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That. I made the mistake of accepting a relationship with a fuck buddy with low SVM to give her a chance and stayed way too long with her, accepted way too much crap behavior from her part. I started feeling guilty for just liking her instead of loving her and for all the things she did to keep me.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 05:49 PM
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Same goes for Asian women. In Japan for example they run the house. Most dudes are pussyfied and are treated as ATM. The social, external order is patriarchal but in couples and households women are way stronger than foreigners might think or fantasize.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 07:27 PM
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The website is responsive, works well on mobile.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 06:33 PM
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Ever heard of Google?
/r/askTRP01/09/19 08:05 AM
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You better spend it learning the local language if you're not proficient in it lol.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:51 AM
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I am a white foreigner in an asian country [...] since I got ghosted Don't take it personally, it happens al the time, especially in Asia. Which also means that your problem is not about being too nice because beta game is a thing here. Like someone else said, lower you standard, get your dick wet and learn from the process. Then you'll be able to catch higher.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:46 AM
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Where did I spoke only of blood? Of course that's the main clue, but more so is the attitude and behavior in bed. I've been the first of another girl two weeks before, and everything have been totally different from the other girls.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:56 PM
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if you have no intention of dating I indeed don't have such intention. Given her age (univ student) this might be more a burden for her but yeah, I think you're right. It seems to be too much work for not enough positive outcome (from both sides).
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:00 PM
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That's easily verified after the fact...
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:54 PM
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No it's bullshit. People fucks each other all the time outside of relationships (or cheat on their spouse). Of course, you have to make distinction between superficially westernized cultures like the Japanese one, and more traditional ones like Chinese (Mainland).
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:00 AM
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Girls my age esp. in london are a tough nut to crack in terms of them trusting you enough to meet It's because you are living in a muslim infested area. Of course they don't want be gang raped by street shiters so they screen more than in european cities.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 10:57 AM
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That quote exactly describes what I did after a few big fails. The pain is real. Big motivation for success thought.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 02:36 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shuhari
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 08:51 AM
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my iq is 132. I'm no where genius and I won't do anything memorable Yeah sure, with such thinking you won't be able to achieve anything. Like another poster said, the hard mode starts at university level. It's time to use your intelligence for real goals rather than passing school exams and IQ tests.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:22 PM
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I'm genuinely interested in this question, regardless of its relevance to my life. Start by not being ashamed of yourself. You know, if you meet an slutty or experienced girl enough, being a virgin could be a nice role play to get your cherry poped.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 04:53 PM
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Asian discriminate against non-Asian non-White. Try harder, some will like you anyway, but don't forget to ramp up your game on another races.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:39 AM
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Good luck because most Asian cultures are heavily skewed against Blacks. Not impossible, but you're playing in hard mode. Of course this is different is the US with 2nd or 3rd generations but a biais remains. Check this post: https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:15 AM
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Issue is I know TRP says as man you shouldn't be the one seeking commitment Do you follow Red Pill teachings to improve your life and get what you want or in the hope to become a Saint by accumulating good points?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 05:22 PM
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Yeah a lot of things are actually easier. IOI for example are more obvious I think.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 09:51 AM
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I've a few interesting FR to post. I'll add you to my list of people to contact when it will be the case. I've some experience but otherwise I'm slowing down on the matter as getting more girls won't help getting my PhD.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 09:49 AM
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Japan: no kino except when at sex location, or if in club. Hard to have a meaningful conversation so it's good training for fun-based approaches. Be bold, lead, don't ask the girl. Most guys are too indirect so you'll have an edge by being RP. Japanese required to pick up the hottest girls. Taiwan: either big sluts or more traditional girls. Being seen as a playboy is bad if you're targeting the latter. In this case, need a more BP game & bullshit stuff (like saying you like her) while still usi…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:41 AM
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Don’t move just for gals. But if it’s align with other goals of yours, do it. I’m at my third int’l experience and it was hugely beneficial for me.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:20 AM
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Are you serious? Get some balls, own what you say whatever it is and stop asking retarded questions like this.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:16 AM
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But you don't have muslims and that point alone make it a better place than most West European countries. The SJW shit will be solved with the PRC invasion lol.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 08:34 AM
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What's surprise in liking someone more than other? Attraction is not socialism, not everyone get the same share of it.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:11 AM
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but truth is that in the real world if a girl likes you she will show interest and not care if you’re too available Well said. Also there is a difference between being available and needy. The former is when you have time to set up stuff at different times, the later when you try to set too much meetings. Anyway she agreed, so don't think too much.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:01 PM
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Talking randomly with people (mostly cute girls) is now part of my normal life. It's true that social skill can rust, and keeping them sharp is as easy as chatting normally with strangers from time to time. The opener can be anything, really anything. So much that last time I did it in my native language, which was not understood, then switched to Japanese. This was surprising for her, and then generate things for the conversation (I told her she looks foreign, and she was indeed of mixed origin…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 08:53 AM
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Women don't value sex as much as we do because when she is with a beta male cuck that sexual attention is being met else where and she is there for his "security, cash, and prizes." So fucking true. I've spoke recently with a friend I know for years: she have been in an almost sexless relationship for the last decade, and admitted it's just for security. I've met the guy, low SVM, total beta cuck and of course he "loves" her and treat her well. The thing is, while she cheated once, she's miserab…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 03:02 PM
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Yes, I had. Still feel bad about it because I've otherwise handled the date perfectly (literally up until being on my bed).
/r/askTRP06/07/19 06:27 AM
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Learn to read: I tried to kiss her at each date since the 2nd. Last week I almost fucked her. Good thing feminism haven't reach East-Asia yet otherwise I would already have been charged for sexual assault a few times. I already touched her boobs and ass too. The issue is purely cultural : her bitch shield won't fade until I do the thing deemed appropriate in her culture so that she doesn't feel a slut sleeping with a player.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:11 PM
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You are the faggot here: I didn't write I was in LTR with her. I've not even "confessed" yet 'cause I just noticed the issue. Also this LTR things have not real meaning when either party can dump the other one regardless of the amount of time spend together (I just did that with my ex after 3 years of relationship lol). And I'm seeing other girls, that's just my main target.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:01 PM
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Next.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:03 AM
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This link is not too bad: https://trouble-care.com/pursue-success/ also this video when searching for the good keywords: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ibv7LFt0k94 Anyway, don't use canned declarations from the internet, they are cringy as fuck. Use a structure like: I enjoy spending time with you. I like you*. Would you like to be my girlfriend? * use 我喜歡妳 not 我愛妳 Also if you plan to say it in Mandarin, make it check by a native first.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:16 AM
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I had EXACTLY this issue. Basically dating a high SVM Taiwanese girl for 6 weeks, lot of IOI and I can touch her a lot but go denied every kiss attempts. I asked a Taiwanese friend and she told me "she seems serious, you must make a declaration first" (告白). Then I ask a Japanese colleague about his experience, he replied "yes I made a declaration at my 4th date. It's more a confirmation thing but you kind of need to do it". And from a friend with knowledge in Korean culture, it's also mandatory …
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:45 AM
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Porn actors and actresses are regularly STD checked. A signifiant number of movies feature condoms.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:31 AM
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Realize your god doesn't exist and your prophet is a false one. Then you can start using your brain to think about the real world as it is.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:35 PM
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The last 3-5 years between a 25 and 30's guy can make a big difference. I see it with myself (30), the last years have been decisive on my confidence, stories to share, foreign languages ability & social skills. The thing is to not waste these years and continue working on improving ourselves.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:33 PM
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Numbers (or chat app contact) are easy enough to get with near 100% success rate, then having a date is where most girls flakes. Afterwards it's either sex on first date or later if the girl wants a relationship. Anyway my numbers are skewed because I'm a foreigner in Japan and things are a bit tricky here (especially getting a date).
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:26 PM
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It’s a digital era, how else do you meet women? Ever heard of IRL? That's the app outside your phone.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:14 AM
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Yeah that's one totally bugs me and I had to rewatch that part. The first guy seems to have this life in order, is capable to make decisions on the spot and take the lead while the second one will most likely just got a number and never see the girl again. Also, you're right about the protocol being weak.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 02:46 PM
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Too pale is awful indeed. Anyway I'm not speaking of my own preference but how another culture have a different perspective on the matter.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:10 AM
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Come back when you'll be able to speak 3 foreign languages with at least intermediate proficiency.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:07 AM
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That's not universal. In East-Asia girls & women take great care not to be tanned 'cause being whiter is beautifuler in their cultures.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:11 PM
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"In Japan, customs officials raised the concern that Blanc had not had a proper work permit on his earlier visit to Tokyo. They stated that the crime kyōsei waisetsu, translated literally as "forcible indecency", appeared to be committed in the video but that such charges require a victim's testimony." ​ This guy is a scumbag that you should not follow advise.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:56 PM
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Same opinion here. Especially if you wanted to do it, did it and enjoyed it, that's what controlling your life is about.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:49 PM
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If you need validation from the internet to get rid of a 5/10 29 drug addict single mother you need to sort out of your life.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:57 AM
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After we parted ways I posted photos with a hot female friend at a party which she saw. Dude it's Asia, the girls are jealous as HELL here. Being seen as a player will turn off all girls except club sluts. Anyway if she's uncomfortable the solution is easy: make her a bit more confortable. From your story everything went really fast. Cat café before your appartement and no weird shit (restraints) and she would probably have slept with you.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:59 PM
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I had this kind of experience too: hostesses I pick-up on the street paid a restaurant bill. That people whose job is literally to suck out every yen of beta males paid for me is one more little stone that build my confidence.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 12:20 AM
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love her from a distance Wtf in which sub am I? Next her. You’re writing a wall of text for a girl you don’t even fuck. Move on.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 09:54 PM
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I also have a problem with getting out of my comfort zone and making approaches I think you are lying to yourself about having high standards: it’s an excuse to avoid approach on the pretext someone doesn’t match them. Like tb0n said it, go practice with, you might even get you dick wet in the process.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 09:50 PM
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I'm pretty sure that the norm used to be that women worked but basically just until they found a husband. In some places I'm pretty sure that is still the norm. Yes, still true in Japan for most women. I'm also quite sure girls goes to university primarly to find a good husband there (hypergamy at works here) or later by having a decent work.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:54 AM
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Exactly the same in my country (France). 13% of shitholers are encouraged by the system to not work, reproduce more than whites and are free to do any criminal activities they want, including terrorism. The vast majority of the voters are cucks that are happy to finance all this shit show and don't want to wake up even after the burning of Notre Dame. Where does this stems from? Some people argue it's the shift of politics towards emotions, which came from the voting right of women. I'm not sure…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 11:58 PM
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I noticed in Japan the married woman lets her husband have sex with hookers and makes no fuss about it It's more a don't ask, don't tell situation, because being divorced is still a huge social stigma here and most married women are housewife. The overwhelming majority of men don't want to date or marry a Christmas cake bastu'ichi so their life is basically ruined if they divorce. Interestingly there is this case where the court ruled that the husband having sex with a hostess was a business pra…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 11:01 PM
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Fucking disgusting on so many levels. First, obviously because it's an anti-men policy. I hope they won't get enough applications and that their research ranking will tanks in next years thanks to the lack of researchers and the poor ones they hired. Then a €100K grand just for being a woman? Shit with this money I could hire a contractor for a year and half to build my research software and concentrate on other things. But it's true, my penis make me a bad researcher, and that money is better g…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 10:50 PM
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Except it won't works this way, because double standards.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 10:37 PM
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I am an expert of not blindly following what I read (especially on the internet) because this is my job. And you can curse me like you want, I'm not concerned by your entreprise world bullshit stuff.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:27 PM
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The sheer fact you are resorting to argument from authority instead of logic shows that you are wrong and you know it.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:13 PM
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You do not shit where you eat. This isn't office job. He was totally right to try a move. The pizza guy is not a porn meme for no reason...
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:01 PM
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I've a bit of the same issue with one of my target (HB 7-8, 8 years younger) and my approach have been to solve a problem (e.g. date & place for a new date), write down the solution then focus on my work. If one of my project have even a remote connection to her, I'll trick my hamster to work on it on the pretext it will help with her (it won't but at least the project is advancing).
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:53 PM
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Find another girl for the prom.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:34 PM
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Probably not as bad as your situation, but because of my tooth growing too slowly I didn't had the opportunity to do orthodontics. My smile is thus far from the perfect ones most people have, yet I never gave a shit. I don't remind ever got a bad comment about it, and my ex-gf even find that cute and sometime compared me to a rabbit because of that.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:31 PM
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I've got a good share of insecure little boys as teacher that were literally mad I skipped their classes ('cause I know the content already). One even ragequit its own class when I attended again and refused to leave. Never had this kind of issue with 60+ years old professors; probably because they have more experience and don't took it personally.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:26 PM
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Transcendental HB be like 3.141.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:07 PM
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Yeah I actually created this profile to speak about more the topic. I'll post FR & Theory posts on the main sub and of course not everything can be said in a post but here is some quick tips. Japanese language: should be obvious but the better you are at it the easier it got. Speaking the language helps you go from monkey to human in their eyes. At JLPT N3 you start to have meaningful interactions and at N2 you can pick up and have hours long dates without resorting to English. Introduction: eve…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:56 AM
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Euro guy living in Japan here. I have a good grasp of the language and a previous one-year stay of experience. The most difficult problem is that people don't socialize in the same way than in the West. In particular, they compartiment totally their relationship, so a guy you met at your university club won't invite you to party with his university friends not from the club, nor with his high school friends, etc. So it's incredibly hard to create and maintain a social circle. Another important p…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:15 PM
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True, it's literally the whole reason for their existence.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 08:10 AM
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And the more dominant they appear, the more they want a man to put them back at their place and dominate them.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 06:34 PM
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Not exactly, and I'm living in Japan anyway. But Sweden is indeed the model for the whole Western Europe in term of replacement of population.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:06 AM
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If you need someone to told you what to do with your life you have a serious problem. Read more about that.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:45 PM
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You start by reading the sidebar of the main sub.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:39 PM
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I did. Then I was invited with my friend to her place to smoke weed. Albeit I gauge the situation beforehand, in my country sandniggers are known for attacking in band and beating people to death for no reason so I won't put my life in danger just to save someone from harassment.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:55 PM
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Lol no don't talk about it explicitly. Say you're busy on some stuff and need to focus on it for a (long) time so you will have a bit less time for her. It's even better if true and that you spend this time building yourself.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:18 PM
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spend most of my free time with her and she knows it I fell in the trap on giving too much attention to my (ex-)LTR: she more you give the more she wants. Solution is to spend less time with her, this way she will valuate it more, when she's asking for more you can sometimes give her more without it being problematic for you and finally it will fell less like routine.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:11 PM
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Are real friends you're hanging out with because they is mutual interest and respect or "friends" because of circonstances and you have no other people to go out with?
/r/askTRP09/06/19 07:15 AM
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16-19
/r/askTRP09/06/19 06:54 AM
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Get a confirmation and try to get another date if not possible tomorrow. If no date, yeah look elsewhere.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 06:47 AM
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I've way more success solo than with a friend: more confidence, more yolo, more interactions with strangers as coming alone to a set is less intrusive and easier time talking because all my friends suck at the local language.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 06:45 AM
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Genius formula. I'm keeping it somewhere for latter use.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:55 AM
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It is legal, you like her, she seems to like you, go for it.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:45 AM
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Yeah the keyword here is sometimes. More than once a date would be really annoying.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:41 AM
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What is the exact question? Are you changing country? Grad school is not different than bachelor years: just go talk to people (yeah, people, not just women) and then you're good.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:47 PM
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I'm not a festival/music guy but yeah try to danse, if they're not receptive change for other sets. This kind of event are big, so just try with a lot of people and you should find some girls that like you.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:44 PM
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Most of my contacts here have been flakey. Don't take it personally. As it's a number game try with more girls. I don't think you're at fault here.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:42 PM
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Yeah club, concert, festivals et al. are not the place to talk. Body language only, or talking outside main scenes, etc.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:38 PM
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Yep, better use your masculinity to CREATE stuffs. It may even outlast you, and it's a joy in itself.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:34 PM
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she keeps correcting things I say Instant next sir.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:30 PM
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Festival = fuck in toilets or tent (so bring condom with you).
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:28 PM
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No kiss today (tried 3-4 times) but she was ok to hold my hand for extended time a lot of times (including while riding bike). I thing she just need more time as in her country things are not going that fast (more traditional place than Japan). As I my intentions are even more clear that last time and we are seeing each other next Sunday everything will be alright. Anyway that was a lot of fun to show her the night life in the city and a lot of DHV with friends I met (2 guys + 1 jp girl) + barte…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 05:40 PM
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No way I'm in the friend zone because that stuff doesn't exist here. In Japan girls either ghost you (no interest), will meet you again in group (slight interest) or go on date (strong interest). Nobody believe in m/f friendship the only exception being people that were schooled together. Ok I'll kiss her next time. If it fails no problem, I have other plans.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 08:13 PM
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Strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:17 PM
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If she interested she will suggest another time, not something vague like "let's meet soon".
/r/askTRP06/06/19 11:35 AM
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wait some time [...] and offer another date That. If she refuse, next.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:21 PM
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Your fucking young. Start now, slowly, by speaking at bit more to other people everyday. Read & apply. In ten years you'll be Chad if you practice.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:19 PM
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No, it's not in East-Asia either. In Japan people avoid eye contact, which you can at your advantage with the girls.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 12:06 PM
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You dodged a bullet. Keep ghosting and never contact here again. She's using apps so she here for sex too and that much emotional investment on a guy she fucked two times is creepy as hell.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:23 AM
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Trolling? Reading helps you getting new ideas, which is the first step for change.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:20 AM
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Basically everywhere is fine, really (including street).
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:22 PM
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You basically want her to be your orbiter. She's right to not lose her time with you if she's not getting what she wants out of you (the dick) as this is exactly one of the thing we try to teach men here. Don't sweat over her and expand you social circle outside job.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:15 PM
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Pretend nothing happened. If she speak about it, ask her if she jealous (some girls prefer dog tongue than human ones).
/r/askTRP02/06/19 02:58 PM
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If a girl tells you you're a complete asshole, shouldn't you agree and amplify? Or you could just ignore what she said. We are not bound to reply to every shit that is coming out of women mouths.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 02:13 PM
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You have a good point: the place preselect the kind of people you'll meet. Hence library for educated girls, strip club for damaged goods, supermarket for married women, etc.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 02:10 PM
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The street, a library, any shops, activities & clubs, ... The really hard question would be where women aren't, given they are almost everywhere.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 02:04 PM
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Yes and no. Yes for English (got it from reading the web) & Chinese, no for Japanese & one ancient dead language that I learnt at university. I cannot choose a language for you, take one that suits your project (which can be as simple as having fun). Don't fear to try a bunch of them and see how it goes. As a side note, learning languages have been the most impactful thing I did in my life. This morning I was enjoying the company of three ladies who paid everything ($20 lunch) for me thanks to m…
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:58 AM
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Dude she's asking you for a picnic. Reply minimally to her to set another date, then have fun with her. You're too focused on the outcome (sex) and that's may what is hindering you. Otherwise if you're not getting what you want from her in the next n dates [1 <= n <= 2] next her.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:53 AM
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You can reclaim your IDGAF attitude my getting other options (when you'll have time). In the meantime your studies are the most important thing you should focus on, as a degree is something that augment permanently your value whereas girlfriends are disposable. Let her bitch about you being mean etc. and don't listen to her friends either.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:48 AM
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I learnt languages and I try to help other learn them too.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:32 AM
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Do both but put practice first. Go out and pick-up chicks during days and at night. Read books when raining.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 08:54 AM
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Really good attitude in your FR: approaching girls (in a non scary way), quitting the convo when needed, not taking rejection personally. However like other posters suggested you should drop compliments on physical aspects. Also hard to judge on the net but a bit more fantasy in the conversation (left out the job part for instance) could help.
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