14 things to know when interpreting female body language

2020-11-17T20:35:26+00:00

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JSghetti · 2020-11-17T20:22:59+00:00

Please do not look to this list when trying to interpret if a woman is interested in you. Most of these things are done unintentionally or in some cases because someone has ADD. Signed, a woman.

miserablesisyphus · 2020-11-17T20:54:44+00:00

I've studied body language a bit and I consider reading social cues and body language my greatest strength. I think this list is accurate, however, with body language there are a lot of caveats. When observing body language you typically don't take one specific example and draw conclusions. What you normally do is take clusters of repeated cues as hints towards how a person is feeling. For example, in #7 of the list it says "crossed arms: she is on the defensive". In the body language jargon this is called the self hug and typically means they are trying to comfort themselves--for whatever reason. Maybe the crossed their arms because they are cold, because they feel insecure because a girl with huge breasts entered the room behind you, etc. The important thing is to take as much inventory as you can of their body language and use those to get an indication. So I think the best preface to the list you provided is to remind readers that not one individual behavior is a dead give away, but a bunch of those clues in a short amount of time is a better indication the woman is attracted to you.

Almost everyone has a nervous tick that they do when they are stressed. This nervous tick is literally the brain subconsciously telling the body to soothe itself. Some people click a pen a bunch of times, some people chew gum nervously, some people rock back in forth in their chair, etc. but they are all physical responses from the limbic system meant to stimulate the body in order to get the body's systems back to a normal state. A good thing to practice observing is to find individual limbic responses for people you know. Some people have responses to anxiety, stress, anger, etc. It's really interesting. Think about your parents and the subtle clues you notice when something is bothering them or when they are sad. What individual things do they do to indicate this, without them realizing?

Lastly, here's a little tip to practice body language if you are confident enough or if you have a girlfriend and aren't too worried about messing things up...When a girl is into you (e.g. you're cuddled up watching a movie on the couch) and you know she's sexually aroused, say or do something to make her upset/switch her from sexual arousal to stressed/anxious/mad. Watch her body language change from her open and warm state to a more closed and cold state. You'll be able to see the differences in her individual limbic responses and may help you in the future.

Title	14 things to know when interpreting female body language
Author	OGthelegendaryplaya
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	November 17, 2020 8:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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