Confidence VS Arrogance (I know it's for entrepreneurs but I thought it fitted right into our debate)

flyingtrashcan · 2013-08-30T03:13:03+00:00

I love this, because it shows how fine the line can be between confidence and arrogance. I know that a lot of people (myself included) would get the two confused when first delving into seduction.

Jatacid · 2013-08-30T05:33:05+00:00

I'm arrogant. Fuck...

blindwombat · 2013-08-30T07:44:25+00:00

This theory is almost as good as 10 Things Every Man Should Do At Twenty.

OK so let's say that confidence trumps arrogance every single time.

What now? Do I stop doing all the things on the right hand side and only focus on the left? Where is the actual resultant data and proven practice of this theory? What do you define as arrogance and confidence?

This is piss poor advice and the main reason so many newbies stagnate in their first year. Rather than telling people: "you are behaving wrong and your behaviour needs to change", why not offer this: "you need more experience, go and experience more and learn from those experiences".

Fuck theory. Approach more.

sfarrelljr · 2013-08-30T02:02:04+00:00

Lol I sub to /r/entrepreneur and thought this post was from there. The two things (entrepreneurship and seduction) go hand in hand very very well. I recommend you guys sub.

TecTwo · 2013-08-30T02:06:36+00:00

The last one is the most important lesson that I need to learn, I think. But taking yourself too seriously so that others think well of you isn't always arrogance, it's preventing yourself from having a good time.

SecretAgentZeroNine · 2013-08-30T13:19:37+00:00

More like confidence vs insecure. Arrogant people tend to be genuinely confident.

A little bit of arrogance and a good amount of confidence is ideal I say.

ass_fungus · 2013-08-30T05:27:28+00:00

I agree with foxyfantastic, this is bullshit at worst, nebulous at best. This stuff isn't black and white - I feel like I'm an arrogant douche rather than a truly confident person (still working on myself), and yet the "confident" column describes my actions better. Go figure.

We don't need any more mental masturbation on this board. This doesn't give any useful instruction and exists only so people can read it saying "hmm yes, quite right, quite right" while stroking their greasy chins.

Diavolo_1988 · 2013-08-30T14:31:40+00:00

Wow, didn't know I was that confident :)

1upforever · 2013-08-30T15:12:45+00:00

Well, 2 out of 4 isn't bad, right?

ghostthemost · 2013-09-01T23:57:39+00:00

Thank you for posting this. I tried this mindset for the first time today and I FEEL GREAT!

playfulpenis · 2013-08-30T03:45:06+00:00

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Methaxetamine · 2013-08-30T04:44:45+00:00

Does finding girls through your friends really make you arrogant?

ben0wn4g3 · 2013-08-30T08:47:39+00:00

Every personality trait can be seen two ways depending on if the person judging you is perceiving you positively or negatively for, usually, their own selfish and often Machiavellian reasons...

Title	Confidence VS Arrogance (I know it's for entrepreneurs but I thought it fitted right into our debate)
Author	Yedaz
Upvotes	401
Comments	25
Date	August 29, 2013 9:17 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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