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Being comfortable with yourself is the best. You will come off extremely relaxed, approachable and you won't spark up any dangerous flags in their heads. And it will work with everyone, not just women. Being comfortable with yourself is what true confidence is.
/r/seduction06/03/17 08:12 PM
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Keep doing the club thing. It will come with practice. It's easier in more intimate/less loud settings. Once you stop worrying about being creepy is the day you'll get it.
/r/seduction06/03/17 08:09 PM
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How many people on this sub would be able to maintain eye contact with confidence? Give him some credit.
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:43 AM
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By crashing and burning. Jump in. Fuck up. Try something a little different. Still fucking up? Change it up again. Got a longer conversation but still no pull? Change it up. Nothing again? Go back to the last thing that worked and tweak it. Before you know it you'll know how to pull. And you won't fear approaching.
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:26 AM
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By uninstalling it from your phone.
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:17 AM
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Time is your greatest asset. Don't waste it like a deadbeat. Evolve as a man. So yes. Abandon that bullshit. You don't need it. Don't put up with it from other deadbeats either - friends or future partners - no matter how attractive you may think they are. If you somehow manage to 'make it' in life (like creating the next Facebook or Snapchat), smoke all the bowls and play all the something's you want.
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:10 AM
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Ygoal should be to push yourself further with each new opportunity. You will fail. You will lose a lot of girls. You will feel embarrassed and hopeless. But you'll live.
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:03 AM
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If you are truly not concerned with what she said you wouldn't have made this post. Who cares what she thinks (this should be your attitude about every woman you come across).
/r/seduction06/03/17 03:04 AM
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Why didn't you sleep with her the first night? It sounds like you left her high and dry.
/r/seduction06/03/17 03:02 AM
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You're telling me you've never looked at a girl and thought to yourself, "wow... I wanna try her out!"? Come on...
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:59 AM
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"I have NEVER walked up to a random girl and started chatting with her with the intention of asking her out. You're the first." An honest pick up line that she'll never have heard. It will also make her day. There's your start.
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:58 AM
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Seems like the relationship was your main focus. You need some kind of drive. Focus on what you want to do in life. Women will follow.
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:55 AM
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That's the real me. When I get home I want to smoke a bowl and play something. Unless you've made millions selling a social media platform, you have no excuse for wasting time. The real you lacks ambition. No one wants to be with a time waster.
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:53 AM
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You seem quite modest about your physique. You are probably a lot more attractive than you think you are. Keep improving your body for health reasons and receive the bonus perks (admiration from others, especially women). What mindset must you have to think squeezing a complete stranger's chest is OK? We live in a world of double standards. I'm very happy when women put their hands on me in public. Once they touch my chest, I will go for theirs (slowly and non-violently, of course). Sometimes th…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:10 PM
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She gave you her number but forgot to mention she was seeing someone for the past month? She seems to have lost interest from the time you got her number and is now making an excuse.
/r/seduction07/04/15 05:11 AM
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You make it seem so easy and yet the details separate us so I need to know. You're looking for that gold nugget so hard that you completely missed it. Re-read the Don't give a fuck bullet point. State your desires, comfortably and confidently but don't be dependant on the outcome.
/r/seduction07/04/15 05:00 AM
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The camera seems to be your crutch. The most important thing, in my opinion, is making and maintaining strong eye contact. Do not be afraid of looking at the woman you're interested in. Let her be the one who breaks eye contact. Once you can implement that, the words will come. It is much more natural talking to someone when eye contact is already established. Often times guys will approach with some "clever" line but their eye contact and body language will be all over the place. A simple "hi" …
/r/seduction05/04/15 01:37 AM
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A question for OP and anyone willing to answer: How many of you that have gotten stood up send a confirmation text several hours before meeting up with the person?
/r/seduction05/04/15 01:31 AM
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You can also put her on the defensive by adding, "a lady would never ask." before "a gentleman never..."
/r/seduction05/04/15 01:27 AM
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Your worst enemy cannot harm you as much as your own thoughts, unguarded. A rare occurrence for me but it did happen a few times in my early days. Luckily I've always had a gift of having something witty to say back, every damn time. Pretty soon the kids stopped making fun of me because they knew I had the ability to embarrass them. I always had this philosophy that no matter how good looking or great you think someone is, they ALL have a flaw; some sort of insecurity. Nowadays I use my wit to m…
/r/seduction03/02/15 08:19 AM
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Yep. Not everyone goes out looking to to meet someone. Just move onto the next one. They do. They're just not interested in him.
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:33 AM
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Tell her, Are we going to Snapchat in person or should I find someone else? Maybe she's just shy, maybe she's just playing games, whatever the reason is is irrelevant to you. Either she's willing or it's time to find someone else.
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:26 AM
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You don't need to worry about making her feel ashamed. She will be flattered. As for looking like a weirdo, who cares? In a group of 10 people, at least 1 will dislike you. She might be jealous that you're not talking to her, it could be a thousand reasons. It doesn't matter what her or her friends think. What matters is that you should proudly display your desire for her. Even if she initially rejects you, gets flustered because she isn't used to such a bold man, the fact that you approached in…
/r/seduction31/12/14 05:43 AM
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Laughter can be a nervous tick. Generalizing that cold approaches don't work is false. It's you who is the problem. And you're not even aware of it. Make lots of money and stick to fucking prostitutes is my advice for you.
/r/seduction15/10/14 09:46 PM
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I don't know how I could have frightened you, Clarice. I approached you during the day, from a side angle, in a public place. I'm going to make attempt a cold read on you, based on what you wrote. Confidence isn't your issue as you seem to have a lot of it...my guess is that you are completely clueless as to how they react to you. You lack observation skills.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:48 AM
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Great work, but posting this kind of stuff without blurring her face will only make future women more cautious in these situations. You might be ruining it for the next guy using a camera to approach women...
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:41 AM
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Don't. Don't waste any more energy or time.
/r/seduction14/10/14 07:50 PM
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I just saw the thread, that one Owlgirl had it right: Forget her. She's obviously seeing other guys and then when things don't work out with them, she texts you. More than a month and a half to reply? Ridiculous.
/r/seduction14/10/14 05:46 PM
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Sounds like she is into you but is seeing other guys in the process. Invite her for drinks and dancing then escalate to sex. But if I were you I'd be very careful. If you do end up in the same bedroom as her and are sober enough to remember this then do it: Tell her you forgot a condom. If she stops you, grab it and say "nvm I found it." If she say's it's okay and gives you the green light to proceed...GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE.
/r/seduction14/10/14 05:54 AM
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I've dated more waitresses than any other type of woman. I have a way of attracting them even when they're not working. They've never been a problem for me. OP, complimenting all women works. Including waitresses. Having a sense of humor works wonders. Keeping comments short and quick works even better. Making eye contact and smiling as if you're in love as she walks by the table also works. Looks aren't very important, being completely comfortable with yourself is. I picked up a beautiful serve…
/r/seduction14/10/14 05:42 AM
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You sound like you are putting her needs before your own. You will get a much more positive response with: "Let's watch a movie." or "I want to see you. I'm free this Wednesday after 6pm." than "Hey do you want to see a movie?" or "When are you free this week?"
/r/seduction14/10/14 05:23 AM
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Inner game, as far as I understand, is self assurance and self confidence. You may be scoring an A+ in all of those categories but if you're not completely relaxed (this comes from exposure and being around people/or losing everything you own) you will appear uneasy, and uncomfortable to be around. My friend took a long hiatus from his social life due to work related travel. He made a lot of money in that time but he didn't have time to enjoy any of it. He recently got a break with the project a…
/r/seduction12/10/14 05:05 PM
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You're not seeing in field proof of 99% of the written work that's on this sub either...
/r/seduction04/10/14 12:18 AM
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It's pure crap and the self proclaimed attractive woman who commented is full of shit as well. I'm fortunate that a lot of people are following the advice as it makes life for me that much easier. I know one girl in particular that reminds me of the woman giving advice. She has dated the same guy for years yet hates when guys 'hit on her'...we were all out as a group one night and she got approached by a good looking guy. It was the only time I have ever seen her get approached. Her face lit up.…
/r/seduction04/10/14 12:11 AM
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It will take time. Keep practising. The best eye contact that I've had was when walking with a friend or two, and we would be in the middle of having a laugh. I would notice a woman walking by and I would be laughing/smiling genuinely while directly looking at her. They would either smile back or get flustered and look away. Don't worry about what she's thinking. Just focus on enjoying her with your eyes and smile.
/r/seduction03/10/14 12:55 AM
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Save yourself the time and be forward from the beginning. Most people who have a 'crush' on a girl will fantasize about a relationship with her. They will become attached to a false reality that they've constructed in their own mind. They will enjoy hanging out with the person without giving any notion of being attracted to them because they're afraid of losing this person. How can you be afraid of losing something you don't have?
/r/seduction03/10/14 12:40 AM
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"Call me." Don't respond to the useless chit chat.
/r/seduction27/09/14 10:13 PM
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It doesn't take more than 1 man to talk to a woman.
/r/seduction27/09/14 10:02 PM
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I was a very skinny and weak kid when I was in high school, physically. I wanted to change that so I joined a gym, the cheapest one that I could find. The strength and appearance it gave me helped with my confidence, although mine was never that low. I would have highs and lows growing up, but generally I was happy because I was always honest (was comfortable being made) around my male friends. The girls would make me nervous... Because I wasn't getting any at the time. No game is as strong as l…
/r/seduction23/09/14 04:09 PM
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This is what I like to do. And I rarely get a number without a number exchange. Before getting a number I always let her know that I am interested in meeting up with her another time and I make it clear that I'm not there wanting to be her friend. If she doesn't want that, I don't bother getting the number. Texting Pros It's easier and you don't have to think on your feet You can be a pussy and still text like you're not It's easier to manipulate her (oh sorry I just got this, my phone died etc.…
/r/seduction22/09/14 06:22 PM
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How do I work on establishing a more intimate relationship from the get go By establishing a more intimate relationship from the get go. Touch her, compliment her one what turns you on about her FROM THE GET GO...don't be a reserved pussy.
/r/seduction22/09/14 05:57 PM
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Hard to tell from your brief post but generally if you don't make a woman interested in you, you will have difficulties getting them to respond. Don't wait too long to text I never wait 2-3 days. If you live in a highly populated area those 2-3 days will give room for creating a new connection with someone else. I text them back almost immediately (like a number exchange) or later in the day. Don't go out of your way and try to be cool by waiting to text her. Nothing is as uncool as trying to be…
/r/seduction22/09/14 05:48 PM
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Every one of those guys, no matter how great or lame, will have something useful and useless to teach you. Get your hand on as much free material as you can from various sources and pick out what suits your personality the best. Try it out and see how it works for you. Don't be afraid to try out things that are out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction16/09/14 10:28 PM
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I have actually tried that when I was younger. She gave me a physical compliment so I decided to return the favor, she was wearing a shirt that showed off her cleavage. As soon as I delivered that line, she pretended to get offended and left. I didn't see it as a rejection, I saw it as her being a hypocrite. Respond with however you feel like responding. "Thank you, I like you too." or test out how confident she is with, "Are you hitting on me?" You must have some hair and some teeth if you hear…
/r/seduction14/09/14 01:44 AM
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Then find one who has a bedroom you can use.
/r/seduction12/09/14 11:49 PM
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I don't know what you mean by confrontational. If you're looking for sex, steer the conversation towards it. If she isn't interested, move on. Don't hate her, diss her etc. but don't let her waste your time either. Not sure what to do about your dad...maybe tell him she's just having a sleepover. Tell her she'll have to be quiet because your family is very religious. I'm sure she will get excitement from that.
/r/seduction12/09/14 05:27 AM
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What is your definition of the 'hot ones'? You seem to define it as a novelty for attention. What's hot to you might be ugly to me. I've dated a woman that was an aspiring model, very beautiful. Guys would stop and stare, the other women would intently be attracted to me. When I kissed her, I felt nothing. The best thing about her was the attention I got from other people. That shit gets really old really fast. I ended up sleeping with another woman who wasn't a novelty, but made me feel so much…
/r/seduction12/09/14 05:18 AM
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Terrible idea. There's no correlation between either interaction (in person/behind a screen)
/r/seduction12/09/14 05:02 AM
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You should stop wasting time. Find one that wants to sleep with you. You won't find her by 'gaming' women that you're not attracted to. And in regards to bringing them home...I'm sure your father would appreciate the fact that his son is fucking.
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:56 AM
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There is, but the narrative is beyond painful to listen to. Since you seem to be looking for shortcuts I'll save you some time. You won't get shit done with your current attitude.
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:46 AM
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I was going to say what you've already learned. I am not a fan of that term Alpha, because it's associated with those parasites. A self-assured and confident man would never put down another just to make himself feel better. Your high school sounds annoying as hell.
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:43 AM
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Thoughts on this? Who gives a fuck what I or anybody else thinks? I am very amused at the fact that a few people here are still asking questions despite having the list. Re-read it over and over again until you get it. Do you like her and want to get to know her/date her/sleep with her? Go after what you like Who cares what she thinks Don't focus on the outcome Tell her what you think. Don't think for her. You're not dating her now, so even if she doesn't feel the same way about you, you STILL w…
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:20 PM
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If you're walking into the door, and you're not a woman or a familiar face, I'm not even looking at you. I don't really give a shit about you.
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:14 PM
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It seems like telling a woman that that's what I want might backfire. Who Cares What She Thinks. If you like taking it slow, let her know. "I want to get to know you before I can open up/sleep with you." - I'm sure she doesn't hear it often. It'll be refreshing for her. And if she's not on the same page and she is just interested in a casual fling, then you'll know right away! You won't have to waste your time with her, because the one that you're looking for might be around the block. You're in…
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:12 PM
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Don't take it literally. Lights out can be closing your eyes. How good is a pretty face if the lips don't know how to kiss?
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:06 PM
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Everyone notices these details, but few people notice they do. I can assure you that those people are in the minority, otherwise every other person on the street would make a world class detective. edit - what I meant by critics was, if you think you're ugly for whatever reason (thinning hair, scar from when you were a kid, space between your teeth etc.) you're the ugliest in your own head.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:42 PM
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Sounds like they were intimidated...but who cares. You want to intimidate them and not let them intimidate you. I would've added a smart-ass comment "Keep up the good work, you guys are doing great." Before leaning back to your original position. To this day I'll make eye contact and I can tell that some of them are purposely avoiding mine. I continue as we brush shoulders. I know they're nervous. It's a win in my eyes.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:39 PM
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I was about to respond, but thank you for taking the words out of my mouth. I had a feeling #16 would cause controversy.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:33 PM
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I also misspelled precedent.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:31 PM
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Yes! Thank you for correcting me, I've made the adjustments above.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:30 PM
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what do I do after 8 Go After What You Like If you find her attractive, look at her and enjoy her with your eyes. Mark Manson says to objectify them from the start, as this will remove the nerves. David X says he imagines fucking them already, then he approaches with a grin. Should I start running/walking up to her? And what do I even say... 4 TELL don’t ASK Tell her whatever is going through your head. Only you will know the answer to that. I don't know you personally but it sounds like you're …
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:28 PM
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Yes @Jorgit0, all of the authors, excluding David X (but he has videos), have several books. You can find them all floating around on the internet. Torrent's will usually have the word Collection in them. Pro's and Cons of each guy: Alan Roger Currie - great stuff, teaches you to be bold but the information can be misinterpreted and you can become a real asshole. But if you truly understand his stuff, it will do wonders. Zan Perrion - if you're a woman hater, this guy will make you love them. He…
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:19 PM
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You'd be surprised at how many fucked up people are out there.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:05 PM
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Playful push. I am pretty sure most guys on here will not have to worry about it, since the majority are good guys. But at the end of the day, if you're not the type who wants to grab a woman and pull her towards you for a kiss, simply don't do it. edit - you'd be surprised at how many women have rape-ish fantasies. They want to be held down, choked, man-handled, slapped etc. As long as you're not harming them, most women will find this a huge turn on.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:49 AM
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You're right, but in my opinion David X goes into it with more detail (imo). Dx's stuff is also when the relationship has already begun and you're sleeping with the woman.
/r/seduction10/09/14 03:40 AM
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Great story and excellent job. I don't know what you're taking in school but you should consider writing. You have talent for it.
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:45 AM
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She was into you, 100%. If she was a 1, you should've talked to her. Next time if you see something you like, look/stare at it. Sounds like this girl did just that haha.
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:28 AM
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Those are pretty generic and they aren't genuine. Try getting into specifics about what you like about her the most. What about her turns you on. She's gotta start up some sexual fantasy in your head otherwise you wouldn't be looking at her, right? Tell her that. You don't have to be crude, but do not be vague. When you stop at You're hot it's like saying: "I'm going to tell you you're hot because I wanna fuck you but I don't have the balls to tell you so I'll just wait here quietly and see if y…
/r/seduction04/09/14 05:34 PM
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I'm curious about the compliments you've given girls. Care to share an example?
/r/seduction04/09/14 06:45 AM
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Phone call > messaging, any day of the week. The reason texts don't work well is because you're not dealing 1v1. She's showing those texts to her girlfriends, asking them what to text back etc. I've seen a girl on my FB publicly post texts from a guy she met at the bar. The jealous guys would disrespect the texter and the girls would write "don't respond"...texting also desensitized you socially. If you're constantly texting you'll always sound nervous on the phone. If she texts you just text ba…
/r/seduction04/09/14 06:41 AM
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First of all, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. You are probably a nice guy, making sure you don't offend anyone. You don't tell the women what you want because you're too afraid of hurting their feelings. You are probably putting everyone ahead of you! You're being nice to everyone except YOU. Stop worrying about their reaction, but be up front about the fact that you want sex. "Hey, I just wasted 8 years in college not getting laid. I've been too busy with school lessons, I need some sex l…
/r/seduction04/09/14 06:29 AM
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Since when does vocalizing your intentions mean you're not a gentleman? "I was just thinking everything possible that I could do to her." You sound like a hypocrite to me.
/r/seduction01/09/14 12:43 AM
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This is what I'm talking about! You were genuinely turned on by her to the point of being a dog. And she was turned on by it! In my opinion, there's no need to be cocky at that point. If I was in your shoes I would've told her, "I have no idea what you just presented. I was busy fantasizing about what I'd like do to you." <--- which is basically what you were thinking. That fact that you can stare at her like that puts you above most men. If you can verbalize your glares to the woman without bei…
/r/seduction31/08/14 09:39 PM
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He opens in very high volumes, and only does very quick low investment sets. This is exactly why the % is low. It has nothing to do with how handsome or tall or educated or how much game he has. He is interested in one night stands or casual sex without the emotional commitment. He just plays the numbers game, and he is very confident. A closer percentage is 25%. If you approach 1 out of 4 women, that you are honestly interested in, you will get them. The biggest problem is that guys get demotiv…
/r/seduction31/08/14 09:20 PM
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Nothing is as big of a turn-on as a hot head who can't control his emotions and puts himself and others in harms way because of it. That's why everyone loves being around juiceheads...
/r/seduction22/08/14 10:18 PM
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You sound like a recluse. It's not a bad thing, it just means you need practise being comfortable. People will judge you, they may think you're weird, a creep, a pervert...fantastic. The sooner you embrace it, the better off you'll be. Talk about what you want to talk about, let her know what about her turns you on. You'll fail the first few times, but the more uncomfortable you make yourself feel, the more comfortable you'll become. And nothing is as big of a turn on for women as a self-assured…
/r/seduction22/08/14 10:13 PM
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For me it was a series of small moments. Some days I would care too much what she would think of me, other days I felt more confident. The best way to look at it is, you're not dating her now, so what have you got to lose? There's a good chance you will never see her again. You've been given an opportunity to potentially have an amazing time with this person. EVERYONE is insecure, be brave for the both of you and start a conversation. Don't allow yourself, don't allow herself to live in regret.
/r/seduction22/07/14 01:02 AM
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From what I've read, Casanova was a very unattractive man. This leads me to believe that he had to choose a more methodical approach in his game. His seduction was slow as he would often fly under the radar. He also had a way with words, writing letters to his lovers-to-be. I'm also sure he paid attention and learned how to pleasure women during his many conquests. Back then the female orgasm was believed to be non existent. So when word got around about a 5 foot 5 man was able to deliver unimag…
/r/seduction22/07/14 12:56 AM
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I laughed aloud when I read the title of your post OP. Then I read Silly's comment and decided I should read the post, and then I laughed some more hahaha. Thanks for this OP
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:42 AM
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Don't fear failure and put yourself in new and uncomfortable situations.
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:37 AM
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If you're looking to half-ass your interaction and workout simultaneously, this is the way to do it.
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:36 AM
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I don't know if I am a fan of this definition. I have a friend who purposefully does creepy things, making women (and men) uncomfortable. He is one if the most confident and secure people I have ever met.
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:26 AM
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You're only 22. What you're going through right now is training camp. You probably want a long term relationship because you haven't experienced one yet. Your main focus should be where you want to go in life. You want your passion as a career? That's your main goal. Seeking a relationship for the sake of a relationship will lead to failure. What's next once you get it? You should just have fun, don't take this shit seriously. It'll make your life in the 30s that much easier. Just like in life, …
/r/seduction28/06/14 12:43 AM
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Usually in these situations, the hot one hangs out with the fat one so she won't have competition when prince charming arrives to the scene. Be bold and honest and call her out. If the hot one is still not interested, move on. She'll want you the moment she sees you talking with another girl.
/r/seduction28/06/14 12:33 AM
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I'm pretty sure you'll need to do some research on where to buy a guitar first. You will also save a lot of time learning some chords before you discover them yourself.
/r/seduction28/06/14 12:24 AM
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Women love hearing that they've been on your mind. Be honest, it will work out much better for you.
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:04 AM
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The right time is right now. You might not get tomorrow.
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:01 AM
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There's about 100 cute girls that are sweet and steady, that walk by you on a weekly basis and you're seeking advice about going after some train wreck tramp? You're getting played. What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:58 AM
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I picked up a girl for a date one time. She was young, 19 or so. She immediately said how she was glad I drove a Benz (an old Benz but a Benz nonetheless). I was instantly turned off by her comment and didn't bother calling her back. What I'm trying to say is, if a broad views your worth by what you own, she isn't worth a fucken second.
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:58 AM
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I stopped reading at the part where you mentioned looking forward to ending the conversation. I figured that was your problem. The reason you don't enjoy the interaction is because deep down you don't believe that you're worthy of their time. I say their and not her because I am assuming this problem has consumed other parts of your life. It's a self worth & confidence issue. The good news is that you can overcome it. The bad news is that it will take time and effort, and you will constantly be …
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:53 AM
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Due to the nature of double standards, women are much stronger emotionally than men. They also get much better support from their (girl)friends, while men are left to remain strong and figure it out for themselves.
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:45 AM
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"I'm only interested in casual sex." - if you say that, make sure not to go back on your rule.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:55 AM
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Sometimes having the balls to keep direct eye contact and smile is all you need. Don't over think things, like the boyfriend thoughts. You're not dating her. You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:44 AM
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I agree, cardio is the most overrated training tool around. I don't recall mentioning anything about cardio in my previous comment though.
/r/seduction11/06/14 06:00 AM
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I'm thankful that people like you exist because they make life much easier for people like me. And there's nothing super special about me.
/r/seduction09/06/14 10:38 PM
1

Yeah you're right. Here's the only advice that may work for you: Just marry the first girl that gives you attention and spend the rest of your life drinking your sorrows away.
/r/seduction09/06/14 10:34 PM
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Try being a little more eloquent with it, but if that's what you're thinking and you have the balls to say it, maybe your balls will have sex with her.
/r/seduction09/06/14 04:51 PM
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I know what your problem is. It's the most common problem: you're constantly in your head There's a good chance these women don't actually find you creepy. But you convince yourself otherwise. You're probably entering a conversation while thinking, "okay, don't be creepy, don't be creepy...shes probably going to think im creepy" You're going into battle defeated. And they can sense it. Nobody wants a loser. Focus on what you want. Do you know what you want? Walk up to her and TELL HER WHAT YOU W…
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:34 AM
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Going to the gym is a fantastic start. Read up on strength training, read up on nutrition, and slowly start developing good habits. The journey will be long and you will find yourself being constantly challenged initially. You will feel discouraged, it will suck...but it will be worth it. 2 years from now you will have what you couldn't even dream of. Don't stop striving for the best version of yourself, just because we haven't been dealt the best hand.
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:27 AM
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It may work for his personality. Reading his post makes me believe he is a very high energy person.
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:16 AM
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The term young hot women is completely arbitrary. As I age, my age standards change. In my opinion the best age group is the late 20s/early to mid 30s...and plenty of them hook up with older men. As a matter of fact, most of them seek older men. If you're 25 or under, good luck with that niche.
/r/seduction06/06/14 10:42 PM
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Being silent and nodding will lead to success...assuming you don't blow your brains out before that time arrives.
/r/seduction06/06/14 05:31 PM
1

Everyone likes what they like. Your buddies are following a protocol that they are meant to follow. It doesn't mean that is what they truly desire. The truth of the matter is that if that 9/10 of them wouldn't know what to do if that smoking hot girl approached them and told them to fuck the shit out of her. I'll see it happen all the time. Guys talk a big game but when it comes down to it, only a select few will actually go through with it as previously discussed. They use the word bang but who…
/r/seduction06/06/14 05:07 PM
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I'm curious if you could've gotten the number of the girl who eyed you by the bar while going home with the other one.
/r/seduction06/06/14 05:00 PM
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An exchange of orgasms counts as a close.
/r/seduction06/06/14 04:55 PM
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I wound up having to delete her off FB because the girl I was dating at the time was insanely jealous of her, because I made the horrible mistake of liking one of her pictures (apparently girls dont like that kind of thing when youre dating them ;P) Don't let a woman change you. Unless you're ready to settle down, you have the right to fantasize, FB like, flirt, date, fuck as many women as you please. It's your life. Take it where you want it to go, if she isn't happy she can find someone else. …
/r/seduction01/06/14 05:01 AM
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It sucks, but you go on. As long as you made an attempt at several women, you did better than 99% of the people. Try to make a memorable interaction, even if you get rejected. If you notice things aren't going your way, have fun and say something ridiculous and stupid. At this point the interaction should be just about entertainment, and you're the audience and the director. The next morning text your friends and let them know of how badly you bombed and how ridiculous you were. It'll be funny, …
/r/seduction01/06/14 04:50 AM
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Absolutely. It's good to do it in front of an ex, random girls, or people you've just met. The only thing that will happen is the women who notice you flirting will become attracted to you. And they won't know why.
/r/seduction01/06/14 04:45 AM
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If you're not 100% comfortable dancing then don't do it. If you known how to move well, read up on it, check out some solos on YouTube. Being able to move on the dance floor will make women think you can move well in other places as well. It's an attractive quality, a bonus, but don't confuse it for a necessity.
/r/seduction01/06/14 04:40 AM
1

It's good that you want what's best for your brother but keep in mind that he may not want you to live vicariously through him. Open the door but do not pressure him to be like you.
/r/seduction01/06/14 04:34 AM
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"My inner game is solid...a few harsh rejections did shake my confidence." You're nowhere near as confident as you think you are. The road of denial will lead you to a dark place, young man.
/r/seduction31/05/14 09:19 PM
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Only by facing your fear can you conquer it. Success is reached by failure. Make an ass out of yourself in public two dozen times. The next two dozen times won't phase you. The following two dozen will pleasantly surprise you. What I'm trying to tell you is to DO SOMETHING...ANYTHING. Do 2% and you'll be amazed at the results.
/r/seduction31/05/14 09:14 PM
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Groups of people that you "knew" but "never really talked to" are called strangers. The only difference is that you have a common ice breaker. IMO those kinds of events are excruciatingly boring and lame. Find someone who is as bored as you...preferably hot.
/r/seduction31/05/14 09:11 PM
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You're in the hardest age group to meet women. Girls will give you problems, women will think you're too young. If you know of a girl that has a reputation of being a slut, go after her. It will get much easier as you get older.
/r/seduction26/05/14 11:41 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat unless you have a guaranteed plate somewhere else.
/r/seduction26/05/14 11:35 PM
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We're up for anything. Glad to hear, let's [enter your filthiest fantasy with two women here]. If you ask for what you want, you may just receive it.
/r/seduction26/05/14 11:33 PM
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Your solution is simple. Don't over think things. The reason you are successful with the ones you don't want is because you aren't creating this fantasy of a perfect woman. This girl you're infatuated with isn't special either. Your fantasies of her are fueling your desires for her. She is not the person you morphed her to be. She is just like any other girl on the street.
/r/seduction26/05/14 11:29 PM
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Believe you can get One out of every Four women you approach. Sometimes your odds will be better, other times they won't. On average, however, 1/4 is a legitimate statistic.
/r/seduction26/05/14 11:25 PM
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Approaching anyone from behind will be interpreted as unpleasant. By approaching from the front you are letting them know two things, You're about to talk to them, and not rob them You have the confidence to let them know you're approaching them before you begin a conversation
/r/seduction26/05/14 11:23 PM
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Do you honestly believe she doesn't know why you are pursuing her? You're not giving them enough credit if you believe that. Women can read body language better than men, it's in their nature. It's the confidence to tell them what's on your mind that will make them attracted to you. Hesitation, for whatever reason, is a sign of weakness...and weakness is not a desirable trait.
/r/seduction23/04/14 11:43 PM
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If you're actually turned on by her smile. Usually the word mouth/lips are more honest but I have been attracted/turned on by smiles before. There's something about full lips and a upper cheek, on some women, that gets me. If you can describe her in detail what drew you to her, you'll do alright. And again, you're second guessing yourself. The moment you think, "Would this work?" or "How would I say this without looking like a pervert?" you've lost. Use what's on your mind, and say it. People re…
/r/seduction23/04/14 11:38 PM
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What's pretty? Your point is subjective. When you talk about mathematical beauty, facial symmetry height, skin tone, hair health etc. The most gorgeous women, the ones that stand out from the crowd, they don't get approached nearly as much as their ugly friends. It's usually the average girls that get sick and tired of hearing how pretty they are...because they know it's a lie. edit - To add to this; You're much better off telling a woman what about her turns you on, or attracts you to her. The …
/r/seduction23/04/14 05:40 PM
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It's definitely a blow to the ego. It can be very discouraging but the more you expose yourself to failure, the more successful you'll become. Go in with the mindset of no-ego. And if you fail, laugh about it to the girl you're talking with. "Don't worry, I'll be back to hit on you some more after I get a number or two."
/r/seduction22/04/14 05:12 PM
1

This conversation threading reminds me of mirroring...or conversation mirroring. Just mimic and comply. At the end of the day it's not what you say, it's how you say it. As dumb as that might sound.
/r/seduction22/04/14 05:07 PM
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You're probably feeding off of the groups energy. My theory is that you're comfortable because there is no pressure and there is no failure. If you fail with the interaction you always have your group to recuperate from. Your confidence comes from the group. Increase the frequency of solo work. Become comfortable being alone.
/r/seduction13/04/14 01:56 AM
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Saying 'I conducted an experiment' doesn't mean your findings are within the realm of 'science'. This could be said about nearly any study. So many variables go into these so-called experiments that it's hard to keep track of what causes what.
/r/seduction12/04/14 01:43 AM
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I would usually agree with what you wrote, and I still might feel that way but I think that part of my overall perception is false. I've seen cases where people had imperfections/deformities but had good looking women by their side. It could be that they felt secure about whatever was wrong with them. That level of confidence is also a very attractive quality. Notice how the study mentions an INJURY and not a BIRTH DEFECT. Whatever is wrong with their eye wouldn't be transferred genetically.
/r/seduction12/04/14 01:41 AM
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I'd have to agree. Girls with boyfriends/husbands, no need to become a home wrecker. Cut off contact and if their relationship has run course and you two meet in the near future, pursue it. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes these girls aren't even interested in sex but are driven by drama. Don't give them the satisfaction.
/r/seduction12/04/14 01:34 AM
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Can't argue with results, but judging by her initial response and the amount of emoticons, you guys are pretty young huh? "You have 2 work a little harder 2 see me." Wow. If I got that from a girl in her mid 20's+ it would've been the last time she heard from me.
/r/seduction12/04/14 01:30 AM
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I like this, but I kinda feel like its about anything but women, haha I was at a house party a few years ago and I migrated to the kitchen near the bar. I was having drinks and chit-chatting with a friend. Out of nowhere a younger guy approached us. We each knew him but only as an acquaintance, at the time. He decided to ask us 'older guys' for advice about some girl he was having problems with. He showed us a few texts and the girl was basically calling him over insinuating oral sex. He asked u…
/r/seduction11/04/14 11:12 PM
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'we should probably kiss now' To me this comes off as hesitant and you're asking for her permission in a way. Umm, we should probably umm...kiss. Just dive in man! Never apologize, only ask for forgiveness ;)
/r/seduction11/04/14 04:08 AM
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Speak slowly This is all you need. Don't be loud in a quite place, but speak slowly and calmly. People, especially women, should feel relaxed around you.
/r/seduction11/04/14 04:00 AM
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They definitely lose their value over time and through exposure. You get desensitized to it. Just like with everything in life. Humans are prone to indifference. It's an evolutionary survival instinct and it's a double edged sword.
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:58 AM
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"you just seem so happy. Like you have everything you already need and anything that happens is just ...for fun" Gold.
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:52 AM
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Your teeth will only be as unattractive to a girl as they are to you. What I mean is, if it bothers you, it will bother them. Women aren't really bothered by your lack of hair, how big your eyes are, the gap between your teeth etc...what they're bothered by is the fact that it bothers you. If someone tells you, "Your teeth are so ugly, get them fixed immediately" tell them, "You're right. Now fuck off!" Tell them to look in another direction. If I were you, I'd smile every fucken day while I sti…
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:45 AM
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So Now Im having a tough choice - to be myself and go gentle/lovely guy mode, or to go "Im awesome you gotta work a little to get me". You are overthinking this. There's an old saying, "don't fuck up a sure thing." I've never tried to go "hey I love you" with any girl cause It never worked for me or anyone I know The only woman you should say that to is the one you marry.
/r/seduction10/04/14 08:00 PM
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I hold doors for whoever is near me, no matter age or sex. As far as seats go, I'll give it up for older men and women (50+). And I never ask, "would you like to sit down," rather I get up and say, "sit down." They deserve the seat, if you're a young healthy person...you don't. My own personal rules that I apply to women who are friends too: Holding doors open letting them enter first for most venues Giving up seats (even if she is an acquaintance. You're actually doing yourself a favor consider…
/r/seduction26/12/13 12:02 AM
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You shouldn't feel about them being cheating whores. If they told you beforehand, "I'm married/have a boyfriend," then that's on you.
/r/seduction25/12/13 11:49 PM
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Why not be honest? It'll end up being humorous. "You're lucky I can't think of anything on the spot, but when I do you'll be sorry. It'll come when you least expect it."
/r/seduction25/12/13 11:46 PM
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You have one misconception in your head, a flawed way of thinking that you need to stop. You are thinking for her. The only thing you should have on your mind is what you want. Smart guys always overthink things: "Oh but she's probably going to...oh she obviously has some...there's no way that would work because..." Just stop. You will be amazed at how much more attractive you will become once you have the confidence to state your true desires without beating around the bush. You will flatter th…
/r/seduction25/12/13 10:32 PM
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By failing hundreds and hundreds of times. You must learn to embrace failure and accept its reality. Once you've failed hundreds of times, you won't be phased by any embarrassment coming your way. True confidence will begin to emerge. I got rejected by a girl I was trying to pick up the first time, I tried again, slipped on a lime wedge on the dance floor in front of her and 5 of her girlfriends. She came and helped me up :) I told her I was so embarrassed (I wasn't) and thought she was very swe…
/r/seduction25/12/13 12:01 AM
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"I need to know how to get to (name of the street that you're on)" "(her response)" "I don't need directions I just wanted an excuse to talk to you." Women can smell a guy that beats around the bush a mile away. You don't need an excuse to talk to her. You like what you see is a good enough reason.
/r/seduction24/12/13 11:46 PM
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Some of the comments here are spot on, you just didn't engage her in a way that would turn her on. The fact that you have no backbone to tell this rude bitch to get off her phone is a good sign of her disinterest in you. Imagine this girl as the complete opposite of your type. Imagine she is short, stubby, fat and has terrible body odor. If the first thing that's going through your head isn't "Why the hell am I here?" then you are the problem. Don't lecture her, just tell her the truth, "This is…
/r/seduction24/12/13 11:42 PM
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it's a matter of finding out what turns on/attracts that particular girl Ditto. I've tried that approach several times and was amazed at how well it worked. I didn't go full out from the get go, but I inched my way to gauge what sort of things that girl likes. I'll ask her what she does for work and depending on the type of position (upper level management etc.) I'll ask if she likes taking/giving orders. I'll follow up with a direct question about her preference in the bedroom. It works a lot b…
/r/seduction05/12/13 10:35 PM
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What I was hinting from the story is that I'm the type of guy that would refuse a girl's offer if I don't find her attractive from the start. Something has to visually stimulate me or else I won't really consider it. She was that type of girl upon first encounter. What went through my mind initially was, "I hope I don't have to talk to her for the whole night." The turnaround was unbelievable.
/r/seduction05/12/13 10:30 PM
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Someone who is mediocre and beautiful will be judged favorably in terms of humor, acting I disagree. I was watching some stand up a few years ago on TV and there was a really good looking male comedian. He was pretty damn funny, enough so that I turned away from what I was doing just to see who this guy was. I was shocked at how different he looked from all of the other comedians. He could easily be on the cover of GQ and watching him do his routine was just confusing. He was much funnier if you…
/r/seduction10/10/13 08:32 PM
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This is what I've noticed as well. I remember several times when a server was really nasty, I could tell they were having a 'bad day' but they seemed to take everything out on everyone else. When a really good looking server had a bad day, she'd apologize in advance and was a lot nicer about it.
/r/seduction10/10/13 08:27 PM
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you have no idea how many times I'm told by the hottest women I know... This is not saying much. Your statement is true to an extent but the fact of the matter is that the truly gorgeous women are limited in numbers. I live in a highly populated city and I have large social circles and I can count, what I consider, the truly gorgeous ones on my hands and toes. ugly dude's rush of courage and his attempt at approaching a "model". As far as the above statement goes, when she truly meets a guy who …
/r/seduction10/10/13 08:26 PM
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the audience ate up what she was saying instead of recognizing it was stuff that if a boring normal person said it, they'd feel was obvious. In my opinion, it doesn't have the same effect if a 'boring' and 'average' person says it. Every time a beautiful woman or man are present on screen, in public or anywhere, their talent, skill and intelligence is outweighed by their beauty. Beautiful and talented actors are underrated due to their looks. Even if they accomplish an incredible feat, most will…
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:18 AM
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Beautiful women have never given me a tough time when trying to pick them up. As a matter of fact I was successful nearly every time I tried with a really good looking female. I've seen my friends crash and burn with average looking girls and I've seen them pick up some gorgeous looking ones. The better looking ones are always nicer for some reason. I'm fortunate that 90% of you think what I'm writing here is a complete lie because I have a feeling it's our negative attitude towards the really g…
/r/seduction10/10/13 02:57 AM
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Everyone is insecure about something, and they're insecure because the idea of want has been placed into their heads by advertising companies. Men, you're not happy because you're not real men...what is a real man? This decade a real man has a muscular body, a thick head of hair, a chizzled jawline, no body hair, a large cock and he wears an Omega watch while smelling of Dolce & Gabbana perfume. A real woman on the other hand has perfect facial symmetry, perfectly smooth and acne free skin, full…
/r/seduction10/10/13 12:17 AM
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Very long ramble, next time add a tl;tr summary. You are so far in your own head, that you need someone to slap you and bring you back to life. You are overthinking things. You are overanalyzing things. You need to stop, and you need to go with it. This is usually the case with intelligent people. In regards to what's written on psychology and sociology, you'll find all sorts of theories floating around. The truth is, we are unaware of how little we know about the topics. This is the only thing …
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:14 AM
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Hard to tell from the texts but what I gather, she is used to having attention. She breaks down when she doesn't get it and begins the chase. Your actions (or lack of actions) intimidate her. She likes you and she hates her father.
/r/seduction06/10/13 08:55 PM
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I honestly love getting this question. If ever you get questioned for being a player or a womanizer, which is a stupid question in my opinion, I'll usually answer with something stupid: "No. You're the first girl I've ever talked to." "I'm usually very shy but you but you have a way of making feel comfortable." I'd often get a few teases and a, "yeah you're a player." (I actually hate that term and I do not want to be associated with it for many reasons. Playing women seems so manipulative and d…
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:44 AM
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Yes. Temporarily but it never blossomed into something great, nor did I want them as desperately then as I did when I felt low. I remember two instances where they contacted me roughly 4-6 + months after the initial break up. Since I had moved on I didn't have time for them and this made me more desirable, I suppose. Everyone loves to chase a shadow but when you turn around and walk away, the shadow will chase you. To answer the question that you aren't directly asking, yes, you can get her back…
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:29 AM
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As long as they don't have a ring and you find them attractive, go for it. At least by talking to her you may have a chance. Even if you're unable to pick her up, the confidence you'll gain will propel you further and closer to success. If you don't even attempt to talk to her you wont get her, 100% of the time.
/r/seduction24/09/13 01:44 AM
1

"I only buy girls drinks after I've slept with them."
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:54 AM
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Nearly all of my longer lasting relationships started with sex or close to it on the first date. 100% agreed. In my honest opinion, professional PUAs that say otherwise are not getting laid often enough for sufficient data or they're not getting laid at all. If you can satisfy a woman, you'll be able to date her 9/10 times.
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:47 AM
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You have so much to work with but you're stalling. I think it's because you're nervous. You have nothing to be nervous about. She is not better than you in any aspect, you just find her attractive. That's all. She can't offer you anything that you can get from any other girl. Keep that in mind. then she asked somewhere along there if I was a freshman which I wasn't I also look younger than I am, take it as a compliment. Pretty much anything they tell me, I take as a compliment. "Oh thank you, I …
/r/seduction19/09/13 02:29 AM
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I ask where I can get some coffee around here and then I tell her I actually wanted to talk to her cause I thought she was cute and I wanted to get to know her. Forget about the coffee part and you have the perfect opener. "Excuse me, I think you're very cute. I was gonna ask you something stupid about coffee because I wanted to talk to you and get to know you..." <--- how many guys do you think have the balls to say something like that? You'll be the first! At this point I would feel like she's…
/r/seduction19/09/13 12:53 AM
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I think you mislead these girls with lack of sexual escalation. They see you, they like you, they make out with you on that night (and possibly more). When you meet up with them it seems as though you're still stuck on a goodnight kiss. If the girl thinks you're the type that will sleep with her that night, and you decide to end it at a make-out session. She might only give you one more chance until she starts ignoring you. Step it up a little. There is absolutely no need to take a girl out for …
/r/seduction19/09/13 12:32 AM
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Probably takes some time to get to such a good ratio Yes, I'd like to think my ratio is close to that now. Between 25-30% on average. Some weeks you feel unstoppable others you feel like a gremlin. Just keep doing your thing, and analyze what you're doing. Guess and test. Maybe subtle hints work better for you, or maybe just being 100% bold and honest works for you. You won't know until you try it out. I have never had a bad response from saying something dirty to a girl I was interested in. AA …
/r/seduction18/09/13 10:01 PM
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But that 5-10% makes it worth it. This is awesome and a very optimistic way of looking at it. It reminds me of a story I heard about a guy explaining picking up women from your car. He said something along the lines of, 19 will say 'no' but that 1 will make it worthwhile. I'd say on average 25% is more of a realistic number, every 1 out of 4 women you talk to, you will be able to sleep with.
/r/seduction18/09/13 03:52 AM
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I don't remember my first but I remember one of the earlier ones. I got the courage by the subtle hints I was receiving from her in the weeks leading up. She was a cashier at a local grocery near by my place. I was nervous but I wasn't displaying any nervous qualities. I didn't say much, very small banter and I said 'what's your number?' she said 'what?' I just kept looking at her without saying a word, and she grabbed a pen and wrote it down. She told me to text her. We texted for a few days bu…
/r/seduction17/09/13 08:18 PM
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Haha, that movie is a classic!
/r/seduction17/09/13 08:05 PM
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whats the best way to continue this conversation? You should always maintain control and never give her the chance to make a decision like that. That being said, it's extremely hard to go on a blind date with someone who you've never met in person without seeing their face. This is why online dating is nowhere near as great as picking up women in person. Your charm will make you much more attractive. That same charm gets lost behind a screen.
/r/seduction17/09/13 03:21 AM
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Try thinking that tomorrow will be your last day on earth. You will die the next day. This usually helps me overcome some nerves. Try to better yourself each day. Start with eye contact and a smile. Start saying hi next time. Solid eye contact and a smile work wonders if you're not afraid to do it shamelessly. I don't remember a time where admiring a woman I was attracted to backfired. As a matter of fact, each time I blatantly stared at a woman, undressing her with my eyes, letting her catch me…
/r/seduction17/09/13 03:17 AM
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No amount of theory will compare to real life experience. Use what you know and learn what works for you. Try and analyze. The more you fail the more success you'll have later on.
/r/seduction17/09/13 03:09 AM
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"I've failed over, and over, and over again in my life, and that is why I succeed." - MJ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07HtIrxNnjY <-- one of the greatest motivational ads ever.
/r/seduction17/09/13 03:05 AM
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So let me see if I understand this correctly: You hit it off with this girl you were attracted to She took you home and you hade a great night/morning She told you she was down for seconds What is the problem? Give her a ring when you're horny. "Are you busy? No? Ok I'm coming over" Don't overcomplicate a sure thing.
/r/seduction16/09/13 02:09 AM
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so I told her that if she wrote her number down on the Fortune and handed it back I might call her again sometime. Haha! James Bond smooth.
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:47 PM
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I'm sure this works. I have a friend who uses the line, "Am I going to get lucky tonight?" He plays the numbers game quite often. I guess I should have noted previously, I have a very thick headed mentality. If the one girl in front of me isn't going to "let" me hold her hand/kiss her/sleep with her/etc, I'll find another one that will. I have had women tell me how they would "never" sleep with me, or give me oral. From my experience, if a woman who you've never been intimate with, pretends to b…
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:44 PM
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haha this seems like an awesome story
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:59 AM
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If you're going to take that rout a much better way would be to kiss her and say, "I couldn't wait any longer, I had to kiss you." I've had a girl pull away, she turned her mouth from me so I kissed her neck, she turned around and kissed me back. It's just a little game, have fun with it. But never ask for permission. Ask for forgiveness later ;)
/r/seduction11/09/13 02:58 AM
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This is not a problem, consider yourself a very lucky man! You will be well into your late 30's (maybe even late mid 40's) and you'll look like you're in your 20's. This may seem like a problem, but it's a blessing in disguise.
/r/seduction11/09/13 01:45 AM
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They're building the sexual tension, it's a playful no. If you're alone with a girl and you're making out and you go to undo her bra and she slaps your hand away. This doesn't mean she doesn't want you, it's just a thing she does. Only stop if you hear the words 'No!' or 'Stop!' otherwise it's all a game. Do NOT ask for permission to kiss her or to touch her or to take her clothes off or to sleep with her for a second time. She will only get turned off.
/r/seduction11/09/13 01:41 AM
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No woman will be turned off about a guys 'sexualness' Think of James Bond for a second. Women know he's sleeping around with everyone, yet they still want him. A player reputation is great as long as you're not bragging about your feats. If girls are sending you nude photos or if you're making your own 'albums' or 'home movies,' keep them in your private collection. Don't share them with the world.
/r/seduction11/09/13 01:38 AM
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Great post! I know two guys that are tall, athletic, and handsome. Girls are initially attracted but as soon as each one of them opens their mouth, it starts going downhill. They go from being 10's to 4's in a matter of seconds.
/r/seduction11/09/13 01:28 AM
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Flirt with all of them, without going overboard. Restaurant/sales type jobs are great for this. If you're doing it well, the women will return.
/r/seduction09/09/13 04:34 AM
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I'm going to try and shed some light on what I believe is happening here. I've seen this with a small number of people I have met and they've all been successful with women. The guys themselves are pretty average looking, and under 6 feet tall. They all dress very well, they work with what they have and they try to bring the best self out. Two guys in particular are very busy with work so they don't have much time for working out, but they wear clothes that fit well on them. The one thing that I…
/r/seduction09/09/13 04:25 AM
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For me it didn't click overnight, but over several years. When I finally noticed that I was no longer shy, it hit me. The beauty of this is you can always progress, no matter how good you think you are.
/r/seduction09/09/13 12:38 AM
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Remember to smile as well (one of the things that I keep forgetting when making eye contact). I was walking today while reading a funny text, which made me smile for about 10-15 seconds. As I was putting my phone away in my pocket I randomly made eye contact with a woman on her bike, coming from the opposite direction. I didn't even register her because my mind was on the text, but she gave me the biggest smile back that I have seen all week. In my opinion eye contact & a smile are the biggest a…
/r/seduction09/09/13 12:36 AM
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every motherfucking male on my college campus is muscular, lean, and has great facial characteristics. perfect, you'll be rare and exotic. What I'm about to tell you will be extremely hard to grasp, but once you understand and apply the concept, you will be unstoppable. Remember, there's no half-assing it: Who cares what she thinks. If you can swallow that, understand it and apply it. You will be fine. The only thing you should think about is, "What do I want to do with this girl?" don't concern…
/r/seduction08/09/13 03:35 AM
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Two things: I wonder why white women never give me any indicators to approach I NEVER look for IOIs or when to approach, if I see a girl that I am really interested in, I will approach her and get her attention. I wonder why white women never give me any indicators to approach so of course I get shot down when I say hi. it seems like you are losing the battle before you even start. Of course makes it sound like you're expecting a rejection. When you expect a rejection, you will not approach in c…
/r/seduction08/09/13 03:19 AM
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Let's try and stay on topic here. What I was getting at is that most of this community is asking how to get numbers, first dates and openers. Sex, enjoying a woman fully is one of the greatest pleasures any man can encounter. Some are better than others and the things some of the older women can teach you when you're young will only accelerate your progression through seduction. They change your perspective on seduction. People aim for numbers, emails, dates. If you aim for sex, the numbers come…
/r/seduction05/09/13 06:23 AM
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You seem to be suffering form the misconception that a platonic relationship is some sort of romantic endeavour.
/r/seduction04/09/13 05:28 AM
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Sounds to me like there's no problem...
/r/seduction04/09/13 05:20 AM
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I think it's time you stop beating around the bush and start sleeping with some of these girls.
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:26 AM
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The experience you could've gained from sleeping with this woman would have been better than any advice you could read and theorize about on these message boards. Don't take opportunities like this for granted anymore.
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:23 AM
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I don't want to give off the wrong impression as the guy who hits on drunk girls. Are you the guy that hits on drunk girls? Don't be ashamed of what you are. I'm a pervert and I wear it proudly. Life isn't like the movies. If women know you have a wild side (which we all do but most try to repress), they'll only want you more. If someone asks you why you're not drinking, have fun with it "It makes it easier to grab women, you're mine at the end of the night." I've gone out while being completely…
/r/seduction02/09/13 03:22 AM
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And I have tried many times but it doesn't go away no matter how I change my perspective. What doesn't go away, the feeling? It happens to everyone. But the more women you "go through" the less and less each of them seems special. You'll look back and think, "this is the girl that made me nervous? this is the one who I couldn't stop thinking about?? What was I thinking???" There is only one way out of this situation: get other women...get as many as you can. Don't just get numbers but date them,…
/r/seduction02/09/13 03:12 AM
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Your approach anxiety is no longer an issue. Check. Holding a conversation doesn't seem to be a problem, and you can talk for hours. Check. The only thing that seems to be missing is focus. Lead them through a flirtatious pathway. Are you letting them know you're interested? It seems that this awkwardness is a result of the girl being confused and asking herself, "when the hell is he going to ask me out/make a move and kiss me?" Have a goal, and follow through. Don't just talk for the purpose of…
/r/seduction02/09/13 02:58 AM
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BAD! wondering if I'll ever get a chance to hang out with you? it sounds weak and desperate. You should think and act like a person who is getting laid all the time and has women chasing after him 24/7. Even if you're not that guy yet, think and act like him and everything else will fall into place. What I would've done: Her: Hey! Oh I'm tired and yourself? - first of all, if I got a text like this, I wouldn't even respond because it seems like she's starting to make an excuse for any of your of…
/r/seduction01/09/13 10:07 PM
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What I find works is a quick text immediately after meeting them, like a way of exchanging numbers. It's as simple as [my name] or [my name + (something short and humorous)] - a short line. I just remembered another thing that I do subconsciously and just thought of it now. I always send a text consisting of shorter length than the one she sends me (unless I'm texting something I'm passionate about and get carried away). If you start noticing that your texts are longer than hers, and she respond…
/r/seduction31/08/13 01:55 AM
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Well put. On a side not, I guess I'm half confident and half arrogant. Confirrogant? What am I supposed to do now!??!?! Fuck!
/r/seduction31/08/13 01:48 AM
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In my experience, if you get a girls number within the 1-3 minute range, a quick transaction, you better text her within 10 minutes of meeting her. If you wait a day, she'll either forget who you were or some other reason as to why she shouldn't pick up the phone. With a quick phone grab, it's a numbers game and the odds are not in your favor. If you talk to her for more than 3 minutes, let's say for about 10-15 before grabbing her number, she should feel comfortable around you. You should have …
/r/seduction31/08/13 01:43 AM
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Ohh man, that's rough dude! Here's something to keep in mind for the future: The one who loves less controls the relationship. This doesn't mean be a prick, but don't get too attached (especially too fast). If you have a FwB type of scenario, you have to respect the rules that you agreed upon. You should have been going out and finding new girls. You would've been busier. She would've wanted you more. The tables would have turned. But then, you would have been so busy with the other girls in you…
/r/seduction28/08/13 06:26 AM
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True, to some extent. I have seen some hideous girls get approached more often than their hotter friends. The only thing I can think of is, maybe they thought they had a better chance with the ugly one lol. As far as the whole approach goes, pay attention to a girl that is getting hit on by several guys. Try and listen to what they say. I haven't heard too many guys give a direct compliment straight from the start. They are usually beating around the bush, and in nightclubs, they'll just approac…
/r/seduction28/08/13 06:20 AM
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He is more of a friend-of-a-friend. I only see him 4-5 times a year. If you were to ask him he would deny it. I heard the stories from another guy (reliable source) who knew him better. The guy who was fucking them and still is fucking them is very humble and I've never heard him brag about girls.
/r/seduction28/08/13 06:15 AM
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I am 100% certain he wasn't paying them anything, and neither was the other guy. There is also a third guy who I went to high school with, he ended up dating a girl at some strip club. Two of the three were short guys with shaved heads and tattoos...and they were wannabe gangsters.
/r/seduction28/08/13 06:10 AM
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Hahah! Yes, you have to be careful with negs, humor is always offensive. Some people just find different things more offensive than others. Compliments however, what is she going to do? Flip out that you told her you find her gorgeous? In what world?? If she flips out, call her out on it. Tell her, "are you testing me to see if I'll back down? Come with me right now, I'll relieve your stress." - The one thing is that I never hesitate and I don't feel intimidated by them. Most guys will think abo…
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:52 AM
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I found the complete opposite. As far as the whole 9's and 10's. Every time I go out with 2 or more friends, I'll see the girls they consider 9's and 10's and to me they're 6's and 7's. Everyone is different and no matter how hot you think a girl is, you'll find a set of guys who don't find her attractive. I wouldn't use the "Hey stop it, you attract me. Now why did you have to do that? I don't have time to get attracted today." because it comes off weak (in my opinion). I used the "you look bea…
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:42 AM
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I have to agree. Move on. Next time you want to tell a girl how you feel, make sure it's not too emotional. Tell her how you'd love to spend the night with her rather than how she's the one for you.
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:29 PM
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Quite a few discouraging comments, I have a friend who is a regular at one of the local strip clubs in my city and from what I've heard he has slept with nearly every girl in there. He never gets lap dances, he just chills and drinks his brew on the side. I've seen one of the girls walk up to him once, do a little flirting, a number exchange and she said, "Are you coming over tonight?"... I don't know what he does but it's possible. I also know another wanna-be gangster type guy who dated 1 or 2…
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:26 PM
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I know books like Mystery Method and The Game always mention negging girls but I've found that complimenting her and telling her how you feel, in a confident, straight up manner will lead to attraction quite often. And the times it doesn't, you'll have saved a lot of time. I love the brutal honesty. On the other hand, if a girl has a sharp sense of humor and is a bit of a ball-buster, that's when I start returning the favor. With these girls you can just grab them after a little conversation and…
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:46 PM
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First meet: handshake, first goodbye: hug, sometimes kiss on the cheek Rest of the greets are by hug
/r/seduction25/08/13 01:21 AM
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She is constantly checking her phone. To me this shows disrespect, if I'm talking to someone I make sure to look deep into their eyes. She's talking to me and not her phone. If she's acting like a bored bitch, I don't even bother. You're better than that. I'm sorry but I'm seeing someone. Then what are you doing out? (does she just want to waste your time?) I have to go meet up with my friends. Something has gone wrong earlier in the conversation. I usually don't bother at this point, unless I w…
/r/seduction24/08/13 07:03 PM
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Being at ease with women comes with experience. Be glad that you went through this awkward situation! There are many more to come in your journey, just embrace the losses, they will help you in the future. Have you considered trying to be completely honest: I couldn't fucking think. Not to mention, we were in an awkward ass situation. Next time say, 'I am so damn nervous, it's not even funny' this will at least change the topic of conversation, you might even start talking about how you get nerv…
/r/seduction24/08/13 06:53 PM
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You're limiting yourself with any sort of online dating. You can have an average looking guy, a solid 6 at best; if you're looking at pictures, you'll scroll right over them. In person, you can change your level of attractiveness with body language, charm, banter etc. You will appear more confident. Any male 6 can look like a 9 or even a 10 with the right tools.
/r/seduction21/08/13 04:50 AM
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Absolutely, puaCurveBall! The truth is, women will say how they don't want a one night stand, how they don't want to be used etc. They'll often say this to a guy who is really trying to get into her pants. Once they meet a guy they find attractive (you, despite how overweight or balding you may think you are) they'll want him sexually. If you decide to go for a ONS, and you rock her world, there's a pretty good chance she'll want seconds...thirds..fourths and so on. Not always, but typically onc…
/r/seduction21/08/13 04:40 AM
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Perhaps the initial negative response you experience by some women is their way of testing whether or not you truly are as confident as you seem?
/r/seduction16/08/13 08:07 PM
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To an extent, I know several guys (one brown, one Filipino and one is some Asian mix). They are all very good with women, and one of the guys is very short. I think it varies on where you live. Closed minded communities are a disaster. It's getting better though.
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:41 AM
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I read a great line for this one time where you ask the girl how long she's been with the guy. If it's something short like several months, you grab her number and say, "I'll call you in 2 months, if you're still with this guy I'll never call again." I've tried it with a girl who told me she was in a relationship for a little over a year. She was genuinely flattered but I got nothing out of the transaction other than a hug and a kiss on the back of my hand.
/r/seduction16/08/13 06:38 AM
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Good, don't waste your time. Make each minute count.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:12 AM
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There's no chance I'm giving you free info from my personal experiences, the truth as I know it, so you can write it in your book as something you've experienced. Work on your book and best of luck.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:51 AM
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Your behaviour around her shows weakness and it will not end well for you somewhere down the line. This is a heads up. Wake up and take control.
/r/seduction16/08/13 02:32 AM
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I don't want to get into it publicly because I respect the fact that you're trying to make a living from your book. But I have found the polar opposite from my own experiences. And unless women in NY are a different breed (I've never been, but always wanted to go) than the women I've encountered, I can tell you that some aspects of that survey are inaccurate.
/r/seduction16/08/13 02:30 AM
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Seems like some of the stuff was written by a man thinking of what a woman would say.
/r/seduction16/08/13 02:22 AM
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"I'll call you in a month." Go out and meet other women, ones that will sleep with you. If you still want to sleep with the nurse by that time, give her a call. Because by the sound of it, she has your balls in her purse. And she's slowly closing up the zipper.
/r/seduction16/08/13 02:10 AM
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If you're seriously putting sex as a priority you should tell her on the first date. Ask her if she has a set of rules and expectations when it comes to relationships. Then you can tell her yours (if I don't sleep with someone in the first week, I don't call them again). Even if she doesn't oblige, you can bet she'll spread the word to her girlfriends about the man with backbone she met. Her girlfriends might even track you down ;)
/r/seduction16/08/13 02:07 AM
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Your approach is fantastic. In my opinion being direct is better than any other approach. This is basically like saying "I'm confident and I don't like beating around the bush." Do you mind telling me an example of when it "bit you in the ass?" I have a hard time imagining that someone would be upset if you told them you thought they were gorgeous.
/r/seduction16/08/13 01:59 AM
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I've seen a few super confident guys pull the one-hand-in-pocket quite well. They usually have great posture, and the off hand might be doing something, otherwise it's just standing still. Here's a great example of one hand in the pocket/two hands in the pockets: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GIi7unlcsTQ <--- he makes himself seem so relaxed.
/r/seduction16/08/13 01:56 AM
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You completely missed out the main culprit...PORN.
/r/seduction15/08/13 11:36 PM
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The small details are genetically bred into you. Details such as lips, noses, ears, eyes, skin texture, physique, legs, ass, calves, hands, knuckles, posture, specific body language/mannerisms etc. We will generally agree on whether or not a girl is attractive or beautiful, but not all of us will want to fuck her. "She's hot but she's not my type." or "She isn't that great looking but I'm so turned on by her." You'll hear those lines among people who are comfortable with themselves and know what…
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:16 PM
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I've read a lot of your comments and I've come to the conclusion that you are an extremely negative person. Any sort of advice that you get, you turn down with some negativity. You're asking questions, and when you get an assortment of answers, you assume what is going to happen. You don't know shit. You're wrong. You're thinking so far down the line and your head is filled with so many negative voices that you make me sick of reading this crap. No matter what anyone suggest you come up with the…
/r/seduction14/08/13 07:24 PM
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Hahah! This reminded me of one of my many failures: [FR] I was out with some friends, having a good time and mingling with everyone, at a bar. I got out of conversation with one girl who was leaving, I immediately turned over to a table, 5 feet away, where a girl was sitting alone and looked like she was not having any fun whatsoever. I sat down next to her and the conversation was full of negativity from her part, I'll try and recite it now: "How's your night?" meh sigh "You look like you're ha…
/r/seduction14/08/13 04:00 AM
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In my experience the 'conservative/religious' girls are usually the biggest sluts. Any sort of interest shown to her will result in some sort of sexual escalation.
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:45 AM
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Am I the only one that thinks you're overthinking things? You're thinking about what he's thinking and about what she's thinking and about what you're thinking...you're OVERthinking! Perhaps 'Stan' is just a high energy type of guy? And if you really have 'absolutely no intention of hooking up with her,' why even write this FR? If I'm out with a GF who I don't have intentions of sleeping with, I will just be happy for her, and even encourage her to go for it.
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:43 AM
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"What I would've done when I was younger." <-- Don't live in regret. You are the perfect age to go around and fuck things up. Nobody will think twice. "Oh, he's only 22...he's a baby." Focus on failure. Make failure your friend. Get in uncomfortable situations. Each new situation will be uncomfortable from the start. But the more you expose yourself to discomfort, the more comfortable you will be. You'll wake up one day and you'll be so conditioned around women that you'll wonder why they're all…
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:28 PM
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I am horrible with names and I am just open and honest about it. I have never had any problems. If I am in a conversation with her and interested, mid way I'll ask, "What is your name again? I am horrible with names but I want to remember yours." They'll pretend to be offended but flattered that I find them interesting.
/r/seduction13/08/13 04:14 AM
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how the hell do you remember your username???
/r/seduction13/08/13 04:09 AM
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Not always. For me, not just in romantic relationships, if someone is doing something that irritates you, giving them an aggressive "stop. and fuck off" may seem harsh but it will prevent future reoccurrences. it's like if someone pokes you, you tell them to stop...they do it again. You can say stop 1000 more times, it won't make a difference. if you slap their hand away, and tell them to fuck off. they'll get the picture loud and clear.
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:27 PM
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What I see here is a young guy who has balls and is very persistent. Just a few minor adjustments. If he were to make her laugh without putting down a cripple, maybe if he wasn't so nervous he would have delivered better lines. And maybe if he escalated kino differently things would have worked out. I think everyone should admire his persistence. How many of you would have quit at the first signs of failure even if it were only a shit test?
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:31 PM
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If they're showing off cleavage, they want you to look at their breasts. I've stared at women's asses and breasts and I've gotten called out on it. I've always been honest and I've never had a negative response from them. "What are you looking at?" "Your chest (or ass), they look amazing" more often than not they'll put themselves down in order for you to give them another compliment. "Oh I don't like them, they're not as even (or some bs along those lines)" This has never failed me, as long as …
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:24 PM
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You sound too smart to be someone with Asperger's and very unintelligent to be labeled a psychopath. My conclusion is that you're a troll.
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:13 PM
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The way I look at it, it's basically like saying, "fuck you." to her, "I still wanna manipulate you." text.
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:11 PM
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Well put.
/r/seduction08/08/13 08:46 PM
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I have your answer and a pretty cool solution: Why? Why would someone fuckin send that shit after like forever of not talking or anything? Because she just got out of a relationship with someone else, or she is seeing someone and things are nearing their end. She is in a slight panic and doesn't want to feel pain. So she goes for a sure thing, some comfort from an ex. You're probably not the only one who she sent that sort of text to. The Solution Either respect yourself and don't reply. She'll …
/r/seduction08/08/13 08:45 PM
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Nice spelling mistakes...
/r/seduction04/08/13 12:55 AM
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First of all, congratulations on opening your mouth. That is probably the hardest thing out of this whole scenario. Now let's get into the breakdown: As soon as I read your second question, I knew the female would not be interested...she won't be interested 99% of the time (the 1% is if you were incredibly attractive in her eyes <-- which also doesn't guarantee anything [I'll explain later]). There's a simple solution to your problem: DON'T ask, but TELL You would've had a much better shot if yo…
/r/seduction19/07/13 06:17 AM
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"I'm afraid of what she'll think." There's your first problem. And who cares about this moron who is commenting on images on Facebook. He is obviously not happy with himself. If he had a girl, or if he had female attention from all kinds of women, do you think he'd really have time to comment on a photo of some girl's boyfriend? Make love to your woman (make out/fool around if you're younger) and melt away both of your guys' tension. P.s. grow out your hair while you're young, because there's a …
/r/seduction19/07/13 01:45 AM
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You are limiting yourself if you honestly believe that. I’ve picked up a stripper while she was working at a strip club. I felt like a god that night, before we even arrived to the strip club my confidence was godlike. I spent $20 on cover and buying a round of drinks. I even told the girl that I picked up before hand, “If you want money, you should get away from us as far as possible. We’re all broke.” She did a round and came back to chat some more. One of the dudes that was with us, also pick…
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:31 AM
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That's more of a female thing to do. Guys will most likely stand there quietly and stare from a far while pretending not to notice you. And they are pretty bad at reading the female passive aggressive 'techniques'
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:52 AM
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Cocky – says and does things with a childlike demeanor. Always unsure but can be very powerful if things are going their way. If things go sour, the child exposes the true weakness: low confidence. Confident – saying the ‘wrong’ thing doesn’t enter their mind. They never doubt or second-guess themselves – easily express themselves without hesitation. If things go sour, they are unaffected because their confidence reassures themselves; ‘it can’t be me so it must be her that’s fucked up for not wa…
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:50 AM
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It doesn’t help. Sometimes when you work too hard on your appearance, you might chase off the women because they’ll feel intimidated to approach you. They’ll even feel intimidated to talk to you. Then you’ll get the other guys that are not easy on the eyes, but their confidence stuns the women. These guys come under the radar, unnoticed. By then it’s too late. I have friends that are really tall and athletic. A few of them are all over 6’4 and have ripped abs. But they aren’t every bright and th…
/r/seduction30/07/12 06:52 PM
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"I'm so glad we're facebook friends, but have we actually met before?"
/r/seduction30/07/12 06:26 PM
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This is common for anyone who isn’t or hasn’t gotten any (sex, kiss, hug or even handshake) from a girl, in a while. You’re out of your comfort zone and it happens to everyone. Life gets in the way, and sometimes you won’t get a chance to socialize for days or even weeks. When you finally get to the party, bar or club, you feel unmotivated. You start giving yourself excuses, ‘I’m too tired,’ ‘she probably has a boyfriend,’ ‘I wonder what Johnny is doing, maybe I’ll text him’ and the list goes on…
/r/seduction30/07/12 06:25 PM
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Whatever works. Everyone is different. Me personally, I find it it sufficient enough to just think about the scenario in detail.
/r/seduction27/07/12 09:47 PM
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It won't hinder, it will only sharpen your spontaneity
/r/seduction27/07/12 09:45 PM
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Intelligent people usually have a bigger problem because they are constantly in their own head. They are not only thinking for themselves but they are thinking for the woman, trying to find logical justification for her actions. They try and predict scenarios without ever doing anything. They are 8 steps down the road in their mind, while in reality they stall. Think for yourself only. Worry only about what you want. < - - - this will take time to grasp. And one of her reactions will make you fo…
/r/seduction27/07/12 07:30 AM
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Forget about her, ‘don’t let this spread to our circle of friends’. You should never kiss and tell. If I were you, I would ignore anything she texts and just focus on what I want, Her – “Don’t let this spread to our circle of friends” You – “Are you free tonight?” Her – “OMG that new movie looks so fun” You – “Are you free tonight?” Her – “I don’t ever wanna see you again” You – “Are you free tonight?” Get the picture? Be relentless. If you want her, go and get her. And don’t be a macho man and …
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:26 AM
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You’re an elegant conversationalist. You have the potential to be very charming with your words; I am judging this based on your writing. You have a nice flow. You are also a slight liar. It is okay to be nervous. You say you’re not anxious during the conversations but in fact you are: “…my mind just shuts off…I'm thinking to myself how hard I could game her. I introduce myself, then that’s it. I can't continue the conversation…I can't find a way to fit into the conversation without being creepy…
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:16 AM
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After you sleep with a woman, there is nothing you can do to make her want you. The worst thing you can do is look for reasons to justify her behaviour. Maybe the sex was bad? Maybe she didn’t like me? Maybe she has a boyfriend? It doesn’t really matter. Go into the situation thinking, “I will never see this person again after this” and make the best out of it. It’ll make you appreciate the time you spend with some of them that much more.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:22 PM
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Most of it is from experience. Growing up in different parts of the world, seeing different ethnicities, races and ages of men, I would notice what kind of stuff my friends/acquaintances liked. The people that I was close to, or the people who I would hang out with for several months/years, I would notice the type of women they would go after. You can go out with a friend 2-3 times and you will know what type of women he likes. I can walk down the street and point out a woman and I will know exa…
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:28 AM
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Even my friends were astonished with my skills especially because many of them knew I used to a shy, kept back kind of girl. I don’t know if it’s been posted yet but you shouldn’t take too much credit for this ‘game’ of yours. Any decent looking girl will have no trouble finding someone to share a bed with at any given night. Take a decent looking guy and an equally decent looking girl, place them in a club and tell them to walk to 10 members of the opposite sex and say, “you wanna come back to …
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:02 AM
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hahah, that's a good one. i'm gonna use that
/r/seduction10/07/12 05:33 AM
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You are absolutely right; some people do value lots of things over looks. On average however, men are much shallower than women. You may be the exception but more guys are attracted to what they see rather than how confident, intelligent, or articulate a woman is. As for this ‘ugly’ girl you know. I am sure she has something about her that attracts these men. She has something that turns them on. Perhaps she has a great pair of breasts, a great ass or whatever else they find attractive.
/r/seduction10/07/12 05:30 AM
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I’m sure you’ve heard your friends say, she’s got an ugly face but her body is a 10. You may be ugly in the face, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be attractive. Men and women see things differently. Be happy that you’re an ugly man and not an ugly woman. An ugly man will still be able to pull a gorgeous woman, if he’s confident. An ugly woman will not. Guys are a lot shallower; the fact that you can’t look at yourself in the mirror proves that. Looks are completely subjective, and this whole sto…
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:52 AM
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I didn’t bother reading your question thoroughly because I don’t give a fuck. You answered your question; this old dude is 70 years old and knows he’s going to die any minute now. He doesn’t give a fuck about anything because he is close to the end. The best way to not give a fuck is to think ‘it is my last day on earth’
/r/seduction29/06/12 03:13 AM
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Take someone who has done nothing - this guy will always have a confidence issue. I don't want to get into a whole argument here but I know several guys (one in particular) who are BUMS and have done nothing. One 30+ year old living at home and gets laid every week. He has no shame. He will even get these women into a relationship somehow.
/r/seduction21/06/12 06:00 AM
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You could bang hoes on the hood of your car and be ugly and smelly at the same time, if you're confident enough. You could scare off every girl at the bar if you're handsome, tall, fit, dress well, smell good but are a complete moron. I have seen both scenarios. Confidence > all. But it seems that a lot of people have trouble understanding confidence.
/r/seduction20/06/12 12:07 AM
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ahh I see, good point.
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:47 PM
1

I've used 3 of those last lines and a variation of the 1st. 2nd line she hesitated, said no so I repeated it a second time, slowly and she agreed. 3nd line a girl hesitated for a second and nodded in agreement. 4th a girl laughed and made a joke about how the breakfast better be worth it. She surprised me with her wit. I used to be indirect about it, but the more confidence I gained the more direct I became. And I love it.
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:43 AM
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Less is more. If you’re not focusing towards sex, let someone else have her. If you are confident enough, pick up the phone and call her. Better yet, if she texts you, text back ‘call me’ All this other, wait x days before you text, wait x hours before you respond. It's all bullshit. Live your life the way you would if you've never met her and text her when you can.
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:37 AM
1

I have texted women within minutes of meeting them, and continue to do so if I feel like it. I'll continue texting until we meet up at the date location. I haven't had any problems.
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:34 AM
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This is pure crap and shows none of the things your flawed logic mentioned. A confident man doesn’t need an excuse to talk to a woman. He has the balls to walk up to her, look her right in the eyes, tell her he wants her without flinching a muscle. He is persistent and will neutralize any bullshit response coming his way, without breaking eye contact. Even if the woman doesn’t share the same desire, she will be flattered and somewhat intimidated by his confidence. I love when I walk down the str…
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:30 AM
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What if I refuse to pay? ;) If her answer is anything but sexual flintiness, respond with: I thought you would’ve answered with something more exciting. If you’re not getting her thinking about sex in the initial stages, you’re wasting time texting her. Quality > quantity.
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:11 AM
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Don’t ask, but direct or reveal: I can’t stop thinking about making love to you, let’s go back to my place I want you to come home with me tonight We should have a slumber party tonight I want you to stay the night, but only if I can cook you breakfast in the morning
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:01 AM
1

You need to stop focusing on what she's telling you and start doing what you want instead.
/r/seduction17/06/12 10:05 PM
1

She likes you but she’s respecting the boyfriend as much as she can. You CAN NOT be afraid of losing her. You should reciprocate and escalate anything she gives you. Next time you’re dancing and she grabs your ass grab hers with both hands, pull her close while having your leg between her thighs. If she kisses you on the neck, gently bite hers/lick hers. If she pretends to get offended, tell her ‘you started it’ with a perverted smile. Pretty soon you two will start making out. When this happens…
/r/seduction17/06/12 06:51 PM
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It will take a quite a few fuck ups until you get comfortable saying whatever the fuck you want, when you want, how you want. Nervousness will work against you. I’d suggest talking to strangers first, guys, girls or the elderly. “Nice shoes, nice purse, your hair looks amazing, nice haircut man” all of this stuff can be said while walking or stopping by a traffic light. The more people you approach the less nervous and more confident you will seem. And the less nervous you seem the less threaten…
/r/seduction16/06/12 07:45 PM
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‘Hey can you help me with the self check-out? I’m a little slow and in serious need of your assistance.’ (with a slight smile) ‘lol sure’ Start “check-out(ing)?” yourself. ‘I’m kidding, I just wanted an excuse to talk to you. And hit on you because I think you’re [beautiful/gorgeous/amazing/…]’ ‘lol’ Still punching numbers in and nonchalantly, ‘Are you free tonight? I’d love if you could join me for [dinner/drinks/casual sex]’ ‘…[sure/I made plans tonight/you are way too straight forward lol/(do…
/r/seduction16/06/12 12:40 AM
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lol! great post
/r/seduction15/06/12 05:07 PM
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If it's true that he tried to commit suicide, as The Game states, then he was not/is not getting laid as much as he’d like. I know that if any of my friends are in a great mood it is because they got laid the last few days; and the guys that are depressed or angry are not. Also, The Game mentioned that Mystery was devastated when his gf dumped him because she was “the one”…a guy who has slept with more than several partners doesn’t think like that. Mystery might be a master of picking up, but wh…
/r/seduction15/06/12 05:02 PM
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Has she said anything yet or is this all in your head? If she is demanding a relationship before sleeping with you just tell her, “I only decide if I want a relationship with someone after I’ve slept with them.” If she doesn’t like that idea then leave. Walking away from a girl is the easiest thing you can do. Save yourself the headache and time wasted; because while you’re wasting your time arguing over the rules of the relationship with her, another girl who is more suitable for you is walking…
/r/seduction14/06/12 06:36 PM
2

It doesn’t matter how attractive he thinks your girl is. If he feels awkward about the situation, he won’t want to do it. Just be honest and open, tell him. There is no way of ‘gaming’ him into doing it. I know that if I was approached by an acquaintance to have a threesome with him and his gf, I would reject the offer. I wouldn’t be offended by it but I would definitely think the guy was into me. But I am probably more close-minded than you. Maybe give him a “you don’t have to answer now, think…
/r/seduction14/06/12 06:06 AM
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The nerve on this girl! Posting hearts and saying she had a blast hanging out with you the previous night. My friend, I sometimes wish we were living in the medieval days so we could have this WITCH burned in public for her foolish actions. Making all the other girls who have some interest in you jealous and catching the attention of girls who didn’t know you existed. Defriend her immediately, tell her to fuck off and never call her again. Now if you’ll excuse me, I have to endure the torture of…
/r/seduction13/06/12 07:09 AM
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“A non-religious man can be placed into a church but he can never be forced to pray.” Meaning, you are not ready for a relationship. If you are constantly cheating on your gf/fiancée/wife, you shouldn’t be forcing yourself into a relationship. So don’t force yourself into anything serious. You should just have casual relationships, or one night stands until you get it out of your system. You don’t have to lie to these women either, tell them the truth. “I have tried to settle down, but I always …
/r/seduction12/06/12 10:11 PM
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I heard a story about a guy who was dating a flirty girl for a while. I have personally never met this guy but the story is pretty entertaining. On one of their dates, they decided to go to the beach. Being the flirtatious girl that she was, she decided to take her top off. Several guys noticed and she immediately became the center of attention at this non-nude beach. This guy remained calm, and didn’t bother telling her to put her top back on. Instead, he walked over to the nearest girl on the …
/r/seduction07/06/12 12:45 AM
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The number one thing you should’ve done as soon as you found out that she wants to ‘fuck your brains out’ is to have walked up to her and said, “I heard you have a crush on me” (with a cocky smile/hopefully with other people watching, preferably her friends) The perfect scenario would’ve been if you saw her while going somewhere with a friend. A walk by: “I heard you have a crush on me” “wha-what? Oh my god, I do not” (while she’s blushing) (smirk of cocky disappointment) “it’s a shame. I kind o…
/r/seduction06/06/12 06:45 PM
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It’s going to be tough getting your answer here. Every guy is different and what some guys like, other guys don’t and vice versa. I remember a girl that loved to nibble on my earlobes. I made an uncomfortable sound that she took as ‘excitement’ and she kept on doing it. She thought she ‘hit the spot’ and I didn’t have the heart to tell her she was way off. Your best bet is to ask the guy. Sometimes they’ll be reluctant to tell you. You can always tell them what drives you crazy first, and ask th…
/r/seduction06/06/12 05:43 PM
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"So I've been hooking up this girl almost every week for about two months and so far everything's been going swimmingly (great sex, laid back relationship, I've been in control for almost the entire time)." Sounds like you're in a fuck buddy relationship without being aware of it. I can guarantee you that in the last 2 months she has slept with other guys. You can have your cake and eat it too…but at the same time you’re risking a potential STD(s).
/r/seduction02/06/12 11:41 PM
2

Yup, this is great advice!
/r/seduction01/06/12 08:02 PM
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You guys sound young, early 20’s perhaps? Best way to deal with this is to go big or go home. He is probably thinking that this is the girl of his dreams. And he probably has all these fantasies that have overlooked sex. The truth is, if your buddy was a scumbag who would just fuck this girl and move on, she’d be all over him. You should explain this concept to him. If this girl is aware that your friend is “in love” with her, she won’t be attracted to the idea of a human doormat. Your friend is…
/r/seduction01/06/12 07:50 PM
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It looks like a shady site by a random guy who we know nothing about. You have 0 links, you don't have an about page. Why should we listen to you? <--- this is what we the readers are interested in As for the post itself, I could argue against certain points, and I know I'm not the only one. The fact that you don't have an about page or any structure to the website only makes you lose credibility for your argument and teachings. The first blog post is the absolute last thing anyone should publis…
/r/seduction01/06/12 12:58 AM
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There are two types of beautiful women: Beautiful women and women that THINK they are beautiful. Like this gem right here: Samantha Brick The fact that you put up such a ridiculous AMA makes me think that you’re delusional.
/r/seduction31/05/12 09:15 PM
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I agree with TofuTofu, however it is very hard finding a professional that will actually help with your problem. You might waste a lot of money and more importantly time. You are not as ugly as you think you are. But this awful mentality has definitely altered your exterior (body language, shifty eye movements and unnaturally uncomfortable appearance). 7 years is a long time wasted not talking to a female. You could have died in those 7 years. What a waste that could have been. Not just for you …
/r/seduction22/05/12 07:58 PM
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This is solid advice but I would take it one step further. Don’t drop her right away. Go find another girl. She doesn’t have to be 9 or a 10, just someone that you are attracted to. Go do whatever you want with her. You’re not doing anything wrong. This gf of yours is a bitch, she is openly admitting to going on a date with another man. Don’t waste time, go out TODAY. Next time you see your “gf” ask her how it went, then give her some details about the girl you’ve been seeing. When she gives you…
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:36 PM
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Most guys won’t approach a pretty girl unless they are sure the woman is interested. Even then, it’s a very questionable. Become more open. Smile and make eye contact ALL THE TIME. A lot of guys are pussies and even if you smile at them while staring, they’ll look away and think “oh shit, I think she digs me but I don’t know what I should say.” Walk up and say, “hi”…everything else will be easy.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:44 AM
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The reason why you feel like a creep is because you are focusing on how she's going to perceive you. Stop worrying about what she’s gonna think of you and focus on what you want. I’ll add a sexual compliment early on in the conversation; sometimes I’ll even start the conversation with a sexual compliment. For example: So where are you from? Random place Ahh nice, I’ve been the before. (check her out) You have amazing legs Usually she will be stunned and lost for words while smiling. Sometimes th…
/r/seduction12/05/12 01:45 AM
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lol, you're a 9/10...when it comes to trolling edit I can't believe some of you are getting so upset and are taking him seriously hahah.
/r/seduction10/05/12 04:51 PM
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Hahaha! That is an amazing line! Very clever, very original and 100% honest. This is the type of stuff guys should be doing. Congrats man, I'll be surprised if she doesn't want to meet up for drinks after you exposed your BEACH-BALL sized nuts to her.
/r/seduction08/05/12 09:04 PM
2

Despite what anyone here says, don’t go for the number unless you want to sleep with the woman. Or maybe unless you somehow find out she has connections that can benefit your career/networking. Why lead a woman on when you have no interest in her? To answer your question: as many as I find attractive in that night x 25-50%...So if I find 3 women at the bar that are sexually appealing to me, I will get at least 1 of their numbers.
/r/seduction08/05/12 08:59 PM
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Hahah! that line sounds like something I would use with my guy friends. This girl is sharp! I think I'm in love and I don't even know what she looks like. What I would respond with is: Turn her away from the group and say "Keep walking" look back at my friends "sorry guys, I swear I don't know her." Throw her a curveball, look at her teeth for a moment - "when did you get braces?" "yesterday, do you like them?" "no but seriously, are they the clear ones" - looking at her teeth with intrigue "i d…
/r/seduction08/05/12 05:36 PM
2

The best way for dealing with a break-up is by setting up a rule ahead of time. Tell her “the moment you want out just say ‘I want out’” usually with this method they never want out. You could’ve cut her off and just say, “you don’t have to explain anything, if you want out just say ‘I want out’” Try it, it works wonders. It’s like they are so hard headed that they will purposely want to stay with you just to go against you. It’s messed up.
/r/seduction08/05/12 04:59 AM
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When it comes to “looks” men and women see two completely different things. < - - - This is something that most men have an incredibly difficult time understanding. Especially men like yourself, with low self-esteem. Why? Because men are a lot more shallow…A LOT more shallow. We are fixated in physical appearance and we know no better. So the only logical explanation to us is: “If I’m a 7, I will only be able to pull 7s and below.” < - - WRONG! A man will always be able to pull off a better look…
/r/seduction07/05/12 07:19 PM
2

Getting a car for the purpose of one girl is not a bright idea. This girl is the girl of your dreams…but only in your head. You will most certainly mess this up, she will tell you that she likes you as a friend and you should remain friends. Great. Don’t waste your time chasing this girl. Go out and find other girls. Get rejected, get heart-broken and gain experience. It will be a journey with its ups and downs. But 3 years from now, you’re gonna look back at that girl and realize that she WASN’…
/r/seduction07/05/12 04:05 AM
1

You shouldn’t force yourself against your nature. Some people like staying single while others like relationships. Some people feel depressed as soon as they get into a relationship because they feel confined and restrained. They love the joy of chasing and grabbing a partner for a night while others want something much more and long lasting.
/r/seduction07/05/12 03:57 AM
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One of the most likable/charming personalities is a humble person who can make fun of themselves while complimenting the other person. For example: You approach a girl and you get rejected, but you notice someone looking at you: walk up to them and say “0/11 so far…if I was only as handsome as you, I might get somewhere with these women.” They’ll usually laugh and respond with something like “oh you’re not bad looking man, it’s all about confidence blah blah blah.” Continue with the conversation…
/r/seduction05/05/12 07:18 PM
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They do it to keep their options open. A boyfriend is nothing more than a casual sex partner for x amount of time. If things start going bad, she’ll have a safety net of men to catch her from hitting rock bottom. You won’t see any normal married women (30+) doing this.
/r/seduction30/04/12 06:45 PM
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I’m going to be perfectly honest and direct with you. This girl is going to be a headache. She thrives on this drama stuff and she subconsciously wants guys to use her just for sex. If she didn’t, she wouldn’t have given her pussy up so fast. You wanna be her knight in shining armour but you are protecting her from yourself. She will get bored and she will end this little fantasy you have in the near future. _tweaks said it,“what’s her relationship with her father like?” These people cannot be f…
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:37 PM
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We walk out, hug and say goodnight. There was no room for a kiss. If there's room for a hug there's room for a kiss. Don't be intimidated to pull the trigger. A great idea, invite her over and cook a meal together. If you can’t cook order take out and watch a movie. She wants you to kiss her; she wants you to sleep with her. You are your biggest enemy at this point. Stop staling yourself and get out of your head.
/r/seduction24/04/12 03:15 AM
1

The feelings you feel have no influence on your actions unless you allow them to. You just refuted your whole argument with this statement. You just described someone who is confident. Being aware of this will, over a short period of time, make you confident.
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:51 PM
1

I have had several wingwomen around and I’ve seen friends with wingwomen and I can tell you this: It doesn’t take more than one man to talk to a woman Yeah, I used to Dos Equies guy quote but whatever. I find that most of the women are not very witty, they are just straight forward. It’s like an ice-breaker. Having the balls to approach and no fear of rejection will be way more beneficial. The good thing about having wingwomen/women around you is that it shows the other girls that you: Are not a…
/r/seduction13/04/12 09:02 PM
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There’s a misconception with the word douche. We all hate a douche and we all have a different definition. If someone does something that we dislike, we automatically call them a douche. Nobody likes a douche that will cause them harm; physical or emotional. If someone calls you a name or hits you for no reason, that person is a douche. With that being said, a woman has no right calling a man a douche because he no longer wants to have a relationship with her. If a guy is honest with a woman and…
/r/seduction13/04/12 01:10 AM
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You're going to have to be the "man" in the initial stages, until he finally comes out of his shell. He’s never had a gf, doesn’t think women find him attractive and doesn’t know if a woman is into him or not. What does this mean? It means that: He won’t be making the first move He won’t be responsive to your flirting and compliments He will probably be awkward and uninterested even if you blatantly tell him you’re into him You should build comfort with him, and by the fact that you’re texting b…
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:16 PM
1

Unless you’re severely abusing crank and growth hormone there’s no way you’re 6’4 320lbs and Athletic.
/r/seduction06/04/12 05:57 PM
0

Only 11 texts? You're lucky...check out this guy: One Crazy Girl
/r/seduction06/04/12 02:20 AM
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I literally get goose bumps when someone makes such inquiries. It tells me they are not socially calibrated. I judge them solely on that; and the sad part is that 9 times out of 10 I’ll be right about their character. When I was younger I used to get into a long conversation and do some back and forth banter like the original poster did. I have been exposed to a lot of idiots in my life. The way I was raised was “Never inquire about money” I got sick of the back and forth banter. I’ve had repeat…
/r/seduction06/04/12 12:52 AM
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Oh not at all, it’s hard to tell the tone of voice over written text. The tone was basically a polite “fuck off.” I know for a fact I made more than most of the people at that gathering. I honestly did not care who made more money, I just knew that it was a “dick-measuring” competition that I wasn’t going to waste my time on. It turned out well for me because he ended up trying to suck up the entire time…but I wasn’t having any part of that.
/r/seduction05/04/12 05:28 PM
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I had a very similar situation to this one: "I'm just trying to get an idea of who your target client is. What size.. no let's see.. here we go.. what type of dollar amounts are you talking for a typical job." My response to a similar question was: I gave him a 'the-way-a-father-lectures-a-child' look and said, "Did you just ask me that?" rhetorically. He started getting embarrassed, "Oh, w-well no, I just meant" "I make more than enough" I cut him off Could've also went with: "I came to this hi…
/r/seduction05/04/12 05:01 PM
1

looking forward to it
/r/seduction05/04/12 04:41 PM
4

You're a great writer, my man. I actually envy your writing style. I was going to suggest that you start a blog after reading the 1st 2 paragraphs. Looking forward to more of your stories.
/r/seduction04/04/12 06:22 PM
2

This will get you the girl 100%: She likes your Facebook stuff, comments on it and you didn’t even bother responding to any of it. You’re the “cool guy” in her eyes. Just send her a message: “How was the rest of your night? I had to leave early because friend-did-whatever.” Keep it short because you’re a cool guy. Once she responds, leave a little time to respond so it seems like you are busy. Usually send messages morning and night. After chit-chatting with her for a few messages, make plans wi…
/r/seduction27/03/12 06:01 PM
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I don't know if you're a troll but I'll answer your question assuming you're not. In a survey I think there was a 60/40 split between women who didn't care about dick size as opposed to women who did. As for the vagina, I think it's around 3-4 inches until all of the nerve endings are gone. This means that most women only need 3-4 inches to be satisfied. That being said there are large vaginas and small vaginas. The large vaginas probably want the large dicks while the small ones prefer the smal…
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:27 PM
2

Be honest. She'll hate you in that moment but she'll respect you. You already have the answer: I want to remain friends, but she clearly wants something I'm not willing to give her right now. tell her that.
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:15 AM
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Simple: One nail drives out another; meaning, find another girl equally as attractive. You will forget about the main girl and it will help you get over her. There is a lot of great people out there. You just gotta open your eyes.
/r/seduction26/03/12 06:37 AM
2

How should i proceed from here to take to an highter level? Simple: Stop stalling.
/r/seduction25/03/12 09:54 PM
2

Good stuff, especially the The #1 rule in meeting women is to stop giving a shit.
/r/seduction23/03/12 08:03 PM
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“I don’t think I set the right precedent” You’re right about that. Your main problem is that your value system is wrong. You say you have a 10 on your hands yet she lives at home, doesn’t seem to have a career and isn’t generous. You seem like a good guy, you sound intelligent and you’re probably well off financially. Are you good looking? Do you have a lazy eye, a receding hairline? Are you short? < - - - none of this MATTERS. Wear nice clothes. What’s nice? Hire a stylist and they’ll tell you.…
/r/seduction23/03/12 06:58 PM
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Send him a text and include your mutual fetish, something that will turn him on. Don't make it too long. Just a short sample and type "are you free tonight?" at the end. If he doesn't respond within an hour, send him a second short text that you made plans with someone else because you didn't hear from him in time. Don't ask him to hang out, let him ask you. Be strong and good luck. If he doesn't come around, he'll never come around. Better to know now than to waste your time.
/r/seduction23/03/12 02:36 AM
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Whoa...how old were these guys and how old are you? This sounds like some high school bullshit and not something grown men would do. I have never experienced this sort of behaviour in my life.
/r/seduction22/03/12 06:17 AM
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haha yeah, the "other examples" are a perfect example of overthinking. when you were on the spot you didn't have much time to think other than "i want your number." great job dude!
/r/seduction22/03/12 05:55 AM
1

Can you give some of the aspects of the book? What did you enjoy about it that is better than some of the information you can find here (give specifics)?
/r/seduction21/03/12 10:29 PM
3

I have a feeling you're a troll...
/r/seduction15/03/12 12:03 AM
2

That “I am not a student” line just proves that you’re a student. Your hard-headedness and ego will get in the way of your own success at some point in your life. I love learning and I can’t get enough of it. I am a student for life; not just in seduction but in everything I do. < - - - some of the best teachers will tell you that.
/r/seduction14/03/12 09:40 PM
2

Exactly, a great way to look at it.
/r/seduction14/03/12 09:35 PM
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Then you are either a very lucky man or a very naive stepping stone. If it’s the latter then I wish you the best of luck in life.
/r/seduction14/03/12 09:34 PM
5

I have found this to be true, especially if they are someone you've met at the bar. Meeting a woman that’s equally beautiful inside and out is rare in my experience. Either way the quote has its plusses and minuses and I thought I’d share it.
/r/seduction14/03/12 07:39 PM
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By meeting up with her you are just setting precedence. It’s subconsciously showing her, “I can cheat on him and he will still see me.” Forget about her. You seem like a nice dude, if you were an asshole, you could’ve met up with her, keep her on the side for the sex while seeing other people. And if she ever brings it up, just tell her the truth how you’re seeing other people and how you and her will never have a normal relationship. But then again she will probably be messing around with other…
/r/seduction14/03/12 07:36 PM
1

The plus side is that you have 30-35 women under your belt. You should be quite confident and somewhat skillful in the bedroom. Know that you’ve slept with more women than most of the guys you brush shoulders with at the bar/club/street. You seem to have zero social experience. You should stop seeing prostitutes but it’s hard to go cold turkey from something; try to limit yourself. Prepare yourself for failure. You are going to fail in your early interactions. Accept it. But with each failed int…
/r/seduction13/03/12 05:53 PM
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If it were up to me, there's only one quote I'd want to see on the sidebar and that's this one: “Women don’t have a particular type of man they want, they have a particular type of attitude they want in a man.”
/r/seduction13/03/12 05:29 PM
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Some of the information here is just ridiculous. You can’t be serious with some of these, can you? “What is she thinking”, “What are her plans”, “What does she want to do right now.” You can NEVER figure out what a woman is thinking if you’re a man. Most women CAN’T figure out other women. So don’t bother trying. The best nights I’ve had were the ones where I was bold. I wouldn’t even consider rejection. Observational stuff is good but you don’t have to over think it, and you don’t have to be as…
/r/seduction13/03/12 03:55 AM
2

"You're such a womanizer ;)" = playful teasing
/r/seduction12/03/12 07:55 PM
1

Oh no, I wasn't talking about Mike, I was talking about Jason (the stripper). I don't wanna take anything away from Mike, he got it done but Jason made it seem effortless. It’s as if his body language was speaking to these women subconsciously. I was hoping someone who is a master of paying attention to detail could break it down for us. This is a level of game that I’ve never seen before.
/r/seduction12/03/12 08:09 AM
0

"The last 4 girls that told me that ended up going home with me the same night I met them." "Oh you gotta be up early? I can give you a ride in the morning." She did say 'tonight' As for the 'why they say it?' who the hell knows. Does it really matter?
/r/seduction12/03/12 06:05 AM
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Make sure to watch the movie, she'll probably quiz you on certain parts of the film. Do not take your eyes off of the TV! Much like a high school teacher, she will want to know that you're watching the film. And bring a notepad for notes. Do NOT make any physical contact with her. She invited you to “Watch a movie” so stick to the script. Once the movie is over, you should leave within the 5-10 minutes after the closing credits. She might have to vacuum her room and tidy up the bed in case she i…
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:44 PM
2

I’ve heard mixed reviews from men/women that have seen this clip. Everything from, he’s ugly, he’s average to he’s good looking, he’s hot. It was fairly mixed.
/r/seduction11/03/12 05:55 PM
1

A few of the YouTube comments were dissing him, saying he’s gay, he’s not even into any of the girls, etc. If he’s surrounded by women all of the time I can imagine he wouldn’t be all that impressed by a few good looking girls.
/r/seduction11/03/12 05:54 PM
1

true.
/r/seduction11/03/12 05:51 PM
1

Anyone got any explanations as to what happened here?
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:12 AM
1

I’d like to get a POV from your perspective/mind. Give me an average (but realistic) scenario where you see a woman at a club/bar/street(wherever) and how you approach the situation in getting her into bed. Kind of like a play by play but with your thoughts. I wanna know how your ego takes certain aspects of the conversation/her actions. I’m all ears (eyes in this case).
/r/seduction09/03/12 01:29 AM
3

If you’re lacking in looks "neck up", work on bringing your “neck-down” physique to a 10. Guys are a lot more shallow than girls and I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “her face was a 4 but her body was a 15” A great physique and nice clothes will boost your confidence.
/r/seduction09/03/12 01:15 AM
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What's stopping someone of putting up a fake picture?
/r/seduction09/03/12 01:07 AM
3

You should post some of your stories here on reddit, pick-ups/sex/or failures. Any kind of info will give the guys here some realistic info on how this works. Hell, I’d love to hear them and I can guarantee I’m not the only one.
/r/seduction08/03/12 05:33 PM
12

This was very solid advice. The people here who are trying to pick it apart and find flaws are just wasting their time. Sure, there are exceptions to each rule but generally speaking, this is some of the best and honest advice I’ve ever read. Especially about the hotter women, they’re so much easier to talk to/pick up than the less-attractive ones. Anyone got the link to this?
/r/seduction08/03/12 05:23 PM
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This is spot on. Most tall girls will become desperate because they intimidate most guys. They’re more likely to settle. If you’re a tall guy, you can guarantee that tall girls will go after you no matter what you look like; simply due to the fact that she can wear her heels with you.
/r/seduction07/03/12 01:07 AM
1

There is a HUGE difference between "No"/"Stop" and "We shouldn't be doing this."/"I wanna get to know you more." To me the line "I only have sex when I'm in love" is like her saying "I'm in love with you." Don't let her words throw you off, she probably doesn't even know what she wants. The only two words that will make me stop are "No." and "Stop." anything else is fair game.
/r/seduction06/03/12 07:23 AM
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Mass text, she gets a bonus if she gets customers to the bar, forget about this chick. Look at her responses: Okay I'm bartending tomorrow hahahah while you're pushing hard to get get a text back from her. If anything, go to the bar with a girl, get a few drinks and try and meet some more women at the bar. You will most likely NOT get the girl but you might walk away having a bar by your house where the bartender will give you a few free drinks.
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:30 AM
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"this is probably a good time to tell you i only have sex when im in love" "i respect that" as you pull her panties off
/r/seduction05/03/12 11:20 PM
3

First question: Why? I've had ex-s try and "re-connect" and I would simply respond with, "come over" or "let's go for a ride, i'll pick you up in x" It doesn't always work, but when it does we both get something out of it and we can get back to living our lives away from eachother. Stop wasting your time and go find another girlfriend.
/r/seduction05/03/12 10:59 PM
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Something must’ve gone wrong if she’s bringing a friend. You might be coming off too intimidating or who knows what else. If she wanted you sexually she wouldn’t be inviting any “distractions” to hang out.
/r/seduction04/03/12 06:32 PM
1

Guys that get laid a lot usually hit on a lot of women. They are so comfortable and conditioned around women that there is nothing a girl can do or say that will throw them off. Paul Janka is one of those guys. For him it’s the 11% rule because he only wants casual sex. And out of the 10 women that he hits on, 1 of them will be down and ready for casual sex THAT NIGHT. In reality, the % of women you, me or anyone can sleep with is about ½ or 1/4. 25-50%, not bad right? The thing with Paul Janka …
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:29 AM
3

Ego dictionary: No I’m not – Please tell me more, MORE MORE MORE I’m a bit chubby – I lost some weight and you noticed, tell me more MORE MORE MORE Really? – Really? GIVE ME MOOOOORE
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:08 AM
1

I don’t know why guys use the HB# thing…looks are completely subjective. Only when we are young and afraid of what our friends might think do we “fake-rate” women. When you get older the conversation goes to: “Whoa, that girl is a bombshell!” “Which one? That one!? She’s too chubby in my opinion.” “She’s perfect, I’m gonna go get her number.” “Haha, awesome dude.”
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:05 AM
1

Consider that the “frat boy” is actually gay and probably liked you. Hahaha! That scarf is picking up both sexes, you got a magical scarf there.
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:00 AM
1

"Go to your fancy restaurant and enjoy your meal. Once you’re done, come back to my place so I can fuck the shit out of you." Don't ever pay for a stranger. Treat them to a meal after they've given you sex.
/r/seduction02/03/12 11:57 PM
10

Great job on the forward “you’re cute, what’s your name” thing. Amazing! You don’t need a lot of work, you just need to tweak a few things. My rule, I never ask a girl what she does for work, where she goes to school etc. Those are all 1st date type questions. Here are some of my favourite options of where to go from your opener: How’s your night so far? Do you live around here? What’s the occasion? Who are you here with? How’s your night is great because if anything interesting happened to her,…
/r/seduction01/03/12 10:19 PM
10

The problem is obvious, as you stated your lack of confidence. You’re a mental midget and people will notice. I’ll go out on a limb here and say, the reason you’re not seeing results at the gym is because you’re probably thinking: “what’s the point of working out and pushing myself at the gym, it won’t make a difference.” You reek of low self esteem and negative energy. And nobody wants to be around that. You need to focus on your mental. Think optimistic. Smile, fake a smile. Fake your optimism…
/r/seduction01/03/12 09:47 PM
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Here’s a scenario: You’re on a lake, fishing. There’s quite a few other boats out there and they seem to be catching some of the fish. The other fishermen are surrounded by other fish and some of the fish look like they’re gonna go for the bait. Why the FUCK would you spend 2 hours in one small section of the lake, throwing the same bait over and over again. If that fish ain’t gonna bite in 2-5min she isn’t gonna bite in 20min, 2h, 2days, 2weeks…you see what I’m trying to say?
/r/seduction01/03/12 09:33 PM
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Just tell him some of your experiences (good and bad ones), try and recall the interactions or how you would approach the situation. And just tell him what’s going on in YOUR mind when you approach a woman. Take him out with you. You seem to have it figured out, so just let him know.
/r/seduction29/02/12 06:52 PM
1

Real Alpha’s don’t pick on the weak. Sorry to tell you, but you’re surrounded by a bunch of little bitches. It sounds like you work environment is filled with low self esteem. I’m lucky in the sense that I’ve always had a quick triggered mouth. I always knew how to come up with a better comeback for whenever anyone would ever try and disrespect me. Your situation is a tough one because you’ve accepted the abuse for so long that these bullys might not take anything you say seriously. If you tell …
/r/seduction25/02/12 07:51 PM
7

Do not say, are we downgrading to fb, because it comes off weak. Forget about replying to her message all together. You said you moved on, right? Then move on. She’ll text you again. Guaranteed. The next time she texts you, your ONLY reply is, “Come over.”
/r/seduction25/02/12 07:30 PM
2

I just read it again thoroughly "just sit across or next to them and stare at them in the eyes for a good 30 seconds or so" AHHAHAHAAHAH! Don't do that man.
/r/seduction23/02/12 08:37 AM
7

I find that women have pretty bad game. The best game I’ve heard from women trying to pick me up was the bold upfront approach. Best game I’ve experienced: Honesty and compliments. Undressing me with their eyes aka Getting EYE FUCKED “How’s your night.” Followed by “I wanted to come up to you because I thought you were cute.” Hi. Stuff like that. Worst game I’ve experienced: Bumping into me while avoiding eye contact. Stepping on my feet. Subtle manipulative shit. Giving you a stare without a sm…
/r/seduction23/02/12 07:28 AM
1

What you’re talking about is the most natural pick up. Except you should smile right away, at least have a smirk on your face. You won’t last 30 seconds because they’ll most likely look away within 5. And look back at you within a few. You should make them fluster. Get their hearts beating. Own the situation and then say “Hi”. Don’t bother with anyone here telling you “don’t do it, you’ll be a creep”, “she’ll think you’re a…”, “she’s gonna be thinking you’re…” Take it from a guy that stares at w…
/r/seduction23/02/12 07:19 AM
3

Keys to the VIP People go to this club in Toronto and the 4 judges give them a set of rules to pull a pick up. Stuff like: make out with a girl in 5min, get her number in x amount of time. They'll even add a cockblock chick as a handicap. I liked this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sU7T_yTqSvU <--- blonde dude is a male stripper with awesome confidence. This one was hilarious: Part 1: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9D0l8jUmrE0 Part 2: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpzpJ1Psb6M <--- hilariou…
/r/seduction23/02/12 05:36 AM
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You should just walk up to her and signal the take the earphones out and say, "Excuse me, do you mind leaving the gym; you're very distracting and I'm trying to work out. Thanks" Then just walk away. Hahahahaha!
/r/seduction22/02/12 10:50 PM
4

You: How's the coffee here? Her: Fine, I guess... You: I don't really give a shit about the coffee, to tell you the truth. I just couldn't take my eyes off of you. I'm looking at you sipping on your coffee and my mind is flowing with fantasies. Her: Umm...[holy shiiiiiit this guy is a PRO!]
/r/seduction22/02/12 08:44 PM
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“Women don’t have a certain ‘TYPE’, they have a certain ‘ATTITUDE’ they like.” <---- probably the best quote I've heard in a while.
/r/seduction22/02/12 08:40 PM
2

Stop watching porn and stop masturbating so much. Don’t even GLANCE at that shit. Go to your school/local gym and start lifting weights. Benefits of lifting weights: your body will release endorphins which are the most natural anti-depressants. You’ll be on a natural high and good mood, and the women will notice. By lifting heavy weights (3-5 reps of what your max lift is: bench/squat/deadlift) you will naturally boost your testosterone levels; thus resulting in a more horny you. And you’ll look…
/r/seduction21/02/12 09:38 PM
2

I have considered that. And I haven’t overanalyzed anything. The rapport was there because things were escalading rather quickly (sexually) on the dance floor. I strongly believe that she was anxious and nervous. She also became less nervous the more she drank. That is not really my concern to be honest; I could’ve gotten hit by a car, gunned down or some other freak accident. The way I look at it is that we’re all here for a short time and we better make the best of the time we have. If she’s s…
/r/seduction21/02/12 09:27 PM
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No, we texted for a bit and when I said we should meet up but she wasn’t responding. A day or two later, another text and I got no reply. Then I just called her left a message “hey call me back”, she immediately did and when we talked briefly but I could tell by the tone of her voice that she was hesitant about a meet up.
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:57 AM
2

No amount of booze will ever outbalance the sheer power of EXPERIENCE. It’s a numbers game, just go for it. Talk to as many women as you can; on the street, in the mall, at the bus station etc. Say: “hi” Say: “nice [coat, purse, hair, eyes, lips, shoes, jewellery, WHATEVER] Say: “you look beautiful today” Say: [it doesn’t matter, just SAY something] Just open your mouth. It will seem weird at first, you might feel awkward, you might feel that people are looking at you and judging you and laughin…
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:51 AM
1

You’re not gonna get a good answer from the women…because despite what they think, women DON’T know what they want. So don’t bother trying to figure them out because you’ll just go insane. If you just wanna “dance” and have a “good time” join a salsa dance class and stay away from the club.
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:28 AM
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There’s some good responses here but I don’t bother with flakes and I usually just move on. I remember one time, a girl that I picked up got cold feet after we exchanged numbers. So I did the text, text, call (not all in one day). She told me she was tired and had work early and told me to call her in the morning, which I thought was complete bs, so I didn’t bother talking to her after that. I was at a club about a month later and she ran up to me, gave me a hug and wanted to hang out, but it wa…
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:23 AM
1

Some of these are pretty good: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sU7T_yTqSvU The Jason guy's game is pure body language, the guy's a male stripper and insanely comfortable around women...it shows.
/r/seduction21/02/12 04:52 AM
1

thanks!
/r/seduction05/02/12 07:36 PM
3

The video is taken down, I kinda wanna see this or other videos with this guy. Anyone know what his name is?
/r/seduction03/02/12 05:15 AM
3

I’m sure there’s a lot more to this than you’re telling us but the BEST way of getting someone to want to hang out with you is by ignoring them. The fact that she isn’t willing to hang out is because you’re too available. Your world revolves around her, while hers doesn’t revolve around you. Start doing your own thing, go find new girl but keep the current one on the side…because this is exactly what your current girlfriend is doing with you. If she asks to hang out, tell her you’re busy; even i…
/r/seduction03/02/12 05:08 AM
1

Ahh I see what you're saying now. I didn't get it from your previous posts. Whatever works, I guess.
/r/seduction25/10/11 07:38 PM
1

“That's something I agree with, if you're in the right situation and you know what you're doing. If you don't know, or if the situation isn't ripe for it, it aint gonna work out the way you thought it would.” The only thing I’m concerned with, initially, is WHAT I WANT. And if I look at a woman that I am sexually attracted to, the situation IS RIGHT FOR ME. I haven’t met too many women that were ‘users of men’…I have met a lot of women that people considered ‘users of men/gold diggers/etc’ but m…
/r/seduction25/10/11 03:37 AM
3

Yeah you’re totally right. Don’t tell a girl you’d wanna fuck her. I would take serious offense to that comment if I heard it coming from the opposite sex. I’ll tell you this right now. I don’t ever worry about where I’m going to take a girl out on date 1, or how I’m going to escalate to a kiss on date 3 or all other nonsense you’ve been taught by these false gurus. I let them know that I plan on sleeping with them and I usually have them naked in a bed by the end of the night or the end of our …
/r/seduction24/10/11 05:43 PM
3

Did you read anything I wrote? If she causes a fuss, you can almost guarantee she will be sucking your dick later that night, later that week or later that month. Real life is NOTHING like the movies. I can assure you of this.
/r/seduction24/10/11 05:23 PM
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Slow the fuck down. This is the first thing I’d tell your brain/thought process. Women and Men DO NOT THINK THE SAME. What you consider a 6.5 or a 10 is what the next guy considers an 8.5 and a 7. Don’t let anyone tell you different. In general, men are far more shallow than women, be thankful that you are on that side of the line. I’ll tell you right now, this girl is NOT a 10. A 10 does not exist. The second thing: your problem is that YOU’RE THINKING FOR HER. 1.) What does she like to do? 2.)…
/r/seduction23/10/11 06:09 PM
3

No need for the "look of disapproval”. The teasing style of humor might not be your thing but I assure you, it has worked WONDERS for me. I always push the person, inch by inch, to see where their borders are in order to see how far I can take it. To each his own I guess.
/r/seduction23/10/11 04:14 AM
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What you said was funny but you kind of went a little too much with it. Nothing was wrong with your joke, if you were a stand up comic. You should tone it down if you’re talking to someone you’d wanna date/fuck: For example: The girls here tell me I have the finest chest hair. (and leave it at that) Or I’d go with: Girls love my chest. I do a lot of push ups. I find teasing them/taking the piss out of them (if you’re British) works wonders. So if she tells you how her boyfriend thinks she has th…
/r/seduction23/10/11 01:48 AM
2

Hahaha! You poor thing, I feel so bad for you.
/r/seduction20/10/11 05:20 AM
2

No worries brother!
/r/seduction08/10/11 05:27 PM
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You meet someone, you spend a lot of time with them and you feel your life is complete. All this time you’ve been getting lazy. Look at your list: 1. Finish Work 2. Go to the gym 3. ??? There’s your problem! I’m assuming 3 used to be, hang out with girlfriend…BOOOOOOORING! You’re a 23 year old YOUNG man not a 63 year old senior citizen. You should set some goals for yourself. The physical activity is awesome. Try and get into the best shape of your life. Go out and enjoy life and start enjoying …
/r/seduction07/10/11 11:43 PM
6

Act like nothing happened. Smile and hit on her again.
/r/seduction25/09/11 11:38 PM
3

Hahaha! She seemed very “into it” according to your story. This chick is a mess and another reason NOT TO LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS. This chick made out with you after 10 min of meeting you. The make out session turned into something much more. Yet you’re dwelling on some bullshit coming out of her mouth. Next time you’re sitting next to her make your move again. If she becomes hesitant just do what she did: say one thing and do another. Yeah you’re right, my fault. I couldn’t help myself around y…
/r/seduction13/09/11 08:26 AM
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Haha, that’s exactly what my friend said. He got back into the gym and felt good. He said some girls stopped him in the middle of the street and started hitting on him. They asked him what he was up to later in the evening. Makes sense if you think about it: you go to the gym, you lift weights, check yourself out in the mirror a few times. You see an exaggerated image of yourself hyped up by your ego. You take the confidence outside of the gym. You radiate confidence and high self esteem whereve…
/r/seduction13/09/11 08:08 AM
1

6 feet and 125 pounds!? DAMN that is skinny, no offense. You remind me of my buddy except he’s 5’10. The bright side, you’re 6 feet tall and putting on weight is easy. It’s pretty difficult to maintain 125lbs even if you have a rapid metabolism. Simple Solution: Eat more and grab a gym membership. I used to be very underweight in high school. I was so skinny that kids would actually make fun of me. I got a gym membership, and I increased my caloric intake. Within a few MONTHS (not weeks) everyon…
/r/seduction13/09/11 07:59 AM
6

Let me call you a cab.
/r/seduction13/09/11 07:45 AM
12

Last Day On Earth. If knowing tomorrow was your last day on earth, would you have the cojones to talk to her then? Think about that and you'll become invincible.
/r/seduction13/09/11 07:44 AM
2

Some women end up with unemployed loser boyfriends You're right about that! Do you think those loser boyfriends are thinking about what She was thinking? I doubt it. You sound like a fairly intelligent person. In reality, it’s the intelligent guys that have trouble with women. They overanalyze little things. They become obsessed with them and the little ‘useless’ things become their downfall. Dumb guys hardly ever have trouble with women. I guarantee you, if you changed your focus to what you wa…
/r/seduction12/09/11 08:39 PM
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I have to disagree with your post, from my own experience, mainly the part about: ‘When they look for a sexual partner…they will choose the one with the highest social value.’ You sound like you’re thinking for the woman. In reality, NO MAN can ever know what a WOMAN is thinking. We are so different. You’ll only hurt yourself trying to think for them. A few weeks ago, one of my good friends told me how he slept with a girl and told her he was a construction worker. The girl was very good looking…
/r/seduction12/09/11 05:57 PM
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Whoa, hold on a minute: ‘They both pour themselves drinks from my table and walk away.’ I don’t care how good looking they are, these two strangers took YOUR bottle that YOU paid for, poured it into their cups, then walked away. You gotta have backbone dude, if it was two guys that walked up to your table, I’m sure it would’ve been a different story. I was in a bottle-service section of a club one time, for a birthday party. There was a very good looking girl there. She was a friend of a friend …
/r/seduction10/09/11 06:45 PM
1

That’s good news man, but if you already set rules about being friends with benefits, she shouldn’t expect anything more from you than a booty call. It seems like she’s opting out of her deal, assuming you two already had one.
/r/seduction10/09/11 05:44 PM
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It’s hard to tell from your description, but it seems like you’re getting in too deep about irrelevant topics; no matter how deep or personal they are. Who cares if this girl is telling you some story about what happened to her when she was young. You already have the answer to your own question: ‘I can’t seem to go to the next level…show them I’m interested, more than in just a friendly way’ ‘There’s a wall and I can’t seem to get through it to set up a date or actually flirt.’ What the hell ar…
/r/seduction09/09/11 09:44 PM
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Your situation happens to a lot of young people. You’re probably fantasizing a great future together despite the fact of a completely different reality. Don’t express your deepest love for her, because you’re not thinking straight. Chances are that you’re not in love with this girl. Your ego is only making you think that. The truth is – she is stalling you. She is preventing you from progression. You should take a chance. Get drunk with her one night and make your move. A physical move, not some…
/r/seduction09/09/11 06:35 PM
1

Why does HE need to know if SHE is interested in seeing him? Who cares what SHE has on her mind, he should focus on what HE wants. *“I wanna see you tonight.” * If it’s a no, move on. You can’t win them all, no matter what any of these professional ‘pick up artists’ say. Judging by the vague description of your phone interaction, this girl doesn’t seem interested. Like puaCurveBall said, you should post the convo in detail. The entertainment value of that would give a jump start to this thread
/r/seduction09/09/11 02:07 AM
2

Wow, wow, wow! I am amazed at how horrible the interviewer was. I didn’t see much attraction as in the original video, but that’s probably because Brand spent most of his time helping this moron not look like a jackass on camera. ‘You look like a very confident individual’ another reason to like RB. Sorry to take the thread off topic, but this was just painful to watch. This idiot is giggling in his chair like he has ants in his pants. ‘Now you would know this [how big Brand is] because you had …
/r/seduction08/09/11 11:59 PM
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I always thought Russell Brand was funny but tried too hard. Keep in mind I haven’t seen any of his stuff outside of his movies. After watching the video clip you posted, I’ve become a fan. I had my doubts about his whole ‘I get laid all the time’ bit, but after seeing his interaction with women, in real time, all of my doubts have been abolished. This guy is the real deal and this interview is very inspirational. I have to disagree with WolfInTheField. In my opinion, there is a lot to be learne…
/r/seduction08/09/11 07:40 PM
2

If you think you're Beta, anxious and creepy, how can you expect these girls to think better of you? Self-pity is the worst route. Try this: LAST DAY ON EARTH. Have that line in the back of your mind. Live life as it’s your last day on earth (don’t commit any sexual crimes). Don’t talk so much about irrelevant things. Always have a focus and get on the path to your goal. If you think you’re handsome with all the other negative traits you described yourself with, then you’re probably a Brad Pitt.…
/r/seduction08/09/11 05:38 PM
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I would’ve whispered to the nearest girl, ‘Whoa, your boyfriend is so hot. How’d you get a 10?’ Whenever I’m in a similar situation, whether it’s one girl or several, that line always works. They’ll reply with laughter and repulsion to the other guy. If he’s dumb enough to stay I just encourage the guy to take the girl, or I gently push the girl into the guy’s arms. At this point she turns around immediately and comes back to me, way more attracted. I’ll even add ‘you two look cute together’ to …
/r/seduction08/09/11 08:48 AM
1

When it comes to relationships, almost everything is salvageable. The question becomes: ‘is this worth repairing’. If I was in your shoes I would drop this girl, forget about her. If she contacts you with plans of hanging out, respond with ‘I got a better idea, let’s cuddle at my place/your place, instead’. Pull the same cuddle bs she pulled on you, except when you have her in a bed, go strong and get what you want. While you start turning her on, if she gives you some crap about ‘I thought we w…
/r/seduction08/09/11 08:07 AM
1

I like the idea but I’d rephrase into: “You have the nicest ass I’ve ever seen.” Since he said it wasn’t just any ass…it was ‘the world’s nicest.’ I’d like to know why you don’t suggest it.
/r/seduction08/09/11 12:08 AM
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You’re right about one thing, what you described makes her seem very young. I don’t understand how you’re not fucking a woman in her late 20’s when you’re already in bed with her. Generally, I find the older they are, the easier they are. Let me rephrase that to any women reading: not easier, but less games. When you were cuddling, did you engage anything or did you just lie there? Don’t take this the wrong way, but you seem to be wasting a lot of time thinking about a billion little inadequate …
/r/seduction07/09/11 11:39 PM
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