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Reading this made me remember that I actually accomplished a freakin lot of things in the span of 2 years. Thanks for the reminder. Uncle Vassy said to not get complacent but sometimes I think we should really look at ourselves with kindness. Being kind with myself is something I don't really know how to do, but it feels great when I experience it.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:13 AM
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Ok now try to flip the script. How would you react if a cute girl approaches you at the laundry ? What if this girl was ugly ? Would you feel like any of those two girls were crossing your boundaries and feel really bad about it ? Would you call the police ? Start crying ? Kill yourself ? The thing is, you are afraid of cold approaching and you are hamstering what seems a valid reason not too. But in real life there's no reason not to, unless you're really creepy and just want sex out of the equ…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:59 AM
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"Don't cold approach unless she gives you an IOI" Do prostitute counts ? Are you autistic ? Did you really did this all your life ? Waiting for the girl moves ?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:52 AM
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Ok. How do you change your set of mind permanently then ? How do I know what set of mind works for me ? I think I know the answer. Go out and try for yourself. I might try the Patrice O'neil set of mind. I kind of find it really weird right now but it might work who knows. Maybe if you have a youtube link, it might help. If it comed from god's mouth direclty.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:50 AM
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Then you must know setting a goal that is too hard is counter productive. I said in in my OP that I already tried quite a lot and I already felt defeated with small goals. My whole post is about doing something that makes me already uncomfortable. You suggestion is only : "do more". Do you understand it's only personal right ?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:45 AM
1

I get what you try to say. I thank you for taking the time to answer. I got to change my mindset. I'm often a stubborn asshole so it might takes time. I approach myself everyday. I medidate 30 minutes after a cold shower every morning.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:56 AM
-1

You probably don't know how to cope with anxiety in general.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:37 AM
1

I'm sorry to say this but I think you're missing the point. I have to work on my game, I will never attract hot women without opening my mouth even if I'm at my peak SMV. Of course SMV is core of TRP and I'm not neglecting it. I'm very satisfied with all the work I made since 2 years concerning my SMV. Problem is, waiting for my SMV to peak in order to work on my approach anxiety is dumb. It's the best way to never get to approach.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:34 AM
1

I've been to the US. You people are very outgoing and talkative by nature. This is not the same culture in France. But anyway, we're all human and there's no reason I can't adapt.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:27 AM
1

Actually I consider my end goal ambitious but when I'm in a session, my goal is just to say something, anything, and leave. I consider this simple fact a true victory even if it was awkward as fuck the whole interaction.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:25 AM
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What I want is high quality women. Attractive ones. I'm 35 yo and I never had one. I only slept with fatties. I know for a fact HB8 won't get into my bed directly falling from the sky. I know I HAVE TO cold approach. I already want to BE GOOD at it. Can you imagine overcoming 20 years of approach anxiety toward women with "It will happen and come". Sure. Let's wait another 20 years, sounds like a good plan, all I have to do is to want to.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:58 PM
11

Yes but it works better if she does things for you without you asking. And then you fuck her good.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:57 PM
2

My question is what makes sex casual for you ? How do you know for sure that casual sex won't lead to pair bonding and a meaningful relationship you seem to enjoy ?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 09:55 AM
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What doesn't makes sense to me is why you don't try with this girls ? You think you already figured out that they're not suitable for a long term relationship ? That early ? You know that sex is a HUGE part of a relationship right ?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 08:19 AM
1

Simple but yet correct
/r/askTRP02/03/19 09:12 AM
2

Update : she's a slut.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:46 AM
2

Life is too short to tell people what you really think. You think you can argue with people ? You think you can change people ? People don't give a shit, even you, don't give a shit. Look, you just spend some times reading my post and it didn't change your mind. Life is short, you got to move on.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:04 PM
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And you can go and tell her your feelings. It'll wreck her attraction if she had any, you'll feel like a piece of shit but you will move on. Also, lift.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:45 AM
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And make sure you approach as fast as possible. Otherwise you'll be all in your head and anxious about it, and it'll ruin your motivation and even if you finally find the courage to go and face her after a while, you'll suck. For overcoming the regret right now, there's nothing you can do. Just acknowledge that you needed to feel that regret to fuel you into becoming a better version of yourself.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:42 AM
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I really want to do stand up. I think this is my mission. I really want it with all my heart and I sometime feel I'm designed for that shit. I know I'll be probably bad at first and I know It'll be a long road and hard work. I don't want to start right now cause I'm afraid it's a too big of step forward, and it will wreck my self image and motivation. I was thinking of going in a impro class before. I'm also thinking of working on my writings, analyzing famous standupers and their way and finall…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 09:18 PM
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All I read is "I have oneitis, I don't want to live in a world where I can't or won't have oneitis, I know what oneitis is, I'm pretending I don't have it, but deep down I know I have oneitis, because it feeeels goood, I'm such a girl hihi"
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:10 PM
1

Can you tell what knowledge and wisdom did you learn ?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 08:58 AM
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Thank for your post but I don't think I have an issue with time management and planning. I might be wrong. But I'm always 5 minutes ahead of any appointment. And I rarely plan 2 things at the same time because I remember quite well what's going on in my calendar. Still might check out if I have ADHD because I have the other "symptoms".
/r/askTRP15/12/18 07:14 AM
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Man, I didn't expected such a long and well explained answer. Thank you for that, it may be really usefull. I'm going to translate it and print it.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:44 PM
1

That's a fake
/r/askTRP09/12/18 02:14 PM
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Then it must be a sub full of pathetic guys because I'm almost certain 99% of us already got dump without seeing it coming at least once. No one is here because he's naturally red pill.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 08:44 PM
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username checks out.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:24 PM
3

yes
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:22 AM
3

Honestly she don't seem interested anymore. Was it good sex you both had ?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:44 PM
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You do this for you, not for women.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:21 PM
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Ok, no problem, just one question tho, do you think you have oneitis ? How would you react if she tells you right now that she's leaving ? How would you react if after she leaves you figure out that was with that shirtless guy ? What I'm trying to say here is : listen to your gut. Don't listen to the fantasy you created of her.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:58 AM
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I like how you say LTR next to "we are 17 yo".
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:41 AM
1

That wasn't a shit test but a comfort test. You didn't fail, unless you wanted to give her more comfort out of nowhere, especially if she gained weight and you care about it. She shouldn't be rewarded when she brings the topic.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:39 PM
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You're dealing with oxytocin withdrawal, this is some tough shit, it's hard to get over it. Once you're clear, try to read some books about self improvement and the core redpill principles : - lift - eat well - sleep well - meditate In 3 months you'll be another man, a grown up, not a boy anymore, and you'll be in total control over your life for the next 80 years.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 11:32 AM
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I think you should see the red flags everywhere and stop with that oneitis. You're trying to fix an LTR but it's too late imo. You're already 100% in her frame.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:43 PM
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So you are basically low-t and feeling like shit for several month afterward. And you can't really know if it damaged your long term T production ? Sounds like high risk and not so great reward to me. I mean. I'm currently trying to boost T the most natural way I can. It's tougher, but isn't what life is supposed to be ?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:16 AM
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Guys isn't test a dumb way to decrease your natural production ?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:55 AM
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You should just chill.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:19 AM
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Not as easy as it sounds. I'm trying this since 6 months with very mitigated success. I think what I should do is being more mindfull during the process and tell me that I don't need to go fast paced to enjoy the night. Fuck ! being mindfull and tell myself that'll even enjoy far better if I do this as slowly as possible.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:18 AM
1

I've been able to quit drinking for 2 months when I was training for a marathon. In fact, as long as I don't drink that first glass, I'm really OK. I've started lifting 2 months ago. I'm doing SL 5x5 and I'm currently able to squat 180 lb and I don't feel like it's super complicated to lift heavier for now. Except for barbell row and overhead press maybe if I really struggle and if I plateau it may be an incentive to drink less.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:15 AM
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I sincerly think I'm an alcoholic. But I don't want to remove my responsability by just assuming I'm sick. I'm going to work to get rid of this fucking bad habit. Even if it means to quit drinking definitly.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:12 AM
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Thanks for sharing your expercience. It really resonates. So now your keep going with your friends ? Have you stopped drinking completly ?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:45 AM
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solid comment. I really appreciate that.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:51 PM
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Did you try meditation ?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:49 AM
2

tricky situation but I think what I would go for is trying to isolate the one you don't like and explain her you want to talk for a few minutes with her sister alone because you really like her. Of course you tell her to don't tell her sister (she will anyway but you have to make her believe you're beta and you care about their friendship). Then when you are alone with the one you like try to escalate. If the sister come back and you're making out, she implicity agreed for this to happen.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 12:33 PM
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Careful of not hiding any inactivity behind the excuse of "that's just not the day"
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 07:11 AM
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thanks
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:53 PM
1

fair enough
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:49 AM
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For the drama
/r/askTRP10/09/18 12:58 PM
4

So you must be directly indirect OR the other way around. Got you !
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 12:49 PM
8

If it's sunny I like to go picnic in a parc.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:07 AM
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I know. I'm not really experienced enough. I see where I mess up even if this doesn't really show in this post.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:55 AM
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I agree, I feel bad but I shouldn't. It's just the process of finally increasing my SMV is showing me some problems I never though I'll have. That being said, it just don't tell me how to reject her properly. I might go with a LJBF if she's just pushing too hard.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:36 AM
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I think you're lying to yourself man. You could totally afford to take that job, and search another meanwhile. You wouldn't really be stuck and even if you were, one year is nothing. In my opinion you felt insulted and while it is totally understandable, the only thing you demonstrate with your post, is how you can't really get stronger through failure and maybe eat some shit in your life even it that means lowering your expectation. This is the process of getting what you want from life. You sh…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 09:18 AM
9

Please fuck her already
/r/askTRP01/09/18 03:47 PM
0

try meditating, try improving, reading books, socializing. Challenge yourself.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 12:50 PM
2

Texted her to came to get her whole stuff. Gave her a deadline.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 07:51 PM
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I'm starting tomorrow a 30-day challenge of my own to overcome approach anxiety. It's not going to be easy.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 07:48 PM
1

You're hitting me hard. That's because I know this is plain truth.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 06:01 PM
1

Thank you. ​I've read a lot of your stuff, keep going.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 05:49 PM
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Just to look at it another way, I likely stole all the good years from her (24-34). Here SMV is probably now declining like super fast. She's hiting the wall hard. I'll be fucking around young girls in no time. She'll have to live with the idea she shouldn't had left me. It looks like I win. I have no anger
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 05:24 PM
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Yeah, I still have some of her stuff at home. She came back to take some of it recently, I was just polite and didn't say much, she stayed 5 minutes. I don't want to see her anymore. I don't want her anywhere near me or my friends.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 04:47 PM
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There is no try, just do it Good point. This shit is tough. I know I gotta do it. I just find myself every excuses not to. ​
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 04:42 PM
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I don't believe this is an achievement but I get what you're saying. First, I believe she had not a very high SMV, she was a HB 6/7 at first and then as her SMV declined she went to 5. In the meantime, mine went from 2 to 5 at some point in the relationship. She was a bit crazy due to her mother. She had probably low self-esteem. She was probably an alpha widow. And I have a strong family with 3 older brothers. We text everyday. I am bold and quite fearless (when drunk, and I was often) and I go…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 03:11 PM
10

I've done my eighteenth session of Stronglifts 5x5 this morning. I take this very seriously. Still fatty, I think I'm around 21% bodyfat.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 02:26 PM
8

She once cheated on me when I was at my brother's wedding. She told me after having sex with me the next day. The guy didn't had any protection. ​ I was totally in her frame at that time, so technically I didn't broke mine, but I was very angry at her, and sad. I don't remember if I cried but I wouldn't be suprised I did... ​ Well, she probably cheated on me every chance she had since that one, but didn't tell me. ​ I honestly don't know why she stayed so long with the trash blue pill I was.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 02:08 PM
4

To be fair divorce rape aren't really the same in France.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 02:02 PM
39

I'll try to do that exactly.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 02:00 PM
11

that and If your younger and feeling worse than me, you're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 09:58 AM
12

You don't have abundance mentality
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:53 AM
9

A girl I wasn't even flirting with told me once "We're not going to fuck tonight, I have a boyfriend". Made me laugh, she wasn't even aware of the game she played. I instantly translated it to "I want to fuck you NOW, but it's your job to escalate so I can pretend it just happened". End of the story : I wasn't interested so I didn't do shit and she slept alone.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:19 PM
9

You're self conscious enough. You know your weaknesses. You know the rules of the game. Now time to cut the crap, start your journey to bettering yourself. Exercise, eat well, read stuff, don't beat yourself too much, don't rush, in one or two months you'll get the confidence back and start beeing the awesome dude you deserve to be.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:07 PM
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her hypergamous nature will make her forget you faster than you can forget her. Don't pretend to be what you can't (alpha chad without any emotion) she's your GF, you have oneitis (the strong bond you know what I mean). Don't listen to what she says, once you're gone, she'll fuck chad and forget about you. Or she'll use you as her orbiter. Long distance relationship don't work. Read the rational male.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:39 PM
2

I guess it depends on how you do it. Dr. Maltz’s once wrote a book about what he called "Psycho-Cybernetics". You can find the remastered version here : https://www.amazon.com/New-Psycho-Cybernetics-Maxwell-Maltz/dp/0735202850 In one chapter he's kind of talking about that thing you call daydreaming, but he call it "theater of your mind". He says that it helps your self image if you picture yourself succeeding at something you want to achieve. So if you want to keep doing this, I think you shoul…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:23 AM
1

oneitis
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:14 AM
5

you sound unnecessarily upset. Are you a materialistic bitch ?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 04:14 PM
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You're not getting what I'm saying. If the guy found what he says genuinely fun, and the girl reacts bad, then the good call is to disqualify her. She may be too dumb to realise that it was a joke, or too focus on herself and what she looks like, maybe she don't have the capacity to make fun of herself, anyway... You withdraw attention and you may even go back home with a just a good bye. You can say anything to anyone, just look any comedian ffs. The right tone, the right intent, the right expl…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 03:52 PM
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Yeah but, in every situation, if you find what you're saying really funny, it is what matters. I mean, if she's really attracted and if he's genuinely having fun while teasing her by calling her a bitch it shouldn't be a problem. I guess at one point he maybe was too focus on the vibe, too afraid of killing it somehow and was listening to his brain while saying the word bitch, and maybe he was too stressed about keeping the frame at that moment and his body language showed weakness. She chose th…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:02 AM
3

Ikr, some people may just assume I go everywhere on this sub to spread the blue pill theory knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 06:38 AM
28

good job on understanding sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 04:29 AM
25

this is probably your soul mate, you should keep her at all price.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 04:10 AM
5

You can't trust what she says. Never. On any topic. Women tend to lie to themselves more than men, and having a high n-count is very detrimental to their social acceptance and self image, so they will unconsciously "forget" to count some dicks they had. That being same It's kind of the same for every human being. A virgin boy will surely avoid being honest about it, and may end up lying the other way.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:44 PM
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"they'll come naturally" Women will naturally orbit is more accurate, you still have to tease them and master their shit tests. And with everything in life, you should identify where you suck and where you are strong. If you suck with women, you should absolutely want to improve. It is OK to make it your primary goal of self improvement if you feel OK with other aspects in your life. It's still no END GOAL, but at one point you should look in the mirror and be honest.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 08:31 AM
1

Yeah that's me
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:35 PM
4

Thank you for that answer man
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:40 PM
1

Went from 100kg to 85kg. Still have 5-7kg to lose but my weight didn't move since 3 months. I started SL 5x5 since the beginning of the month, and I try to keep running at the same time. I wonder if I made the right choice but I wanted to lift so bad I didn't want to wait. I try to keep cutting but I'm sure my lift will plateau soon... I want to get rid of all that fat once and for all, but I need patience...
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:38 AM
0

I ate all I could and became the fatest idiot
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:20 AM
8

Yeah, I always gives advices. Maybe that's why I don't get laid.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 01:58 PM
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you win
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:46 PM
2

I think one thing you could try is do the opposite of what you think. Find her shallow but attractive ? Compliment her brain and tease/push on her aspect. She knows she's pretty, so she don't need validation for that, sounds beta / needy if you do it.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 12:19 PM
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Don't think too much. Enjoy the music. Don't try anything with her because in my opinion you're feeling needy already. You should honestly try to pickup another girl you find attractive. That way you'll be probably attractive to both and you'll get to chose.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 12:08 PM
2

No I'm at work. I do workout almost everyday at lunchtime when everybody is eating and then I eat. I do eat with co worker once or twice a week.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:18 AM
2

I didn't complain about anything
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:24 PM
2

why is everyone so dumb ?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:04 PM
-2

nice value you bring to reddit
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:36 PM
3

Total beginner. I learn from my mistakes. And I can see you just made one by wasting your time posting this
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:36 PM
-4

Sorry but you are useless. I live in Paris. Very few gym have the necessary equipments. Those which have are far from work/home. I got a very good offer on the subscription via my work. I've access to 17 gyms with my pass. Refund is not possible because I paid for a coupon and it says its not possible.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:33 PM
1

I'm a beginner and everyone here seems to recommend it because it's effective and easy to stick with
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:10 PM
-1

Not possible to block her. But too long to tell a stranger why.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:03 PM
5

Guess who hamstered her way and want to know why I don't want the drink. I'm ignoring her.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:59 PM
1

ok, sounds wise.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:34 PM
1

Interesting point of view. Thank you for that.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:19 AM
2

Nice to ear some positive vibe like this.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:18 AM
1

ok nice, I've got so much book to read right now, all are related to self improvement for now, I might go with this one soon.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:05 PM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:03 PM
3

Ok, I really don't know which is the best, I'm just confronting you with what I've read so you'll hopefully argue what's really best.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:34 PM
1

I can't really stop running, got a marathon to train in early 2019
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:31 PM
3

I've read the opposit advice : running on the same day you do your squats. It gives you a full day of rest.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:28 PM
1

I kind of envy you in some oddly ways. Just keep in mind it's going to get better. It always gets better. And the harder it is now, the better it will be later. You are really lucky to feel thoses emotions even if you trully believe the opposite right now. It's NEVER easy. No great men achieved anything without beeing challenged. You're just learning.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:41 PM
3

I think some people that master an activity or subject in which you want to improve, deserves that you put their time above yours, so they can teach you some shit. But it's still a win scenario for you and you're not really losing time, therefore value.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 11:37 AM
2

Ok thank you for the reference.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:55 AM
1

I buyed cialis for the 2nd attempt. But It didn’t work until the girl was gone... I genuinely had no interest in having sex with her, my aim was just « having sex ». As soon as she went out of my place, I was hard as never... I fap once a month since two month.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:54 AM
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