I am bitter [rant]

WhosCountin · 2014-12-05T04:35:43+00:00

People are going to jump all over you, tell you "girls can smell your desperation" or talk about how your inner game is all wrong. But I know I can relate, and I'm sure a lot of other guys can too. Right now I don't quite feel as riled up as you do, but I've been there, and I'm sure I'll be there again. It does suck, and life is unfair, but it's mainly just unfair to anyone who wasn't born blessed with great looks. Everyone wants those people, girls want the model guys, guys want the model girls. So 100% of the population wants 2% of the population, and they get sex with the other genetically superior people who get to live the life we all want.

Sometimes this fucks me up, sometimes I can't handle it. But more and more I'm learning that no good comes from thinking of that. No good comes from comparing myself to the lucky bastards who get the girls we all want. Oh well. All I can do is keep trying, and hopefully, eventually, I'll get some of that top-shelf pussy I've always dreamed about. There's really no other options: forge ahead and do everything I can to get better and improve my chances, or shoot myself in the head.

I'm not picking option 2. There's always more I can do. This is the hand I was dealt, and as far as I know this is my existence and afterwards I cease to exist and my universe ceases to exist. No use giving up. I have one lifetime, might as well either get what I want more than anything or go mad trying.

BigGeek43 · 2014-12-05T03:35:34+00:00

That's how you become the man. You go through the bullshit, you get hardened, you learn what happens, you know what and how women think. It's not their fault - you have to recognize they're in a difficult position. They want to pick a great guy to date but you can't brag to them about it. How do you show value to them and what is value? Values are different from girl to girl.
And then one day you meet that one woman! And she tries to put you through bullshit. But you don't eat any of it. You show her how non needy you are, she chases you. You recognize the signals. You also see how much different she is than the whole mass of girls you met at clubs. This one is awesome! And she thinks that you're awesome. Because you are. Because you took the time to sift through all the bullshit. And you also realize that a long term relationship with this girl is 10x better than chasing tail at the clubs.
Is it worth it going through all this bullshit? You bet!

Title	I am bitter [rant]
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Comments	4
Date	December 5, 2014 1:34 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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