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Chaldean Orthodox. I went to Easter mass at a Chaldean Orthodox church and accidentally sat on the women's side. Did the same at a Hindu temple in India. My bad...
/r/MGTOW28/07/21 12:42 PM
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Wildlife tracker? I dunno
/r/MGTOW27/07/21 12:16 PM
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Read it. Thanks
/r/askMRP16/05/18 07:51 PM
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Been in either?
/r/askMRP15/05/18 11:49 PM
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YOU were acting like a no balls faggot. Agreed.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:23 AM
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You are missing a lot more than vetting skills. Your handling of your wife's previous affair, and your seeming indifference to the import of it shows much to be desired. It demonstrates a total lack of self respect.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:22 AM
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There is still something wrong with you. Agreed, time for a total reset.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:22 AM
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At that height and weight with thoes numbers you should look amazing. Yes. Thank you.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 07:59 PM
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1/6 that's how many of your comments were insightful. Then you have learned nothing. You're correct on this.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 07:58 PM
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You've commented numerous times questioning my fitness. Project much?
/r/askMRP08/05/18 07:57 PM
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Next time it happens thou, There will be no "next time." I have contacted several attorneys and will be interviewing them this week. A follow up post is in the works describing my "go plan."
/r/askMRP08/05/18 12:23 AM
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I know what I have to do now.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 12:21 AM
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Thank you, will do.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 12:21 AM
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This is what you are teaching your kids by staying with this bitch. If she's such a shitty mother, the kids will be orders of magnitude better off with you. Even if it's 50/50... kids will ALWAYS gravitate to the saner, more competent parent. Thanks for this; my confidence in my chosen path is soaring.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 12:21 AM
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That doesn't take away from the fact that your clear insecurity is incredibly unattractive. You are 100% correct.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 12:20 AM
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Thanks, Red, I just read your post and this was my key takeaway: The hard fact to face is that if you are in a dead bedroom, or you are with a woman on the first date and you can’t f-close then you simply are not attractive enough. And ensuring we are attractive is why we are all here. I'm not attractive enough. I get IOIs from women but not to the point that I'm smashing them while their husbands are in the yard. Your point about hypergamy and how easy it is for women to cheat was illustrative …
/r/askMRP07/05/18 07:32 PM
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Guess it's only your mindset, insecurity, and lack of self worth that's the problem. Particularly my self worth. I have contacted lawyers. The go plan is in motion.
/r/askMRP07/05/18 04:01 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. You are one of the guys I was hoping to hear from. Your advice is solid as a rock.
/r/askMRP07/05/18 04:00 PM
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Why would you put up with that? Have contacted three lawyers as per the advice received on AskTRP. Am eager to get this moving.
/r/askMRP07/05/18 02:50 PM
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Have contacted three lawyers as per the advice received here. Am eager to get this moving.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:50 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:49 PM
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The following are my ORMs: DL 455 Squat (ass to grass) 310 BP 270 OHP 175 I mile run: 5:05 Sports: soccer 1x a week. Ice Hockey 1x a week. Life long martial artist - 2 amateur MMA fights under my belt. Registered for a power lifting competition in the late summer. Resolution in 2009 to try a new sport every year. 2009: picked up hockey again after a decade off, played all through my youth at a high level 2010: golf 2011: picked up soccer again after more than a decade off 2012: swimming 2013: cy…
/r/askMRP07/05/18 02:49 PM
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Just knowing my options and likely outcomes will be a huge relief. Obviously, she's going to find out that I met with a lawyer.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:47 PM
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Fake it 'till you make it. Gotcha.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:45 PM
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Thank you. I know I need to remain cool for the sake of my children. I've resolved to, as far as may fairly be done, always speak well of my wife to others. I need to end this as amicably as possible.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:45 PM
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Don't hate him, but don't go out of your way to make it right. It's funny, but I feel very little anger in any of this. Mostly shame, for now. I probably need to get angry to fight this out.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:36 PM
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She seriously wants me to be happy and understands me walking away to do what I need to for me. This is seriously inspirational for me. Identify your issues and target harden for next time. Once I get through this branch of hell this advice of yours will be my focus.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:34 PM
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Disloyalty on that scale is unacceptable. That's where I'm at.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:33 PM
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Read you article. It was fantastic and describes me to a 'T.' I'm the lazy lion who needs to walk out.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:33 PM
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In my experience, sometimes the beta damage is too great to overcome. Nearly five years of implementing my MAP and I still have sooo many beta tells. I suspect that you are right and that I am fighting a battle that I lost eons ago.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:31 PM
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Sounds like she doesn't add value to your life. Why is she around still? My fear of the unknown and concern for my children.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:30 PM
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It might be fun to know what drove you to MRP. Her constant disrespect of me and the Herculean efforts I expended on behalf of our family. It shows me that you know what you want, but you are hesitating. Fear of the unknown? Yes. I've wanted a divorce for years but feared for the children. Now I feel as though I have no choice, that I must divorce. That deadens the fear somewhat. Open disrespect is just that. It’s NOT a shit test, it’s open disrespect, disdain, for the man that you are. That was…
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:29 PM
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How fat and out of shape are you? Fitness is on point.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:26 PM
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And there you have it; why should she care, since there are no consequences of concern to her? Consequences are in bound. Meeting with attorney ASAP.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:25 PM
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No. I don't smoke.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 10:25 PM
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if you suspect she cheated on you then she probably did If there's any doubt... there's no doubt. Got it.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:24 PM
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You thought a contract with the government could change her biology. You thought words on paper exempt you from the game. When you restrict yourself to one woman, this is what happens. I did believe all those things. TRP helped remove the blinders from my eyes but my ego would not allow me to believe that it could EVER happen to me.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:23 PM
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Touche.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:23 PM
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I have a wife who treats me like a fucking ATM machine, blames me for every negative mood she has, treats me with contempt and threatens divorce with every fight she starts. No sex and rages at me regularly. Endless nagging and I’m walking in egg shells. And that bitch would never do anything close to what your wife did to you here in public. The level of contempt she has for you is on some new level I thought I was already at 10/10. Your’s somehow found a way up to 12/10. Wow! Thank you for sha…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:21 PM
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This is the one of the most painful things I've ever read. I'm ashamed. Truly, deeply ashamed.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:20 PM
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Honestly, didn't even think of it at the time. I think I just turned beet red and grinned like an idiot.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:20 PM
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MRP= Married Red Pill (look it up) LARP = Live Action Role Play.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:19 PM
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Doesn’t mrp have you make an action stay/go plan and face this contingency? I will be posting my go plan after consulting with my attorney. Stand-by.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:19 PM
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You sound like a stand up dude. A respectable, caring, loving guy (like me) Thank you. In all humility, what you say about me is true. The only way she will respect you is when you divorce her ass for being a piece of shit partner. Time for hardball.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:18 PM
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DON'T GET MARRIED Too late.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:17 PM
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I lost my marriage over the same shit. Indeed, she invited that guy into our house, and hung out with him until after I went to bed. Thank you for sharing this personal experience with me. This whole thing makes me cringe thinking about it. So does your post. I've re-read my post at least 100 times since yesterday and agree, the cringe is truly embarrassing.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:17 PM
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Women usually treat men with contempt because the man is being contemptible. That’s the first place to look. After carefully analyzing myself and nearly five years of MAP implementation, there's little else I can do but conclude that she's a useless cunt.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:16 PM
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No, you suspected wrong. It wasn't "emotional", he fucked her and felt guilty about you not even knowing the half, so he walked away without making matters worse. It's funny that you should mention that. From that point onward, (after I "confronted" him) whenever I would meet with him or see him around, he seemed unable to maintain eye contact. Fuck. If you truly believe in marriage, you have to acknowledge that you married a harlot and live with that. That's your duty, you signed up for it. I b…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:14 PM
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In other words...AWALT.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:12 PM
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"Go Forth." That was great, too.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:10 PM
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Keep us updated. I will be posting an update once I visit with my lawyer.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:09 PM
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Well at least you won’t taste the other dudes cum in your mouth. Silver lining to every cloud. Excuse me while I go throw-up.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:08 PM
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Thanks, brother. Honestly, I more humiliated than anything. I have to own the fact that it was a combination of naivete and arrogance that led me to believe in the security of my relationship. the answer probably stung It did. you accepted it as truth and are planning on acting on it I can't continue investing in this relationship.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:08 PM
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Face palm. Fuck.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 04:18 PM
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Thank You.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:18 PM
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I agree this is disrespectful. Treat it like a shit test. It's beyond being a shit test. It is contempt.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 04:18 PM
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You obviously read abt TRP but not follow. My ego has gotten in my way. My hubris and naivete had me believing that it could never happen to me.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:17 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:17 PM
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Two kids who are the reason I have endured as long as I have. My only regret will be the temporary pain they endure from their parent's divorce but I see no other way through this now.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 04:16 PM
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At the moment, it's the furthest thing from my mind. Pussy will come once I get through this hell and am ready for it. Not now.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:16 PM
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Thank you. My ego, naivete and arrogance are what led to believe that it could never happen to me.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 04:15 PM
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If you somehow regain her respect, all the power to you but in my experience, once respect is lost in a relationship, its hopeless. I suspect you are correct. Its time to open a safety deposit box with a bank that you have no other dealings with and start siphoning off part of your own paycheques in cash, horde it and not tell anyone except your most trusted RP friend/family member that has little to no contact or vested interest in your wife. Will detail more of the go plan after meeting with m…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:14 PM
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My fitness is on point. Life long athlete and weight lifter. Went from ectomorph body to mesomorph over the period of a decade.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:14 PM
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She might be trying to force a divorce from you. I have been under this impression for years. It is time to give her what she wants. Would that cost a house and 40% of your income for life? I will find out more on the particulars related to finance once I've met with my lawyer. I will post an update as soon as that's done detailing my go plan. I don't think I will regret losing the money on this one. The investment went bust. It happens.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:13 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:11 PM
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I will post an update on Monday with my go plan for those who wish to read it.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:11 PM
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It’s like you got stab by a knife and you think that is normal to walk around with a knife in your back, Repeatedly. Thank you.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:11 PM
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Thank you for reading my post and taking the time to reply. I won't talk with or threaten her. I would never win an argument and she would just hamster anything I say. The time for action is now. I will visit my lawyer on Monday and post an update then.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:10 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:09 PM
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Wow, Man! That was a beautiful poem. Thank you for introducing me to Charles Bukowski.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:09 PM
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Thank you. I won't really peak for another decade or so, but your advice is sound.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 04:06 PM
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The thought of fucking her repulses me.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:49 PM
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Thank you, will do.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:49 PM
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It happens, doesn’t mean you have to live with it tho. I won't tolerate it anymore.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:49 PM
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You can do much better for yourself my man. I know it. Fear has held me back for some time, not anymore.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:48 PM
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Man, I see a plate make pretty eyes at another guy and she’s never getting passed plate. Let alone tolerating this shit. You will never be in my shoes, then. Well done and thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:48 PM
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Are there more problems or? So, so many. Impossible to recount them all here. I wouldn't be running away. I'll still be an amazing Dad, I just won;t be a husband to a cunt anymore.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 08:49 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:48 PM
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Got it.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:47 PM
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agreed
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:47 PM
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Seems toxic as hell. That is how it feels to me. Your wife is disrespecting the fuck out of you. Agreed. My condolences for you being married ... LOL Do you want to try to fix this? Nah, I'm done.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:47 PM
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Or maybe its just a dumb bitch being a dumb bitch. Sex is when and what I want. Never been in a low sex relationship.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:46 PM
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I failed so badly at this so early in the relationship I don't see how I can ever come back from it. I don't think she will ever respect me.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:45 PM
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I don't give a fuck, I don't give a fuck...... Thank you for this new mantra.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 08:44 PM
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Another way to look at it is... where do you think your wife learned her behavior from? So who are your wife's role models and what kind of example are you setting for her? Earlier in the evening we did have a discussion where I voiced the opinion that actresses from the fifties were more attractive in general than their counterparts. Still, I don't see how this warrants a ten minute praise session for an acquaintance of ours.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 08:43 PM
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Betas explicate, alphas demonstrate. The demonstration will be forthcoming. I will post an update this week sometime.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 08:42 PM
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Thank you for posting that link to "Dancing Monkey" game. I had not read it before. This point resonated with me: Some of our diligent Type 2 Captains and Career Betas who already overown their wife's shit as well That's me for sure. Make 74% of the income, do more than 80% of the household work and parent more than her to boot. In that article there's a link to another article I hadn't read on controlling anger. I do call my wife on her shit. I had recently called her on not taking care of our …
/r/askMRP05/05/18 08:40 PM
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It sounds like you chat with her like her girlfriend would - not very masculine This could very well be true and it bears consideration.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 08:35 PM
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Could you please elaborate on 'leaking?'
/r/askMRP05/05/18 08:35 PM
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You are correct. I vetted poorly. I ignored my gut when it told me she was a cheater. I'm paying for it now. Lawyer on Monday.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 07:40 PM
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Fuck. You're right.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 07:26 PM
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The more I think on it the more I've come to believe that that effort would be better spent elsewhere
/r/askTRP05/05/18 07:25 PM
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You are either bullshitting yourself over how far along you are, or haven’t internalized the truth that MRP is not some magic formula to get sex or respect with some specific woman. You are spot on. I'll be calling the lawyer Monday. Will update later.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 07:22 PM
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Thank you for reading my post and for taking the time to respond. Honestly, I think she wants me to kill the puppy. Five plus years of applying red pill and I'm ready to kill the puppy too.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 07:18 PM
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Going to make an appointment with the lawyer on Monday.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 07:17 PM
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I've never had concrete evidence of a physical affair but had solid ground to suspect an emotional one. I attempted to come between her and her love interest. Just typing this makes me realize how cringey that sounds. My gut tells me she was unfaithful then but I didn't have the balls to do the right thing.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 07:17 PM
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I've never had to. Respecting that we are both human beings who will at times feel attraction to another person but will not rub the other's face in it. That's what we agreed upon and a boundary she violated. Essentially, she confessed to our friends that she wants other dick in her.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 07:12 PM
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My turn has come to its end. I think she wants me to kill the puppy. I know I want to.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 07:08 PM
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You are correct. Thanks for reading and commenting.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 07:06 PM
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Thank you. I suspect she wants me to kill the puppy.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 07:05 PM
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I probably do talk to her too much. My fitness is on point. Sex is good. Never wanted for sex in my entire life, always had it when and how I wanted it. Nothing will change moving forward from here. Only my partner may.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 07:04 PM
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I bring exponentially more value to the marriage. The wall, and smoking for years, has not been kind. Not only is she a disrespectful wife, she smells like an ashtray too.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 07:00 PM
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I know you will tame this woman Been working on Red Pill principles nigh on 5 years. I think I just vetted poorly.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:58 PM
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If it's big enough for you to bitch about, it's big enough to matter... otherwise, STFU. No. It is big enough to matter. It's hard to convey in a wall of text but I'm a prize. I know it. Have always had women and sex a plenty. The only person on earth whom I've allowed to take advantage of me is my wife and I'm not sure what to do from here. Will consider your advice on dread.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 06:21 PM
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You're probably right. 47 homeless guys even
/r/askMRP05/05/18 06:17 PM
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I think that's what needs to happen.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:16 PM
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You are correct. I don't think I could respect myself if I stayed with her.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:16 PM
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Thank you. I know what I have to do. I don't usually ask for advice from the Web. I was writing in my journal and decided to post here.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:15 PM
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I noticed you didn't mention how often you bang I get it when I want it and how I want it. I've never been in a low sex relationship. I'm a prize and I know it. They only person on this earth who treats me poorly is my wife, whom I've treated as a queen. It's frustrating, but I think I know what I have to do.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:15 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to read my post and for your insightful comment. I have read the sidebar, numerous times. I'm not sure why I asked anonymous strangers on the Web for advice. I think I was just journaling this and decided to post it. Obviously, my ego is alive and well.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 06:13 PM
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There are women out there who will treat you like a fucking king. Go git it. I'm a prize and I know it. It's clear you've been her bitch for a while. That is the only reasonable explanation. I suspect you are correct.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:11 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to read my post and for your response. We are not in a poly relationship, that I know of. Are you suggesting that my anger is justified?
/r/askTRP05/05/18 05:58 PM
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The fact you took some other guy out to 'prevent' an affair is some real desperate shit and would not be in the playbook for someone who read the sidebar. Thank you for taking the time to read my post and for your response. I admit my approach to affair busting (prevention?) was unconventional. This was actually a friend of mine and fellow veteran so take that for what it is worth.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 05:57 PM
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If there's any doubt, there is no doubt. Next.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:54 PM
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Keto is a life hack for people looking to take life's little shortcuts. There is no substitute for hard work, applied diligently over time. Dudes ask me for workout plans all the time. "Bro, could you make a plan for me?" Trouble is they never stick with it because they aren't genuinely interested in working hard. What they are actually saying is: "dude, you look amazing, obviously you have some secret method you're not sharing with the rest of us - let's hear it." Here's the secret: There is no…
/r/askMRP03/05/18 02:07 PM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 02:03 PM
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I don't want to see him, don't want to talk to him, and I certainly don't want to get to know him. OP doesn't want to. That's sufficient. All OP has to say is: "No girlfriend of mine sleeps in the same room as another man." Then, he must be prepared to enforce this to its maximum logical outcome. Having abundance and not being afraid for your turn to come to an end is the only way to live life as a man in this modern dystopian hellscape.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 02:03 PM
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I said fuck no that's not okay. That's her answer. Done. He's flying from one side of the country to the other. East to west. (which costs a lot of money and time). How is this your problem? Are you obligated to cover the financial expenses of others? I told her that I'm uncomfortable with the whole thing and especially the part about him staying in the room with them for 5 days. I told her the facts don't add up and he has ulterior motives because no guy just flies all the way across the countr…
/r/askMRP03/05/18 02:00 PM
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Well done. Keep that beard, brother. You like the way it makes you look and others seem to like the look on you. Ask yourself this: why would your wife want to sabotage her slave's appearance?
/r/askMRP03/05/18 01:56 PM
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“What do I want?” I want my beard. I fucking loved having it. Kids loved it. People treated me differently and especially women. Beards are very "in" right now. Your wife doesn't want you to have one because it increases the risk that her little slave (YOU) may leave the plantation for freedom, or another plantation. Grow the beard. I did notice in retrospect what seemed to be dread levels increase when other women outside her clique’ would say they liked it. I would always get laid that night. …
/r/askMRP02/05/18 08:18 PM
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I would undoubtedly be a better man once I was comfortable in my own skin. I truly believe that my career would sky rocket as would my SMV. You need no other reason to procure these treatments. In the long run, they are actually investments.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 08:12 PM
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I'll bet you well over half of our wives have actually cheated; yours not discluded. I get that sense too, that easily half of the wives here at askmrp have cheated. Mine potentially included, although I have no evidence of that. I'm actually pretty sure that she's caught feels for others in the past. I've never actually found any evidence that she's followed through into a full blown physical affair. I keep her pretty busy. That said, who can ever be certain? I have no anger over it.
/r/askMRP30/04/18 04:20 PM
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There's nothing in his post that leads me to believe that OP has anything to fix. He gets fucked on the regular, she cooks, cleans and does stuff for him. The chances are very good that if this wife of his would do those things for him so would another, potentially better woman. By all means, OP, continue your MAP, but if you have no children I see no reason to stick around. She betrayed you. Her thirty pieces of Judas' silver was another man's attention (read: cum). Time spent with her is waste…
/r/askMRP30/04/18 03:15 PM
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She responds very well to game and dread. The sex is amazing and she cooks and cleans and does things for me. She can be very submissive. It makes it hard to shake the BP disney feel of maybe it just may work out... And yet, deep down, that part of your brain that warns you of impending doom is signalling to you. What is it telling you? Thousands of years of evolutionary adaptation have conditioned men to hear warning bells when they are about to get cucked, or have been cucked in the past. Your…
/r/askMRP30/04/18 03:12 PM
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You're asking how to get more for less. Get the fuck out of here. results come to those who regularly apply concerted effort over a period of time. The Red Pill is not some get rich quick scheme. That said, I recommend roofing. The work is hard but pays well. As a bonus, you'll be working outdoors all summer long and your body will be as hard as a roofing nail by the end of the summer.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 10:14 PM
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Women are almost always aware of their own SMV. Women almost always have an inflated sense of their SMV, particularly as they age. They also conflate male measurements of attractiveness with female ones, much to their detriment. In other words, some naive women find certain traits attractive in a man and attempt to imitate those traits in an effort to attract a mate, never realizing that what attracts them repulses men with options.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 10:11 PM
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It was a lot of fun! After i earned the host's trust i just followed him and his phantoms around spamming the jump for joy emote during combat. I also fought the actual invaders when they showed up. I think my favorite part was seeing peoples reactions to my antics. A lot of hosts/phantoms didn't really know what to think and watching them go from attacking to staring at me and then avoiding me in combat was great. I don't think it's something I'll do often, but it's a nice change of pace if you…
/r/askMRP26/04/18 10:07 PM
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Just took a quick look at your post history on reddit. You're a gamer. Enough said right there. Have you even read the cut the shit post? Lift Sidebar Quit gaming. What a time vampire.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 10:05 PM
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It didn't matter how great of a guy I was ... sometimes women are going to succumb to their feelings and you can't pull them out of it. Don't bother trying. Thanks for this. I needed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/18 05:27 PM
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One problem I've been having with plates is that I always end up spending my resources, meaning buying food, paying for going out, and cooking. This sort of thing would get much worse if you married one of these women. Try being upfront about this. It sounds as though you've got a covert contract in play here. I suggest "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover. It's filled with helpful advice on getting the things you want out of life.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:14 PM
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I lift occasionally. Shakin' mah haid... I need the occasional relief (but not something wife can accept). I wonder if your weak and pasty body has anything to do with this?
/r/askMRP25/04/18 06:12 PM
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Shadow box or bike? The money's gone, bro.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 06:10 PM
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I think the issue is that I've lost my Disney view of relationships. And now a relationship doesn't really have any value to me. Why do I need a woman ? More precisely, what is a woman going to do for me ? What value will she add to my life ? If it flies, floats, or fucks... it's cheaper to rent, amigo.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 06:08 PM
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Build a little shadow box for it. Put it on your mantle. Display it for all and sundry to observe. reflect on it. It will serve you as a reminder of the colossal blunder you nearly made. Or, put an ad on Kijiji asking to trade it for a motorcycle. Do you turn to the internet for advice like this frequently?
/r/askMRP25/04/18 06:07 PM
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Brother, I shuddered when I read your response. The situation you described is only "the tip of the iceberg?" OMFG!! There's more useless bullshit from your wife? Do tell, my man. I'm sincerely interested in reading about rock bottom and how low a man will go for the occasional whiff of sexual activity.
/r/askMRP12/04/18 11:26 AM
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I stopped washing everything but my clothes, towels, and occasionally a bare minimum of the kids school clothes in with mine for their sake. My family simply ran out of clean clothes often for over a year. That is one crazy game of chores 'chicken.' She can now do her designated share of the dishes/laundry and work 15 hours a week without complaint. After your passive aggressive nonsense for a full year she now works 15 hours without complaint but you still have to do her work for her. Dishes/la…
/r/askMRP12/04/18 11:02 AM
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This, OP. Every man in here has the wife he deserves. If you could have gotten better, you would have. Now, what are you going to do to become a man who deserves better? Lift STFU Sidebar No other advice is relevant.
/r/askMRP12/04/18 10:57 AM
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Criminal defence attorney at first. Then you're going to need a litigator. Seriously, get off Reddit. You need to be calling lawyers, not asking me what to do.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:36 PM
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Good thing I have a lawyer, he doesn’t seem to understand how deep this situation is. Fire his ass and hire someone who understands the gravity of the situation. This is your life, OP. Don't settle for adequate. Get the best legal money can buy. Go into debt if necessary.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:59 AM
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Also I like my wife. Why? Is it because she's an awesome friend who adds value to your life? Is she on board with the mission? Is she a good Mom? Is she a passionate lover? What is there to like about your wife? Fitness enthusiast? Good cook? Or are you afraid that you could not easily replace her?
/r/askMRP10/04/18 11:55 AM
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This guy right here. Guy's short but super charismatic. Emulate him.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:58 PM
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This right here, OP.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:55 PM
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It helps with pre-selection. For other fat women, yes. I don't think OP wants to fuck fatties any more than the rest of us.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:55 PM
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I get this as well, although not as much as when I was younger. "Fat women and fags love me" was a joke I used to drop on the regular. Looking back I was a real pretty boy, which is probably what attracted the gays. Tall, slim, smooth, white and very handsome. In the intervening ten years I've gone bald (shaved my head) grown a beard and put on about 65 lbs, mostly muscle. Gays don't bother with me anymore. Rarely do the fatties either. I attribute the fatties hitting on me to an approachable ap…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:54 PM
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I think you and I have a lot in common in this regard. I tend towards being a bit sensitive myself. There's some good advice in the comments about flipping the script. Asshole from work: "Hey OP, bring me some pizza!" OP: "What's wrong with your legs? LOL" Asshole from work: "Come on OP, bring me some pizza - what's wrong with you?" OP: "Yes, your majesty" walking away, definitely not bringing pizza, getting back to work, doing valuable stuff, contributing to the company etc. I dealt with a situ…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:45 PM
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Here are several examples of soft nexts form Black Dragon Blog
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:34 PM
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Some beta's gonna wife that up. LOL
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:36 PM
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And alcohol, don;t forget alcohol. Catnip for cougars.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:34 PM
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I am physically fit, but don't own a car nor have a job. Priority number one.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:33 PM
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Losers do drugs.
/r/askMRP08/04/18 08:20 PM
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Depending on the child's age you may be misapplying 'cause and effect.' Has your son reached the age of reason where he understands that the 'cause' of the cold shower is the 'effect' of his playing with poop? Seeing as he plays in his poop I would argue that he does not understand 'cause and effect' any better than his mother. Surely, he understands it better than his idiot father.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:25 PM
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Long story short we argue today when my son plays in his shit and I'm giving him a cold shower and ask if she would hold the shower cord. She takes charge and sprays him in the face saying that'll teach him and I say nah just keep it on his lower abdomen the cold water will motivate him enough you don't need to overdo it and spray his face. This shit pisses me off.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:10 PM
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She says what's the problem and I look her right in eyes and say you are. OP, you're wrong. If you want to see the problem look into the mirror. YOU vetted badly and now you are married to a whore who fucks like a prude. YOU are attempting to negotiate desire when attraction is not negotiable. YOU manipulate your wife into sexing you because the thought of fucking you repulses her. YOU abuse your son soaking him in cold water and your wife abuses him too. I don't know how old he is but he's the …
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:09 PM
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True. Wouldn't want to be stronger than your opponent.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 07:04 PM
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I don't lift so no advice there but What. The. Fuck.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 03:58 PM
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Thank you for this comment. It's great to read stories from men who have taken charge and had it work out for them. Excellent work.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 03:55 PM
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Every girl I meet in their mid 20s is living paycheck to paycheck. They're waiting for beta-bucks to come along and save them from mountains of credit card debt and student loans that they won't own up to before they marry. Ask me how I know. Seven years after my wedding unpaid student loans were still surfacing and threatening the family finances. Except by that time there were two innocent children in the mix. I have fucked up, brothers. Take it from me. Don't marry a financially dependent wom…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:46 PM
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I'm supposed to be entering my prime at this point Haha, you are no where near "prime" brother. You will peak physically at around 35 and financially at around 48, so says science! Shave your head. Goatee or beard. Get muscles. Get $$$
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:40 PM
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Brother, you must read this article by the one and only Rollo Tomassi which deals with the situation you have dealt with. It is the definitive breakdown of this exact phenomenon by the Lion of the Manosphere.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:38 PM
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Be upfront about your intentions. Have her qualify herself to you. Have no expectations. Report back here. P.S. Stories like this are why my daughter will live with me until she marries. LOL
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:36 PM
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OP, this is the most succinct advise on the thread. Take it to heart from a man who was in a similar situation to you.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:25 PM
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The situation may be new to you, it is a familiar one to many men. I'll reiterate my questions for you: What value does this woman bring to your life, OP? What does she do for you that no one else can? Plates, brother.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:24 PM
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No you.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:22 PM
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You can't find a wing man and we're worthless? Project much, bro? Fuck off.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:14 PM
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Yes. It will pass.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:04 PM
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Man, wear a condom if you do have sex with her. No. No more sex with her. OP's frame is so weak she'll lull him into complacency with 48 hrs of non-stop hysterical bonding sex. Easy peasy. OP needs to ghost this bitch. Block her on his cell, delete all his social media and communicate with her through his lawyer. If he sticks his dick in that, even once, she'll take him over like one of those Amazon River parasites that enters the human body through the urethra.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 02:56 PM
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6'2" and 175 lbs with no visible abs until late summer. Holy Shit! That sad. r/steroids
/r/askMRP05/04/18 02:52 PM
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Your question could be distilled into one sentence: "I can't be anywhere she does not know about or she will likely cheat on me. What should I do, guys?" You give too many fucks, but you know that. How do you stop giving so many fucks? That should be your question. Op, it is over. Never fuck this woman again. Hysterical bonding can lead to pregnancy. You have no children. You are young and attractive. Run. Go monk mode for a year to work on yourself then hit the ground running as a newly divorce…
/r/askMRP05/04/18 02:50 PM
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Life goals for me then. Need to lose a few lbs.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:34 AM
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Drop your focus from finding a wingman. Switch to upgrading your circle of friends. It's clear that your friends are gammas. Go to the gym. Join a MMA gym. Take a night class. Join a fraternal group (Masons). Make some quality friends. Your current pals are no good as wingmen anyway, gaming losers.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:33 AM
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Married guy here. I have two children whom I love. I have never regretted having them. I have regretted being married nearly 90% of the time that I have been married. It is hell, OP. Never lose sight of the fact that you'll be sharing your home and bed with a woman who, due to Briffault's Law, see you as nothing more than a utility.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:32 AM
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Wow! I have not done the first part, told my Dad "thanks" for everything. I am going to do that today. I have told him, repeatedly, that my mother is from the bowels of hell. He already knew. I'm 100% that the stress of his marriage will put him in his grave before he turns 70. Poor guy is religious and believes he'll get to heaven for being married to her. I hope he's right.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:30 AM
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So much good stuff there.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:27 AM
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The Lion of the Manosphere, Rollo Tomassi on LDRs. Read up.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:27 AM
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They give the worst dating advice on the planet. Ignore. P.S. Get an actual wingman.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:25 AM
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Humble brag! Honestly though, OP, good for you brother. Keep on keeping on. Double standards or no standards. whatever. let them enjoy the view.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:24 AM
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What value does this woman bring to your life, OP? What does she do for you that no one else can? You are tolerating an intolerable situation because you have a scarcity mentality. Grab your boys, head out on the town and run some game. I think you'll find that there are many other women receptive to your interest in them. Dump the career woman who wants to be an executive. She's broken.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:18 AM
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Quite rationalizing the fact that you desire a whore who fucks [you] like a prude, OP. She's not yours, it WAS just your turn. It's over.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:16 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 "Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was."
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:14 AM
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Huge Jordan Peterson fan!
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:10 PM
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stressful history Childhood abuse Combat induced PTSD etc.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:30 PM
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I think you're probably right about happiness being unachievable. Something about being human that makes us unsatisfied. Then we die. C'est la vie.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:30 PM
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Your wife is useless because YOU allow her to be. Your wife is lazy because YOU enable her. YOU are exhausted and resentful because YOU do not take care of yourself. YOU are setting the example to YOUR kids that men are nothing but draft animals. What do YOU think YOUR son will do when he marries? What do YOU think YOUR daughter will expect when she marries? Set some boundaries, OP. Give her some expectations for fuck's sake. Two kids is not a lot of work for a minimally competent person. Cleani…
/r/askMRP04/04/18 11:45 AM
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Words of hope for me.
/r/askMRP04/04/18 11:37 AM
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I don't make my wife's life interesting and fun. I must have missed this lesson in my readings of the sidebar. Was I supposed to be taking responsibility for my wife's "fun" this whole time? I didn't think I was. I was under the impression that my life was my responsibility. Weird. I've just gone off and built a nice life for me. Good for you. Now, invite her to join you from time to time and where appropriate. I need to start all over again and do it properly. I've managed to avoid divorce for …
/r/askMRP04/04/18 11:22 AM
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Happiness cannot be the standard by which we judge others. Happiness is a fleeting emotion. May I suggest you read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:15 AM
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If you're a weak bitch. Perhaps. most people are depressed,they just hide it under a mask You may be absolutely right. If so, we should be asking ourselves why so many people are depressed.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:14 AM
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Do yourself a solid favour. Break up with this girl today. There is nothing worse than living with someone who is depressed. Take it from me. She may be fine now but it will not last. She will drag you down, bro. Even the most iron frames have been known to crack after months of living with a morose woman. Break up now before you get in any deeper with this girl.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:42 PM
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He is not your friend. Cut him out of your life as ruthlessly as you would cut-out any gamma turd.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:40 PM
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She wanted to fuck another dude instead of me, turns it around on me?? And wants to punish me I guess. Yes. There is no limit to the gymnastics a female hamster is able to perform. Now she doesn't answer my calls or texts but still has my city bike membership card Report it stolen to your local police. Provide them with print-offs of your text transcripts requesting the return of the stolen card. Bring a copy of the police report proving it was stolen to your local Metro issuing station. Have th…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:37 PM
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Now. I live with this bitch. She's broke all the time and relies on me for money, food etc. Bitch is moody all the time, sex is meh. And after all that, this happens... NEXT!!
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:31 PM
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Hi OP, I didn't mean to suggest that fatherhood is akin to martyrdom, merely that marrying for the sake of the future was. Like you, I take fatherhood seriously. However, that seriousness is what motivates my honesty. Here it is; the deck is stacked against you. Your chances of having a successful marriage 1.0 are next to nil. Modern marriage is a fool's errand. We now live in the era of marriage 2.0. You will never have your great grandfather's marriage. If you read this sub and internalize its…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:10 PM
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Dump them. Read this article on the socio-sexual hierarchy and cut out all Gammas and below. Be ruthless. You'll thank me.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 12:21 PM
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Unfortunately for me, I found the Red Pill AFTER I was married (face palm). However, if you are truly red pilled you understand the responsibility you have to the future. The biological drive to father children is overwhelming. If you can come up with some arrangement that protects you while you do so, all the power to you. That said, I feel no obligation to the "future" to be a martyr today. FWIW, I've already passed on my genes.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 12:18 PM
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She was never yours, it WAS just your turn. If you marry this girl, OP, you are in for a lifetime of heartache and poverty.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 12:12 PM
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You raise a good point. I don't know the answer to this question or what Heartiste was referring to. I agree that the upward glance to break eye contact is not a good sign. The downward glance, accompanied by blushing, is practically a "green light."
/r/askTRP30/03/18 11:13 AM
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Nope. This is all good. I would definitely go on a next date if you genuinely believe that she's a traditional virgin. Those young women are rare indeed. Also, she paid her fair share? That's great! I believe that traditional women should be rewarded for swimming against the current of the cultural zeitgeist.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:18 PM
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Did my parents not love me or just shitty ass parents? If there's any doubt, there is no doubt. Your parents suck, yes. So what? Not everyone who becomes a father turns out to be a great Dad. You just got dealt a shitty hand. Fuck it. Move on. What are you doing with yourself now? Lifting Reading Instrument Second Language Martial Art Formal education Gaming Friendships Volunteer work You mention nothing about any of these building blocks of a masculine, complete life. Why is that?
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:13 PM
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Your English is excellent. Well done for writing so well in a second language. You are passionate about math. Good for you. Own it. be proud. Not many people excel at math. Alternatively, you could be silly with it. Girl: "So what are you studying here at xyz University?" Math Major: "I'm currently in my fifth year of Guatemalan lesbian poetry studies... You?"
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:10 PM
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How well do you understand your position on the socio-sexual hierarchy? Read this article and ponder your rank. This has helped me understand where I fit in and where my peers fit as well. It has also helped me understand the way certain men behave and predict unwanted behaviours.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:07 PM
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I say I'm 29, she says she doesn't date men older then 27 as she's only 22. I say that's ok I don't date girls younger then 23 (she was 22). Have her qualify herself to you. "That's ok, you're too short for me anyway..." Something like that. "Wut? I'm 5'7"..."
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:39 PM
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From the one and only, Chateau Heartiste: "Related, if a girl glances downward or upward when you pass by her on the sidewalk after making eye contact, she wants you to hit on her. If she looks sideways after you have made eye contact with her, she’s probably not interested. If she bites her lower lip, I hope you brought a condom and a favorite public sex location."
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:36 PM
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You need legal advice, brother. There's some good info here in the comments section but legalities vary from one jurisdiction to the next. You are living one of my worst nightmares. Do what is necessary to protect your son, the one person in the world more important than you.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:37 PM
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"My g/f does not maintain contact with former lovers, nor does she meet up with men without me." There's your line in the sand. If she crosses it, hard next.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:33 PM
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Hhhmmm. That is strange. Divide and Conquer? Pick one likely candidate and get him on your side. Make him your friend using HTWFAIP. Get one and others will follow? I'm grasping at straws here. I'm sure you can tell. Alternatively, fuck it. Fuck 'em all.
/r/askMRP28/03/18 05:58 PM
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Imagine how free you would feel if you were truly independent of the good will of others and didn't need their validation in order to deal with them. Of course, you recognize my reference to WISNIFG, which you've no doubt read. Go on your mandatory trip. Plan something fun. Invite her to join you on this 'something fun.' If she does, great. If she doesn't, great.
/r/askMRP28/03/18 05:56 PM
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Understanding the socio-sexual hierarchy really helped me understand and predict the way other men behave. I recommend giving the linked article a read and then inviting quality men into your life as friends while ruthlessly removing the gammas.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:44 PM
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Hey, OP. No one has yet suggested any reading material that will make you more, what's the word, "acceptable" to your male neighbours. Allow me to suggest "How to Win Friends and Influence People," by Dale Carnegie. Furthermore, good relations with one's neighbours is important. Minimal civility is good, friendliness is better. Who knows what kind of network resides in the homes adjacent to yours. Why don't you find out? Read the book I suggested, then throw a party in your back yard for the nei…
/r/askMRP28/03/18 11:40 AM
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OP, Black Dragon Blog is the resource for you. He defines what an Alpha Male 2.0 is and describes his success with serial non-monogamy from a Red Pill perspective. Check him out and see if you can find some answers there.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:25 PM
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Are you always this indecisive? You should always have an extra helmet. Women love bikes and you should be using the bike to generate interest. Come on, dude.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:34 PM
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Got a bit drunk together and had sex which she said she never did before on a first date. Mmmm, k. I'm a bit scared it will be awkward initially. Do I act like we're familiar? Greet with a kiss? Dude, you already put your cock in her. The familiarity ship has set sail. Get on board. You should get physical as quickly as possible, then maybe go out. Your relationship with this girl is already sexual. Start kino right from the get go. Be clear with your intention to smash. Expect her to put up her…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:32 PM
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You are unattractive/ugly and she wants to fuck other men. Yup. And, she's damn sure that OP could never "pick-up" a girl for them to "enjoy." LOL OP is clueless. Sidebar>>>>>>>>>>
/r/askMRP27/03/18 11:33 AM
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That sounds like a lot of fun. If I'm ever in Dallas I'll drag the wife into there.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 11:17 AM
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I think it is best to focus on what we ourselves can change and cannot change. Dr. Jordan Peterson would be nodding along in agreement with you.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:50 PM
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My mother will make up any reason to degrade me or to try to have control of anything over the stupidest things. Me too. I have cut her out of my life. Despite periodic, irrational regret it was the best thing for my mental health and peace of mind. Can't put too high a premium on that.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:47 PM
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First, I'm sorry that your self esteem has been run down. Your circumstances and background suck. Tell us a little more background about yourself. Age, height, weight, ethnicity, success with women, kids etc. From my understanding, self esteem is generated through accomplishment. Do you remember when your teachers, parents and other clueless adults would chatter about "building up Johnny' self esteem?" That was nonsense. No one can build your self esteem but you. I believe that the way to accomp…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:44 PM
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I think that some people get off on embarrassing others, especially their children, it gives them a sense of control and power. You could be absolutely right. As for someone to feel embarrass shows that one must care a great deal about said person to feel such an emotion. In this moment when she tried to shame me, I become stoic and un-feeling of the matter. I believe she sensed a change in my normal reaction to such events. I hope this continues to work for you. For the pettier the emotions you…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:33 PM
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I dated a 9, more than a decade ago, when I was a 7. It was non-stop shit tests. Sex was great though. In terms of other dudes hitting on her... I have no idea. I never investigated, or even cared. Perhaps that's what attracted her to me. It ended badly when I got sick of her shit. Trust me, you will get sick of her shit.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:42 PM
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Sorry about my earlier comment. It was pretty gamma of me.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 02:40 PM
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Like what are they getting from it? Exactly! Let me give you an example. The Nazis are overused but permit me the indulgence. Kristallnacht had the effect of sowing terror in the hearts of German Jews. That was one outcome. What does smashing up shops and beating Jews do the the stated party goal of Lebensraum? Nothing. What was the point of the violence then? Could it simply be to sow terror and confusion, not only in the hearts and minds of German Jews but also in the hearts and minds of all G…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:22 PM
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Dr. Jordan Peterson said something in one of his YouTube videos which has resonated with me ever since. "If you are ever at a loss as to what someone's motivations are, take a good long look at the outcomes." (I'm paraphrasing as I can;t remember the quote verbatim). Pay little attention to what people say and analyse what they do. These two tidbits of wisdom have helped me in understanding who I wanted to keep in my life, and who I wanted to jettison. I have suffered from some self doubt when c…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 01:36 PM
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Ha! Good point.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 01:23 PM
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Why you never date a single mom.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 01:21 PM
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You haven't read Kay's books??!! Why are you posting here at all? MMSLP is THE book that removed the scales from my eyes. For me, it was the most relevant book on the side bar after NMMNG. Get to work, OP.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 01:05 PM
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However, I can't say that I don't covertly plan seeds with her and work to create sexual tension off and on in our everyday life. Whatever you're doing, it's working. Keep on keeping on. Congrats again!
/r/askMRP26/03/18 01:00 PM
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"Autism or autism spectrum disorder, refers to a range of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech and nonverbal communication, as well as by unique strengths and differences."
/r/askMRP26/03/18 12:38 PM
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My advice? Enjoy NOLA but do it with no expectations. OP, you likely did not have the expectation of sex in front of strangers when you went into that strip club. A lack of expectations is generally when the good times roll. Congrats on what must have been a pretty hot experience.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 12:37 PM
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WISNIFG barely spoke to me either. NNMNG, on the other hand, I've read three times. I even did the "breaking free" exercises and found them very helpful. I may even read it again; it's that good. Broken record seems to work well on women, FWIW. I've had some success with it. I also use it on my kids when they get overly demanding and AA or AM fails to dull their demands.
/r/askMRP25/03/18 07:16 PM
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Who cares what she wanted to know about? Fuck off, White Knight. Lookin' at you, u/mrpthrowa
/r/askMRP25/03/18 03:21 PM
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"I think I'm going to keep our hanging out to a minimum. Because as of right now, I feel I take this relationship far more seriously than you do, I think you take it seriously as far as getting your dick wet. I need to think about what it is I want for sure because of right now, you and I are on way different pages. " This drama is unnecessary manipulation. Read Black Dragon Blog's post on how to soft-next and report your success back here.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:27 PM
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My biggest fear is fake rape accusation coming my way. I'm used to sticking my dick in crazy You are playing with a fire that burns permanently. You have been warned.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:25 PM
5

It has no place here. So peaks his imperial grace, u/Terminal-Psychosis. It's bro science, corroborated by numerous people on this sub-reddit and others I've seen. Why dismiss it out of hand? Have you had similar success while fapping like a lonely incel? Consider taking action to control your irrational anger.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:23 PM
1

Board room situation: someone makes a sarcastic comment you turn all your attention to them and say: "XX would you elaborate on that for us?" As if you think he may actually have something to contribute to the meeting. Keep looking at him expectantly... he'll collapse into a mumbling idiot.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:20 PM
1

"Who invited their little brother to the party?" That's my go-to. Thirsty gammas are always cock blocking mother fuckers. Cut them out of your life. These dudes are a reflection of your quality. Get better friends.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:18 PM
2

Thursday evening. Relevance?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:16 PM
1

The book goes hand-in-hand with "No More Mr Nice Guy." (IMO) I found NMMNG pertained better to me, YMMV.
/r/askMRP24/03/18 12:15 PM
12

Who let their little brother into r/asktrp?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 06:42 PM
7

When you do go to bed...allow her to feel your weight on her, all of it. Show her how strong you are. I don't mean hurt her. Pull her in tight. Lift her up. Carry her to bed. Flip her over at your discretion. If she attempts to change position, do not allow her. Lay her prone, enter her and allow your full weight to rest upon her. She'll feel dominated. There's likely no way she could do that to you. Especially not entering you, but you never know. It is the current year.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 06:40 PM
1

Do you truly believe that men and women can be strictly platonic friends? As far as friendships go, women seem to be interested in things that I'm not, and vice versa. All of my friends are guys. You got rejected. Happens to everyone. Move along.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 06:37 PM
4

Are there any temp. agencies in your area? They often hire labourers for the day. That's what I was doing at your age. Pay sucked, work was hard and employers treated us like shit. It was a tough way to start out.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 06:35 PM
4

Book suggestion: "Sex God Method." There's a free pdf kicking around here somewhere, I just know it.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 06:33 PM
1

It is a book entitled, "When I Say No I Feel Guilty," the author is Manuel Smith. Your local library will likely have a copy. It contains ten solid laws regarding your responsibilities to yourself and others. It also elaborates on several strategies for dealing with difficult people. Any ideas where that may come in handy?
/r/askMRP23/03/18 06:30 PM
1

I didn't realize you were trying to encourage introspection with your post. "The 48 Laws of Power" is available as an audio book on YouTube, as an FYI.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 06:28 PM
1

OP would rather sleep next to a woman who cheats that be forced to close his joint chequeing account.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 03:14 PM
1

OP, it's your life. I won't make any decisions for you. You have to do that yourself. If all succeeds, you take all the credit. If everything fails, you shoulder the blame. Your question was hypothetical to begin with, right? Has your wife cheated on you? Hypothetically, and it could happen to anyone, if my wife cheated on me I would be upset too to lose my comfortable life. The difference between us is that I'm 110% confident that I would rebuild an even better life for myself, upon the ashes o…
/r/askMRP23/03/18 03:12 PM
2

And don't ever give a woman that look you did in that photo. Indeed.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:05 PM
1

Too much drama Exactly! That's why cousin-fuckin' is a terrible idea. Drama. We can't have that now, can we.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:03 PM
1

Do you even lift, bro?
/r/askMRP23/03/18 02:47 PM
2

Pics! Or it didn't happen.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:42 PM
2

~2000 = "Blah, Blah, Blah Toxic Masculinity..." ~ 2017/18 = "Masculinity is Toxic!" Get off of Facebook man. Other people depress me.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:40 PM
1

She hot?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:38 PM
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The pictures you posted add some clarity to your dilemma, which is one of confidence, not appearance. As a man, appearance really only counts against you if you are ugly. You are not ugly. Continue to work on your fitness. You seem to be doing well in that department. Your clothing sucks. So does your body language and facial expression. The good news about that is that both of those are easily fixable. Check out this guy Alpha M on YouTube. The dude is your height, but he owns the living shit o…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:33 PM
5

Really soon you have to start gaming her (kino, flirt, common activities). Now her feelings are not met by you and she has started to looking elsewhere. No. One does not simply "game" whores; one pays them to leave. Essentially, OP would be paying his whore to leave. OP's wife is in no way deserving of his affection, cock, time or money. She's a whore. The bottom of life's little totem pole. The courts may force him to pay her for years but that is a travesty of justice, a violation of the natur…
/r/askMRP23/03/18 11:39 AM
2

In summary, you're fat, weak, unattractive, broke and a cuck. Where do we even begin with you? Your wife doesn't love you. Oh well. Your wife finds you unattractive; chances are that the majority of women find you unattractive as well. Oh well, your wife is not yours, it WAS only your turn. Your turn is over. Quietly consult an attorney and begin to implement an exit plan. There is a helpful article somewhere on this sub entitle, "How to Divorce your wife." Look it up. Sort your fucking finances…
/r/askMRP23/03/18 11:34 AM
1

No problem, brother. Happy Friday.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 11:14 AM
1

Having a fitness goal is a key success driver. Your goal is aesthetics. It's a legitimate goal. Keep on keeping on.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 11:12 AM
2

Thank you for the link. My gut was telling me the same thing about frame and alcohol induced haze being related. Additionally, how is one able to remove oneself in the face of shitty behaviour when inebriated? Simply driving to the gym to get some space is illegal. I'm down to 2-4 drinks a week now. I feel better. My lift numbers are at an all time high and I'm saving money. Winning.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 11:10 AM
1

"Blah, blah, blah... my wife is a good mom and she clean n' stuff... totally worth my self respect. When my kids inevitably find out that their mom is a cheater and that I'm a spineless coward addicted to comfort I'll explain what a good cleaner she was..." OP, what the hell kind of a post is this? Your kids are watching you. Brother, you are their example of what a man should be, for better or for worse. If you have no respect for yourself, at least behave in a respectable manner for your child…
/r/askMRP22/03/18 04:36 PM
2

I wouldn't WANT to do it. Fixed that.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 04:31 PM
2

You are a beast man. That's an impressive schedule. I couldn't do it.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 04:31 PM
2

If you need to be in gym every day to feel like a man, so be it. I do need it, not to feel like a man but to burn excess energy, to keep myself sane, to remain in good health, to regulate and balance my hormones and mood in a world which is not conducive to any sort of balance and I also use that time for contemplation and introspection. Many days, my workout is the ONLY thing I do just for me. I'm in the gym seven days a week because I need it. I don't lift every day, only four days a week, I s…
/r/askMRP22/03/18 04:30 PM
1

Need some context here, OP. Got kids? How old are you? where from? age? age when you married? I'll do my best to help you but you need to fill in the blanks. For example, if you have no kids why are you still in UK when you could be with supportive family members in your country of origin? I understand that you are in terrible emotional distress. Writing this out may help you avoid catastrophising.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:01 PM
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OP, This is a hard next situation. "Dear, my g/f does not meet her exs behind my back." Then ghost. She was never yours, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:56 PM
2

I could not agree more. If OP goes ahead and marries under the circumstances he deserves what he will get.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 01:53 PM
3

Not even married and you are afraid of what she will think. This right here is why you have to, at the minimum, postpone your engagement, wedding whatever until you become your own mental point of origin. If not, we'll be seeing you in r/deadbedrooms in a year. You are not ready, OP. You are walking head first into a life of misery attempting to please a woman.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 01:52 PM
2

This right here. How old are you? kids? how old were you two when you married? etc. There's simply not enough context provided to answer this question properly. I won't go through his post history. I'm too busy to help someone who won't put in any effort. For what it's worth: my wife and I, as well as our children, are very healthy. Thank God.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 01:47 PM
3

Good job on quitting smoking and drinking. Those two things combine to age one's face faster than anything. I can easily tell someone who smokes before I hear them speak or smell their breath just by their grey pallor and wrinkled appearance. It's a shame really as I enjoy Scotch and cigars. As for the gym, are you sure you're not just making excuses? Worth considering as the benefits of gym-time extend into many other areas of your life, brother.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 01:42 PM
3

Well said, u/Iammrp2. I don't have any scientific data to back this up, only a hunch, but I think alcohol makes you physically weaker. If I even have two beers the night before a workout my lifts suffer and I suffer. Cutting back the booze from ?? drinks a week to two - four really improved my strength. YMMV
/r/askMRP22/03/18 01:39 PM
1

Yes, man! This is what I'm talking about. You're looking good, now you're going to brighten that smile, up the amperage on those pearly white and get a new suit. I love it. That's what we do. Own that shit. 1000lbs by December is doable. Are you using 5,3,1 from T-Nation? This program will ensure that you get there. Keep up the reading, OP. I think you're well down the path to leading an enviable life.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 12:24 PM
2

u/mrpthrowa he didn't want to fuck, he wanted to sleep, in order to be well rested for his Captain duties. That's pretty straightforward. When your little girl clumsily wakes you because her adult faculties and judgement are impaired by her immaturity and selfishness, calmly postponing her conversation, which will keep for the following day, is the right thing to do. OP wanted to sleep, so he did. Don't dwell on it too much but what's 3 minutes in this. When was your last conversation with your …
/r/askMRP22/03/18 12:19 PM
1

Op is keeping score. Dude vetted poorly. Sucks to be him.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:14 PM
1

I encouraged my wife to share more of her sexual experiences with me and to make a long story short; I am uncomfortable with what I heard. It bothers me that my wife has had more partners than me and I want to not give a fuck. What. the.fuck? Dude, this is r/askmrp, you're looking for r/hotwives. Good luck. You do realize that man's preference for virginal brides is an evolutionarily adapted mechanism to assure paternity. Don't you? That's why your wife's sexual past disgusts you. Your inadequac…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:11 PM
2

Her attempt to initiate a late hour discussion while OP is in bed resting for his job, a responsibility she doesn't have I hasten to add, is inconsiderate, shitty behaviour. His calm decision to postpone the conversation was the correct one. Being married is "red pill on hard mode;" best to rest up for it.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:05 PM
1

First, well done on the body composition numbers. You're in the top 1% in the United States. Keep on keeping on in that regard. Still though, find something you don't like about your appearance and begin correcting that. You've got the body. Any other little investments in your appearance go a long way and may generate some passive dread. Second, you seem to be doing just fine. Your decision to sleep vice engaging in a discussion which can easily wait was the correct call. You need to rest in or…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:03 PM
2

Not paranoid enough. This is worrisome. That data is on his phone, including images of a nude minor. Lawyer up, OP.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:49 PM
2

Man, this story freaks me the fuck out. I'm pretty paranoid so take this with a grain of salt. I think you need legal advice. A few hundred dollars in the long run is not much. The fact that you have received nudes from a minor is worrisome. We do live in a very gyno-centric society that will see you as a perp regardless of evidence or even law. I'd consult a lawyer.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:48 PM
1

If there is any doubt ... there is no doubt.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:44 PM
3

It's a shit test, apply amused mastery. "Ah, a woman of mystery, lemme guess ..."if you tell me, you'd have to kill me" right? LOL." Get to work on the ten levels of dread. Alternatively, if your gut tells you there's something more to this than a simple shit test you have no choice but to draw a boundary and be ready to enforce it. "My gf does not go out "somewhere" ambiguous, nor does she hide her intentions, whereabouts or behaviour from me." The implication here is that if she wants to be yo…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:40 PM
2

I need to see what making out with a mermaid by a bonfire is like. Seriously, I've never tried Lagavulin.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:03 PM
1

Being married or in a LTR is hard enough without constant attempts to sabotage the relationship. Is this relationship worth it to you? It sounds as though you're trying to control your girl, her family and yourself. Pick one. (hint: it's you)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 11:12 AM
1

Yes. I've had insomnia since returning from Afghanistan in 2009. In fact, it started to develop while I was over there. Whatever. Sleep hygiene. Cool, dark room. Regular bed-time hours. (rarely deviate) Magnesium, melatonin, zinc supplements Nothing to drink from 8 pm onwards Alcohol - cut it waaaaaay back. Many alcohols have more sugar than you can imagine. My best sleeps occur when I'm sober as a judge. If I have a single beer, the whole night is a write-off.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:47 AM
3

Block her? What? Hell, no! Buy her a ring, marry her. See you over in r/deadbedrooms within the first year.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:44 AM
1

Why are you allowing her to shame your sexuality? Read the "Sex God Method." If I'm not mistaken, there's a link on the sidebar of RedPill reddit. Start your search there. Or you could Google it yourself.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:38 AM
5

I owe her for getting my life on track but I think it might be time to next her. You seem to have her on a pedestal. Did she get your life on track? More likely you did a bunch of stuff for yourself in order to please or placate her. You have along way to go. May I suggest starting with the sidebar? Also, if you 'next' her, may I also suggest a month of monk mode that will allow you to focus on reading the sidebar and developing the frame to never place anyone on such a high pedestal again.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:35 AM
6

My friends usually stay all the way to 6 am and for the life of me I don't get how people do it. I like waking up clear minded and continuing my day but I don't want my friends to see me as a stiff so I need some advice on what to do. How the fuck are you guys able to stay up so late? Thanks. Bud, I'm the exact same as you. The difference being I'm 35 years old and married with responsibilities. I'm assuming you're younger than me. It does sound as though you are missing out on some good times. …
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:30 AM
5

Are you good looking and well dressed? People used to do the same to me. I was/am a pretty boy and I have always taken care to dress well. People made assumptions. It used to bother me. Fill out a little. Add some muscle and continue to agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:50 AM
2

Political science can be a good career Nope. Political Science is not a career. It is an arts degree which is useless in and of itself. If you are planning on going to law school and require a high GPA to get in than Political Science could work for you as it is an easy "A." Other than that, save your money or get a STEM degree. The most important thing is that you love it though. Fuck off. Your advice is less than worthless; it's downright harmful. Go buy yourself a copy of "Worthless" by Aaron…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:46 AM
1

Math is the language of science. Like any language it requires daily practice in order to become proficient. Do not quit your business degree in favour of a Politics degree. Do not look for the easy way out.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:44 AM
1

I married an introvert. She compliments me in that I'm outgoing. From time to time she does feel quite lonely, although she rarely complains. I don't see introversion as a red flag.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:41 AM
-2

Please no 'have girls on the side' type arguments. Open your mind, Neo. You seem surprised that you have natural urges and attractions to cute young women. Why? Dude, you have a pregnant wife at home; allow me to caution you against implementing any dread at this stage. Marriages are known to go down in a whirlwind of flames when dread is implemented during pregnancy. You have been warned. What you have is an excellent opportunity to lead your wife and growing family towards you life goals. You …
/r/askMRP19/03/18 10:50 AM
1

u/BobbyPeru's advice is perfect, brother. Take it. You are very well paced to makes significant gains in the immediate two months ahead of you, use this time wisely. SL 5x5 from now until 1 September, then switch to 5,3,1, (look it up on T Nation). This will cure your dead bedroom, or attract someone else into it. You can't lose.
/r/askMRP19/03/18 10:46 AM
1

You seem like a loser. IRL, I would not even talk to you. Lawyer up, idiot. Oh, here you go
/r/askMRP19/03/18 10:32 AM
2

You're right, u/mrpthrowa. It's crazy that a guy like OP needs validation from the Web to make the obvious choice. He has a long way to go. I also agree with you that the example he sets for his kid now will pay dividends in future.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 04:57 PM
2

It's not that crazy, especially if he's been lifting for a long time. Totals are 1300 lbs. for a 190 lb man, it's doable.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 03:54 PM
1

Meh. It doesn't matter and I'm not fixated on it. I think the point is that he's in great shape, which should serve him well as he moves forth into his new life as a single man.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 03:50 PM
1

You seem to have an abundance of plates. That's good. My .2c, for what that gets you, hard next her. Too much drama.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:41 PM
3

This right here. OP, 'motivation' is all about feelings. Feelings should not hold you back. You must achieve your goals through the persistent and dedicated application of effort over an extended period of time. There are no 'life hacks' there are no short cuts. Push through, get your shit done, disregard your feelings of 'slipping.' They are just feelings.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:29 PM
9

Robert Gover is the author. In any event, it is an incredible book. I have read it three times. My recommendation is to read it through once. That being done, read it again and complete the "breaking free" exercises. Really, being a 'nice guy' (TM) should be treated like a disability for men. It's truly debilitating.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:24 PM
6

Your lifting numbers are excellent! Well done. You'll easily be able to SGM your new plates and they're going to love you for it. BTW, never marry again. For the love of God. Best of luck in the divorce.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 02:50 PM
2

Got it. Some of the other commenters are blowing this off and implying that her "joke" isn't a big deal. Paternity fraud is a big deal, man. Think of the years and years of commitment fatherhood entails, the money... My God! Tricking a man into pregnancy is entrapment. At the very least, you need to be obsessive about your birth control. Best case scenario, downgrade her to plate. Lowest rung.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 01:11 PM
0

"No major red flags." "Then I saw her share this meme about sabotaging contraception..." Do you see the incongruence of your statements yet? Buyer beware.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:38 PM
1

Will do, thanks Dad.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 12:36 PM
1

Good to hear. I think the Red Pill praxeology encourages men to divest of social media completely. There's certainly plenty of social science literature on the correlation between social media and depression, indicating that overall concerns about mental well being and social media are on point. I myself use it sporadically, I post pictures of some cool stuff I do, pictures of my kids (my pride, my joy) and generally use it for keeping in touch with people worth keeping in touch with. YMMV. Good…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:39 PM
1

Less is more on social media. Try being a man of mystery. Post only a few, high quality pictures of you doing something high value. Better yet, post a pic of you with a dog! You are by no means done in your city. Show up to the party with a better looking girl and have the time of your life. Chat with everyone. A good book for you is "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Carnegie.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:58 AM
3

Most "depression" goes away on its own. When it becomes persistent, or results in thoughts about your own death, it's time to get help, whether or not you can 'afford' it. If it's not persistent, you know what to do. Push through. Workout. Sleep well. Eat well. Hang with friends. No fap. Little to no booze. No drugs. You got this. It will pass.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:55 AM
1

"I want it often and am adventurous, and she wants it every 3-4 months and is pretty conservative." With you... If Magic Mike walked through your front door while you were at work do you think what transpired next would be vanilla? Get to work. Persistent, dedicated effort over time. Sidebar. Weights. Take care of yourself, you sound like a 'nice guy.'
/r/askMRP14/03/18 11:48 AM
1

Sounds like what you're doing works for you. Keep on keepin' on.
/r/askMRP14/03/18 11:45 AM
1

Dudes ask me for a workout plan about once a month. Know why? Because I look like I workout. Whenever someone asks me for a program, do you know what he's really asking for? A shortcut. He thinks I know something he doesn't. I don't. My body is the product of more than 17 years of lifting and a lifetime of sports. Dudes think they can fast forward through the work. My final word on this matter: commit to 5X5 from now until 1 September; 1 September switch to 5,3,1 (look it up on T-Nation); figure…
/r/askMRP14/03/18 11:43 AM
1

Are you planning on Keto for life? I bet you're back up to 300 lbs + within a decade.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 07:52 PM
2

Dudes ask me for a workout plan about once a month. Know why? Because I look like I workout. Whenever someone asks me for a program, do you know what he's really asking for? A shortcut. He thinks I know something he doesn't. I don't. My body is the product of more than 17 years of lifting and a lifetime of sports. Dudes think they can fast forward through the work. My final word on this matter: commit to 5X5 from now until 1 September; 1 September switch to 5,3,1 (look it up on T-Nation); figure…
/r/askMRP13/03/18 02:40 PM
5

I've been doing this shit for ages, lost 60+ lbs throughout my life Sounds like he does know how to lose weight. Imagine this weak ass dude weighing in at 230lbs. Switch up your lifting program to 5,3,1. (Google: 5,3,1 - T-Nation) Your pathetic bench will increase along with your other lifts. As for your girl... let her do her thing. Watch her turn very unpleasant on 600 cals a day though.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 02:19 PM
1

Nope. Why demonize carbs? Keto and intermittent fasting are "life hacks." There are no such thing as life hacks, there is only dedicated effort, over a sustained period of time. Same with the side bar and building frame, same with the gym. OP wants quick results now. Tough shit. Put in the effort. Or send him to r/steroids
/r/askMRP13/03/18 12:05 PM
2

Nope. Why demonize carbs? Keto and intermittent fasting are "life hacks." There are no such thing as life hacks, there is only dedicated effort, over a sustained period of time. Same with the side bar and building frame, same with the gym. OP wants quick results now. Tough shit. Put in the effort. Make Keto and fasting part of the sidebar material pfft.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 11:53 AM
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