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1	First break-up post divorce...sucks Your not an asshole at all. You were honest with her and didnt strong her along. At.least you got your feet wet after a divorce and we all know how tough divorce is. I've had a few relationships in the last 11 years since my marriage ended and the last one ended just over a month ago and this one is especially hard to get over. Being a divorced dad can sometimes be lonely especially if your short on friends. This is a good place to talk to people though so feel free to share what's on your mind.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/19 05:54 AM
6	Missing the Validation of a Loving Relationship As much as I understand where your coming from and I can relate, validation should first come from within. I'm not trying to judge and trust me I'm the same as you and everything you've said but I'm learning that the more self worth I have and the more I love myself, the less validation I need from anyone and this attracks most women. I've recently been dumped and I'm also 50 and I miss being in a relationship and all that entails. The mistake I keep making is that I'm not assertive enough when …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/19 11:55 PM
0	Does it really get better? I've made a few replies about divorce if you want to read them for hope!?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/19 05:19 PM
2	Recently Divorced, having a lot of issues Your welcome!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/19 12:51 AM
6	Recently Divorced, having a lot of issues Hi! Your story sounds a lot like mine. I thought I had a good marriage and I loved being a husband and father. We were also together for 12 years. She changed a lot the last few years we were together. We tried counseling but after a few sessions she decided she didnt want to be married to me anymore. I was devastated. I experienced what's called major depression that lasted 9 months. It was real bad. I tried dating beca8se I was so lonely but that was a bad idea. When your hurting and unhappy, …	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/19 09:58 PM
2	I can't unsee what I saw. I know when your hurting real bad it's hard to believe this pain and difficult time in your life will get any better. Even the encouraging words people say doesn't always sink in because we become so wrapped up in how much it hurts. It's almost impossible to see far enough down the road to a better place and a better you but I promise it's there. Take one day at a time. The end of a marriage is very traumatic and it will take time. Some days will seem better and some will really suck but you nee…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/19 11:15 PM
6	I can't unsee what I saw. I second what nohotwopointoh said. He said it all perfectly. When my ex left with our 2 babies 11 years ago I was still very much in love with her. I didnt see it coming. I was heartbroken, devastated to my core. I thought I'd never be happy again. But I did move on, let go and it turned out to be the best thing for me. I'm divorced and have a great girlfriend and I see my boys every week. I have more peace and joy and freedom than I've ever had. I know where you are right now is a really crappy…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/19 06:48 PM
3	How Many Of You Men Plan On Ever Getting Married Again? I'm certainly not against the idea. I'm also in no rush either. I've been dating a woman for 19 months now a d both of us have been asked numerous times about getting married or at least moveing in together. We've both been through the ringer and are taking it real slow and neither feel any pressure to change our current situation.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/19 07:20 PM
2	Divorce: Paralyzed then Grief then Depression then Major Depression. It's a Slippery Slope. She is, and know that no matter what, you have tremendous value and we can take control of our lives and choose how to be happy.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/19 12:42 PM
4	Divorce: Paralyzed then Grief then Depression then Major Depression. It's a Slippery Slope. Your welcome and yes doubt I'll do that again lol!	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/19 11:18 PM
3	Divorce: Paralyzed then Grief then Depression then Major Depression. It's a Slippery Slope. I'm sorry you went through this as well. I agree I could never do that to someone.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/19 11:06 PM
7	Divorce: Paralyzed then Grief then Depression then Major Depression. It's a Slippery Slope. I came home from work to find an empty house. I mean no furniture, no pictures on the wall. Absolutely nothing. My kids gone which is all that matters and a crying wife that told me she's leaving. I went through all those stages but didnt even realize that I went from depression to major depression. I spent most of the next six months alone in the dark basement bedroom of .y older sister. I had to sell our house so I stayed with my sis. It was finally at the urging of my parents and siblings and…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/19 10:30 PM
2	Question for you guys M/49, I was in your shoes eleven years ago. She left while I was at work and cleared everything we owned out of the house and our 2 kids. No cheating, no substance abuse, no cheating or physical or emotional abuse. Her feelings just changed but she had so much anger towards me for a long time. It's hard to know why people do what they do! I felt as you do that it was a perfectly good relationship but she is like your partner, all ego and pride. When reality hits them a d there faced to look in t…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/19 02:47 AM
1	Does the pain ever randomly come back and hit you like a ton of bricks? Very rarely! It's hard to hold onto anger for years plus it only hurts us, not them.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/19 12:18 PM
2	Does the pain ever randomly come back and hit you like a ton of bricks? It's been almost 11 years for me and I'm with someone else and im very happy but I still sometimes dream about her. We're not together anymore even in the dreams lol. I see my ex every week when I pick up our son. The sting is gone and I'm better off without her.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/19 04:43 AM
2	Custody battle is about to kill me. First off I'm really sorry your going through a tough situation. Fortunately my ex lives three minutes away so seeing my 2 boys is no issue and we're mostly civil with each other, apart from her controlling issues. Like you said, she isn't transferring for work so she has no real reason and a boyfriend isn't going to cut it. Family court judges are more concerned with what's best for the children, not the parents. The fact that your very involved in there lives and never miss child support payme…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/19 11:48 PM
2	Revenge her Do your self a favor and don't do it! You won't get the satisfaction you think you will. I was majorly burned by my ex in a horrible and traumatic way and even a decade later she has never acknowledged it or apologized but that's on her, not me. I've made peace with it and moved on. Holding onto anger only hurts you, not them. I know your hurting and feel like an huge injustice has happened to you and that's normal but be the better person and let it go and focus on you and improving your life a…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/19 07:24 PM
1	Did anyone have any doubts before you got married? It's not easy for sure. I live pay check to pay check!	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/19 11:30 PM
1	Did anyone have any doubts before you got married? I pay $850 a month child support but no alimony. Her standard of living is far better than mine and she knows it.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/19 09:45 PM
3	Did anyone have any doubts before you got married? I had many. I really married more to make her happy than myself. Ten years later she leaves me high and dry taking our kids with her. So glad she's gone!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/19 04:54 PM
1	Have any of you guys seriously considered suicide after your wife left you ? Thank you!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/19 08:56 PM
2	Have any of you guys seriously considered suicide after your wife left you ? My ex left and took our two baby boys ten years ago. I was at work for 12 hours and when I got home she had Clea Ed out our entire house. I tried for almost a year to win her back but to no avail. I wasnt suicidal over her, but over not having my kids. I did attempt twice. Fast forward to today and I'm so much happier than I was with her. I never would have believed I could ever get to where I am today. It is true that things do get better. You just have to take it one day at a time. Keep yourse…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/19 03:31 AM
2	Have any of you guys seriously considered suicide after your wife left you ? I'm glad your still with us!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/19 03:15 AM
2	Devastate Dad My heart goes out to you! Millions of men are either in or have been in your exact shoes and I'm one also. My ex left ten years ago when out 2 boys were 3 and a half and 18 months. I came home from working 12 hours to an empty house. She and her family. Literally took everything but our bed, an old sofa from downstairs and our second tv. That was it. No photos on the wall. No other furniture, and my kids were not there. She was. She was sitting on out front steps only to say she was leaving. Lik…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/18 05:03 PM
2	Finally You just need to focus on you right now as she is doing the same. I remember being told when I was really hurting that it wouldn't last and that things would get better and at the time I didn't believe that but I am here to tell you that yes the hard times do pass and you will find happiness and peace again.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/18 12:47 PM
2	Finally You are never alone no matter what struggles you face. No matter how much you love someone and not matter how much your hurting and feel hopeless, things will get better even if that's nearly impossible to believe. I've been through hell and back and it wasn't easy but I'm here, I'm alive, I have found someone new when I least expected it and there are many people in my life who love and care about me and need me and I'm sure this will be the same for you. If your in a really bad way please reac…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/18 02:30 AM