Not getting any IOIs? Baffled.

entboarder · 2013-09-07T23:23:05+00:00

How's your posture? do you make a lot of eye contact and smile easily? I noticed a night and day difference in the amount of IOIs I get on the street or in clubs. Practice good posture all the time, it becomes second nature.

psyocal · 2013-09-08T03:19:53+00:00

Two things:

I wonder why white women never give me any indicators to approach

I NEVER look for IOIs or when to approach, if I see a girl that I am really interested in, I will approach her and get her attention.

I wonder why white women never give me any indicators to approach so of course I get shot down when I say hi.

it seems like you are losing the battle before you even start. Of course makes it sound like you're expecting a rejection. When you expect a rejection, you will not approach in confidence. You don't even have to say hi because your body language will give you away.

Being black can be a disadvantage/advantage depending on where you live. I'd say if a girl shuts you down after you say hi, I'd immediately call her a racist (playfully! do not call her a racist with a straight face) and be a little more persistent. Give yourself 3 trys. I've had girls reject my from the start but I 'grew' on them with a little persistence.

Good luck!

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-09-08T03:35:12+00:00

You get IOIs all the time. You just don't recognize them.

Title	Not getting any IOIs? Baffled.
Author	hrvatska14
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	September 7, 2013 10:38 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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