TLDR didn't approach

ibhova · 2019-02-10T07:24:08+00:00

Make sure you don’t have regrets the next time you are faced with the same situation.

mrmaldoror · 2019-02-10T09:52:33+00:00

You need to come up to mental tricks to make you ACT.

I've opened a lot but still get stage fright every time.

OfficerWade · 2019-02-10T09:52:59+00:00

I know exactly what you don’t wanna hear is that we all think your a pussy. But nah. I wanna share with you there is person who watches you perched up somewhere monitoring your activity and it’s not the you who is engaged in the world. What would he think if you didn’t seize the opportunity again? You would say there I go doing that silly thing again, I’ll only feel depressed, hopeless or whatever because I think in terms of outcome dependence.

Becoming independent of outcomes doesn’t mean you don’t continue your pursuit of a relationship or careers but that development of being aware who is doing the work. Eventually you will begin to separate this stuff and it will make sense but in the beginning it’s heavy and slow and getting started is the hardest part. So the analogy is a car- once you get to pushing that sucker it starts rolling by itself with a little momentum... a little willingness.

Title	TLDR didn't approach
Author	Atheist_Utopia
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	February 10, 2019 7:12 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/ap1rs1/tldr_didnt_approach/
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