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NICE FOR WHAT?Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:36 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:42 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:24 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTAromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:33 PM
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LEVEL UPAromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:04 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:16 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:28 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:48 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEAromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:07 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTAromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:22 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:14 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:30 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Aromatic-Owl8808/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:41 AM
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I know you can't link directly but is there a way to paste the text itself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 08:28 PM
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https://www.tmz.com/2022/04/21/johnny-depp-text-message-sex-amber-heard-dead-body-corpse/ At one point in the texts, Depp says they should drown her before burning her body. Then, he writes, "I will f*** her burnt corpse afterwards to make sure she is dead." This is what Johnny Depp texted to Paul Bettany, the Marvel actor who is undeservingly married to Jennifer Connelly. Paul Bettany said they should drown Amber instead of burning her. https://www.theguardian.com/film/2021/dec/27/paul-bettany-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 11:53 PM
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I sleep so much better with SO MUCH SPACE in the bed. I feel I can't really sleep well when I need to worry unconsciously about rolling into someone all the time. We plan to get two separate large beds in our next apartment. Why wait? the sooner you do it the sooner you'll sleep better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 08:21 AM
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I don't know about any of you, I never give my phone number out. Way too many abusive texts in the past when I tell them... Sorry, I am not into you. . This is a very understandable and basic boundary. ​ When I told the guy I don't give out my phone number until after we meet, he decided to not meet up after all because I am one of the crazies you find on dating sites - because I don't do texting... This is a scrote reinforcing why you have your boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:11 PM
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He's way too old for you, he's old enough to know better, and he is stingy. Dump him. Don't let it go, let him go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:01 PM
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Three dates in one weekend with one guy sounds like lovebombing. And he could have an extremely "clean" follow list because he has another account. Hopefully he's good but always keep your eyes open!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:11 AM
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This sounds like the Iliza Schlesinger movie "Good on Paper"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:39 AM
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he thinks of himself as a prodigy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:22 AM
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And trusting someone you don't know (always be vetting) is a guarantee your boundaries will not be violated. Do you mean "will be"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:45 AM
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I'm so glad she listened to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:04 AM
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He says he lies about who he is to appeal to his target, then when he gets what he wants he moves on. Is this not every NVM ever?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:21 AM
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8 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:25 AM
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You're right to be wary, sadly. If you're unsure about him, hold off. The cabin with cats in Sweden is still an option!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:46 AM
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Someone Im dating asked me how I felt going through puberty. Why would he ask that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:44 AM
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"Sex work" is prostitution and prostitution is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:21 AM
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Sounds like Silence of the Lambs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:17 AM
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"Katie. Did he pick you? Yikes this whole article is a big bowl of yuck. Because what he did to some of these women is abuse. Sending unsolicited dick picks is assault and gaslighting is not just a casual fuckboy dating quirk. If you don’t want to be shamed for abusing people then don’t abuse people. All these women just spoke on what he’s done. The consequences he’s facing are his doing and his alone." YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:54 PM
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The creepiest part is they do it because they KNOW they're not good enough, and it will end anyway, so they might as well hurt you in the process--- for giving them a chance. They're sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:23 AM
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Don't go out with ex-losers. ​ more like forever-losers who should be exes, if that. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 12:37 AM
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That's how much they internalize their hatred of women. (And he's someone I like.) Why like someone who hates women, and possibly specifically you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:57 AM
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Even if he apologizes for scaring you, do not ignore your instincts. It could be to get you to lower your guard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:17 PM
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good. report him. You also have his other info per the library so you can use it to file a police report for harassment, especially with chat transcripts. And his account can be banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:00 AM
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Went on three dates with a guy I met at work so I already kind of knew him. Looks wise im literally way above his league. ​ Your first two sentences are the biggest red flags here. You don't kind of know him after three dates and meeting him at work, and you should never date down. Don't settle, and don't think you know him at all yet. Please remember this and take it as a lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:20 AM
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It makes them sound like pedos that's because they are pedos. At least they reveal their depravity early on! Easy block and delete and report to the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:18 AM
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They're mad she gets half, and less than half (20%), as the dissolution of a partnership (50-50), and they're mad? So they don't like 50-50 now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:54 PM
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"Dating Scrotes under 25 is not worth it" Dating scrotes of any age is not worth it, lol. I know what you mean though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:16 AM
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I have vetted him through text and have noted down any yellow/green flags What yellow flags? Also, how did you vet him through text? ​ I’ve never been taken out before so idk what to expect. Make sure you don't let him pick you up. Meet him there, but arrive and leave separately. Make sure he doesn't follow you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:49 AM
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how deprived men are ​ do you mean depraved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:39 AM
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"You don’t want to sound like a sex hound who only dates girls to bang them. So, address the issue as a case of misinterpreted signals. Tell her that you really like her, but you don’t think there’s much compatibility." This is scrotespeak. He knows he is shit, but he doesn't want to sound like it. He doesn't want to "sound" like a sex hound. So he rewords it to hide the issue and gaslight and confuse and blame her. Scrotes all around. I hope she finds her way out. Or just reads this letter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:23 AM
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and who wants to bet "help her start up a small business" means he owns it and she's an employee, where he can revoke any and all rights at any time? And as a bribe to keep her from educating herself because he knows schooling would actually help her and doesn't want her to succeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:37 AM
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I know. The nerve of him to be resentful of HER? She has every reason to be resentful of him, and this letter gives her a million more reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:46 AM
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Exactly. I'm so proud she went back to school anyway, despite him being unsupportive both financially and emotionally. Hopefully she'll find her way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:45 AM
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As much as I want to say animals can decide for us, sometimes they even like the bad ones. If they don't like him, dump him, but even if they like him, don't let your guard down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:18 AM
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It is absolutely basic manners. And if even if it isn't, if it bothers you, it's a dealbreaker for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 08:50 AM
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Is this a red flag? If you have to ask, yes, it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 08:48 AM
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BDSM is prominent in their relationship, so no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:44 AM
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I understand! I'm not blaming you. I'm agreeing that it is surprising because they should have fixed it years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:56 AM
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I'm surprised for you since this should have been dealt with years ago as the article is from 2016, with an update from 2019. This link should still work: Update, 2019: If you are experiencing harassment in Words With Friends, you can now also send details and screenshots direct to Zynga at: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:38 AM
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Eh. She says to never settle in this article, but in the article attached to this article, she says to settle for someone you're not attracted to. Nope. https://people.com/tv/chelsea-handler-has-hope-for-others-after-falling-in-love-with-jo-koy/ ​ "So anyone, if you have a friend in your life that you think you're not into or not attracted to, just remember my story and to be open-minded," she ended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:44 AM
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I love your shower thought "shower thought"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:36 AM
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Too many women subject themselves to sex with a man they’re not physically attracted to, and just…why? Maybe after decades of marriage and you’re both old but still deeply in love, sure Nope, never, ever, under any circumstance, subject yourself to sex. Only have sex if and when you actually want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:46 AM
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No, they know what they're doing. The same way he will say that if she rejects him, after he called her beautiful, etc. They don't want to feel inadequate so they try to 'take her down a notch'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:57 AM
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This wasn't even about 50-50- just the first date, when he's supposed to be putting his best foot forward, and even then he lost his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:51 AM
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I agree but also most of the time what's in your best interest is also in your children's best interest. If he's abusive to you he's not good for them either, even if he doesn't directly abuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:41 AM
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Along with being evil by gaslighting, cheating, and not caring about her potential cancer, he purposely isolated her as well: "While I have acquaintances here, I don't particularly have anyone I'd call a friend and I'm only just realizing through contacting people that any friendships I tried to make were thwarted by my husband"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:39 AM
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Megan is dating an actual pedophile https://www.yourtango.com/news/machine-gun-kelly-history-sexualizing-underage-girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 10:09 AM
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Make him your ex friend and you'll feel a lot better (and less used)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:43 PM
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absolutely. I tried to post an article on how men and women think of their friendship completely differently, but for some reason it doesn't go through. They're not as good friends as we are, and on top of it they're insincere friends at best because they're just waiting for your guard to go down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:36 AM
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amen. "he'd pay for a meal occasionally"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:27 PM
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Also be wary of men who pretend to be nice to staff, because they know it's a turnoff not to be. It's not a green flag if he's good. It is a red flag if he isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 01:07 AM
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Call the police now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:35 PM
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She couldn't "make him" hit her, ever, under any circumstance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:14 PM
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Chris Brown beat the shit out of Rihanna. During sex or not, it's still the same violence and they'll do it against any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:13 PM
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When will he be arrested?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:45 PM
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I thought the racism was from a male cast member. These are the articles I saw about it https://www.today.com/popculture/boy-meets-world-star-trina-mcgee-says-danielle-fishel-apologized-t186632 https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/tv/2020/07/09/boy-meets-world-trina-mcgee-opens-up-racism-she-experienced/5410217002/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:42 AM
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She could have gone to Yale but instead went to a crappy college because that's where Cory was going to. She also proposed to Cory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:21 AM
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It also works to finish every one of those sentences. He might not admit the first one but he knows it's true. "My boyfriend thinks I should dump him" "My boyfriend doesn't like it when I dump him" "My boyfriend doesn't want me to speak to dump him"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:51 PM
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get a pet instead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:42 PM
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"A partner with traits of grandiose narcissism might: make outright sexual demands tell you that you’re wrong when you challenge or criticize their behavior ask for praise and compliments directly become openly enraged when you disagree On the other hand, a partner with traits of vulnerable narcissism might: use passive aggression or other manipulation tactics to get what they want shift the blame to you when you call out problematic behavior put themselves down so you’ll offer compliments and p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:15 AM
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Also notice how commercials for cleaning products always show women doing the cleaning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:42 AM
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yes! and even then they don't value you- they miss what you did for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:04 PM
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his misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:44 AM
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Amen, except it's just different excuses, not even different reasons. The reason is they hate women, period. They find different excuses to distract women into insecurity and from realizing the fact that it's never anything to do with the women- it's always the men. They'll dehumanize women either/every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:45 AM
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Absolutely this!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:21 PM
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There are men who take their wives' last names!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:40 AM
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And the thing is we HAVE the ability to make male birth control pills, gels, maybe even an injection, etc and society still seems to push back on it because THEY WANT IT TO BE THE WOMAN'S responsibility and HER burden. ​ This is the crux of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:42 PM
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Kate Winslet defends Woody Allen. Phylicia Rashad defends Bill Cosby. They have extremely warped perceptions of predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:35 AM
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Excellent question! he lets you pay or is reluctant to pay. he does not help you in any way, with any thing. he's a bad conversationalist. he turns you off in any way. he mocks you in any way. You're just not feeling it. Leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:28 AM
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This comment should be a banner for the whole world to see!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:10 AM
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After that, the real work began. He rented a massive dumpster, and together the 2 of us cleared out the jungle of debris over the course of 1 full week. Then came the cleaning - sweeping up wet glass, sewage-soaked bits of wood, and paper, all that fun stuff. Then, he rented large fans and bought a new dehumidifier to start drying things out. Then sanitizing the floor and few items we were able to salvage. And then on to tearing out the soaked drywall, calling companies to fix the septic & water…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:53 AM
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What I'm so mad about is this is so obvious and yet hasn't been implemented before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:25 PM
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Recently there was a scandal called public room where a bunch of scrotes shared nudes and pornographic images of teenage girls. So the biggest problem is that even tho women have rights society still sees them as sexual objects, breeding mares and free housekeepers. Domestic abuse and rape are very prevalent too. I know an older woman who was gang raped by 4 guys, and another one who was prostituted by her step father to paedophiles when she was a kid. So all in all, not the worst place to be a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:17 AM
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don't insult dogs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:15 AM
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It haunts me constantly how many "average" men turned into brutal rapists because of war. If it makes you feel better (it won't), they didn't turn into them. War didn't make them rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:32 AM
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Men really think they're supposed to be everything to women, don't they. without actually doing anything good for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:52 AM
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Always confine to your loved ones Did you mean confide in? I hope you don't mean confine your loved ones, lol, like the lvm would want to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:50 AM
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But definitely vent if you need to, because it can help clarify that you need to get out, and get you support if you need it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:45 AM
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Good for you and thank you for this post!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:17 PM
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Sheep deserve better than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:11 PM
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and you won't be risking your safety!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:31 PM
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This quote is by Gloria Steinem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:05 AM
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"Dear John" by Taylor Swift (Lyrics) "Dear John" by Taylor Swift (Lyrics) Long were the nights when my Days once revolved around you Counting my footsteps Praying the floor won't fall through, again My mother accused me of losing my mind, but I swore I was fine You paint me blue sky Then go back and turn it to rain When I lived in your chess game But you changed the rules every day Wondering which version of you I might get on the phone Tonight Well I stopped picking up, and this song is to let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:50 AM
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"Dear John" By Taylor Swift Long were the nights when my Days once revolved around you Counting my footsteps Praying the floor won't fall through, again My mother accused me of losing my mind, but I swore I was fine You paint me blue sky Then go back and turn it to rain When I lived in your chess game But you changed the rules every day Wondering which version of you I might get on the phone Tonight Well I stopped picking up, and this song is to let you know why Dear John I see it all now that y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:42 AM
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level 1Elegaunt · 8hFDS NewbieI'm right there with you. Asexual. Despite being for lack of a better phrase a f*ckbeast, like seriously I could go for hours. I just want you to know I am crying from laughing so hard at your term of choice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:08 AM
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I'm glad you got out of that situation, but this current one doesn't sound like the one, precisely for the reasons you gave here: ​ I'm currently dating a man who meets all my expectations and fulfills all my needs. However, I don't necessarily feel a deep connection with him. Despite the fact that I enjoy my time with him and he's great, I don't feel like I'm head over heels. No spark, no butterflies. Don't settle. This doesn't sound like romantic love to me. If you're totally satisfied, that's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:28 AM
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They think their right to respect as an authority trumps our right to basic respect as human beings ​ OVER female right to the basest and barest dignity as human beings. ​ Anytime I think you disrespect me as a man, I get to disrespect you as a human being Bold of you to assume they think of women as human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:05 AM
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if only it didn't say "follow" women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:18 AM
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They either apologize and promise never to say that again, and realize it's abusive and it makes women wildly uncomfortable, or they're dumped on the spot. ​ He should be dumped on the spot regardless. Don't give that guy a second chance. saying sorry and promising not to say that again doesn't take back that he said it and meant it the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:48 AM
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If this ever happens and you have the presence of mind, tell the bartender and call the cops, and get someone to hold these guys till they get there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:43 AM
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I just toggled settings on my end- it might work now! If not, thank you for trying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:40 PM
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Could you send me a message or chat? It's slightly personal so I don't want to make it public. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:53 PM
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And no, that was not his way of trying to get close to me, because he outright told me he didn’t want a relationship. For him to even bring it up is suspicious, but even if he didn't want a relationship doesn't mean he didn't want something (physical or otherwise) from you, and he could have been lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:08 PM
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I adore this energy. Great for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:29 AM
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"But I do think he could be more generous where they are concerned" but not where she is concerned. This is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:43 AM
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She is pregnant- he says "you're pregnant. it's all normal"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:04 PM
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Since in the title you said "Don’t give wifey energy to someone who isn’t your husband", is 'boyfriend' a typo? I have since learnt from my mistakes and no longer will I play wife to someone who isn’t my boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:52 AM
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Reminder: Don't be Barbara the Builder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:35 PM
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The only thing I disagree with is this part "And I do believe men are visual creatures, and women are cerebral creatures." Especially since earlier in the article she says: "Only in our society do we tell women to give a guy you're not chemically attracted to a chance. We never say to men, “Look, I know she's an armadillo, but she's really funny! So maybe you'll become attracted to her.” But I wasn't attracted to him. " ​ "None of it was wooing me. I still really liked his personality, but I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:17 AM
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I didn't know about this concept but I love it! Highlighting these posts is so helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:25 PM
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I love your comments!! Thank you for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/o22dq3/update\_reining\_in\_the\_sub/h24xg6j?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:43 PM
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"'I lost my temper, I suffocated her with the pillow". This is not 'losing your temper'. This is cold-blooded murder of a woman, his wife, in front of her baby, and his baby. He murdered the mother of his child in front of his child. This is not 'losing your temper'. "'When faced with the evidence he confessed,' said Apostolos Skrekas, a police spokesman. " This is not a confession. This is a coward's admission when backed into a corner. "'He explained in full detail how he strangled the victim.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:28 PM
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She doesn't sound like she wants him to move in anyway. Hard pass. At least this legal paperwork helps her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:33 AM
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They know. They can just as easily be the perpetrators of the violence against women. I wouldn't trust them with this information the same way we don't trust them with discussing trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:30 AM
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I hope she shows this to a judge to get a speedy divorce and sole custody
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:25 AM
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This is my favorite post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:02 AM
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I am so glad you got out after "just" a week of the bs!!! And if you look back and wonder how it could be: remember how crappy he was that last week. A week is too long for this nonsense, but still: Better a week than all summer! Or longer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:17 AM
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Mariah Carey - Clown "Clown" Yeah, yeah I guess your momma never told you What comes around comes back around I should've left it at "How ya doin'?" I should've left it at "I like your music too" and I should've never called you back when you pursued me I should've never given you my fucking two way I should've never listened to your woeful stories The ones I'm sure you told a thousand times before me You should've never intimated we were lovers When you know very well we never even touched each…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:29 AM
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"Spay thineself"? I'd say "neuter thineself" but animals are better than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:49 PM
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😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:57 AM
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"She claims that since her decision to take him back, he cares for her more, is trying hard to stop his excessive drinking, has learned to make a wonderful omelet, etc. Having tasted a couple of his omelets, I have my doubts." LOL I also want to know what happened at the gas station!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:53 AM
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Don't blame women for his dirty "stick"- that's all him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:43 AM
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Finally, let's not forget the reason why men are less risk-averse when it comes to sex. The consequences they face aren't nearly as high. STIs don't affect men as heavily as they do women - there's less risk of infertility, cervical cancer, or other serious consequences from being a carrier. They'll never get pregnant and have their bodies permanently altered from the experience. It's far easier for a man to walk away from a child, socially speaking. If they opt to stick around, social expectati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:38 AM
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Dating men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:21 AM
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To her credit, I'm happy for her that she didn't waste her energy or give herself to (other) shitty men. One is already too many. The good news is she can also be born again herself in the way of self-respect and get out of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:11 AM
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Absolutely!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:53 PM
8

That guy sounds like an actual serial killer who would prey on prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:47 AM
14

This makes me think of Tristan Thompson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:53 AM
14

Please make sure to put them in FAFF posts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:48 AM
1

This also applies to ladies who were treated badly and then left by that scrote. No matter who did the leaving: do you miss how he treated you like shit? No. This is such an excellent reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:42 AM
1

This is fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:41 AM
33

That's why you employ the vetting strategies and you leave at THE FIRST SIGN of a red flag(hell leave at the yellow and oranges too, I wouldn't stick around for anything I thought was upsetting or unpleasant). This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:59 AM
16

Nothing forces men to abuse or cheat on women. I know what you're getting at but they are choosing to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:38 PM
26

They're married in real life but the actress Kaitlin Olson said she played 'cool girl' about Valentine's and regrets it because he still doesn't do anything for her. I hope her life isn't imitating this 'art', or vice versa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:13 AM
34

Also Charlie is married to The Waitress in real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:11 AM
108

I get the concept but I don't like that a man, who has no concept of this except as the potential aggressor, painted this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:10 AM
56

What do men know about motherhood?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:04 AM
31

How is it legal???????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:03 AM
10

Bears are very real for most if not all of us! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:26 AM
4

Conan was so disrespectful to her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:03 AM
18

I first saw this as how Harold looks at us as he says a creepy compliment, and Shia LaBeouf, who is no better, and was confused. I get it now! I just would rather it were shown as women since it's supposed to be from our perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:52 PM
11

This is great advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:12 PM
67

Where is Chris Hansen???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:01 AM
29

Why is she with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:19 AM
26

Why did the hair change though, and the shirt? What's the excuse there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:13 AM
14

If you're afraid, DO NOT DATE. There is zero benefit and the fears are completely legitimate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:03 AM
14

Because even though he is actually still a good friend, and honest and kind person etc he also deep down didn’t feel like I had a right to the same respect that he did. Anyone who doesn't believe you deserve the same respect as them isn't a good friend or kind person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:15 AM
38

Good for her and good for you! Also I saw your post on FLUS and wanted to comment privately if possible so please send me a message or chat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:41 AM
37

Please don't refer to yourself like this. I know the saying, but you deserve better. And these aren't tricks so much as unlearning the bs we've been told to believe. But I'm glad that you're looking out for yourself and other women, and it's never too late!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:18 AM
26

Anyone who cares about you, let alone loves you, wants to celebrate you. ​ And on that note, Happy Mother's Day!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:50 AM
5

Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:48 AM
6

Males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:49 PM
128

Here is the link to the Page Six article. Don't forget to be grossed out by the Ben Affleck article referenced in it: TikTok user who matched with Matthew Perry on Raya speaks out (pagesix.com)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:19 AM
176

Yes, it's completely fine to split this date, by leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:24 AM
2

pets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:14 AM
5

I have a physics question, lol. If anybody wants to help, please let me know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:08 AM
21

please remove 'effeminate' from this description as it wrongly links it to weakness, which in this case is in the man's argument anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:23 AM
34

He knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:18 AM
12

There also seems to be another book called "All the Rules"- do you recommend that one as well? Or in place of the other two? Please consider doing a "book report"-flaired post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:26 AM
101

This is so gut-wrenching and true. Thank you for posting this. Please put this in the handbook, mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:20 AM
11

What ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:46 AM
8

I hope you mean former!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:05 AM
23

The increasing aggression in the "come here"s is too real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:00 AM
59

Good for you. Trust your gut and don't waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:35 AM
889

Except he shouldn't be picking you up. Don't trust a strange man to drive you anywhere. He also doesn't need to know where you live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:53 PM
58

Combine them and you get the reality of dicksappointment. They're a fan of 2-in-1 because it's less effort, like their shampoo-conditioners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:52 AM
42

Their consumption of porn shows their true colors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:52 PM
305

Every time I read one of these I feel less and less inclined to even bother with men at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:49 PM
43

Men with lots of female friends are often playing the field and using those women as backups and therapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:04 PM
28

pets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:18 AM
7

It's the picture that does it for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:50 AM
3

The truth is, she probably was perfect and a saint- and he still treated her like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:38 AM
6

And he was violent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:44 AM
27

girl leave him permanently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:42 AM
47

I don't think I've ever met any woman or girl who hasn't had an eating disorder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:15 AM
49

Why is the guy inside the place, who is visibly stronger than the ex, who has nothing to lose at all by standing up to this guy, doing absolutely nothing and basically talking the way women are taught to talk to protect ourselves? He could have been so much more protective. I hate that she had to step in and give him any attention. At least she recorded him, but I hate how clearly upset it made her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:34 PM
7

she always was too good for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:01 PM
14

I love this! Also she looks like Christina Aguilera circa Genie in a Bottle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:08 AM
6

at peace with peace!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:34 AM
13

I'm glad you said masseuse because way too many masseurs (male massagers) are rapists, as seen in the allegations against Massage Envy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:31 AM
11

I always feel wary about these kinds of posts, because it almost sounds like the clapping back we're told not to waste our time or energy. Why even engage with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:22 AM
55

also an abuser is automatic negative too. I'm hoping you're joking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:20 AM
61

how is a rapist not -infinity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:19 AM
70

" we all admire the delicate realism of the cartoon in which Boss yells at Husband. Husband yells at wife, and wife yells at Child. That Child had better have a Dog.) " Notice who isn't capitalized, twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:28 AM
28

Girl, I don't want to be harsh, but you shouldn't be giving him anything, let alone 2.5 years of your life for him to "know" he wants to marry you, etc. If it takes you that long to be sure of him, fine, but not the other way around. And even then, if it takes you that long, he's probably not right for you anyway. (Always vet, but you won't need that long to know how you feel and how he treats you.) Don't wait on him to "realize" you're worth being with, all the while getting everything he wants…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:00 AM
41

I don't want you to feel like you're put in an uncomfortable position, but if you do have any contact with her still, please recommend she get out of that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:56 AM
22

You're the sweetheart!!!!!💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:51 AM
8

She doesn't make Hades out to be the creep he is, though, towards Persephone. He's made out to be this sympathetic supportive guy when he very much is not. And as if he cares for her above his own creepiness, which is of course false.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:46 AM
64

There are way too many shitty and evil men out there, but in no way is it natural
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:04 AM
4

You've answered your own questions. I'll answer with quotes from what you said! " But I just did not feel it. " " After this he proceeds to act a bit weird " " he acts dismissive. Ignored me for a week " " he is a self-described kinkster " " He just seems to act like I am his psychotherapist. And with no regard to my own feelings. When I do talk about my life, if it’s my problems - his responses are dry and uninterested, and he only cares if it’s something positive/uplifting to him." He's not a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:55 AM
9

You know what else is gross? She's drawn as half child, half sex object. Her behavior is the same. It's disturbing and I cannot accept it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:46 AM
1

This was my first thought! RIP Jessica Walter! Queen Extraordinaire!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:46 AM
50

they're raping the children, not having sex with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:16 AM
29

He hit the B+D spot (block and deleeeete)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:15 PM
28

The fact that he doesn't volunteer to ask, that he doesn't naturally have concern for your well-being, is the major problem here, and it cannot be overlooked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:02 AM
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