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Fuck that, tell her to come to you.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:40 AM
6

It's one thing to be texting, it's another to be fucking.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:25 PM
1

Look for beginner level HIIT/tabata workouts on youtube, do these 2x / week.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:24 PM
1

Should have flashed your dick everyone. Makes it fair. Honestly tho, move on. You can't go back to her, that relationship context with her is now ruined.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:02 PM
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Asking other dudes to hang out can be awkward at first but it will be easy and comfortable once you get the hang out. Especially if you have similar study/job, goals, hobbies, style, hunger for social life, age/life stage. Good bros are key to helping you improve your social skills. Every since I was little I enjoyed humor, being funny, and being with funny people. I'm not much of a trouble maker but a little mischief was always a draw for me. I kept chasing that, helped me a lot to be at ease w…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:13 PM
1

For a sub that's all about Dont Get Married, I love how some dudes are losing their shit on this.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:35 AM
2

How is 'Don't' a strategy? How is Don't Get Married a strategy? A crude summary of your points can be: Marriage & Family is "Red Pill on hard mode" but with the right effort & strategy you can come out on top. My counterpoint would be Even with the right effort & strategy you can get fucked, a mediocre life at best. Having kids isn't all that great, it's actually a lot worse than most men with kids would like to admit.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 09:35 PM
3

Tell us more about what it's like to have kids and dealing with their mother.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 06:22 AM
1

Nice. I'm gonna get one.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:17 AM
3

She just wants attention. I'm with the other guy here, send here an emoji and see how she replies.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:17 AM
0

This is the problem that TRP doesn't address. Or if it does, it's pretty weak. I'm happy to share more via dm.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:01 PM
3

Shit test. Comfort test. Another dude to branch-swing on the ready. Sheer boredom. Whatever the reason, this one is done. Maybe get a fuck or two but don't expect much.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:54 PM
1

Focus on your goals, make friends with those who are doing the same thing as you, in school or in music. There are lot of losers and mediocre ppl out there who will only take away from you, not add. You can socialize when you're practicing med and/or on tour.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:44 PM
3

Let it go.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:41 PM
1

Nothing wrong with it. I agree with the other reply, this isn't really a RP issue.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:40 PM
10

Yes. Hilarious.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:38 PM
1

Text for meeting logistics -> Meet -> Get physical. If it's not this simple, then gtfo. Strict "One strike you're out" policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 09:05 PM
3

I only want to convince a few dudes on the fence. Not end humanity or quality of life for everyone. Calm your tits.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 04:54 PM
3

But we can skydive and bang Thai hoes with your grandkids tho.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 04:49 PM
4

You get it. Yup, I'm not expecting a big shift. It's why I'm being a dumbass in these comments. Might as well entertain myself.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 08:51 PM
0

Men and pussy, so I'm bi now. 🤪
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 07:48 PM
2

Let other men mold me. Oh, so I need GAYLUBEOIL.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 05:47 PM
3

At least you're honest with yourself. So many fathers making shit money lie to themselves every day how great it is to be a slave.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 05:29 PM
2

I hear what you're saying. I once thought blue pill fantasy was the only way, then I discovered RP. Similarly I once thought having kids was the only way, then I discovered childless life. One can change his life if he wants to, regardless of popular ideology and/or biology.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 05:17 PM
2

I thought they were dumb. But I'll take snarky, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:55 PM
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Yup.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:52 PM
7

It's not dumb. What you're feeling is natural and healthy. If I were you, I'd take a moment to tell myself, "Ok, self, I acknowledge what I'm feeling and I want to thank you for these strong feelings. This is natural and healthy to feel this way about this shitty situation." Sounds silly to talk to yourself like this but it can really help. Once this self-awareness sinks in, promise yourself you won't seek revenge. Nothing good comes from it, especially in something like this. Let bygones be bye…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:50 PM
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I'm with you, I don't care what people do. Just wanted to write out my thoughts (albeit this post is pretty mediocre) and maybe it can help a few dudes who never questioned the notion.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:40 PM
1

Besides a couple of guys here, the lack of "I have kids and I agree / disagree with this" replies is remarkable. Childless guys still clinging onto hope. Ok whatevs.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:18 PM
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I'm not anything. I just use everything.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:16 PM
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"i dIdnT aSk tO bE bOrN, dAd~"
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:13 PM
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You're not really arguing against kids themselves, you're mainly arguing about the circumstances surrounding having kids Well said. In regards to the environment notion, that is just defeatist blue pill conditioning speaking. Love how ppl are losing their shit over my weakest argument. More replies, the better I suppose. Japan is set to lose 30% This is the same logic as a normie discovering TRP and yelling "THEN THE WORLD IS GONNA BE FULL OF ASSHOLES!" I just want to help a couple of naïve dude…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:11 PM
3

Lol. Thanks for the giggles.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:02 PM
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Sure, occasionally on a steak or eggs.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:00 PM
6

Fair. But TRP is also a personal choice. Being hard on "Don't get married" but soft on "Don't have kids" is inconsistent and borderline contradicting for me, but that's how this sub is.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 03:59 PM
4

Well it's doing a shitty slow job at conquering. I'm sure they could've done better than $600.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 03:53 PM
-1

Thanks mate I lift your mother last night.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 03:53 PM
3

"What is bluepilled is thinking you'll find a unicorn that will make this easier..." Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 03:51 PM
5

Good on you. Just stay woke to the risks.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 03:50 PM
1

Fair comment. I dumbed down my writing to be in middle of the quality of posts here and also to introduce a topic that isn't explored much in TRP. Historically this isn't a TRP topic at all, so you're right.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 03:48 PM
2

Yea I should have used more lube back there.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 03:43 PM
2

Do you have kids and/or been divorced?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 03:40 PM
1

Don't feel bad about taking a break from her. You don't have to spew your shit to her but I think it's better if you manage her expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:15 AM
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If she's young, she's just riding the carousel. It's not just based on "asshole"/low investment but also a matter of status and curiosity.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:08 AM
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Check my post history, I just wrote about this.
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 09:03 AM
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They rather get curved by the one they want because it gives them the feels.
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 08:51 AM
3

Simple and cheap home gym: Wall-mounted pull up bar. Elastic workout bands. Kettlebell. Push-up bars. Ab wheel. Gymnastic rings. Workout/yoga mat. A nice big ottoman doubles as a workout bench in a pinch. Come up with a fun theme to your home paintings/arts. Currently mine's boats and ships, since my current apt felt like a boat.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:49 AM
1

HIIT 2, 3x/week.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:13 AM
5

It's crazy how 20-22 yo's love middle aged men.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 07:34 AM
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1.) Women aren't ruined, they are just women. Women are just women. Men are just men. People are just people. Dogs are just dogs. Sexual strategy is amoral, we get it. 8.) Sounds like your parents never loved you which is fine. Dad, is that you? 9.) The thing is, wanting to reproduce is not BluePill. I want ice cream right now. Is that not bluepill? Please say yes.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 07:22 AM
1

What you think is a conscience -- a set of rules in gender/sex dynamics -- is really something you've downloaded from the world without thinking twice. Girls asking for exclusivity is only a shit/comfort test and it's not what they really want, especially if they're pre-wall. There may not be a silver-bullet solution to all girls are okay with your plating. But the key here is YOU have to be okay with it, and most of them will follow your lead.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:17 AM
2

Fuuuck. I'm 40 years old and I want braces.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:11 AM
1

I had a harder time getting over the dog than my ex wife. It really does suck but you'll only make it worse for the dog if you see him only occasionally. Focus on your own life and get your own pup.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:09 AM
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I do eat bugs. I also live in a van down by the river. Imitating the elite won't make you elite.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 07:06 AM
3

https://archive.is/iqMAn here's my rp story on my old handle
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 07:03 AM
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You know what else is denial of millions of years of evolution? Avoiding salt and sugar. Gotta do better than just surviving and passing on your seed. Yea it's not typical TRP material here.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 07:02 AM
1

I will, when I'm ready.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 06:47 AM
3

DM'ed you. I don't know how to archive my old posts.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 06:39 AM
-2

So depopulation is bad? Amazing you came to that original conclusion all on your own.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 06:36 AM
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Yea, because Arnold and Leo became elite because they followed what elite ppl did.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 06:28 AM
4

Don't Have Kids should be right there with Don't Get Married in TRP, imo.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 06:27 AM
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Jerking off to what elite people do is fun sometimes. I guess.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 06:19 AM
5

All my funko pops have their own little funko pop fleshlights, so 😛
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 06:06 AM
1

Just get whelmed then bruh
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:33 AM
5

Don't make dumping her such a big deal. In fact, don't even tell her. Just begin to spend less time with her, take longer to reply to her texts, etc.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:28 AM
3

Internally yeah. To her? Just don't be as responsive. A slow, implied dump.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:24 AM
2

17 is not too young to live on your own.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:21 AM
10

build muscle, lose belly fat, sleep well regularly, avoid salt and artificial shit
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:20 AM
3

It's okay, man. I've been through similar shit in my late teens / early 20s. I didn't start calming down until 30ish. Just don't go to jail / get anything on criminal record and don't get a bitch pregnant. You should be fine.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:19 AM
4

"Relationship is work." "Communication is crucial for a healthy relationship." "We're seeing a marriage therapist."
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 05:26 PM
2

Golf clap
/r/askTRP25/10/20 03:10 AM
18

Spin plates is great but nutting raw in your ltr is fucking amazing.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 03:35 PM
2

It's not as obvious as people make it out to be. In your 20s you gotta try a lot of different things, learn, observe, take mental notes. Also meet a lot of ppl -- mainly older men -- see what they do, listen to their stories.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 03:29 PM
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100%. Most Asian American single men are butthurt thinking they're victims in the SMP. Sure there are stereotypes but you can't cry over things you can't change. Which is why I'm glad to find trp. You can hit the gym, learn game, etc. I love seeing my fellow yellow and brown well-dressed swole bros in the wild with a 9 or 10.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 03:24 PM
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Yup I plan on my next two or three LTRs being non Asian. Variety is the spice of life.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 02:44 PM
5

That's crazy. Hang tough, bro. Share your story and keep us updated if you can.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 03:51 AM
3

Bullshit. Do therapists, writers, journalists, and comedians go through divorces? Of course they do. Even if you've literally mastered it, having "EXCELLENT communication skills" do not make the problems with your woman go away. "HEALTHY" relationship is a myth. It's just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 11:25 PM
3

Dick game weak, satire game strong. So yea.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 08:11 PM
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You can consume content, watch youtube, read books and blogs, join paid groups, get 1 on 1 consults all you want. But only you can be your own teacher. You have to teach yourself. Best thing I've learned from Rich Cooper is just two words: Chase excellence. Thank you, Bald Dude in a Cool Car, I'll go about how to apply that in my life. Best thing from Rollo: Hypergamy very bad, very everywhere. Thank you, Bald Dude in an Awkward Trench Coat, I'll keep that in mind. (Speaking of: Better Bachelor,…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:53 PM
3

Maybe it's my 3.25" dick? Come see for yourself and you tell me.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:29 PM
3

They have grandkids. Yea they're ungrateful and blind.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:28 PM
3

It's why 2nd and 3rd marriages are a thing. Biggest conspiracies hide in plain sight.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:26 PM
3

Exactly. If they become unbearable I'm okay with just sending them a little money and that will be all. No more hanging out.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 10:28 PM
1

"Stand up and leave when uncomfortable" is how I was raised, so it's nothing new. As an adult I had to teach my parents, "Hey I'm talking to you and I need you to listen." It's a much better and more effective way to convey my point.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 10:23 PM
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Most agencies won't let you adopt unless you're married.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 10:20 PM
1

I won't marry again but I will have women in my life as I age.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 10:18 PM
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Encountering disagreement is sometimes a good opportunity to learn, so I don't mind it. In fact, I like how you stand your ground. However I don't see TRP as a brotherhood: if I died today and you live near me, would you attend my funeral? But I thought we're brothers? No, we're just dudes sharing opinions, nothing more. I also don't see TRP having a centralised moral or ethical code. Actually the best thing I learned from here is sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 08:02 PM
1

Ankle biters breeding more ankle biters.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 06:20 PM
1

Your sense of nobility is dependent on others. Mine is dependent on me. So in this sense you're goddam right I'm self righteous.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 06:19 PM
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Glad to hear some moms are still dropping red pills!
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 06:17 PM
8

I'm jealous you have such a wise and keen mother.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:37 PM
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It's the failure of marriage that almost killed me. It shattered my worldview. I thought my ex loved me and would be there for me through thick and thin. She betrayed me and I felt deeply ashamed.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:33 PM
1

Speaking the truth, my halfie broski.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:29 PM
8

Naw I'll get her a little white fluffy dog.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:26 PM
3

"Be better and you will be rewarded" is a common lie spread to the weak.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:25 PM
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It SHOULD be easy -- this is my point. Why is the quantity and quality of sex higher in the first year of a relationship than later? Why is "deadbedrooms" a thing? Why does sex and drama have an inverse relationship over time? Sex decreases, drama increases. Why is that so commonly accepted within LTRS/marriages universally? Why do men who work hard, make money, provide a house, meals, education, necessities, even some luxuries STILL get shat on by their women? Of course it isn't easy. When peop…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 04:03 PM
2

Have you lived with a gf/ltr for more than a year?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 03:57 PM
3

Their real god is my (re)marriage and having their grandkids. It's bs but I play along.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 03:55 PM
2

Thanks. I try to have a critical eye on my own people. Our genetic pool isn't that big, which is why we can be crazy and also why our women love marrying outsiders, especially whites and Jews.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 03:47 PM
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Why does it HAVE to be difficult? If two people love each other and start a family, why can't it just be a fair and impartial partnership? Because nature. A woman would rather have a man with a million dollars than just the million dollars.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 03:41 PM
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They already are ruined. Culture and humble upbringing are no match for Instagram. Sure, they want to be your gf and then your wife asap but that's only to have your exclusive beta bucks, to parade and control you as their dogshow pet. They might be quiet and coy, but that's because they're both predator and prey, hoping to catch an unsuspecting man from the West.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 02:31 PM
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Mine, however, don't even blink when I mention suicide.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 02:13 PM
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I sure write well for someone angry.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 02:11 PM
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I'm actually writing about a piece why you shouldn't have children. For one, women are ruined now and they will be ruined even as mothers.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 02:10 PM
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That's helpful, but unfortunately it doesn't work for my family. And plus I just like talking shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 02:06 PM
6

Lemme just say no Korean woman younger than 35 would date me since I don't live in a baller condo in downtown and I don't drive a BMW or Lexus. Having these make you ready These are required to love a young Korean American woman.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 02:03 PM
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I've went a year without talking to them, so I've done the silent treatment. Trying the "Amused mastery" angle with them now. Fits me much better.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 01:56 PM
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Everyone -- the girl, my parents and the ones who are setting her up -- will be watching, waiting, hoping there will be a wedding within a year. Or else it's a waste of time. Not like I can plate her and everyone is okay with it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 01:54 PM
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And yet we will have this talk again in 6 months. It's a small price for peace and freedom.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:49 AM
28

You are an incomplete person to them. You're socially retarded until you get hitched and have kids. To slaves free people are confusing.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:42 AM
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Not to mention how dangerous it can be to have a first child in your late 30s+ to both mother and baby. But I didn't want to rip my Mom's head off while saying my peace on the matter. She gets a pass.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:02 AM
2

Because I don't need help in getting laid and I think my post will help some dudes.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:05 PM
2

I'd like to see if there's any insight that I've missed in my reading and research.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:42 PM
2

To see if I'm missing any valuable point I'd like to include in the post.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:30 PM
3

When you know and speak the truth, people will call you bitter. This confused me at first, but then I realized it only makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 08:00 PM
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Best ones for me know how to have fun, relax, not be full of themselves. At least in the first few meets.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:59 PM
1

Do clowns get jealous?
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 03:08 PM
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Don't reply. Move on, do cool shit.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 03:05 PM
2

Lol na
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:22 PM
2

In a way all forms of formalizing change in a relationship is bullshit, whether it's ending, starting, taking a break, etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 06:50 AM
2

Nothing like wisdom gained from experience.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 10:58 PM
1

I remember when a plate said bye like this, we were hanging out for about 4 months almost every week. We kept on fucking on and off for another 8 years after that.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:26 PM
1

I dunno why but whenever other guys mess with me my first reaction is to be the creepy excited gay dude with a lisp. OMG I BET YOUR COCK ITH HUGEEEE CAN I TOUCH IT?!
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:24 PM
5

If there's a lesson here it's getting your own place.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:51 AM
1

Masculinity is much harder to earn and retain than feminity.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 11:16 PM
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No you're just not being alpha enough. Go find where she lives and flex your pp thru the window to her.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:24 PM
1

Never head of a woman speaking neutrally, let alone positively, of an ex. It's either abusive or nothing.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:30 AM
1

i think you're using logistics as a crutch. a lot of ppl have done the deed outdoors, in yards, in cars, in a bush/behind one, behind a tree, etc. practice irrational confidence. if you don't think you're the prize, no one will.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 12:24 AM
1

There is some room for change in voice pitch. Nose breathing, better posture, gaining upper body weight/muscle, and practice.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 06:12 AM
1

This describes almost every woman I've met.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:29 AM
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I find that when a girl wants it, often she's already figured out the logistics for the dude, especially if she knows his place isn't an option.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:28 AM
2

I say it's the beginning of the end already. When there's doubt, there is no doubt. End the ltr, go on a tear. I think it's crucial for young men to take risks and learn from their mistakes. Not taking risks and not making mistakes --all manageable, that is-- in your 20s will probably make you one-dimensional.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:59 AM
3

Your progress so far seems impressive. But I have a feeling you want physique/asthetics in addition to strength, since there are plenty of "fat" or "skinny" dudes who don't care for physique but are insanely strong. Also, I haven't met or heard of anyone who generally enjoys their sub 10%bf lifestyle. Just my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 05:29 PM
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Pro athletes get married too. You can't be alpha enough. Her other fwbs will be going thru the same.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 10:05 AM
18

Some plates are not actually plates. They're just a tea saucer. They're meant to be catch-and-release, especially if they're getting close to the wall. Or maybe they're just stacking bodies. Who knows. Move on.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:57 AM
9

Go and hit on her friends.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:52 AM
67

Asking women for feedback is like asking an air traffic controller when you're the pilot. They only know what looks right or wrong, but they don't know how to fly a plane.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:48 AM
2

Sometimes replying to shit tests with silence works well.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:45 AM
2

stay with a partner Even if she does, it will be mediocre at best.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 11:01 PM
1

My ex-wife came from a good background, at least on paper. Her parents were together and active in her life, she went to a good college and had an admirable professional career, and owned a little condo. But when I was with her, she constantly saw herself as a patient and a victim, just beaten down by life as if the universe had something against her since she was born. I'm sure attractive women from trouble upbringings are different but also awalt. Nature, not nuture.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 08:17 PM
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Ey yo Im Prison Mike
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:21 AM
3

Unplug bitches from the hive mind, from the transitional space. Make them worship you. Figure out how.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 07:28 PM
6

classic
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:19 AM
1

nice. cheers. get back out there, have a blasty blast.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:02 PM
4

this
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:02 PM
3

Not everyone is ready willing and able to change, especially to pick up a skill like carrying a conversation. If OP is on the introverted side, I think he's doing all right. Maybe I'm just too simple and action-oriented for asktrp. If you want to be more fun, do fun things, be with fun ppl.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:38 PM
2

Then you're good. Don't try to force unnecessary change upon yourself.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:09 PM
5

She basically left it at either we become exclusive or we don’t talk, the plate is breaking Well, there you have it. Plate broke itself but you're trying to glue the pieces back together.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:58 PM
1

RP Personal Finance is a gray overlap. Not much to say here besides not getting married, not shacking up with a girl. Best to look up stuff in personal finance that fits your values.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:57 PM
5

Easy. Hang out with fun people. Do stuff that's fun for you (regardless of what people think).
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:53 PM
3

Congrats, you're both retarded. You deserve each other. But honestly you did the right thing. Saying, "Listen I think it would be better if I just take off and we both get some proper sleep" is pretty badass. Maybe give her a chance to correct herself and see her one more time. Sometimes they learn. Record one-on-one time with chicks on your phone audio recording app. Always.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:52 PM
1

Nothing really matters til you meet in person one on one.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:47 PM
25

Doesn't sound too bad to me. If she's pulling back, you pull back as well. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:47 PM
3

It's natural to go up and down with women in general. Stay active with your mission, people, lifting, and fun.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:45 PM
-1

Probably better if you searched and read up about it on your own.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:59 PM
11

Well done. But you may have missed how she was responsive to you. She was looking for plausible deniability but you didn't offer her that. Don't worry, she might reach out to you again soon. Stay on the mission, go out meet other girls.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:56 AM
3

It's crazy how everytime I read something like this, I feel like I'm re-WHOA-ing again, like Neo seeing Morpheus jump a building. You mean this isn't just me? I thought it was how it's supposed to be this whole time...
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 04:15 PM
4

I'm sorry, I was busying raping women on the streets. Can you write that a little louder for me hun?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:54 PM
1

And before pickup (or maybe with pickup) men need to be taught how to be high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:53 PM
2

Late 30s Asian in NYC chiming in. I say 2nd location. Train hard, focus on yourself, work hard and play hard -- occasionally. Unless you're a celebrity, 20s is shit when it comes to guys' smv. As a man you kinda hit a reset button when you hit 30.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:39 AM
1

Should have just replied in front of everyone, "Bet your gf thinks I'm hotter than you."
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:06 PM
8

Act like nothing happened. If someone brings it up or teases you about it, shrug your shoulders and move on.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 03:35 PM
2

I think everyone here is welcome at trp dot red.
/r/MGTOW01/10/19 10:22 PM
1

I text with girls, some of them with boyfriend or husbands. It's almost always not a matter of them being spoken for, but because I'm not attractive enough or I'm too far from her.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:20 AM
1

There you have it. Your mission now is to find your mission. The obstacle is the way. Read books, meet people, sit down and have coffee/tea/meals with cool, interesting, ambitious, accomplished men, at least ten years older than you. Try things you haven't done before. The world is your oyster.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:49 PM
2

You've already separate yourself from him. It's the beginning of the end between you two. Sad but part of life. Actually, people who can stay the same throughout their adult lives... I'm actually impressed at how they can handle the dullness. People: "You've changed." Me: "And you're the same. How inane."
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:43 PM
2

169% agree. My ex wife announcing her desire for divorce 2 months into marriage was the greatest act of generosity I ever encountered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 11:39 PM
2

The good stuff is always in writing, not video or audio. Because both the writer and the reader --ideally, of course-- are using critical analysis and intense imagination. It's why "Life changing Youtube video" isn't really a thing.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:31 PM
3

When I first came across this sub, I heard a distinctly relieved voice in my head: Well FUCK, half of the worries and problems in my life are now SOLVED.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 11:27 PM
1

Late 30s, lived my entire adult life in USA split between two major cities. I feel like I haven't done much in my life as well. But it's all a matter of perspective. Live a fucking interesting life and most problems will be solved.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:14 PM
2

Absolutely block. She's messing with you. Don't need that distraction taking up precious mental real estate.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:12 PM
2

Late 30s here. I'm not planning for how my life is going to be at 70. I'm planning on having an absurd run in my 40s and that's about it for now.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:07 PM
3

Besides the usual stuff on trp, like lifting, dgaf, frame, dress well... 1) Excel in whatever is your main things. School, work, etc, be ambitious, passionate, expressive. Network. Be one of the top guys in whatever it is you're doing. 2) Have a cool, interesting, unique hobby. 3) Don't party too often. But if you do, go all out. 4) Don't complain, not in real life, not on social media. 5) Back straight, shoulders rotating backward a little. Firm handshake, eye contact, say their name a few time…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:05 PM
1

Forest for the tress, big boy.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 06:19 PM
3

Late 30s here. Had a good run in my 30s. I plan on making 40s the best.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:12 PM
5

But I really am a warrior. I battle every day to get to Planet Fitness.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:45 PM
20

Isn't one of the mods on AskMen a woman? Can you imagine a man being a mod for Askwomen or TwoX?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 03:02 PM
2

Before gaming girls, lift weights. Before lifting weights, you should stretch and use foam roller. Before stretching, you should rest, hydrate, take some pre workout. There's always some kind of preparation / pre-activity to a point where it's silly. Sure, draw from your MBA contacts, but work a job til what age? 60? 50? I'm just aggressively pro-independence/entrepreneurship and anti-employment. Being your own man making $100k is better than being an employee making $1mm.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 01:59 PM
12

It's a good thing when bitches are on your pipe. Perception and reputation is one thing, results are another.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:48 AM
5

None of those degrees. If you're ready, willing and able to put in the time, money, and effort for a masters, then look into starting your own biz.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 07:28 AM
1

Her: "My friends are joining us tonight, hope that's okay." Me: "k" And then either leave early alone or end up not making it. Communicate through actions (or inaction), not with words.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:04 PM
1

Surprise surprise, being weak is not good.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 04:11 PM
0

Yea I kept telling your mom no but she a thirsty ho.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:12 PM
3

So the horse knows where the water is but won't drink it. Risk the friendship and give him an earful with tough love or let him be.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:08 PM
1

Clipping my toenails is more fun than watching this turd.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 09:07 PM
1

Wait the fuck in your car. Park around the corner, text her you're there, when she gets in your car give her a quick hug, then drive motherfucker drive.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:49 PM
1

OP said hotel suite which is probably set-up like an apartment with a living room and multiple bedrooms. But still being roommates with co-workers for a couple nights is fucking sad. How much does the company save, maybe two or three hundred bucks total?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:07 PM
1

I wouldn't even wait or make a burner account. If you're good friends, then you can send him a link (maybe a youtube video of some sort) with a simple "hey check this out" and call it a day.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:55 PM
6

The real problem here is working for a cheap ass company that makes you split a hotel suite with coworkers. You're already working and traveling together, but you have to awkwardly bump into each other in the suite during off-hours as well? Grow a pair and either tell you're company you're no longer doing this or find a new employer.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:51 PM
1

Assume everything a woman says is a shit test.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:41 PM
2

Lulz
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:14 AM
2

This is when you take out your phone to add-new-contact and hand it to the girl.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:14 AM
2

Lol savage
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:04 AM
1

At least you desire to leave your current situation and you know it will be good for you. Good start. Now it's a matter of finding a way to execute. Just know the longer you delay on this, the more painful it will be for you in the long-run.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:32 PM
1

Then make plans on leaving home. Find a way to finance your own living expenses while going to school. I encourage all young men like yourself to move away from family, even though it's difficult. It's a world of difference.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:29 PM
5

"i'm chillin at home tonight. lmk if u wanna come over. bring a bottle of something."
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:27 PM
1

So what if they do? I've gone a year without talking to my parents because I was annoyed with them. Once I re-established communications, they were much more careful and respectful. If you're reliant upon them for housing and living expenses, find ways to get out. Assuming you're of age.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:21 PM
2

Not being afraid of what your family will say or do to you is a part of becoming a man.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:12 PM
12

Well said. To add, don't volunteer an explanation. Just be distant, aloof, distant. Communicate disapproval through actions (or lack there of), not with words.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:10 PM
10

You're at a crossroad. Your life is amazing and you love your gf. Yet you frequent a sub that's mainly for spinning plates, fucking around, being independent. So you have it good for the moment but you're itching for more. Shit or get off the pot, my friend. You can't serve two masters.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:05 PM
3

Competition is a part of reality. Accept it, find ways to come out on top. Game-ify.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:40 PM
0

You should still meet at a bar, she can sip on something non-alcoholic. I've had a few good Saturday afternoon coffee dates, but only because it casually led to dinner with drinks. I enjoy drinking with dates, so it's kinda hard on both if the girl doesn't drink.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:08 PM
26

Mine too. I'm honored. Thanks for the good work, OP.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:15 PM
-4

Plate crossed the line. Now she's fucking with your work, your bread. Maybe send her a text telling her what she has done is extremely inappropriate. In any case it's done. Take precautionary defensive measures. Let your school admin know you have been involved with an unstable person who is related to your student and the student is aware.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:20 PM
16

Yup. Set routines and habits, enjoy the fuck out of them, but also follow them when you don't want to. Better than setting goals and being thristy for results. I started lifting to get laid. Now it's a real hobby. Plus I get laid.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:07 AM
3

Because insinuating your wife/LTR/soulmate is be possible of cheating and cucking you is basically spitting in a bluepilled man's face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:42 PM
1

Immediate reaction is almost always emotional, foolish, and brings unwanted results. When shit happens, you gotta get in the habit of un-reacting, taking your time, letting things sink in.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 07:30 PM
0

Not exactly a negative but it would be extremely difficult to implement. Both men and women would be against it or confused about it if it were to be discussed as a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:05 PM
6

How about every birth certificate includes a patnerity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:23 PM
1

If you have to ask, then you probably can't handle the potential flak you get from looking like an idiot or asshole from the show (which the showmakers can do with editing).
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:59 AM
1

"TFOH 😁🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ "
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:51 AM
6

maybe is a non-bitchy way of saying no.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 03:26 AM
1

solid advice
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:39 PM
1

It's absolutely okay to be disgusted like this. She fucked up and the only way she can be allowed to be back in your life is if1) she does your laundry 2) she makes you dinner 3) fuck that, she treats you to a very fancy dinner 4) no, fuck that, she takes you away for a weekend at a nice resort 5) she plays with your junior while you watch the sun go down on the beach on the resort she paid for. Oh no i'm writing rp porn now.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:37 PM
2

my dick likes this, my brain doesnt
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:35 PM
1

I feel you, OP. You know what's interesting and almost disturbing? The nagging need to text a girl after a night like this. Why? Why do I need to text her? We had sex, we had fun, we can just walk away, and that's good too. Why do I have this unreachable itch to continue corresponding with her? Where did it come from? What is the point of it?
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:29 PM
1

What if there is no such thing as introvert / extrovert? What if these are just baseless categories and you're like a cat who loves the little box he's in? Time to get out of the box, brother. In my teens and early twenties, I used to think I was an introvert as well. But even bigger than that was: 1) I want to have fun with people and with girls and 2) I want to learn how have this sort of fun. Do something social once a week every week, whether it's a party or date or hang with people. If you …
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:22 PM
3

Maybe see her less frequently.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 08:16 PM
1

Exactly. There may be no such thing as equal work. I get it if it's something like retail or fast food (something minimum wage or close to it). But two mid-level employees with the same title and credentials can be handling completely different tasks day to day, thus they provide different value to the company. Equal pay for equal work is kinda bullshit, let alone gender wage gap.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 08:08 PM
4

If there is a wage gap, companies would only hire women at 80 or 85 cents to the dollar. Women would get paid more, companies would save money overall, owners and shareholders are happy at better numbers. If women were so enraged about rape as a national crisis, then they would also be working to get rid of in prisons amongst men, to punish female teachers who sleep with rape their male students and to punish women to make false rape accusations. If women really wanted "girls night out" just to …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 07:39 PM
3

Next step: build your own real biz. Get to the point of "Power is the option to walk away" with some fuck-you money.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 05:06 PM
1

This. Learning outcome independence is critical.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 01:45 PM
2

Great stuff. Options and Futures was one of the few classes I got an A in. I live in NYC, this would be a fantastic place for you to do that sort of this.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:57 PM
3

It's a patient shit test. She's testing for you for your sympathy, protection, attention.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:26 PM
1

I'm curious. What are your plans with a masters in math? I thought about getting a PhD in econ but I realized I like people and business way more than research and theory.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:12 PM
13

benevolently sexist Or the Loveable Asshole. Or Cocky/Funny. So on.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 07:03 PM
1

If you're thinking this hard with something popular & vapid like insta, you probably shouldn't be on it. I'm starting my Master's in Math Yup, that makes sense. Major the majors, minor the minors.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:00 PM
2

Just invite her over. She's trying really hard.
/r/seduction25/07/19 05:22 AM
6

When girls ask questions about you, try to reply with non-answers. Do you have a gf? -> I'm not sure. I can't keep track of all of them. What are you looking for? -> For my soulmate, what else? Keep this going, have fun together, escalate whenever you can.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 12:38 AM
24

Woman: "What should we have for dinner?" Man: "McDonald's." Woman: "I don't want that." Man: "Okay, you can get whatever you want. I'm heading out now to get some McNuggets. Lmk if you change your mind and want something from there." Woman: (pikachiu surprised face) Subsequent lesson is: Be decisive and follow through.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 11:55 PM
-4

You're right, mine wasn't A&A. But mine was spicier.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:48 PM
-8

Agree and amplify. If someone calls you a simp: "y'know your dad said the same thing last night while he watched me and your mom."
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:45 PM
22

Well, take a look at other RP activities looked upon as abnormal or negative: - heavy compound lifts - "dangerous" hobbies such as mma, motorcycles - not looking to get married / be in a serious long-term exclusive relationship - not orbiting women - not seeing yourself and/or your money & time as a disposable commodity - focusing on merit and results
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:26 PM
1

- Why, you want that job? So far you haven't been impressing your future boss tho. - I can't have a pet right now, maybe later. - They keep breaking my heart. I'm a sensitive man.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 08:03 PM
1

When you have one at your place, lift her and throw her onto the bed.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:21 PM
3

Ha. Mine did that change in 2 months. Marriage lasted 1 year. Best failure ever.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 06:24 AM
6

If they say I hate you without sucking your dick, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:29 AM
6

Is she touching you and laughing at all your dumb jokes and keeping her body close to yours? Then keep doing whatever you're doing. If not, switch things up.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:25 AM
3

Every man close to me gets a token pointing to redpill mgtow. Beyond that, they're on their own.
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 03:50 AM
1

Women are uncomfortable with men's weakness in general. It's just natural, they can't help it. Look to confide in men, not women.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 07:02 PM
4

Doing the opposite has the same results, but only superficially. Make her feel GOOD by working hard ➡️ she may feel good for a little while and/or she resents your behavior ➡️ she looks for DRAMA and blames you for it ➡️ you made her feel BAD ➡️ her resentment and disrespect for you never goes away. But when you make her feel bad with OP's examples, she will feel bad temporarily, but eventually appreciate your leadership and self respect. Happy King, happy kingdom.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 08:12 AM
2

Not worth it in my opinion. Probably hard next.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:57 AM
2

Give them updates, both in email and in person/over phone. Maybe don't put it into writing "I am doing most of the work" but definitely say that verbally.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:31 PM
1

I almost only reply with an emoji these days, especially in scenarios like this.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:19 PM
3

It's not about bashing women or marriage. It's about self-care and self-respect.
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 04:18 PM
37

That's really their equilibrium.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:44 PM
1

Give out your number to multiple girls at the venue, invite them to the afterparty, at the afterparty chat with them and figure out which one, take the hb to your hotel, make sure you fucking video record consent before anything happens.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 10:33 PM
5

I don't wear replicas but I think if I did I'll get anxious and insecure that someone might call me out on wearing a fake.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 10:14 PM
1

Reputation is fickle, sometimes not up to you. The older I get, the less fucks I give. Sometimes my filter falls off and I may offend a few people on occasion, but I know I don't have bad intentions, and that's good enough for me. I also don’t want to be seen leaving with a new girl every week I get you want to be careful, but also be mindful that when you're spinning at a club your SMV can go through the roof. Can you imagine a rockstar or a basketball player instead of taking a HB home that ni…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 10:04 PM
1

I wrote a post about this. Look at the comments, they're better than my post.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:47 PM
1

Just understand if she doesn't come thru, the chances of you meeting her later decreases.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:44 PM
5

You're treating your LTR like a plate. She annoys you because you're not doing this right. Listen to what u/IssaBigLife and u/FuckboyAwalt said here. Stay on top of her comfort tests and enjoy this LTR for what it is OR downgrade her to a plate and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:42 PM
1

I'm sometimes trapped in that feeling too with a new plate or when that plate starts to fade away from seeing me. I try to think positively and gratefully, as if I wasn't entitled to the good times with that particular girl, but I had a lot of fun and I look forward to meeting new girls. The most important thing for me is to be independent, to have fun, to meet and chill with cool people. I have to remind myself this. If you let dark emotions hang over your heard, you're kinda living life with s…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:09 PM
7

And yet here you are asking the opinion of strange men on the internet why would your attractive female coworker set you up with an unattractive girl. This may be bitter medicine for you to ingest but you need stronger resolve. Overthinking the intentions of a woman you cannot engage with is pure distraction and a habit of those with weak will.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:30 AM
18

I don't think entire 20s is a wash for all young men.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:33 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat. If one of you leaves the company, then hit her up.
/r/seduction30/06/19 06:20 AM
2

not doing so suggests I’m indecisive, unreliable and weak surely? At work, in business, amongst people from whom you want to earn respect, yes. With women for sex and relationships? Nope. Things can be said when you're with a woman just after sex and then the moment you/she leaves, you may regret it. Happens all the time. Let me put it this way. To her you may seem like you're proving your worth or trying to. You don't need to prove anything. This is purely a date-by-date set-up now, which I thi…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:13 AM
0

I like to challenge myself to do the thing that is harder for me to do. These days it's easy for me to walk away. It's riskier, way way way riskier for me to throw hands with a man who's been talking a shit about me. Am I willing to go to the er or jail for this? Deal with an assault charge and/or civil lawsuit? Probably not. But it's a thought exercise that may lead to unforeseen options. Talking tough online is a lot easier than doing that action in real life. Have you heard of this thing call…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:55 AM
2

so I guess sticking to my word Stop that. Don't make promises, either. Shit happens, you have the right to change your mind anytime, etc etc. Honor and integrity are for losers when dealing with women. I just suggested it like I knew she would want to You probably suggested it because you had a feeling you would have fun with her doing that. So do it, because you'll have fun. Lead, but lead with caution, always. She should be harder than you are to earn your affection. You can surprise her with …
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:50 AM
18

Make friends with similar goals, hobbies, ambition, etc.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:37 AM
1

It seems you banged on the first date? Or at least you stayed over? Either case I'd say wait for her reach out to you first. And when you do reply, text only for logistics to meet, not with purposeless banter.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:36 AM
1

There's certainly a logical pattern to almost everything in this universe. But when it comes to feeling comfortable with yourself in social settings, it's about repetition and quantity. Maybe start a log on your phone note app and record each time you go out. Make a goal of going out 10 times in the next 30 days.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:31 AM
3

I got you bruh "Hi, how are you?"
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:27 AM
3

Go out there, meet more girls, try, learn, fail, repeat. You'll get the hang of it. Cheers.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:27 AM
39

Your age is no mans land. Too young to impress college girls/girls your age, too old to date younger girls (and illegal). Give it time. Keep focusing on yourself. By the time you hit 23 and assuming you have your shit together, you'll start hitting your stride with college aged girls.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:25 AM
0

I would confront them with my knuckles.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:21 AM
3

This.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:17 AM
31

Once I became a loveable asshole, people have stopped setting me up. You're probably a nice guy. Maybe stop that.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:14 AM
4

You sound young. If you're late teens or early twenties, this is natural. Hell I didn't feel comfortable at bars/parties until I was almost 30. Give it time. Go out a lot. Don't think too much. Make some mistakes, learn from them.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:10 AM
3

Don't check in with her later, wait for her to text/confirm with you first. When it's almost time to meet, she'll text you before she heads out: "So I'll see you there in an half hour?" If you don't hear from her at all, you know you can move on.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:07 AM
1

You gotta think of gaming girls like a quick bank heist. Get in there bold, crack a few jokes, make them laugh, get their number/ig, move on. You're in, then you're out. Don't linger too long.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 05:03 AM
2

The world is your oyster. If you work and make something of yourself, this is all yours to enjoy. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 05:00 AM
2

Whenever a hot babe tells you you're lucky to live in that suburb or you're lucky to have such great genetics, you should always motion to her lean in to you as if you have a secret to share and whisper in her ear: You have no fucking idea how lucky I am. Lean back, stare at her while grinning ear-to-ear, and let out the heartiest laughter this soulless world has ever heard. Agree and amplify. Do not give a fuck. Assume women do not understand your work ethic.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:55 AM
4

This might not make sense to you right now but you have to fail more. I'm not saying whether you should reach out to her or not, but in the long run you have to meet, date, fuck, spend time with dozens of girls just to get the idea of what they're like, how they're wired, and how you should behave in way that makes you happy.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:46 AM
14

It's in their DNA to want the man to empty himself inside her. The answer usually goes back to our biological hardware as a species.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:42 AM
1

I recommend real estate. It may be the last true independent sales job.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:40 AM
10

This is how the lies of feminism destroy women. You cannot have it all, girls.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 09:32 PM
0

Fair. Provide actual advice here then.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 04:10 AM
0

Keeping in touch with the 30 chicks you almost, might, have been with, etc will drive you nuts. exactly brother. what the fuck am i, an account manager at an ad agency? a lonely grandfather desperately trying to connect with his grandkids? hope you get back on your feet soon. journaling every day may help. or even moving. check my post history, i wrote about it.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 01:36 AM
9

You're basically summing up The Secret. Tell starving kids to have mentality of being well fed. You can't have proper attitude unless you have some results.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 12:04 AM
16

That's actually a fucking good point.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 11:32 PM
0

Point taken. I'm only aggressive about it because I know I will try again. And I know she will enjoy the effort and attention. But I hated that idea of trying to game her later. Just not worth the patience and discipline.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:51 PM
1

That's one of my weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:31 PM
-7

Because I want to share my experiences and insights, and see what other men think, try to learn. Also I enjoy taking a hot steamy dump on non contributing comments.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:28 PM
-4

so you know a lot about 11 year old boys
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:18 PM
-7

trying to earn credibility on reddit is like graduating valedictorian at a special needs school. congratulations you're the smartest retard.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:14 PM
1

rejection = shit test? I guess. But I'm not looking to mess with a girl who rejects just as a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:54 PM
3

clear the slate I like that. Sometimes I find myself drooling over girls on my fb. Not exactly a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:41 PM
2

abundance mentality is easier with actual abundance
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:31 PM
3

eliminate the what if Yeah I think I buried the lead here.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:46 PM
0

I challenge myself by actively avoiding bitches who want rebound dick. Sure I probably get laid less this way.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:43 PM
-2

I don't want them to circle back to me when it's convenient for them. I want to fuck when I want to fuck. Probably I get less this way but so be it.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:38 PM
1

Your mom's vagina is stupid. Criticize my point with counterpoint or stfu.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:26 PM
24

soft next is ideal. but sometimes i know I'm too weak or rather I know I will be weak. Easier and dumber solution to delete block.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:23 PM
-9

no brah i deleted all sosh, use a flip phone, learned how to send ravens.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:21 PM
-1

Signaling. True. But Im also forcing myself to not care and to move on.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:19 PM
-4

That's what the fuck Im saying
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:17 PM
-2

The point is to fuck. I don't care how I look to a girl who rejected me.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:13 PM
-12

hurt Surprise surprise I still have feelings and get hurt when rejected. he needed to tell her If I did, I would have texted her myself. extremely needed I'm needy by being cold and aloof. Gotcha.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:01 PM
5

Hit record on audio recording app whenever you're over a girl's place or she's at yours. You might want to check wire tapping law in your state (for US) but regardless it's safe to have the audio just in case. If you ever get accused, only tell your lawyer about the recording.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:55 PM
1

Do something drastic. Take a year off from work. Move to a different neighborhood or a new city or a new country.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 05:13 AM
2

Put this on unpopular opinion.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 12:45 PM
8

I wouldn't want it to happen to me. You get laid but you don't understand. Women want sexual domination. It's different from just sex.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 12:19 PM
1

"Hey I fucked up. This is on me. Let me buy you dinner, etc" If they can't accept that, then move the fuck on. Good reminder, op.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 11:08 PM
4

Naw. If OP gave details, idiots here wont see forest for the trees.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 11:06 PM
1

Handing your phone to a girl while not breaking eye contact needs to be locked in your muscle memory. Edit: Great, concise FR.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 11:14 PM
3

That's the secret to game. No need for an overly complicated offensive game, just be confident and friendly and have fun. Game is about being magnetic, since you are the prize, not your pick up lines.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/19 10:44 PM
1

Just man up. That sounds familiar. (Looks at bluepill.)
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 08:44 PM
1

And when the friend arrives on your couch, have a copy of The Rational Male ready. "You can stay here as long as you like but you have to fucking read this."
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:31 PM
3

Just know this: If she doesn't go home with you that night, it's over.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:30 PM
1

Bitch can't shut her mouth for two months out of the year when it's literally the most critical time in her man's work. Not to mention he's only got a handful of years left before he retires. Imagine if you had to answer for your woman's bullshit by a platoon of reporters after barely eking out a win against James Harden and gang. ​ Edit: * a playoff win
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 08:18 PM
1

nice. scientific evidence corroborating our collective anecdotal one.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 08:11 PM
-10

We also need to teach the lost art of rhetorical questions.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 05:38 AM
-11

Keep telling yourself that kind of touchy feely shit. If money, women, and success are everywhere, then why do you have so little of each?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 05:32 AM
212

You know when people say, "It's never too late." They're wrong. They're usually people who didn't accomplish much at all or they're super-accomplished but just want to sound positive and pleasant. I'm almost 40. I've wasted a good portion of my 20s and 30s. Discipline, work ethic, persistence, focus -- I lack all of these and now I am paying the price for my laziness. If you're 30 or under, get your shit together with lunatic urgency. Trying to change up at my age is miserable.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 03:14 AM
4

Looks, height, attire, muscles, body language, pre-selection, social status, etc. So much of this game is rigged.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 03:03 AM
7

Exactly. Similar to your HR director analogy, women are air traffic controllers, men are pilots. Women know what a good landing looks like, but they can't explain it because they're not pilots. But still they have the authority to wave off a runway approach at the slightest hint of subpar performance by the pilot.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 02:56 AM
5

Guys tend to think they're gaming the girl or the interaction when in reality their game is against the other men in the room, or the other men she knows, or the other men she's been with. The game is decided even before you say a word to her.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 12:24 AM
9

Women don’t sell sex. Not directly. Women sell the chance for sex. Women sell you a spot at the audition. Whatever you invest in a woman, what she’s selling you is a few moments of her time, to give you that chance. It's why they doll up in a little black dress with hooker heels, grind with you on the dance floor, and then leave in an instant. It's why they're eager to meet you for drinks over texting, but once in person they just sit there with short answers, a bored thousand-yard-stare, quick …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 12:22 AM
6

My father never apologizes. When I point out his bullshit, he shrugs and mutters, "It's the way I am" and walks away. Now I do the same to him.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 02:40 AM
17

I suspect this also goes along with anecdotal evidence of how most women's expressed n-count stays within a certain range, despite how generally it's 2x or 3x higher or even more.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 02:34 AM
3

If you take away the platform, what does each speaker at this certain convention stand upon? Obviously Rollo's blog and books alone put him on manosphere's Mount Rushmore, but I hope he continues to distance himself from this sort of Tom-Cruise-in-Magnolia cultish platform. The good ones will usually read, think, and react accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 02:22 AM
-1

no u
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 08:01 PM
-4

Single dude here, was married once for a very short time. Just for shits and giggles: Sleep separately. You got a mancave? Great, start sleeping there. Don't volunteer an explanation to her. If she asks, just ignore her or shrug.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 07:52 PM
1

Enjoy him for who he is -- a talking head -- and not for who you want him to be -- e.g., your hero, mascot, savior, etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 04:56 AM
58

That's a clown cession, bro.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 01:36 AM
4

"I don't want your number, I want you to wonder." - great American poet Sean Combs
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 03:51 AM
2

He should live a fucking fascinating life which happens to include attractive women but not getting devasted by losing one.
/r/seduction06/03/19 08:52 PM
2

No. First of all, I love kids. My nieces and nephews are amazing to me, and I have spent significant time volunteering and working with kids in my 20s. I love holding babies and playing with kids whenever I get the chance. Now I'm in my late 30s, in business building mode, pursuing a creative career on the side. Not exactly killing it financially, so I presume I will be financially ready to have kids in my mid to late 40s. I wouldn't be excited about being a silver fox dad. Also, awalt. Even if …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 07:24 AM
2

Yes, I think I am going this direction myself.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 07:06 AM
3

You overthink because you have nothing else going on in your life: No other romantic / sexual targets, no hobbies, no challenging career, no interesting friends to catch up with.
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:27 AM
-2

Young dudes conflate trp with mgtow, with self congratulatory posts like this: "Bruh, I told her GTFO. Awalt, amiriiiiite?" This is bluepill living while wearing redpill merch. Not fucking is not fucking, whether you're chasing pussy or walking away from it. Saying "trp works" without fucking is like saying "I'm getting ripped!" just by walking away from a cheeseburger. Good on you for recognizing your shitty meal choices, that's one of the first baby steps, but know your place here. You got a l…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 06:30 PM
8

I think this may be my first comment on mgtow. Happy fucking birthday, bro. I'll be hitting the four-zero club soon, too!
/r/MGTOW28/02/19 08:08 AM
37

The other week I went to a comedy club and a skinnyfat manlet Asian dude had a bit: "if you're white, all your sentences are questions?" I can't do justice to his bit here but he just nailed the point of how too many people -- both men and women -- are not fucking assertive when they should be. Statements, at the ending, should not sound like questions.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 05:00 AM
2

Whenever I see u/CainPrice, I fkn read and pay attention. I was that skinnyfat bloopie who started lifting heavy because of words written by good men like him.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 08:54 PM
3

Exactly. Even with fighting strategy like the original commentor mentioned, it's not about why you should fight or if it's moral, it's about how to fight and win. "I want nasty! Show me nasty!" -Coach Pop
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:35 PM
6

Rich or poor, young or old, healthy or sick, educated or dropped out, regardless of race or culture, religious or agnostic, first or fifth marriage, kids or childfree, exclusive or open, divorce hypergamy is blind. All women are like that.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 08:20 PM
10

Understanding the reason isn't as important as admitting the existence of the problem. Women can't appreciate fatherhood-- your fatherhood. Let that sink in. Even if you were okay with a sexless dead bedroom and even if you provided and cared for the family very well, the mother of your children would still give you hell, death by a thousand passive-aggressive pricks.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 07:33 PM
1

You know that counter argument, the one that goes, "Well, men do that, too." They're referring to beta turds. In my head it's now "women and most men." Women and most men are unreliable, deceiving, compromised, undisciplined, boring, and unfit for leadership. To be alpha is to be the exception.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 08:36 PM
1

Mods, please ban this guy. Talking blue pill shit with tough red pill language.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 03:49 AM
3

If you can lead she will follow. Fuck this. You're already putting the burden yourself from the start. "If she's not following, I must be a bad leader." How is this any different from blue pull thinking? knowledge You are now the Tai Lopez of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 02:03 AM
4

He doesn't own his shitpost. But he does, too.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 07:46 PM
1

I doubt you've been in a relationship with a woman that lasted longer than a football season.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:32 AM
1

I can't say it enough: TRP is led in the most TRP way. I'm fortunate to enjoy both the content and the direction here. Respect, motherfuckers.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 02:54 PM
8

I'm surprised trp lasted this long here.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 11:16 PM
2

Once divorce papers were filed, I promptly threw it away. Didn't want to waste any more time or effort about something that represented the failed marriage. Plus it was a cheap ring.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/18 10:56 PM
3

I usually don't go on one-on-one dates anymore. I meet a girl while I'm out, get her contact, message her here and there, invite her out to a party, then a few days later I invite myself over to her place.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 10:45 PM
2

You have to be red pill before you become red pill. In other words, you are your own teacher. No one can change you except yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 04:55 PM
3

I love how you're shitting on OP in the most ignorant, adorable and ironic way.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/18 04:46 AM
7

Redpill or not, it doesn't take a rocket surgeon to realize monogamy isn't easy for both partners.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/18 04:44 AM
6

Women are much more interested in ending a relationship than starting one. Unless it's with a man who's just pumping and dumping.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 04:06 AM
118

Late 30s here checking in. I've been exercising this sort of self-reliance in the last year. My business has been beating the shit out of me, or rather, I've been permitting it to do so. What else could I do? I got my ass to the chair, wrote out a plan, and kept at it. Now I do this once or twice every week in a dedicated notebook, reviewing the goal and the strategy to get there. I hate doing nice things for myself, so it took a lot within me to go on my first trip overseas that wasn't a weddin…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 03:52 AM
2

Lol I like this
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:04 AM
3

18-24yo hb's don't care about how settled and/or stable a man is in his life. They don't care what your career path is, where you are in that path, what your credit score, etc. They only care if you are tall, muscular, have balls, use frame, bust shit tests, know how to have fun. It seems like you figured out how you want your life to be. That's priority #1. Now it's just a matter of tweaking your game to slay pussy. Maybe start having parties at your place.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:02 AM
26

I assume all girls have daddy issues.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 05:41 AM
3

Vagabonding by Rolf Potts (if you're curious about long term travel) Paratrooper by T Michael Booth and Duncan Spencer (must read if you like Band of Brothers) Love Yourself by Kamal Ravikant (very different than the simple "be tough" approach to living) The Warrior Ethos by Steven Pressfield (very different than the "love yourself" approach)
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 05:22 AM
1

Always be willing to admit a mistake --just once-- but also be willing show the door.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 09:40 PM
22

It's social status. Even she's not broadcasting on social media, she still gets to brag to her girlfriends, sisters, mother, etc. Especially if she has a BB to foot the bill. My ex wife who was barely on social media only shared pics of us traveling. As we were getting into heated arguments over finances -- the main reason we split -- frantically she once brought up, "What about travel?!" I shot back at her, "WTF does traveling have to do with saving our marriage?!" With that question, I sealed …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:45 PM
2

A lot of us have missed out in our teens and 20s, and a lot of guys your age are in the same boat, I'm sure. Time really flies. I'm 20 years ahead of you but I can clearly recall when I just grad'd HS. Start working on yourself now.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:11 PM
1

Essentially, It’s all hard mode, regardless of the sub I just wanted to hear that. Or rather, my own fragile ego wanted to hear that. Damn.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 08:18 PM
1

Some folks at TRP bristle at the "Hard Mode" tag line because they think we're wearing it like a badge of honor or that we think we're better at "doing TRP" because we do it in this context. Nope, just that our situation is worse, not that we're any better for it. That was so fucking good, excuse me while I go change my panties.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 08:13 PM
0

Damn, I can't believe you, u/Rian_Stone, came down here and broke this down for me. You're totally not a rando; I have lots of respect for you, even before I read this. I fully see how I come off as value trolling, but that's just my way of writing on trp (not an intellectual gimmick, I'm just a stubborn idiot), which is partially why I'm surprised you commented. You and other ECs/mods on TRP who are married almost never use marriage as a shield to precede anything you write or say. That deserve…
/r/askMRP06/07/18 08:10 PM
2

Thanks. So, with my bullet points, I'm not that far off. That post by u/weakandsensitive mentions attraction which I left out, but one can safely assume you wouldn't be having great sex with your wife if she didn't find you attractive.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 08:40 AM
1

Exactly. When you're striving for excellence and not labels nor tribes, you'll find out it's all connected.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 04:58 AM
2

hahaha the great and powerful 88Will88
/r/askMRP06/07/18 04:54 AM
2

oooops, sorry bud. time for bed.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:53 AM
1

sure, OP can state it instead of asking. but i don't think i stated a reason, sherlock.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:45 AM
1

Hahaha. Respect.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 04:40 AM
24

Incel who wants to get better First of all, congrats. You're trying to learn and improve yourself. For now, you're no longer in an incel and you have my respect. I’m getting a bad feeling about this So Obiwan has already told you about The Force? Jokes aside, your suspicion is a good sign. I'd say go radio silent for a few days, maybe a week. Then ask her out. If she responds with anything besides yes, don't talk to her again.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:23 AM
0

TRP's employ trp, than get laid by default. Invaluable summary. We don't work on our game. We work on ourselves, then everything (and everyone) falls in line.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 04:16 AM
3

I was once religious and on my way becoming clergy. I've taken the RP twice, once for religion, another for women. The true measure of a man IMHO then you’ve got Nintendo hard Yea, I guess I'm just allergic to any expression that sounds like "My struggle is reallllll!" Feminists, neckbeards, nice guys, mgtows, vegans, they all say it. Struggling is an universal constant. Your hardship isn't unique.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 04:08 AM
7

'hey change of plans. how about your place instead.' if she says no, walk away.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:00 AM
1

I discovered RP after my failed marriage which didn't last a year. She kept bringing up divorce as an "or else!" device hanging over my head, so eventually I called her bluff. No kids, broke as fuck, so I had nothing to lose except temporary emotional pain (which led me to rp), a few awkward social situations, and a big frown from my conservative parents (meh). Best fucking decision I ever made.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 02:21 AM
6

Does this ruin my frame? Yes. I always try to go to the girl's place. Even tho I have my own place, I find it's easier to end the night if I just left (as opposed to asking a girl to leave) and some girls are happy that I practically invite myself over.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 02:07 AM
2

These days I like to think RP as a place for discussion, not as a strict philosophy. As long as you're not following your father's advice and not paying for everything, there isn't much RP can offer you in terms of financial advice. You'll have to figure that out on your own. For the expenses, I told her we would be splitting the hotel costs and I would like to take her out for a nice dinner on me. Seems like a good plan to me. The little things can be probably split, too. but he has also always…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 02:01 AM
2

Understand you're dealing with a difficult event and it affects you on a deeply personal level. Tell yourself this, aloud. But also know the emotional and mental pain will go away over time. You may not feel it tomorrow or the day after, but you will definitely feel better a month from now. This is assuming you're practicing a certain level of discipline and self-care. And by self-care, I don't mean stick to strict "alpha" routine: Lifting, good diet, minimal alcohol. This may actually be the be…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:49 AM
1

I want to use this to control the frame even more. Naw, dawg.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:37 AM
32

inside every male in society, there is a dormant alpha within Dormant, potential, unrealized, un-actualized, raw, sleeping, talented -- It's all irrelevant and useless. The smallest measurable positive result is bigger than the greatest potential. Every basement-dwelling, obese keyboard warrior has the potential to become a muscular alpha male. Potential is really nothing. because of the way we were raised, we were told to always be polite and to let people do whatever they want and try as much …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 01:05 AM
1

I'm gonna drop a turd here. This is a low-quality post with little -- if any -- useful insight. OP, I recommend you delete this.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 12:26 AM
1

Respect. You seem to have a level-headed view on this. But some of the bullshit on MRP is unbelievable. It's bluepill thinking wrapped up in redpill words. Prime example, "marriage is trp on hard mode." Bitch, your life isn't harder than mine.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 11:47 PM
6

PUA = making having sex with women your main lives goal Hell, for a lot of guys into PUA it's not even that bold. Getting a LTR thru PUA is their real goal, because they haven't had much sex/affection. This could be a crude summary of Neil Strauss.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:28 PM
-5

I will always downvote this. Applying trp principles and not being a bitch regardless of your LTR status isn't easy.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:06 PM
1

Here are some weird ideas. Look up YouTube for videos on making eye. Perhaps there are some by attactive women. Develop a hobby as a people/fashion photographer, start shooting women for free. Use the city as a backdrop. Take up dancing like salsa. Take up yoga like bikram.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:56 PM
5

It's 0.78, you misogynist!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:47 PM
2

You know, women have told me that.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:41 AM
8

When you're in good, muscular shape, you can wear a dirty tee shirt with holes and still get positive attention. You refuse to believe there's something better. I hope you save yourself eventually. There's nothing in the dead-end you're living in right now.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 01:58 PM
73

When you're beta, bitter and sexless, all you can see is Men vs Women. But when you're alpha, happy and sex-ful, it's really just Me vs Me, or rather Me for Me. Work on yourself, then the world --including yourself-- will see you as the prize.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 05:06 AM
0

Or a body pillow.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:28 PM
3

Success begets success. If you haven't succeeded elsewhere -- like academics, work, business, arts, personal hardship -- then you won't "get" trp because you don't know how to learn and improve, let alone succeed.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 04:23 PM
1

I also take magnesium, fish liver oil, calcium, ginseng.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 04:17 PM
2

Live solo, even if it is a shit box, even if it is far from work, nightlife, friends. When you live alone, you can focus on yourself with ease and build a better life faster. When you live with family, roommates or even a LTR, that focus is hindered at best. It's not as straightforward to do things at home for yourself when you have to consider the others who share the place with you.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 12:47 AM
2

"I just to need to find a good one." That thirst / philosophy / world view may be as strong as those belonging to suicide bombers. Many men are willing to put their own lives at risk to find a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:49 PM
5

You do you, hon. Best not to roam these dark streets of PPD because every non-positive observation of women from a straight man is offensive and makes strong, independent woman like yourself unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:42 AM
9

And they follow none. Hell, women even don't listen to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 10:51 PM
1

Start with hobbies. Look up stuff you like to do on Meetup.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:42 PM
1

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:38 PM
1

This is one key difference between men and women. Men like to theorize and postulate; women like to compare with their own experiences. Men generalize, women personalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 04:00 AM
0

Everything popular is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 03:27 AM
-1

most people It goes without saying this sub isn't intended for most people.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 09:01 PM
1

Or: Change is as good as routine.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 09:00 PM
1

It took me almost a decade to graduate college. Lesson learned: get a fuckin job, any job, and figure it out from there. I'm not special, my problems were not unique, I just applied myself and kept myself out of my parents place throughout my 20s.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:15 PM
1

Read a lot. Not just on the 'net, but books. Try new things. Just not hard drugs. Make connections in the new town where you will move to.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 07:27 PM
2

Maybe I've been working with defective women!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:01 PM
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First, I wasn't clear enough in my first comment. I was trying to state the emotional reality for women, at least when it comes to sex, isn't a bad thing, nor is it a good thing. It is what it is. But it can be a great barometer. If she's not enjoying the sex loudly and obviously, I'm hopping off this train right here. You were the one taking "emotion for women is everything" as a negative, not me. Second, thank you for answering my question in detail. You and many women -- probably the majority…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:57 PM
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Wow. You've named the only two things I lose my mind over. Let me ask you: Would you date a guy who cries at work, say, once a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:12 PM
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Fortune favors the brave, little brother. I'm sure you will do well. Don't ever lose courage to act.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:43 PM
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Yup. Regular self care is the basis of my post, which I didn't emphasis enough.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:40 PM
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Outside of work, assume everything a woman says is a shit test. Her: "What would you do?" Me: "I would unzip my pants and he would stop harrassing her and start bowing down to my dick." (Wink, walk away)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:48 AM
3

The more rp I become, the more I act like women.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:38 AM
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Respect. I think we're on different wavelengths here. You're coming from a self-improvement and logic-based problem-solving angle. I'm coming from depression/funk/boredom and restart-by-blowing-everything-up angle. You're a thinker, I'm a feeler. Entering chaos for you would be hell, while it would be like a vacation for me. (Probably why I enjoy edibles.) Will this feeling wear off in a couple months? Probably. But my daily commute is now cut in half, my neighborhood is quantifiably better (don…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:36 AM
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I envy women because when they're experiencing something intense, they are fucking feeling it (number here greater than 100)%. Sex, food, puppies, babies, family, etc. I don't think I've ever been half as consumed with emotion as some women I've seen eating a piece of dark chocolate. My point is maintenance sex for women can be worse than Hitler because emotion is truth, emotion is reality, emotion is everything for women. If she's not feeling it but I'm still pumping inside her, that nanosecond…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:48 AM
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You're on this sub, you've read this post and you've commented on it because you're searching. Hell with the answer, you probably don't even know what the question is. Good is boring, good is a quiet, slow death. If you want out of that, you have to welcome chaos.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 10:30 AM
5

Maybe girls run away not because you're needy. Maybe you're not attractive. That's the thing about being attractive. You don't have to do shit.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:26 AM
1

I'm adding that to my library of shit-test busters. Good one.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:09 AM
1

Asian American here. I actually forget sometimes I'm ethnic. Probably because I understand and accept that hate and idiocy comes in many forms, racism being one of them. Focus on yourself, tell yourself daily you're the fucking prize, everything unimportant fades.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:03 AM
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I'll tell you something that will NOT help you relax, because fuck you, this is TRP. Tell yourself THIS IS LIFE. You have to do something like this, something terrifying to this magnitude, on the regular. You obviously want to change, to improve, to be good with girls, to be good at fucking. Now you've been given your first opportunity, your first at-bat. Don't be so hard on yourself if you fail. Keep seeking opportunities. Do more crazy shit.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:00 AM
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How do you deal with it if you escalate and she says "Blah Blah... But I have a boyfriend"? I default to things like "I don't care" and "I'll be your manfriend". First time, just don't respond to that. Second time, say "So what? You want a prize? You want a cookie?" Third time, walk away / kick her out / soft next.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:54 AM
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I have a little bit of history with this girl. Whenever I read that, I think, 'oh boy, that train has left long ago.' If you're not plowing her, then she's busy with someone else. Let it go.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:49 AM
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I was going to wait a year or two to get a vasectomy (no kids, late 30s, single). I think I need to push it up.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 05:37 AM
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I'd like to add: they love sex with no strings attached, much more than most men do.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 03:56 AM
2

I've been there, little brother. I'm almost 2x your age but I still have trouble kicking my own ass out of bed. The one truth that no one told me: You have to find your own solution. No subreddit, no workout, no habit, no book, no blog, no YouTube video will be a magical silver-bullet solution. It's like you are a character in a book but you're also the author. You gotta write yourself out of this shithole of a life. No one else will write it for you... unless you allow them to.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:23 AM
2

I was there, man. All in. Met a beautiful girl, asked her out, she became my girlfriend, we moved in together, we got a puppy together, I proposed, got married... then divorce talks in less than 5 months of marriage. And you know what? I was fucking lucky. THAT was slavery. THIS is freedom. I hope you're ready willing and able to start this journey.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:08 AM
1

Don't get married. Don't have kids. Enjoy the $.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 03:04 AM
2

Punish bad behavior with a stern warning and withdrawal. Say something like: "Respect me ... or else." Get out of the house for several hours or a whole night, don't explain or respond to her "where are you?" text/calls. Use less words with her. Just give her emotionless but firm stares. Allow her to correct her own shitty behavior.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:29 AM
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I would like to give 10 upvotes here!
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:35 PM
1

You're a student. Apply some critical analysis, problem solving. Here's a simple tip: "Allright, I gotta go now." Use that line liberally when you're with a girl, post-sex.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:14 PM
2

Some women forget men they fucked. I banged a chick twice. A few weeks later she says to me "Wait, who are you again?" She literally forgot about me. Do not trust their partner count, because some cannot actually remember it.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 03:18 AM
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You have little to no boundary discipline. She didn't get to this from nowhere. You probably spent too much non-sexual time together, and maybe even communicating/texting with her about things that isn't planning for the next sex meet-up. I think the biggest mistake is you found trp, read some of the sidebar material, and exercised almost none of the discipline. For some dudes it's better to have not waken so early, go through the beta mistakes in their 20s, and then realize something is wrong.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:10 AM
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I'm with OP on this: She thinks she can get shitfaced with her friends, most definitely get hit on by dudes, and then get him to pick her drunk ass up and take her home, either to his or hers. Definite disrespect. If this was my plate and I had no others at the moment, I would still cut her off.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 05:42 AM
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Big hug. Make out. Fuck her brains out. And then say "Well, that's how I feel about you, k?"
/r/askTRP21/04/18 04:25 AM
2

"Aww" is the opposite of sexual tension. No sexual tension, no sexy time.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:21 AM
1

She is just consistently unpleasant. Observe quietly, understand the person and situation. Prepare your frame accordingly. What's the worst that can happen? Dare youself to take action. Fortune favors the brave. with the biggest smile I could muster This is frame actualized. Not just reciting lines. Smiling can be proof of superiority and women are drawn to their superior. "Are you coming or what?" Ordering her what to do. Dominating. I stared back every time until she broke eye contact. More no…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:38 PM
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You did well. Always be ready to bail at the first of insanity. This is probably why I'm more willing to go to a girl's place for the first bang session. Harder to kick out a crazy bitch from your place out than it is to leave hers. Remember to record audio in these situations.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:19 AM
0

I just bought a pound of grilled chicken breast cubes with broccoli and sweet potatoes, both already cooked. A littler pricier than if I were to cook it myself but it saves me time and effort.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:16 AM
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Don't take what she says too seriously. Instead pay more attention to her actions.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:10 AM
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I've been the beta without much of the bux to my ex wife. She kept me around because: 1) In her eyes my smv was higher than hers. 2) At least in the beginning I was the rebellious bad boy to her. 3) I was a good lifestyle accessory as her bf/husband to show off to her friends, family, co-workers. 4) In her own words, she liked--no, she needed to mother me and take care of me.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:04 AM
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Can confirm, I used to be that skinnyfat artist/creative type. Did a lot better than I should have, back in the day.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 04:54 AM
8

This. And also consistently impressed at how ECs like yourself are very active in asktrp. Invaluable.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:49 AM
0

Sex or it doesn't mean anything.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:47 AM
6

Just wrote this a few days ago: Go to Every Event You're Invited to
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:42 AM
3

I'm just a simple Chad trying to make my way in the femi-verse.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 08:55 AM
0

I love McGregor ... but only up til and right after the Mayweather fight. Wtf was he doin at Bellator 187. Plus, the shit he just did in NY, he's become a parody/meme of himself, but without the actual fighting, talent and skills. Jesus fucking christ, if you lost in the most publicized fight in the last ___ years, get your irish ass back in the octagon.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 08:01 AM
2

I prefer to see a few close friends. The thing about close friends is they don't stay close for long.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 07:48 AM
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You fucking get it. Not that I have to tell you this but the world is your oyster. Cheers, bro.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 07:46 AM
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That FB event shit is under-rated, especially if you're active and got a lot of friends on it.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 07:45 AM
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Yeah cool, let's set how you live-- oh wait, you deleted all your submits.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 07:43 AM
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I think you already know this but most "buddies" will not be there for you when shit hits the fan. They'll pussy out. You just gotta know when a scene isn't your scene and take it easy or bail and find another bar.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 07:42 AM
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Backing the fuck out like a bitch. Disappointed but not surprised. Teach me or shut the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 07:39 AM
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Let's see your version tackling this issue then, bitch.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 03:52 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I hope you fucking kill it in your art from here on. I have a sister who is also a teacher with a Ivy League Masters in Ed. The amount of the BS and drama she has to deal with amongst other teachers and administrators is unbelievable. She just wants to teach and help kids for fucks sake. Power is the option to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 03:08 AM
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If you can imagine a irreverent comedian doing a bit on the so-called rape culture: "So I was raping this chick on my way to work this morning..." If rape was as rampant as some parts of our culture say it is, then we would have to separate the genders. Male and female high schools, colleges, dorms, even separate offices in the work place. Instead of 'teaching boys not to rape' we would have a movement to separate. It's all sham display to control the narrative and to sound superior. Look deeper…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 09:45 PM
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Hahahaha too funny
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:38 AM
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I thought you were 14. You say 23. The fuck.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:14 AM
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Fair enough. Do you deal with a lot of vendors trying to sell you their shit?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 01:47 AM
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I love it when I get a disagreeing comment. It makes me think deeper. Decide how much your time is worth. Go to the events where you know you're value will be respected. Go to the events where it will benefit you. You know who else would think as such? The anti-social shy dudes who hardly ever go out. Ego is a such a double-edged sword. You can try and make friends with everyone, bare in mind you might come off desperate and they automatically put you as lesser value than them If people see me a…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 01:17 AM
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Women are willing to leave a good relationship for a better one, or what seems to be better. When a situation gets tough or just even boring they are not hard-wired to exercise loyalty.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:48 AM
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For someone in your situation I don't recommend anything that's related to sexual strategy or even physical fitness. You don't have a body problem, you have a mind problem. Change how you think first. Check out Personal Power by Tony Robbins. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akKFLCly_zg
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:43 AM
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Playing armchair therapist here. Perhaps there was someone in the past who said your name while bullying you. And/or you don't like your self-image. I know a few people who legally changed their names as an adult and it's done wonders for them.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:07 AM
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Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:13 PM
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pointedly Does it peeve you all the time or just when they say it with intensity?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 10:00 PM
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My follow up to this post would be "How to be a Great Party Host." Although I'm not sure if I can write it with insight and integrity right now as I've been too focused on work, gym, and going to others' events.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 09:57 PM
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How to be gay in 20 steps How to be attractive without saying a word
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 08:59 AM
1

Yup. That's me all right, the dude who thinks he's friend zoning a chick to get to her friends... only to fail again and try to friend zone them to get to their friends... Success begets success. When you fuck one chick, you may get to fuck her friends too.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:46 AM
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Fuckin deep.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:35 AM
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You're so stupid. Stupid enough to hang out with your dumb ass. You're so skinny. Yea your jeans would fit me much better. Your legs are so small. I know rah? Feel my groin. Are you retarded I was late once, so just a tardy, not a retardy.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:32 AM
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Don't eat where you shit.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:29 AM
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Saved it on my evernote. Failure is the best teacher, because it means you took action and didn't pussy out.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 07:39 AM
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Happened to me plenty of times. A logical explanation is women love--no, they need drama. Even if it means hurting themselves and pulling the plug on a new man just because. "I'm not good enough for you" = "You're too good to be true. I need to be on a constant emotional rollercoaster, so bye." This girl you mention may not even have a dude lined up. In any case, chalk this up as "right actions, wrong result" and move on.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:26 AM
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I'm at the top of the social standing how can I kiss a girl Hahahaha get the fuck outta here, son. If you were even a small portion of the cool shit you think you are, you wouldn't be asking. Girls would be on you already without you trying. Humble the fuck down.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:00 AM
2

I'd say #2. The fuck train always leaves a faster than you think. Long gone, bro.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:57 AM
1

Yea, next. Remember to not reply back so quickly when setting up a date. Minimum 30 minutes if not an hour.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:55 AM
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I wonder how a dude can give away precious mind space to a chick like this. Let it go.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:53 AM
2

I found 3 months is about the time when a plate expires, at least consistently. Sure, you can work on your game and frame to make plates last longer, but the point is they're not meant to last. So don't sweat the small stuff here too much. She wants to exchange for a better beta, you. Happens all the time. Look up Jerry Seinfeld's wife. She was married to a well-off dude but then she met Jerry, who was well on his way to becoming the billionaire he is today. Stop wasting your time on "trying to …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:30 AM
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I'd like to add: Getting You to Commit After a few date/nights with a new plate, she will start doing shit like planning events weeks in advance, asking your to define the relationship ("what are we?"), buying you clothes, meeting each other's friends, etc. These will seem harmless and even sweet. Sometimes bitches do this so smoothly and effortlessly that you will completely miss it. They're all the more eager to crown you "muh boyfriend" if they're post-wall.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 09:20 PM
3

Fkn smartest dude on asktrp
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:42 PM
1

Maybe age-related. I find younger girls especially under 27 more willing and excited to satisfy. Sometimes you just gotta tell them what to do and how to do it because if they're young it's literally their first time satisfying a man like that. Above 30 = probably not getting head.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:52 AM
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Late 30s here. Just getting my lazy ass to the gym 2-3 times a week took over a year. Now I'm going 3-5 times a week and I hate how I wasted my youth. There is no better therapy, university, fraternity, religion than the Church of Steel. Lift heavy and slay pussy, boys.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 06:32 AM
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You've come to the cancer wing. Every problem like this to us is cancer and thus every solution here is chemo. Either jump in and end it or don't come back and marry her.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:24 AM
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When you get over how badly women behave in marriage, you will see how badly men act too -- but not with infidelity, insensitivity, or apathy as this culture will lead you to believe, but how spineless, self-brainwashed and weak husbands and fathers have become.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 06:22 AM
2

This.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:47 PM
9

RE > Stocks because nobody gives you a loan to buy stocks.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:51 AM
2

Every girl who has given me good head has called me a jerk/asshole/douche. Just another example of "don't listen to their words, instead observe their actions."
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 06:10 PM
2

CAN I BE YOOUR BESTIE TOO BRUH
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 06:07 PM
2

Am I the only one who liked this?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 01:47 PM
2

But not as great as 'I have a fridge on my cake.'
/r/askTRP26/02/18 06:17 AM
1

Do whatever you can to socialize, even if it means talking to strangers. Also, do other things to build yourself. I'm sure you travel a lot, so read a lot of books. If you haven't already, begin planning your life post-soccer.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 07:39 AM
2

Do what I've started doing: give him a copy of the book, "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi and just let him figure it out. If he wants to be awaken -- emphasis on WANTS -- then he will circle back to you for questions. I've also lost friends because of this, since they believe TRM and the rest of TRP is only a toxic ideology built on hate and bitterness. Good, fuck 'em.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 07:36 AM
2

That's really cool. Go all out and enjoy it. But try to have some sort of social life, preferably unrelated to sports. The more you invest yourself into soccer, you'll probably have less time, energy and opportunities to hang out and meet people.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 07:04 AM
2

I don't see anything about going to parties. That's important. What are your plans this summer after hs? Try doing something cool and unique. Backpack thru Europe, for example.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:22 AM
3

"being an asshole"
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:20 AM
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Ask a lot of questions, such as What do you do? What's that like? Where do you live? How's that neighborhood/area? How did you come to this event/party? Who do you know here. If they're cool, I usually get their number and invite them out to other parties.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:08 AM
2

alphas out there who aren’t spinning plates and have a greater chance of providing faithfulness and security That's not an alpha, that's literally the opposite of an alpha, which is beta. Pre-wall women (<30 years old) aren't exactly looking to settle down with a beta.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:05 AM
3

Invite her over to your place.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 04:58 AM
7

My gym is my second home. Money and time very fucking well spent.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 04:39 AM
1

Nice.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:15 AM
4

Yup.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:13 AM
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Or perhaps Scenario 3: She's hitting the wall, needs a Beta to show off to her gfs, coworkers, family, etc, to validate she is worth the investment from a BB. A necessary lifestyle accessory at this point.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 07:11 AM
8

Atta boy. Stay woke.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 06:44 AM
6

Did you handle that particular situation right? I think so. But is the relationship overall worth it? Are you living a life of constant drama-management?
/r/askTRP22/02/18 06:27 AM
15

I'm in my late 30s. Several years ago I married the love my life. Sure I was a full-blown bloopie but I was Cypher but a different Cypher, the one with his memory erased and living the best kind of Matrix plugged-in life as an actor, just like he wanted. As far as blue pill beta goes, I was fuckin happy. Fast forward three months into my marriage, my wife wanted a divorce. Let's just say I'm so glad I didn't knock her up and for non-contest divorces. My point isn't like everyone else here who's …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 05:43 AM
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All good, my man. I'm glad you contested my half-assed comment as it made me think deeper. Am I an outlier? Yea, I've been something like that my whole life, so I'm pretty comfy with that. Fuck being normal, bro. And fuck Dave! May the good bangs and swole gains be with you as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 05:33 AM
21

Head nod of approval, golf clap.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 05:07 AM
12

The only kind of overt communication with women should be for 1) texting logistics for sex, 2) ordering her what to do during sex and 3) departure. "Come over if you want, I'm just chilling at home. Bring some food if you can." "Get on your knees. Open your mouth." "You gonna get an Uber?" The better you are at this, the less you have to communicate overtly.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 04:58 AM
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To clarify my point, if Christina was attractive and communicated overtly to me she wanted to fuck, I'd be down with that. Am I risking my friendship with Dave along with our mutual friends? Absolutely. But as far as probability goes, Dave nor any of our mutuals will never find out. And even he does, I honestly don't care. Am I a shitty friend? Again, I don't care. Some may see this as the fucked-up-ness of this kind of sexual strategy, but I just see it as amorality, because it is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 04:44 AM
2

You're becoming a young man now. Try not to let him influence your emotions. Hell, if living with him becomes unbearable, find another place to live, whether that's with friends or family.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:04 AM
8

Try it, take up acting classes for a year, let us know what you've learned.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:02 AM
1

You have to be already searching on your own in order to understand and apply trp. Everyone has the internet on their phones. Either let them find their own way or risk ending the friendship by giving them a copy of The Rational Male and just let them be.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:03 PM
5

It's the natural next step for all of us here. We're not just a subreddit or a forum, not just to help men get laid and see truths hiding in plain sight, but to help out fellow men IRL. Blood boils at the thought of a 18 year old young dude getting fucked for the rest of his life because some BPD twat changed her mind. edit: Here's one that actually has been around for awhile. Please check it out and support them https://www.innocenceproject.org/
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 09:33 AM
3

How can your smv be shit when you got none, son. Honestly tho, they know you're trying hard. And it's unattractive, even at a friendly level.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:37 AM
1

SAAAAAAAAAAA-vage
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:26 AM
1

lol but naw
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:26 AM
1

You've become my Number Three Merp.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:25 AM
4

"I think YOU are missing ME." "Next time you ask me this, it's anal night." "ssssh my gf will find out. o wait."
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:24 AM
7

Jesus Halo Christ. This is why I have to kill it with my business, set up a non-profit legal defense fund for these boys. Fuckin a.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 08:19 AM
1

Yes, draw that line with a fuckin diamond cutter. I don't know exactly how experienced you are with women. Get your sexual partner count to at least 10 before you even consider an LTR. When you get into one, write a contract to yourself with rules like "Never move in together" and other goodies from Iron Rules of Rollo Tomassi. I'd also add a time limit to that LTR, no matter how good it feels. 1 year is the max.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:38 AM
3

20% of marriage is sexless. I'd guess that at least another 30% would be starfish-duty-sex once every month or two. That means if you get married you would have at least a 75% chance of getting divorced or being sexually unfulfilled. Or how about 66% of all second marriages fail, 75% for third. These are the hard stats and truths that make TRP reality, not just a sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 07:31 AM
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I'd like to counter this. I've blown up my social circles either partially or fully multiple times: 1) moving from one coast to another, 2) getting married and not hanging out at all while staying home practically every night with my biploar wife (EX-wife now), 3) leaving the church and becoming a full fledged 666% happy pagan, and 4) actively de-friending once close friends IRL. I've learned valuable lessons from this: First, always be making new friends, meeting new people. Second, all friends…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 07:20 AM
1

I'm in college (2nd year) and I have a plate back home that's 17 (turning 18 soon) who is about a 8/10. I mean no disrespect, but I only read the first line. I'm in my late 30s. This is my honest-to-god best life advice for a man your age. You come first. Don't ever let anyone, especially girls, consume your mind. Sure, you want to fuck, you need to fuck, so get that vaj-goodness whenever you can. But to take up your priceless mental real estate?! Stop disrespecting yourself like that, my man. Y…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:04 AM
2

Good man. Cut down on screen time (phone, tablet, laptop, tv), up the IRL-meeting-people time. Books are nice too. Try "The Obstacle is The Way" by Ryan Holiday.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:58 AM
1

Focus on pussy, yes. Chase it? No, they're chasing me, actually. Sex is probably the most primitive and therefore the strongest motivator for a man to improve his life. You can throw in Money, Ego, and Fame into the mix, but I choose Sex. When I'm about to pussy out from doing the last bench press rep at the gym, I don't think of sports cars, my buddies wowing at my success, or getting interviewed by some important establishment. Banging the shit out of a Swedish HB9 21 year old is what crosses …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 06:55 AM
1

Like u/Rian_Stone said, your detailed post is nuanced. As I'm trying to get my own biz off the ground, I can empathize. But the nuance comes from action and experience. Many readers here do not act.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 06:45 AM
6

I'm in my late 30s. You want to know what I'm just realizing now? You have to find your own solutions to your problems. Sure, reading reddit may give you some things to try, there may be helpful books and caring people out there, but it's really up to you, my man. You gotta do more, try more, fail here and there, learn from your mistakes.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:32 AM
1

Good. Enjoy winning pointless fights with the staff at Planet Fitness.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:28 AM
4

It's a bit of a collective shit test / anti-slut-defense by women these days. It's slutty and unoriginal for a girl to say overtly she likes big muscles and abs. But it's cute and girl-next-door wholesome to say "i like dad bods" just like girls who pink tees that say "i love nerds."
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:26 AM
2

Pretty much this.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:23 AM
3

Nothing. Take the L and move on.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:22 AM
1

Adding to the good points here. If you ever want to test/build your frame, fucking call this mutherfucker, try to fuck with his head on the call. Maybe be the chill passive dude. "So you like her dude? Where you from? What's your name bruh?" Then five minutes into the convo, hit him with "So what kinda dicks you like to suck? I like thicc ones, how bout you?" Mischief can be so, so fun.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:21 AM
1

im 25 Jesus 16x Christ, I thought you were in high school. Delete this post and resubmit written like a man who respects himself.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:16 AM
2

You're the douche here, bruh. I despise people who treat working people poorly, even if they're bad at their job, it's a reflection of your own selfish character. You're not even the primary customer there, the athletes are. That working dude is the boss and it's his turf, as long as it's not unreasonable, his word is law. Stop forcing TRP concepts without thinking it through. The goal is to be able to use that dope-ass gym without being kicked out, now you've jeopardized it completely in the na…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:12 AM
1

I never be the man I want to be You gotta be fully--no, overly confident in yourself, whether you're in a room full of hb9's and swole neckless dudes or just alone in your bedroom. It's not just confidence. It's also peace, coolness, curiosity, drive, discipline, strong desire to live a fun, interesting and independent life. Reading the sidebar and interacting here is just the beginning.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:05 AM
0

to da windooooooow, to da WALL
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:01 AM
1

Practically the same line of thinking. Good on you, my dude.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:36 PM
1

You said you're a junior in HS? It's getting late, isn't it? If you haven't started already, look into colleges where you have the best chance as a walk on.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:19 PM
2

Bruh, I say that to myself all time. "It would be nice to bang again..." But as I got older and wiser, I added something to that line. "... but I won't thirst for it." I would only allow it to happen if she reached out first, came over to my place at a convenient time for me, with food and booze as a token of sincere hypergamic apology, fucked me until I had no more left in me, and left quietly after tidying up the apt a little.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:11 PM
6

Because they're more comfortable and experienced with their own sexuality and interacting with men.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:50 PM
5

Or try group text and invite both of them out to chill. The more I game, the more I realize I'm trying to find ones who want me, not the other way. Attraction isn't negotiable.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:38 PM
3

I'm late 30s and still working on social skills. Hang out as much as you can, to a point where you think you're hanging out too much. Always meet new people. Don't fuckin pussy out when you're only 20. Get out there.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:35 PM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:32 PM
0

Surprise surprise. A lot of girls get sexually turned off when men eat them out.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:28 PM
5

That's what I'm answering. Take the girl on an "Activity" date. If you lift often, take her to the gym and workout together, show her how to do the compound lifts.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:27 PM
2

Rural area is probably your biggest problem. You need to be in a city or at least close to one. Second, challenge yourself to NOT meet girls at bars. Do anything but that. Gym, yoga, rock climbing, kick boxing, or even just a walk along a river/lake. If you're good at any of these, you'll set yourself away apart from most dudes.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:16 PM
5

As soon as she was done blowing you, you should have told her "get a condom." Don't go down on bitches. And whenever you get LMR, just walk away, or at least pretend to.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:12 PM
1

The longer you're in an LTR, the more she makes you her beta. Attraction is not negotiable, neither is submission. She is simply following her hardwired programming, and you have been falling for it, drunk or not. Always the insecure ones getting trigger-happy with the defense.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:06 PM
0

To be alpha is to be the exception. Rules don't apply to you.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:55 PM
1

Surprise! When you become alpha, you get to the fuck the way you want. It's your way or no way.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:40 PM
1

Talk to anyone whenever you can. Make sure you make eye contact. Even saying hello on the street to strangers helps. Baby steps.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:38 PM
0

Translation: How do I become a better beta? If you can't imagine walking away from this LTR, you've become a prisoner of your own creation.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:36 PM
3

Standard bump in salary for new job is 20%. Standard bump in salary for same job (raise) is 3%.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:33 PM
1

Reach out to the guys you lost to. And see if college wrestlers are willing to help you out, even if it's just for one quick session.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:30 PM
1

No idea. But I reach out to people I don't know all the time. Most of them will not reply, nor will they be helpful. You just want guidance and training to get better. Spend the next 30 days reaching out to as many people as possible. Also study as much as you can online. Find training partners in your school or beyond it. You can't control the outcome but you can however control the effort.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:00 PM
2

This is the true value of asktrp.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 07:32 PM
1

You would rather suffer in failure because it's comfortable, familiar and it's just you. You don't want success with women. You don't need it. If that does not enrage you, stop wasting your time here.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 07:30 PM
1

Find the right people to help you. Practice and train with those better than you, and not just with those in your school. Find and reach out to coaches and other wrestlers in the area. Hang out with college wrestlers. Go to camps if you think it's worth it. Reach out to your own coach at your school and ask them for extra guidance.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 07:27 PM
6

One of the best things I've learned here is the difference between the natural states of both genders. Men need stability, women need drama. To take it a step further, stability helps men to do work and get things done, while drama helps women to be overwhelmed by emotions.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 09:30 PM
1

It happens. But it's also magnified if you don't have other options.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:58 AM
5

waiting Fuck waiting. I got things to see and people to do. for a messiah But what if I am God, tho? The throne is actually empty, has been empty and will forever be empty... unless I sit in it. to save society. Another bloopy dream, blue-ifying the red pill. Even if it is save-able, what good will it do for you? This is entering a socialist view of sexual strategy. Universal tradcon pussy/basic income for everyone!
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 05:07 AM
1

The red pill is you. Just like in Think and Grow Rich, the Secret is you.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 05:02 AM
40

I find cooking is a good mental work out. If that gets to be routine, then try making a nice dinner for a small group.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 07:14 AM
23

Or better yet: "Straight to fucking then?"
/r/askTRP06/02/18 10:46 PM
16

That train --your plate-- is long gone. I don't think you understand how far it is from you right now. It's never coming back. Actually, you have to decide that it's never coming back.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 06:18 AM
5

Consider taking a year off (gap year) and explore an apprenticeship that you make yourself. College was a mostly waste time for me (econ major, now starting a biz). I would rather learn on the job by doing and reading on my own. The ability and discipline to teach yourself is better than a degree.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 12:13 AM
5

Overly generous, friendly, charming men have a decent chance of being psycho/sociopathic. The nicer they are, more you should be wary of them. Let's call them Batemen, after Christian Bateman in The American Psycho. I'm not including women here because that's another topic. I'm not saying Batemen are a majority of "cool dudes," not even close to half. But having met a handful in my own lifetime and reflecting over the anecdotes I've heard, it occurs too often to neglect. Batemen are fanastic guy…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:32 PM
1

Best way to say no is to ignore.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:11 AM
1

Failure is the best teacher. Let him get wrecked, then maybe, if he's got half a brain and if he looks up to you, he'll ask you what he did wrong.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:10 AM
2

Be honest and open. Tell the prof in person that you'd like to work in the different lab and thank him/her for the guidance and mentorship. Nothing wrong with quitting and moving onto other jobs, a part of life. Good chance the prof will be happy for you but also sad to see you go.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:08 AM
10

Just send a short text ("hey we're done. don't contact me") then block her. Anything more is a waste of time. Move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:06 AM
1

Truth. I lived in one big city during my 20's, now in another big city on the opposite coast for my 30's. I can see myself living elsewhere again in several years.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:02 AM
1

Girls like when guys fondle their minds. Newbs will reply with, "But how?" TRP: Lift. Start with that. Newbs: That's too hard. What else? When provided concrete actionable items, they'll say it's too hard. When provided abstract ideas, they'll say it's too hard. Point is, you have to be already red-pilled to get red pill. More than understanding women, you need to know what it takes to overcome personal life hurdles. Doing well in school, physical fitness, building an enviable career, making goo…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:00 AM
3

What example do we set for society when we go along with this type of behavior as men and partake in spoils? Great, honorable behavior as men... no one gives a shit about it, friend. I was once the beta described here and I loved doing moronic beta gestures for women because I was "being a man" and doing something about someone I wanted to get to know. Perception is reality. The beta fully believes he is doing a great, honorable thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 01:46 AM
10

So why do women do it? Not to mention busting through their shit tests turns them on. A well-placed "SHUT THE FUCK UP" will give them the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 01:38 AM
6

I second this. Don't ever let customers break your frame.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 08:20 AM
1

I'm glad that I found trp in my 30s. In my 20s I haven't failed enough to learn and I sense a lot of men here need that sort of life-changing cringey failures to be able to really learn and improve.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 05:30 PM
3

she has a mattress she needs to move Sex and sexual companionship (pillow talk). That's all. Anything beyond that, you're in danger of orbiting.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:40 PM
7

Thank you for your service. I never served, but I always enjoy hearing all kinds of stories from those who did, whether it's combat, paper pushing or flying a desk. I'm waiting to recommend it to my nephews who are middle/upper middle class as that would break them out of their bubble.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:30 PM
3

Go after her, you idiot. Then come back here again after you hit rock bottom. You haven't failed enough yet.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:03 PM
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Not as butthurt as you will be. Don't drop the soap, rapist asshat.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:49 PM
0

keep getting LMRs ego gets in the way look in the mirror I'm not the ugly, desperate mofo that finally gets into Club VaJayJay after four no-no's by the Big Bad LMR bouncer. You are, you borderline rapist dickface.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 07:39 PM
3

The option to walk away is both power and freedom. If you do not possess this option, believe you do not possess it, or simply cannot exercise it, you are a slave.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 07:25 PM
9

A cheerful "Thanks!" and go on your way. Frame is internal, first and foremost. You are no longer a "pretty ugly guy" but a fucking gift from God to women. Irrational confidence from within. "There are no ugly people. Only lazy or disciplined."
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:41 AM
1

The Church of Dojo. Looking forward to worshipping there in the near future.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:36 AM
3

Invite her over to your place. If shes not okay with that, then hard next. Block her.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 12:12 AM
1

Restraining order? Pfffff. We're all in jail. Fuckin noob.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 12:09 AM
60

gentlemen doesn't discuss such things Polite and gentle. how is that ANY of your biz Firm counter-offensive. just who do you think you are Implication of ending the relationship. I admire the gradual increase. Fucking veteran moves.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 12:07 AM
8

The key is SHE DOES THIS ALL ON HER OWN. Realizing you have a sufficiently higher smv than her own, she has to do all these in hopes of you will keep banging her. She admits her pussy alone will not keep you around.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 11:51 PM
14

after 3-4 attempts Here's my rule on LMR: She gets one token resistance, that's all. Just one. Anything more, I'm putting my pants back on and asking her if she needs an Uber (kicking her out) or ordering one (kicking myself out). Sure, she might cave in after 2 or 3 attempts but I'm almost 40. Fuck that LMR bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 11:22 PM
2

she might think I'm acting weird if i don't talk to her this week This is your bluepill neediness trying to justify reaching out to her. Don't. You had sex --or close to it-- with her. Now it's all about that, nothing else. Does this change anything? No. You and her are no longer just ex co-workers but now hooked up partners. Maybe it was a one time thing, maybe more. Again, don't reach out to her until next week. I'd say text her mid-day and ask her "plans tonight?" and go from there. Text only…
/r/askTRP02/01/18 10:51 PM
2

I'm thinking about starting a consulting business. When it's time to start hiring, my first 20 hires will not be employees but sub-contractors who have to figure out the their own problems at work (I can't tell or order a non-employee how to do the work) and they have pay for their own expenses. Fuck this metoo at workplace shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 09:59 PM
1

I have one plate right now. I see her usually every other weekend, but occasionally within a week or up to 3 weeks apart. It seems to be a good rhythm for both of us, been going for a few months. I knew I definitely had this one as a plate when I checked in with her after the first time and she replied she wanted more soon. For you OP I'd say next week but she may reject because it's a school. Don't text her til then. See if she rejects but with a counter offer. That's a good sign.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 09:49 PM
1

Let it go. Dime a dozen. Women don't care much for less-than-stellar-smv men when there's very little in terms of mutual friends.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 09:17 PM
5

Check in with her in a week or two. "Hey what are you up to tonight." That will determine if she's up to being plated. Weekend is ideal. Remember, text only for logistics.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 09:14 PM
33

The Church of Steel. Come worship.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 09:03 PM
2

Fantastic find and analysis. Top 10% gets 58% of likes. As a 5'7" Asian American man still trying to gain muscle mass, I'm glad I wrote off all dating apps.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 07:57 PM
1

For those on the fence about having kids, check out the childfree sub. Also look on YouTube "Doug Stanhope on Overpopulation." I myself don't have kids and considering getting snipped soon.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 09:27 AM
1

Women's state of being defers to their circumstance, especially who they're with. If they're with a positive man with status, then they're also positive. Women generally lack the mental point of origin, which is why it's hard to find a woman who's independant and happy. Men are born to be leaders, content and independent. However this is rare given the culture and bluepill neediness in most men. The danger of this sort of thinking here lies within gender superiority. It may cultivate an unhealth…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 09:11 AM
3

Tattoo "I am a rapist" on your forehead. Acts a disclaimer. Live free, slay all.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 07:12 AM
15

First, this is fucking great! On the other hand, FFS.
/r/MensRights20/12/17 07:09 AM
2

I'm in my late 30s and thinking of getting a vasectomy within a few years. Would like to hear your thoughts on why you want to have children. I'm 80% sure I don't.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:23 AM
4

Here's one tip for those trying to shed off social dead weight: Move. Around age 30 I moved from one big city to another thousands of miles away. Best decision of my life. Nothing resets your life like relocation. Once you arrive at the new city and get your job/work set up, you have to be disciplined in regularly meeting people to make new friends, colleagues, acquaintances and plates. Eat only fresh kill. Don't go digging through the trash.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 02:42 AM
2

Suffer from the pain of discipline, or the pain from lack thereof.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 10:58 AM
10

Prepare for the worst. Make sure you have a contingency plan.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 07:10 AM
2

Underrated advice. It's surprising how so few here really understand the gravity of #metoo culture. If I get a rape or sexual assault accusation I would immediately lawyer up, prepare for criminal charges, and also sue the bitch for every penny her family has. If a coworker is overtly demanding sex from me, I would either quit and/or lawyer up. Getting on the registered sex offender list is practically a death sentence.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:29 AM
1

Try running a meritocracy at the workplace especially if you're in tech and/or you have a small amount of females. Watch how they burn you at the stake. Think as you wish, but act like the rest.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:42 PM
12

I'm not going to jail because a woman had a feeling. Smh. Or even ending up as a registered sex offender. Think about how fucked up that is, when they don't even have a list for murderers. I read about a high school kid who on a dare streaked naked across field during a pep rally-- everyone lost their mind laughing so hard. The school admin didn't; he ended up on Fucking Registered Sex Offender List. And he killed himself soon after.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:02 AM
2

that you possess the compassion necessary to consider her needs during the impending slam session I'm still learning this. Balance of tenderness and domination.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:50 AM
1

They are good at hiding shit because they're getting what they want... for now...
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:47 AM
5

Introducing the LTR-S model.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:44 AM
1

Because we're all the product of cavemen who rubbed it out in the bushes, not the ones banged every cave girl he's seen, even going as far as invading tribes next door and raping theirs, right?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:43 AM
0

"I'm beyond sex" dude here in a sexual strategy forum. Gtfo.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:40 AM
8

I love CK's work but he is a fucking idiot with this sexual misconduct scandal. Don't shit where you eat, don't do weird shit to women you're not fucking, and if you must, hire pro's. I think actually a female comedian said the last thing on Joe Rogan's podcast, that if only CK had hired a pro -- who would probably be only happy to "help" him by watching him jerk off -- this whole incident would be non existent. Value yourself. Trust, but also verify. Make sure both you and her are having fun in…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 06:06 AM
12

Even if you do have that kind of coin, don't fuckin flash it. Just asking for trouble.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:56 AM
3

Thanks for sharing. Shit, that is just awful and pure evil. I suppose it is a matter of picking your own poison when a female coworker aggressively pursues you for sex: quit the job or gamble and see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:50 AM
1

Lol I should look into dash cams. I was thinking about using the latest GoPro along with my recorder app.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:42 AM
1

If I record a night with a plate, instead of one file that's 8 hours long, it would be 24 files of 20 minutes each, thus making chapters. Easier to move the file and the recording can stop at a chapter when storage and/or battery runs out. They have it for desktop software, but I don't think they have this on any free Android apps yet. When I get up to pee in the night, I usually make sure to turn off the app.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:36 AM
1

I was told to go straight for the pussy grab.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:16 AM
4

Not that easy, cowboy. There's At-Will employment, plus starting workplace sexual harrassment lawsuit for a MAN will cost a lot. Easy 25k retainer for staters.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:13 AM
1

I've just begun storing audio files on my cloud. Just wished the recording app would make chapters on its own.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:09 AM
3

Also sleep in your own bed comfortably by yourself. That alone is a huge consolation prize for me.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:08 AM
14

You know what else is ridiculous? No women will come out to accuse a dead guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:07 AM
2

Fun flirting and overt demand sex are very different, son. Imagine a female coworker pulling you into the supply closet and pulling your pants to suck your dick and it's Tues 10:30am. Yea, just take that like a man. Along with the firing from the job and civil lawsuit against you. But if you're a nice beta boy, so don't worry, this will never happen to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:00 AM
1

Good. Get busy living or get busy living dying. Men with less than you and shorter than you have lived like kings with their fortunes and charisma built from scratch. Either build yourself to become better or forget that you ever found this sub. Or just off yourself. I recommend a .45 right in between your eyes.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:45 AM
15

you don't know who's crazy before it's too late. No, I disagree. Once you train your bullshit detector, it's easier to see it and deal with it. Examples: she doesn't follow thru on big promises, has convenient excuses, has difficult people in her life (usually dad, mom, ex), demands attention aggressively, plays the victim, etc. Like the frog getting boiled in the kettle over a long time, it's hard to detect crazy/bpd if you get complacent and if you lack frame. Also put yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:35 AM
3

Please submit a post for us. I'm genuinely curious what her professional opinions are.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:27 AM
6

Maybe just act like a normie / pussy beta boy to women in the work place.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:24 PM
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I don't agree with that approach, especially if the woman is crazy enough to demand sex from a co-worker. She's bound to blow up. Consulting with a lawyer who handles workplace sexual harrassment may be warranted.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 08:50 PM
2

The truth is sicker than fiction.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 08:45 PM
31

Then what do you suggest if a female coworker is demanding sex?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 08:42 PM
34

Plates and short term LTRs are the way to go. But always practice caution. As long as you don't fuck with crazy/bpd, you should be fine.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 08:10 PM
2

Excellent point. For myself I just want to know what's imagineable, because if I can imagine what I can be, then I will try to make it and become it myself. I don't care what kind of a man there is on the other end. I'm still gonna go over his story with scrutiny.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/17 11:24 PM
2

Just be professional about it. Next time she does it, respond gently but firmly "Please use a respectful tone with me. I know I am more junior than you but I am here to work and I will not be disrespected without cause." I did something like that in my first corporate job and that person walked on egg shells whenever I was around since then. Word got around and people gave me a high five later. It may feel awkward as hell confronting someone directly to their face but after you do it a few times…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:24 PM
0

1 year of lifting consistently 3 times a week will give you massive beginner gains. Hell, even 2 months of that and you will feel the difference. Stronglifts5x5 is pretty good for beginners. I find YouTube has some decent info, but as with anything you gotta find content that's right for you. Don't worry too much about diet. Just go easy on the junk food and processed stuff. Get some protein powder and make a shake every morning or after every workout. Main point is there is too much to learn an…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:20 PM
1

"Hi! Where you from?" Just be friendly, energetic, and don't be afraid to talk into their ear / allow them to talk into yours as it may be loud.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:14 PM
5

The biggest problem I have with having and raising kids is in my old age I'll be obsessed about them calling and visiting me. Yea, that's gonna be a no for me, dog. And yes to having doggies.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:56 PM
1

Great points and thanks for challenging my theory. To be more precise, there's a difference between natural and trained alphas. Basically it's the difference between unconscious and conscious competence. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_stages_of_competence The natys don't even know what they're doing to pull in women, they just know. This is probably what you mean by standard alpha. The trained ones are most of us here, trying to learn and hack our way into high smv. The downside of natys i…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 09:19 PM
1

Before red pill, I knew a few truths from my own experiences: Sex within 4 dates or it's never gonna happen. Buy her dinner, drinks, gifts-- the nicer you are, the less she's into you. Text only to set up the next meet. Set up dates never work. Easier to work on a new girl than a familiar one. There are patterns. If you choose not to live without noticing and studying these patterns, sure, whatever floats your boat. But you are here, you're curious. And you want to be spoon fed without the so ca…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 05:57 AM
1

"Hello. How are you?"
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:48 AM
1

Yeah, nope. Moving on.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:47 AM
1

You probably have genetics to grow a little taller. Don't fuck it up. Make sure you're eating right and often. You have to eat constantly, don't worry about getting fat for now. Sleep a lot, too. Don't worry about going to the gym or adding bulk/muscles right now, that can come later, around 20 to 22. So just eat and sleep and workout a little. I'm in my late 30s and I'm a whopping 173cm. If you were my nephew I would literally beat you to make sure you would do these things so you can grow tall…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:46 AM
5

Please don't reproduce.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:39 AM
2

Keep trying every day for a year and let us know how it goes in another wall of text-vomit.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:37 AM
-1

I'm also quietly critical of him, not just 'cause he's married but he doesn't seem like a guy who lifts. For that matter, the sidebar doesn't seem to have significant reading material on lifting and masculine fitness.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:36 AM
4

Lol thanks. Didn't bother reading.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:34 AM
1

So these are top engineer/tech positions? Then be the consummate problem solver. For each company write down a list of potential problems and potential solutions -- but good questions just might be enough. It's also important not to say too much.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:33 AM
6

Married for short time, no kids. My ex made a similar apology a couple of times. Just a confessional to make herself feel better, that's all. Good on you for maintaining frame and keeping the focus on the kids. It shows that her email was just fluff, for her own good, not yours.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:30 AM
2

Late 30s checking in. I realize I don't need friends to have fun. Do I need a drink at a bar and just chill? Great, then I have a few places I frequent and the staff are always happy to see me (except for one chick, she knows I'm an asshole and I love bothering her). Usually I make new friends at these places. There's always a party/event or two every week. So that can fill up my time quickly. You don't need to be with cool people. Just try to be active, even if it's by yourself.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:26 AM
1

Only in America. Cultural self victimization. Back home, it's a level playing field.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 04:51 AM
4

Asian women are hyper sexual, too. Don't let that coy shy conversative bullshit fool you. No one is forcing Japanese women to make all that porn, the Chinese chicks to give those handjobs at massage spas. Even if they are forced into that sort of work, good chance they actually enjoy it. If not, they can easily get an accounting job.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 04:49 AM
1

Interesting. Never heard of the eye contact going on in yoga. What kind of yoga is that?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:14 AM
1

I have unused condoms older than that boy. But I'll shamelessly admit some people ARE just better than me. I just don't agree with OP. Get it straight. And some people will never improve in certain areas because nature / fate / hardwire / genetics / paradigm / self victimization / ego.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:33 PM
0

19? Son, you're still becoming a man, still getting hard wired.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 09:12 PM
5

It's not so easily reversed-engineer-able. Just because you've read Greene's books a few times doesn't make you a Machiavellian Mastermind. The ones who are good at that shit do it without knowing. It's why PUA classes usually don't work. You can raise your SMV, you can chisel your body to be like Arnold, but changing your social interaction is almost impossible. Think I'm wrong? Try holding eye contact with strangers next time at a public space without breaking. If you find this easy, you've go…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 08:10 PM
21

If you haven't overcome a huge obstacle like addiction, suicidal depression, graduating at the top of your class, selling out shows as a rockstar, starting and running a profitable business, or working as a well-respected professional for more than 10 years, then you have no idea what it's like to be alpha / high smv. Gender dynamics is just another landscape, another system to be solved and broken through. It takes time, discipline, networking, humility, confidence, critical understanding, and …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 08:03 PM
1

Good stuff. You won't always get the right results even if you make the right decisions. Slight chance you may have jumped the gun on setting next meet in the same evening but if she was into you, she would've showed positive response, like offering another evening. Try coffee dates on Saturday afternoons. Usually people are free then and it can easily transition into dinner and drinks, which works for me.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:24 AM
-5

So you're saying your city's gay bars is the glitch in the matrix. Boys, pack your bags, we don't need this trp shit no more. /s
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 01:45 AM
1

I live in a big liberal city. Gay bars are usually run by gay people and bouncers usually don't let straight people in. Even if they do, imagine two small white chicks dancing next to a 6'4 black crossdresser in 7" platform heels giving them the stink eye. Gay dudes are ruthless.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 01:00 AM
54

"I'm just here to dance with my girlfriends." If true, girls-only clubs and bars would not only be a thing, they would do really well.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:02 AM
1

The condescension is to filter out the idiots who love their ego more than learning. Guess it worked here.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 07:53 PM
37

Some women literally forget about the sex they had just weeks ago. I mean, I thought I was okay, but damn that hurt my ego.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 03:32 PM
1

The big gap between "next week for sure" and "how about Friday" is bigger than the one in your two front teeth, asshat.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 03:01 PM
1

Tell that "in this particular situation" shit to noobs here and they will salivate at the next chance to bend over backwards for their unicorn women. Get busy fucking or get busy nexting.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 03:55 AM
1

Then tell me why, bitch.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:09 AM
2

To what degree are these a cult? ... Vegans ... Investment Bankers ... Body builders, powerlifters, crossfit douches. ... People with kids telling people without kids to have kids (check out childfree sub)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 05:28 AM
10

https://www.mwl-law.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/LAWS-ON-RECORDING-CONVERSATIONS-CHART.pdf In the USA if you live in a one party consent state, record always. If you don't, you need to look up your state law. You might get into legal trouble if you get caught just by recording without consent. Even if you are in a two/all party consent state, when you're in altercation like this, ask permission to record the conversation. "Ma'am, do I have your permission to record our conversation?" Ask befor…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:17 AM
3

these marriages are more prone to divorce (Raises hand): Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 03:17 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 11:46 PM
1

Let it go. Not your job to help men who won't help themselves. If you try, he will probably resent you.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 11:44 PM
6

Is she sitting close to you? See if you can, without leaning over, put a hand on her leg right above the knee. See if she withdraws. If she doesn't, continue to escalate.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 11:41 PM
1

We can't make you go to the gym.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 11:06 PM
-1

No. This is about sexual strategy, not about how to make you not be a loser. Own your shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:47 PM
2

Have you fucked them? If not, do not assume they're attracted to you. Like the other commentor here said, set up a meet and see if they come.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:45 PM
3

If you're new here, one strike you're out. No exceptions. If a girl says no or has some vague response like you've wrote, let that shit go. The point is to learn to move on quickly, avoid oneitis, meet and game as many as possible. If you got no girls to hit on, then get out there and meet new ones. Eat what you kill.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:43 PM
1

Good stuff. There are always a few topics I want to share about on here but I realize the good ones here already know it and the bad ones will fight you no matter how right you are. Trim the fat, always. I usually save good posts and re-read slowly later. Gotta let that critical thinking kick in.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:38 PM
16

There was a great post awhile ago comparing awalt to how handle guns: All Guns Are Loaded. You just assume they are, because imagine what happens if you assume the chamber is empty when it isn't.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:30 PM
10

I call it Instruction Porn. Many of you are not here to learn, you're here to be entertained and mentally whack off to the attention and advice given, good or bad.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:22 PM
3

Lifting leads to discipline and discipline leads to freedom.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:21 PM
15

Busting all shit tests and LMR with just one word. Brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:09 AM
8

I'm so glad I live in one-party consent state for recording audio. I hit the record button on the voice recorder app on my phone every time I'm with a girl alone at her or my place. I also check in with them the next morning and screen cap her response.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:00 AM
1

Like the other commentor said, you're fine. Just keep busting her shit/comfort tests. Don't ever respond on her level, maintain your frame and always be ridiculous.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:56 AM
1

If you look like John Cena, no problem. If you look like Harvey, you're fucked.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:53 AM
1

Fuckin saved this. Respect, Doctor.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:05 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:03 AM
1

If you made out, the next meeting is at her or your place. "I'll be home cooking a nice meal Wednesday. Let me know if you're coming. Bring wine." End of story.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:55 AM
1

You are your only teacher. Take a step out of yourself, ask "How can I teach this young idiot how to _______?" What can you start right now to get there?
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:49 AM
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You need to step away from Reddit, YouTube, etc. Try meditation daily, use an app like headspace. You're in this rut because you have nothing else interesting going on in your life. Pick up new hobbies like dancing or a team sport. Write a list of what you always wanted to do and do one of them tomorrow. Life is too short for this bullshit of second guessing yourself.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/17 08:46 AM
1

Delete tinder. Approach and game girls IRL. Your rate of success will probably be higher this way.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:40 AM
1

Just gotta keep doing new things. It gets better.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:37 AM
1

Understand that what you're feeling is completely natural and okay. It's how you react to it that defines you as a man. You may need a little insight and observation from a rp pov, that's all. But if you're gonna be a butthurt violent bloopie, go all the way. Go to the friend's place and kick his ass. Bring a buddy with you to record it. Do something or let it go.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:32 AM
2

I say do it. You'll probably fail anyways, so just swing for the fences. Don't even ask her out for a date, throw a little party at your place and invite her over, tell her to bring friends.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:12 AM
2

If you're young enough -- still in high school -- join a sports team.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:10 AM
1

You are the reason you're unhappy, all internal, not from something or someone. You gotta do more, push boundaries. Maybe quit your job, sell everything, and travel the world for awhile.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:10 AM
1

Assuming you're big enough for the job. Do it for the experience and to learn. I'm sure the money won't be great and your basically putting your body on the line if hell breaks loose (but probably nothing will ever happen). But if you want to see the behind-the-scenes of the night life / clubbing world, then go for it. It will definitely be a nice change of pace compared to your day job.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:07 AM
4

In other words, unconscious competence. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_stages_of_competence
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:03 AM
3

First meet you make out. By the third meet you're banging. If there's no kino by end of second meet, then all bets are off and you move on. A girl being flirty is like a dog wagging its tail, doesn't mean nuthin'. Wake up.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:58 AM
4

Didn't read. Only saw length of post. For your own sake, OP, hard next. Delete all her info. Move the fuck on. Find new girls.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:12 PM
0

If you live a cool, interesting life, then maybe.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:46 AM
4

Nice move on the "Let's figure out how I know you." Playful but persistent. Such an easy opener but it's all a matter of reading and nudging along gently.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 06:27 AM
8

Most men with wealth enough to create self reliance do some form of this. Building a home on a quiet beach, relocating to another country with cheaper housing and warmer climate, living on a boat or in an rv full time. It will be interesting to use exchanges like this to further advance the tribalism of Advanced MGTOW/trp. The Walking Dead isn't too far from fiction after all.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 06:22 AM
1

You haven't lifted to a point where you begin to see improvement and thus get hooked. Protein powder, good diet and rest, so on. You also see how most men look skinnyfat and thus lack frame.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:46 PM
1

Pretty much this.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:43 PM
8

There's sexual strategy and there's life mission. This sub exists to help you with the former, not the latter. However, because most subs, forums, and communities are filled with blue pill lies, this exchange becomes a de facto big brother to help young men here (and in asktrp) on how to live as a strong and self made man. I'm close to 40 and I'm pretty sure I'm not going to have kids, so I think about what I'm going to contribute and give, especially to fellow men who are ready, willing and abl…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 10:14 PM
2

Get her number at the end of class next time. Then just wait for the term to be over. Don't meet her before it's over. That's weird. Once you're done with the class and grades are in, text her to meet up.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:04 AM
4

I didn't give a fuck about the outcome, Yet you are here, asking for advice about how to get her back. Call it plate, side plate, top dish, whatevers. You want her back. Oneitis. Let that shit go, it's mental masturbation / revenge porn. Find new plates, push your boundaries, challenge yourself. If you were having sexy time with others, you wouldn't be so thirsty for this one.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:02 AM
-7

Just ignore it for now. Or maybe "cool" or "k" Text her when you're free to see her, to set up logistics (time/place) only.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 07:56 AM
3

Fucking real. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 06:19 AM
1

Try this dating app. It's called IRL. I use it all the time, works for me since I'm ugly too.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 06:17 AM
0

Good on you for being honest. If you want her around as a plate, then give it at least two days to respond. Let that shit stew in her mind. Give her time to make her wonder, worry and stress over what you are thinking. This may let her to believe you DGAF and/or have other options (which you do). Your stock price in her mind will rise. Once you decide it's time to text her, make your message short, clear and instructional. Something like: "That's cool. I'm free tmrw night. Come over."
/r/askTRP09/11/17 06:16 AM
1

This is why I go for girls even if they say they have a bf. Don't ever use the word date. Just hang out, drinks, talk. Ideally at my place.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 04:52 AM
1

No distinction. They're the same for me.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 08:04 PM
4

I'm almost 40. Friendship mattered to me so much in my 20s. But now I just see to people as companions, someone to hang out with, to share stories over drinks, to help out on occasion, to celebrate together. People will disappoint you eventually. We're all looking out for ourselves first. Hell, even you OP proved your own selfishness in this post. It is what it is. Accept that and you will appreciate people better.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:21 AM
1

Amen.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:16 AM
-1

Yea. We should all be on the look out for such rare girls.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:11 AM
2

Touch it with your dick. Tell us how it feels.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:20 PM
2

Elevate your SMV. It will take time, but that has a dual effect: you'll be a better man in better shape and you won't have to work as much to get women.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:46 PM
2

solid 3-4 hours Yea, that's why your mom had a hard time walking the next day, son.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 07:09 PM
0

I'm wondering if the implosion in Hollywood may happen in the media as well. Not for sex but for the incompetence. Probably not.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:09 PM
5

As a relationship progresses, why does sex go down and drama go up? Why is being with a woman so hard when you as the boyfriend/husband is loving, caring, faithful, sensitive and everything else positive for her? The universality of human evolutionary biology stings. Women have dual sexual strategy: They want to fuck physically strong men and yet be provided for by a weaker man for survival and social purposes. I hope this post gets a lot of attention. It's things like this that led me to trp.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:04 PM
1

You have trp here, sidebar, countless links to blogs & books. You need someone here to eat the pussy for you, son? Stop being a little bitch and try something for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:42 AM
-1

"Just with the dorky ones."
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:48 PM
10

Hot and cold, hot and cold. You can't just keep kino/cuddling. You gotta let that shit cool off, then re-start.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:45 PM
4

Your mom hasn't told you about me? Sorry, I couldn't help it.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:21 PM
9

I thought you were all right. Now I see you're the Planet Fitness of Red Pill. Remember, boys: Maintain frame, always, especially if a troll like GLO is attacking you. And never counter with unproveable "evidence" such as your wife giving you roadhead. O railly bru? pics or gtfo
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 05:28 PM
6

Her: "What are you looking at?" Me: "Your tits." If I was beta, I'm a creep. If I'm alpha, I just turned her on. To be alpha is to be the exception.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:58 PM
-1

I see TRP as a forum explaining strategy, but it's up to each man to figure out tactics. First, build smv and frame, everything else shouldn't be that hard. If you still find it difficult, your SMV/frame is weak.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:39 PM
6

Show them your dick, that's totes Alfa bruh.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:30 PM
16

And the change/improvement you do get, women you already know probably won't care. They're more drawn to a finished product, not work in progress. You'll be better off going for new targets rather than old stale ones.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:29 PM
1

You have to be alpha or at least alpha-in-the-making in order to get trp. Paradoxical in logic, but true in reality. If you need answers to questions like... How do I get with this girl that I really like? What should I do with my life? Do I really need to lift heavy weights? How do I deal with this drama with LTR/family/friends? ... then you're not ready for trp. This is sexual strategy for men. It's not a religion -- we're not here to give you a spiritual mission in life. It's not a lifestyle …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 12:29 PM
3

Provide specifics in a new asktrp post.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:20 AM
6

Time to toss out the useless plate and find a new one (or two). Next time, don't hint. Tell her to get on her knees and put your hand on her head. Guide her with your hand. If you must say something, order her.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:37 AM
1

It's just a transaction. Enjoy it for what it is. Nothing more.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:36 AM
4

She showers me Sweet. with compliments Oh, fuck that! Skimmed thru the comment thread here and I also believe either she comes over your place or bust. "Hey I'm free tmrw night. Come over." It's something like this or next.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:33 AM
2

Piggy backing on this great comment: OP, sleep with at least ten women before considering an LTR. Your emotions are sabotaging you right now. Do everything on your time table, not other's.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:29 AM
3

Power is the option to walk away.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:25 AM
1

I agree with this. If you ever have to explain the relationship dynamics with a woman, you've got bigger issues.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:24 AM
2

weird because RA Good, that means you have at least some status. But that shouldn't stop you from hanging out with her. "Let's hang out sometime. I'm free next Fri night." Start with a line like this.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:23 AM
3

No you are not trying to improve. You don't have options with women so you are clinging onto this one. Accept what has happened, move on. Stop being a little bitch.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:20 AM
5

Well, at least it's a good shit post.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:19 AM
3

Learn how to stand out. Figure out the system and use it to your advantage. Don't just go to college because everyone is doing it, have a plan for post-hs and execute it.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:18 AM
2

Sidebar is all you need. You sound young and inexperienced. Best to go out, try, fail, learn, repeat.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:15 AM
2

I find the ones in a professional career track -- doctors, lawyers, cpa's, professors -- tend to be more selective in many facets of their lives, with partners, friendships, how they spend their free time, even how much they party (or how much less). They've got more to lose if they fuck up, even if it's in their personal life. Awalt? Sure, but if I had to pick a plate I'd go for the one in dental school, not the dental hygienist.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 08:32 PM
1

I was just gonna say, you need to hire an anti seo specialist. basically bury your name.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:47 AM
26

Congrats to RedGoldSaint and a hearty applause to all the mods. Thank you for not compromising and staying true to the message. I respect how this sub is ran also in a true trp way.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 08:46 PM
1

For those on the fence about having kids, check out the childfree sub.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 06:34 PM
4

High smv = Yes, speak out occassionally and tactfully. Mid / building smv = Be aware of it. Learn to protect yourself. Low SMV = No one likes whiney neckbeard "We are victyms!!" niceguys.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 06:20 PM
1

After ten years of trying your way, I dared myself to step it up, go for the ridiculous. You try it my way, son. No more dates. Fuck her on the zero date.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 05:18 PM
2

I wonder if back in the cavemen days TRP then would be like "you gotta tie up your females or they gonna run away."
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 05:48 PM
1

Boyfriend can mean a lot of different things, sometimes it's just a shit test.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:13 PM
12

At a house party just for shits and giggles I cranked out 50 push-ups. My female friend then squeezed my upper arm out of intrigue, while her husband was right next to her. I thought she was a friend, she's married too, never realized she could make me feel dirty like that. #youneedalicensetohandletheseguns
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 07:44 PM
4

It's not the actual discovery of women's possessions that drives her but just the thought of it, since she clearly sees you as a high in-demand alpha.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:18 PM
10

An EC called me a shitlord. My job is done here.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 04:36 PM
3

Under fucking rated. College grad here, essentially starting a biz from a trade.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:51 PM
3

My game lives and dies with exactly this "down the road" boomerang. Sort of a one-size-fits-all thing, even works for those with SO's. Sometimes it takes months or even a year to close, but considering I spent zero money and just a little time texting back and forth in total, it's worth it. Seeds been planted, let's see if they grow fruit for The Farmer.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 11:44 AM
3

Ah, let me correct: Dating is dead to me. Too much pressure on her True, I forgot about that.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 11:32 AM
3

Damn, that is an insanely insightful breakdown of my kind of game. Once I'm over their place I've had girls who would suddenly get frozen, looking down, but still sitting closely next to me. Then I would grab their chin and move in. They were unbearably tense the whole time waiting for me to initiate.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 11:27 AM
5

Good point, something to consider and adjust.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 11:19 AM
8

Dating is dead. I'd rather let her know of my intentions sooner than later. If it means I failed here, so be it. Edit: She was down to meet, you're right. But meeting isn't what I want, fucking is.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 07:08 AM
2

same goals Absol-fucking-utely not. MGTOW is done with women, sees them as the enemy. Not long ago an EC (was it GayLubeOil?) wrote a piece about them renaming Men SENT Their Own Way. No one wants low SMV men anyways. Bunch of whiners. Men's Rights are a bit bigger, more general group, not exactly just MGTOW, but still some premium whiners here too. Some women are involved, too. The two groups above may bring more attention to the hardships of men, but they are NOT looking to improve themselves.…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:58 AM
2

Fuck yes. I actually do this to my plates/LTRs. I just like bear hugging and licking, which makes them think twice before calling me a boy. Edit: Peeing on them? Nope. Well, not in public.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:42 AM
2

Sure, fuck it, why not. Always start with disagreeing but make sure you don't lose. Get her upset, but just a little. And smile a big dumb grin each time. This shit-test buster is called Disagree and Amplify. You can also do the opposite, which is Agree and Amplify. They're both good exercises for maintaining frame. Even just as an experiment, try one way with one girl/plate. Remember, the point isn't to disagree or agree. It's to amplify, make it ridiculous, use IDGAF liberally.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:40 AM
1

Raising SMV doesn't mean just lifting. It also means people are constantly inviting you out to their party, event, etc. Women are checking in on you. Not to mention the things you want to do on your own anyways. High SMV / alpha / frame means you're just as content to stay home, chill, watch TV, cook, read a book or do whatever that makes you happy, even if it's alone. Or if you're restless like me, I have a few bars I hit up and just make small talk with the bartenders and patrons there.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:34 AM
11

With the biggest grin ever: "You don't mess with low life's? How do you live with yourself then?"
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:28 AM
2

I think age 23 to 27 is the hardest for men. You're getting out of the college scene so it's harder to meet and hit on college girls. Girls just out of college and into their late 20s don't want to meet guys in this age -- they want guys getting serious in their career and with some life experience, so SMV pretty much. You're 23 so maybe you can still get to know local college girls, but you'd have to work the social scene first, as social pre-selection helps a lot. Overall don't be like most gu…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:21 AM
3

1) Stop reading TRP. It will only mess with your head. 2) Be a gentleman for the event. 3) Dance like an idiot but have fun. Observe and learn. 4) Talk to as many people as possible. Don't worry about getting contact info for now, young Padawan.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:12 AM
5

If this is a shit post, then it's good one.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:09 AM
2

Your response should be "cool" and continue. Get her contact info. Don't say the word "date" but just "meet" for drinks.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:08 AM
7

Pretty much. She didn't bother to counter offer with something like "If you can make an hour earlier first round is on me." It's either a FUCK YES or FUCK NO with women, you just have to be quick to see the cold replies. Edit: Any lukewarm response in between those two extremes is a request for a beta orbiter. It's a trap!
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:02 AM
-1

It's only creepy if she doesn't want to fuck you. High smv means to be the exception.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:58 AM
4

u/Docbear64 on point here.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:09 AM
18

AWALT = no one really is relationship material. It's just how long you can deal with the bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 04:44 AM
4

Then put the mirror away. Tehehehe.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:57 AM
38

This is why many cultures had arranged marriages and dowry. The patriarchy system was a defense against this destructive hypergamy we see rampant today. They knew that women can't be trusted to make their own decisions when it comes to relations with men. How can "strong and independent" women in their 20s become "victims of a social construct" in their 30s?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 11:53 PM
1

Credit for the saying goes to a well known PUA, forget who said it.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:07 PM
5

There are no ugly people. Just active or lazy.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:45 PM
3

As a trigger, I'm triggered.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 07:58 AM
1

'Fuck it, let me go find out myself.' This is the beginning of a rp mindset. Do things because you want to, not because someone on the internet told you.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:33 AM
4

"I need you not be a bitch." This wordier phrase works for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 10:49 PM
6

I was raised in a very religious family (Christian Presbyterian). In my twenties I was so devout that I considered becoming a minister and served for a little while as a lay (unofficial) pastor. Fast forward a few years as I got older, wiser and most importantly gave less fucks about what people thought of me, I was growing less interested, not just in serving but even going to church at all. In a way I was redpilling myself out of religion. The funny thing is once I took the blinders off I real…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:31 PM
3

I agree. I've seen this both for myself and my natural rp friends.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:13 PM
1

Betas are creeps. To be alpha is to be the exception. Sex happens soon or it doesn't happen at all.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:43 PM
5

"I like your ass." Don't ever answer a girl's questions directly. Gotta make it sexual as early as possible.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 12:42 AM
6

Whenever you have to explain gender dynamics and the borders of the relationship to a woman, you've already failed. Tell her what's acceptable and what's not by your behavior and expressions -- or lack thereof -- not with words. For example, use dread and absence immediately when she brings up an ex.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:35 AM
3

Honestly? You have to go through hardships and live more. Join the Marines perhaps. I'm almost 40 and nothing will ever hurt me. Sure I will cry my eyes out if family or friends died, but that's about it. I was emotional and easily upset when I was 18, too. Lifting won't change that but living more, interacting with new and different people, taking risks, trying new things, living in different places-- these all help you become a man and an unshakeable one at that.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:01 PM
1

She's not into you. Soft next.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:56 PM
7

The women are traveling too. Better to be bold than scheme-y. "You want to get a drink later tonight? Let me get your number." And just open your phone's add-contact window and hand the phone to her. Do a few of those and then text them all to join you at the hotel bar you're staying.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:55 PM
7

PreRP I didn't understand how a sexless LTR/marriage was like owning a sports car without an engine. Women won't usually admit it but a relationship without sex is just being brother/sister. No wonder it grosses them out when the man tries to initiate again.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:50 PM
4

Nicely done. SMV is value (good product) but hook (good marketing) brings them in. PUA focuses mostly on hook, TRP mostly on SMV. I know a dude who does photography on the side. Not sure if he's doing it full time now but his insta has 40k followers. Not amazing but also not bad at all, considering he shoots models, including those with a couple million followers. He's also mentioned he's dated a few of them. He's in decent shape and confidence. Good dude. But it's his hook, not how much time he…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 05:06 PM
5

This is why I read comments before the post.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 02:37 AM
1

What did you say? I can't hear from way up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 10:00 PM
2

Lol this isn't men's rights
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 07:12 PM
4

My buddy's wife: "I would have gone to the Women's March but I had to work." Me: "Because you're responsible and productive, and most of those who attended are not." Her (sheepishly): "Yea, that's true..."
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 07:09 PM
20

You are unique. Just like everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 07:06 PM
2

Exactly. It's counter intuitive but you have to be already redpilled to be redpill. If you can't own your shit, take care of your body, keep yourself as the highest priority, see then you can't handle this.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 04:58 PM
2

Aww, thanks, son.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 02:47 AM
24

There's got to be something opposite of frame and something more specific than SMV. For now I call it hook. Hook is a quantifiable quality that draws women to you. Height, cut or swole body, good looks are physical hook. Active hook can be game/pick up, being cocky/funny, touchjng/kino. Passive hook can be nice attire and pre-selection, such as coming into a party with a HB holding your arm. Nuclear hook is being a celebrity. Hook brings women towards you. Frame makes them want to fuck you. SMV …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 09:11 PM
14

Pre-RP I already knew this world was going to shit when women were not allowed to be submissive and men were discouraged to be strong.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 07:35 PM
-3

Jesus Christ, you're a child.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:30 PM
1

Then stop going to where they are. Power is having the option to walk away. They can be a coward and sucker punch you in the back. Or carry a weapon. Pre-emptive attack.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:26 PM
5

Let's get you to the gym, neckbeard.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:21 PM
4

But what if the scent of my sweat makes women moist?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:19 PM
4

Perception is reality. Stop thinking that bigger men are trying to fight/amog you. Your insecurity is hurting you. Nobody gives a shit about you. Or 2. Don't drop the soap.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:13 PM
3

Travel. Backpack around the world, meet and talk anyone and everyone (especially men), listen to their stories. Try any kind job that interests you. I've worked odd jobs that are vastly different than what I'm doing right now but I wouldn't trade anything for the experiences I had from those jobs. Read as much as you can. Books, blogs, but try to stay away from mainstream, popular stuff or at least don't take them too seriously. The unexpected conclusion I discovered about my mission in life is …
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:05 PM
1

I help men worth helping.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:54 PM
2

The irony.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:53 PM
2

Maybe stop staring at their crotches.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:50 PM
2

I just realized they usually do kick themselves out before I say anything.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:40 PM
3

This is why I appreciate my ex wife. She was barely on social media. I actually introduced her to Instagram. I'm always eager to get with a cute chick who's hardly active on that shit. They're out there, though.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:50 PM
5

I love how there is sub dedicated entirely to observing and analyzing socially retarded men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 07:10 PM
1

Harsh. I'm sure the bitterness of that experience helped you swallow the red pill as it did for me. Your story reminds me of Jessica Seinfeld, aka Jessica Nederlander. Being newly married to a Broadway producer worth millions wasn't enough-- she left him virtually immediately after their marriage for a tv sitcom icon worth hundreds of millions. So many fucked up stories out there.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 07:00 PM
2

I agree. Only speak of your own accomplishments when management questions it.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:51 PM
0

Maintain frame, yes. Help her, no.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:49 PM
1

I got married at 34 without a stable income-- I was still settling into my relatively new commission-only sales job. My new wife was doing okay and we were getting by on her salary and my occasional commission checks. This was all agreed upon prior to our engagement. Naturally, getting by isn't sufficient for women. We (she) filed for divorce within a year. Hypergamy doesn't care.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 02:46 PM
1

2 years and I'm still fucking up, still learning.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 02:40 PM
1

Good man. Just goes to show it doesn't have to be the same girl. If you haven't already, check out Mental Point of Origin. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2mc4pc/mental_point_of_origin/
/r/askTRP14/10/17 09:01 AM
2

was abused had oneitis Do you see the contradiction here? How are you a victim when you led yourself to her? You can be a victim and join men's rights, mgtow, purple pill, positive masculinity and other forms of learned helplessness. Or you can own your shit, learn from your mistakes, and become your own man.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:58 AM
4

And yet here you are reading ridiculous stuff. Why are you here on a sexual strategy forum when you're in a happy healthy marriage?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 12:38 AM
2

I was just like you bro. Check out the rationale male. Start with "There is No ONE." https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 12:32 AM
2

Perhaps you haven't been burned, dumped or cheated on by a woman. Or you haven't taken your blinders off yet to see a woman's true colors.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 12:00 AM
-59

To him? He's fucking dead now and the dead don't care. To me? The day I stopped thinking about killing myself was when I became ice cold and started with the words "Listen here, you stupid fuckface..." If a friend ever came to me about suicide, I would give him tough love. Life is suffering, life is absurd. All of us alive are just people who didn't kill themselves.
/r/MensRights11/10/17 10:48 PM
-50

Ban me, I don't care. He's the victim and the murderer. Suicide is the permenant solution to a temporary problem. Weak man didn't see through that.
/r/MensRights11/10/17 10:44 PM
-124

Good on the judge. But fuck that guy who offed himself just because of how she treated him. I hate weak men so much, probably because I hate my own weaknesses as a man.
/r/MensRights11/10/17 10:31 PM
6

Even better than my suggestion.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:10 PM
1

I'd say each time she does that give her a "wtf u doin" look and walk away. Don't explain to her how you want her to behave-- simply punish the bad behavior. When she asks you "so you don't like it when I talk about my ex?" grab her, bend her over your lap, and slap her bare ass as hard as you can.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:08 PM
1

I liked you when you weren't wordy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 07:53 PM
1

Let me clarify. Reasons why past relationship didn't work according to women (not just this sub) starter pack: He was an asshole. He was a loser. It just didn't work out. I don't hear women saying: "I was a bitch to him." Or taking any form of responsibility for the breakup is generally unheard of. Clearly there are so many instances when women disrespect, degrade and even abuse their past LTRs, yet they proclaim their ex's were the downfall, not themselves. From men, it's different: I cheated o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 07:20 PM
1

When have you seen a woman NOT say shit about an ex? Every ex is an abusive asshole, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 04:42 PM
3

my day Did you get married 10 years ago or even 5 years ago? I feel like there has been a huge shift in dating/relationship/marriage just in the last few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 07:32 AM
7

One of the rare instances when a woman doesn't blame the man for the end of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 07:24 AM
6

Take a break from the relationship, give no reason. Tell her "I need a break" and stay distant for a couple of weeks, replying 1:4 or 1:5 ratio. Once her time out is done, meet her and get straight to escalating.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:10 AM
3

Yup.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:53 AM
2

Meet either at her place or at yours. Accept nothing less. You're not going to date her, you're going to do her.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:26 PM
5

Don't just take a woman's shit tests; dish it out yourself, as early as possible, as often as needed. Some can handle it all, some can barely handle any. Either way it's good to maintaining your frame, making her work for you, and setting yourself apart. Also a quick way to filter out those who are and aren't DTF.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 05:48 PM
7

This works, but it's even worse with women. I've had women forget who I am even though we banged just a couple months ago.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 05:40 PM
37

There is a post on the childfree sub I saw today about a husband finding out his wife was raped, pregnant from rapist, but still wants the baby. Pretty sure it's more like what OP may end up in here.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:27 PM
1

I tried light Romanian deadlifts yesterday, definitely helps with form.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 10:31 PM
-9

Red Piller becoming a mgtow Women do not make sense. Naw, bruh. It's you that doesn't make sense.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 08:59 PM
4

Bored Sex is like food. There are no long lasting effects from just one night of banging, no matter how mind blowing it was. They are really good people Put yourself first. If they bore you, move on. It's not right or wrong, it's amoral. In a way putting yourself first may sound selfish to most but it is moral. If you can't help yourself, you can't help others. Put it another way, continuing some form of relationship just because you would feel bad to ending it is an act of dishonesty and selfis…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:35 PM
3

I need a mission That's your mission for now: To find one. That which hinders you is the task. The obstacle is the way.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 08:09 PM
1

"If you need a break, that's fine." That's all I would say. If you don't hear from her within an hour or two, practice outcome Independence and make other tentative plans for Sunday. No need to elaborate or explain.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:59 PM
3

Be a complete beta and take her out to dinner. Try as hard to make her vag dry up.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:26 AM
1

Do not take on questions you don't need to answer. In other words, you do not report to her parents. You don't even report to her. If she wants you, she will find a way to be with you. No amount of logic, charm and character will convince people like her parents.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 07:02 PM
2

Just man up, get on your knees, and open wide. Shit post deserves shit comment.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 03:33 PM
0

Excuse me. UniCORN? More like UniHORN.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:44 PM
2

I rode the train to work today. I look forward to be charged with rapey rape rape from the 257 women who also rode the train with me. A slow Monday here in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:26 PM
0

I wonder if the women who answered the survey also do porn on the side. 'But that's not sex, that's just for fun and pocket money.'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:23 PM
1

True. Some people are not meant to be awaken.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:14 PM
1

I came across trp in my mid 30s while going thru a divorce. I didn't lose money nor did I have kids with my ex-- It was a very short marriage, less than a year. However my time with her was the only cohabit-LTR I ever had. Essentially I essentially dodged a whole wall of bullets. The things I've learned living with a woman: It's fun in the beginning. But after about 3 to 6 months, the fun goes down. Sex and drama have an inverse relationship. In the beginning, there was a lot of sex and very lit…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 12:47 PM
23

Get teeth. Grow hair. Come out from living in cave. Learn to walk upright. Find precious.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 06:02 PM
3

instead tell her what to do If OP did that, she might have splooshed and skidded off her chair.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 05:59 PM
1

I bet you fuck in hamster mode.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 05:56 PM
2

Good stuff. The strict no mate-guarding policy is one of the best rules I've learned from trp. When you're out with your plate in group settings, don't hover. Let her be on her own for half if not most of the time. Betas mate-guard to the point of self sacrifice. Don't be like that.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 05:53 PM
2

I appreciate your comment but you've left your critically thinking mind somewhere else. I stated my weakness, I didn't state I needed help.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 10:48 AM
1

No one likes to be corrected and held accountable, it's human nature. So yea I give ppl shit.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 09:40 PM
3

Shit man, you're already a pro. Amplify and/or go for nuclear sarcasm each and every time with women, you'll learn when and how to tone it down, only if necessary.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 09:27 PM
8

Assume everything a woman says is a shit test. Start from there and work your way backwards.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:57 PM
1

Almost every boss is crazy. That's why I decided to be one myself. Tired of taking shit from other ppl. When you work for someone else, being patient and being a bitch may be the same thing. Unless you can walk away and quit. Freedom is having options.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:56 PM
1

Call out one person every day for a year and write us a post on how that went and what it's like to get your shit pushed in.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:46 PM
16

Back when I was good young lad in my mid-20s, my first generation Asian parents ordered me to go visit my distant relatives in the city who ran a "marriage consulting" business--they were professional matchmakers. It's a serious biz as clients who married through them would pay $15k fee. But I was pretty low on their scale-- working full-time but still finishing college nights and weekends. "We can't set you up with doctors or lawyers. Teachers and nurses will be best for you," my uncle proclaim…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 08:34 PM
1

Reminds me of The Obstacle is The Way by Ryan Holiday. Solid book. Great post, OP.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 08:19 PM
2

Yea I think that would be wise. Make her think what the hell is he up to.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:04 PM
8

what weak aspects of yourself are you shying away from when you hit the gym so hard? When I'm at the gym and I see a HB9 working out, I tell myself, DO ONE MORE SET, THEN YOU CAN BANG HER IN A YEAR, MAYBE. Sexual strategy and thus the desired sexual options from plating isn't so simple. It's not just LIFT -> SWOLE -> FUCK. My own weakness I'm shying away from: Approach with frame. I want to approach girls with relative success anywhere, any time, not just at bars or parties. How else would I pla…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:53 AM
2

I side with you. Don't tell me what to do. Tell me what the destination is like and I'll find my own way there.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:38 AM
-2

How would an alcoholic know he's no longer an alcoholic? He would go to a bar, order one drink, finish the drink, and leave. The point is: Text her. See you how it feels, not just if she responds. When you feel like shit at what you've done, you're in a good spot. Sometimes you can succeed by failing.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:28 AM
1

Forget Youtube. Read, young man.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:25 AM
4

I would have not replied at all. Some shit tests don't deserve a response. She'll know she made a mistake when she realizes you're ghosting her, and good chance she'll hit you up again later.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:24 AM
2

Approach her before or after class, son. IRL is always better, way better.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:21 AM
5

Maybe you were an asshole at the party and you completely deserved a good pummeling. Or maybe you just got jumped and the shit beaten out of you. I have a good friend who always ends up in a fight or altercation. He never starts it, or so he says. But I know him so well and I've been in countless arguments with him in addition to one with our knuckles. He just doesn't understand that it's okay, even honorable to back down, admit you're wrong, be humble. You need to figure out if you indirectly c…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:19 AM
5

I signed up for a gym membership back in Jan 2016, a month after I discovered trp. I followed Stronglifts 5x5 and did my first deadlifts, squats, and other barbell lifts, popping my weightlifting cherry at the young age of 35. Fast forward 22 months and I'm fucking jacked now... ... which would be completely untrue. I'm just a little more muscular, not even that noticeable, that's all. Why? Because I can't get my lazy ass to the gym more than 2x per week. There were several times where I've gone…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:08 AM
1

I'm in my late 30s. The older I get, the less I'm motivated to explain my behavior. Even if I do, there isn't high probability the other party will get it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 11:05 PM
7

Get a girlfriend. Be needy. Deal with bullshit drama. Break up or get dumped. Learn from the pain.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 07:10 PM
1

I'd start with reading the book No More Mr Nice Guy and practicing the advice in there.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 07:06 PM
16

I provided no explanation, said goodbye, and walked away. Haven't responded to any of her texts since. I was clapping when I read this. Great move. You fully understand what it means to put yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 07:00 PM
1

selfish with my goals in life Here's where her hamster kicks in. RP for women can't really exist. The RPW sub itself caved in because iirc poor leadership and hamstering from mods -- if true, so much irony. Goals are inherently selfish, even if it's wanting kids and a family life. She can't see that because her own feminine nature/ego demands you to Daddy her up and lead her to survive and pass her genes on. In fact, it's a woman ego and sheet lack of self agency that usually deters her from und…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 07:23 PM
6

You're not her TA. So you should access her T&A. Get it? Heh heh heh.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:45 AM
4

If a tree fell in a forest with no one around, would a woman still hypergamy?
/r/askTRP06/09/17 08:03 PM
5

Don't ever feel weird about it. Keep writing and keep sharing your site, it's always good stuff, and the hungry humble new ones here will do well by reading your OC.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 05:06 AM
8

Great post. I find girls who just moved to a big city are like this. They're eager to make the rounds for a year or two. Maybe they're in grad school or they have a chill career. They just can't wait to go to parties, clubs, fill up their insta, ride the cc, so on.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 04:45 AM
1

I look forward to your field report on how you satisfied a woman's needs communicated to you and how she loves sucking your obedient cock.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 07:09 AM
1

I'd add: Record audio if living in one party consent state.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 11:03 PM
1

Doesn't mean hypergamy isn't alive and well in nicer houses.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 09:51 PM
1

Then why are you even considering her as a target if it's a matter of "don't shit where you eat"? Get your head straight, son.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:27 AM
2

I know plenty of good looking guys who don't get laid because I tried to suck all their dicks and they all ran away. Honestly tho, someone tell Seddit mods we found their lost puppy here.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 12:03 AM
1

Don't half ass two things. Whole ass one thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 12:00 AM
1

Lol there's a youtube vid of this. All these big dudes run away scared shitless.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:55 PM
1

Make jokes about sex.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:54 PM
1

Newb: How do I climb the mountain? Master Climber: First, climb. Then ask questions.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:52 PM
1

Yup.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:51 PM
1

So you heard me?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:50 PM
1

"I don't think I want to stay out late" You failed her shit test. You could have replied, "Good idea, let's go back to my room and make out."
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:49 PM
1

Pick up a martial art and don't get your ass handed to you this time.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:46 PM
1

If this is shit post... Hahahaha
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:42 PM
1

Those awkward pauses... They will never go away. But the more you hang out with ppl, the more you get comfortable. Whether it's with dudes or girls, I always hang out in a bar with lots going on (one of my go-to spots is a karaoke lounge) and I'm usually interacting with bartenders as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 11:37 PM
1

Besides reading, you just need to go out more. Start with showing up to everything you're invited to. Also ask virtually every one you meet to hang out.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 11:20 PM
4

Game and frame are everything. Everything else is secondary.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 11:18 PM
4

Women aren't wired to be happy. Even if they are, it lasts for a few minutes at most.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 07:33 AM
1

Invite her over to your place this Sat night
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:06 AM
9

Hahahaha
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:04 AM
33

I'm forced to bring up the exclusive talk I consider myself an 8/10 on red pill knowledge Naw, bruh.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:03 AM
3

Day game constantly. Go where young fit women are. Kill it at karaoke. Shit, I can do this.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:17 AM
2

LTR/Marriage carries an inverse correlation: Sex goes down, drama goes up. Frame is the masculine push-back against this natural feminine agenda.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 09:05 PM
1

50% of marriages fail. The remaining 50% that do go on, 1/3 of them are sexless. So if you get married there is 66% or 2/3 chance it will either end in divorce or sexless.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 08:47 PM
1

Rollo said it himself: There needs to be a variety of RPs. Respect to the mods for allowing good contributors to self-promote.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 08:44 PM
1

Fuck you, I disagree. If there's a good post that's enlightening, I'd be happy to send the writer what essentially amounts to the price of a whiskey at a bar, not to mention follow them on their blog or whatever medium they're using. Good insight takes years to build and I consume them for next to thing while taking a crap at the office bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 08:42 PM
3

People are constantly projecting. When a person expresses admiration for you, what they're really saying is "I'd like to be more like you". Conversely, when people are giving you advice, whether it's solicited or not, what they're really saying is, "I'd like you to be more like me." This is especially true when you are improving your smv and your friends/family are giving you shit for going to the gym often, becoming a meathead, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 06:57 AM
1

Asian American here. Isn't that almost always an Indian guy himself spewing that helpless bullshit? "You don't understand muh hardship as a brown dude." I have no sympathy for fellow Asian men who don't bother to help themselves. Even if it is true that brown dudes have a negative reputation amongst women, to be Alpha is to be the Exception.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:52 AM
3

Pay for it.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:42 AM
2

so evolved. still breathing out of my ass.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 09:53 PM
3

You know how we say "Don't listen to her words, watch her actions instead"? Well, women don't do that. Unconsciously they are looking for their LTR's weakest moment, whether that is an verbal admission or an act (or lack thereof). Once that is done, they are off to the races of hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 08:31 PM
1

world doesn't change around you. Such an under rated statement. I didn't understand this, which is why me and my big mouth evangelized the shit out of TRP to my IRL buddies. Now I know-- stfu and keep learning/improving quietly.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:41 PM
1

dont ask, read the sidebar on the main sub. then read the rational male.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:43 PM
2

Two years since divorce here. It's been shit but I realize it's not shit because of missing my ex and not having an LTR or a steady source of companionship+sex. It's been shit because I don't take care of myself. Improve your SMV, be your own man (advance yourself in your career/in biz), be content, and simply filter and manage the HBs that fall on your lap.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:17 PM
1

balance??? wrong sub, try r slash relationships. you haven't bothered to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:51 PM
4

as women: 1) be independent or 2) seek men's help. pick one. edit: you know what i would do if a stranger was making me uncomfortable? fight or flight. most men would do so. however women are helpless children, and your ltr's reaction is typical. you are your ltr's guard dog / butler / beta.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:29 PM
7

You've bought into the feminist ideology and you don't even know it. If it's so dangerous at night, why did she take that shift? If she felt threatened, why didn't she defend herself? Why hasn't she taken a self defense classe or have pepper spray or a defense baton? Now that she's been "creeped" out, will she take preparations to avoid this sort of situation in the future or will she do nothing and lead herself to be "victimized" again? Strangers talking to you even if it is "creepy" is a small…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:18 PM
1

3 months I stopped reading there. Yes.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 07:44 PM
0

Only if you become a trp ec.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 07:43 PM
1

Invite other friends, make it a group hang out.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 07:38 PM
2

You're a now man, you have money, you can figure it out. I'm in my 30s and I still have to make boundaries for my parents not to cross.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 07:37 PM
2

Understand the first rule of communication: If you reply, you continue the conversation.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:21 PM
9

I agree. My usual reaction is "I have something for you" and I reach into my pocket dramatically and pull out a hard bird flip and wave it obnoxiously right at their nose to a point they have to duck or step back. Then I laugh maniacally. Maybe it's because I can flip a switch and can become Chandler+Joker no one usually tests me more than once.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 04:07 AM
4

You're tall, in good shape, with a hb gf. Lotta insecure guys --especially the short ones who are meatheads-- just want to pick on you and hit on your girl at these events. Add liquid courage and whatever substances passed around at these events/venues, then you get a perfect storm. Honestly, try not to attend events like this with your girl.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:03 AM
1

It was great until 2 guys offer to take her on a motorcycle trip on Sunday FUCK YOOOOO. HAVE YOU NO HONOR. Sigh. I wish I had a bike.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 10:15 PM
1

Made me giggle. Good story.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:08 PM
3

Yup, I didn't, feel like I missed out.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:06 PM
1

If you think you have a problem, you probably do. You're not working to improve yourself, you're just getting by. Video games, drinking, a little grass-- they're all good if used for relaxation and in moderation, like once a week.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:05 PM
2

Fucking up my world, brother. That's me and my ex wife. And thank you, you lovely fuck.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:56 PM
5

Brilliant.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:53 PM
2

Congrats to you on writing all this out. After you force yourself to put experiences into words, clarity usually follows. You said you're 28 and you live in a city? Great, you're in a solid situation no matter what happens to you. You already know a "relationship" or whatever the hell that context was with that fucked up cunt is over. Move on. Time to pick up a new book or a new hobby (or old ones!). Oh yea, don't forget: LIFT.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:52 PM
1

I'm not there yet so I have nothing helpful to say. However I am curious as to what the baby mommas say to you to lock you down BEFORE they meet you...
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:41 PM
6

Fantastic action shot. Fuckin Wolverine over here.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:38 PM
1

muh alpha eye contact that moistens panties You know that Leo intense glare from the memes? That's how I look like 24/7. My lovely sharp erotic Korean eyes.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 09:35 PM
14

better than hb5 i guess?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 09:22 PM
3

Working a corp job is bullshit in the long run. Well, at least for me it is. Now I'm freelancing and looking to build my own biz. Let this anger you to a point you change.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 06:59 PM
0

You've been fighting a defensive game the whole time, and a poor one at that. Man up and throw a goddamn punch. Getting bored now.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 03:10 PM
-3

Admitting defeat like the faggot kpoper you are.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 03:00 PM
-8

So you are imagining my wet, virgin body?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:54 PM
-7

The man's pubes are more interesting than you, son. Stick to kpop and its she-male singers.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:50 PM
2

I agree. There's always an hidden, self-centered motive.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:44 PM
1

haha go back to copy pasta-ing richest man in la
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 01:31 PM
1

I've, more or less, reached many of my long term goals Congrats. Seriously, give yourself a big pat on your back. So few a men actually accompolish their own long term goals. This also means you need new ones. Don't rush. Take at least a year or two to figure out your next ten to twenty year plan. Explore and discovery, and enjoy that while you're figuring it all out. Should I get a life coach? Fuck that. You're your own teacher from here on out. It's valleys like this where you have to struggle…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 12:49 AM
5

I've been there, altho very short marriage and no kids for me. This is the best part.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 10:41 PM
2

While both standing, put your hand on the small of her back, lean into her so she can speak into your ear. See how she responds. If she doesn't budge, pretty good. If she backs away, no good. If she ups the ante and moves in even closer, game on.
/r/seduction24/07/17 10:38 PM
6

Phrasing.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:34 PM
3

Go and inform her and report back to us how she responds.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:26 PM
1

I'm so caught up with work/biz that I don't have time/energy to purse girls as much as I use to. Maybe once a month I'll meet a chick, but results are dismal. So every now and then I just pay for it. It's a good perhaps even necessary release.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:51 PM
2

This. Being alpha is high status. Of course, lifting can help you to raise your own status, but there are other goals for lifting, such as owning your shit, experiencing what it literally feels like becoming a man, discipline and focus, learning from and respecting those who are ahead of you, etc. But make no mistake: a short fat fuck with a mil insta followers will bang a HB9 on the regular. But the insanely ripped 6'2" dude who's unknown? Not as often.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:41 PM
2

Hard next. Disassociate. Waste of time.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:33 PM
1

I was being conservative but damn. The Matrix!
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:30 PM
2

Seems like you're on right track. Plating is fine but new girls are always better than familiar ones.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:28 PM
4

You're trying to hack rp tactics for bp goals. edit: Everything. You missed everything.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:25 PM
5

really not gonna happen This says it all. She loves the aggressive/thirsty attention from you since it boosts her ego, but she also is telling you straight up: You are drying up my vag rn.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:22 PM
5

When ending a relationship, women relish in making and see men weak and broken. They feel they are entitled to this power, this joy of seeing men grovel, emotional, begging, even though they won't give in, even though they'll only be cuntier. You denied her of this, so that is why she msged you in such a way. It's implicit that you have other options, and she is just one of many. This enrages her but also turns her on. Chances are she will reach out to you for a boning.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:17 PM
4

Clearly you haven't read / understood the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:12 PM
1

Maybe both.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 08:32 PM
3

This and rape fantasies. Like actual female rape victims fantasizing about their rapists. Or how rape victims not only get stimulated during the assualt but they also climax. This may not be the norm but the extremes are much further out and the bell curve much wider than we thought.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 07:57 PM
7

Always, always let them talk. "How is/was your day?" Pretend you're a journalist trying to get them to spill the juice on something. Keep on asking questions. Just try not to roll your eyes.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 06:54 PM
2

To be alpha is to be the exception.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 06:50 PM
1

Thank you, such a clear definition.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 12:00 AM
2

let them vent just for the sake of it Basic training wouldn't be a good place to vent. Neither is this. Those who are genuinely trying will ask good questions on asktrp, in the right way, with respect, just as a trainee would to his drill sergent.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 10:14 PM
1

Not married, don't have kids, not looking for either, so perhaps I don't have much of a footing here. Just want to share that "m = trp on hard mode" and giving a pass to married men in regards to running soft harem feels a bit inconsistent. Unmarried guy? "Soft harem or you're not real rp." Married guy? "It's up to you. Because m = rp on hard mode." I admire trp because of its binary principle. All men should lift. All men should hold frame. All men should be leaders. All men should purse an alp…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:47 PM
1

Please include pictures of your penis next to a ruler. A metric ruler, that is. Everyone knows inches are tehgay.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:28 PM
3

Who said you missed your chance? You did, not her. She brought a guy to a party. Doesn't mean she's not interested in you. She never rejected you. The hunt is still on, except you are the prey.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 09:15 PM
14

Stop. I'm getting a boner at the office.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:51 PM
9

a lot of swearing Jesus Lonzo Christ, you don't know what locker room talk is. You've never played sports? Holy fuck no wonder we have so many retards here.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:22 PM
2

Well, shit. Seems you are on the right path already.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 06:07 PM
6

This is why enlisted men hate their officers in the military so often. 'Paper pushers' who don't know shit and shit but often spewing horseshit about 'strategy.' Be a man, have some dignity, walk away from here and start your own sub. edit: The best sexual strategy Hamster translation: "Mine is better than yours. But let me smear it here for all you idiots to learn." Eat a dick.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:05 PM
4

Congrats. I did a give-away-everything-and-move myself. Best decision of my life. You might wanna consider posting pics of all your unwanted shit onto Craigslist under the free/please-take section. Easier than hauling to goodwill.
/r/ThankTRP19/07/17 06:01 PM
2

a lot of shaming Unlike most subs, TRP has right and wrong, there is a clear and absolute line. Respect it or get the fuck out. This includes everyone who is upvoting this comment.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 05:34 PM
4

There are many places for men to discuss self improvement, but only a few to discuss sexual strategy, this being one of them. If you're compromising the goal of this forum, you are male hamstering. GTFO. Or at least don't comment and simply lurk.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 05:28 PM
1

Fuckin yes. I got pumped just by reading. I still have conversations in my head with my ex wife, been 2 years since we split. Not easy but it gets easier.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:22 AM
1

Cool. Thanks. High five / Fist bump / Chest bump / Butt bump I love me too. Good, prove it. If you love me, clean the place / make me a sandwich / blow me / find a hb for a 3 some. I love your ass.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:47 PM
1

I love desk.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:43 PM
1

Probably more of the latter. A lot more.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:40 PM
1

She's into you but you gotta raise your asking price. Don't make it too easy for her. "Naw bitch i tried 2x and both times you said you were busy. Check in with me in a month. Thats your punishment."
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:36 PM
1

Flip it around. Be the man who has HB9s driving 12 hours just to fuck you.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:33 PM
3

Life is meaningless. Life is struggle. Start from there, then see if you can find meaning and purpose.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:31 PM
2

Can confirm. Looking to start hiring for my biz soon. Entry level 20-something cheap labor. I expect them to stick around a few years, maybe 5 at most. Hopefully one or two of them can step up and become a manager.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:30 PM
2

Be careful. You may compromise yourself and entertain a girl without realizing you've gone more than half-beta. The right decisions don't always lead to the desired results.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:22 PM
1

Monk mode is for those who are addicted to gaming, alcohol, drugs. If you're reserved/introvert, going MM is the dumbest, worst thing you can do. Do the opposite of MM, make it habit to socialize daily.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 09:08 PM
5

Dating is dead. Tell chicks to come over your place.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 09:04 PM
1

Fucking heartbreaking. I'm sure you already did, but let him know you'll be there when he needs help. Til then, let him be.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 08:45 PM
5

"Feel my pecs. They're adorable, too."
/r/askTRP14/07/17 07:55 PM
2

Consider taking him on a trip somewhere. Maybe he needs a little break from his selfmade shithole of a life.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 07:50 PM
1

Yah, I'm only an ocean away from her
/r/askTRP14/07/17 07:48 PM
18

My usual thinking: If I have to explain gender dynamics to a woman, it's probably futile. My time and my attention are everything to me. I am also in the school of "just walk away and soft next."
/r/askTRP12/07/17 07:12 PM
2

There are many places to discuss self improvement for men. However, there are only a handful for sexual strategy for men.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 06:53 AM
2

The opposite works as well. If you have zero / negative net worth, show it to your LTR. Boom, freedom. Now start building your empire without the nagging for vacations and handbags.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 06:49 AM
6

When I'm alone with a woman, I hit the red button on the voice recording app on my phone, then put the phone face down. Luckily I live in a "one party consent" state.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 06:20 PM
3

You are unique. Just like everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 06:06 PM
1

Women have a harder time saying no when you approach in a social setting within earshot of others.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 05:57 PM
10

I lol'd.
/r/MensRights30/06/17 06:02 PM
2

Cringey, but also ballsy. Now it's just matter of learning and improving. Most guys don't even have the balls to approach women, so you're not in a bad spot. 1: Approach and get rejected some more. 2: When you get better, you'll know how to use the context (including public ones) in your favor. 3: All new social situations can help, not just approaching. Elevator talk, making eye contact with strangers, saying a quick "hello, how are you" to as many people as possible, so on. Hanging out at a co…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 09:18 AM
1

What would you do or rather what benefits are you seeking from monk mode? I'm not really a fan of it, given that genuine personal change requires some level of social incentives.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 08:12 AM
1

Them: "Why did you block me?" You: "You know why." Smile. The end. But... if they play clueless... Them: "No, I don't. Why?" You: "If you have to ask, any explanation I have for you will not help you."
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:05 AM
3

I get attached to every women I'm with. It's natural and I accept that I will get emotional. But I also know the feelings will go away. My priorities right now are physical fitness and work, maybe some social life and a creative project. If I take a moment to reflect and hold myself accountable, I know I'll be fine. Attachments always go away if I stay focused and disciplined.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 05:31 AM
0

This.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 05:23 AM
7

Sex drive is the foundation for a man to do great things. You want to get swole, deadlift 2.5x your body weight, get down to single digit body fat? You want to flip off the man, start your own company, and be financially independent? When you're half a century old you want HB9s half your age happily going down on you? We are literally all descendants of alpha males who did nothing but destroy the neighboring beta tribe, kill all their males, and impregnate their women. Conquer yourself and the w…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 05:16 AM
3

Giving women relationship/dating advice is absolutely useless. They love listening and talking about this, yet they just end up doing whatever their lizard brain wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 12:58 AM
0

Get creative OP can... ...Fuck in a bathroom stall. ...Fuck in his car backseat. ...Fuck behind a tree outside the bar. ...Fuck in his parents' garage. Of course, silly me, I wasn't being creative.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 08:28 AM
2

Troll
/r/askTRP28/06/17 05:27 AM
3

If I ever see a lost kid, I'm just gonna ask any woman nearby to go help. Or maybe another dude. Not even trying.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 02:37 AM
1

Absolutely.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 02:35 AM
3

Exactly why top-tier actors and athletes still struggle with divorces.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 01:56 AM
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