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"Sorry you feel that way. I trust you, and have made no restrictions on who you should and should not be friends with. If you feel like you will not be able to do the same for me, then we are probably both looking for different things. Good luck finding someone more compatible with you. I hope we can still be friends. Keep in touch! I mean it!" tl;dr Bad advice
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:15 AM
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I've solved this by having a few photo-expressions that I use over and over. you can go a long way with just one. Practice in front of a mirror to pick one that you like and learn to make it by power of will.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 12:51 AM
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You've answered your own question
/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:38 AM
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The mother wants her daughter to get married, which almost happened before you broke up. Now she's trying to salvage the situation
/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:35 AM
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You continue like you normally would on any other date. If you don't know how to act on dates then this will drop some exp so doesn't matter what you do as long as you calibrate after. A win-win either way
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:37 AM
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Doesn't sound like a flake that much, honestly both things could have happened
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:36 AM
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And this is why this subreddit makes me cringe so much :\ It's not that bad, get over your anger phase already ffs
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:35 AM
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You mean a chance for you to be a positive influence in his life and acquire some good karma? :)
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:32 AM
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Nope, she's indirectly manipulating you so that you start having exactly this kind of ruminations and then begin orbiting her again.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 09:34 AM
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Chill it's probably not yours http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2017/10/30/tells-shes-pregnant/
/r/askTRP18/12/17 11:48 AM
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Sounds like a beta orbiter, chill out man
/r/askTRP13/12/17 09:13 AM
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Dude, while all of those things are good, you can not use the standard TRP response to everything. With the exception to meditation, you're completely out of context here.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:13 PM
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I had a similar problem as you, except instead of fantasizing, I kept ruminating about some of the choices I did in my past. This habit was keeping my emotional state and happiness at a constantly low rate, though it took me a long time before I realized this. When I managed to break free from this habit, my at-the-time depression was cured instantly. So kudos to you for realizing this is a problem, that's actually the first step which you've already done. For me, it was all about mindfulness fr…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:09 PM
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What's there to lose?
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:53 AM
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Since we are in a distance relationship Dude:/
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:49 AM
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It affects my happiness That's because you choose to bind your happiness to a third party. On a meta level this is a burden that nobody wants to bear and they avoid you instinctively. Develop an interesting life, get hobbies, build things, do shit. Forget about women and they will come.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:13 PM
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I see no downsides to this. The amount of time you'll need to invest into it. The process takes a few months with weekly visits.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 04:10 PM
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Sounds like a troll
/r/askTRP28/11/17 12:52 PM
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Nope, that wasn't a shit test. Shit tests are meant to see if a man is alpha or if he's just pretending to be one. In your case she already knows the answer so it wasn't a test, it was just plain disrespect. There was no right reaction to that, you should not have gotten into a position where she can afford remarks like this in the first place. You're going to get some advice that's super hard to follow in this subredit, I'm sorry for what you're about to go through :/ We've all been where you a…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 02:58 PM
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http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2017/10/30/tells-shes-pregnant/
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:42 AM
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We do not really communicate at all about our sex life There you go. Before jumping into any cringeworthy conclusions, realize that she may not even be aware that there's a problem. Don't bring it up over text ffs. Better, don't bring it up at all. Just ask/command her to do it next time you're intimate and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 10:18 AM
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Why not give it a try? Take the plate you like the most, see for yourself. Don't just blindly follow anything you read on the internet
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:11 PM
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Ah, ok. Skratch the second point then, I might have been projecting my past self onto you (had the same problem, solved it mostly with abundance)
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:30 AM
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You’re seriously dissecting a Hollywood movie with the intention to get any real-life applicable value out of it?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:49 AM
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It’s caused by two things: Your self-development has been focused on the ethics of personality, not on the ethics of character. Unless you build the correct habits, shit like this will always haunt you. Read 7 habits of highly effective people. You don’t get laid enough. You make it sound like you do in the post, but you probably haven’t boned more than 6 girls in your life, am I right? The reason why girls don’t get emotional as easily as you is because they can replace you on a whim, while you…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:46 AM
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Yes, a lot. I think it's because I used to have it the other way around when I was younger, also a lot. I'm slowly calibrating now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 10:23 AM
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Nope. You helped me realize that I'm basically just wasting time on this sub, thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 07:19 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6XZVRnNlHmU&t=264s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 07:32 AM
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Because the desire to smash is much stronger than the desire to create prosperous future societies. Why ask such obvious question?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 11:44 AM
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that's very interesting and a good point you raised Thank you. I wonder how menopause fits into this view because it's going against our primary biological goal in life - to breed. So do other kinds of aging. It's inevitable, that's why we need to breed. I wonder if there're any conclusions or connections you can draw between animal intelligence, lifespan, and breeding cultures. Then you'll like this video (4:56) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7m8QlSPP7t0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 08:16 AM
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You've managed to put so many informal fallacies into a single sentence that idk if your opinions are worth much ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 04:34 PM
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There are species of animals that die after/during the mating process/giving birth, or that have a great chance of dying after/during it (salmon fish, many types of insects (mantis) or arachnids). This leads many psychologists to believe that the drive to reproduce is the primary driving force behind every living organism, obviously even superior to the drive to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 11:18 AM

Wow, honestly didn't expect that answer :S Now I'm wondering if you're trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 04:22 PM
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Not to mention the thousands I spend a year on hair (weave is like $250-400/mo in maintenance), skincare (few hundred a quarter), fitness (sneakers, gym memberships, etc), makeup (couple hundred a quarter), and so forth. A good portion of my budget goes to just being attractive to his specifications -- THAT is a gift. If I let you live in my house but only until we break-up, does it mean that I gave you a house as a gift?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:14 PM

In my opinion, any discussion about which gender is the better one is pointless at its root because you can't have one without the other (at least not yet). That being said: TRP doesn't focus on the good qualities women have because you don't need to know about those in order to navigate the Sexual Marketplace effectively. You might need to know about those in order to become a decent human being, but there are different teachings for that, TRP was never meant to contain every knowledge there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:53 PM
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Just wanted to accuse you that you're throwing around random terms without really knowing what they mean but ok, let's hold up, maybe I'm just not getting what are you trying to say. Can you elaborate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:41 AM
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I disagree, in that it's not a "law of nature". It's a social law that becomes a cultural residue. Nope, it's a law of nature. It can be see in most species of the animal kingdom (though it's not defined by eggs/sperm but rather by which of the sexes raises offspring. In seahorses, for example, it is males who are the sexual selectors)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 12:09 PM
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Well where I see the question lying is where exactly will you draw the line of "its ok for everybody to don't hesitate to do what they want to get what they want." Is it ok to kill somebody in order to get what I want? If we stop considering others, the society may go back in time a few years. Honestly TRP subreddit is one of the most cringey places on the internet. Not sure it's always been that way, but it certainly is now. If I recommend TRP to anybody, I'll make sure to mention them to avoid…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 08:14 AM
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I think it's anger about how someone can know these things are manipulative or wrong - but still go ahead and do them. You've answered it splendidly so I'm just highlighting it. Since RP is supposed to be amoral, with men doing whatever they need to in order to succeed. Meh, depends. The original idea was "stop pedestalizing women and don't give away your physical/emotional resources to someone who doesn't appreciate it".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 10:12 PM
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It's a little weird to me, since usually a woman wouldn't reveal these things Usually a woman wouldn't be aware. Kudos to your gf I wish things were better They will be - or to be precise, you will stop viewing them as bad once you drop your old paradigm I'm still not completely sold on some of the wider and more ambitious claims Which is good - some of the wider and more ambitious TRP claims are absolute unfiltered nuts. Always keep your critical thinking with you - never merge with the hivemin…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 06:23 PM
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A) Accept a childfree lifestyle B) Egg donation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 05:14 PM
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maybe when you get some more life experience maybe, I wont have to explain obvious things to you. Maybe when you stop bullshitting yourself you will also cease trying to bullshit others :D How much "life experience" do I need to have until I can draw conclusions about every kind of every foreign woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 10:01 PM
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What exactly are you trying to say by this? Are american women some kind of master-race that is superior to women from elsewhere? If not then what does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:55 PM
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I honestly don't know, but let me play the devil's advocate here: You've never actually been around the man, have you? If you only judge his attractiveness by his photos/videos then of course - he's probably the ugliest person to ever become famous. However, TRP advocates that most of the attraction stems from a mans behavior, which you didn't have a chance to experience since he never actually interacted with you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:52 PM
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So much for the redpill claim that this is something exclusive to women. Did it really claim this anywhere, or did you fantasise it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 08:42 PM
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And how exactly did you come to these findings? What exactly are you basing this on?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 09:24 PM
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The liberals were playing populism, the Trump was playing populism, everybody in politics plays populism. Or at least the winning sides do, you don't hear about those who try to go around things rationally. I wasn't necessarily referring to US presidential elections either. For example, I'm from Europe and things are no different here. Even Socrates used to criticise democracy for this very fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 04:44 PM
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You need ground if you want to convince people they are wrong and not worth extending an ear to. In an ideal world maybe, but that's not how people work. Just look at politics anywhere - The winning sides base their strategies mostly on populism, not on solid arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 04:36 PM
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So they have no real points? Their whole purpose is to rebuttal red pill? That could be a purpose good enough in on itself (given that they were actually correct about what they perceive TRP to be). Imagine that a group of neo-facists (or radical religious fanatics or whatever) would emerge in your country, trying to sway the masses to their side. Forming another group of people who's sole purpose would be the rebuttal of the bullshit ideologies of the former group would be a purpose good enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 04:33 PM
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The "blue pill" perceives TRP as a hate-ideology and sociopathic manipulation tactics, so they're just trying to do what some Red Pillers try to do - save the society. BP does not come up with theories or sexual strategy because those things are perceived as evil by them (i.e. killing the natural, real human interactions) I can't say I'm surprised why they would see it that way - mainly if they base these opinions on TRP subreddit (which is an unfiltered bullshit for the most part, with some gol…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 04:01 PM
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Yep, that is also a good way of handling things. Maybe even better one.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 03:51 PM
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That's like saying "I want to become a tree. Trees don't grow wheels, I don't grow wheels, yet I'm still not a tree" That's not how implication works. What I'm saying is that if it has wheels, it's probably not a tree. Anyway you'll be charismatic one day if you keep working on it. A water cuts through rock not because of its power but because of its persistence.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:20 AM
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Ah, it was done by an online anonymous poll :| I like the "A study has found that". The study has just collected some highly unreliable data and made a hypothesis about their interpretation.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:42 PM
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Shit talking on web forums is different. I agree. In my personal definition, shit-talking about people who the other side don't and can't know (I know a guy who...) isn't shit-talking because you're not damaging anyone by it.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:31 PM
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I remember reading like a decade ago that men actually gossip more than women Do you remember where you've read it? I wonder how they made such a study. Anyway thanks!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:29 PM
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high value behavior doesn't exist I know, but for the sake of getting a message across, let's pretend it does. We both know what I'm talking about which you even proved with the: Neurosis is a sign of low value So which is it? High value behavior doesn't exist but being neurotic is a low value behavior? Aren't you contradicting yourself a little? I was talking about your paradigm not you And yet you were wrong about that. Look again at what I wrote and take a step back. Why was it personal? You …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 06:57 PM
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Only when I'm hanging with sorry motherfuckers with scarcity on the brain, no money, no careers, just a lot of excuses, they gossip Good observation, I've noticed the same.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:38 PM
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Yes they do Along with a lot of other stupid shit. They're just people. The point is that it's not a high-value behavior. It sounds like beta bux training you recieved when you where little Ad hominem. Also I actually only fully realized this in the past months. Neurosis is a symptom of being low value. So is naivety. If you expect a person who shit-talks about other people with you to never shit-talk about you to other people then you still have some red-pilling ahead of you. This is just an in…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:02 PM
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I would extend it to never badmouth anyone, but ye you're also right :)
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 10:41 PM
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Because men are of no concern to TRP. Had TRP put on their lenses to look at men in today's society, there would be as much or even more criticism towards them. I strongly believe that most of the TRP principles apply to all genders. TRP simply doesn't criticize men (as much) because it doesn't focus on men because it doesn't try to understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:55 AM
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And that's a valid point of view. What would be changed about it had you omitted the first sentence in your post? Isn't the sentence redundant?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:50 AM
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So the fact that others are doing it justifies you for doing it? Is it ok to kill people as long as other people are killing people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 07:15 AM
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Good deduction, I'm lean/skinny with muscle, not gorilla-size bulked. But thanks to unreal ectomorph genes I'll probably never be, at least not without steroids
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:44 AM
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It's only a problem if you make it a problem
/r/askTRP20/04/17 08:55 AM
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It's actually very common, seems that many people experience it. You'll hear them talk about it as one of the stages of internalizing TRP. Ever heard the term depression phase? Usually comes after the anger phase I'm still not out of it, but it's getting better as I'm slowly realising that it doesn't actually matter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 08:25 PM
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Why? Why the competetion? What exactly do you gain from keeping any kind of knowledge a secret, except for building your ego around being "enlightened"?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 11:33 PM
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Clearly you have not been on Tinder long. Have never been on it actually. Each week I get about 6-12 matches that are bots trying to dup me out of money or scam me. Didn't know we have gays on TRP. Are the Chad robots any good? Get out there and improve yourself instead of this childish intellectual masturbation. Disgusting You're taking this more seriously than I am
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:27 PM
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it might seem like a wasteful expenditure and that you might be doing it to exact some sort of a revenge out of hatred for women or some particular woman I agree it might seem like it. Try your method Nah, I don't believe I'll actually find the time. I just got high and thought that this would be an interesting idea so I shared it. Thanks or believing in it though!
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:08 PM
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Tinder will just remove your bots when they don't message anyone. How would Tinder know which not-responding profiles are bots and which are just quiet people? They would destroy a lot of real profiles along the process. Plus it would be simple to prevent - just make it say "hi!" or a random phrase, or copy the input and output to/from Cleverbot. For that amount of time/money/effort Well, aside from the Chad database (still haven't figured out how to efficiently make that one), I believe I could…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:04 PM
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You forgot to tell us to put some fucking epic music into the background before reading this because it felt like one of those speeches commanders give their soldiers before going to battle.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:23 PM
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This is exactly the feeling I'm getting
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 09:56 AM
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And once again, what makes you think there is no carousel in here? Where does this conviction come from? I've been living here all my life and the cock-carousels the girls are riding in here are of the topmost quality.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 09:55 AM
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Good for you. However keep in mind that one girl is too little a number to draw statistical results from. Believe me the entitlement is strong with most of these ones.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:21 PM
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Perhaps, can't really say anything about those parts
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:19 PM
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I've never dated any of them
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:18 PM
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This is exactly what I argue against in here. As someone living in here, my opinion is that this is an Urban legend.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 06:52 PM
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What makes you think they're vety patriarchal? As someone living here, I would argue that they're not patriarchal at all. Pussy is pedestalized here like everywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:30 AM
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Well, in my view, obsessing with petty things like vengeance is beta as fuck. But whatever floats your boat I guess.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 12:05 AM
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Of course, thank you for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 12:03 AM
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Being short is plus in your book? O.o
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 10:39 AM
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I'd have used my money to take massive revenge on the bitch And you don't find this to be a waste of money/potential/time? :D
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:08 PM
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As you should. However, that's impossible to write/generalize as everyone is a special snowflake. So you just take the things that apply to all snowflakes and figure out the outliers from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 10:12 AM
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I admit it. However, about the statements, it depends on the statement. There's a p-value to most everything in soft scientific fields, so having a disclaimer about it before any statement you say is pointless - the disclaimer should be assumed by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 10:10 AM
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People can talk about 'systematizing' all they want, but to actually systematize human attraction? In a way that's at least somewhat accurate and all-encompassing? You are correct. The Red Pill, however, is a numbers game. It cut off all of the outliers and edge situations and basically just generalizes the shit out of core concepts that apply to most people. If it does not apply to this one particular person, NEXT her and move on. AWALT basically applies if you NEXT everyone who's not like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:28 PM
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Nice, why Croatia? In that case just monk-mode and lift until then, life's good, gonna get better ;p
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 10:04 PM
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What keeps you from leaving to live somewhere else? :)
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 09:01 PM
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Call me a white-knight beta cuck, but I actually agree that what the guy did is both honest and honorable. This thread is a classic example of TRP hamstering - aren't you guys complaining that most girls in our society are unable to pair-bond because of how many dicks they ride? Well here we have an example of a girl who actually wants to pair-bond before riding dicks and you shame her as well? There's no pleasing your hypocrisy :D
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 03:34 PM
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There might be something to that, thank you for the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:03 PM
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This is interesting. However, if a male has the same chances for being a genius and for being a retard, shouldn't it even out? SAT results should therefore be about the same for boys and girls, with no gap? And if you explain the gap with the chances for a male to be genial being greater than the chances for him to be retarded, isn't it a standard red meat sexist answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:06 PM
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Rejoice dude, you've missed a massive bullet. It'll stop hurting when someone else comes along ;)
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:00 PM
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Dude, chill. Just reply with "ok" and wait for a while. She'll be back.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:14 PM
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Aw shit. Were you trolling all this time or just now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 10:12 PM
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I'll do this for science! 1: 9 2: 5 3: 7 4: 4.5 5: 5.5 6: 8 7: 2 8: 6 9: 6 10: 9
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 09:37 PM
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Are you tall/jacked/handsome? Teach us the art of your natural magic!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 09:33 PM
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How tragic, but well said
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 09:30 PM
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You're not unlucky, you're stuck in a victim mentality. I wish I could express how much I feel you, but this is something you'll have to figure on your own :-/ I can only leave with wishing you the best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 09:27 PM
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I'm not, sorry if it sounds that way :-/ I'm a random internet dog, I don't know how you look like or how you behave. None of the points I highlighted may apply, something different may be the matter, I might be completely wrong. I'm just saying what I think are the most probable options, judging by what my experience and the collective experience of the red pill taught me. Basically I'm just answering your question the best I can (as I believed that you have genuinely asked this to get a differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 09:18 PM
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It's always the bitchy mean girls that have boys at their feet without even doing anything. It's because they're easier. Shyness is in fact a much more feminine and attractive trait, the shy girls are just harder to get, paradoxically. If you think that guys don't go after you that much, it has less to do with your shyness and more to do with either: A) Your looks B) Your behaviour (you're too bitchy) C) Your standards (You're too picky - the low-value men hitting on you don't even register on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 08:35 PM
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Good luck, let us know how it went ;)
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 01:41 PM
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You will never "establish yourself", there will always be that one next thing left for you to chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 11:20 AM
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And now you do :) Anyway, my sincere apologies if that's really happened. I realize that you can't fit your entire history into a reddit post, but I'm just telling you how it sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 11:05 PM
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Thanks for the discussion!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 10:38 PM
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Don't worry about it. I'm a random internet dog, what I say shouldn't affect you this much. However, I still find it interesting that you started with the "he started going through things in life and we had to break up" instead of "he cheated on me so we had to break up", which would make a lot more sense. Are you sure this is really what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 10:34 PM
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I unfortunately don't mean "everyone has common sense," relationships fail... because a lot of people don't know how to have a relationship. Maybe the video was targeted at the people lacking the common sense, who don't know how to have a relationship ;) I agree that the point of the video feels kind of "duh" once you actually stop and think about it, but I get the feeling that most people never do. This very sub is an underground thing, people generally don't discuss relationships in this way. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 10:28 PM
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So you're telling me that once your partner started going through some hard times, and was probably in most need for support, you decided to break-up with him and end the perfect relationship? You sound like a terrible human being but this is gold so please go on :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 10:22 PM
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Mr. Beta Blue will take comfort by this video because he doesn't know he's failing shit test's left and right and he's be slotted as a guy friend that gives minimal sex due to minimal arousal in his woman. Interesting to hear you label him as a Beta. What makes you think so? He's basically debunking the The One myth, which is pretty Red Pill as far as I know. If you uplift women to be as strong as men and pull men down to be equal Wow, I haven't heard sexism of this level in a long time. Way to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:55 PM
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I also don't think women are reverse men who want to "lose" and get excited by having things taken from I never realized this is what TRP preaches. What makes you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:49 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:46 PM
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Are we really blaming a 200-year-old artistic movement for the fact that people suck at relationships? As I've mentioned earlier in this thread, our culture shapes our behaviour to a very large extent. If this were not the case, every university in the world would shut down its sociology departments, along with many others. The movement may be 200-years old, but that doesn't mean it's dead. On the contrary, its influences can still be felt in the movies, songs and literature today (yes, even in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:45 PM
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Thanks for sharing. If I may ask just one last question: do you align more with the Blue Pill or with the Red Pill side of the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:42 PM
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I've added some general introduction to the original post. Are those points specific enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:42 PM
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Well, Romanticism was an philosophical and artistic movement in Europe. He immediately gets it wrong by implying that it had anything to do with sexual or romantic relationships. Our culture shapes our behaviour to a very large extent. If this were not the case, every university in the world would shut down its sociology departments, along with many others. Also, the relationship formula which he describes has been present in a multitude of cultures for millennia That's a bold statement. As far …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:40 PM
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Fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:31 PM
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Thank you, exactly what I was thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:31 PM
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Allright, done :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:31 PM
1

This sounds interesting. What kind of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 08:20 PM
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Allright, fair enough. However, I'm genuinely interested in what people have to say about it, how will their responses differ between BP, RP and PP orientations. Would it be ok if I repost it, but this time with an introduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 08:17 PM
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Thank you for sharing. Could you perhaps elaborate? About what exactly do you disagree with and why? Or do you just base it on feelings? Which wouldn't be bad I guess, just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:01 PM
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It's your choice, no hard feelings ;) I purposely omitted any introductions in order to not create any bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 05:59 PM
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Here's my favourite: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/07/03/alpha-male-fairy-tales-snow-white/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 05:58 PM
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That's a beautiful observation, thanks you :D Didn't change my opinion though since they're not really portraied like this, but one can find it in there if one id as keen as you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 04:55 PM
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Situation A The point of TRP, however, is that situation A is Hardy attainable in the long term, outside od hyphotethical fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 10:43 AM
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It sucks seeing them so happy when I am here... You sound like a terrible friend.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 07:58 AM
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I disagree. I couldn't care less about how much money my girlfriends make. I could make enough for the both of us if I ever decided to cohabit with any of them. Also marrying someone of such higher status to mine seems like a lot of maintenance work, so it is rather discouraging. On the flipside, J.K.Rowling seems like a fucking interesting person to know. I don't see the age difference to be that big of an obstacle as I've dated a 6 years-older-than-me woman myself :) Plus let's not forget that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 10:17 PM
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I was in a long distance relationship with a girl for a year. I stopped reading after this. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 04:18 PM
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Hats down to her self-awareness. Unless it's fake of course.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:57 PM
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Faking a religion is plain stupid and I'm pretty sure you realise it at least subconsciously. That is also the reason why you wrote this article before actually commiting to anything. Sadly, I don't know how to help you except for sharing my experience - so here it is: I went through similar awakening as you have (christian religion, but I was really into it). After being an agnostic/atheist for a year, I stumbled upon Nihilism, which resonated with me deeply and I identified with it almost inst…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:45 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42QuXLucH3Q Frankly it sounds like bullshit, even if you hide it behind sciency articles which sheeple follow with religious blindness today. Also, if you're a little bit into male fashion, or can dress at least half decently, you'll realize that wearing too colorful red pieces and making it look good is next to impossible unless you're damn sure of what you are doing. The most likely thing this post is going to achieve is help people look stupid.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:35 PM
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This sounds like one hell of a story. How did it work out in the end?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 06:43 PM
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Good post, thank you. Why did you end with the word "bitter" though?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:36 PM
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Dude, are you ok? You might consider visiting a therapist. Now I'm not saying this as a flame/hate comment, I'm seriously concerned. You seem like something bad has happened to you and you are on the verge of a mental breakdown right now. Anyway if you'll need it, I'm here to help. Talk to me through PM, tell me what's wrong and I'll do for you what I can.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 10:07 PM
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Good idea! Guess I'll have to learn how to play it now :D Anyway, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:30 PM
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The golden rule is flawed. Not only in intergender relationships, but in general. Imagine you're a masochist who likes to be hit and spanked. Living in accordance with the golden rule would make you run around whipping people with a latex whip. As you can imagine, they would probably not appreciate that. Thus comes the platinum rule: Treat others as they would like to be treated If you believe that women don't react to you when you treat them as you would like to be treated, then it may mean tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 07:27 PM
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Great post, I can feel no butthurt and no anger from it, which is the type of content we need more around here. I'm bookmarking this.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 10:19 AM
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Allright, I'm buying the book.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 09:22 AM
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"Most are convinced a communal sharing relationship is not only achievable, but strongly desirable." Sadly, most are convinced a communal sharing relationship is not something to be achieved or built, but something that should happen by itself without them having to put any work into it. And then they're angry when it doesn't. I have never seen a communal sharing relationship without the pair being either religious or woo woo. I'm still wondering about what to make from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 09:06 PM
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Go out and speak to your elder men, add 15 years to your age and find that guy, There's a lot of knowledge they can give and they will red pill you themselves so you don't fuck up like they did. Or, what's more likely, ther's 15 additional years of BP programming. Most people don't ever wake up.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 08:39 PM
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ok :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 10:14 AM
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According to TRP, you don't exist. Take from that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 09:26 AM
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Very interesting, both the studies and how you wrote the article. There are definitively some things to consider from this! However, See again doesn't mean very much. There are BBs and orbiters who see their person of interest regularly, even though it would be better if they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 09:22 AM
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emotionally abusing someone who's basically better than you is immoral and wrong. I agree. However, TRP philosophy doesn't advocate emotional manipulation - /r/trp subreddit sometimes does, as it is a place filled by sad and angry men which I generally recommend people to avoid. You won't find much of the manipulation or sociopathic behaviour in The Rational Male for example, or The Blackdragon Blog. what they really hate is when hot women actually date or marry in their league, rather than belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 09:01 AM
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Gives me no problems. Plus it has some advantages. For example, all the shit-tests I'm getting are predictable and repeating themselves over and over again. Since I've heard them all I have a good response for each one. Also: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6XZVRnNlHmU
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 08:40 AM
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Nah, I'm not taking this bait. This post is literally so stupid that there's simply no chance that OP is not a troll. Good try though.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:17 PM
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This is a good post that addresses what I personally began to call "the paradox of not giving a fuck". Basically what can happen is that your IDGAF levels become so high that you stop improving altogether, because your state is so ok with anything that there's suddenly no need to improve anything. My game got actually a bit worse temporarily after internalizing the IDGAF attitude, until I figured this thing out ;p
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 09:18 AM
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So much anger, so much low energy. Articles like these are why I generally recommend people to avoid this subreddit, at least the ones new to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 08:46 PM
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I said I can't (I answered directly to her indirect question), since I have to go to the gym and make my dinner. She was slightly taken aback by my answer (Why is that? What did my answer tell her about me?) That you're gay, most probably.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 04:56 PM
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It does not fucking matter
/r/askTRP15/11/16 07:41 AM
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She does not perceive you as a sexual option. It either didn't cross her mind that this is a date, or it did, but now she regrets that she has agreed to attend it. In that case, she wants to bring her friend in hopes that you will cancel the date. Which is what you should do. Hard next her, don't even consider her as your option. Anyway, what can you learn from this? What did you do right, what did you do wrong?
/r/seduction14/11/16 09:15 PM
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I would say go for it. Fall in love, enjoy. If you feel her to be special, give it a try. If it turns out to be a unicorn then good for you, if it proves to be an AWALT then also good for you, as it will make you wiser and stronger. I guess you can hold your frame pretty well now so you're good to experiment with LTRs if you wish.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:42 PM
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I feel angry and quite frankly, somewhat depressed as well. Expect to feel less angry and more depressed very soon, as you pass from the anger phase to the depression phase. What you're experiencing is very standard.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:38 PM
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You've overdosed on the red pill and now the depression part is fucking you over too much. Give yourself a break and focus on something else for a while. Go monk-mode (or just a passive-mode) for some time or just chill with some x-box if that's what you were into before discovering TRP. I know this is very un-TRP advice, but you have to take this subredddit with a grain of salt sometimes. Things will stop looking so bad after you give them some time to get sorted in your head, try not to rumina…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 11:49 PM
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You have probably done so already, but if not, check Owen Cook's channel on youtube (RSD Tyler). The dude has autism, which he now successfully manages and has a great lifestyle going on for him. He talks about it a lot in his videos.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 01:49 PM
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Thanks for the reply! I'm actually inclined to think the same, but I guess that every beta orbiter does, so I'm rather skeptical.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:31 PM
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That's an oldschool neg game + dominant behaviour. It works, but it will backfire eventually. People will just stop calling you out if you're being a dick. Strive to start being dominant without being a dick.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 04:58 PM
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Let us have these premises: It is advisable to spin plates. In the first stages of dating, one should not overtly tell the girl that she's just another in the rotation. It may be covertly expressed via behaviour, but the girl should be left in suspense. In later phases of seeing each other (ideally not before having sex with the girl for at least 2 times), the rules should be clearly voiced and an open relationship is established. My hypothesis is: isn't it possible that by this time, the girl i…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 02:18 PM
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Thanks for the reply! Are you sure you've replied with the correct article? I fail to see how it answers the question :S To clarify something: I feel the red pill truths to be true, I just find it hard to internalize them unless I can defend them against objections like these.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 02:07 PM
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Also, realize that things take time and that contrary to what TRP teaches you, you don't have to be perfect. I would actually recommend you to avoid TRP subreddit altogether for a while. Just read the books/sidebar. RSD has some good stuff though.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:26 AM
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Purple-pill time! TRP principes work because they target the older parts of our brain (evolutionary speaking). The reactive parts. We as humans are however able to override our impulses thanks to our frontal cortex and self-awareness. You say that TRP principes (dread game, preselection...) apply to all women (AWALT), but you also propose to always drop plates that do not yield results and look for more rewarding prospects. Isn't it possible that the plates we drop like this were actually unicor…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 07:49 AM
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Great post, thanks for the reminder OP! Most people on TRP subreddit post content filled with negativity that will kill you inside, but you've understood what the Red Pill is all about and share it. You're awesome!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:52 PM
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After reading the discussion in this thread, one question came to my mind: Why do we game women then? If partying, ONSs and rotating plates kills women inside, why do we learn how to socialize at parties, score ONSs and rotate plates? Aren't we responsible for killing them then?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 12:08 PM
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A retarded title but I see your point - and I agree with most of it! It's something I've realized just recently too.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 11:09 PM
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Don't do this, it can seriously hurt the other person + saying or not saying it is not a big deal. http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/06/23/when-to-say-i-love-you/
/r/askTRP13/09/16 01:03 PM
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"Are you trying to get me drunk so you can sleep with me? Sorry, man, I don't swing that way." That's awesome man! :D Thanks! I'll use this the next time
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:52 PM
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What should you do? Stop being butthurt, first of all. Then realize that the guy was an amazing chance to see some game principles in action and you can learn something from him. What did he do right? What you didn't do that he did? From what you're writting, it maybe wasn't "slightly" everything, it might have been "a great deal" of something particular.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:51 PM
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Men are the sellers, women are the buyers. It's a buyer's market. This is an excellent quote! Thank you for it
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:33 PM
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Congratulations on waking up from the matrix! Break-ups suck hard, but time will heal the pain. Make sure you learn as much from the experience as you can. It always fills me with joy to see another beta awaken. That being said, here are some basic tips for starting with TRP: You were kinda right about this sub being stupid. The problem with this sub is, just like with every other internet discussion forum, that everyone can post in it. So while it looks like everyone here is an enlightened alph…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 03:30 PM
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