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playfulpenis/r/seduction14/02/12 05:51 AM
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1

Trump isn't a leftist. He's a American Nationalist. Anything that enriches or empowers America he will champion and execute. He's been this way his whole life just watch his old interviews. He's always been about taking oil and making America filthy rich and powerful. He's Andrew Jackson and Teddy Roosevelt. incarnate. This election is about nationalism versus globalism. The old dichotomy of liberal and conservative is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 10:19 AM
1

Trump isn't a leftist. He's a American Nationalist. Anything that enriches or empowers America he will champion and execute. He's been this way his whole life just watch his old interviews. He's always been about taking oil and making America filthy rich and powerful. He's Andrew Jackson and Teddy Roosevelt. incarnate. This election is about nationalism versus globalism. The old dichotomy of liberal and conservative is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 10:17 AM
5

This. Take it in stride that, where at least she liked you enough to share her lips with you and get a little intimate if for only one night.
/r/seduction15/11/15 10:28 PM
0

Why do you think he wouldn't be a good president? I imagine he would optimize things. He doesn't like incompetence and dummies with power.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 07:32 AM
11

American needs some nationalism again.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:02 PM
45

And the people in government right now are qualified? We have an unaccountable kleptocracy in power right now.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:01 PM
1

Now the media is attacking him for his comment on megyn kelly: "blood coming out of her eyes or.. wherever", saying that the latter word meant he implied she was on the rag. He just said.. wherever. Plus, who gives a shit!??! Tired of these pussies in the media. You can see what he says here: https://twitter.com/realdonaldtrump
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 07:11 PM
1

I don't know what Trump truly thinks of those things, but I don't think he would go gun-grabbing. He'll just leave that to states. His focus would be foreign policy, immigration and trade/economy.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 09:36 AM
2

Trump loves the country. Some people are patriots, you know? Some.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 09:13 AM
5

I agree. GOP needs to back Trump fully or lose to Hillary-bot and the left will take over the country forever. Trump's handling of his leverage (3rd party run threat) in this shows he's a capable operator, and he's just beginning his political career.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 09:11 AM
1

I disagree. Women want a confident/strong man, be him good or bad. There are strong good men that women are attracted to. Overall they just don't like a weak, craven pussy.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:20 PM
2

My father is a pillar of strength, support and a role model for my family. He'd do anything for his family and he's my best friend.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 09:38 PM
1

"And look who came craaawling back.."
/r/seduction02/02/15 02:51 AM
2

Just be cool.
/r/seduction10/11/14 05:54 AM
1

I feel ya, brother. The cold approach gets me because the women tend to be awkward and cold themselves, so that in turn trips me up.
/r/seduction23/03/14 05:26 PM
1

I wish I had a group of friends like this..
/r/seduction15/02/14 03:35 AM
-8

I don't know, man.. If a girl is grabbing your ass you might as well be direct and let it all out. Who has time to play little games?
/r/seduction26/11/13 09:40 PM
1

I'm suffering from the same problem. Good looking and charming, incredibly middle and late game. BUT I CAN'T OPEN! Part of the problem is that the women I see on the street or in the office look away or look so shy and nervous. It totally shakes me up.
/r/seduction25/10/13 08:58 PM
5

Arrogant people try too hard while failing to deliver. Arrogant people are often make stupid decisions because they don't learn and adapt. They aren't very resourceful. Seriously, where is the flexibility and cunning in being arrogant? Like Bashar Al-Assad, Saddam Hussein, Tony Montana or any run of the mill dictator who has no grand strategy, no true friends and ends up dead. Arrogant people are try-hards because they must try hard.
/r/seduction30/08/13 06:05 AM
8

I think it depends. You can make self-deprecating jokes if you're already alpha and good-looking. It takes the edge off a bit. Jon Hamm, of Mad Men fame, does this. He's a really goofy guy actually.
/r/seduction12/08/13 01:07 AM
2

Watch some Belmondo for natural, oozing sexuality: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycg2yb3qiUo
/r/seduction26/07/13 06:21 AM
1

Not so much lame, but restless. I have a lot of forward momentum and it's hard to slow down. I'm just really enthusiastic and have a masculine energy. This doesn't mean I always need to be around people, but when I am, I'm "on."
/r/seduction02/07/13 01:18 AM
1

As a middle eastern-American guy, I feel you on feeling too outgoing and assertive. It's just my energy levels though.
/r/seduction01/07/13 11:23 PM
1

I see that online and bar/restaurant are coincidentally on the rise in recent years.
/r/seduction01/07/13 02:00 PM
5

Why not? You have to convey some romantic interest. And women love to feel good about themselves.
/r/seduction16/06/13 12:01 AM
1

What's an example of standard, non-deadpan humor?
/r/seduction28/05/13 03:08 AM
1

I don't know why you're being downvoted. Nofap seems like common sense.
/r/seduction22/05/13 09:23 PM
8

I have the exact same problem. I'm still trying to figure it out. I'd say I'm universally attractive--people remark on it all the time and I get mild attraction from everyone. But sometimes when you're gaming, you can't tell if it's your looks (which doesn't make sense), or if it's the hard-edged attitude, almost elite attitude we give off. I'm a fun, friendly guy, and I like people. But I think we can look statuesque--like we're cut from stone. Especially if you're tall. I'm 6'1. I think the tr…
/r/seduction09/05/13 07:00 AM
4

You're all so badass.
/r/seduction02/05/13 09:42 PM
19

Start fucking dudes.
/r/seduction07/03/13 09:44 PM
5

If she's sending pictures to you, that means she's being a total sweetheart and should be rewarded. Enjoy her and her pictures and then do/say something nice for/to her.
/r/seduction04/02/13 01:30 AM
1

You can still be a gentleman and not be a pushover. How are we defining gentleman anyway? I define it as someone with some social polish and charm, while still being a man. No quality woman wants a pure brute. Think Sean Connery's Bond.
/r/seduction29/01/13 12:05 AM
1

I think it depends on where the girls feel they are lacking. Some women want to feel beautiful and desired, so a genuine and original physical compliment works well--something that really shines a new light on their bodies. Others want to feel competent and insightful, so compliments based on their personality are more relevant. It all depends on the girl. There's an art to a compliment, physical or personalty-based.
/r/seduction21/01/13 02:02 AM
1

It really depends on the girl. Find out what her insecurities are and then provide a salve for it. She'll be dependent and addicted to you because you fill her psychological void, whatever it is. Some girls feel ugly, some girls feel stupid. Make them feel good about these respective voids and they'll love you.
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:58 AM
2

You're correct. We only need to tease/neg women that are really arrogant and cold towards you, so they need to qualify themselves for you (but never take it too far--just enough). What's the point of doing this to an HB6 who might be a little intimidated by your bold approach? You have to create comfort and familiarity, because you're still a stranger at this point. Nothing worse than a negative stranger who makes you feel bad.
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:51 AM
6

Most of these are just douchey without context.. Remember, you don't want to seem mean and arrogant. Maybe these will work if you've got a nice grin on your face and generally signaling warm body language.
/r/seduction19/01/13 08:50 AM
2

If she really liked said bf she wouldn't kiss OP. Why stay in a relationship where there's suboptimal passion?
/r/seduction16/01/13 01:36 AM
1

I didn't say that fiction is real life captured. But fiction captures the distilled truth to life. They're intertwined.
/r/seduction07/01/13 11:58 PM
2

I see what you're saying, but it sounds like fiction is still life, just distilled. That's still life captured in its essence. Even better.
/r/seduction07/01/13 10:46 PM
1

You're missing the point of fiction. Fiction is supposed to show insight into reality. Otherwise fiction would be set in a different dimension, like something out of Dr. Seuss.
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:22 PM
1

You're wrong and illogical here. Hence your downvotes and my upvotes.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:47 PM
16

If she's being sweet to you, be sweet to her back. We only neg/tease women that are acting bitchy/arrogant and difficult. Just tell her you miss her too, and throw in a happy face. Or hint at something amazing you'll do together in the near future to show you miss her. She's the one who initiated the comment anyway. When we reward people for good behavior they will repeat it.
/r/seduction30/12/12 08:17 AM
-45

How does this even happen? Only in America is there such a stigma against talking to strangers on the street.
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:23 PM
9

You need to be more observant of the world and just comment on things. Amuse yourself. And talk to people about things. Get their opinion. Be curious.
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:24 AM
1

Green tea, flax seed and avoid oily, fatty foods. Also avoid sugar, as sugar feeds bacteria, which is what causes acne.
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:33 AM
4

I don't know why the guy couldn't just humor her and just talk for a bit and mess around? What was his deal.. jeez.
/r/seduction12/12/12 11:03 PM
1

I'm with you on the approach anxiety. My mid-late game is tight, because I'm a confident and fun-loving conversationalist. Playful too. But when I'm walking around, girls in North America can be so icy that it makes it awkward for everyone. I have to get in state regardless and let the free-association fly. Talking about everything, situational openers, observational humor, etc.
/r/seduction03/12/12 06:37 PM
3

I know what you mean by that disgusted look. But I really think it's them being shy and awkward. It's our job to make things comfortable on the cold approach.
/r/seduction03/12/12 06:19 PM
0

That's more for me then. Go eunuch.
/r/seduction29/11/12 06:05 PM
1

Picking up receptionists is hard when I'm canvassing as a salesperson. It's hard to break from sales mode to flirt mode, and the male co-workers are usually around. What makes it worse is that the women tend to be gorgeous and friendly.
/r/seduction29/11/12 04:14 PM
2

You're a true friend.
/r/seduction28/11/12 07:34 AM
1

I'm in a the same boat. I have trouble with eye-contact not because I'm intimidated or any crap like that, but because when I stare at someone's eye I lose my train of thought and focus on the color and shape of their eyes. I'm also very analytical and cerebral, so my mind wanders around when I'm searching for the right concept to hone in on..
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:11 PM
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I love it when I get downvoted but am offered no rebuttal to know why I'm wrong..
/r/seduction26/11/12 07:07 PM
2

Not always. Some women are really bad at planning and go with whatever is going on at the moment. You just have to be there so snatch them up.
/r/seduction25/11/12 04:28 PM
-1

If you get friendzoned, there's a way to make things romantic and sexual again. Act like a friend on the surface at first, but give off a sexual non-verbal vibe. Basically just apply game, but subtly at first. Gradually you'll be seen as a partner instead of a friend.
/r/seduction24/11/12 09:22 PM
2

Good call on Cali and Mad Men. Also Pierrot Le Fou, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycg2yb3qiUo at :55 seconds in.
/r/seduction23/11/12 11:43 PM
1

You are me.. What is your Myers-Brigg personality type. I'm ENTP.
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:22 PM
2

This is my method. I go indirect with a situational opener and then I go direct. For example, if I'm in an elevator with a pretty girl: Me: Let's jump up at the same time. I promise it's safe! Her: Hahaha nooo! Me: You're no fun at all. grin What's your name? You're really cute, name, let's get coffee sometime. bring out your phone, all while flashing a sly smile So basically start off with an indirect, situation opener, and then convey your romantic interest to her in no uncertain terms. Go fro…
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:19 PM
6

Not really. I just like beautiful women. They look good and I want them.
/r/seduction23/11/12 06:17 PM
2

Also a quick-wit shows you have a active, capable mind.
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:23 AM
1

I have the exact same problem. Could it be our bad breath?
/r/seduction22/11/12 08:50 AM
1

Then you have to lead the conversation toward more exciting waters. Learn from late night talk show hosts.
/r/seduction22/11/12 08:38 AM
1

How do you go after a girl if you aren't into them? It's a given that you like the girl if you're talking to her with romantic/sexual intent.
/r/seduction21/11/12 03:41 AM
2

Pulling = Owning the sweet things you tell her and do for her, making her feel appreciated and special. Pushing = Giving her a hard time. Teasing her. Making her have to work for her place in your eyes. Basically, I pull when the girl is being a total sweetheart to me, and I push when she's being a pain.
/r/seduction20/11/12 04:37 PM
1

Lol I can relate to going from insecure to cocky and self-assured (as a Persian-American) and then feeling like a sleazy swarthy salesman to these white girls. But fuck it--who cares. The tenets of game still apply.
/r/seduction19/11/12 08:41 AM
1

Good points, but also remember to show some romantic interest to underscore the interaction as ultimately sexual. "You seem cool, and cute to boot. Let's get some coffee sometime. ;)"
/r/seduction19/11/12 08:35 AM
1

What do white girls think of middle eastern guys? Persian to be specific.
/r/seduction19/11/12 12:03 AM
3

To put it simply, you're using the logical side of your brain to interact with girls. This is good for debates, analysis and business talk, but not with women. You want to be more free-associative, whimsical and creative with women. Basically, be funny. In humor, there is a logical structure, but the impact is emotional.
/r/seduction18/11/12 07:37 PM
1

Pulling the trigger and getting the number during day game. I have no problem opening, as I'm pretty smooth, fun, and funny, but I then eject too quickly for fear that I'll ruin the awesome rhythm. Ugh.
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:49 PM
2

Talk to her on the phone. Make her laugh and enjoy your company.
/r/seduction16/11/12 04:26 AM
2

Seems like you're shaken AND stirred.
/r/seduction13/11/12 08:48 PM
2

I know the feeling. That's why we have to adapt to the crowd. Play to your market. I've had to suppress my strangely intuitive mind my whole life that I've perfected a bit of a chameleon act to get survive and thrive.
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:39 AM
2

I'm like you. I like to have harmless fun at all times. But I think you're being insecure. How do you know people feel negatively about what you're doing? If you're making them laugh you're making them happy. People want to feel happy. It's a welcome break from what they perceive to be a stressful life.
/r/seduction12/11/12 09:59 PM
2

How does sugar cause bad breath? Just curious.
/r/seduction09/11/12 05:49 AM
1

I think this is an issue with modern girls in America, in general. They are picky and go through men like dresses. They figure why settle for this one when there's so many more to try out.
/r/seduction08/11/12 06:31 PM
6

Story of my life, my friend. I usually get a lot of girls sprung on me and we have a BLAST in the beginning--I mean things are steamy!--and then they lose interest, I get little depressed, and then I start all over again with new girls. Rinse and repeat. Something I'm working on. I want to keep a harem of girls, not have to keep cycling through them.
/r/seduction08/11/12 06:25 PM
1

I'm the same as you. Total natural in person but logistics on the back end can mess me up. It's a work in progress.
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:08 PM
5

Wait a few days for her image of him could simmer? More like dissipate. She will have forgotten about him in that time. Women are bombarded by life so you have to make a presence fast.
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:08 PM
3

Is it really necessary to play games? What happened to being passionate and just doing what's natural. Of course don't overdo it, but you have to ping the girl so she doesn't get distracted by life. This girl probably really wasn't interested. But I personally would have waited till night to send just a text. No fb add.
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:35 AM
2

Are you acting like yourself in an alpha, attractive way, or in a strange way? I'd say I'm a pretty outgoing, cocky-funny nerd. I'm an ENTP (myers-brigg personality type).
/r/seduction07/11/12 05:52 PM
3

Cockiness = Tooting your own horn in a playful way. Arrogance = Tooting your own horn AND tearing down others. Cockiness is really self-contained, whereas arrogance affects others.
/r/seduction06/11/12 04:24 PM
1

If his behavior isn't thuggish, then what is?
/r/seduction03/11/12 07:49 AM
2

Consoling myself? I don't think you know what that word means. And you didn't refute anything I said.
/r/seduction03/11/12 02:51 AM
1

The guy sounds like a thug. Sure, that's Alpha. But there's also non-thuggish Alpha, like Bill Clinton. This thug doesn't have much strategic sway in life. He has no expansive power.
/r/seduction02/11/12 10:35 PM
-6

I think his examples show him just whipping them into order and reminding them of what's going on. Women can be so ditsy and forgetful sometimes.
/r/seduction01/11/12 05:46 AM
1

This usually happens when the girl is extremely boring and has nothing to say.
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:59 PM
4

Thanks for this. There is a clear difference between cocky and arrogant. Cocky is more playful and fun. Doesn't take itself too seriously. So there's a nugget of modesty in there. Arrogance is deadly serious, and is the stuff of true evil and subjugation of man.
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:47 PM
18

Just roll with the punches--agree and amplify. Say "yeahh.. but I asked it better. ;)"
/r/seduction19/10/12 06:35 PM
2

Keep your social engineering to yourself, reddit or other like-minded folk. Why would you bring that out on a date? Girls generally don't care about these things; they just want to have fun (rightly so).
/r/seduction17/10/12 09:20 PM
2

I do this. My smile is naturally really neutral and it doesn't move much. Actually my mouth is just really small. So I take to squinting warmly to people to compensate.
/r/seduction11/10/12 09:44 PM
10

I usually say I'm a one-woman womanizer and they love it.
/r/seduction11/10/12 09:42 PM
2

I experience the same thing, but with work. We get locked into this really serious, linearly logical mode and it's hard to snap out of it. It's not a fun, free-associative state and it can be a vicious cycle, because it makes you rusty when you want to go actually be fun around women that happen to come across you. I need to find a way to always be in state, to always be having fun. Because once we have the ball rolling, we can be awesome, dynamic people. I know this because it's my natural stat…
/r/seduction01/10/12 09:43 PM
3

This is the best advice on here. Assertive and diplomatic--effective.
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:40 PM
7

"Psst.. I have to tell you a secret. I'm wearing pink underwear." I've done this to two girls and they've both said "Oo me too!" in response. It helps if you have any pink Hanes underwear for shits and giggles.
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:55 PM
1

Enthusiasm can be alpha. I'm always enthusiastic with girls--it's kind of implied.
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:26 PM
2

I don't need it to feel good about myself, I just want them all--like pokemon. I actually am attracted to women because I like them, not really for myself. Kind of how I like ice cream. Women taste good and I want them all the time. I have a ridiculous sex-drive though.
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:35 PM
7

Not necessarily, sometimes we just like the girl and want her to be all ours. It's entitlement and wanting people you like yourself to worship you and only you.
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:18 PM
8

I don't agree with this. In this day and age, women have ADD and information overload. You gotta ping them a little. It doesn't convey neediness--it's just keeping them in line. How is "See you tonight" needy? Sounds pretty alpha.
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:10 PM
11

Tv: Craig Ferguson
/r/seduction22/09/12 09:51 PM
1

Charismatic = friendly + dominant = captivating. Take a look at Bill Clinton videos.
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:43 PM
5

It's the same with Persian, Greek, Italian, etc. culture. Something to do with patriarchy and machismo.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:28 PM
3

Just talk to guys.
/r/seduction17/09/12 07:23 AM
1

You sound angry. Calm down, dude.
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:18 PM
2

This is good advice for a pretty difficult situation.
/r/seduction15/09/12 06:34 PM
1

This may be true, but it doesn't mean there isn't attraction there. The two aren't mutually exclusive. If George Clooney walked in, would female salespeople automatically turn off their biological imperative to be attracted to alpha men just so they could be professional? No.
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:58 PM
0

It's just a playful gesture. You seem uptight.
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:53 PM
3

This is an approach anxiety problem, which I also suffer from. Great mid-late game and conversationalist, terrible opener. Sometime I just lock up, so I look to David Wygant's stuff to help me with this. The premise of what he teaches is that you basically have to get goofy and wild at all times. Be in the present at all times. Don't think, just react to the world. Treat life as a constant improv session, not just in mid-late game. Fellow AA sufferers, we have to tackle this. There are just too …
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:21 AM
1

Shave your head, perhaps.
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:28 PM
2

Make your sexual intent clear to her. Tell her, in some way, that you find her sexy and you want to just grab her.
/r/seduction10/09/12 03:27 PM
1

Be passionate about life; calm, and comfortable with yourself, and appropriate, natural body language will manifest. It's really an inner game thing. Basically, just watch clips of Bill Clinton
/r/seduction10/09/12 06:55 AM
10

I don't agree with #7. I come from a warm, middle-eastern culture and we talk with our hands and rest of our bodies, and we're mostly naturally alpha.
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:53 PM
4

But that's supposed to be fun.
/r/seduction06/09/12 07:44 AM
1

I want to like this FR, but please use paragraphs.
/r/seduction01/09/12 06:27 PM
1

I know the feeling. I kick myself afterwords and feel a sense of loss. Like you're losing your youth, or time or something. Missed opportunities sting man.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:10 AM
2

You missed your in-person opportunity, but just hit her up on Facebook. It's worth a shot. You might even get a date. Just ask a genuine, open ended question or make up some BS. Men are hunters, that's all. So yeah, we go through lengths to get the girl, but you have nothing to lose but your pride. If she doesn't respond positively she'll just get distracted by something else.
/r/seduction24/08/12 12:06 AM
3

I also work with mostly older people. They're mostly decent people and all, but there are just some things where we don't connect. Totally different generations--different experiences and perspectives, really. You can meet in the middle but it's not as fun as it could be with your peers.
/r/seduction20/08/12 07:52 AM
1

Joke around more? Smile? Make fun of yourself and goofy? These combined with a natural swagger will make you charismatic, which is the stuff of politicians and shakers. Charisma = friendly + dominant. Basically look at how good salespeople act. Shit, look at how Bill Clinton acts :)
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:50 AM
0

Go out with new friends? They obviously give a negative energy and this can ruin your game. Go out with people that make you feel great and open, not people that make you feel spiteful. All of this creates a negative energy and game is about optimism and the fun adventure around the corner. At least, that's the attitude you need to attract women, not keep up with trashy and irrational people.
/r/seduction18/08/12 09:28 AM
1

Logic! It works.
/r/seduction18/08/12 08:50 AM
3

The David Wygant is strong in this one.
/r/seduction16/08/12 04:35 AM
1

I agree with this. It's called charisma. Friendly + dominant. You control the situation with assertive charm--like a politician.
/r/seduction11/08/12 04:06 AM
3

I have absolutely no problem with slinking out of situations where a thug will use violence to beat my ass to death. Why is everyone talking about fighting here? You can always confuse the hell out of meatheads if you're clever enough. Brainy, bullshitty, silver-tongued sedditors, feel free to use deception, trickery and manipulative language to diffuse the situation. Or just be charismatic and maintain your dominance yet be friendly and rational. My approach to dealing with meatheads is to act …
/r/seduction11/08/12 04:00 AM
1

I've always wanted try this. Asking for the time and then going honest and direct about the approach. Do you have any relevant stories to tell?
/r/seduction10/08/12 12:05 AM
1

Then you and I could never be..
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:56 AM
2

Seriously. Women are terrible at giving advice on how to pick them up. Women are acted upon--that's it.
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:55 AM
2

I said this before somewhere on this subreddit, but women like a clever bastard, not an egghead. Both are intelligent, but in different ways. Women like the former because it usually translates into action and getting "results," which is attractive.
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:52 AM
10

I feel ya on the sausage fests. It seems that most places are packed with dudes looking for elusive women that actually just stay at home where it's safe.
/r/seduction25/07/12 06:26 AM
1

I have issue with #1. It's important, but it's more important to make your prospect feel better about herself--more interesting, smarter, better. Let her talk about herself and bounce off of what she's saying in an entertaining manner. Get her talking and it'll much easier for you to talk to her.
/r/seduction21/07/12 06:36 PM
8

Good examples. Notice how genuine enthusiasm is important in attraction. Be passionate and actually WANT things! Good things will follow--namely a lovely female.
/r/seduction04/07/12 10:38 PM
1

2 Seconds? 5-10 seconds is fine. It really depends on hte circumstance. Is she walking towards you from far away? If so then yeah, why not check her out and smile as she's walking?
/r/seduction04/07/12 10:35 PM
2

That's not my point.
/r/seduction03/07/12 03:14 PM
-2

It's okay to be Obama if you're not president, of course.
/r/seduction03/07/12 05:06 AM
13

Classic Alpha Male : Muammar Gaddafi Alpha Male 2.0 : Barack Obama Don't be Gaddafi.
/r/seduction03/07/12 04:21 AM
4

Maybe here in America. It's not really that way in Latin-American countries or with Mediterranean women, where the women live to serve men.
/r/seduction29/06/12 06:26 AM
1

On average, older women have their shit together. They're also more experienced and more aware of the realities of dating. Which means they don't have some BS ideal in their heads.
/r/seduction23/06/12 06:44 PM
1

What I say to girls: "yeah.. you're kinda sexy ;)" "Sexy" is a strong word, so throw in "kinda" to balance it out and qualify them, all while injecting the word "sex" into the conversation. From my experience, they love it. You can replace "sexy" and "pretty" for a similar effect.
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:01 AM
1

I take it the guy wasn't funny in his enthusiasm?
/r/seduction22/06/12 10:35 AM
2

Good. But I would add more smiley faces and winks to go with your cocky game. It'll make things feel less like you're in a police precinct. It couldn't hurt, right?
/r/seduction22/06/12 10:24 AM
1

Give a pretty lady a firm palm-up hand shake and slightly pull her in close as you move in close. Just confidently and pleasantly tell her it's a pleasure to meet her. Women will appreciate the instant comfort. You don't have to jump to cock-funny right away. Get acquainted first.
/r/seduction18/06/12 08:16 PM
1

If worse comes to worse, just go down on her for an hour straight. You can operate a tongue, right?
/r/seduction02/06/12 07:32 PM
185

Do they really have to know? It shouldn't even come up.
/r/seduction02/06/12 06:23 AM
5

I don't mean for this to be a glib reply, but watch Don Draper in Mad Men and learn.
/r/seduction27/05/12 09:50 AM
2

Congrats, but why is being nice considered a hindrance? If you're nice (I like the word friendly, better) and assertive, then you're good to go. Friendly + Assertive > Mean + Assertive (or Aggression, as this goes more hand in hand with mean)
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:00 PM
1

One can always bounce. There's no shame in being a sly coward. Why does everyone think that direct confrontation is the only way? There's always deception. Then again I'm a pragmatist. I have no shame when it comes to punking out. Create a distraction, make up confusing bullshit, outright lie, pretend someone is calling you from far away and go to them. Whatever works. If you have a brain then use it.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:12 PM
2

One can always bounce. There's no shame in being a clever coward. Then again I'm a ruthless pragmatist. I have no shame when it comes to punking out. Whatever works.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:10 PM
3

If someone gives you shit when you're being genuinely nice to him, then get the whole group to sympathize with you and shun the guy for animal-like behavior. Charisma goes a long way. Rule with love, not fear.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:08 PM
1

I usually go for overall attractiveness. I'd say it's the synergy created between physical looks and the way she caries herself.
/r/seduction20/05/12 07:30 AM
39

Exactly. When it comes to mental acumen, women don't want a computer. They want a clever bastard.
/r/seduction15/05/12 10:50 PM
9

ACT score doesn't necessarily determine intelligence. It measures studiousness and diligence, though. I know plenty of clever and deep people that aren't the best test takers.
/r/seduction15/05/12 10:48 PM
1

Define "intelligence," please.
/r/seduction15/05/12 10:46 PM
2

I like this. Just agree and amplify. "How could I not flirt with her?! She's into (dorky/obscure interest)!"
/r/seduction13/05/12 02:02 AM
23

Just don't do it to Marcellus Wallace's wife.
/r/seduction05/05/12 11:46 PM
3

You're so tough.
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:26 PM
1

Well, then I meant body fat. I generally like girls with tallish and long frames with a nice amount of squishy body fat.
/r/seduction07/03/12 11:33 PM
1

Here is my rebuttal to your comment, good sir: http://www.imgnook.com/IyTx2o.gif
/r/seduction07/03/12 11:19 PM
-2

I'm attracted to women that have typical stark feminine traits: Curviness, body fat (in the right areas) and big lashes and a delicate frame. And I like them to be moderately tall (more like willowy), but shorter than me (6'1) for practical reasons.
/r/seduction07/03/12 03:09 AM
2

What about saying "Hey. How's it going?"
/r/seduction24/02/12 06:46 PM
2

You don't sound very clever.
/r/seduction17/02/12 09:32 AM
3

Yeah. OP sounds like either a troll or a sociopathic douche..
/r/seduction17/02/12 09:30 AM
5

I love meating women.
/r/seduction17/02/12 09:22 AM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bt_-mgKkFZY
/r/seduction14/02/12 06:07 AM
2

You might be depressed or bored/boring. No offense. For me, I love the chase and I love women, from which I derive mental and emotional stimulation.
/r/seduction08/02/12 03:39 AM
1

Just be curious and ask open-ended question. Also watch Craig Ferguson interviews. He's a great conversationalist.
/r/seduction01/02/12 01:55 AM
1

John Cho is a good looking guy.. Be happy you don't look like any of the Kim Jongs.
/r/seduction29/01/12 07:54 PM
1

To add to your components, I think Target for a joke is necessary. But you can tack that into Content.
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:03 PM
1

We got a badass over here.
/r/seduction22/01/12 03:04 AM
1

Only if you don't find them sexually attractive.
/r/seduction20/01/12 10:17 PM
2

Why?
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:06 AM
0

Being a dick means being hostile. So now we have to be hostile to get laid?
/r/seduction14/01/12 08:44 AM
2

Be chaotic neutral. That's not dickish or niceguy-ish.
/r/seduction14/01/12 08:41 AM
2

You're so incredibly tough.
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:54 PM
1

You are the voice of reason.
/r/seduction25/12/11 08:32 PM
4

This is stupid and for women. I hate it when people are constantly in their phones. Id rather just engage women than do this.
/r/seduction24/12/11 06:54 AM
1

That's why, as someone said above, it's good to get into friendly arguments with random people. That's what New Yorkers do.
/r/seduction19/12/11 07:59 PM
2

This is why I think NYC has a good culture for conversation. It's like Southern European and Middle Eastern culture, where everyone is assertive, opinionated and talks everything out. I mean, I know it's a sitcom, but just look at the interactions in Seinfeld.
/r/seduction18/12/11 10:03 AM
1

Pierrot le fou
/r/seduction25/11/11 06:02 AM
1

You're so badass.
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:56 AM
2

Someone's tough!
/r/seduction29/10/11 06:37 PM
0

You cockblocked the guy..
/r/seduction29/10/11 06:35 PM
1

Quick--throw beer in the opposite direction and run!
/r/seduction27/10/11 06:49 AM
1

I see you've noticed my username..
/r/seduction27/10/11 02:44 AM
1

wow.. Now I'll try turning it up a notch. :)
/r/seduction27/10/11 02:17 AM
1

And they are totally self-conscious and aware of what's going on? I think if you're a confident guy and you look at a girl with a the right smirk they will be momentarily smitten.
/r/seduction26/10/11 05:55 PM
0

Do we really want to hear the perspective of a bitter female? Sounds like the guy could of been messing around and having fun with himself. This story sounds like an annoying cockblock. Plus if the girl didn't want it she could of gotten up and left. It's not that hard. Women have free will, right?
/r/seduction24/10/11 09:12 PM
0

Why so tough?
/r/seduction22/10/11 05:42 AM
1

His comment is irrelevant. Treat it as such.
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:00 PM
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