This is pretty advanced stuff but I've been trying to study what the essences of masculinity and femininity are in order to be better able to feel out the energies in an interaction and create and dance with polarity etc etc.

I think this is a really good idea for anyone learning seduction to do, cause key to seducing a woman is being able to create sexual energy and tension in an interaction with her, which is done by polarising your genders, which makes her feel more like a woman when she's around you.

In order to more clearly see and more easily study masculinity I was trying to think of what movies really positively showcase what you might call the 'Spirit of Masculinity', so I could find some role models and stuff. I've come up with, in no particular order:

  • Rocky

  • Gladiator

  • The Lion King

  • The Lord of the Rings

  • Mulan

  • 12 Angry Men

  • Fight Club

  • Braveheart

I also thought it would be similarly good to watch some movies that have positive depictions of femininity, but I definitely struggled to think of many :/

Obviously as above im talking about characters/plots that exhibit the feminine energy/spirit/whatever, not just movies with good characters that happen to be female.

So far i've come up with:

Perhaps that means I don't understand feminity as well as I understand masculinity, so I struggle to see it as easily in the world, which I guess is likely since im a man.

My first thought was rom coms and whatnot, but then I realized those are usually quite shallow and superficial, and I'm really hoping for a bit more of a deep and complex model of people mature in their femininity, rather than the immature sillyness that makes for easy drama. Maybe I'm wrong though cause honestly I just haven't seen that many rom coms so i might just be chatting out my ass.

I'd appreciate everyone's suggestions or comments :)