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Deep work - by Cal Newport. Intro to the concept of deep work and how those who have the ability are in big demand. Most of the society does shallow work which is basically sending emails. But deep work produced the biggest inventions. It will explain how your phone is killing your productivity. I listened to this book while at the gym. Opened my eyes.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:19 AM
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Happened to me once. Approached a girl, she said something nasty to me. So I told her "with that kind of an attitude, you should've stayed home. This is a social environment and if you're in a bad mood, we don't need you here. Stay home next time and watch TV". Man, o man, she got pissed! Started threatening me with her boyfriend or something. And I just pissed her off even more. She called security guy. I told him it's all good. She said something nasty to me. When security guy walked away, I l…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 02:41 AM
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I had a similar story with a girl who was a virgin. She came to my house "to show me how to cook" something. But then was refusing my advances. So I walked her to her car and wished her a good evening. Meantime I called another girl and went on a date with her. The first girl got pissed and told everyone what an asshole I am. So I waited a week and then called her and told her she better needs a gay best friend so she can go shopping with. She responded that she really likes me still. So I invit…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 01:36 AM
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I was once listening to some old Earl Nightingale recordings. A lot of wisdom there. One recording told a story about some rich guy who was in his 50's in poor health. He was hated by everybody at the business he created. He started to help people and discovered that by helping others he discovered he was also helping himself. So why not help other people? There are a lot of ways to do that. I once checked volunteering opportunities in my city and found a ton of different ways. They needed peopl…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:23 PM
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Pardon me, but I'm going to be blunt. Having a full-time job is like oneitis for one girl. If you're not working on alternative income streams then it's like settling for one plate. Only a matter of time before she breaks. Searching for a job is like a game. If you have a game, you'll do fine. Game means you have to know how to market yourself, negotiate and sell yourself. How does everyone look for a job? They look at the job ad and see employer is looking for someone with 5 years experience wi…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 03:20 AM
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"I’m a 21-year-old college student in north Texas who’s recently re-enrolled to learn how to run my small business better" And why are you wasting your time at this university when you could've learned it all and more from the great Dan Kennedy? You will have to unlearn what you "learned" at the university and learn the correct way. There are so many great business people to learn from (Gary Halbert, Clayton Makepeace, John Carlton), yet you chose to go learn business at a place and from people …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 03:31 AM
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I don't know where you are but I'm divorced and kept 50% access to my kid and pay no spousal or child support. That's because during my divorce I ordered a book "Emergency dad's guide to divorce proceedings" it said don't move out of the house and don't sign anything you don't agree on. I told my then wife "nobody is going to take away my son from me. I'll go to courts and lose everything if I have to. I'll earn money again but you won't". And she agreed to settle. If you're in Canada, judges wi…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 10:02 PM
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MMA types are complete betas. My son attended kids martial arts at one of the local MMA clubs. I see a Chinese chick who's a receptionist there and apparently dating a Co-owner of the club. The dude has califlower ears and looks ferocious but the receptionist girlfriend treats him like shit in front of everybody. Berates him, throws pencils at him "jokingly". And that's in front of complete strangers. The dude's the owner for God's sake. If you tolerate shitty behavior from your woman, it gets o…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 12:24 AM
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Why don't you guys approach the girls you like instead of settling for whoever approaches you? Why don't you talk to those couples of 9s and 10s who are "dating" soyboys. And finally... Why don't you stop listening what they say and start watching what they do. Find a group of the most beautiful girls and approach them. If they're dancing in a circle, get in the middle of it. Do what's difficult. Go for the scary beautiful girls and talk to them until they don't even intimidate you. Who cares wh…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 01:41 PM
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One more thing - close all credit accounts including credit line accounts. She may withdraw a bunch of money and you'll be responsible for it. Happened to me.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 04:50 AM
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Facebook is the greatest tool for marketing and sales. You can test selling products, you can target users with interests precisely and Facebook even allows finding people who buy online. Another way Facebook is excellent is for business interests. There are groups for copywriting, marketing, drop shipping you name it. It's an awesome tool if you use it wisely. You can walk into Home Depot, buy a hammer, slam your finger and then write long posts how horrible hammer as a tool is and the guy who …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:18 AM
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I'll shamelessly promote my new blog article that answers this question: https://confidentialreport.info/how-to-make-200k-a-year-or-more-as-a-software-engineer-and-still-be-a-cool-guy-or-girl/
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:50 AM
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I would give her a second chance. Tell her to come meet you at your house to ... help you cook something (or use some other excuse). Now that you've pushed her enough, she knows you don't need her. And she knows your boundaries. And she thinks you're really smart. Hence she's apologizing. A fuckable girl that is smart is a better fuck than some of the bimbos who only care about dumb shit. My girl was just like you explained - all liberal and shit at the beginning. She just didn't know any better…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:50 AM
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Aren't they dropping bombs in Ukraine? My neighbor's wife went to Ukraine to take care of her father and half of her house got blown off. Do you really want to go back? To get your balls blown off? Assuming you do, If your life's purpose is to sit on your ass and do nothing while living off of savings then good for you. You're thinking if I have $100k US and I go to Ukraine to pick up hot chicks and time stops and nothing changes then I'll be rich man forever. But your current paper money may no…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:24 AM
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The correct course of action would've been taking the ice cube and slipping it into her panties or a bra. That would've brought her a mix of emotions like anger, surprise, astonishment and others. You need to bring drama to your wife constantly. She doesn't like to be bored. So you variate by making her do squats, telling her to put on short skirt, stockings and heels so you can fuck her. Slap her on the ass at random times. If she says something back, slap her chest playfully. Tell her somethin…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:00 AM
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Common scenario - girls dancing in the group circles paying absolutely no attention to the guys including you dancing there like a monkey trying to show everyone "how much fun you're having". Now what? Approaching from behind is creepy. She pays no attention to you. Because her friends are right there and she doesn't want to look like a slut in front of them. So she tries really hard to show she's just there to dance. That's the most common scenario in the clubs. Not what you explained there. I'…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 05:47 AM
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Have you tried learning to dance? Ballroom, salsa, West coast swing. Join a class and you'll be killing it in no time. Not to mention other benefits of dance such as stress reliever, music enjoyment, social aspect. You're dancing with a girl and also talking to her, cracking jokes and whatnot. And she's giggling at all your bad jokes because you're leading her. Or else you'll be dancing with another girl. There are more girls than guys on the dance floor. I see 50/60/70 year old dudes dancing wi…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 03:57 AM
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Her: You have bad teeth You: Makes me more attainable. I'd be too hot otherwise... Her: Melts...
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 12:34 PM
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TV is good to run tutorial videos and educational videos. You can put it on and do stuff like cooking while it runs and you can learn stuff. I hook up my laptop and run educational stuff. Kids will watch whatever is on TV so I'll put lectures from famous professor Michio Kaku about physics and let them knock themselves out :)
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:20 AM
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Men fix, build, maintain stuff, men are good at everything. Women are useless but they buy stuff. Like 80% of all decisions are influenced by women. That's why everything on TV is opposite of the real life. Every time I see stuff like this I explain to my son that it's all for marketing. They want women to buy stuff so they have to kiss their asses. Otherwise if TV would show women useless, they'd get pissed and wouldn't buy anything. I point it out to my son every time I see something like that…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:04 AM
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Fathers abandon their children because they're weak men raised by women and don't know how to be men! My ex was going to take my son and let me see him every other weekend, so I told her I'll tie her up in courts until we lose everything and I don't give a shit because I can earn it again later. We had 2 houses at the beginning of divorce. I just don't see a good excuse not to put in an effort to see your own children. Any problems can be overcome. We are men. We fight until the end. We don't gi…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 10:12 PM
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I also catch myself to never stare at females working out at the gym but then think to myself, why not? They're wearing skinny yoga pants and sometimes even tank tops. Or a sweater that's revealing a tatoo on a shoulder. Obviously wearing all that not just for comfort. They want to look good. And they want to be noticed. So why don't we stop not staring at them and given them solid eye contacts when we're between sets, and maybe something will come out of it. It seems everyone is oh so focused o…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 03:49 AM
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Ask her if she's getting married to her boyfriend. If she says no, tease her that he's no boyfriend but just a friend with benefits she hangs out with before she meets a real man. Then ask her if he's good in bed etc. Ask her if he treats her nice. If she says yes, tell her "I wouldn't" with a sly smile.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:49 PM
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Have you tried learning to dance? Ballroom, salsa, West coast swing. Join a class and you'll be killing it in no time. Not to mention other benefits of dance such as stress reliever, music enjoyment, social aspect. You're dancing with a girl and also talking to her, cracking jokes and whatnot. And she's giggling at all your bad jokes because you're leading her. Or else you'll be dancing with another girl. There are more girls than guys on the dance floor. I see 50/60/70 year old dudes dancing wi…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:02 AM
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That's the spirit! Conquer it and get comfortable and you'll enjoy the fruits of your labour. Tons of women go to swing dances. And they're undressing you with their eyes even during the lesson. I've been dancing ballroom for a few years and I've dated quite a few girls through dancing. But watch out! If you become too good, you won't stand a girl who can't dance and is useless on the dance floor no matter how hot she is. And most won't even agree to dance with you for that same reason. It's ver…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:51 PM
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Working as a software contractor for government and also building a dating website and making cold calls every morning with a goal to start a Software as a service business. Also studying for a HAM radio license and waiting for my firearms license. Working out every day and just got gym membership. Also planning to get into Krav Maga. Also waiting for the real estate bubble to burst so I can convert my investments to Real estate.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 02:20 PM
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I had a similar situation where I knew I may have gotten a girl pregnant (she was my wife at the time but I was preparing to divorce her). I was literally praying for days asking God to please not let her be pregnant. And then ... She showed me a positive pregnancy test! And ... My son was born. He was very handsome. I love him with all my heart and I'm so happy. Got divorced, paid no child or spousal support and have 50% custody. Did I mention how awesome my son is? He's got ADHD and some probl…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 04:26 AM
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This!!! Should be thought to guys in schools. Every dad should teach this to his son. Every man should read this. And re-read. It's a shame I've read this only now when I'm 47. It's the best thing I've ever read on pickup. You've explained it so well. Thank you Sir.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:32 PM
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Top comment right here from EliasBoudinot. I would just add Peak oil will bring tremendous changes. Such as global economic collapse, fiat currency reset (look at india, Venesuela) not to mention a possibility of EMP initiated bo solar storms. Civilization is truly fragile and it can change at any moment. Some say economic collapse will happen in 2017 and will be blamed on Trump. Masculinity is going to make a roaring come back real soon, gents. Prepare now. Build the skills now. Invest in yours…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 06:04 AM
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I myself got divorced 5 years ago and demanded and got 50% custody and no child support. I will support my child when he comes to my house so I can teach him how to be a man and teach him other things instead of giving child support to my ex so she can feed some junk food to my kid. Go to court and ask for custody. Here in Canada I learned that courts are somewhat sympathetic and will grant access to kid to a father if he wants and asks for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 03:49 AM
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I was there and I grew my own food. And the biggest mistake was that FIAT became worthless, then it was changed to another FIAT which later became worthless and then again. people lost money in every exchange. Majority in North America think this will never happen here. I'll just invest into worthless paper because at the moment it looks like it's going up in value. Meantime Russia and China are buying gold by the ton. Because gold and silver was used as real money for thousands years. But soon …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 09:52 PM
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This is a typical mainstream advice that's just plain wrong. If you want to go into basics, you should explain how money is created and that all money is debt and that there is 20 trillion of debt that's about to collapse and that currently there is negative interest for most investments, so most people are losing money. And you'd be crazy to put your money in stock market or real estate right now because everything is manipulated and nothing is real. Professionals are selling their investments …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 06:17 PM
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I was married for some 12 years but started working with really gorgeous Russian co-worker who would dress l up and look awesome every day. Spending 8 hours a day next to her we started hanging out and got very close. We'd go on ski trips together. She became my mistress. I was almost ready to leave my wife for her. The only problem was because she made me wait for sex because she wanted it to be "special moment". I was so horny that one night I jumped my then wife and came into her. A month lat…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 07:13 PM
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the money you spend on that repair, could actually he a nice down payment on something you won't have to worry about breaking down for many years Keyword here is "down payment". That's in addition to monthly fee for a loan of $30k. Now you're in debt. And the car may turn out to be a lemmon! New car is never worth it. It's value drops as soon as you drive off the lot. And the car you currently have has no monthly payment. Anything mechanical can be fixed for a few hundred dollars. And then you c…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 02:35 AM
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Yes. If nobody knows you're holding then you're pretty much safe. Gold is easy to hide. There are tons of places to hide it. Just Google it. It's infinitely safe and will survive crises, wars, money printing, bank runs. And you can hold it in your hand, admire how beautiful it is. Same goes for silver. Every youngster should plan to acquire it. Especially now. When the price is manipulated down. Real cost should be $10000 for gold and $300 for silver. Banks at secretly buying gold and silver. Ch…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:00 PM
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What about the government stealing your money by printing trillions of dollars (QE to infinity) and causing massive inflation as a result? Does FDIC insure your money against that?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:01 AM
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This is a shit advice by somebody who has no idea what he's talking about. Somebody who watches mainstream media and believes all the hogwash they're spitting. Banks are having major problems and will implode taking your money with them. Did you know that putting money in a bank account is equivalent to you becoming unsecured creditor to a bank. The one that if a bank goes bankrupt will be the last considered to get money returned. Read about Deutsche Bank derivatives problem, Itallian banks ins…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 01:16 AM
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If you want to get response in online dating and have a somewhat decent game, use seekingArrangement. There is a long thread on rooshv forum about "seeking arrangement game".
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 04:22 AM
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Her: What do you do? Me: I'm a plumber. Her: Hmmm Me: It's the best job in the world. I get to clean the pipes and show off my crack. Hand motion showing how to clean the pipe from inside. Her: Lauging...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:10 AM
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I was trying to sell my house by myself but I had no buyers. Eventually i got one offer which was low ball and had many conditions. I had a feeling that I'm not gonna be happy if I accepted it. I had to do something to get more buyers. So I hired a stager. She asked me to move my furniture to a garage and did a miracle with my place decorating it like it was a model home. In 3 days I had buyers coming for a showing and staying at my house for an hour or more not wanting to leave. On a weekend I …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 09:41 PM
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If my (east european) wife told me "deal with it", I'd fucking deal with it that very moment by administering roughest sex she's ever had. You need to control her and not let her off leash. Does she exercise every day? I told mine to do 100 squats with weights every morning. She normally does but there was a period when she got busy, and she didn't for a while. So yesterday I gave her shit for that and some other stuff (she didn't control her emotions on couple of occasions) and today she told m…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 09:16 PM
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That's why you stayed with her for so long. Don't hesitate to remind her of privileges she enjoys. Besides, that was an investment on her part into your future as a couple. But supporting extended family, that should stop.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 08:52 PM
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Invest, but not into stocks or mutual funds. Or you'll lose money. Buy physical silver like coins or bars. Like American Silver Eagles or Canadian Maple leafs. They're only $14 an ounce. Read "Silver bullet, silver shield".
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 06:44 PM
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Yes it's fun telling them what in doing. Showing them articles such as "woman most responsible teenager in the house". She later tells me "I love you so much" ... But according to that article "because I feel like it right now". I find that funny. Intelligent women love learning about themselves.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 05:46 PM
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"But I need you... cooking me nice meals, getting dressed in a short skirt, getting down on your knees and taking me in your mouth". Sounds douchey but women love narcissists. If she starts getting upset I tell her "I'm just trying to make it interesting for you, because women love drama. And if I don't give you drama you'll start looking for one." (said with a sly smile).
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 08:06 PM
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I had my LTR ask me "What would you do if you haven't met me". My answer is always "I would've met someone younger, even more beautiful and smarter". She felt tingles for a day or so. And doesn't ask me that anymore. My buddy jokingly tells his wife "When you turn forty, I'll swap you for two twenty year olds". In your case, after she asked the question, I would have flexed my muscles and said look at me, I'm so gorgeous, if I was available, chicks would be fighting for me. There would be riots.…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 08:00 PM
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"Looking to have fun" is not going to work. She's a single mom. Doesn't have time to waste to just "have fun". You need to be romantic. See my answer on this page.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 07:54 PM
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Here is my field tested technique on how to answer "What are you looking for": "How many times did you hear a story "I wasn't looking for a relationship until I met HER". Ever heard of George Clooney? He wasn't looking for a relationship. Until he met Amal. What am I looking for? I'm open to anything. We can meet, become soulmates, fall in love, get married and live happily. Or we can meet, dislike each other and call it quits. You will never know until we try." That's investing a lot, perhaps. …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 07:53 PM
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When a woman starts to act up, in my language there is a word to describe what she's having - "Nedapistitas". If translated into english that would be "SheIsNotBeingFuckedEnough-itis". And to cure that I basically I have to grab her by the pussy, drag her upstairs and fuck her enough. After which she tells me - you were right, I did have "nedapistitas".
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 10:27 PM
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You're thinking about it all wrong. There's no sense of kissing up to people who won't appreciate your awesome results. I would bring this up in the interview. I'd say, look, I'm not your average salesman. I bring results. I have my own methods that work. If you need someone to follow procedures then I'm not your guy. What exactly are you looking for? Same as with girls. If you want an average guy, then there are plenty, knock yourself out. I'm not average. Same with job. Life is too short to pu…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 12:39 AM
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What a beautiful post, OP. I'm a single father of one and I agree 100%. Would like to extend that the best partner to have kids with is a late bloomer feel girl who is really smart because she was reading lots of books when growing up, never bought into CC thing. You can find one who's still a Virgin on her early thirties. I found 3 in the last few years. They're too smart to go for chads. They're looking for a smart and intelligent guy. With a girl like that you don't even need much game. Just …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 07:41 PM
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Personal coach can't teach you to feel confident in front of a crowd/group.
/r/seduction20/11/15 01:40 AM
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Or you could join the Toastmasters for thousands less and learn all that plus public speaking. Not to mention learning to talk about any subject and becoming an extrovert. Been a member for 4.5 years. Best decision I ever made!
/r/seduction19/11/15 03:44 AM
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Not all seddit users offer advice. Some just like to criticize others' advice and offer nothing of their own...
/r/seduction02/10/15 02:15 AM
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So approach them and make them smile and brighten their day. Tell them you love the rain because it reminds you of the time when you were growing up when you were walking in the forest and remember those rain drops on the leaves... Put her in your positive frame and she will follow and forget how she feels and starts feeling great. Remind her it's her lucky day cause she met a really amazing guy...
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:43 PM
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Why are you focused on yourself so much. You're with a beautiful girl. Focus on her. Cover her body with kisses, cuddle her, give her oral pleasure. That's what feels good and releases dopamine in your brain. You should like her by now. Otherwise why are you even having sex with her.
/r/seduction24/09/15 05:00 PM
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If you're a rich guy, you can take bootcamps over and over and hire Julien Blanc to teach you stuff and that is how you get girls :)
/r/seduction06/08/15 04:01 AM
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That's the problem. Girl approached you with her idea of relationship where she will be dancing with you for 6 months or one year effectively friend zoning you and then she may give you some. I've been there. Girls see it as very normal where you are a very good dancer and you spend your time teach them to dance but she gives you nothing. I've been there many many times. It's at the point where I tell them that we can have dancing relationship if we're also dating, but otherwise I'm too busy.
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:46 PM
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Have you tried approaching girls at those venues? I went to a couple of meetups and the quality just wasn’t there. I also did Zumba and I can’t see how I can pick up women there. Perhaps Salsa dance class would work if you schedule permits. But they frequently friend zoned me at the class and also the quality just wasn't there. You can't control who comes to the classes and you're stuck with whoever comes there. It may work if you live downtown of a big city but not in suburbs where you get 50ye…
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:40 PM
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Is your chest slouched and stomach loose? Lift your chest up. Try to walk as tall as possible. That will square off your hips. They use that in Standard ballroom dancing. Look at guys ballroom dancers, the way they carry themselves. They have iron strong posture. That makes a huge difference. It takes effort though if you're too used to incorrect posture. You'll get used to it. Most people have incorrect posture. Especially those who sit all day.
/r/seduction13/07/15 02:33 AM
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Trolling much?
/r/seduction04/07/15 12:12 AM
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You let it get to you. Agree and exaggerate: him: "he has trouble with girls..." You: "it's true I'm a total virgin. Never even kissed a girl before" or "true. I'm very shy..." Looking down with a sly smile. And don't forget to say "and my friend here is awesome with girls" he gets 50 numbers per hour and has 80 girlfriends. Treat it like a shit test. If he really bothers you, go out alone. You're very needy. Don't take it to seriously. If I texted the girl I love you and she responded with good…
/r/seduction02/07/15 05:18 AM
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I felt the same when my wife decided to divorce me. Even bought an ebook "How to get your ex back". Book suggested investing in yourself. So I joined a ballroom dance class. Holy shit it helped! You forget anything that's bothering you because you have to hear the music and think of the steps and ... be the man and lead your partner. Now I laugh at myself how I thought I will never be happy ever again. My current girl is 100 times better than my ex ever was. She loves me so much, she almost wars…
/r/seduction08/05/15 04:42 AM
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What would high status guy (e.g. Donald Trump) do in your position? Would he get upset, stop talking to her, feel embarrassed? No he would act like nothing happened. He'd know there are tons of other women, younger, better looking, smarter. And so should you. Be friendly with her, but don't hit on her and don't show the smallest indication that her decision upset you in any way. You're not some average guy, you have plans for the future and you'll need a woman that will help you achieving them. …
/r/seduction08/05/15 04:30 AM
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I'm 6'4" white guy and I have a friend indian dude who is perhaps a whole foot shorter than me. And he cleans up on online dating when I can't even get a stupid reply. I don't know how he does it, but he always shows me photos/texts of girls he gets - they're hotties and white. All I know he has this LMR techique where he gives them a back massage after which they beg him to take them. He plays this yoga to his advantage. Somehow he's able to convince them that he's amazingly successful. So my p…
/r/seduction14/04/15 04:02 AM
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Her: Can I take your skillet? Me: Yes. And feel free to take my toaster, microwawe, fridge ... anything I see in sight Her: Can you check my tire pressure? Me: Yes. I could also wash your car, change your oil and rustproof it Her Can I take your belt? Me: Feel free to take anything you like at my place Her: Can you do this for me? Me: Yes I'll take a whole day off and be your personal bitch. Anything you need baby... But only because you're so beautiful Agree and exaggerate works every time. The…
/r/seduction24/12/14 04:57 AM
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Absolutely right. The only way to win at the game is to leave it.
/r/seduction06/12/14 06:14 PM
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That's how you become the man. You go through the bullshit, you get hardened, you learn what happens, you know what and how women think. It's not their fault - you have to recognize they're in a difficult position. They want to pick a great guy to date but you can't brag to them about it. How do you show value to them and what is value? Values are different from girl to girl. And then one day you meet that one woman! And she tries to put you through bullshit. But you don't eat any of it. You sho…
/r/seduction05/12/14 03:35 AM
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You were busy thinking you need to do something to keep them occupied. I would've just put an emphasis on myself - what can I do so I can have fun - talked to other guys there, plaid some beer pong, danced, joked around and then left to meet some friends. You come to the party, you have to talk to other people too. The worst is when I have a party and some guests just talk among themselves and others just sit there feeling left out. Act like a host, engage people, talk to them, get to know them.…
/r/seduction29/09/14 02:40 AM
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Tell her "No problem. I feel the same way.". Invite her to hang out and hit on other girls in front of her. Ask her to help you get introduced to other girls. She may change her mind but if she doesn't, she will help you pick up chicks.
/r/seduction08/09/14 02:08 AM
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Just say what's on your mind and smile. Say "I'm shy and have nothing to say'. Just stand there and look at them. Practice good body language. Don't lean in. Face your fears. Make a commitment to always open hot girls and talk to them for 5 mins no matter what. Get used to it.
/r/seduction17/08/14 02:32 AM
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I had a buddy at work who was short but was funny and so much fun to hang out with that everyone paid attention to him and not me. I'm 6'4". Become good at conversation. Talk to people a lot. Fail many times. Learn the game.
/r/seduction17/08/14 02:28 AM
1

Genius! I never really thought of that. Gotta stop dancing on a high note and go do something else.
/r/seduction04/08/14 06:49 PM
-8

And do what instead? This thread is flooded with betas. You guys should go out more.
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:15 PM
-1

What's an acceptable way? Should I beg for her forgiveness?
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:12 PM
-2

No. I'm a guy who doesn't want to waste my time with chicks who will not fuck me. Fuck society's rules! What do you think I should have done? Apologized and offered to buy a drink?
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:10 PM
4

Lol. Was going to, but mine is only half inch...
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:13 PM
-23

... Turns her head again. "Haha... nice try again...". Now you look desperate...
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:38 PM
-8

Older/more confident girls don't just submit to you completely. Especially at the club. They hold their own. And that makes it interesting and challenging. That's why I'm asking for your field experiences not your opinions.
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:12 PM
3

I wasn't waiting, I went for it but it got nowhere. She kept distance. Again, tell me your experience in similar situation. I'm looking for field tested techniques, not "pussy, just go for it". Try to be more helpful, please.
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:05 PM
-2

With 3" heels? 6'2" normal? Maybe in Holland...
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:01 PM
-8

Have you ever tried kissing a girl who is trying to avoid being kissed? How did that go?
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:00 PM
-4

Then what's the correct action? Number closing and leaving her to game others? That's pretty much what I did but the time was wasted.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:59 PM
6

Awesome! I forgot that one. Thanks
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:54 PM
-7

Not with a girl who's keeping her distance with you even with dancing with you. She's 5'9" btw.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:50 PM
-5

How would you've handled it given that she wouldn't look straight in the eyes?
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:48 PM
-2

I didn't ask for it. I didn't want to force it since she was avoiding an eye contact and turning her head away constantly. And she wasn't grinding me either. That's why I'm so puzzled.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:47 PM
-2

That's a good one! I was just trying to screen her and see if she will get sexual with me. (she didn't).
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:46 PM
-1

I didn't take it too seriously. But the logistics were bad, she had her friends with her, some of her friends drunk dude was ogling at her, so I left and went back on the dance floor.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:45 PM
-5

It's probably the best. But now that I am philosophizing it, what if she pulls that line and you say "OMG. I feel so rejected. What if you liked me a lot and wanted to kiss me and I said Nice Try. How would you feel about it? Rejected? Insulted?". That would show my vulnerable side. Although I can hear you guys screaming "pussy!" :)
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:42 PM
3

I know. It took perhaps 1 hour until I isolated her but she still wouldn't do anything with me. We were dancing very closely almost hugging each other. But every time I would look straight at her, she would look away as if avoiding it. So I tried the "how would you rate yourself" line. Which I realized was a bit cheesy. I should've just went for it. Oh well, hindsight 20/20.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:40 PM
-5

That's what I did. But sensed that something was off. Like she was staying and talking to me, but wouldn't do anything more sexual. Perhaps because she doesn't want to look like a slut at the club and she wasn't drinking.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:37 PM
-5

No I wasn't I went for it. But her head was turned and she's a big girl (6') so I didn't want to force it.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:36 PM
1

I like that one. Thanks
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:35 PM
-8

I wasn't defensive about it. At least I did not show it. But inside I was puzzled how a girl doesn't want to kiss me when she's away from her friends and we've been dancing for a long while very closely. So I kept going, but logistics sucked (her friend was driving her home). Eventually I put my number into her phone, and called myself and left her to go on a dance floor.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:34 PM
-7

I was not being a bitch. But at the moment I couldn't come up with a quick comeback. I told her "You're probably one of those girls who have to go out for 3 months before you even kiss a guy". She said "No, I have to feel it". Which made me realize she is not feeling it, but why is she dancing with me for an hour with hands all over me if she's not feeling it?
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:32 PM
-29

That would've been reactive and asking her for advice -> beta.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:29 PM
-10

We were dancing for about an hour and she made many comments that we're both tall and would be perfect for each other. Only when I went in for a kiss, she gave me the line. How can you attract a girl more?
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:29 PM
-18

She turns her head constantly. And she's 6' tall and muscular. Forcing a kiss is not sexy.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:27 PM
-12

We were dancing very closely to each other for about an hour but her she just wouldn't keep her head straight. How can you kiss a girl when she turns her head constantly almost like avoiding it yet giving you IOIs and staying and dancing? I didn't want to physically force a kiss, so I had to prepare her for it. Even if I tried it again, she would've probably turned a cheek. I could sense it. No extended eye contact, but there were lots of IOIs - she waited for me until I came out of washroom. I …
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:26 PM
0

I'm 6'4" too. Are you kidding me? You need to get rid of this type of thinking pronto. 1. Walk straight. Stand as tall as you can and smile. Imagine you're the owner of the place. Look over people's heads and think to yourself hmm... this crowd is awesome ... who do I make happy with my presence... Approach a group of girls and put your arms around two of them, ask who are they... 2. Walk slow. You're the boss and you're awesome. 3. Dress in a suit or jeans and a blazer. Suits are made for tall …
/r/seduction02/08/14 02:43 PM
1

Just be friendly and indirect. Like you were if you were talking to your grandma. Gage their interest. If they're into you, invite them out for coffee.
/r/seduction28/07/14 05:19 PM
1

Plankoff! I love it! Gonna try this next time.
/r/seduction12/06/14 06:57 PM
1

Tell her "it's OK. We can be friends. Although I was planning to surprise you with some awesomely fun activity/take you out somewhere fun...". She'll get intrigued and ask what/where. Tell her "you'll see". Then tell her to dress sexy. Then take her dancing and... You're back together. Been there before. Girls don't just wanna fuck. They want to have fun, do some other things and then they wanna fuck like there's no tomorrow. And so do you actually. Just sex gets boring quickly, do some other th…
/r/seduction12/06/14 06:41 PM
1

This!!! I couldn't agree more. Tyler did a marvellous job deconstructing it all.
/r/seduction08/06/14 12:53 PM
2

Watch Sean Stephenson videos. This guy lives a life of a rock star (with women). Listen to the charisma he has. I LOVE what he is doing! Have some playful stories prepared e.g. You've been to a war and there was a fire in the tank. She: What happened to your face? You (putting your arm around her): You like it? You: Makes me more attainable. Put on dress pants, white shirt and a black/white striped blazer and be social/have tons of fun, dance like a maniac. You'll blow every other guy (standing …
/r/seduction08/06/14 12:47 PM
2

You're taking it all too seriously. If a girl asks me that I say "You're Bertha", or "Olga" or "Trudy" or whatever ugly name I remember that time with a smile. Even if I text a girl after a long while, I playfully write "Hello, Bertha. What's up?". It communicates you have abundance mentality and have too many names to remember. Also don't be afraid to tell her you're a player. They take it as a joke anyway.
/r/seduction08/06/14 12:39 PM
1

Wish I had a boner every time I talked to girls. Would make it so much easier screening which ones are DTF: http://kennyspuathoughts.com/2013/05/15/want-quick-sex-screen-girls-out-fast-who-arent-dtf/
/r/seduction28/05/14 03:32 PM
3

Very easy. Walk up to a set, stand there, look at them and say nothing for 5-10 secs. Enjoy the tension you're creating. When they start wondering what's up, say "I am very shy" with a smile. They will take it as a joke and you're in. I'm 6'4" and it works perfectly. They can't ignore you because you're a big guy. Also dress well. Dark jeans/collared shirt/white blazer works wonders. Women will stand in front of you so notice them.
/r/seduction21/05/14 02:14 PM
1

You're too serious and too logical about it. Logical = not fun. Flip that shit around. Make them guess what you do. Put a spin on it. You build the future. You make people's lives awesome. You rule internet. You're awesome and you do awesome things. It's all in sub-communication. Your confidence dictates if she finds you awesome and what you do awesome.
/r/seduction14/05/14 03:11 PM
1

Not a suit but white/black check blazer over white shirt with high collar over dark blue jeans and loafers works wonders for me. I feel really confident in it. My game is smooth, I talk slow and have tons of fun. Almost every time I went out I had at least one girl who was into me. One girl confessed to me that she'd stalked me on the dance floor until I talked to her. Another time I wore a black suit and a girl said I "look dangerous in a suit". I think a black suit might be trying a bit too ha…
/r/seduction14/05/14 02:59 AM
0

A lot of people don't want to go to the gym because they have to spend hours alone. It's always easier to workout with a buddy. If you're friendly guy it's just fine. People are happy to chat. But keep your sacred rule going. See the same people again and again but never talk to them...
/r/seduction12/05/14 09:33 PM
1

You tell her you saw her working out and wanted to meet her. Chat for a bit and ask her out on a date. If she rejects you, next time you see her, talk to her again, this time like you're meeting an old friend. This time don't ask her on a date. Just be super fun and interesting. After a while she will be wondering what's up. Do it because nobody else talks to women at the gym and you're not like everyone else.
/r/seduction12/05/14 04:23 PM
-1

This video is a complete bullshit. It doesn't reflect the reality of the club. Girls bitch shields are way up. If you give them space they will turn their back on you right away. Friends will come and interrupt/walk her away. If you do what this guy suggests you'll burn all sets and have to leave the club. He doesn't address that at all. Best puas plow through resistance. They also have prepared routines for example if you approach a girl on dance floor, she will be facing her friend and facing …
/r/seduction12/05/14 04:11 PM
3

This is the most beta advice of all. Following it will firmly plant you into her friendzone.
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:43 AM
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Ask her "Have you decided what you're gonna wear tonight?" If she asks why, say "second impression is most important". Then when you meet her, stop for a second and start looking at her up and down, check her ass and say "well, let's see what kind of impression you're going to make". You can tell her to bend over. She usually laughs. That puts you into a higher status frame and her qualifying herself.
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:33 AM
1

People are judgmental about age. Stay away from it. Joke around that you're 65. If she asks again, say you're 79 etc. Or just say "I'll tell you later" and go for the kiss. If she asks why, tell her you'll tell her why later.
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:29 AM
-1

You: "So, would you like to go on a date" (pretend like nothing happened before) Her: Blah blah not interested. You (with a sly smile): "How about next Tuesday?" Her: I don't even like you, you're a lier whatever... You: "We'll go for a walk and watch the sunset and I may even kiss you..." Her: Turns to her friends and pretends she doesn't care You: Quietly suddenly disappear from her view Her: Comes running after you "to give you a second chance" Worked for me recently. The girl is smart, funny…
/r/seduction28/04/14 02:57 AM
6

She invites you. It's awesome. But why she hits on other guys and you don't hit on other girls? Oh I get it. Because you're a "nice guy". And nice guys don't go for what they want. They just bitch when they don't get it and cause a scene. Talk to all other women, young, old, gorgeous and ugly. Stop being so damn quiet. You just need more practice. That girl you're with, look her in the eyes, and go for the kiss. If she asks what you're doing, say "I'm kissing you" and just go for it. If she asks…
/r/seduction30/03/14 05:12 AM
1

Clothes or no clothes doesn't really matter if your hands are all over her. Slide your hand in between her legs and massage her slowly and see how long she takes. She's wearing a dress?! Even better - go under skirt and run your hands on her inner thighs. It's impossible to resist a guy in bed ... unless you're very bad in bed. If true, read some books.
/r/seduction30/03/14 05:05 AM
3

You're feeling down because you're feeding your mind wrong information and you're creative self imposed limits. Think about positive experiences or create synthetically and you'll think positively. Watch "earl nightingale self image". 6 minute video that will change your life. Especially 3 minute mark. It explains approach anxiety and how it affects us.
/r/seduction26/03/14 01:53 AM
1

Now tell them about this league and tell them how exclusive it is. Exclusivity is very persuasive. Only the lucky one will get to go out to Prom with you. And it will only be one!
/r/seduction23/03/14 10:36 PM
1

Talk to other people during the day. Men, women, seniors etc. This will loosen you up and make you more social.
/r/seduction22/03/14 06:11 AM
3

Join toastmasters.org and learn public speaking. It will give you confidence to talk about any subject with anyone and will help you in other ways. Other than that just approach and fail as many times as you can. You become interesting when you relax and lose all filters and just say what's on your mind. Watch "simple pickup".
/r/seduction22/03/14 06:10 AM
5

All girls are in your league. You know why? Because you own the league! It's a league for girls who have a chance to go out with cool guy like you. You're god damned commissioner. Act like it and you'll get the girls.
/r/seduction22/03/14 06:03 AM
1

These are not mistakes. Hindsight 20-20. You did well. You could have gotten her number and she might have not replied especially because her friend would have told her not to talk to you. Or she might have decided that she was drunk when she met you or millions of other reasons girls have to not reply to you after giving you their number. Numbers don't mean shit. That's why we push forward for SNL. Which is what you did. You have gone out and pushed yourself forward and improved. That's what re…
/r/seduction10/03/14 09:49 PM
2

This is gotta be the worst advice. "Don't isolate, try to impress all her girlfriends, be a nice guy, take a picture, be a nice guy, bring flowers" and ... then what happens is you talk to a girl for a few minutes, then they start talking to each other because you just can't handle entire group occupied in a busy bar and you lose the girl and all her friends because they've all used you to get some entertainment for themselves because we all know girls just wanna have fun... Which means the oppo…
/r/seduction14/02/14 04:00 AM
31

You did very well given the situation. I had this happen with 2 girls recently. Girls that I've invested way to much time for. Some women will just use you and they don't even see anything wrong with it. They will train you giving bullshit stories such as, oh I need to get to know you better... We need to be friends first...I need to feel that we are spending time together... I'm old fashioned girl and I think guy has to pay for things until I get to know him etc. I think the best way to avoid t…
/r/seduction26/01/14 03:10 AM
1

But if you ever read "No more Mr Nice guy", you'd know it's OK to be selfish and get your needs met. It's worse when you sit there pretending nothing is wrong and that you're fine when you're horny as hell and want to have sex. That night I went on a date with another girl, so yes I was selfish and I feel good about it. It's when we pretend that our needs are not important is when we become nice guys and avoid conflict by sacrificing what we want. Which leads to bottling up rejections until we b…
/r/seduction16/01/14 02:52 AM
0

In the past when that happened to me I stopped and said jokingly, "well maybe we are not meant to be together" and then I said "I'll let you go home". Precisely because I didn't want to push her boundaries all evening to see if I can still get sex. So she went home pissed as hell and told all her friends and neighbours how I threw her out because she didn't want to have sex with me. She later told me she was slowly warming up to the sex and was going to have it with me that evening. To which I j…
/r/seduction12/01/14 02:32 PM
1

What's the way to do set sexual tone? And avoid relationship tone? I've been strougling with that with quite a few girls myself.
/r/seduction12/01/14 03:19 AM
2

One thing you could have done was stood up, looked at her and motioned with your head "come" and walked towards the washroom, waited for her there. When she came over, you could've introduced yourself, ran a bit of game and told her she's cute, but she's with her family, you're with yours, so let's exchange numbers so we can meet up later. (Don't give your number, get her's). Lead her and she'll follow. Another option is to wait until she goes to the washroom, follow her, and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction04/01/14 06:21 PM
1

I knew you'd say that. :) I would agree with you. Except I am the happiest when I hug a girl and press against her naked body feeling her soft skin with my whole body. And when I wake up and her naked hot body is right there to take care of my morning boner. Those are the moments when I tell a girl I love her. Funny I don't feel the same way if I'm not in bed with her :) Yes, women should not be the source of your happiness. That's a conventional wisdom. And it is wrong. Just ask a therapist, sh…
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:08 PM
2

This is the worst advice ever. Most guys here have no women in their lives. Yet they're good at something already. So you're advising them to give up on developing social skills all together. And give up on happiness. Better advice would be if you have no women in your life, then this is your priority number 1. Work on it hard. You don't have to hunt women as a sport, but you need to get them. Get a couple of girls, so you won't be too needy. You can do it the most efficient style by joining an …
/r/seduction29/12/13 07:43 AM
2

Older women respond very well to compliments. One time I met a 50 year old at the bar and somehow conversation went about looks and she said she is old. I leaned in and whispered "you're steaming hot", which she was. And she was after me the whole night. Too bad I didn't take advantage cause back then I was so focused on pulling younger ones (unsuccessfully). Lesson learned. But for you, nothing is lost. Wait for a new year, (she'll forget and forgive), ask her again. But this time don't hesitat…
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:38 AM
1

You're overthinking this. Talk to her about whatever you want - things you like or you're passionate about. Like Julien says, people are bored and always want to hear what you have to say. I wouldn't talk sexual just yet. Just ask her out and own that shit. Don't hesitate. Be decisive. Tell her how much fun will be going out with you. Make sure she understands it's a date with you on such a day and she'll find out what you'll be doing. If she says NO, act like nothing happened. Next time again t…
/r/seduction21/12/13 06:13 PM
1

Think Julien from RSD. Or Cajun from Love systems. These guys could not be not popular or handsome not enough. Julien even tested wearing stinky shirt for a month or so. It still didn't keep girls away from him. Be more social. Interact more. Talk to strangers more. Tell stories in more interesting ways. Be less boring. Say crazy shit and don't care. Girls will melt in your presence. If it's not happening, you've got work to do.
/r/seduction30/11/13 04:12 AM
2

Being 44 and having held many different jobs I can tell you that having a job is not what you think it is. Many people have jobs and they're not going anywhere. They're boring as hell and their personalities suck. Big difference if you have GOALS in life. What do you want to do? Focus on achieving that. And it doesn't mean you have to go broke meantime. You might need to get a job that pays bills Just so you can focus on your goal. Following your goal will make you happy. You'll be telling other…
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:46 PM
8

Go to places that have odds in your favour - dance/yoga classes at the university and you DON'T have to game them. They will be after you and not even for knowing how to dance but WANTING TO LEARN how to dance. Some of those girls will have danced for 10 years and will have nice figures. My dad ballroom danced at a university in 1965 and stole 10's from other guys because once the music started playing he was a monster on the dance floor. He told me when I was growing up - son, all women are the…
/r/seduction16/11/13 03:09 AM
2

Fuck lifting! Join the dance class. I've F-closed so many women I met through dancing. It's fun, you learn dance moves and don't have to exercise in sweaty gym. You exercise with a girl by the music and you kino her. No game needed.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:56 AM
1

Watch "sean stephenson on david deangelo man transformation". It will change your life. Eye contact can communicate more than words, brother. Physical game straight from beginning. Shows confidence and needs no words. Join a dance class - salsa, ballroom. It will give you huge confidence on the dance floor. And you don't even have to speak. And she likes you already. Go to loud clubs where nobody can hear anything anyway and practice dance floor game.
/r/seduction03/11/13 12:54 AM
1

Keep dates short - end them at 10 or 11pm latest. If she decides to go to her friend's place, tell her you're going dancing. Hit bars/clubs and see if you can pull someone else.
/r/seduction03/11/13 12:42 AM
3

If it's warm out, any type of beach, park, place with a view in the dark will do. Start fingering her until she can't take it anymore and then she'll help you solve this problem of "where". "Let's go to your place for some tea" works too. Car is good. Tint your windows. Used to meet a girl for some action in my car every time. Kept it vacuumed and clean. Even did it in broad daylight parked in industrial area parking lot. Adds some excitement thinking you can get caught any time (even though not…
/r/seduction03/11/13 12:28 AM
1

6'4" guy here. I had a colleague at work who was short and he always said "I'm at exactly the right height when it comes to women", meaning he is at their chest height. And you know what? It's so true. Most girls I talk to are shorter than me at the club, where the music is loud and I can't hear them ... oh and I'm not supposed to slouch either. Every once in a while I meet someone really tall where I can have her face right in front of my face - it's so awesome! There are so many cute short gir…
/r/seduction19/10/13 09:48 PM
3

All that and put some passionate energy into your dance - like you're enjoying it. It will show
/r/seduction05/10/13 03:19 AM
2

Kissing them at the start of the date is great. I always try that. If not I try later or whenever I feel like it. It's about me, not about her. Just kiss her
/r/seduction05/10/13 02:25 AM
2

Yes it may seem impossible. And a lot of them do behave like princesses. But it all depends where you go. It is still fun though - real my adventures in Toronto here
/r/seduction22/09/13 03:14 AM
2

The problem would be YOU if you weren't approaching. If you do, it's never you. It's them - they're too shy, not used to getting hit on. Not in the mood, don't sense you're great guy. It's all fixed by your better game. I doubt your game is that good judging from your post. A bit on the negative side. It probably shows during approach. Don't give a fuck. And keep going. In fact Go at it harder. Go for the impossible! The ones in big groups, or on the phone. Show her you're different than all oth…
/r/seduction20/09/13 08:39 PM
3

Your answer could have been "Your're right. I want to take you out on a date." While holding strong eye contact and slight smile. State your intentions clear and don't be afraid to be a man. And don't ask for numbers. Ask them on dates on a specific day. If they give you an objection, say you understand, pause and say "perhaps 8pm?". Keep going and trying. Persistence is sexy.
/r/seduction15/09/13 06:01 PM
1

Agreed on not panning out. Some just get too busy with their careers or other friends or whatever other activities and won't make time for you. Others will want to go on dates with you but tell you bullshit stories that she want's to get to know you first. That's the exact reason you have backups of backups. Women are fragile creatures. One thing goes wrong and she leaves you with your dick in hand.
/r/seduction13/09/13 12:16 AM
1

I've got only every second saturday available and I always explain it as "I just can't". If she whines, I say "we'll meet some other day and world's not gonna end. You'll see". Women will often try to control you (make you meet them on saturday) but if you let them they'll despise you and think you have no spine. So don't let them. The girl who likes you will find a way to be with you. Think of it as you're testing her to see if she likes you. This works also if she asks too many questions. Smil…
/r/seduction13/09/13 12:06 AM
1

It all depends on my investment in them. If it was just the beginning, I might not bother but if we went out for a while or even hooked up, then I'll give more effort to find out where we stand. I like to dump them. If it's not working out, I text a short "I'm breaking up with you". If the girl holds on to me, I give her a second chance. If not it's over. Sometimes she tells me "You break up easy.". I reply with "yeah, if it's not working out, I don't waste any time". Sometimes she explains that…
/r/seduction08/09/13 01:43 AM
1

You're convinced her to come and stay at your place for the weekend? Dude, you're in! You don't have to do anything. Just not screw it up. Plan some activities and tell her you've planned something awesome to do. She will be excited. Then go out and just have the most fun you've ever had. Dance like crazy, be social, talk to other people, joke around. Maintain strong eye contact with her at all times but offer set her up with some guys at the club. Pick the fattest/nerdiest guy and tell her he'l…
/r/seduction06/09/13 07:57 PM
3

Nothing is lost. Just talk to her ... but not through words. Talk about something boring, but take her hand and hold it. Talk about the weather and put your hand on her shoulder. Tell her you like salad and pull her closer and put your arms around her. She will get mixed signals from you and she WILL love them. Look her in the eyes and tell her you have to go feed your cat as you get closer and closer and then kiss her. If she turns her cheek - even better - breathe on her neck and kiss behind h…
/r/seduction29/08/13 01:36 AM
1

I felt the same way so after a couple of dates I said fuck her and I turned it into a long game. Would forget her for a week or two. Then text her or invite her to my place. She'd refuse, so I would forget her again for a while. But then I had a BBQ party and I needed some females who don't know me that well (if you know what I mean). So she was invited but still nothing that night (she drove home). Next day we went to the beach. It worked so damn well I was surprised.
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:24 AM
0

Look her in the face ... she is beatiful. She has nice hair ... beautiful earrings ... She smells awesome. Look at her. Get closer. Take her in your arms. How can you not kiss her? What if you kiss her cheek and transition to kissing her neck... It's the best thing in the world. So sexy.
/r/seduction24/08/13 11:04 PM
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Good job, dude. Girl 3 - wait a while and when you've got some free time on your hands (not juggling the other 4), go on and talk to her and try again. NO is never final. I'd go and ask her as many times. Try different strategies, joke around. Get her to agree to an exact time, activity etc. Persistence is sexy!
/r/seduction22/08/13 12:25 AM
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My advice was for someone who: a) goes out regularly b) is socially calibrated If you aren't, then Yes you will both be creepy and feel creepy. You will also open a ton of sets and none will stick until you decide to commit.
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:03 PM
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The claw didn't work because you weren't committed to her. Put your hand on her shoulder, and ask who is she. If she tries to get away, don't let her. If she aggressively pushes you away and steps back, keep talking to her. Or dancing. Don't just stand there. And if you are dancing, put some energy into it, like you're enjoying it. When I use a claw, my smile is wide and genuine because I know I'm messing with her a bit. If she pushes away, that's fine, I'm still going to talk to her, ask her ab…
/r/seduction19/08/13 02:17 AM
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Nothing is creepy, dude. I do it at lunch time every day. It brightens MY day. I feel good afterwards. They also laugh at my overcoming "I have a boyfriend" objection. Super good energy talking to stranger. Just did one today. Feels great! Do it like russians in this article do. "She's been chosen" and it's not like a little thing like her disinterest gonna stop you. You will still talk to her. Because it's not about her, it's about you. You're on the way to becoming an awesome man!
/r/seduction15/08/13 11:04 PM
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Tons of things! * Check out some youtube dance videos and dance with them. Chicks always want to see dance videos. * Play some latin music, teach them merengue moves (very easy to learn). * Ask them to show you hot to cook/bake something. They tell you, you cook, they have some wine... * Or better yet, make them a coctail, or even better, look up the recipy online and make a drink, taste it together. * Take them for a walk at water front. * Tell them you're going for a jog and tell them to join …
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:03 PM
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When at the end of the night I start to lose enthusiasm, my wing says "I know you. You start to become miserable, but as soon as you get a good set, you'll be happy". "Emotional toll" happens when I run too much verbal game, and not enough physical game. With physical game, even if I get refected, I think to myself "Holy shit, I used a claw on her from very beginning and she didn't run away or told me to fuck off! I'm fucking awesome!". So push yourself even more! Step away from comfort zone, hu…
/r/seduction27/07/13 07:24 PM
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I'm 6'4" and still very rarely get the girls during day or night game despite being an approach machine. It all comes down to being better at the game. If you game is great, you'll pull no matter how short you are. There was an interview series by David D Angelo where he had some dude who was disabled and in wheelchair who had a disease in childhood where he'd brake many bones. See if you can find a video or audio of it. This dude travels and is a motivational speaker and most importantly his ga…
/r/seduction24/07/13 09:38 PM
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I loved your post and hated myself... when I realized just last saturday as I was walking towards the club a girl asked me a what I thought extremely silly question "do you know where is blah blah...". I looked at her like "what a silly girl" to which she shouted "it's a bar". Another time I saw a girl I saw before (not very attracted to her) and this time she had a friend with her - petite gorgeous girl. They said they're going for a smoke and this girl not even knowing me asked me for a light.…
/r/seduction24/07/13 09:17 PM
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