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I don't know, I really don't understand this subreddit anymore. It's not about what works but about what the popular belief is. My experience is that teasing a girl is so much more effective than simply giving into what she wants. If you withhold something it sets you apart. You will still need to escalate, such as rubbing her shoulders, or inner to outer thigh etc, lean in like you're going to kiss her but move to whisper something in her ear instead. Tell her, I don't ever kiss strangers, I ne…
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:46 AM
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Yeah, if all the guy is going for is to kiss and get worthless phone numbers then he should keep doing what he's doing, but if he wants to go for quality game he needs to stop making out so early; unless he feels strongly that he can wheel her back to his place for sex that night. I've done this, I've been out and met many women. Made out with high quality women and it almost never leads anywhere unless you sleep with them that night then they follow you around like lost puppies. If you make out…
/r/seduction05/02/14 02:29 AM
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No one is at a point in which they get every girl that they go for. The catch is that if you're able to get every girl that you aim for then you're setting your sights too low. When I go for a chick I will normally get her, but there are many different factors and sometimes its completely outside of your control, such as she just broke up, is on her period, or has a headache, whatever other millions of outside reasons that can happen that will make her not like you. If you're only going for 5-8s…
/r/seduction27/01/14 12:52 AM
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Speak from your diaphragm, not your throat. Takes time to get used to, but you will speak much louder and your voice won't hurt after. You need to find better clubs. Seduction is 90% a numbers game, if you're not able to find women that are attractive then you're not going to be able to pick up.
/r/seduction26/01/14 04:44 AM
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I heavily believe you're over thinking this, and that you're wrong on the aspect that it makes the person look weak. Its weak to act jealous. Its weak to act and believe that a lesser male can buy/gain your mates attraction through purchases. Its different if the guy is hitting on her and you don't walk up and introduce yourself. Women go out to get free drinks and shit all the time, its the weaker males that buy them that stuff so why worry about them. The girl I'm seeing gets free shit all the…
/r/seduction30/12/13 06:10 AM
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She's toying with you, move on
/r/seduction29/12/13 09:47 PM
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They're paranoid man, I wouldn't give their advice much credit. If she gets free drinks its not a big deal.
/r/seduction29/12/13 09:35 PM
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This subreddit has changed. It's dominated by betas. Posts like this get upvoted because they reinforce the collectives mindset. It's hard to rationalize, but most posts that are highly praised on here are terrible because it shows that the common user agrees with it. Before when it was a small community it was filled with better information. Now, things like "get numbers with this easy trick" make the top, when anyone that's decent knows numbers are largely irrelevant; or other simple posts tha…
/r/seduction29/12/13 08:34 PM
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Several questions you can ask. "Hey, you still in school?" If you think they're in university or might have finished studying. "What are you studying?" If you think that they could be in High School. If they're in High School they normally say that right away off of this question. Otherwise, if they say they're studying some subject then go from there. I ask these questions in day game and night game. Can't trust being at a bar for a defense against someone being under aged. I've met several 16-…
/r/seduction31/10/13 09:44 AM
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I agree and disagree. I don't consider the bar/club meetup to be a date. I consider that the initial meetup, a date is the time set after the initial meetup for the two to meet. Normally, a date is after a series of getting to know the person better through texting or chatting. If I feel a bond with a girl and determine that she is worth getting to know and I can trust her then I will sleep with her. I am very picky in who I sleep with. They need to be intelligent, educated, career ambitious or …
/r/seduction29/09/13 04:20 PM
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It makes it less likely that she would want to. If I were to just talk with her, chat for a long time and exchange information and keep everything at just touching and nothing past kissing then when I text or call her she will remember that we had a good time and that it was just getting to know each other. Normally, anything at making out and more, your chances of her messaging you again go down. As the next day, her perception changes, she no longer had the same energy as the night before. If …
/r/seduction29/09/13 04:02 PM
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I wouldn't use the answers here. It depends entirely on context, if its before or after you've had sex with her. If before, then its a stupid question for her to ask. You may be coming off as too much of a "player" and she's worried about being played; this is bad, try to stop coming off as a player. To address this, you need to understand what her concerns are. That she thinks you'll just make her another notch in your belt. "I'm just here to have a good time, if you're looking for a quick thin…
/r/seduction25/09/13 04:36 PM
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Good job. The thing is, you turning her down will drive her crazy. She sounds like she plays games and just isn't worth your time. There plenty more out there, wish you the best.
/r/seduction24/09/13 08:20 PM
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I wouldn't see her again. You made a few mistakes. First, when the ex boyfriend's roommate showed up you should have introduced yourself and been involved in their conversation and ended it quickly. If the conversation isn't going well then say "it was a pleasure meeting you, but we should get to our seats." Or " I need to talk with her for a bit, was good meeting you" then pull her away and talk with her. Second, if a girl said that to me, I would not put up with that. "Good thing you're not he…
/r/seduction19/09/13 12:08 PM
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There are a lot of factors involved here. One has said to 'lift', physical dominance is one factor that can be involved. If someone is very tall, in good shape and appearance tough it can allow them to intimidate other males into compliance without actually doing much. Having a strong social backing can really help. If you have several friends that seek validation from you in the immediate area it can drastically increase your dominance in an area. An example would be Justin Bieber would be far …
/r/seduction26/07/13 02:19 PM
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