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your understanding of co-occurrence is grossly underdeveloped. Co-occurrence is not typically used in scientific literature. We use "coincidence" or "coincide" Furthermore, it doesn't change the fact that what I said was true - single parenthood and divorce are separate entities. You can't look at a study done on single parenthood and draw conclusions about divorce, and vice versa. It is really that simple. I don't know what happened to you to make you so bitter towards women or to feel that the…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/17 08:22 PM
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Single parenthood is often a result of divorce but they are two separate entities. In the top google results for "single parenthood," it made no mention of divorce or women initiating divorce. As I have mentioned multiple times, they DID mention men leaving their families as a top cause of single motherhood However, you choose to ignore the part about men leaving families and say "well women are the initiators of divorce." Unfortunately, we were talking about single parenthood and how it's hard …
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 10:04 PM
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while there is a serious problem when women run up their sexual partner count. What is your criteria for "serious problem?" Delayed motherhood? Increased divorce rates because male mates get jealous? Should that onus be on the woman? i never said that's acceptable. but when women are filing 70% of divorced, with 80% as no fault You're conflating again. The issue you told me to google was "single parenthood" which is entirely separate from divorce, so I don't know why you are now talking about di…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 08:14 PM
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I agree with you completely, those are really good points
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 06:39 PM
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facts and reality doesn't matter to you. Take a good introspective look at yourself. I'm sure you're not so oblivious that you don't realize you have standards for women that you don't hold for men. You seem to think that the nuclear family is absolutely key, but to you men should be able to casual date and have sex freely whereas women shouldn't. Why, in your logic, shouldn't men also have the prime directive of creating the nuclear family? Secondly, you place all the onus of creating a family,…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 06:37 PM
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Yah go ahead and keep ignoring most of my points while reiterating irrelevant arguments: so what if conception is harder at an older age? People make their life decisions knowing that they are taking a risk. What right do you have to tell them they are wrong for doing so? Secondly, I claimed that you were misogynist for other, very clear reasons. You are willfully ignoring this and acting as if I claimed you were misogynist for something else. We're done here home boy. If you hate women, that's …
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 10:09 AM
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this is still fantasyland No, it's not. I have colleagues who gave birth in their 40s. I even mentioned surrogate mothers, which you chose to ignore. except they're not choosing just their own fate. these sluts are screwing over their husbands and their children. You are picking and choosing and conflating scenarios all to serve your misogynistic narrative. What are we talking about here? Older women who defer motherhood to develop careers? Or are we talking about the single mothers being observ…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 01:48 AM
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you're buying the stupid ass equality myth. men and women are not equal. Homie you don't need to tell me that men and women are not equal. I'm a medical resident. I fully understand that sexual dimorphism exists not only in outward physical characteristics but also extends to brain morphology. I know that, within the evolutionary environment, men and women have evolved completely different social strategies for survival and that these have manifested themselves in our societal behavior. Nonethel…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 01:04 AM
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I find that the conclusions you provided are pretty intuitive, and yet I don't know why you harbor ill will against women having sex ("all this female sexual liberation bullshit"). Even if the end result is increased incidence of divorce, do you not agree that women should have the same degree of sexual freedom that men do? Like, studies about pornography influencing divorce rates exist as well https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/08/160822083354.htm, yet I personally think porn is actuall…
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/17 09:37 PM
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you're pretty young, dude. I'm older than you and I consider myself young. Don't sweat it. As far as your other comment goes about having mostly beta friends, that's fantastic. Even if they're beta, as long as they fulfill the role of social support they'll be a positive influence on your life. Honestly nothing wrong with having friends that aren't into the gym or hitting on chicks.
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:34 AM
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Ioi's are not often as blatant as you describe. Dating sites are pretty clutch IMO. It's a much different landscape than 5 years ago. Obviously tinder is good for hookups (you should be on top of your physical game and style tho). Coffee meets bagel is a nice in-between of serious/play. Your thing with males is very similar to me and common to a lot of guys on this sub in my opinion. I think you have to try to work through it - part of being successful socially is to have a good crew of guys. Yo…
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:11 AM
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I maintain that you're not. I just told you that I consider myself an attractive guy and I still fail at most approaches - that's just how the world works. I think if you take your mind off game a bit and try to enjoy life, you can gain some perspective which will really help you in the long run. Do you have money to travel?
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:08 AM
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HOMIE get it through to your head! You don't look disgusting to women! Why do you keep on trying to reinforce this narrative???
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:45 AM
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Also fuck that therapist, are you seeing any male therapists?
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:34 AM
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Women flirting and showing overt attraction isn't something that happens to most guys every day. Only a very VERY few times in my life have I experienced somebody saying "you're hot let's have sex," and no offense, I have my physical/style game down much better than you do. Have you thought about dating websites and apps?
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:33 AM
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Buddy I read your history some more. Honestly please see a therapist if you aren't already. I think this game thing has got you really fucked up. Hit me up if you need help on finding therapy.
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:23 AM
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Dude is this you on your alternate account from years back? http://i.imgur.com/z6gyGyx.jpg I believe I commented under the exact same scenario where you said "something's holding me back, blah blah blah." Anyway, here's what I think is going on based on the pics in your recent amiugly post. I think you have a slightly dad-bod thing going on (your tummy sticking out as much or more than your pecs). But you're trying to do this mysterious Criss Angel thing with a bunch of knick knacks and bracelet…
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:17 AM
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Hotel bars are rife with older ladies who aren't afraid to pursue what they want and are much, much more experienced. I wouldn't write them off.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:27 AM
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Can you post a picture of yourself in a social situation (face blocked out if you prefer)? would be nice to see a couple different postures. I strongly disagree with "looks don't matter" and I believe there's macro-calibration that a lot of newbs lack, part of which entails not dressing like a dork or giving off postural cues that you are unconconfident. Second, I don't think day game is as easy as youtube videos would have you believe, so don't use it as your only avenue to pick up chicks. I th…
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:26 AM
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a few things: Getting experience isn't about rotely doing something then magically getting better. You have to self-reflect and think hard about why you might be failing. Each time you fail a set, jot down what happened, why you think you failed, and ways you'll tweak your game in future sets. If your initial tweaks don't work, then tweak something else. Despite what PUA resources say about looks not mattering, I personally feel that it's very rare for somebody to look like a doofus and still pu…
/r/seduction09/10/16 05:16 AM
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for the most part I think pics with a bunch of girls is benign but women seeing your IG aren't dumb, they'll know that the pic is curated and staged to an extent. a couple of female friends I have lament how cheesy and cliche it is for guys to have a picture at an edm concert with a bunch of hot chicks you literally just met and will never speak to again.
/r/seduction23/09/16 04:43 AM
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Ideally you should've been sculpting your physique and your persona in your 20s. In your 30s, you should have a shit ton of things going for you that the average fresh college graduate doesn't have, which puts you ahead of the pack. If you're still behind, then keep grinding it out. Every two years I look back and note how much I've progressed. You won't regret putting in the time and effort.
/r/seduction22/09/16 03:18 AM
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Michael, a few questions: What do you do when the story payoff isn't that great? For example, Jim Carrey's story payoff wasn't even that good (he was recognized in public, which we would expect anyway), and it took all of his wacky persona to make it somewhat interesting to listen to - and even then it wasn't fantastic. What if you're not Jim Carrey? I'm sure you've had the experience of listening to a grandiose friend tell a boring story to a group but really ham it up with descriptions and viv…
/r/seduction26/07/16 09:20 AM
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Throwaway has a point, I mean you are RANTING about something you feel entitled to. Rather than getting butthurt and angry at girls, why don't you channel that energy into figuring out and changing what it is you're doing that's causing girls to reject you?
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:10 PM
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Did I say women were fragile little things? No, that's not what I said at all. Stop projecting your own thoughts. People in general tend to be a little shy and more than a little self conscious. Were they born this way, some were, not all. Most people were probably made fun of somewhere during childhood and became a little more guarded. Does this mean they are fwagile wittle babwies? of course not. It just means that if you want them to open up to you, you're gonna have to take a more careful ap…
/r/seduction22/07/16 07:36 AM
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Treat people with patience, for they have likely been wounded in the past Please tell me how this is "taking advantage and manipulating" people.
/r/seduction21/07/16 09:19 AM
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Can you move to the city? I've lived in numerous metropolitan areas and there's never a lack of ambitious, high-quality girls (both in looks and skills). You'll be humbled when you meet the woman who's not only a knockout, but clearly a standard deviation (or two) smarter than you.
/r/seduction20/05/16 07:21 PM
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You can pretty much figure right? Based on the context of what I am talking about (very shortly after I juxtapose that with metropolitan areas). Stop acting like a helpless baby. Nobody likes that, and that includes girls.
/r/seduction20/05/16 02:08 AM
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Things for you specifically: Try to be more self-reliant and resourceful. I checked your submission history and all you do is spam boards with easily answered questions. This is a net-negative on the group and girls in particular don't like feckless men like this. Stop playing LoL and hit the gym. People in general are drawn to others with cool life experiences. If your main hobby is LoL, I'm gonna go ahead and say that that will preclude you from having cool life experiences. Things for Asian g…
/r/seduction20/05/16 01:56 AM
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Fuck what other people say; hell yea you're ugly. You are wearing the shmuck costume and honestly, why would any girls be attracted with a shmuck? At most they'd settle for one, but they sure as hell wouldn't go looking to date one. Smile more. Make yourself stand out from other average looking Joes, and not (necessarily) by peacocking in the old school MM way. Work out and start wearing better clothes - you look like you're 30 but are still trying to figure out how to dress. Protip: if you have…
/r/seduction19/05/16 06:42 PM
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I thought this was a decent video which has a lot of key points that newbies tend to miss. It seems genuine and rooted in actual experience. Youtube automatically played your next video (on never running out of conversation) and I notice that you started parrotting a lot of common, nebulous stuff in the PUA sphere ("looks don't matter" "you are not getting girls because you are casting your net too wide. Try to attract only a few types of girls" etc). While these do hold some sort of truth, they…
/r/seduction17/05/16 05:23 PM
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Dude I've seen social circles where all the friend zoned dudes are sexually possessive and protective of the girls (telling them that any guys outside of the group are obviously creeps, just trying to use them for sex, etc.). It's not a good look. Do you think, say, Channing Tatum is on the defensive and says shit like that when other guys approach? You win some, you lose some. If an approaching guy was gonna win over the girl anyway, chances are you probably wouldn't have been able to do much t…
/r/seduction05/05/16 12:53 PM
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The Red Pill is full of literal cucks who think that the only alternative is to denigrate women.
/r/seduction27/04/16 10:44 PM
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The Red Pill is full of literal cucks who think that the only alternative is to denigrate women.
/r/seduction27/04/16 10:44 PM
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The entire piece is useless fluff and he knows it. Look at his history - the only reason he posts these long-winded (but substanceless) posts is so that every once in awhile, he can spam his blog while saying "look I've been contributing to this community this whole time."
/r/seduction26/04/16 11:29 PM
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There are no lessons to be learned here. Except that you made some asinine decisions in your youth, and through the experience of failure, your decisions today are not as blatantly idiotic. People love to give advice. Do this! Do that!...This can actually be limiting. Yeah bro...I'm guessing you don't see the irony here
/r/seduction26/04/16 08:04 PM
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extremely refreshing to have a long story posted here rather than a link to a shitty blog with an unrealistic ending ("now I am banging five supermodels a day and you can too if you subscribe to my email list") happy journeys bro
/r/seduction22/04/16 10:14 PM
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dude u ever go to class and a hot chicks hair is like really greasy and matted looking? that means she hasn't showered. then you smell her seat after the lecture and it's ripe with ass musk, you can be damn sure she hasn't showered.
/r/seduction13/04/16 05:32 PM
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this is some r/amiugly shit. you look good bro.
/r/seduction05/04/16 05:20 AM
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post the body here and I'll let you know
/r/seduction31/03/16 04:50 PM
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Craig I don't think women find blogspam very attractive
/r/seduction31/03/16 04:39 PM
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Public announcement: all the stuff on this dude's marketing-heavy website has been readily available and repeatedly mentioned on r/seddit and is also available in the sidebar to boot.
/r/seduction30/03/16 09:04 PM
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girls love Paladins so make sure your WoW main is up to speed Nathan's hot dogs get yourself a subscription to bangbros and then you won't need a real girl /s hit he gym, learn some marketable skills and try to be more self sufficient
/r/seduction18/03/16 04:21 PM
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Well, let's put it this way. I'm in a highly competitive academic/professional field in a metropolitan area, and like...there are a ton of people who are super good at networking, like you know for a fact they studied and read up on this shit. I liken this to PUA. These people, because they network and technically they follow all of the rules, get where they want to be on a technicality (like, they scratched my back, so as a matter of principle, I'll have to scratch theirs). But despite ascendin…
/r/seduction16/03/16 09:21 PM
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I'd like tips on building rapport with guys in order to build a squad. I do fine with women but to be honest I'm very lone wolf and eventually people think it's kind of weird. At heart I'm a nerd/gamer, but I got the gym/aesthetics down pat. So a lot of guys will wanna chill with me, thinking I'm a dudebro but when they find out I'm not into the usual stuff (shooting hoops, playing pong, watching football, etc) they slowly phase me out (Or maybe I give off some other unlikeable vibe). This goes …
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:32 AM
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Are you a senior in high school? You sound like you're doing pretty well, and I urge you to quit trying to learn PUA for the sake of PUA and instead foster other life skills that will improve your standard of living later down the line. If you're getting laid in high school, you will definitely crush pussy in college as well. I believe that the most viable strategy nowadays is inner game / brute forcing your way by actually becoming witty/aesthetic/successful/rich. Pickup, especially gimmicky st…
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:24 AM
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Mark your blogpost is way too verbose if your intent is to build a fan base. I read the entire thing and I actually feel like a sucker for having wasted ten minutes of my time. Will I feel inclined to bookmark your website? Hell no. Make it simple and succinct. I don't need to hear the minute details of your friend's conversation with you; just get to your point.
/r/seduction11/03/16 05:45 PM
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I agree with you for the most part but in the professional world, I feel that a large percentage of people follow sports simply as a networking tool. Most guys and girls who watch the finals together aren't huge followers of whatever sport they're watching.
/r/seduction21/01/16 10:27 PM
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I'm a gamer/nerd type but I look like a dudebro. Well dressed. At grad school, so there are plenty of peers but not exactly like undergrad. Anyway, nerds usually don't give me a chance because I look like a douche to them (plus no offense, many gamers/nerds are not the most solid guys to have in your crew). Dudebro guys will often give me a chance and invite me to hang out, and then discover that we really aren't alike at all (I don't like sports, etc). I've considered faking sports enthusiasm, …
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:21 PM
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okay can you share some knowledge with me? how to vibe well and befriend guys? not that I'm Casanova but girls are usually more receptive to hanging out with me than guys are. I really would just like to build a solid crew of guy friends I can hang out with and chill.
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:19 AM
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Don't worry about making a scent complement your own scent; I mean most of the time when you're going out, you just showered so it's not as if you have a nice musk going on. Not that musk is inherently nice - I have this disgusting musk smell (not BO) that quite honestly is pretty gross but my GF likes it; that being said I don't think there are any colognes tailored to complement this nasty ass body smell. Go to Sephora and ask for some advice. The ladies are really gracious in offering help, e…
/r/seduction19/12/15 10:43 AM
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2 of the most important things I've gotten from RSD: Have a go-to protocol to follow even when your body signals are telling you otherwise. For example, I'm usually motivated to go to the gym, etc. Some days, I'm feeling kind of lazy or down and will want to just watch TV. I'll follow the protocol "ignore and go to gym," knowing that I almost NEVER regret the decision after the fact. Have some blind faith in your process of self-improvement, I'd say on the time-scale of 2 months. Sometimes, it d…
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:47 PM
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Came here to say this. Don't get lazy and skip a day, OP. It's pretty fucking annoying and some people rightfully call it the scam of orthodontics. Your clear invisalign retainer shouldn't be too much of a hassle, but if it is you can ask your orthodontist to install a permanent wire retainer behind your teeth (it makes flossing a bitch though)
/r/seduction15/12/15 11:55 AM
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I just told you not to rely on books, Jesus. For pickup related stuff, forums and threads are the way to go. For professionalism/social acumen if you are a complete Aspergic case, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and "How to Talk to Anyone" are decent but again, all this information can be found online. How to Win Friends is summed up by "show interest in other people, don't be a douchebag, don't stress your own needs over others because why the fuck would they give a shit about your ne…
/r/seduction13/12/15 07:48 AM
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I urge you to please, please try self-reflection and actively adjusting/improving yourself rather than to simply read a list of books - many of which are written by snake oil salesmen cashing in on this mansformation movement. If these books were recommended by CEOs and people of high social caliber, then maybe I'd be a little more trusting. But I'm honestly a little skeptical when the average redditor says boooks like "The Power of Now" will change your life (hint: it's message can be summed up…
/r/seduction13/12/15 04:49 AM
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All of the women who I ever saw myself being with longterm were baller status in one way or another. While first and foremost you should definitely make sure your appearance is down pat, I'd say to hook dudes emotionally you'd better be more than a pretty face. Then again, don't ask for fishing advice from fish, blah blah etc
/r/seduction09/12/15 08:37 PM
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Ivan, your blog sucks and you don't need to spam it in every single comment you make.
/r/seduction30/11/15 11:21 PM
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To add to the commentary on TRP: I believe both PUA/seduction and TRP attempt to use evolutionary/sociology principles to guide our behaviors in a way that gets the end result we want. The difference is that TRP truly looks at the world in an entirely misogynist way. For example, evolutionarily, it makes complete sense that BOTH men and women are selfish, manipulative creatures. How come, then, TRP only regard women in that light? As lesser, behaviorally stereotypable animals that men must subju…
/r/seduction24/11/15 03:47 PM
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I'd rather live a Steve Jobs-tier life and have died treating my pancreatic cancer with homeopathy or acid tabs than live a long but average life.
/r/seduction15/11/15 11:45 AM
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I was a bio major. I liked Ridley's books, but exercise caution. He very declaratively (and often snidely) makes conclusions that are nice in theory but really haven't been or can't be proven. He writes like neckbeard with a superiority complex.
/r/seduction14/11/15 07:22 PM
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I know a guy with Bell's palsy who has a pretty cute girlfriend. He looks nerdy too, like without the drooping face he wouldn't all of a sudden be handsome. Cheers mate, I wish you the best
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:25 PM
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Hey I want to also back up what others say about sexual compatibility. Two virgins getting married are essentially going in completely blind. I know that premarital sex is sinning, but so is a host of other things you do and somehow you're able to get forgiveness for that. So logically it makes no sense to me that sex is still off the table. my two cents
/r/seduction06/11/15 10:14 AM
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Go for it, I can't really stop you
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:35 AM
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Dude, your presumptions are ridiculous. Your own post had great points but was essentially the other extreme, which I felt was completely imbalanced ("hey kid fuck these old graying virgins, yeah they might have a career but they are probably worked to death and hate their lives."). That's all, it's very simple and you really don't need to get that defensive.
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:18 AM
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You make some good points but I think you err unto the other end of the spectrum. Just because you make good money or are a well-educated professional doesn't mean you don't have time for having a life outside of work. Even doctors can choose a 9 to 5 or less demanding specialty if they so desire. Furthermore, I know plenty of dudes in silicon valley living it up with all the fat stacks of cash they are getting. I think you are getting defensive because you don't make much money and are rational…
/r/seduction02/11/15 09:28 AM
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For directly improving confidence? You can accomplish this however you want. However, for aesthetics, I personally find that lifting is ideal for accomplishing that sculpted, statuesque look. You may not need or want to focus on this, and that's fine. However, I see some people here arguing that long-distance runner's bodies are more attractive, and this is patently untrue. While people do often find the "ottermode" look very sexy, this is a completely different look than long-distance runner, w…
/r/seduction01/11/15 06:42 PM
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I think these are a pretty good place to start but personally I would avoid malefashionadvice and search for more niche forums online. In my opinion the mfa guys tend to dress too safe and homogeneous, and pretty much all look like the same boring Silicon Valley professional. just my opinion.
/r/seduction18/10/15 10:18 AM
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I disagree with jefffffffff's four points: "Read Models" - Models is not for everyone. It encourages you to be the best version of yourself, confident and whatever, but it also kind of discourages proaction. For example, it doesn't teach you how to be attractive to swimsuit models, it just says "You're not attractive to swimsuit models anyway so don't chase that type." "Get Jacked" - Getting jacked helps but I don't recommend going too far though, as there has been a huge movement of gymbros, an…
/r/seduction15/10/15 10:52 AM
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Hey Throwaway. Was wondering if you've ever been to Toastmasters meetings and whether they are worth it. Their advice seems on point, but a lot of their local chapter videos seem like the blind leading the blind.
/r/seduction02/10/15 10:00 PM
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This sounds like overkill but I believe this to be 100% necessary if you want to reach your full potential. You have to videotape yourself acting as you would, or have a friend/wing videotape you in field. I used to think my body language was on point, especially on the dance floor. One of my friends filmed our crew at the club for a side project, and when I was watching the raw footage I was really surprised at how stiff and wooden I was. It got me thinking and I had somebody film me doing a ve…
/r/seduction02/10/15 09:55 PM
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It's all context. I'd say most people on reddit fancy themselves as intellectuals or some shit - well anybody with an iota of tact would realize that, yeah, if you're not TofuTofu and if you don't have that social proof and swagger, then yeah - you can't just walk up to some girl on venice beach and put her hands in your pants. That's straight up sexual assault. "We're starting to teach people to be normal" I disagree. I believe most posts encourage nerdy passive guys to stay nerdy and passive. …
/r/seduction01/10/15 08:42 PM
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I just transmitted telepathic waves to her and asked her what the fuck she was doing. She told me that she was kind of bored and didn't really want Olive Garden for lunch. Also you were at the bathroom way too long, she said next time take a shit before the date. Also she likes tutti fruitty jelly bellies, maybe you can work that in somehow.
/r/seduction24/09/15 03:16 PM
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She didn't like it, end of story. Jesus how hard was that.
/r/seduction23/09/15 03:31 PM
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I've seen your blogspam here quite frequently and I honestly think it's deleterious information. You basically come to the conclusion that nice guys dress the way they do because they don't want to stand out and that when they DO attempt to stand out, they only wear socially approved outfits. Then you give canned lookbook examples straight out of a zara catalog that are, hm, socially approved outfits. Nothing racy or unique or stunning. I truly think nice guys dress shitty simply because they do…
/r/seduction02/09/15 03:06 PM
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Props to OP and he looks fine but male model he is not. So please don't take the lazy route and attribute his success simply to genetics or luck of the draw.
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:05 PM
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I'm a gym bro so yeah. I look pretty good and it took me five years of lackadaisical, on and off training. A dedicated person could pull it off in two years. There's also the never ending drive to go further and further - many of the gymbros you see are pretty much in it for life. Not simply "get toned, hit my goals, then quit." To this end, yeah, it definitely is easy to overdo it and get too jacked.
/r/seduction13/08/15 04:37 PM
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i personally would advise against getting too jacked. i have a short friend who is totally overcompensating and the aesthetic is really not that great.
/r/seduction12/08/15 09:25 PM
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Russell fuck this guy and his terrible blog. Listen to the other guy and concentrate on losing weight. Also unfortunately your facial hair is neckbeardy. I would forego growing it out until you have the weight thing down (tough love but you look like the stereotypical d&der right now). You got this bro
/r/seduction01/08/15 07:28 AM
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you sound a little similar to me though i am guessing i'm more advanced (i'm no casanova but i've been in a few ltrs and could probably find a date within a week). my personal advice to you (take with a grain of salt) is to just be yourself, but do a couple things. you sound kind of nerdy, i'd take care of style and physique if you don't have those down yet. that being said, i have a few dentist friends and they are total gym bros, so maybe you fall into that category too. Slowly work on improvi…
/r/seduction13/07/15 08:34 AM
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In the early days, I really took RSD stuff seriously, and I found Owen's journey to be pretty inspiring (plus a lot of stuff in The Blueprint Decoded made logical sense). Nowadays, they obviously have to keep churning out shit to keep the money rolling in, and I find that their stuff is often self-contradicting, i.e. some key point they resonate in 2014 will be the complete opposite of something they said in 2012. I don't think it's worth watching most of their stuff or being involved on the for…
/r/seduction13/07/15 06:08 AM
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this subreddit is unequivocally shittier than it was three years ago. just yesterday there were two front page "boost your state" posts that were so fucking dumb i couldn't comprehend the upvotes. i half think most of these posts are trollposts and some dude is laughing at the chumps that are imagining hot girls taking a shit before approaching or who are screaming BING BANG BONG while driving to work.
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:34 AM
2

your clothes are fine for now. they'll need to change eventually, but for now concentrate on the gym and your personal skills - don't neglect these, again try to think of a hobby you'd like to master, one that people esp. girls would appreciate. rock climbing is getting big nowadays, that is a double whammy since you get fit as well. For muscle, look into the starting strength program. It's really really simple and only uses three main lifting movements, which you can look up youtube videos for …
/r/seduction13/04/15 02:39 PM
2

I'd say try to foster some hobbies and skills that you can get good at. Can be as simple as cooking or can be a foreign language. Both provide immediate value to others, but you're gonna have to allot some daily practice to whatever you choose. I saw the pics you sent. first off, on that site you seem to have terrible confidence and it's really a drag, so stop that. Next, yeah you look kind of soft. You lost 60 lbs and that is friggin awesome, so just keep at it. I would recommend getting into w…
/r/seduction13/04/15 09:01 AM
6

what activities do you do for fun? what avenues do you use for meeting people? what value do you see yourself providing to others? if you post your pic, i can also critique your look.
/r/seduction12/04/15 09:57 PM
6

This is the most unproductive circle jerk shit. Tell it to the socially awkward asperger's kid "just be yourself. DGAF. be alpha." he strolls into the club and starts asking girls if they prefer pokemon or digimon because hey, DGAF=pussy, right? Between this and the daily Stuart Smalley self-affirmation bullshit, this sub is dead to me.
/r/seduction04/04/15 02:24 PM
10

Metropolitan areas where girls are hit on every day and have a list of prepared excuses to get creeps off their back.
/r/seduction03/04/15 09:11 AM
84

how old are you?
/r/seduction21/03/15 11:33 AM
1

i do not agree with the tro ideology but again, the sub is now more useful than this one.
/r/seduction16/03/15 03:43 PM
7

i was adamantly against trp and still am to some degree. i am beginning to think that it is a more practical dub than this one since they actually preach tactics and frs (not all tactics i personally would want to adopt). compare that to the decline of seddit into a cathartic hugbox where dudes with low self esteem can trade tony robbins quotes.
/r/seduction15/03/15 09:03 PM
15

this is honestly some Jack Handey shit and while it fosters a feel-good mentality, it doesn't offer any usable information.
/r/seduction11/03/15 09:06 PM
44

he has a point. i've been on this sub a looong time and lately most commenters are armchair pros who don't hesitate to post some stupid shit they came up with despite having little to no real world experience.
/r/seduction26/02/15 12:09 PM
1

The latter. I would like to expand my social circle and often times females are receptive to hanging out with me - even initiating, however I think I give off weird/awkward vibes and no friendship ever comes of it.
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:25 AM
2

any tips on non-date hangouts with girls? i am in am ltr but once in awhile make a connection with somebody and we hang out casually, but i feel it never becomes more than superficial acquaintance status.
/r/seduction15/01/15 11:17 PM
5

with the abundance of pua material, guys like you are very cookie cutter and dont really stand out. so you can bench your weight and play wonderwall, so what? so can 100 other dudes at your uni. become a more exciting or fun person, or at least one that stands out.
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:40 AM
1

i truly don't think it makes one "alpha" to maintain eye contact with other men. I am pretty buff, and usually hot or well dressed men don't even look my way - it is nerdy looking guys who try to stare me down.
/r/seduction31/10/14 10:49 PM
3

this sub is dead to me
/r/seduction08/08/14 07:43 AM
1

Prostitution = exchange of money for sex, I mean the definition is pretty clear. Fuck buddies = mutual appreciation of each other's company in a sexual context, with or without further relationship precedent. I don't see any money exchange going on there. If the exchange of sex for sex equals prostitution, then any mutually consenting sexual act is also prostitution (which makes no sense at all.)
/r/seduction31/07/14 03:15 PM
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I'm in a LTR relationship - by your reasoning, it's kind of like prostitution as well. My girlfriend meets certain requirements of mine, I meet hers, and then we have sex. I built a PC using parts purchased with money. Since I have used my PC for porn/masturbating, thusly I have engaged in sex for money, ergo prostitution again. I bought Taco Bell the other night. Eating it brought me immense, one could say "orgasmic," pleasure. Since I paid for it using money, I guess you could say I engaged in…
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:40 PM
1

no - go on r/pizza and post how you love the scent, being in the presence of pizza and how it gives you a huge hardon and then admit that you know pizza is bad for you, yet solicit for advice on one last pizza dinner. should you go nyc style or chicago style? mom and pop store or a chain pizza (gotta love that garlic dipping sauce). one slice or full on fatty style? aughhh what to do, what to do?
/r/seduction16/07/14 07:39 PM
1

"i really want to eat pizza but i am trying to lose weight - golly what do i do guys? i really have no clue where to begin" this is what you sound like
/r/seduction16/07/14 06:49 PM
1

Question for you - do you ever regress to your "old" you when around family and longtime friends? Like they kind of reject your new self and draw you back into their reality? How do you deal with this kind of shit?
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:59 AM
1

my bad, i skimmed and should have read more carefully. sorry man
/r/seduction17/05/14 05:13 PM
1

What you're describing is totally different from the advice offered. Her suggestion was that you admit defeat even before the fact; that you pretty much say right off the bat "yeah uh so erm you probably don't want to go home with me (and that's okay! thumbsup) but it'd be awfully nice if you could, iono, give me your number or something gee shucks"
/r/seduction17/05/14 07:33 AM
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read about "the questions game" like two years ago and haven't used it much lately, but did get pretty good results from playing. you basically take turns asking each other questions, but the caveat is that nobody can repeat a question. so basically the questions quickly escalate into intimate and tawdry territory. Really good for building rapport
/r/seduction08/05/14 08:53 PM
3

okay here is some feedback, if you are here for self-promotion that's fine (i honestly found the article useful) but don't clutter the board with shit like this explanation/refutation. i honestly don't give a fuck what the purpose of your blog is. if i find it practical, i'll use it. if i think it's shit, then i won't. easy as that.
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:47 PM
5

One of the biggest sticking points for me was someone's tip that "if she likes you, then what you say doesn't matter." Ever since then, I've been a lot more comfortable letting random, stupid conversation flow once I have an inkling that a girl likes me.
/r/seduction07/05/14 11:28 PM
1

RSD is rife with marketing bullshit and fluff, but there's no denying that some of the information they teach is quality. I remember TofuTofu doing a post a year ago about seeing famous PUAs infield and that Tyler was hands down the best, most experienced ever. I get your sentiment, but in my opinion you come off as contrived and pretty fedorable in your pursuit of becoming the "quintessential man." As in, well traveled (Hawaii and Mexico), well dressed (MFA standard issue) and having hobbies to…
/r/seduction04/05/14 02:59 AM
2

biggest obstacle is probably anxiousness/low self esteem. I'm still working on it, but the largest improvements come with reference experiences, experiences where I can look back and say "holy shit I did that? yeah. I did that." To get reference experiences you just need to repeatedly put yourself out there. You'll fail a lot at first, and the successes will come few and far between, but as you gain more and become more comfortable, the improvements follow a somewhat exponential path.
/r/seduction02/05/14 07:18 PM
1

thats certainly possible
/r/seduction01/05/14 07:06 AM
3

dude had a conventional nerd look, like i get that bill gates can be sexy but i dont attribute it to his look
/r/seduction01/05/14 02:20 AM
20

fist bump from an Asian brother. try to shake off the Asian complex; i used to have it really bad, and still do to some extent. however, i've found it to be a non-issue with most girls. in fact, if you pay attention in public, you'll see a bunch of Asian dudes with hot non-Asian chicks. Some of these dudes are super dorky looking too, so clearly they are getting by on internal factors.
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:02 PM
2

Finding yourself means throwing yourself out there and trying different activities, hanging out with different cliques, eating different foods, etc, and ultimately narrowing down which ones you truly enjoy. How to do this? Just try new experiences. Meet new people. You can do this by going on meetup.com and finding a group you're willing to try out. After trying a bunch of new things and hanging out with different crowds, you'll quickly realize not only what kind of person you are, but also what…
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:44 PM
2

To an extent I agree with you - there used to be many more high-value field reports (a la Tofu and others) which broke down the behaviors behind their success. However, more likely you (and I and many others) are starting to feel that's all the same, because really, it is. Aside from the odd post on counterintuitively successful tricks and tips to implement, I don't get much from this sub anymore, and that's okay.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:48 AM
3

"Pickup" will likely never be accepted into the mainstream, and that's honestly okay. You'll find that people are actually comfortable with a lot of exercises and behaviors associated with "game," as long as you don't present it as such. For example, when you talk to random girls at bars and have success with them, your bros often give you high fives and congrats. You may even ask them to wing and they'll be perfectly happy to help. But the moment you present it as PUA, they'll shy away. Same wi…
/r/seduction29/04/14 09:41 PM
1

Whew! thanks for that wake-up call. gonna go sit in the bathtub and cut the inside of my thighs now
/r/seduction29/04/14 03:59 AM
1

Hey sorry to hijack one month after your post. Have you had daygame experience in a non-college setting (i.e. the women are more in the 25-35 age range)? I am curious on how that needs to be calibrated. Thanks!
/r/seduction24/04/14 07:10 PM
3

you have a great point. the best course of action would be to give up.
/r/seduction23/04/14 02:38 AM
2

i am having trouble visualizing this
/r/seduction22/04/14 12:52 AM
2

does a true alpha have to purposely put up a front to be alpha? does the alpha silverback gorilla with a harem actively think to himself "i need to not be wishy washy. I need to be unflinching in the face of adversity?"
/r/seduction20/04/14 08:34 AM
5

I think this kind of question is unproductive and you are looking for validation in one way or another. As BryceLarkin says, why not both?
/r/seduction17/04/14 06:46 PM
4

It's not dramatically easier. It's easy for some, hard for others; you have to not only persist, but also intelligently interpret the data you receive from your surroundings. If your actions don't result in success, break down what you're doing and polish your weak spots. You need to work on yourself - inner game - to build confidence, but one huge thing I've found that has helped me is having reference experiences with girls, reference success points that I can draw from for courage. The idea i…
/r/seduction17/04/14 07:16 AM
3

er, you are overthinking the whole alpha thingy. it's really okay to be emotionally invested in somebody, even a casual hookup, and to be frank it would be fucked up if you exerted significant effort to NOT be emotionally invested in your romantic endeavors.
/r/seduction11/04/14 10:46 PM
6

Sheesh. I like root beer because of its characteristic herbal/medicinal flavor. Does that mean I am putting the soda pop on the pedestal??
/r/seduction11/04/14 09:10 PM
1

haha with time, buddy. if you are ever in nyc pm me and we can wing each other. peace
/r/seduction03/04/14 10:44 PM
2

lol it sounds like you are better off than me, i'm 5"7 190, have a beer gut going on. cheers bud
/r/seduction03/04/14 07:35 PM
1

No sweat. I doubt you are ugly. What race are you? I'm Asian, and let me tell you - most other Asian dudes, in the US or otherwise, dress like shit. If you can fix your style, you will instantly stand out.
/r/seduction03/04/14 07:20 PM
1

I truly think image and how one presents oneself makes a difference. If you PM me a photo of yourself/your style, I can make some snap judgements (that may or may not be accurate, but the best i can do through online)
/r/seduction03/04/14 06:29 PM
13

Ethnic minority here. Please don't have this mindset as it will bias your own actions, having a self-fulfilling-prophecy effect. I agree with most other posters here. It comes down to escalation and indicating sexual intent, rather than playing it safe and waiting for the girl to make the move.
/r/seduction03/04/14 04:38 PM
7

I want to watch Frozen and bake cupcakes and then blow like five dudes at the truck stop
/r/seduction23/03/14 07:05 AM
12

Just research the synopsis. The one takeaway message is to live in the present; all too often people are too ensconced in the past or the future (thinking about what could have been, worrying about what will be). Just realize that all we have is the present, and thus try to enjoy yourself here and now (this doesn't mean to throw away responsibilities and long-term goals). The rest of the book is spiritual and to be frank, bullshit. He talks about life energy a la Final Fantasy VII or some midich…
/r/seduction22/03/14 04:19 PM
1

putting yourself out there is only part of the equation. you also have to make sure you are a compelling individual and that people have a reason to want to talk to you, befriend you, sleep with you. there's a straight up melvin dude who hangs around my social circles. however, A. he dresses like a 50-year old...who never learned how to dress, B. his conversation is super boring, literally always starts with something about the weather C. he has no hobbies...other than constantly putting himself…
/r/seduction15/03/14 07:46 PM
1

they truly were good posts. if anybody has a mirror/cache, please PM me, it would be highly appreciatd
/r/seduction15/03/14 07:32 PM
2

hey, what conversation topics can you suggest? one thing I noticed was that people would talk about movies/shows, but to be frank I don't really watch tv that often. my current biggest hobby is studying japanese, so whenever i meet japanese people we can usually bond pretty fast talking about what we like and don't like about japan - it's hard for me to find a point of interest with the average joe/jane though.
/r/seduction12/03/14 09:22 PM
1

edit: nvmind i just read your billy's guide, will keep them in mind next time i go out
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:06 PM
1

thank you, i like my vibe too
/r/seduction12/03/14 05:50 PM
1

I get you, can you give me some pointers? I already try actively to avoid rote conversation (for example, at one point i met a guy and a girl in a bar who had this trollish grin when i approached, after i talked to them for a bit, they were like "lol we had a bet that the first two questions all guys ask are 'where are you from' and 'what do you do,' and you were the first one to pass the test!) any tips or games that aren't too scripted/overused (i.e. the cube) would be appreciated
/r/seduction12/03/14 05:49 PM
2

icic, makes sense. Thanks, man
/r/seduction12/03/14 03:41 AM
5

hey what are your banter topics? banter/vibing is probably where i suffer most so any help would be much appreciated
/r/seduction12/03/14 03:18 AM
2

Hi, I just posted this to AskSeddit (read post for more details http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/20710a/conversation_is_great_for_10_minutes_then_i_end/) The jist of it is: I look good, and at first appearance I seem normal, but something throws people off after about ten minutes of conversation and they then get pissed. I listed several examples on the post, but here's another example: I was at a gaming event and saw a cute girl, I went to talk to her and she seemed receptive at first…
/r/seduction12/03/14 02:26 AM
1

I have qualms with your 1, 2, and 4 (disclaimer: I do okay for myself, but I'm a huuuge keyboard jockey). I've seen a bunch of my friends' profiles on okcupid/fbook and with those who I know not to be cool in real life, their implementation of 1, 2, and 4 just look so staged and fake, too tryhard. If it's apparent to me, it'll be apparent to a hot chick. Meanwhile one guy I know who's pretty cool with ladies has only irreverent pictures (nothing self-deprecatory or clownish).
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:06 PM
1

Dude. I'm no PUA expert or master but on rare occasions people have told me "you're so cool, I want to be like you, blah blah" and whenever I bring up pickup/self-improvement, they back away. It's one of those things that people might logically recognize as not inherently bad, but they'll still have a creepy and negative feeling about it.
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:15 PM
1

Either you are trolling or you have Aspergers, in which case I'd advise you to go against your gut instinct (or lack thereof) and trust OP
/r/seduction18/02/14 08:19 AM
2

Nice post - was wondering what your 1-hour daygame practice is like, i.e. what goals you set, what kind of thought process you go through, and if you take/review notes at all. Peace
/r/seduction17/02/14 08:32 PM
13

This is some topshelf red pill shit. Go back to your own subreddit; there's a reason /r/seduction and /r/redpill are two different forums.
/r/seduction12/02/14 10:34 PM
5

Dude that Eliza was never meant to be a conversationalist and if you spend some time with it, you'll quickly realize that it sucks balls at conversing.
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:45 AM
8

When you make long direct eye-contact, what is your facial expression like? I have no clue how to pull this off, especially in public places. Girls will stare with an expressionless gaze, am I supposed to mirror this or smile or grimace jokingly or what?
/r/seduction19/12/13 08:30 PM
1

See what you are saying right now I completely agree with too, but people who have sex for validation issues is only a subset of all people who have random meaningless hookups.
/r/seduction09/12/13 12:55 AM
2

Dude that is completely reasonable and I agree with what you are saying, but you started out by saying that "randomly fucking girls is disgusting and stupid."
/r/seduction09/12/13 12:34 AM
1

You accuse me of belittling you but your language to others is filled with condescending shit. If I disagree with you, I'm not allowed to say why? Please elaborate.
/r/seduction09/12/13 12:13 AM
1

You have a negative mentality. If you want to improve your conversation skills and become some awesome renaissance man, fine. But don't bash others under the guise of white knighting.
/r/seduction08/12/13 11:30 PM
5

It's widely advocated here that it doesn't matter what you say; it's how you say it. I'd wager that similarly, it doesn't matter how "illogical" an action may seem. Rather, the girl will gauge you on how you executed said action.
/r/seduction07/11/13 09:10 PM
1

Should you be flirtatious with girls who you want in your social circle, but have no intention of ever hooking up with?
/r/seduction20/10/13 06:22 PM
10

a. 5'6" is not that short b. Why not be honest with yourself and admit that society values height? It's unfair, but as you said yourself, it's nothing that can't be overcome
/r/seduction13/10/13 08:12 PM
1

Cheers, well put.
/r/seduction03/09/13 05:25 PM
4

I agree with foxyfantastic, this is bullshit at worst, nebulous at best. This stuff isn't black and white - I feel like I'm an arrogant douche rather than a truly confident person (still working on myself), and yet the "confident" column describes my actions better. Go figure. We don't need any more mental masturbation on this board. This doesn't give any useful instruction and exists only so people can read it saying "hmm yes, quite right, quite right" while stroking their greasy chins.
/r/seduction30/08/13 05:27 AM
1

Very interesting. I just switched up workouts and would like to stick with this one a couple more months, but I would definitely consider starting this as soon as new year's rolls around. Cheers
/r/seduction29/08/13 04:58 AM
1

I hear you on the caffeine. Cardio's tough to balance - I used to do cardio w/ every workout, but I felt that it was killing my gains. I went extreme and cut it out completely; I should probably start it up again but build up slowly until I find my balance point
/r/seduction29/08/13 04:54 AM
1

I did reverse pyramid for awhile, kind of opposite what you're saying (starting with super high weight, then dropping 10% and doing more reps, dropping 10% and doing more reps). I'll give yourse a shot. I already take creatine. No other supplements, but drink a strong coffee an hour before lifting. Eating well, but not sleeping that great (this is probably what's holding me back). Thanks for the tips, will defs put more focus on the deadlifts.
/r/seduction29/08/13 03:45 AM
2

thanks for the advice, gonna try the 10% drop today. much appreciated
/r/seduction28/08/13 11:15 PM
1

I started with SS three years go - made remarkable progress on squats and had some tree trunk legs, but a shit torso. Switched to some abercrombie bullshit and have a pretty decent torso now, so reincorporated squats and deads for a pretty balanced workout, IMO. I just looked at Greyskull and there are two things that stick out to me: 1) Last set squats til failure 2) Periodic scheduled resets. Can you explain the resets to me?
/r/seduction28/08/13 11:12 PM
5

sure. 27 here, been lifting for 3 years (first year was throwaway shit workouts). Got my bench up to 220, pullups 210 (190 bodyweight + 20). squats/deads 220 (i often skip leg day, i know i shouldnt). I do 3 sets of five for each, and I've been on the same weight for weeks now. Some weeks I can add 5 lbs, but will have to drop right back down the next week.
/r/seduction28/08/13 08:58 PM
6

This is not seduction related, but do you mind giving me a rundown of your gym work? I've become pretty swole but I've plateaued and am looking for things to push me to the next level. (your 2.5X bodyweight deads tell me you probably know what you're doing)
/r/seduction28/08/13 08:33 PM
1

Dude. I read the entire thing and I think there are good points being made, but Shmishma is right - it's completely unorganized and at times, incoherent. The points I think are worthwhile are things I already knew, and as such could pick them out of his mess of writing.
/r/seduction08/08/13 06:31 PM
1

What are some tips for talking to younger compared to older women? In the last week I've had many instances of conversation with younger (19-21) women, and I noticed that they did shit test-like things much more often, but in more of a playful fashion rather than testing/dismissing you. Contrast that to 27-30 year old women I usually talk to, who don't shit-test nearly as much.
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:59 AM
10

dude ain't a mate, mate
/r/seduction29/07/13 05:42 AM
2

Sex at Dawn is a book with some good ideas, but terribly misleading (I'd go so far to say that the authors purposely overstate the legitimacy of their conclusions simply to create controversy and incite discussion about the book). Our nature doesn't have to dictate exactly how we live. Evolution has programmed into me a deep love of fatty fried foods and sweet decadent desserts, but that doesn't mean i'm gorging on chocolate cake and mozzarella sticks every single day.
/r/seduction28/07/13 07:32 PM
1

okay dude, i guess i'll take your word for it. cheers, if you're ever in boston send me a pm and i'll buy you a beer.
/r/seduction25/07/13 08:31 PM
1

are you muscular and well groomed? are you aloof and fun to be around? because you sure don't seem fun to be around.
/r/seduction25/07/13 08:22 PM
1

I have an ivy league-educated friend (both bachelor's and master's) who also has a high paying job at google. He looks fat and dresses sloppily. His OKCupid profile lists his colleges and jobs right off the bat, to demonstrate value, as you put it. Friend #2 is well-groomed and muscular. His okcupid profile is a portrait of him against a nature scene, photo very obviously taken by a friend. His profile consists of jokes and fluff, and only mentions his education and career success at the end. Wh…
/r/seduction25/07/13 08:02 PM
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A ton of comments in that thread are deleted, including theartofoppa's. Can anyone summarize?
/r/seduction25/07/13 07:54 PM
1

I think you are avoiding my questions. In any case, the rubric for what makes an attractive, sexy male is not: start a successful restaurant your restaurant is the only one allowed by your school you are the resident DJ for two years You created that arbitrary rubric in your own mind. I gave you a pretty good rubric that most girls use to some extent, and you completely dismissed it.
/r/seduction25/07/13 07:49 PM
1

No, because I want to see if you are truly in great shape and style impeccably, as you claim. I do not believe that you have all these elements set and yet girls are repulsed by you.
/r/seduction25/07/13 01:45 PM
1

Send me your picture. Or better yet, a melange of you wearing different outfits. Crop your head out if you want.
/r/seduction25/07/13 06:55 AM
1

I went through your comment history and it is so fucked up that I believe you to be a troll.
/r/seduction25/07/13 06:52 AM
1

I understand that - so the protein becomes stored fat or used energy. Better from a protein shake (which offers the safety net of protein in excess, and other vitamins and minerals as well) than from a glazed donut, which is just calories. Fair trade, imo
/r/seduction25/07/13 06:45 AM
1

Have you gone to the gym yet to get in shape? Protip: most guys are lazy as fuck and it's very easy to be in the 50th, 60th, 70th, 80th percentile of fit, active looking guys. I've been working out on and off for the last three years and I'm willing to bet I'm in the 95th percentile. Body only, not including face. Have you improved your style/hygiene? Like, really sat down and analyzed why something might or might not look good, and not by simply following MFA tips like a rote idiot? Have you lo…
/r/seduction25/07/13 06:41 AM
1

You are incredibly negative, not to mention presumptuous, and I fear it is affecting your life in ways you don't realize. Even if Pugilanthropist is exactly as you describe, so what? Perception is reality and I guarantee his reality is a lot funner than yours.
/r/seduction25/07/13 06:35 AM
1

You just said it's going to be stored no matter what!
/r/seduction25/07/13 06:32 AM
2

No sweat, it wasn't referring to you. I was thinking back about this 8th/9th grader who posted his picture a couple months ago bragging how he was so much better dressed than his peers. He was wearing the fucking MFA outfit in high school, which to me is kind of absurd.
/r/seduction09/07/13 05:51 PM
3

What you said was great and works for people your age, I just wanted to point out that age does matter. For example, MFA often touts never to wear cargo shorts. But in many college towns and in most high schools, cargo shorts are the norm. Sure, you'll get more "style points" if you dress better, but your peers (girls included) will wonder why you're dressing with such pretense. So yes, in the case of these specific demographics, cargo shorts do work. cheers
/r/seduction09/07/13 05:33 PM
10

I think context/demographics matters the world here and what T2morrow has said will apply to a younger group (18-23, high school/college age), but isn't so well suited for older people. For example, Express 1MX shirts do indeed fit quite nicely. They come in a wonderfully bright palette. But their loudness and clubby/trendy vibe have garnered them a somewhat negative reputation, and in conversations with friends, I've had girls tell me that they found express shirts a bit too gaudy for everyday …
/r/seduction09/07/13 05:22 PM
1

make sure you eat enough food - as in, if your baseline consumption is 2500 calories, and you remain 128, then you're gonna have to eat more than that in order to gain weight. in terms of weightlifting, you need to consume in excess because your body needs extra protein/nutrients to rebuild muscle, in addition to your baseline quota.
/r/seduction05/07/13 07:41 PM
1

You sound like you are financially set, but you also sound very boring, and are trying to cover it up with superficial accoutrements. In regards to fashion, I'd say that expensive clothing can actually hurt you if you're not dressing in an aesthetically pleasing manner (clothes that fit well, outfits that match well). You'll just end up like a dork who spends a lot on clothes. Instead of investing all your time in PUA theory, can you divert half your effort to a hobby that others will value, but…
/r/seduction05/07/13 04:39 PM
3

I saw a complaint disguised as a question. There are tons of exercise websites and forums at your disposal. You seem very technical and probably a smart guy, right? So I'm sure you are well aware that you can google "easy beginner's workouts" or "tips on making exercise enjoyable." Exercise does make you feel like shit, but luckily, the brain is plastic, and by enduring pain, you can quickly learn to tolerate or even enjoy it.
/r/seduction15/05/13 05:13 AM
-1

the fact of the matter is, being athletic/fit is one (albeit just one) rubric people use to judge you. Nothing will change that, not even your complaints at how hard it is. have you actually exercised on a regular basis for a month or more? if you've gone a month or longer and it still feels like shit, then i'd be more sympathetic.
/r/seduction15/05/13 04:58 AM
5

rome wasn't built in a day, fatty
/r/seduction15/05/13 04:41 AM
2

I second this. As an experiment, I messaged 20 girls in a foreign city to see how many would respond. I also posted on the city page asking if anybody wanted to hang out. 2 girls replied that they'd be happy to answer my questions about getting around, but didn't want to meet up. 1 girl was eager to meet up. No girls responded to the hangout post, but five dudes did. All this was at one point in time, I'm guessing if you post year-round you'll get many more responses, since people come and go. E…
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:56 AM
2

You have to work on yourself a little. Right now, you're probably on the bottom of the social pool - to others, you may be perceived as uninteresting / have nothing to offer. So take some time to develop your talents, foster your skills (hopefully something other than WoW raids) and make yourself into somebody worth hanging out with. At the end of the day, it may simply be a matter of no chemistry between you and those you invite, which is okay. Anyway, if you're ever in Boston, hit me up and we…
/r/seduction18/04/13 04:15 AM
1

Jesus dude, you are really ridiculous. Seriously stop sweating this stupid shit.
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:59 AM
1

I went to a decent university with a bunch of rich, well-dressed kids. This one fratty dude I met freshman year was sloppy, chubby, and wore baggy jeans and shirts that always smelled of smoke/sweat/alcohol. Nonetheless, he got laid on a regular basis (by sorority girls) due to his brazen attitude and complete disregard for social mores. I'm not saying to follow his model, but to realize that with the right mindset and behavior, looks don't even fucking matter.
/r/seduction31/03/13 03:03 AM
1

To me, holding hands is much more intimate and personal than playfully doing a side-hug type thing. I guess that's why I thought it was appropriate to do. In any case, this is like one of my first experiences using kino, so I'm sure future FRs I may have a completely different mindset.
/r/seduction27/03/13 02:36 AM
1

Isn't that good though? Isn't the point to let her know that you're hitting on her? I like direct, and whilst "DURR U SHURE ARE PRETTY" may not be the best way to go, I feel that it's important to broadcast your intent, even to the group as well.
/r/seduction27/03/13 12:56 AM
1

I hear you, man. As far as kino-ing off the bat, I feel like it's important to establish that you're that kind of guy right away, lest she cordons you into "just another guy that likes to make conversation." I have an event this thursday where I'll test it out some more.
/r/seduction27/03/13 12:55 AM
3

You could be right, I just assumed they had been talking about me when I was gone. As far as HB system goes: I think it's fine in terms of communicating a concise field report, but due to all the flak that pickup has been getting, I think it's worthwhile to present FRs in a more storytelling fashion rather than scientific, sterile, and unrelateable to the average person.
/r/seduction26/03/13 11:20 PM
5

You're too wordy and come off as needy. If she sends signals of uncertainty or gives you shit tests, you shouldn't be writing some two paragraph rambling including the phrase "extolling my virtues." My opinion is that it all went to shit with that heart. Make your future first impressions more light hearted /non-tryhard humor, and without that damn heart.
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:28 AM
1

AHHH! read HedoNNN's response. the idea isn't that OP takes behaviour cues from Brad Pitt and acts completely incongruent to his true self. It's that, through failure, he'll come to the realization that 1. failure aint a thang 2. it's not hard to talk to girls. As RSD Tyler once said, "the brain wants proof, not promises." You can tell OP "Be confident and be yourself and people will love you!" but obviously his brain isn't gonna be like "DURR OKAY IF YOU SAY SO" and start being super smooth wit…
/r/seduction25/03/13 03:48 AM
1

Do you have a photo with your normal posture? Just out of curiousity (blanking out face obviously)
/r/seduction25/03/13 03:32 AM
1

It's just a way of communicating concisely. Yeah, girls will find it creepy, but that doesn't mean calling a girl HB8 necessarily comes from a creepy mindset, so what does it matter what girls may or may not think? "Pretty girl" works, but "kind of pretty girl" "sort of pretty girl" "extremely pretty girl" gets kind of unwieldy. For a forum/community-based system of trading anecdotes (or "field reports," if you will), I can see how people would quickly adopt the HB system.
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:55 AM
1

No, I'd rather be back where I was, 20 pounds heavier and spending weekends eating Dominos while playing Fallout 3.
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:40 AM
1

Okay, where's your pic?
/r/seduction20/02/13 10:32 PM
5

Dude are you near boston? lemme know if ur ever in town so we can grab a brewski. I don't for a second believe that you've done "everything you can possibly do." you say your outfit is required for work, but even with an outfit restriction, you don't look as best as possible. You remind me of some of my friends - trying very hard, but without focus. You have to focus your journey, not just try a bunch of random shit you read. Shotgun strategy almost never works. message me if u have any specific…
/r/seduction20/02/13 06:55 PM
23

Well sheesh! Then post a more representative picture. In any case, you don't look bad. With a little focused sprucing, you could clean yourself up realll good. Cheers!
/r/seduction20/02/13 06:35 PM
74

My god dude. this is so easy to work with (in my humble opinion). here's my assessment: you have feminine features and baby face, but are going for guido/frat/alpha look, which kind of ends up being discordant. I'd play around with your hairstyle (maybe grow it out slightly and making it tously), get more stylish and form fitting clothes. Finally, since you have the baby face goin on, maybe not so smiley (don't be stone-cold wannabe 007 either). Anyway, this is just my opinion, and if you'd pref…
/r/seduction20/02/13 05:59 PM
234

nigga pm me a photo, i wanna see if i can help
/r/seduction20/02/13 05:16 PM
5

Well let's say that I have a friend who I loved to smoke up with, but it was really affecting his day-to-day life quite negatively, so he decides to go sober. He begins to do better at work/relationships, and seems to be happy. However, I really enjoy his high company, so I goad him into falling back into old habits, smoking up with me every night after work. He enjoys it in the moment, but it severely affects his quality of life in all avenues otherwise. I don't think things are black and white…
/r/seduction31/01/13 06:31 PM
1

I'd love to hear some of your insight. Was kind of disappointed my thread didn't get more replies, but I'm glad you shared your thoughts.
/r/seduction12/01/13 01:55 PM
1

Er, since he was the one that fucked the stripper out of all the "I love to eat pussy" dudes, simply BY DEFINITION he is the alpha male. So uh...what then do you suggest he do? Firm handshakes, lean away from people, walk looking 15 degrees above the horizon?
/r/seduction12/01/13 01:54 PM
10

the questions game: each person takes turn asking the other a question. two rules you stipulate beforehand: 1. the other person MUST reply. 2. you cannot ask a question that has already been asked. due to the stipulations, the questions get real sexual real quick as you try to one up each other on the questions and obligatory answers
/r/seduction07/01/13 09:22 AM
11

No offense, but you came here for advice. Based on the scant description you gave, we can only extrapolate that you look and act like Dylan Klebold, and provide advice accordingly.
/r/seduction17/11/12 03:40 AM
14

What is this arbitrary bullshit? Not that being a gentleman isn't an admirable trait, but it's pretty silly to cherry-pick traits you like and deem them "alpha."
/r/seduction04/11/12 02:29 AM
2

I have my own side hobbies so I know what you mean about fostering true interests, especially if it's a creative endeavor. However, I totally disagree with you that working out "doesn't require skill." Not only does it take extreme discipline and willingness to endure pain, it takes active research and focus to accomplish one's fitness goals - I have friends doing the same bullshit regimens and can't seem to gain muscle. They claim to want results, but when I give them tips on what exercises wou…
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:56 PM
1

How much do you spend at the bars on average? I like this gameplan but I'd like an idea of how much to allot.
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:27 PM
1

Gotcha, sounds intuitive but it's something I don't think of or do on a regular basis. Cheers.
/r/seduction18/10/12 05:54 PM
1

I'm Asian, but I have none of that hood/street swag. I grew up in the most boring suburbs ever - never really had a crew to hang out with, so I think I'm a little stunted in that regard. What are the key things to remember when trying to relate to/captivate people? I was wondering if you had some Asian-specific insight.
/r/seduction18/10/12 05:32 PM
-11

Alpha can't be faked, I mean how many nerds have you met who give you a gorilla handshake because it "exudes confidence?" How many actually convinced you that they were confident? I think what Saljen means is that it's pretty ludicrous imagining people whose thought processes go like "yeah I'll do that, because it will be perceived as alpha!" which is ironically un-alpha.
/r/seduction14/10/12 08:31 PM
1

I strongly subscribe to RSD's idea that "the truth is always coming out." As such, I don't like to fake my way through something.
/r/seduction13/10/12 05:42 PM
1

god your wit is like a razor
/r/seduction13/10/12 06:57 AM
7

I cannot drink and can't fake wine culture. Do you have any suggestions for other aisles? I've read FRs suggesting yogurt or granola aisle, but it seems so contrived and immediately apparent what you're trying to do in these cases ("omg Dannon! I love that too! Mixed or fruit in the bottom?")
/r/seduction13/10/12 12:33 AM
2

I like these stories, and they're certainly inspiring. However, I don't know how well they can actually be applied - in the first story, your natural friend ends up with the girl, but there was much more from point A to point B than simply "Patience."
/r/seduction28/09/12 05:59 PM
1

You wanna send me the paper? Or give me a list of authors so I can Pubmed that shit? I was serious about wanting to read it.
/r/seduction12/08/12 10:46 PM
1

Yeah hit me, first study was cited in my evolutionary psych books from five years ago, I'd love to see new developments.
/r/seduction11/08/12 06:41 PM
46

They did a cohort study where they had physically attractive males and females walk up to strangers and straight up ask them for sex right then and there. None of the women asked said yes. Something like 60% of the guys said yes, with like 80% of the remainder stating they would, but that they were currently in a committed relationship. The takeaway story here is that guys already know if they want to sleep with you or not, all you have to do is ask, and you have nothing to lose. However, seduct…
/r/seduction11/08/12 01:43 PM
4

They're called "field reports," because they are meant to be exactly that. I agree with you that sexism exists in the pickup community, but I don't buy your argument that women are "dehumanized" simply because PUAs treat interactions scientifically.
/r/seduction01/08/12 05:07 PM
1

Curious, how tall are you and what is your regimen?
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:58 AM
14

If you take a picture of yourself every two weeks (provided you are on an intense enough program, have proper nutrition, etc), the difference should be subtle but noticeable - hence two weeks being a good motivational checkpoint, since you'll have noticeably improved.
/r/seduction20/06/12 06:01 AM
1

You're not trying to help her at all. You want exactly what all the other guys want from her, except you're a sniveling bitch about it.
/r/seduction11/05/12 04:45 PM
2

Calm down. Nobody is attacking your prowess. goneagain's post wasn't phrased in the most polite way, but he (she?) has valid points. Sure, canned responses might work in some contexts, but maybe they're not for everybody. To you, they may roll off your tongue and be completely improvised. This may not be the case for others. Also, I acknowledge that that this might not apply to everybody, but most of the girls I hang out with are of comparable age, so asking "how old are you" may be fucking bori…
/r/seduction10/05/12 02:25 AM
1

is this your throwaway or real account?
/r/seduction30/04/12 11:10 PM
3

With my dick in THEIR mouth - I stack them up like a shish kebab on my potent, virile dick (btdubs it's not gay if you're on the giving end).
/r/seduction26/04/12 09:04 PM
20

When you mentioned carrying your guy friends in that context, I honestly didn't imagine their dicks going into your mouth at all.
/r/seduction26/04/12 05:09 PM
3

To be honest, it sounds completely contrived. If it works for you, then much respect, but IMHO it seems like something out of a movie script that looks great on paper, but sounds weird in real life. For the record, I'm willing to field test this and report back.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:33 PM
6

Why the hostility? It's been noted by TofuTofu that these guys are nowhere near mastery, but that they're out and they have fun. Aside from the disrespect to Patrick Stewart (they asked him for buttsex), I don't see anything wrong with what they do.
/r/seduction23/03/12 09:56 PM
1

What is your evidence/reasoning? Secondly, do you have a scientific background? Many times, scientific explanation is difficult for the layman to grasp (which is why so many fundies repudiate evolution - they think it involves monkeys literally morphing into humans).
/r/seduction19/03/12 07:28 PM
9

Well it's not just the basic questions, it's masturbatory/useless posts like "remember: YOU. ARE. AWESOME." which imo actually harm more than they help.
/r/seduction18/03/12 07:19 AM
1

I have no doubt you are a great PUA coach. I also have no doubt that you're strong with the Asperger's.
/r/seduction17/03/12 01:51 PM
3

yes
/r/seduction12/03/12 04:23 PM
2

With girls, all is good. What do you do with guys though? I used to try to make eye contact and do a nod to everybody I passed on the street, but with guys usually they'll either get weirded out or will start an alpha staredown with you.
/r/seduction11/03/12 05:34 PM
-1

Call her Lane Bryant.
/r/seduction24/01/12 03:26 AM
2

I think that you're doing yourself a disservice and that any short-term success you have will result in failure once the girl realizes that your life is truly boring and not as how you portrayed it.
/r/seduction24/01/12 12:15 AM
-1

4.. ONDOGI YEPUDEI (correct me if i'm off)
/r/seduction21/01/12 05:27 AM
4

YEAH AMOG THE SHIT OUT OF EACH OTHER
/r/seduction19/01/12 10:03 PM
2

I think they were incredibly rude. But keep them coming, they're hilarious!
/r/seduction14/01/12 05:40 PM
3

Do you live near Boston? I'd like to buy you a drink sometime and have a chat - I think human interaction tends to be much more easygoing, friendly, and fun in person than online (I think you'd be much less defensive and maybe slightly more openminded - or conversely, I could stand to learn something from you, but in a way that's more constructive than this antagonistic back-and-forth online).
/r/seduction11/01/12 09:27 PM
1

Do you really think it's that applicable to modern day? A lot of it seems to be good for maintaining healthy relationships with people but seems to foster a boring personality.
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:51 PM
2

Yo you didn't answer my question! You mentioned "Thank you Tyler Durden!" but a lot of blueprint decoded/transformations/etc. just deal with inner game, general rules to live by and not specific routines. Where are you getting the majority of tested routines/tactics that work? (you sound very similar to me, so anything that's worked for you will likely work for me as well. cheers!).
/r/seduction16/12/11 07:43 PM
2

Sounds like you're an RSD guy - where are you getting starting material? Most of their bread n' butter seems to deal with inner game (which I tend to veer towards, but then again, I don't get results).
/r/seduction16/12/11 07:26 PM
3

Ah Arthur, I was wondering what that song was from and why I knew it
/r/seduction05/12/11 05:50 PM
1

Why is it slimy? He's up front and not playing the "nice guy" to get into a girl's pants. Brutal honesty. What's bad about it?
/r/seduction08/11/11 09:32 PM
1

The study was done for science, i.e. to be published in a research journal. This wasn't some PUA blog running their own informal tests for shits and giggles. Yeah, maybe you could've told them what they found beforehand. Unfortunately, journals require formal research protocol and won't accept some random dude's FRs. Sorry. I don't care for this dude's research, as he's going into it with a strong and rubbish bias (you're right about that). This has nothing to do with your non-summary. see 2. I …
/r/seduction21/09/11 06:10 AM
1

Dude, calm down. We get it, you are PUA master. What you say may be perfectly true, but OP didn't ask for that, he asked for a summary of the study. Possibly he was interested in the methods behind their research, or where this study was done, or what have you, none of which can be answered by "I'm frogma and I'm right."
/r/seduction21/09/11 03:58 AM
4

As are you.
/r/seduction16/09/11 09:58 PM
1

Go to the gym and drop that 60, practice good posture to reduce cro-magnon traits, and buy some crest white strips (optional: invisiline if you have the cash). Problem solved!
/r/seduction30/08/11 07:33 PM
1

A. He could be intimidated at the prospect of speaking w/ a foreigner, especially if his English wasn't so good. B. I'd say people in Japanese society try less to stick out and more to conform. While somebody in America might be proud of their individuality and strive to develop it, somebody in Japan might be less inclined to flaunt elements of themselves.
/r/seduction25/08/11 03:39 AM
3

Do you think this would have the same efficacy in the states? In my mind I was thinking "the fuck wouldn't the guy be able to explain his passion for climbing?" until I got to the end of your story and realized you were in Japan. This is the only hangup I have though, rest of your FR was good stuff.
/r/seduction23/08/11 07:45 AM
1

You sound kind of squirming and hateful.
/r/seduction17/08/11 05:35 PM
2

Thanks for the reality check. I had fun last night and I'm prepared to carry my confidence and intent into the workplace. I'll check out that book this weekend. Cheers.
/r/seduction10/08/11 02:46 PM
-1

I'm not? I think "state" is a pretty general concept and relates more to one's mood rather than anything involving women specifically.
/r/seduction09/08/11 06:07 PM
1

Doing that tonight, thanks for the recommendation.
/r/seduction09/08/11 06:06 PM
3

His language was presented in the most practical way, unfettered with any biased adjectives or adverbs. How would you have phrased it, if you wanted to warn somebody that somebody who cheats for you will probably cheat on you later down the line?
/r/seduction29/07/11 06:23 PM
-3

Yeah, and why'd you make a post about it? Again, I don't think it's very confident behavior to come here and rouse up backup because some internet neckbeards hurt your feelings.
/r/seduction18/07/11 04:22 AM
-5

Can't you guys take a joke in good stride? Seems pretty beta to get defensive over an admittedly funny joke.
/r/seduction18/07/11 03:13 AM
1

This sounds so canned and inorganic. I'm no pro, but I really don't like the idea of "routines."
/r/seduction07/07/11 03:46 AM
2

I don't think you understand how biology works. Your blood testosterone levels aren't going to increase to 2x, 3x, 10x what they were before. I highly doubt women would be able to subconsciously discern any testosterone increase that may result from abstaining from masturbation (though I'm sure they'll be able to tell if you behave any differently).
/r/seduction21/06/11 03:49 PM
1

Thanks for the advice! It sounds like it would definitely work, if you were on point and in state. Will try in field. Book sounds interesting, too. Will buy it on amazon if it's not in local library. Thanks for the recommendation!
/r/seduction31/05/11 08:29 AM
1

My bad, I read a link in the link you posted, and forgot that it wasn't the OP! I was referring to Prophet's article on how to shake hands http://www.venusianarts.com/how-to-shake-hands-like-an-alpha-male/ where he talks about positioning your hand on top as a sign of dominance. I never really noticed this struggle to have your hand on top, and in my mind doing it in a professional context would give others an odd vibe. Any thoughts on this?
/r/seduction31/05/11 05:31 AM
1

What's your take on the "hand on top" business? I think it becomes a little ridiculous when two guys are scrambling to be the hand on top. Also, I assume this is contextual, and only to be used on AMOGs and not, say, when meeting a new colleague? The Destroyer routine was pretty sweet though, I wish I read more of these things on a daily basis.
/r/seduction31/05/11 04:58 AM
1

What kind of shit tests do you have to deal with (in this case specifically, or in general), and how do you generally deal with them?
/r/seduction30/05/11 03:35 AM
1

YSABMOSCWAYFORASUYIWO is a go-to that has served me well over the years.
/r/seduction24/05/11 05:23 PM
4

A problem likely contributing to your predicament is that you have severe one-itis, which probably makes you disastrously less attractive to her. She's already not into you, and yet you follow her around trying to sniff her butthole like a desperate mutt. I say break it off, but what do I know.
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:57 PM
3

Really like DJ Fuji's stuff - haven't seen the other guys' yet. Looking forward to this!
/r/seduction23/05/11 06:33 PM
1

Wow! When did Leil Lowndes join this subreddit?!
/r/seduction22/05/11 08:20 PM
3

Ahhh, gotcha - I was setting up context because my question was less about seduction and more about social interaction in general.
/r/seduction22/05/11 06:49 PM
4

I appreciate your input - what about my interactions sounds sinister to you? If I'm giving off any bad vibes, I definitely want to stop. Also, to clarify - I'm in no way complaining about her or her friends. I'm hoping to find a solution so I look less awkward standing there while they talk.
/r/seduction22/05/11 06:35 PM
3

Makes sense to me - will implement in future.
/r/seduction22/05/11 06:33 PM
4

you're projecting/inferring
/r/seduction22/05/11 06:14 PM
3

What if there's a lot of "conversational inertia," like it was finals week and they were talking about the shitty test they just took, and then about how the professor always has that kind of question on the test, etc etc? I could jump in and be like "OH YEAH, i HATE when professors do that! LOL" but again, it seems sort of forced and needy to me.
/r/seduction22/05/11 05:04 PM
10

Thanks for the FR - I appreciated that you pointed out both proper alpha conduct as well as the AFC analogue.
/r/seduction20/05/11 05:25 PM
3

Could the cold goodbye followed by receptiveness just be weird Japanese indirectness? Also, you mentioned qualification - what are you supposed to do in the reverse situation, like when the girl makes you qualify?
/r/seduction20/05/11 05:12 PM
6

Right, but once somebody moves into marriage material, I assume they become more than just a generic HB - good friend, confidante, etc etc? Like, if you buy drinks for random girls at the bar, then that's supplicating. But for an SO or a guy pal, that's a different story. I think you do have a point though - if the couple in that youtube video were just casually dating, and the guy pulled this stunt to win her over, then that's pretty silly. But if they were already in an established and serious…
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:31 PM
4

I think it's easy to overanalyze things and frame every minute detail of our lives in PUA context. Maybe this is beta behavior. But maybe it's simply some guy who wants to do a nice and memorable thing for someone he cares about (Is surprising your mother on her birthday beta? Is buying lavish Christmas presents for your nieces and nephews beta?). My two cents.
/r/seduction19/05/11 02:35 PM
3

I think there are many different kinds of posts (and people) on this subreddit. I'm all for self-improvement and stuff regarding inner game (David Wygant and what not), and to that end, I appreciate a lot of the stuff that's posted. It's helped me improve professional and fitness aspects of my life in just a couple of months. With that said, I can't help but feel like a lot of the FR's posted here are sheisty as fuck - when I imagine these scenarios in my head, I don't see James Bond working his…
/r/seduction05/05/11 06:32 PM
5

What's your stance on drunk people or aggressive/gangster looking people? Make eye contact or not? I live in a suburban environment with a lot of blacks/latinos, and I never know whether to look at them or not - not looking and nodding hello would be rude, but then again a lot of them see eye contact as a sign of disrespect. What would you recommend? (sorry if I offend anyone with my non PC-ness)
/r/seduction16/04/11 04:09 PM
2

How do you come up with this spontaneous shit so fast? Are you naturally gifted, or do you need to practice?
/r/seduction14/04/11 12:23 AM
1

I wouldn't call that AMOGing, I mean, more than anything you trapped him into a difficult situation (if he pushed it, he would've looked like a douche). But good for you!
/r/seduction18/03/11 05:59 PM
1

Out of curiosity, can you describe yourself physically? Or even post a pic with your face blotted out?
/r/seduction04/12/10 04:44 AM
-5

I don't believe there's a definite black and white to things, but rather that things should be taken situationally. Biologically, males tend to be much more welcome to random sexual encounters (there have been numerous sociobiological experiments done), which makes a lot of sense evolutionarily - the cost of reproduction is generally a lot lower to the average male in the evolutionary environment, seeing as how men don't pay the health costs of carrying a baby to term. Yada yada yada. I'm going …
/r/MensRights13/09/10 10:44 AM
8

It's all about context. He has a boyish half-grin, giving the women the behavioral cue they need to continue with their flirtatious behavior. If instead he had been screaming "I NEED AN ADULT! I NEED AN ADULT!" as the OP would have done, I'm sure the ladies would have stopped.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 09:04 AM
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