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Can you NEVER show weakness?

pepperoninips7 · 2018-02-20T15:04:41+00:00

I was very alpha to this girl and fucked her multiple times each time we met up. She wanted me to come to an event of hers where her parents were at and I went...

pepperoninips7

February 20, 2018

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Title	Can you NEVER show weakness?
Author	pepperoninips7
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	February 20, 2018 3:04 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7ywiib/can_you_never_show_weakness/
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[–]whizkidmill 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]pepperoninips7 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Ricklogical 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like you need more experience around women's parents?

Your one bad day didn't ruin your relationship with that woman, the whole thing sounds way too serious, like meeting her parents was taken too serious, the fact that you could fail was too serious.

Seems to me you need to explain the meeting with the parents more clearly, because the problem is in that day.

I would blow it off and engage with her in person, show her you aren't changed by the bad day, but don't expect her to look at you the same.

If SHE cut you off from that, she wasn't that into you in the first place, why dance on a razors edge? No one wants to wake up with that kind of stress. It's just not worth it.

Congratulations on the victories you had with her, I banged some very beautiful women but ended up hating who they were after a few months.. Tell me more about the parents.

[–]pepperoninips7 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Ricklogical 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]pepperoninips7 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Ricklogical 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol man I don't know you didn't really give any damned details about what the fuck you did that you are so ashamed of

I will TELL YOU the hottest woman I have EVER TOUCHED gave me a constant feeling of inadequacy as a kid, I felt like a fool regularly around her, but from her side she never even noticed and was really happy to spend time around me whenever we did.

I was just super critical of my behavior back then and when I look back I just took it way too serious. Now the tables have turned and she is super critical of what she says and does around me, so I would say no, this doesn't mean you are a bitch, she might have only partially recognized it happening and just handled it unconsciously.

This means if you can manage to do better in the future you shouldn't have any trouble. Always assume she's not dodging you and legitimately has things she is doing, just like you would and should when apart.

I wouldn't avoid seeing the parents again anytime soon, but I would be reluctant for whatever specific reasons you seemed to have trouble last time, maybe you just aren't smooth with people in that age range? Or you just don't communicate with people like them very often?

It's best to say little, and when you do speak with them, think about what you are going to say first. Be honest but still, take a moment and think. You can say the wrong thing, pay attention, recognize what they believe and do not spit on any disagreements you might have on politics religion whatever hot buttons.

It's not a huge deal yet, relax and see how it goes.

Sounds like you will bang her again.

On a side note, I have shown plenty of weakness to women. Most of them hate it, in a long term relationship you can bring it up beforehand, you can show them the huge amount of data, videos about how women punish the fuck out of men for being vulnerable. We are literally railroaded into cold hard exteriors through development.

Doesn't mean emotions are weak, just ones that are in reaction to the world. Things can phase you, but showing you are not a victim no matter how you feel is paramount.

If you can boldfaced look someone in the eye and admit you are scared shitless but don't look it, that's one of the most bad ass things you can do.

It's how you handle these emotions, because they will always exist.

She throws a fit? You calmly laugh. You say the wrong thing? You make a gasp and look a bit devious saying "well, this is awkward" You can apologize a little and shrug admitting this is how you are, how you feel etc. or say nothing like nothing happened.

Just depends how bright your group is, nothing happened level shit works on most tools. Standing up for your actions that others don't like works better in a casual setting with people at your intellect level and dominance. For your superiors or authorities, better to tell them you know you were wrong and ask if such behavior is acceptable. If it isn't do your best not to act in such a way or speak of such things in such a way.

Mostly has to do with finding out what they expect, and if you don't know and you trip up, that is natural.. Because you didn't know.

But once they know that you know, mmmmm best to act as expected.

Again. Mistakes will be made, laugh them off because failure and discomfort are comical relief in life.

For me even bad things, pain, disaster, hatred are all comical to me, shocking and angering but still laughable because I would have never expected or imagined I would come to experience this shit

for real I put a lot of effort into avoiding things that piss me off so I just man up and get it over with.

Ok done ranting.

Hope it works out, would love to see you banging this one often and with vigor soon bro.

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