So don't get me wrong, I'm very familiar with the mentality of "it's her loss not mine" when dealing with rejection. However, when you're constantly getting rejected with VERY few hits, doesn't that mean the problem is YOU?

My problem is I don't know what that something is. At clubs I have the unfortunate disadvantage of having a high voice (bad enough that girls think I'm gay). But then again, I feel like I have very little problem approaching--I just don't score as many lays as I would like. And when I say "lays", I mean "with people I'm attracted to as well." I have a hard time pulling girls I find extremely hot. I've started to throw teasing into my game, but I'm very shaky with it at the moment.

TL;DR: I could have went home with different girls the past two weekends but I wasn't into either. For some reason I have much better game with women of color and what I guess we call "exotics" in general, even though I'm not usually as attracted to them (Paula Patton = my type, however). Don't know why for the life of me.

Some background info about myself: 6'0 24-year-old Caribbean-American man living in the Bay Area. Decent physical shape. Graduate student. Dress fairly well.

I should also add I survived consistent rejection for an entire year and a half when working in Madison, Wisconsin. My game is better out in the Bay Area (for obvious reasons), but still I'm starting to get fed up. I've tried a lot of things with no avail. Also I demonstrate non-neediness as much as possible--that's the core of my game.

Thoughts? Really, I'm open to anything and I'm a novice.