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CMVAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:47 PM
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CMVAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:34 PM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:49 AM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:58 AM
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Question For WomenAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:16 PM
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CMVAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:49 PM
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CMVAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:50 PM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:33 PM
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Social IssuesAudaciousPanther/r/MensRights18/11/23 08:26 PM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:42 PM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:24 AM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:56 PM
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Question For WomenAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:15 PM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:37 PM
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AudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:17 AM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:53 PM
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AudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:25 PM
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Question For WomenAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:34 PM
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AudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:04 AM
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Question For MenAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:53 PM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:08 PM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:57 PM
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DiscussionAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:56 PM
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CMVAudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:22 PM
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AudaciousPanther/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:52 PM
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I officially felt weird when I was a 23 year old kissless virgin. I missed out on HS and college experiences. That is some significant social developmental stages that didn't happen in my life. I was officially inexperienced and awkward af as a result of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:46 PM
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What if that stable good guy is physically attractive and the unstable polarizing guy is a flat 6/10? Which would women prefer in that choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:55 PM
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What do you usually think and feel when people say "Oh you're miserable. Nobody wants to connect with that." Or "You'll just be really needy which will doom the relationship anyways. They can sense desperation." I hear people tell me these things a lot, and it always makes me feel upset because: 1) How can I not be sad in my situation? Who wouldn't be hurt? 2) I'm not even needy. They're just making an assumption that I'm looking for someone to give me happiness when in reality I just want that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:39 PM
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This was beautifully said. There's a big difference between someone who has had relationships and are now fine being single in their mid 30s vs someone who never had a relationship and is heavily curious about it in their mid 30s. The first group already 'scratched the itch.' I think that's why it's so hard for some people to understand how hurtful being chronically single your whole life is. It's just something they can't relate to. My best friend is older than me and has several children. He t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:21 PM
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That's the thing though: it's not that I plan on being very needy and smothering, it's just being in a loving relationship makes everything else better. I'm not a big texter, and I'm okay with only seeing each other 1-2 times a week. It's just not having that at all is really shitty. It's lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:44 PM
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That's the thing though: it's not that I plan on being very needy and smothering, it's just being in a loving relationship makes everything else better. I'm not a big texter, and I'm okay with only seeing each other 1-2 times a week. It's just not having that at all is really shitty. It's lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:36 PM
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Do what works. Any advice is appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:58 PM
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Definitely not. It's one of those "circle" type things. I can't get a relationship. I'm desperate because I can't get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:48 PM
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But the only thing that can fill the loneliness void is a healthy relationship with a loving romantic partner. A hobby, career and a friend doesn't fulfill that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:04 PM
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Anytime I hear a woman say "I was in a situationship for a year." "It's complicated." "I dated him for 6 months.'' I immediately know she was fuck zoned by him is all. She wanted a romatnic relationship, and he was just using her for easy butt. I've seen this dynamic with my female friends quite a bit. "I dated this psychiatrist for 6 months." Nah, you were just a source of easy blowjobs when he had nothing else going on was all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:51 PM
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Even the most religious people are okay with kissing on the first 1-2 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:33 PM
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I think if she's giving you signals, but you're not escalating during that window, she looks at you as being unconfident, unmasculine, uninterested, inexperienced, gay, maybe something wrong with you. It's all negative thoughts that happen if she's throwing you signals and you're not taking her up on them. I think it causes her to lose attraction and the window closes up. Sure she may give you one more date, but it seems to close in my experience. I've felt like I've missed my chance before that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:32 AM
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I feel like only a few people can rock the bald Michael Jordan look. You pretty much have to be masculine and handsome as hell for it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:26 AM
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If attraction can't be forced, how can it be forced for a ONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:17 PM
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In what ways has it changed and how can a guy do well nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:11 PM
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Where do you make out at on the walk home? Like do you guys just stand and smooch away?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:54 AM
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I have a few more questions. (I've thought about this a lot) 1) Why does the escalation window for women close? I mean if I like a girl, there's no time limit to my attraction. 2) When the woman I had 4 dates with 'broke up' with me, I said "I wish I would have kissed you more. I would get so nervous and caught up in my head." She said 'it wouldn't have made a difference. Nothing different you could have done.' I've always wondered if that means I'm just ugly OR maybe she's just speaking based o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:24 AM
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If I have a few dates with a woman who then friendzones me. How do I know if: A) It was my physical appearance. She loved my personality, but she just couldn't do it with me because I'm ugly. B) She was initially attracted to me, but me being awkward af over the course of several dates turned her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:32 AM
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It just comes down to sexual attraction. If you get a cliche rejection / ghosted after a pleasant first date, they just didn't want your body on top of theirs is all. Women typically know within 5 minutes if they're open to having sex with a guy or not based on his appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:08 PM
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Do you think women KNOW that they're being played, but they psych themselves out and latch onto the one percent hope they have. Or are they just truly naive and believe the diarrhea that shots out of his mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:41 AM
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But I always know why specifically I don't like that painting. Do women secretly know specifically why they don't like their attractive friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:47 PM
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What are the specific things?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:14 PM
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What are some of the red pill rules that helped you a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:15 AM
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I think it's because what we observe women saying doesn't correlate to what they do. For example my female friend told me to never touch a woman on the first date, and if a guy greeted her with a hug she would leave right then and there. Yet this same person had sex with her current BF on their first date. Say one thing and do another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:28 AM
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You don't know if you're attracted UNTIL you meet in person. Photos are one thing and reality is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:26 PM
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What's the remedy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:20 PM
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That's what confused me because I wanted to kiss and make out, but that woman I had 3 dates with clearly didn't. I remember on the 3rd date, I asked if she wanted to hold hands as we were walking down town, and she says "no." So it's like: how can intimate chemistry develop without doing intimate things? When she told me the connection she was looking for just wasn't there, I thought "color me surprised?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:19 PM
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I thought for sure this was going to be a hookup, but her body language was very closed off. I get the impression she doesn't date much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:06 PM
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But I mean, I was the same guy on the first date as I was on the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:54 PM
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To hope that someone knows something I don't. I don't want it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:31 PM
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In my opinion, the spark is: Physical attraction combined with conversational chemistry. If I think she's cute and we share humor, of course I want to see her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:00 AM
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I think even more privileged is the rare 10/10 guy... the 25 year old Brad Pitt. I think he's the most privileged because the sex is there if he wants it, but it's not constantly thrown in his face 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:04 AM
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All I know is I had a friend who was 5'2 and 250ish pounds. She got soo much dick from dating apps. I was impressed at the guys she could pull. I mean men who were objectively very successful and good looking were wanting to hook up and "date." We live next to a major US hospital and it was common for her to brag about hooking up with some hot doctor. She definitely wasn't lying as she would send me screen shots of their texts all the time. (We both talked a lot about our dating lives in explici…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:53 AM
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I think the thing I struggle mostly with is the "why." Like okay my son ended up dead on the corner of some highway, but what killed him? I think if I were a detective, I truly would lose my mind. I've dated women before where he seemed like he had an amazing connection just for her 180 me out of nowhere. Then the ruminating causes pain. I'm one of the rare people who would prefer to know the truth no matter how brutal as opposed to being confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:10 PM
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But that's my point: it isn't closure. Closure is knowing what closed it. For example: Let's say my son dies and the doctor says "Your son is dead. Sorriez." That's not closure. Closure is knowing why and how he died. "It was a heart attack from cocaine. Ohhh got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:20 PM
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I truly believe, in general, the average woman has a higher quality of life than an average man these days. Fifty years ago, it was the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:16 PM
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Honestly, I heavily get the impression some women love having sex. Some women truly enjoy hooking up with a hott guy objectively out of their league. It's pleasurable to them. Idk why everyone thinks that women get used by Chad. Some women truly love getting orgasms from Chad even if he doesn't want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:46 PM
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I remember when I was a little kid in the early 90s. My mom was a single mom, and I vaguely remember her dating. Here were the men she dated in the early 1990s: 1) Carlos. He was unemployed and had no desire to work. He had an amazing personality and was super hilarious. My mom ended up rejecting him because she didn't see a future with him. I think Carlos got friendzoned simply because he had no drive in life. I remember we went to Disneyland with him, and I think my mom had to pay. He did carr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:29 PM
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Not even 1/10th as you do now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:01 PM
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I think the biggest thing that upped the market value of women is online dating. Historically an "average" woman only had a handful of suitors in her daily life: Bob the guy in her bowling league. Steve the grocer. Her brother's creepy friend and that one weird dude from Church. Maybe a couple drunks at the bar. AND THAT'S IT. Nowadays women had hundreds of men at their fingertips with Insta, Hinge, Bumble, Tinder. For the first time in human history, an average Nancy nextdoor has 300 male suito…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:22 PM
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Ah yes, the usual "Just be kind and normal" post from a woman. Of course you leave out the part that you're extremely physically attracted to these three guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:52 PM
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Not really, but if I don't they just move on quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:13 PM
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