Confidence.

That's the simple answer.

Truth is, when it comes to seducing woman, confidence is crucial. Women view confidence as your ability to be successful. I know you're thinking, "they look for successful men because they have more money, false.

Women look for successful men because they’re confident. Confidence makes you relaxed. Being relaxed makes people around you relax. Everyone likes that feeling. Especially women.

Helping her feel relaxed leads to her being comfortable, which leads to sex.

First, think about all the reasons you're proud of yourself. Pointless competition's you won or getting accepted into junior college. Don't overlook any reason to give yourself props.

Next, find something you love to do and do it everyday. Little goals over time add up to huge success and even more confidence.

Getting better little by little instills true confidence.

Last, work on your body language to project confidence. You can find many guides about nonverbal communication. One of my favorites is what everybody is saying by Joe Navarro.

Also, Bang has some good body language knowledge.

That's a good way to build your inner confidence in a nutshell. I have more on these types confidence building habits in my book. It's free this weekend.

Here's the real reason I wrote this post and what worked for me.

The previous information should be practiced, but here's how to be more confident faster.

Imitate confidence.

I recount my history as a lame in this post where I reference a guy named Stan.

In short, Stan got all the girls in high school. Stan became my best friend.

Stan was really confident, so I would often watch his interactions and body language, how he spoke, etc.

What helped me most was his mindset.

I would talk to a girl and think, "What would Stan say?"

"What facial expression would he make?" "How would he stand?"

After awhile, I was able to put my own spin on things Stan said to make it my own.

What if your best friend isn't the cool, confident guy?

Imitate a celebrity.

In the book by Napoleon Hill, Think and grow rich, he writes about speaking to successful people in our mind which influences us.

Regardless, if you know the person in real life or not. He actually says, "Living or dead."

So, embody someone you admire, and think about how they would handle a situation.

I used to be a musician. My group toured 3 states doing shows, so we were pretty decent.

I wrote most of the songs and they were good songs. But, when I started writing, they sucked ass.

My friend that got me into music writing said, "Pretend you are your favorite artist and think about what they would write."

So I imitated or embodied my favorite artists for awhile, then my songs got better.

Then, I put my own personality or voice on what my favorite artist would do and my songs became local hits.

Here's another good book about this concept called steal like an artist

Same with my game.

I started imitating my confident friend Stan and lost my virginity. Then, I put my own personality into things Stan did and got laid way more.

It helps to imitate confidence, but make sure you're still working to build your inner confidence. Imitation confidence is superficial and can falter.

True confidence is unbreakable. Check out my confidence building habits in my book that's free this weekend.