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50% of those are redundant. Can't do #3 if you're also doing #1 Not likely to do #2 if you're doing #4 Minimal self reflection.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/03/24 07:58 PM
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I agree with you. It's almost like people here are arguing the difference comes down to syntax. "Don't cheat on me, or I'll leave" - controlling "I wont continue to date someone who cheats" - boundary The message is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:17 PM
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Odd that the article says "allegedly" when she's been convicted.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/23 08:30 PM
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Agreed. Those examples are low hanging, but unfortunately even some logically low hanging questions will still not get a moral response. For example: Q. Should it be legal for boys to undergo circumcision vs the same for girls.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/23 05:37 PM
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Agreed status is cultural, but I think on average women are more attracted to higher status men. I disagree about the million different things. Any sub-culture driven status I think is just a side show to the main cause of the red pill. Sure you may find a girl who wants 'the biggest goth' and you could become that. If anything the PUAs try to teach guys to try to specialize in that way. Unfortunately, the mainstream is where most of us exist, and the internet is exporting US consumerism to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:23 PM
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For several centuries, fat men and women were considered high status because of cultural norms. To me the red pill is more like "women are attracted to high status men", which is highly evolutionary in its basis, across time and species. Everything after that is social. Problem comes from the current social dynamic, in which high status is driven increasingly by factors outside your control - with height being the example which is most stark. Is height preference evolutionarily driven or cultura…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:51 PM
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Now that women are financially independent, they can afford to be by themselves I think this is lie told told to people today, very few men and women can be fully financially independent in the long run. If people don't pair up and have kids there: • won't be decent state pensions with so few tax payers • won't be good private pensions / portfolios as boomer masses remove their investments as they retire without new investors coming in to the market This is true for both men and women, but women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:28 PM
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Channeling your interest into something more productive for the world than chasing sex. I think this sentiment doesn't appeal to a male RP psyche. According to the RP men work for status in order to get a better partner - not to improve society. Why would a perpetually single man care to improve a society they have no stake in. More than likely RP men will work to simply get richer, at best without consideration of others, at worst at the expense of others; avoiding tax and generally being liber…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:15 PM
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I agree that the ability to admit you can improve does indicate a valuable level of honesty and self reflection. Not having a sufficient number of friends however, or them being of such low quality that you cannot honestly thrash out your problems with them, are indicators of low value. To me - having issues alone doesn't lead to therapy; letting issues get to a level which causes problems AND not being resilient enough to manage them yourself AND not having invested in a sufficient support netw…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:44 PM
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Imagine thinking you are going to get a good man, who is also ok with you lying right from the outset. Boggles the mind!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 04:25 PM
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Oh it is for Spaniards etc. It just shows an even more unrealistic standard than the typical >6ft. Tall is few enough men. Tall and Scandi, Tall and Dutch - doable. Tall plus Dark & Handsome, really rare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/23 07:21 PM
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None of which are particularly known for their height.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/23 07:08 PM
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I'd suggest they go to therapy like they're always suggesting. However in the current era I doubt the left leaning therapist would suggest a woman be more realistic in her expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:07 PM
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Going to therapy is the trope that i can never understand being a sign of a high value person. As if being so unable to handle your issues, that you have to spend your capital on someone to talk to, is a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:49 PM
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I can understand your position more for the USA where the republicans seem more like comic book villains - especially in certain states. The Tories in the UK are more laissez-faire and social issues aren't as big as the US...for now. Indians in the UK tend to anglicize quite a bit, but it is overwhelmingly south east Asians. I'm forever third wheeling on dim sum dates, I'm not sure I can eat much more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:34 PM
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Not a full disagreement; but amongst my friend group the issue seems to be politics. Many of my well educated, financially secure male friends are naturally conservatives (typically fiscal conservative and not caring either way about the social issues). However, many of the western women I have met, now seem to see treat any conservative politics as a red flag. Personally i think it's due to the politicisation of abortion in America and #metoo. They're welcome to their politics but as it stands …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:37 PM
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Offer to carry shopping inside. Put a child into a car seat. Lift a pram up the stairs. Ask a mother if she needs to go to the bathroom (alone, without a child-barnacle) before you part ways. Pick up some groceries or coffee on your way over (we’ll pay you back, we promise). Imagine a single man offering to help put your child in a car seat, or to watch them whilst you go to the toilet. You'd be on a register before you knew what happened.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/23 08:22 PM
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I agree OP. I see it within my friends for the same example. One partner expects a very high standard of cleanliness for bathrooms specifically. They each clean for a similar amount of time, but one has cleaned two rooms the other has cleaned the entire rest of the house - hardly equal outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:15 PM
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I liked how they called her JOI - like the j*rk-off instructions genre. Seeing as she couldn't directly interact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:09 PM
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5'10 or taller (I'm tall so I don't want children that are too tall, to prevent any medical issues they may get such as back problems) Given the current fixation on a mans height, wouldn't you want any kids to be taller rather that short?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:02 PM
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A guy with his own spade! that's a keeper right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:19 PM
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Based on my friendship group alone this is wholly untrue. Plenty of the successful (body count) guys I know, did not want a woman with a similarly high count. Hypocritical - yes acceptable...also yes, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:16 PM
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Colombia is 80% or something), and they don't have a robust social safety net What is happening there if this is the case? Are all the women impoverished with their kids and all the single men living la vida loca, or are they supporting their sisters and forming a new family dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:35 PM
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Maybe, but it all counts for nothing if it is unsustainable on a generational timescale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:46 PM
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They only care so long as it affects them in their ivory towers. They don't really care about men in the UK or Japan, until they run out or worker drones to make them rich. Gun violence is just an accelerated decline...and the primary American tradition.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/22 07:52 PM
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Out of interest, where you you place someone who has limited success when they were younger, then minimal since, but has come to terms with it and no longer wants to be part of the market. Sure they are / were involuntary celibate, but it has led them to MGTOW. I think there is too much focus on technical virgins, when the above paragraph must represent far more so-called incels. Part of me thinks the overlap is significant and that inceldom is effectively just what used to be called the 'red pi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/22 10:25 PM
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Furthermore, when these men seek solace with others like them, that's branded a "toxic space" I think the loss of men's spaces is one of the reasons for poor male mental health. Women don't seem to appreciate how the presence of women in a group of men changes the dynamic and shifts the mood from collaboration to outright competition. And yet, we are forever reminded that 'women' need their own spaces and woe to any trans woman who wished to enter them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/22 10:17 PM
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"being nice is nothing special, that's the bare minimum". Fuck that. Have you interacted with people, or even watched people interact? A lot of people are awful. I think part of it is women, especially young or attractive women will never have seen what you are talking about. They're always treated well, with kindness. Strangers will stick up for them if they perceive women are in danger. In many areas it's still socially unacceptable to poke fun a women in the same way all men interact - giving…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/22 10:11 PM
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You need the AmishPill. I do agree though. the description of sitting all day at a computer drinking sugary pop, procrastinating on the internet and writing code, likely for some meaningless app or website, sounds bleak. We can all look forward to a beige meaningless existence, built in large by men who are trying to scrape their way to the top of the pile and robbing us all of meaningful work and social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:15 PM
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if woman only liked assholes then I wouldn’t have an ex girlfriend So...if women liked assholes you would have a current girlfriend? Are you the asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:54 PM
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#metoo is inherently misandrist because its implied solution harms men like Harvey Weinstein from being able to peddle movie roles for sexual favors. Hell, from a sex positive view a woman in Hollywood could kick-start their career for the small price of watching a short fat producer touch himself. Arguably also an inequality which benefitted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:13 PM
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Agree with this. People are sufficiently aware and educated to date casually and co-parent if they want a family. OP made it sound like all relationships are a form of slavery; forced to marry for their survival, they simply cannot afford to be selective and must therefore sexually submit to men they do not desire in order to lead comfortable lives and be able to participate in society. How about she gets a job / builds a business and makes her own comfortable life, then finds someone to hang ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:08 PM
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I don't think this is wholly true. Some of those in TRP who want to try and change the current sexual marketplace (rather than game the current system), advocate 'solutions' which do not create more inequality between sexes but rather correct for a perceived advantage which women have. These advantages stem from a traditional view of women and their abilities. Examples of 'solutions' which do not make women less equal nor do they somehow reduce women's humanity, include: Legal paternal surrender…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:00 PM
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It makes sense from their perspective on power dynamics in sexual relationships. In effect they're arguing that those buying sex are criminals for exploiting sex workers, but those selling it are victims of circumstance. To me it's a blatant effort to force men to engage in typical relationships and continue supporting women. But look for yourself. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nordic_model_approach_to_prostitution#:~:text=Under%20the%20Nordic%20model%2C%20sex,third%2Dparty%20advertising%20remai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:02 PM
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Men are asking for it by sharing a gender with their attackers. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:08 PM
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She said women having less sex is just going to make more men become rapists. Wow! It's pretty amazing how men are both mindless sex addicts / rapists, unable to control themselves AND simultaneously cunning enough build and maintain all the power structures in the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:22 PM
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Surely that's still more successful that an equivalent man having less / no hookups Something > Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:18 PM
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the word average ought to mean that 50% of the opposite sex would find your looks passable Bimodal attraction aside, it could even be described as a 'mean', 'median' and 'mode' type argument. The 50% above and 50% below average argument is the median. If however, there is 20% (or 10% or 5%) who are overwhelmingly attractive, then it will skew the whole distribution so the 'mean' is above the normal man. Couple that with social media inflating those who are most attractive and the perceived mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:49 PM
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The point is she wont. Because her dead partner was taken and become idealized. Can't you infer from context!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:15 PM
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It can easily be the same: Single mothers I wish I could lock down 'Chad' but you will do as a provider, and i will resent you forever because you're not chad" Actual widows "I had my perfect 'Chad', but fate took him and now im left with a loser like you. I wish you were Chad and will resent you because you aren't him".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:23 PM
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Your problem, your fault, no one cares...now pay your taxes wage slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:12 PM
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Pretend you're gate crashing a self-help group - like in fight club.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:08 PM
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Given millennials and gen z-ers are the loneliest generations, having few IRL friends - it doesn't bode well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:03 PM
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Is it not just 'hierarchy'. Don't you think it would exist, earned or un-earned, regardless of race as an inherent part of being human. Perhaps it would be a competence hierarchy in an idealized world, but I don't imagine humanity lasting long without a social framework to operate in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:51 PM
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it didn't tear apart society when it was deemed acceptable that 6% of men between the age of 18-30 got killed in WW2 vs 0% of women The massive loss of male life in the first world war led directly to universal suffrage in Britain, first for men then for all. It did effectively tear apart the aristocratic society which was in place at the time. There is no way to know what a glut of women would bring for society, and considering women tend to have a greater in-group bias, I imagine it would be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:24 PM
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the pandemic devastated sections of the economy, particularly those dominated by women. Goes to show who's working in the industries and roles critical to society in a crisis.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/22 05:25 PM
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genes or their life philosophies Genes yes, but you don't get your philosophy solely from your parents alone. Teachers, friends, colleagues all build into your worldview. I knew someone who moved to a town which was heavily Muslim, a white girl from the UK. Two years and she came back fully converted. If this social mores reaches a critical mass then people will be influenced by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:17 PM
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...followed by more divorce from women who think they've settled and can't put up with a partner they quickly grow to despise. Then the next generation never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:37 PM
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about as appetizing and enjoyable as a hearty shit that leaves you feeling 3 pounds lighter I'm looking forward to my forty's now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:21 PM
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Apart from when the government orders everyone to stay at home for years. If I ever had any game it's all gone now!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:00 PM
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Four I can think of are already working like that: • No marriage tax breaks - affects all singles. • Paying for child support - affect all singles (men and women). • Progressive tax systems. Men earn more on average so end up paying more tax overall. • Pension age vs. life (depending on country women's retirement age is lower, but either way they live longer and claim for longer). But no government has the stones to implement one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:48 PM
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He would die there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:28 AM
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Fatal white knighting
/r/PussyPassDenied23/06/22 05:55 PM
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Directness is fine. It was hardly assholery, probably closer to cowardess looking back. A sort of 'keep your head down' type you get in high school, not being mean to people, just not associating with them. Oddly the truly high status people I've known are not kind, and often use their generosity in a negative manner - either to shame people or control them. It's partly a reason for my turnaround, seeing their status providing no happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:16 PM
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Looking back it was likely because I, and all the other young men, was engaged in a system who's sole goal was achieving social status - to gain favour with women. Sadly associating with 'loser' men would've lowered my status. Basic mean girls stuff I'm afraid. Caring less about dating and the realization that the status game is all superficial, gave me greater freedom to associate with people I wouldn't have given the time of day to in my youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:15 PM
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culture wars (a way to bullshit people so that they don't concern themselves with the real issues) Problem with the culture wars is they pervade many of the real issues, and contaminate the discourse. Immigration / job markets - about racism Global warming - about racism (as developing countries will be affected more) Crime - about racism (BLM) and sexism (#MeToo). etc. You can no longer discuss real issue without the media applying a culture war slant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:47 AM
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I have also started empathizing with loser men more and more Good that you took a somewhat positive route. My red pill realization also made me kinder to the sort of guys who I wouldn't want to be associated with in my younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:30 AM
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I'm sure you could write it in terms from Karl Marx's labour theory of value and people would still complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:35 PM
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Multiple examples here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-child-support
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:55 PM
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Some people lie in order to get short term 'benefits', so you cant trust what's written Some people feel being honest about wanting a relationship comes off as needy, and Hollywood has made people think they need to be cool over being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:09 PM
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...and most VR headsets are sticky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:00 PM
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Christian Mingle I thought you were joking. It sounds like one of those 00's sex act jokes. A 'dirty Ramirez' and a 'Christian mingle'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:58 PM
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Out of interest OP. What would equivalent male choice look like? Legal paternal surrender if abortion is readily available? Another point in addition to the rape link - some countries still make men pay when the child is provably not his. At the very least the named father has to pay child support until it is proven the child is not his.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/22 09:16 PM
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I'm frankly surprised that the gap is only 13% unadjusted, given how much you hear about this in the news. Must be the growth of the HR equality departments paying, overwhelmingly women, decent middle incomes to be innumerate. We are forever getting even less reliable stats parroted by HR at work. Numbers which aren't even adjusted for full and part time working - let alone number of hours worked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 04:09 PM
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As a higher earner which is equipped with a penis, and thereby I do not have a full control of who the father is there is no PRO's in marriage for me. I still think the high earner needs to propose in a good relationship. Otherwise you basically have the poorer partner asking for a lifelong handout. If you, as the higher earner, are willing to make the commitment and look after the lower earner - and take the majority of the divorce risk - then you are free to propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:54 PM
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Right. If the negligent druggy parent was a man, the kid would've been taken away years ago.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/22 07:25 PM
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The unequal consequences are wholly mitigated by unequal choices. Women have far more preventative contraceptive choices, women have the monopoly on corrective measures (from morning after to abortions). Not to mention the decades of feminists minimizing abortions to a minor inconvenience. The more achievable equality would be to make abortions guilt free and contraceptives readily available. Thus removing the difficulty in the decision for all who are still reticent. That way both men and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:44 PM
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Sorry, but how is raising another man's child equality? I could understand calling it a meaningful change, or making the world a little better. What is the inequality being righted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:42 PM
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Agree. Society isn't meant to ensure everyone has a happy life with everything handed to them. It's about building a framework which is beneficial for most. Some fall by the wayside following bad decisions, as it should be. If there were no consequences for these actions then, the behaviors would simply continue and more people would suffer in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:38 PM
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Main one I've seen from a couple of friends Woman get pregnant, having previously agreed to both work afterwards and now she wants to be stay at home mother. Most choose to stay in order to bring the kids up within a marriage, and they don't hate their wives or don't consider it too disrespectful - they just now have a massive financial liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:42 PM
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It's a dangerous mix of legal contract and symbol of love. The symbol of love ensures trying to mitigate the legal impacts of divorce (i.e. pre-nups), are socially unacceptable. Because 'why would you want to put a caveat on our symbol of love - don't you love me' Judaism has it right. All marriages have proper pre-nups; not only do all parties go in eyes open, but bringing up the concept of a pre-nup is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:30 PM
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If you don't want to risk paying alimony don't agree to marry someone who doesn't want to work But they can just change their mind whenever they like for no reason. Then your only option is to divorce them, then and there, or stay in the marriage and slowly watch as your risk of being divorce r*ped increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:18 PM
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100%. They've all been in 3D IRL for a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:36 PM
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Seems like you can have a preference, but if you explain your preference then you're a bigot. No single mothers - fine. No single mothers because, on balance, it reflects poor or unethical behavior - 'douche' apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:09 PM
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I can't help but think a wholesale breakdown of coupling - and increase in singledom - would simply lead to more single parent households (and we all know which parent it will be). 'Accidents happen', and until men can control their fertility to the same degree as women, men will have limited protection against unwanted fatherhood.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/22 11:10 PM
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How long has common law been so financially binding? Was there no outcry when it came in?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/22 09:37 AM
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and with tax laws the way they are the corporations and their owners don't pay any either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:56 PM
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Hardly 'pussy pass denied', more like "man photocopies pussy pass". Just read those three inequalities listed in the article: • Women can retire earlier • Women don't have to undertake military service • Widows get higher payments than widowers.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/22 08:48 PM
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For the men, they will use escorts Agreed with much of it but this. Western feminists are forever pushing for the Nordic model to sex work (making buying it illegal, but selling it ok). If they get their way then the majority of normal men won't risk prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:17 PM
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waiting for these overweight single moms once they are ready to settle down No guys I know are willing to be step fathers anymore, it's seen as simp behaviour. Unless there's an uptick in societal pressure to 'man-up' and look after someone else's kids I think it'll just be alpha widowed single mothers and incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:01 PM
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An explosive rise of downs syndrome births. I'm putting all my money into lava lamps and disco ball stocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:56 PM
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Perhaps the rise of single motherhood, caused by reduced monogamy will lead to socialization of parental provision - like a parents / very generous child benefit. Single childless men will, in effect, be forced to pay for those with children. Like Alpha Fu*ks / Societal Bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:47 PM
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I know, it was received poorly. But the whole HR department was fully on board with this ideology. I'm not even against the idea that you start to use neutral descriptors (i.e. not "-man" words), if only that using them may be inaccurate. These ham-fisted attempts just get people's backs up and prevent any actual change, which for the moment is probably good.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/22 05:09 PM
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Interesting, but I'm sure the reason for it being on the list was even more disturbing - Human Resources trying to be funny...whilst implementing a draconian world view. Compelled speech - with a smile.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/22 05:04 PM
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If it included the female to male equivalent it would, as you say, be less galling. It would just be like the provisions for protected characteristics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/22 05:02 PM
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I thought that the other day, with making misogyny proposed to become an aggravating factor in sentencing - effectively a hate crime. https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/misogyny-hate-crime-lords-government-defeat/ I thought laws were meant to be neutral, so if they must make a new hate crime law, it should recognize gender / sex (however they word it) as the aggravating factor, not misogyny. Similar to how attacks because of race can lead to a hate crime, not only when it's against black people or Asian…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/22 11:36 PM
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Couple years ago at a previous job, HR issued a list of words we should avoid in order. I'd feel insulted if someone thought i couldn't handle words like "strong" or "leader" https://imgur.com/a/NxwdNQN I was insulted by the so-called female bias words, made men sound awful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/22 11:25 PM
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Women more and more seem to be treated somewhere between children and full adults. They cannot assess their own risks, nor live with the consequences of their actions in the west.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/22 09:32 PM
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Might have to use their own language. 'You think men deserve to be killed because they share a gender with their attackers? - victim blaming'
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/22 10:34 PM
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It think it's that and the age thing combined. If you take all adults say 18 - 82 (average lifespan). If women marry men 3 years older on average then there's three years worth of men unmarried. Simplistically you could model it as as if all men who are 18,19 & 20 are unmarried and then at 21 they marry an 18 year old woman. The percentage of adults (18-82) who are 18-20 is probably about 5% of adults. God knows how it's 15% nationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:12 PM
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Probably the third one, divorced men having another go with a never married woman - especially if the ex wife has won custody in the divorce. If the discussions here any anything to go by, single mother seem to lose all SMV and stay single, whilst dads who don't have their kids all the time are free to continue dating and marrying. Could it be where you live there are just more men. Like near oil rigs or mines?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:37 PM
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There's no reason to get married, when places like Canada give you all the downsides without the need for the contract. https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/no-home-or-kids-together-but-couple-still-spouses-appeal-court-rules
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:45 PM
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I think a slow checking out of society is more likely; with demotivated men no longer striving to be helpful having the greatest impact. Some examples: • less men getting involved in boys clubs or scouting because why would you if you have no stake in the society. This would lead to less well rounded young men, who lacked the male role models and perhaps more youth violence on the whole. • less men taking on leadership roles and mentoring at work. Im seeing this at mine, everyone is sick of dive…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:48 PM
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I'm sure there is a decent portion of men who are naturally Bi and socially guided to be straight. Just look at ancient Greece, where men were more 'intimate' with each other, whilst maintaining a wife. Given a breakdown in trust between the sexes (whether deserved or otherwise), maybe men just sort themselves out in the medium term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:33 PM
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Society will not grind to a halt unless the men left behind somehow collectivise and withdraw their labour en-masse, which won't happen. They'll simply be distracted with porn and video games. Maybe a few will reach breaking point and become some form of FIRE monk, but not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:57 PM
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A fair summary, and these align to some of the different branches of the manosphere: Be settled for - MRAs - so when your resentful wife chucks you, you can still see your kids and you're not homeless. Improve yourself - PUAs - the game and peacocking etc. Be alone - MGTOW & Incells
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:58 PM
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I see technology & " social progress" mitigating most of the impacts of any collapse: • Robots - manual labour needs • AI - reduction in low end coordination roles • Improvements and financial support for IVF and fertility treatments - extend female fertility • Increased welfare for single mothers / childcare support • Higher taxes to pay for it all The collapse hypothesis is just a cope. Societies could easily move to a more co-parenting as standard or even full state provision for children / s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:48 AM
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It'll no doubt be called a manifesto
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 11:59 PM
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Biology seems straightforward but I'm not sure that's it. I'm a named legal guardian for my nieces in my sister's will and would raise them in an instant if needed to. Some of my good friends have named me Godfather to their children - a role traditionally with similar requirements, and given my closeness to these friends I would also gladly raise their children if needed. I think it's the perception of other options. Being in my 30s, I would wait for the chance to have my own kids with someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:57 PM
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Society will not care what you do, so long as you keep producing wealth for the elites / a society which you have no real stake in. You will simply be distracted with more porn, video games and then the meta-verse. You should probably work on yourself for yourself, join some volunteering organizations to build a community; but you likely won't. Paint your ceiling, you'll be staring at it for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:36 PM
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I dont think OF fulfils the 'sex' need for men but the intimacy one. There's more porn online than you could watch in ten lifetimes. They must be getting something else from OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:50 PM
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The dislike for SWers is out of insecurity that these women will reject you because you’re viewing them sexually when they’re using their sexuality as a way to make money so you want sex without having to pay. Isn't the dislike of sex work from red pillers not more along the lines of: 'It's unfair that women's sexuality is more valued than men's, and those who use this female privilege for financial gain are somehow wrong / immoral and disserving of distain'. I didn't think it was anything to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:46 PM
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Doubt it'll be zombies. More likely the apathetic stop having kids and the religiously orthodox slowly replace them. The women of those societies will value traditional men, whose actions favour the collective and not the acquisition of wealth. Then one day one man will buy an expensive prayer mat and get all the best wives...and the cycle will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:44 PM
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I think if you want to be 100% honest with your partner it needs to be spelled out to them and agreed. There will be a lot of difficult discussions and they need to know it is in the pursuit of honesty, not just being critical or argumentative. I imagine most people like me walk a fine line of white lies and value judgments for things you don't really care about. "Do you like this carpet", "yeah its fine", when I don't really care etc. Sam Harris talks about this, with him and his wife being 100…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:14 PM
5

The one who died had a lucky escape
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 05:29 PM
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probably his then girlfriend...now fiancé or wife.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/21 10:18 PM
1

Get Jennifer Lawrence to read me a book whilst i finger her. 200 IQ play!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:41 PM
0

Misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:43 AM
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Then watch her claim child benefit when she cant afford a child on a single salary. Not to mention government subsidised nursery and education, which will only be paid back by the taxes of a single parent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 06:23 PM
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Of course. The market place is all about status, and status is determined against cultural and social measures. In some cultures engineers are seen as high status, comparable to doctors, in others they are seen as nerdy and avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:15 PM
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I agree that accounting is important, and regarding HR I've found recruiting more important than a constant HR presence. These are both services though that can be readily replaced by productivity measures like job sites and accounting apps; apps which are on the whole developed by men and an example of 'male labour' in the OP's terminology. In effect I think the OP's prediction that the future lends itself to female labour is not correct, with technical, numerate and coding type jobs leading to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:42 PM
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Brickies aside. In no modern heavy industry do men still lift things. Women can drive diggers, and cranes. You don't need to be particularly strong to use a drill or impact driver. Human factors and health and safety largely outlaw heavy lifting. Women, on the whole, simply do not want to do the work. I find it tends to be the mess and dirt that is most off-putting. In the interest of balance the hours and need to travel put mothers off, with the 'labour' of women enabling father to temporarily …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:25 PM
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From the sectors of the market I am familiar with (engineering and construction), men are overwhelmingly in the useful job areas. Women tend to fill the roles which could be considered productivity parasites. Think, gender and diversity style jobs, HR, needless bureaucrats and administrators who prop broken and inefficient regulators / institutions, the accountants who's only job is to ensure every penny is accounted for, no matter the cost of the exercise. As societal attitudes change to influe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:57 PM
1

Like buying a user car. Some may be great value, others...not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:14 PM
2

For me three key groups: -Any standards which are immutable given the status of your birth. -Those which could be achieved but are several standard deviations above the mean. -Standards which you yourself cannot meet. Examples would include mainly genetic factors; height, race, arguably most beauty standards. Even weight to a lesser extent; whilst it's ostensibly controllable, it's decently correlated with genetics. More obscure standards might be class or caste (depending on location). Examples…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:53 PM
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Whilst there isn't a lot of evidence as it's not the norm, I cannot imagine co-parenting is as good as marriage for a child's upbringing. Likely somewhere between a marriage and single parent upbringing. There's something about growing up watching two adults communicating and negotiating daily which helps make you well adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:44 PM
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Why not the old fashioned model of having a wife but with mistresses / FWBs, but expanded to women too. Avoids that complex web and the inherent jealousy that happens with 'poly' people but maintains marriage as an institution for children. Problem is i imagine wives will find getting some one the side far easier than their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:19 PM
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If you were to say Women like sleeping with men they find attractive, and what they find attractive is increasingly shallow, detached from reality and beyond the reach of the average man ...then i'd say you're more or less correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:07 PM
4

...so if he didn't pay for two meals it's worse? The only difference between the two scenarios is the money. There's a name for a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:16 PM
4

If he pays for two meals is it better? If we get physical after a couple of dates then I ghost you, is that any less disrespectful because I've effectively paid for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:31 PM
2

This seems like the right balance. If it's only verbal and she's an adult then should should have to tools to deal with it herself. If physical and she asks for help (or is at a point where she can't) then probably, but I wouldn't offer it up.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/08/21 08:10 PM
1

He should game the system. Push it in too far during the BJ and he's 1/6th of your way to another blow job!
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 05:21 PM
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I was pleasantly surprised when I immediately matched with Kirk and there lies the discrepancy between men's experience on these sites and women's.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 01:59 PM
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You're not going to get any sympathy over there with your very basic expectations. Basically you want a reasonably attractive women, who wants kids but doesnt have any yet. When you compare this to FDS type requirements (height, salary etc) yours are far more achievable. Plus if you mention body count anywhere else but on red pill pages the women will immediately turn against you. Best to just observe that one and make a judgment rather than asking outright. Regarding the kids, if you met someon…
/r/MGTOW227/07/21 06:51 PM
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I also liked the: Umm... have they not been following along with the #MeToo movement? Turns out we are quite capable of looking after ourselves Like opposite day. If the women could look after themselves they wouldn't have been pressured into taking a load for an acting part....oh that's right, they knew the price and were all to will to pay for it while they were young.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 04:28 PM
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I think men who do this are just hedging their bets. If the woman is sufficiently below him then she wont be able to monkey branch to a man who is better than him - so she'll never leave him. Effectively accepting a less attractive wife for a guarantee of loyalty. I think that's where men who like big chicks come from...and then they lose the weight and leave.
/r/MGTOW17/07/21 03:45 PM
2

Bureaucratic companies are the sort that have very prescriptive processes and procedures. I find they often stop energetic and talented people from delivering to their full potential by slowing them down and raising the level of entry to do certain tasks. Say you're on site and the client needs some more support, a new opportunity. In a good company you could make a few calls and get someone you know if free (internal or external) there quickly. Client is impressed, leads to more work. You infor…
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 09:53 AM
2

Both are required. Safety case people write the technical arguments to allow new work be undertaken, including new build and decommissioning. Health physics are required for day to day operations at all sites and for design and clean up project, so are required more continually. Rolls Royce are a good company but they are bureaucratic like all tier 1's and at the moment they are exposed to the airline industry so might not be stable. They are building the next generation of reactors which people…
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 09:57 PM
2

With it being engineering, the diversity is only regarding gender, significant imbalance of women and men. Always banging on about it, but as I'm sure you've seen at uni there just aren't the numbers of women graduating in STEM fields. They're building more reactors and in the long term fusion power uses all the same design engineering and operator skills as it makes radioactive waste. To decommission the existing reactors will take over 40 years easily. There is largely a shortage of skilled re…
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 08:29 PM
2

I'm in the UK nuclear industry with a physics bachelors. You can do safety case, health physics or radiological safety. All use the degree and pay well, becoming specialized and earning more. They can be quite dull imo. I went into project management for a design company, which is more generalist and you end up being involved in the strategy and full delivery of the projects which is more satisfying than just churning out calculations. Still well paid, but the first few years are pretty dull as …
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 07:23 PM
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Horseback riding at sunset with a picnic afterwards Why you eating picnics at night!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 06:38 PM
1

I didn't know this sub existed. It's like a MGTOW prequel.
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 09:26 PM
1

I leaned today that Sweden offers IVF for single women. It's a sort of wall bailout i guess. I;d hate to be a tax payer there. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/world-europe-56859427
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 09:22 PM
2

All i get from my friends is...yeah it gets harder and harder to find someone the older you get Sounds like her friends are honest. At least they aren't feeding her the "the right one will come along soon" trope.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 08:23 PM
9

I prefer black men My white privilege saves me again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 06:39 PM
16

I like the.. When you try to “teach” women that men are only dating for sex, you stereotype all men ...then proceeds to stereotype all men for the whole article.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:04 PM
1

It comes down to the feminist view that men and women are a class and not individuals. If a man is killed by another man, it's as if the victim's death was somehow less tragic because the perpetrator was another man. If a man kills a woman it is an attack on women as a class.
/r/MGTOW17/03/21 11:43 PM
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They're already illegal in France.
/r/MGTOW24/02/21 07:56 PM
1

Why label MGOTW with the pejorative 'sad sack' whilst in the next sentence talking about the widespread malaise of modern men. You're not an outcast or a reject if everyone is acting the same way, you're just a symptom of a failure in society. Something like "MGTOW - the tip of the male demoralization in society" would fit better.
/r/MGTOW21/02/21 06:41 PM
1

You could save up and move to the middle of nowhere in Scotland. No fuss changing citizenship etc. Just keep your head down, go walking and for God's sake try not to be a straight white male!
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 07:24 PM
2

Are you thinking women are also checking out? Or is it just their standards are so high they're not swiping on you?
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 07:18 PM
6

I didn't know this existed either. In the UK, where there's a generous benefits system this app's business model is basically facilitating single mothers claiming child benefit. The app makers are profiting by helping people claim my taxes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 06:57 PM
9

Id buy some other dudes sperm, sperm-jack the pregnancy and then claim infidelity after a paternity test. Make it obvious too, like a Chinese or black baby.
/r/MGTOW10/02/21 09:04 PM
1

I take your point that if the company pays them a living wage then at least my taxes don't have to support them. My problem is that they have to be treated equally in the UK under the: Part time workers (prevention of less favorable treatment) regulations 2000 - catchy name. Plus if the company decides that them not working several days a week, or finishing at 3pm every day is a burden, the company cant just sack them. As they are overwhelmingly women any action like this would result in a discr…
/r/MGTOW28/01/21 05:58 PM
18

Does he mean GME? As in game stop. Because men are bored and unattached their more willing to bet it all on a previously unimpressive stock. I might be wrong.
/r/MGTOW28/01/21 05:44 PM
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Companies come under pressure to make sure part time workers make a comfortable living wage. I work in projects and, to me, part time workers are worth less that full time - even pro rata. Their hours affect everyone else as certain tasks cant be completed, or I someone else has to cover, on the days they don't work. Managers expend additional effort trying to juggle resource who only work three days a week. It's just not worth hiring them.
/r/MGTOW27/01/21 07:15 PM
3

Massive increases in child benefit to prop up single mothers, all paid for by the tax payer (disproportionately men). Just look at the UK with the government being coerced to feed kids during school holidays. By 2030 women will have to live with a single consequence of poor choices.
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 08:01 PM
3

Good read - but i think current divorce laws and disproportionate spaces in shelters means a woman (in the west), will never truly hit rock bottom.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/01/21 05:46 PM
1

OTW = on the way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 05:40 PM
10

Parts of the UK are feral. Get enough single mothers in one area, unable to earn enough money and raise sons properly, and you get kids looking for role models in rap music and instagram.
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 11:49 PM
4

She was his wife so it would be: Are you serious? Goodbye, take half my shit and watch me get forced out of my own house by the state.
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 10:00 PM
3

That's what I thought. It's like brainwashing.
/r/MGTOW08/12/20 10:08 PM
1

A gender pay gap can be caused by a multitude of things, such as having fewer women in senior or more high-earning roles or more women working part-time. Maybe companies can close the gap by no longer offering part time working. Make women work full time to 'fight the patriarchy'. Perhaps women's general misunderstanding of statistics contributes to the gap.
/r/MGTOW20/11/20 08:17 PM
5

Over the course of human history men were in charge. I agree with this, with the caveat that in the above, only a small percentage were actually in charge in a real way. Modern women see that the overwhelming majority of those in charge were men and then draw the false conclusion that all men were in charge. The figures on male workplace death for instance, pale in comparison to those in the Victorian times. As you say, men made the world a safer, more comfortable place. But it was the silent fo…
/r/MGTOW20/11/20 08:06 PM
16

I'm amazed they haven't taken it down and called the OP an incell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/20 12:33 PM
35

"Charity begins at home" If everyone believed this there would be no simping.
/r/MGTOW227/10/20 08:00 PM
5

This is why the dowry existed, because women are a burden to a single successful man.
/r/MGTOW23/10/20 07:35 PM
1

.....having unrealistic standards as in "I've matured a lot and I know what I like" translation "I've been on the CC too long and I'm alpha widowed"
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 07:15 PM
4

The phrase 'financial abuse' is massively overused. Every FDS'er seems to think it's financial abuse if a man doesn't pay for everything. Financial abuse is all about preventing access to their own money, like not allowing them to have a bank account. Problem is they think your money IS their money.
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 07:11 PM
3

I like how the estimated typical husband: earned 58 per cent higher than the actual amount unmarried men earn. 30 per cent more likely to be employed than real single men 19 per cent more likely to have a university degree. Realistic standards there. Also, the average cost of a wedding in the UK was eye watering. Over £32,000. That's over a year's average salary. That doesn't include the ring. She'll have nothing to steal in the divorce!
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 06:50 PM
3

At least you can change company to one which pays a better wage with fewer healthcare benefits. In the UK you pay 'national insurance' to pay for the NHS wherever you work. I eat right and take care of myself and haven't needed to go to the doctors in 6 years - yet I still have to pay.
/r/MGTOW218/10/20 09:13 AM
2

Could just be that the algorithm thinks you're more likely to want to join the army. After I got red pilled I started watching more right-of-centre stuff on youtube, got very different adverts. If the algorithm knows you're a man, potentially young and right leaning you'll get military adverts. If you were left wing, it would be purple hair dye commercials.
/r/MGTOW17/10/20 05:03 PM
5

An old one and one recently talking about it https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-court-ginsburg/u-s-justice-ginsburg-hits-back-at-liberals-who-want-her-to-retire-idUSKBN0G12V020140801 https://www.nytimes.com/2020/09/25/us/politics/rbg-retirement-obama.html
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 06:44 PM
3

You think that's bad. UK sexual offences Rape (1)A person (A) commits an offence if—(a)he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis, .... ​ Only men (or in today's trans nonsense - those with a penis), can rape.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 08:12 PM
6

If it's just a state of mind how can there not be infinite genders? Government just needs to change all ID to sex not gender, stop all this nonsense in its tracks
/r/MGTOW12/10/20 04:42 PM
7

One of them says: I cannot look at humans the same anymore. Shit like “whores,” “chads,” “hypergamy,” “AWALT,” “foids,” “looksmaxxing,” “frame,” “80/20,” “fuckbois,” “simps/cucks” is constantly in my mind. I hate it That's the red pill. None of us like it. The reason you cant un-see it is because you know it's true, just an uncomfortable truth. Once red pilled you can only go back as far as purple pilled, without deluding yourself.
/r/MGTOW11/10/20 06:51 PM
5

Did the old guy have kids? Maybe his wife was trying to stop other women from taking inheritance away from her kids.
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 06:27 PM
1

#1 is real....after the first 195 miles - very useful https://www.insider.com/women-are-faster-long-distance-runners-estrogen-2020-1#:~:text=A%20new%20study%20that%20tracked,beyond)%20the%20200%20mile%20mark.
/r/MGTOW07/10/20 07:31 PM
2

What i dont get is, does she not know he had a vasectomy? - Why is she still on the pill if she knows - Why hasn't she started making excuses if she knows. This guy has 9 months to start hiding money with his good friends.
/r/MGTOW02/10/20 04:50 PM
19

Flu and HPV vaccine in one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/20 04:24 PM
1

Student debts. as more and more women flock to certifiably useless, no marketable degrees that leave them with nothing but debts they need to marry to pass off to someone else, student debt will be treated as a "woman issue They'll just pressure for more useless industries and services, with regulation forcing companies to comply. Currently we have gender and diversity officers in universities, next, they'll be forced to be in every company.
/r/MGTOW27/09/20 06:08 PM
2

Second sentenced says it all " I had to beg him to propose, but he seemed happy about it "
/r/MGTOW27/09/20 05:52 PM
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they'll abort them.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/20 09:22 PM
1

Doesn't even include the costs to propose, mainly the Engagement Ring.
/r/MGTOW23/09/20 10:17 PM
3

They are taught to be better consumers...and two single people consume more than one couple.
/r/MGTOW23/09/20 09:43 PM
4

Michelle Obama typifies this. Really annoyed me when people are like, "she should be president". Bill Burr says it best. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gSeMVsYhD9U
/r/MGTOW23/09/20 09:15 PM
2

Pretty MGTOW lyrics Another good northern uk MGTOW song - Human League - Dont you want me https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uPudE8nDog0
/r/MGTOW16/09/20 05:43 PM
4

Common law marriage is baffling. Marriage is slavery when you choose to put the shackles on. In common law marriage they just appear one day.
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 04:31 PM
2

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m000mcgr Starts at 16:30
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 08:08 PM
2

That's why they always call the 18+ girls in porn vulnerable, because they think they are still kids
/r/MGTOW09/09/20 06:15 PM
2

Maybe it's the whole "more men killed, women most affected"
/r/MGTOW07/09/20 08:07 PM
28

They never even questioned whether a university education was worth it anymore? A large part must be men realising that trades and a professional education allow you to get a good income without all the debt. Invest well, early, and you're miles ahead of a gender studies degree. The three courses mentioned must be the ones where it still makes sense to spend a fortune to get an education: engineering, computer science and math (think quant in finance).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/20 03:10 PM
10

As if the modern woman is going to go on a calorie restricted diet. 'That's fat shaming'
/r/MGTOW06/09/20 09:20 AM
2

I don't like how they group MGTOW and the manosphere in general, with flat earthers. Just another way to de-legitimize us.
/r/MGTOW19/08/20 11:06 AM
1

Pretty sure she's holding that soldering iron too low. If it's anything like mine she's going to lose her fingerprints.
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 06:30 PM
2

You could try the Falklands. Can you heard sheep or clear Argie landmines?
/r/MGTOW14/08/20 03:46 PM
5

The older i get the less i believe in universal suffrage. I'm more in favour of a citizen vs civilian suffrage (where you're born a civilian and you earn your citizenship) or a weighted system where you get a number of votes based on your contribution (not just financial). Although you would have to legislate to prevent governments stacking the deck. Imagine 'you must be a feminist to vote'.
/r/MGTOW13/08/20 06:34 PM
2

A lot of those cases involve guys not paying their arrears. The government agency will only stop asking for payment when it is proved you're not the father. They will not forgive arrears if you're not the father.
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 08:27 PM
1

Not sure i could do cute pictures....but i suppose Lovecraftian horror and William Blake inspired prints would do the trick all the same.
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 05:54 PM
3

First time I've seen her in like 5 years. It looks garbage, I cant stand the trend of the 'trout mouth'.
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 04:34 PM
4

Yeah Keto and intermittent fasting worked well for me. Basically no carbs and 4:1 veggie to meat; don't eat from 6pm to 10/11 am. Plenty of water. If you can you should start lifting again, raising your metabolism is an easy win in the long run.
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 04:16 PM
2

Morning wood is the best example. If you can get an erection when unconscious it cannot be a sign of informed consent.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 06:44 PM
3

I get that man. I find if i spend too long on online and watching news i end up re-upping the rage, having moved past it years back. It's not just women & dating but everything, from law and order, to immigration, to If the UK government make a gang of child rapists only serve 4 years and then not deport the foreign ones, then clown world is real. If the UK public don't rage at their governments handling of this then this whole country is lost.
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 09:10 AM
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Also "slightly" is an understatement. The number is like 2 million extra men. China needs MGTOW, but instead their leaders will likely pick a war with India to remove their 'excess' men.
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 08:56 PM
28

You can probably get an idea without a legally binding paternity test. Just take a 23 and me or acestry DNA test for both you and the kid. See if it matches you as related.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 02:17 PM
10

You forget. 2014: GamerGate 6 years old, this battle is in elementary school
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 08:45 AM
1

He did say mech eng. It is declining, but slower than the old timers are retiring. There will be work for around 100 years to fully decommission everything. Plus there's always defence and subs.
/r/MGTOW231/07/20 01:26 PM
2

Even if this were true, you'd move her back to the US (or wherever) and the culture and her new friends would change her. You just have a normal marriage with a slightly hotter wife.
/r/MGTOW230/07/20 09:36 PM
3

Nuclear. In my experience the numbers are like 2%. It not glamorous and not quite as highly paid as oil (still better than utilities and road / rail) so doesn't attract women engineers who are trying to show how great they are. Downsides - you need a country with nuclear power and they build the stations in quiet places (may be a benefit)
/r/MGTOW230/07/20 09:33 PM
1

I meant state retirement age. Men will earn more and probably have a private pension. they could probably retire at a similar age to now. Women won't contribute as much to the state pension as they earn less, and wont save for a private pension as they're bad with money. So on a national level the government will see that women cannot afford to retire and will either raise mandatory contributions or raise the retirement age to make men cover the bill.
/r/MGTOW230/07/20 03:01 PM
6

The whole height preference thing is real annoying to me, and I'm 5"9 I could understand if height just made taller men more confident and so women find taller men attractive by extension, but that doesn't explain them excluding shorter men who may be every bit as confident. Plus, I can never get past the two competing ideas that women are perpetually in fear of their lives (so they say) as men are stronger, and then only want to date men who are seen as bigger an tougher.
/r/MGTOW230/07/20 07:58 AM
1

The following phrase helped me deal with my concerns over what others think You’ll Worry Less About What People Think of You When You Realize How Seldom They Do
/r/MGTOW229/07/20 09:59 PM
1

Is there no way to avoid tax in your state. In the UK you can become a one man company and only pay corporation tax. Plus you can put significant sums into your pension pre-tax.
/r/MGTOW229/07/20 09:51 PM
11

Not good in reality. Higher property prices - due to less supply (two houses needed where one was enough) Higher tax - to redistribute wealth to single mothers Higher retirement age - as single people cant save as well for a pension Higher crime - due to fatherless homes Probably more odd relationships like polyamory
/r/MGTOW229/07/20 09:48 PM
23

wtf is the top right one.
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 12:25 PM
24

House always wins...and you always lose the house.
/r/MGTOW25/07/20 09:26 PM
11

It's less about money and more about keeping the products of our efforts. We dont want to work all our lives just for a judge to give it to someone who hasn't worked a day in their life. End of the day, that's all marriage is, redistribution from hardworking men to feckless women. Society on the whole - redistribution from hard working men to single mothers and gender studies students. MGTOW is about freeing men from the expectation that they'll be providers. You can choose to hoard your earned …
/r/MGTOW222/07/20 10:06 PM
2

Lucky it was only girlfriend. Imagine if he'd married her.
/r/MGTOW22/07/20 08:41 PM
1

I'm only familiar with the UK where you can go contracting by creating a one person company. This allows you to: - avoid income tax and national insurance - only pay corporation tax on profits - put significant sums into your 'pension' tax free to reduce the profits but keep the money long term. Government is cracking down though, making companies liable for checking contractors aren't staff in disguise.
/r/MGTOW21/07/20 08:26 PM
1

My mate came up with a 4th way. Be flat broke, well read and decent looking and only date women who do not care from wealthy families. They may dump him but they cant steal what he doesn't have. Government can't make you pay child support if you got no money.
/r/MGTOW21/07/20 08:14 PM
3

Im (30) on three out of four - I won't get involved in dating, casual or otherwise. Post #MeToo it's too risky and unless it's FWB it's never really worth it as one night stands are typically disappointing. Plus where i live in the UK there's outbreaks of Super-Gonorrhea. My future is F.I.R.E (financial Independence, retire Early). Investing well and being retired by 45ish, earlier if I'm willing to sell my house. Camper Van and the open road.
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 09:32 PM
1

If that's USD that's good going! If it's Zimbabwe dollars - less so What sort of investments you planning?
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 09:11 PM
8

It doesn't seem like quitting porn is necessary with a MGTOW perspective. If you have no intention of creating a traditional relationship with a women, then it doesn't matter. The benefits seems to be described as: - Allows for better, more intimate relationships with women - not necessary in MGTOW - Become stronger and get more energy - sound like pseudo science, perhaps it'll make me teleport. - Improved ability for long term gratification - Not true in my experience, I'm certainly fine in my …
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 07:12 PM
2

I'd do more background reading using dystopian novels. They give you a real understanding of power structures and how they influence societal behaviors. 1984, Brave New World, this perfect day, atlas shrugged, gulag archipelago.
/r/MGTOW213/07/20 09:20 PM
49

Yeah what's a Veronica? Like a worn out Stacy?
/r/MGTOW13/07/20 09:07 PM
5

This is the perfect visual for the phrase "Snakes with tits"
/r/MGTOW05/07/20 09:16 PM
2

Considering how much feminists have successfully pushed back of surrogacy I doubt this technology would be allowed. If it were allowed, i'd expect to see a greater schism in society. If you could get by without women and still procreate you'd just get the equivalent of children raised by single mothers - a poorly rounded individual. Albeit less toxic as the artificial womb would've been a choice rather than the current abandonment.
/r/MGTOW05/07/20 09:11 PM
10

That's why i always find it strange that feminists try to regulate / ban pornography. Surely it acts as a release value to those who need it.
/r/MGTOW226/06/20 09:49 AM
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