it happen too many times.
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:36 AM
3

You shouldn't feel bad because he got laid and you didnt. That doesn't mean he's improved so much. It could've been dumb luck. Or she was a hoe. Haha. Be happy for him, don't hate. Also, meditation helps with all those negative thoughts. Download a free app like calm.
/r/seduction28/02/18 11:22 PM
1

Tell her to come by your room to study. Then, at some point you can order pizza and possibly watch a movie. Don't get so hung up on going on an "official date." Getting her to your room is the goal. Don't wait all semester. Get going now!
/r/seduction28/02/18 11:15 PM
13

Download a free mediation app like, "calm." You need to get those negative thoughts out of your mind. Especially when you're approaching a girl. Tell her to come by and watch Harry Potter movies. Or study since you share a class. Hell, study then watch Harry Potter. Also, you're not lower class than those sorority chicks. If anything, you're better because you're a cs major and they're just trying to get a mrs degree. Give yourself props. You're a smart dude that could change the world one day.
/r/seduction28/02/18 08:48 PM
2

Move on. Every encounter doesn't work perfectly. She sounds like a tease anyway. Not worth the effort or your sanity.
/r/seduction28/02/18 08:28 PM
2

People under 30 are on IG and snap. Texting is much more intimate than messaging on social media. Plus, you can easily ignore social media or not check it.
/r/seduction28/02/18 08:22 PM
1

You should get her number instead of her FB. That makes things too "friendly," from the start. I assume you're not escalating hard enough. You should be trying to get the kissing before the end of the date. You think you're being patient, but she views that as a lack of, or little interest.
/r/seduction28/02/18 08:02 PM
2

After you introduced yourself, you should've said, "Can I join you?" Or "I have some extra seats at my table, come sit with me." I wouldn't do palm reading. Especially since you're 31. Be more direct with your approach. Have your conversation, then look to keep it going so you can move into her personal space.
/r/seduction28/02/18 07:29 PM
1

Listen to some podcasts daily so you'll be up to date on popular news and current events. You can talk about anything. Body language is the key to escalation.
/r/seduction28/02/18 07:16 PM
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