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Haha you ladies crack me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:34 AM
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It’s not that you get nothing in return for relocating your life for his sake — you actually get resentment. Especially if you manage to recreate a social circle and enjoy your life in the new location.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:56 AM
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Not a ramble at all! Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:24 PM
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That’s so smart. Do you have any resources you recommend? I think my therapist doesn’t do somatic but I’d see if it’s a good fit for my situation as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:16 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:03 PM
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Makes total sense. That’s my therapy-approach too. I guess that dbt/cbt is really a different kind of thing, less for re-embracing intuition and more for coping with anxiety responses? So it does make sense to prefer a different approach for cptsd/ptsd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:02 PM
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Thank you for this informative response! And on a side note — I am so so happy to see a trauma work psychologist who’s also fds minded. You are going to be (and probably are already) a life saver for your clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:59 PM
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Woha I thought it is recommended for ptsd? Do you know why not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:54 PM
4

💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:18 PM
39

Some misogyny right there, blaming the other woman while the man is portrayed as dumb innocent controlled-by-dick. Did the sister even ask if she knew he was married before bashing her via texts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:12 PM
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I’m so sorry for what you went through. I’ve read your longer comment up here. This is hell on earth, soul shattering. Your words reminded me of my abusive relationship with a serial cheater. The blood race, the smirks. Only it’s harder when poly because it’s cheating combined with gaslighting. I wish you the best, takes time to heal but you sound incredibly strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:10 PM
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Sounds like a narc. Causing havoc the night before your first day plus keeping you up so you’ll fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:27 AM
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A great evidence is that it’s safer to give birth at 25+ than 24, 22, 18 or whatever illegal age men fantasize about. Your body isn’t strong enough to carry children at 16, it’s grooming disguised as biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:11 PM
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Gotcha, thanks for the clarification!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:04 PM
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Well, when you associate slurs and violence with orgasm x60 times a month you obviously can’t fathom why women find this unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:03 PM
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I love it. But do you add the additional funny-sentence into the memory (as if you told it to, say, someone who was next to you on the traumatic event), or do you add it as if you are now re-telling the story to a friend and add a funny comment in the present moment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:40 PM
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Love your story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:43 PM
26

Small dick energy right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:56 PM
299

Let me just add that it’s better if the girls see their mother make the financial decisions and not their father. Growing up in a comfortable mindset - managed by a man - is still giving the message of dependency on males’ goodwill to respect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:54 PM
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TW needed 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:38 AM
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Yes! The old art of cutting off the bad influence friend or friends even. Until 18, it’s on the parents to vet their child’s friends and keep distance from the ill mannered and misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:32 AM
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There was a great discussion on this during the episode with Prof. Gail Dines at the fds podcast. She talked about raising her sons into being feminist-allies. It was very reassuring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:00 PM
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What’s up with scrotes and their inability to undergo anything OiLy on their skin? Are they so used to fapping their bare, chapped and bleeding d*cks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:55 PM
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Here’s your tarot spread 🔮 He won’t use any of the expansive products his gf will buy him. He’ll resent her for momming him, they’ll break up. In a few years she’ll encounter him on the street looking like a fine 45+ year old aged-like-milk while on his early 30s. She’ll laugh her way away from there looking 10 years younger. Ask me how I know Bonus: he’ll then text her to CaTch Up LoNg TiMe.🥛💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:46 PM
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I dated someone of a different background than mine and because of that I dismissed red flags thinking they were indicators of a different upbringing. But nope, he was simply a douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:29 PM
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Are you in contact with anyone who’s a bad influence, negging or subtly negging? If so, grey rock or better block and delete them. That includes deleting social media. If your situation allows, therapy is key for body issues. Other than that, I’ve found that engaging in consuming esthetics for myself - going to museums, the cinema and looking at good looking men - is healing as it shifts my perspective from the mirror to the outer world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:21 PM
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Not only that good looking women are abused regardless of looks, often times they undergo abuse because of it. Negging can and will escalate to emotional abuse with a scrote. I agree that beauty is capital in society (& in nature) but just like wealthy women are often targeted because of their money, same goes for looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:16 PM
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That was my first thought too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:49 AM
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Sure thing. I think the hopelessness was always there, it’s part of the grooming+ conditioning, we are raised to feel valueless. But once you get aware of the social conditioning then the hopelessness gets recognized. It’s very depressing at the beginning but then it gets better when you realize it’s only a social standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:17 PM
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I thought it was like the reddit algorithm trying to keep me at the home tab
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:40 PM
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I think it’s like a normal curve in which, at the beginning (for many, pickme days), you are blissfuly ignorant of male depravity. After reading fds you get more aware and therefore hyper vigilant of dangers. I guess that in the past you’d probably brush this ex coworker off as annoying or even nice but now you see through the creeps of it. Then there’s a max point where it’s very depressing to be at, but after a while the curve gets down again and fear/sadness goes down as you learn how to prot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:27 PM
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Ladies, any of you know why some posts are only visible on my reddit feed/home tab and do not appear on the sub itself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:19 PM
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Yes, submissive means take zero credit for the 100% labor made to uplift the male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:26 AM
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Good idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:34 PM
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I know about 4-5 HVM/HVW couples, a few of whom I know my entire adult life. They are totally out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:51 PM
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Sure !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:49 PM
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This reminds me of a nice vetting strategy: the Ikea stroll. This is more for long term dating situations, and only of it’s NOT a pickme thing to do where you live (not a ring hint). Then go to ikea or any other such store and observe: • Most scrotes will be using it for future faking. (“Our kids will love that car shaped bed haha” when you’re not even talking of engagement). • Is he implying you’ll cook for him in the display kitchen or hinting any other kind of wife performance? • Some furnitu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:38 PM
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Ask him to venmo for your makeup, perfume, lotions, haircare, haircut, esthetician bill, wax, wax-pain fee, eyebrows, lashes, manicure, pedicure, bath products, dry cleaning for delicate clothing, shoe and clothing depreciation, physiotherapist for wearing heels, birth control, birth control bloodwork, birth control side effects, self protection class, pepper spray & time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:31 PM
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Did you work with that salesperson before? Why does he think that you should “trust” a stranger with your business’ private details? The stupidity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:01 PM
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Was it porn that fucked up their brain, or even before porn it was like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:51 AM
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I LOVE this suggestion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:24 PM
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Harming furniture or any other object, and road rage when you’re in the car. Both are examples given in Bancroft’s WDHDT. Also: porn consumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:16 PM
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For me anxiety comes more from the stomach or chest area along with a more racing heartbeat and a harsh inner voice that runs through the most awful scenarios. It feels…critical, as if I’m about to die. Intuition feels like a quiet, reserved voice coming from the back of my head. My physical body feels the same as before, it’s just a calm and brief realization. A moment of “a ha”, like when you’re reminded of something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:06 PM
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This is a beautiful interpretation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:05 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nl1ih4/male_shit_tests_and_the_pickme_radar/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:47 PM
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Luckily it’s a given here in this community. Thank you so much for sharing that list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:46 PM
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• I refuse to date anyone who watches pornography, videotaped or in photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:42 PM
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Your gut instincts are absolutely right. I dated a short man and his insecurities sky rocketed with every day that passed. So he negged & cheated. Dating ugly and/or short men is putting your self esteem and physical being at risk because they project hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:54 PM
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So well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:45 AM
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Congrats on your level up journey! Read the handbook and posts, in a few months you’ll rewire your brain to see men the way they truly are. It’s a harsh awakening but extremely liberating, the most liberation I’ve had my entire life. Blocking him is highly recommended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:26 PM
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Also, put that list in a place a future boyfriend will not have access to. Males snoop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:03 PM
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Goes to show that even when someone seemingly has it all they can lack important things like..not putting their self worth on men. High risk game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:11 PM
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100% equally shitty options
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:49 PM
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He’s probably lying (the boyfriend). Men don’t date women they don’t consider attractive. It’s more likely that he liked her looks and style etc, but now he’s moving goalposts so she’ll be on her tiptoes to satisfy him & won’t notice his growing pot belly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:04 PM
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Spot on. They’re also hypocrites because they see themselves in Ansari. A somewhat pathetic, not-good-looking man takes a pub date to his apartment and pathetically pushing her for sexual acts. Not the hollywood mogul who rapes in hotels. They defend the men who are like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:27 AM
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“Wiping 🥰🥰🥰”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:33 PM
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There are cctv cameras you can buy online and just tape into your ceiling or put them like a webcam on your desk. Cameras are intimidating. You can also buy a real camera (they are very affordable) and take it off after construction work is done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:24 PM
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Oh lord I read it as in his 18th birthday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:43 AM
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I have those all the time, I think it’s our body/mind’s need for rest. Like those sick days we faked as children in school, they were really needed i think🪴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:01 PM
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Hahaha true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:23 PM
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Skilled time management: 11:00 AM - rise 11:20 AM - breakfast: cheetos 12:00 PM - fap 12:06 PM - finish 12:10 PM - eat cheeto left in beard 13:00 PM - scroll SM & OLD 18:00 PM to bedtime - gaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:46 PM
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99.9/100 times no such thing as platonic male friend unless he isn’t sexually attracted to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:37 PM
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Being extremely kind to other men who he actually disliked. E.g, acting very polite towards a hostile colleague, protecting a friend who did vile things to his gf. The last example is self explanatory but the first one is a more special kind of red flag; he was so AFRAID of other men because he internalized the patriarchy to his core. He respected males and males only, and that manifested in being their doormat and taking out his rage on women instead. He was also a kissass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:33 AM
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Great one 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:38 AM
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We have very similar stories. My hardest lesson learned was that the only way out is through. The feelings you let yourself feel, including the worst ones, will pass and get a little better with every time you let them be. You are grieving your past self (who died) and your past love (who died), either dead in a rapid crash or agonizing process, this is still death. You will not be as strong as you used to and that’s okay. Don’t put high expectations on yourself and just live it as one little ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:26 AM
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Covid restrictions are being lifted in some places and the male gaze is once again, everywhere. I would love to hear your ideas on how to reject this from the inside out. Literally to hear your voices speaking up against that male, negging voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:05 PM
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Highly needed emphasis on the fact that said screenshots are usually of DV victims, clearly trauma bonded. I closed my old fds account (“disciple”, mind you 🧚🏻) because I felt low key accused of being pickme for formerly tolerating a narc DV monster, out of sheer survival instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:56 PM
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This isn’t women’s health issues it’s simply…health issues. Men aren’t the default body and from now on I’m referring to either health issues or male health issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:48 PM
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For some men the moon is their only chance on having seemingly working penises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:45 PM
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Great anecdote. Maybe it shows how being coupled is an outcome of socialization rather than an inherent need for us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:25 PM
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CoMmUniCaTe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:09 PM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:51 PM
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Yea plenty of studies are done on “soul ties”. Sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:36 PM
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I’m glad she refers to that as cheating. Other than that, this is why women shouldn’t date until their frontal cortex is fully developed (25+).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:29 PM
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“Imaginary friend” is spot on. An ex I randomly met a year and a half after narcissistic discard was a surprised pickachu when he saw how put together I looked and heard where I was working (nothing crazy just a normal career step). He genuinely thought I ceased to exist after the breakup, waiting in the exact same room in the exact same clothes for his pp to come take me back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:44 PM
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Power dynamics can be emotional or physical without money issues. Wealthy women get abused too. And anyway the age gap provides the male more money/investments/freedom. Billie or Olivia aren’t more mature - becoming famous young is about being run by extremely talented agents/parents. It’s even not necessarily about 8 hr practice/day. If anything they might be less mature than women their age because they’re isolated from real people by the age of 14. Imagine growing up thinking that people only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:21 PM
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I don’t engage in questions about the table yet I will never call myself a table, women are not objects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:26 AM
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I loved having pockets in my clothing as a child, collecting little stones and “maps” I drew and all dry leaves in them. Then came the age of 8, 9, 10 and I started wearing what all the girls were wearing and no more leaves or stones for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:28 PM
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I see more women waking up from pickmeism due to how awful porn make them feel. We want healthy sex with healthy bodies&souls. Darwinism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:37 PM
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He also never goes out for a run after dark or take the metro after 10pm. So equal 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:03 PM
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They also split waxing! She’s doing the right leg and he’s doing his left leg and armpit and b*lls 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:30 PM
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We all laugh at his warped idea of ‘don’t spend on her, spend on my patreon!!’ but this is a prime example of many economic forces relying on men being selfish and stupid investors in order to make them stuck in this loop of being zero value > buying more toxic masculinity merch to feel like mEn. From barley useful sports equipment to OF subscriptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:05 AM
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Love it when jerking creatures who break their dicks at by the age of 25 call themselves stoic rational pillars of strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:57 AM
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Haha I loved this coloring book!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:51 AM
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Some go to therapy only so they could enable themselves into jerking even harder into socks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:45 PM
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Also, the key with low self esteem is to enhance her sense of self and as a former boss you are in a prime position to do that. Don’t emphasize on how she is doing mistakes but on the fact that she can do better, can change her situation again, have the ability to change jobs and do amazing things just like she did with her former team. Empowering is more efficient than warning, esp because she was left broken by that ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:20 AM
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I have a different take than everyone. Right now he’s love bombing her, waiting for her to move in & take as many mommy bangmaid jobs he can load on her. I say wait for the lovebombing to be over, and only then meet her for coffee. Talking to her during love bomb will not work, it’s like speaking to an addict when their life is still put together. She will just ignore you / he will make her cut you off for good. Ffs, she is choosing a 4 mo date over her cats. So, wait for his mask to slip and on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:05 AM
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So much the cam girl! Spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:35 AM
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An ex of mine (extremely narcissistic) had a few couples like this in his family and also a close friend, and he glamorized these men. He expected me to do the same: cook, clean, pay half, look good on his work events, support him while he’s living his dream life. NOPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:30 PM
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Good for you for planning your escape! Please inform him about the divorce after you have a place of your own & don’t be alone with him when you announce this, because cheaters are very often abusers who can become violent when you file or separate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:19 PM
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Gross enabling friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:14 AM
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So pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:17 PM
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Original idea isn’t mine, I just added the tip to use it with something in the theme of your real insecurity so you won’t miss the negging like I have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:16 PM
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Just edited :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:15 PM
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Negging on first dates (unless extremely calculated) is indeed dumb and will get anyone blocked. Negging becomes problematic in a relationship when you gaslight yourself to tolerate his escalating treatment / when you actually believe the negging and the male gets to abuse and lock down a woman who forgets her worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:14 PM
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Healthy instincts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:12 PM
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Classic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:11 PM
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This is true, and this is why it’s a drop and not drops. Pick one thing, say your ankles, and mention it casually twice. Men remember these things, no need to mention it anymore. Imo, this minimal lie is okay even if later you are married and he’s the love of your life. Our security comes first, and faking a little ankle hating issue is okay when risking getting into abusive relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:10 PM
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Edit: just did :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:31 PM
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We were having dinner and I did not understand what the waiter was saying (where I live we have outdoor dining but staff wear masks), I got upset because I was hungry and ordered a wrong dish. He said something along the lines of: hehe it’s only dinner, imagine fighting with X (the girl friend he thought I fought with) over this. This was obviously rude as it was referring to an alleged hurtful situation. But since it was completely made up and fighting with loved ones isn’t really a wound of mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:30 PM
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I completely agree with self diagnosis for narcs. Even if they do go to therapy they manipulate their therapist and use them for supply/enabling. The only people who are anti self diagnosis are narcs themselves. This is why it’s rare to find a self proclaimed narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:51 AM
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😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:33 AM
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The silver lining is that when these ugly souls leave their partners they level down in the gf department. Their journey back down to earth is beautiful to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:33 PM
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🤏🏼😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:08 PM
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A. Their massive egos can’t handle a successful woman, B. They want you dependent so you’ll tolerate escalating bs without leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:08 PM
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